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| 16 | Why young men need mentors now more than ever | Matthew Jodouin | TEDxSurreyWe need both. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/06/26 09:23 AM |
| 12 | Ana misses the point about men issues again.Real conservatives can't read the bible. It's full of messages of altruism, tolerance, giving to the poor, etc... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/25 04:14 PM |
| 15 | Men were more lonely but now articles say women are more lonely. Why the change?Loneliness is often studied as a feeling. It doesn't matter if men have less relationship than women. If women and men report the same feeling of loneliness then it's assumed the situation is the same. Men are used to not complain when they suffer. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/25 11:09 AM |
| 30 | Why are men turning to the right?I agree with most of your points. But I don't think men turn to right. Rather they become apolitical. Neither the left nor the right wants the best for them. That said, it's still dangerous. Abstention from men of the left side could be enough to give victory to the right. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/06/24 04:57 PM |
| 8 | I am tired of people shaming androphiles for liking menWhat does "mspec" means? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/11/23 03:20 PM |
| 26 | An article published in a famous french newspaper about women mental load linked to the mental health of their male partners.Honestly, I don't understand the authors methodology. There is a problem with men mental health? Well, let's interview the women, they must be the one who suffer from it and must have the best answers. Serioulsy, why didn't they ask MEN about men mental health problems? And why nobody wants to talk about the men who feel that they are not listened? There is always an injunction for men to talk but never an injunction for society to LISTEN them. What about mental load when they have to deal with … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/23 11:47 AM |
| -13 | It might seem like a minor thing but I hate how people make fun of men who don't last long enoughWhy are you downvoted? It's good advice! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/08/23 12:14 PM |
| 101 | young boys swinging to the right. let’s talk about it."Men are useless" "Men are trash" "Male tears" "Fragile masculinity" 'Small dick energy" "Toxic masculinity" "Patriarchy is the root of all the problem" And they still wonder why boys are not interested in liberal ideas. Moreover, the plot shows that 66% of boys are neither conservative, neither liberal. They don't become conservative, they just don't feel that they belong anywhere. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/23 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Something interesting that i noticedI read regularly threads from aitah. I agree that women get better treatment than men but it's not that caricatural. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/23 12:04 PM |
| 15 | How to deal with men who are not advocates?The problem isn't they don't agree with me as an individual. I wonder about the movement. Feminism is powerful because women stand together. Advocacy for men won't progress if men stay divided. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/23 02:12 PM |
| 10 | How to deal with men who are not advocates?Same way we "deal with" the women, no? The problem seems different. I can understand why women don't know about men issues. But when men dismiss men problems I don't know if they really don't deal with these problems or if they want to belittle other men to feel superior. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/23 11:44 AM |
| 0 | Patriarchy or competition-based society?English grammar is problematic for correctly expressing the idea. If I had to formulate in french I'd say "Le monde est dominé par des hommes" which would be different than "Le monde est dominé par les hommes". The first sentence means that only a handful of men dominates while the second one means that the whole gender dominates. The first sentence better expresses this situation where a handful of powerful people crush the others, and their gender is a secondary issue. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/23 11:29 AM |
| 14 | The UN had generated a list of gender neutral terms to promote equality. So I improved their list to include equality for men.And "sexist society" instead of "patriarchy" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/23 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Democrat repositioning on masculinity continuesThe way democrats will deal with men issues might have a significant influence on the next elections. I don't think the lack of interest for men issue could push them to vote for the republican candidate but many could decide to abstain. This could be enough to tip the balance and make the left lose. It really is a critical question. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/23 03:04 PM |
| 27 | The reason the group "Are we dating the same guy" is still upIt exists also in the male experience. The real reason it doesn't exist is because men who would post in these groups would undergo a big backlash. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/23 03:05 PM |
