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| 1 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?Yeah but I don't want to think about and calculate all these things. I think ever since I've read this book I've had a love me or leave me attitude and it is working fine. Although I really liked this last girl I was with and thought we will go on for a long time... | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?Yeah that too. But sharing about yourself I thought is being vulnerable too | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?Yeah that makes sense. But the way I see it, if she can't handle the bad part of me, than she has no right to enjoy the good/fun part of me. I thought I was being honest and vulnerable but instead got judged and dumped for it. The downer here is I don't even know what actually went wrong cause she suddenly was like "yes we can talk but I don't wanna see you". But three weeks before this she was telling "I am missing you. Will you come to see me?." It was such a sudden back turn. If I can know wh… | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?Thank you. Well I actually don't worry about my past much in general. It was one of those rare moments when I got things out, but never thought that I'll be judged for that. As Manson says caring what other people think is neediness. So I won't care about what women actually think about me and will go on being vulnerable. | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 02:30 PM |
| 2 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?It is quite long back so I don't remember all the details. Basically, I went on from having a tough childhood, not being very rich when I was growing up and living in small house, being bullied for having a unique/unusual name, how I want to change my unusual name legally to my shorter diminutive nickname, how I once went berserk on a crowd (for very strong reasons btw) while giving a speech on stage told them they suck... I guess I do have a lot of repressed anger and anxiety I suppose, but who… | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?Yeah that's the problem, we were in a long distance thing so could not really notice her body language and shit | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?What if we were long distance and talking through messages only. How would I know if she's into it, I mean she definitely wanted to know about my past, so I let go and gave her all the details, so yeah maybe it was emotional vomit lol what to do? | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?But sometimes keeping it short means you're hiding something, isn't that wrong and wouldn't that mean I'm not really being vulnerable? | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?Shit, that is actually what happened to me too. Told the girl about not being so rich as a child and also being bullied in school, the she lost the attraction completely. Went from messaging me everyday to messaging every week. I was thinking maybe I let some past negative experiences of mine pile on and completely let them out in one go. But I don't know, I thought I was being vulnerable. | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 09:36 PM |
| 5 | How to know when I'm actually being vulnerable or just emotionally vomiting?Have you read Models? | /r/seduction | 07/01/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?What is DHV? | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?Okay I think that my name sounds weird, and I want to legally change it to it's shorter version which is my nickname. Where I am from people usually don't use nicknames so freely so I think changing it legally makes sense | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?I don't think it is peer pressure, but it might seem that I am doing it because of peer pressure, I have always considered myself to be kind of IDGAF kind of person, but I don't know what my subconscious says for sure | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 10:09 AM |
| 0 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?So in other words I need to accept my insecurities and not do anything to change myself to deal with them? | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?So in other words I need to accept my insecurities and not do anything to change myself to deal with them? | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?But if I would have overcome them they would no longer be insecurity. And yes I have been working on them, but wouldn't working on them mean that I have to change myself in some sort of way due to peer pressure? That is definitely an unattractive trait.... | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 05:44 AM |
| -1 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?But if I would have overcome them they would no longer be insecurity. And yes I have been working on them, but wouldn't working on them mean that I have to change myself in some sort of way due to peer pressure? That is definitely an unattractive trait.... | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?But if I would have overcome them they would no longer be insecurity. And yes I have been working on them, but wouldn't working on them mean that I have to change myself in some sort of way due to peer pressure? That is definitely an unattractive trait.... | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 05:44 AM |