| 8 | “Have you deprogrammed yourself from misogyny?”I love my mother and my two sisters. I have female friends. Maybe I'll have a daughter someday. I want them to have a good life. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/23 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Justice and gender stereotypes: How should returning female jihadists be judged?Persistent stereotypes This role distribution means certain stereotypes are replicated at the hearings. The issue of raising children comes into play much more often for women than it does for men, when it comes to identifying offense. There is "a moral questioning around the figure of the 'bad mother,'" said Mégie. Sentenced to 10 years in prison on March 3, one of the charges against one female jihadist, Amandine Le Coz, was having "exposed her son to abuse and to the IS radical ideology" – a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/23 06:55 AM |
| 6 | Justice and gender stereotypes: How should returning female jihadists be judged?How should female jihadists returning from the ranks of the Islamic State organization (IS) in the Iraqi-Syrian region be judged? For a long time, the question did not arise, because they were not judged. Over the years, the perception of their time in the self-proclaimed "caliphate" has changed. Since 2016, in France, female returnees have been systematically indicted to be judged on an equal footing with men. This change in penal policy questions the long-downplayed role that society has attri… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/23 06:54 AM |
| 79 | What are the examples of misandry, male disposability & common male tropes in fiction?Violence against men by women is trivialized. Examples in Harry Potter books and movies: In the 6th book, Ron flirts with a girl. Hermione, who is jealous, summons many birds who attack Ron. This behavior is never denounced as problematic. Ron is only described as a jerk. In the 7th book (and movie), Ron leaves Hermione and Harry after an argument. Hermione is very depressed after he leaves. He comes back several month later and Hermione attacks him physically and wants to use a spell against hi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/04/23 10:16 AM |
| 14 | Happy International Women’s DayI have two lovely sisters and an incredible mother. Maybe I'll have a daughter someday, maybe not. I hope the world will evolve for a better one for every woman on earth. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/23 12:57 PM |
| 3 | What is the most misandrist thing you’ve personally experienced? It can be either in person or online.I heard a female friend say "If a guy is below 180 cm or is bald then he's not a man". | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/01/23 03:43 PM |
| 5 | LWMA LoungeI watched Avatar 2 and something bugged me (warning: spoilers) The main theme in the movie is family. The main character's motto is that a father has to protect his children. At some point there is a tragic event. The mother breaks down and the father has to contain his emotions and calms the mother. If he didn't do that, things would happen. I think it's a typical exemple of gender roles imposed on men. I don't protest against it because it was a necessity. But this fact doesn't have the recogn… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/01/23 11:19 AM |
| 7 | Misandry IS systemic"Women and children first" implies women are helpless and men are disposable. I disagree. Suppose a boat sinks and there isn't enought lifeboats. People unable to have a lifeboat will die, regardless them being strong or weak. "Women and children first" just means that women and children are more precious that adult men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/22 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Men receive contradicting messages about dating from societyI'm thinking of having them to give me consent via recording. Like imagine the awkwardness of asking a girl if she wants to have sex and record it on my phone. Not only awkward, it would also be creepy. If I was a woman and a man asked me a recorded consent, I'd wonder if he intends to assault me after. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/22 04:32 PM |
| 12 | Complex problems deserve complex answersWhat is "The Palko test"? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/09/22 02:46 PM |
| 5 | At what age do male persons cease to be considered just as innocent and worthy of protection as their female counterparts?What's the meaning of FGM and MGM? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.The men you talk about are interested by sex aren't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.That also happens when these men make the first move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I don't how the right man would look like we know what he does not look like: - He never cheated his previous partners. I'm always astonished when women know that a man cheated in the past but are still attracted to me. - He is in a relationship. That does not make any sense. Either he won't cheat his actual partner, so trying to seduce him is useless. Either he will cheat her. So it's a big red flag. - He bullies other people. Also a red flag. - He's very good at lying and manipulating. If he's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:52 AM |
| 14 | ‘Men have issues because they don’t talk’I agree the narrative should switch from "Men should talk" to "Men should be listened". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | What are some (MRM related) facts that sound false but is actually true and deserves way more attention?Are we talking about the tables 3.1 et 3.5? 1 473 000 women reported rape on a 12 month period versus 219 000 men. You can divide both by 3 but I don't understand where the "men make up 57% of victims of rape" comes from. I am of good faith, I just want to be definitely sure when I spread info because I don't want my argument to be destroyed. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/22 10:38 AM |
| -2 | What are some (MRM related) facts that sound false but is actually true and deserves way more attention?So point where they are. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/22 07:04 AM |