| 13 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?I think having insecurities is human and even women are not expecting us to be Superman and sooner or later these things will come out whether you like it or not | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?Have you read "Models"? | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Should we be vulnerable with everyone around us, according to Mark Manson?But when I am actually being vulnerable with only specific people doesn't it mean that I am using it as some kind of technique instead of actually internalising those beliefs? | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Should we be vulnerable with everyone around us, according to Mark Manson?but wouldn't it become some kind of technique (which Manson is completely against) when I am using it on specific people instead of just living my life while internalising the belief that it is okay to be vulnerable.? | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Should we be vulnerable with everyone around us, according to Mark Manson?Yes that is exactly what I thought, but maybe revealing too much to some people can not always be very healthy I was thinking. What are your thoughts on it? | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?Okay so you mean that I should open up about being needy and unattractive behaviours of mine so that I can work on it (even when I know it will turn the girl off completely)? | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?Actually I have read models and also some articles on his site, but the most problem I have is understanding this vulnerability thing... I mean opening my flaws and weaknesses to a person is definitely vulnerable but I think they will not help me in the long run and can absolutely destroy any kind of attraction that a girl might be having for me. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?Okay I understand that it is just a way of life, but when she is asking personal questions should I reveal my flaws and insecurities even when it makes me uncomfortable (cause you know the point of vulnerability is to say things even when they make you uncomfortable)... or I should rather follow my instincts and not reveal much (especially when we are talking through texts since we live in different countries). Women are not always immature regarding this, insecurity and having doubt about onese… | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?What if when we're texting each other? | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How are we supposed to flirt actually, according to Mark Manson?Yes but do we even need such kind of flirting according to Manson when we are already being honest? Cause in the article that I have mentioned he seems to be against any kind of flirting that breaks rapport with a girl... | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How are we supposed to flirt actually, according to Mark Manson?Yes I know that there is a difference, but do we even need teasing, bantering etc. according to Manson? In this article that I have mentioned it has seemed like he is against all kinds of flirting which break rapport cause honestly sometimes even when you don't want it to be insulting it can be taken as insulting. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?So it is okay to share unsecurities and doubts about oneself to a girl? Cause I think those can be unattractive behaviours to women... | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?So does Manson advocate being vulnerable to all people without being needy, or does he want us to be vulnerable to only some special people in our life and girl to whom we are attracted and want to have a healthy relationship with... | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?Yes that is quite clear to me too, but I was wondering for future reference if it is a good idea to reveal insecurities, flaws or doubts about oneself to a girl that I am interested in... | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?Well I just told her how I don't like my name and would like to legally change it to the shorter version which is my nickname, because where I am from people usually don't use nicknames and go with their full names. She thinks that I care too much about others' perspective of me. I don't know if it was a really insecure statement or anything but I also told her things about getting bullied in school and stuff and her behaviour seems to have changed. So I have been wondering if there is actually … | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?Yes it is the thing that I am ashamed about, but with this new vulnerability perspective I don't hold back and told this to the girl that I was hooking up with. Seems like she started seeing me as a very insecure person and her attraction completely waned off towards me. So I was wondering if it was a good idea in the future to reveal that sort of stuff. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?Yes that does make sense, so I don't have to reveal details about myself that I don't want to or feel uncomfortable disclosing? That doesn't mean I am being secretive or anything right? | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?Lot of them, especially one thing I don't like about myself, or about my fears and past life, there could be some things that you don't want to share with a girl especially when you are at an initial stage | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Are we supposed to be vulnerable when we don't want to be according to Mark Manson?Maybe you are right, so there is no obligation on me to tell her about it right? | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | How much turn off it is for a girl if she thinks that the guy is not sure about himself?But how can I self reflect and gain self-knowledge so that I really know what I actually want? That is my problem, do I want to change it because I don't like it or do I want to change it because others don't like it? | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 09:48 AM |
| 1 | How much turn off it is for a girl if she thinks that the guy is not sure about himself?but can there be a comeback from it? I mean seriously everyone has insecurity and when the relationship is taking a serious turn you are bound to share many things about yourself including your fears and insecurity... | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 09:44 AM |
| 1 | How much turn off it is for a girl if she thinks that the guy is not sure about himself?Yes even I think that almost every person is insecure about something ... and I was reading a book called "Models" by Mark Manson where it was advocated that being honest and vulnerable can really help you with women... I don't think that it should be a strategy but I just tell her what comes to my mind and I like being honest with her... | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 09:41 AM |