| -5 | What are some (MRM related) facts that sound false but is actually true and deserves way more attention?I read the CDC report. I didn't find these numbers. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/08/22 09:09 PM |
| -1 | What are some (MRM related) facts that sound false but is actually true and deserves way more attention?I looked in the data and it seems fake. Be careful about what you spread. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/08/22 04:13 PM |
| 2 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmOr "Maleficient". It's wondering that movie was that successful. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 06:11 AM |
| 39 | What are good "comfort characters" for men?Iroh in The Last Airbender | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/08/22 07:59 AM |
| 3 | yOu’rE a pIck mE gIrLThat's an equivalent of men saying that men supporting women rights are "simp" | /r/MensRights | 10/08/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Niceness, confidence and men attractivityNo no, women can be jerks but showing it is a disavantage for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Niceness, confidence and men attractivityThe description you gave of the nice guy would be more fitted for the guy lacking self-confidence. You confuse kindness with low self-confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Niceness, confidence and men attractivityI think you confuse being nice and pretending to be nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Niceness, confidence and men attractivityNasty women may stab in the back because they avoid overt agression but it's only a part of the explanation. Faking kindness with men is very useful. There are a lot of testimonies of women puzzled by men who confuse kindness with flirting. Men enjoy kindness because they aren't used with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Niceness, confidence and men attractivityMen value niceness. That's why nasty women are so good at hiding their nature. Men who are douchebag hide it less because it's not really a disavantage for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Niceness, confidence and men attractivityOf course you can. But if people approach you even when you said "don't approach me if X" it's a very bad sign. This kind of people thinks "Well she said no, but that's not what she really means." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Niceness, confidence and men attractivityYou misunderstand my post. I only say that confidence and jerkness are correlated, not that they are equivalent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Niceness, confidence and men attractivityThat puzzles me. Filtering people like that is the best way to have partners who don't give a shit about consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:18 PM |
| 103 | Is there any truth to the idea that modern society highly values fulfilling the sexual desires of men?I don't think the sexual desires of men are morally valued by society. But they have a high economic value. That's why pornography, prostitution and dating apps exist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/07/22 04:16 PM |
| 16 | how to get men to support men more?I agree. Problem is we incorporated this empathy gap in culture and internalized it. It will be hard to get rid of it, especially if talking about it isn't socially acceptable. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/07/22 09:21 PM |
| 2 | On a Facebook post I pointed out the misandry because only "insecure men" were doing that according to the comments, and these were the types of responses. Apparently I'm just trying to get more dick? That's the best they can do?Ironically, these reactions are very sexist. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 29 | Great... now male's MRA don't want to talk with me because they see me as a woman nowIndeed that's very saddening. "Men versus Women" battles don't help at all. We could make so much progress working together instead of fighting each other. Egalitarianism should be our objective. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Would you accept your ex who dumped you and now want you back in their 30s?I could but only if she made a huge work to change. If she did not change then it's a no. Things will end the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 10:41 AM |
| 45 | feminsts are now mocking male victims of suicide! how is this allowed?Truthfully, the day men will unite together it will be a massive change. Saying no to men being disposable, empathy gap, paternity fraud, abuse against men, et cetera... It would be huge. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/06/22 07:58 AM |
| 4 | LWMA LoungeI feel like many women have difficulties with handling responsibilities and taking risks. When I see arguments involving men and women, men are more prone to admit when they're wrong or when they make mistakes. I think that's also the problem with the so-called "patriarchy": blaming men for every problem in the world. When women did something wrong it's implied they were conditionned to behave like that so they're not at fault. I think that's the reason why there are less women in high-level pos… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/06/22 02:18 PM |
| 24 | good logic thatHer husband should run away as soon as possible. She's a danger for his mental health. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/06/22 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.Women are attracted by men who are already in relationships. Saying "All good men are already taken" is absurd because men quality is defined by his relationship statut. Of course good men are already because that's how they define good men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | They don't hide it anymoreIt's not mine. I found it on an other sub. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/22 11:48 AM |
| 14 | They don't hide it anymoreIt's kinda relieving. No more lies or deception. The mask has been removed. Feminism does not aim for equality. It only defends the interest of women. I hope people will awake, give up a movement whose objective isn't the defense of egality and rights. Il the near future things will be different. The only thing that will matter is equality, not the gender. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/22 09:21 AM |
| 31 | Why so many young Democratic men think feminism is causing harmI have 2 sisters so I want them to be safe. I want them to be listened if they want to file a complaint after an agression. I don't want them to be harassed. But I also want to be listened I am falsely accused, if I am harassed or if I am abused. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 10:00 AM |
| 33 | Not to take away from the other issues but…I thought it was movember. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/06/22 10:09 PM |
| 30 | Feminist alternative reality on Depp vs Heard trial"The victim is being heard" Very bad choice of words. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/22 04:41 PM |
| 24 | The Root - Amber Heard Verdict Sends A Message To Black Women EverywhereI'd reply with "Even if a famous male with tons of evidence can't convince you he was abused and is shamed for his complaint, what chance do regular men have?" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/22 02:39 PM |
| 47 | I actually cried twice after Depp's court win. For two different reason.I understand your despair, according you've been through. But things improve gradually. There are women on this sub and on other subs who realized the "men bad/women good" is a deception. More and more women who have sons, brothers, nephews, male friends, and care about them will want them to be protected. Some years from now, the fighting against domestical violence won't be gender-centered anymore. Of course gender will still be taken into account if the shape of the violence differs according… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/22 09:32 AM |
| 123 | SmhThey want wars and would be the first to whine if they get hurt. Men used to be killed to protect them. It will be strange for them to lose this privilege. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/06/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | It seems feminism is great for dating..she is having a grand timeYou really had bad luck. There are men who don't give shit that their partner is strong or has money. Keep searching. If these guys want you to be weak or submissive they're not reliable. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Men and Women BOTH hate being equalMany men would be ok with a woman being greater. But they can't. Honestly if everybody (men and women) would aim for someone greater, no relationship would form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Morale judgement is about judging what is right and what is wrong. I don't do that. I only make prediction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.You are the only one talking about morale judgement, I don't give a shi about it. If someone smokes then I think they have a higher risk of lung cancer. Nothing judgemental about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.I'm in a seven year relationship with my partner who I'm about to start a family with, and I have a high body count 🤔 I have a career, hobbies, friends... Huh. Strange how this big red flag of yours didn't match up to our reality. You don't know how science works, right? But you do you, and remain both judgemental and lonely. Thanks for the personal attack, it's always nice to debate like that. But you're wring I'm not lonely and don't have any judgement. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.It is logical. And it has been studied: https://www.prima.co.uk/diet-and-health/sex-relationships/a37205/previous-sexual-partners-link-to-divorce-risk/ A red flag is a red flag. I won't ignore it. I don't give a shit about morality. They made their choices, they were free to make them. I make mine and I am free to make them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Nope it's simple logic. The more partner she had the higher the more unstable the relationship his. Every partner she had before must have thought it was safe. I won't do the same mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 10:07 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.I trust my own judgement when it tells me a high body count is a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Knowing it is the hard part but it's stil an useful info. Of course it's possible she's an "incredibly, stable, content woman". But the more partners she had, the higher the risk of non-stability is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Because the more partners she had, the more unstable the relationship will be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.I'm ok with dating women with a high body count but I won't consider a LTR with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Lessons from Leftist TwitterWhat "Johns" refers to? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/05/22 09:50 PM |
| 44 | I think there is this dilemma, that men are not allowed to show emotion in societyI do believe in this matter, we should actually agree with the feminists While I agree with feminists on that point, they are very ambiguous. Feminists are the one who also promoted the concept of "fragile masculinity". They'll be more trusthworthy when they'll stop using it and stop shaming men who express their feelings. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/22 02:43 PM |
| 81 | A man walks into a hospital...Men often hear currently that they should talk when they suffer. It's a good message but I think an other message should be spread: People should listen and respect men when they talk about their suffering. Nobody wants to talk to a wall. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/22 12:19 PM |
| 5 | This hurts my brain...And they still dare saying that misandry does not exist... | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/05/22 10:55 AM |
| 10 | What are good examples of female to male violence in books, movies or tv shows which are overlooked?I'm sorry, as a french guy I completely forgot to use the english version xD | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/05/22 11:49 PM |
| 4 | "Misandry doesn't kill or rape like misogyny"Just a personnal tip: when you say someting sarcastic on reddit, add a "\s" in the end. It clears misunderstandings. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/22 10:26 AM |
| 5 | Women are more abusive than men in relationships and don't think that they could be because of society's messaging - "Men bad, women good"Pretty privilege is real: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo\_effect#Role\_of\_attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | A survey to study gender bias?I think there is a biological explanation. If, in a tribe, 80% of the men died, the tribe would be able to reconstitute. It would not be the case if 80% of women died. I think it is the source of the "woman are precious" reasoning. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/22 07:23 AM |
| 5 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.Lying and abuse are prevalent. Not everybody's does it of course, but it is still prevalent. Moreover, it's easier for liers and abusers to get a second chance nowadays. If nobody trusts them anymore, they can just move elsewhere and meet new people to manipulate and abuse. If you live with the same people for your whole life then this kind of behavior is more complicated. Eventually, everybody knows who you really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.I agree with this point. There is a real double standard. Manipulation behaviors from women are more tolerated than the ones performed by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 11:30 AM |
| 34 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.I wouldn't be satisfied if I was in a relationship full of manipulation and toxicity. I suffer from the absence of a romantic relationship but I'd never use this kind of tricks. I would never be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 11:25 AM |
| 8 | Being personally attacked for being part of this communityIt could be an explanation. But it seems men with the dark triad are also more attractive: https://www.menshealth.com.au/research-women-are-attracted-to-psychopaths/ It's not a surprise. Women value high level of confidence and good social skills when they look for a partner. Psychopaths excel in this area... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Having options as a man makes you more attractive to woman.That's something I never understood. If the man is already in a relationship, trying to steal him can have 2 consequences: 1) The man doesn't want to cheat or break up so it's useless. 2) He cheats his partner or breaks up for the new woman. But he'll probably do the same with the new woman. Who would want a man like this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 10:52 AM |
| 3 | "How do I force my reproductive slave to stay?"That's why we need pills for men. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?So... when a redpiller hates her mom you're like "Haha! I was right!" and when a redpiller doesn't hates her mom you're like "He lies!". What is the point of discussing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 11:06 AM |
| 3 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyIf men libido was the same than the women libido, human specie would have gone extinct long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerMen have to deal with an other problem: lack of experience also impacts the possibility of being in a relationship. Men are simpler that women so a woman who has never been in a relationship before would face few problems. But women value confidence and social skills. So the less a man experiments relationships, the less he learns and the harder it is for him to begin a relationship. It's the same problem as job interviews: you're not hired, so you don't learn, so don't acquire experience, so it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerConclusion: Women are more complex than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerHum... No man I know would consider the virginity of a 30s old woman as a red flag. The flag must be elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerThen the problem is the reason for the lack of experience, not the lack of experience itself. Its a huge difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerWhy is it as much dysfunctional? Would you elaborate? If a girl had many short relationship then I think her relationships could be unstable. But if she had LTR it's a good sign: it shows she seeks to build stable relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | What makes men date women with mental illnessess?Nope. But I have the feeling that brilliant women have a higher risk of mental illness. Every brilliant woman I met was suffering from a mental illness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | What makes men date women with mental illnessess?My ex girlfriend suffered from an eating disorder. It affected me to see her always struggling with her thoughts but it was not a problem for me. I was thinking that it would improve with time. And it did. But she decided to break up because she realised she wasn't interested in romantic relationships. She was beautiful, brilliant and had an amazing personnality. So her mental illness did not push me back. That said, I may have a savior complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:45 PM |
| 7 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?I'm a man. I'd like women to stop shaming men about physical caracteristics they can't control like height or baldness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerWhy so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerDepends on her past. If she had no relationship or some LTR it's not a problem. But if she had many short relationships then yes it could be a red flag. It's a sign of unstable relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 13 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerIt's much less important for women. Men don't give a shit about lack of experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:04 PM |
| 54 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerAnd it's precisely because of this that so many men are so anxious about not having a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionThere isn't any solution other than improve oneself or looking for a partner elsewhere. We can't force women to be attracted to us. That said men should also be allowed to have standards. No man should be shamed to have preferences whether it is about weight, age, n-count, etc... Moreover life would be easier for us if we were more uncompromising with women who have bitchy attitudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?It's consumerism but applied to relationships. Treating people like disposable things to your own satisfaction, without any regards to the pain inflicted to other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 03:22 AM |
| 8 | "If you don't get into fights with any guy who makes fun of your girl then u not a real man"I think my post was misleading. Of course jokes should be allowed. Dark humor exists. There are jokes about cancer, about holocaust, etc... But the difference is when people make these jokes they really care about people dying from cancer and are horrified by what happened during WW2. To the contrary, when people joke about men suffering it's not only a joke. Most people don't care when a man is raped ("He wanted it") or abused ("Man up, you small dick!") . That's also true concerning jokes abou… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/22 08:25 AM |
| 122 | "If you don't get into fights with any guy who makes fun of your girl then u not a real man"What bothers me is the double standard about this condition. Nobody's concerned by male baldness. And joking about it is considered as acceptable. It should be an issue for both gender. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/22 11:15 AM |
| 4 | Where is The Movement Most Lacking?Public image is the key in my opinion. Many people think they're concerned about morale opinion, about what is fair and what is not. But actually they worry about what is socially acceptable. Very few people care about men's right because they know advocating about men right would backlash to them. If misandry was shamed and if there was better respect for opinion about men's right then there would be a massive change. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/22 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsOh ok. You were right I could have misunderstood you. Indeed the problem men have with this phrase is that they interpret it like "Masculinity is toxic" or "Men are toxic". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsYou are baiting me. Not going to say the phrase which shall not be spoke because it’s too often misunderstood. I don't know what you're referring to. You can send a PM if you expect some misunderstood in this thread. I promise I'll be honest and cautious about my interpretation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsWell you did the right thing, you have my praise. And I might have been wrong to generalize my post to all women. But reading the comments of this thread (https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/t4lsjq/when_was_a_time_you_opened_up_to_woman_you_were/) really made me concerned about that problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsNo, of course. But let's say you're partner has no mental health problem and he knows your opinion about it. This person knows you won't support him if he developped depression or anxiety or grieving after the death of someone he cares a lot. So if his mood deteriorates he won't talk to you about it. Because he knows the risks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsIt appears to me that men choose to remain stoic and strong with their lovers. It's time to ask the question WHY they choose to behave like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsThat being said, I agree that men should be encouraged to speak out more where they can. We should also encourage people to listen and respect men when they talk. Otherwise it's useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsThank you for this advice :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsIf you only support when there is no problem then you're not supportive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsIt's the famous "fake it until you make it" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsIf they don't expect you to be supportive, don't expect them to be open and honest with their feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 12:52 PM |
| 7 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsAnd the point of this post is: men are more tolerant with women insecurities than women are with men insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?I have another theory. Men have to compet to attract women. If you have sex with women with high body count then you'll be compared with many other men. So the probability that the woman won't be satisfied is higher. If there was less competition between men they would be less under pressure and more relaxed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 07:58 AM |
| 5 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?Women say they would like their partners to be more open about their feelings, their emotions, etc... But if a man does that then his partner is not attracted anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | I think movement defending men should not be against feminism or feministsI didn't downvote you. I suppose somebody else did. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/03/22 02:24 PM |
| 7 | The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a womanI disagree. Men are far more tolerant with mental health disorders than women. As u/raccoon_mario_popoff said, women value confidence and social skills much more than men. Even for women suffering from depression or with crippling anxiety disorders. My ex-gf suffered from eating disorder but I loved her very much. She's the one who decided to break up, not me. I also have a friend whose ex girlfriend suffered from a severe form of social anxiety. He has no mental health disorder. Their relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:05 PM |
| 3 | I think movement defending men should not be against feminism or feministsWhat is feminism according to you? What burns are you talking about? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/03/22 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Social skills are really important for menWhoah you made me travel to the past. My little sister loved this movie so I had to watch it with her many times. I would never imagine that someday I'd come across a Barbie quote on Reddit xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 11:19 AM |
| 4 | Social skills are really important for menIt could evolve. Men shoud learn to receive compliments from women without interpreting it as seduction. And they should also learn to make genuine compliments to women, without hidden motive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Social skills are really important for menIs it possible to learn this power? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Social skills are really important for menI concur with your opinion. Talent or achievement are not very important for men. Looks are important for us of course but we're not that demanding. I don't look for a model, I'd be happy with 80% of the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Social skills are really important for menI think your impression that women had better social skills in the couples you know can be explained in other way: generally speaking, women have better social skills than men. So I don't think the men valued these skills more than the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Social skills are really important for menWell that's the difference between men and women. I also have ADHD and lack of social skill. But I don't have the luxury to choose a woman with social skills to make up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Social skills are really important for menI didn't say that people should be in relationship "in order to" fix their mental health problems. I only said that people being in a relationships have better chance to improve their mental health. So that's why it's harder for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 06:33 PM |
| 29 | Negative portrayals of men in mediaIt's exactly what I felt when I watched "Maleficent". The male characters are either bad, either dumb. It really disturbed me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Close Friends and ActivitiesI think everything depends on "very briefly romantically involved". How short was it? How was the break-up? Who decided it? Have they ever slept together after that? It could make a huge difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 09:43 AM |
| 10 | For those who believe that nothing is done to raise awareness for men's mental health, you might like these posters which are up all over my University.This brings a smile. But the second one is disturbing: why is it "Guys, here us what you can do" Why isn't it "People, here is what you can do". Does this men that only men can help other men? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/22 08:22 AM |
| 19 | The data are clear: The boys are not all rightWhat I find the most disturbing is: why feminists consider this problem as non relevant? Helping boys and men would improve their mental health. An healthier mind provides stability, decreases agressivity. This would solve so many problems... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/02/22 09:39 AM |
| 24 | how to show to women that advocating for men does not mean anti-women?We could ask them "How would you feel if it happened to your brother or your son? Wouldn't you like him to be helped?". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/02/22 12:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Periods are a problem for women. But I still worry about it and wonder what can I do as man to ease their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:15 PM |
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