| 1 | How much turn off it is for a girl if she thinks that the guy is not sure about himself?Exactly my point, I am not liking crying over to her, but yes since I like being honest I told her that their is one aspect of myself that I don't like about myself and it does make me insecure at times... fuck I don't even know if it could be considered insecurity, but I was having a text chat with her and from it, it seemed to her that I am living for other people and care too much about others' opinions... Her behaviour has changed after that and she seemed distant and finally she stopped tex… | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 09:39 AM |
| 1 | According to Mark Manson, should insecurity be shared with a girl?Yes yes this seems like pretty sound advise... and I was planning to see her again in March first week, we had already made plans but.... anyway for future reference when do you think that insecurities and past life should be discussed? I think I was feeling stressed out that day and just wanted to share myself with her, which I do think is kind of a needy behaviour... Maybe insecurities and those past baggage things should only be discussed when they are related to the conversation in some way? | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 06:40 PM |
| 1 | According to Mark Manson, should insecurity be shared with a girl?But do you think I can make a comeback from this? | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 05:58 PM |
| 1 | According to Mark Manson, should insecurity be shared with a girl?I know, she did visit me, we got really close and I think both of us developed feelings for each other... these kind of things cannot be planned, but yes you are right about one thing that texting is not the best way to connect with anyone Don't know about two months but I think due to texts I did lose her and might never get to see her again, that is the worst part of it all... but honestly I don't even know if the things I told her can be considered as insecurity at all | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | According to Mark Manson, should insecurity be shared with a girl?that is me, but I am looking for some more responses... | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 04:41 PM |
| 1 | According to Mark Manson, should insecurity be shared with a girl?Well she loves in a different country... what I told her may not be insecurity but it might come off as insecurity to her I thought, maybe she thought I care too much about others' perception of me... I know doing it through text makes it even more tough since knowing the exact feelings behind my words is hard to know for her | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | According to Mark Manson, should insecurity be shared with a girl?She lives in different country | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 04:36 PM |
| 2 | According to Mark Manson, should insecurity be shared with a girl?Well his book did help me lose my virginity so yeah there's that.... | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 02:11 PM |
| 2 | According to Mark Manson, should insecurity be shared with a girl?I think I might have completely ruined whatever thing we were having by telling her about my insecurity... seems like she isn't much interested in texting for long hours, like she used to | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 01:27 PM |
| 1 | According to Mark Manson, should insecurity be shared with a girl?but isn't telling about insecurities, the ultimate part of being vulnerable, like Manson promotes us to be.... | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What does investing in ourselves mean?But I think sometimes even subconsciously we are doing things for changing perception of others... for example you dress nice in a party so that you will look good to women and people around you... To be completely free from the perception of others is almost impossible if we need to live in a society | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 10:59 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?Well I will first have a talk with her to know what is really wrong... I told her that I hate my name and want to legally shorten it to my nickname... It is the thing that I do feel insecure about (I know sounds stupid), but I didn't think that telling her about that would be so bad... I also told her about being bullied in school... I also told her that I want to achieve a lot of things because no one believed in me... From this she concluded that I place too much value on others' opinion. I th… | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?Okay I agree, these things are affecting me majorly, and I do place a lot of value on others' opinion of me (believe me I am working on it)... And I have exposed myself to her maybe, so do you think it is over? I really don't want things to end with her at this stage, but yes now she seems not much interested in me like she used to. Is there a chance of recovery (like will she again have the same level of attraction towards me)? | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?Well I have done a lot of things without thinking about others opinions, so that may not always be true... I love most aspects of mine but there is one or two things that I would like to change... And I think that when I really start feeling that a person is important to me, there opinions then do matter to me... I do need to work on some things I agree, but I think almost all persons have a little bit of insecurity... | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 09:13 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?Yes i do want something serious with her... but circumstances does not allow us to get serious (she lives in another country, speaks different language, is quite older than me etc.) I know what I am insecure about and have been working on it, that is what I told her and how am I trying to fix it, she thinks that I think too much about what others think about me and I am "living for others".... | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?Okay maybe you are right... we already are FWB... but all guys are bound to worry a little bit about what a girl thinks about them if they really like her... I am not sure if I am needy or not but I was thinking about just casually mentioning it as it has been bothering me, and I thought honesty is a great thing in a relationship (whichever kind of relationship it is) | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 08:33 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?But if I tell her about my concern of coming off as insecure wouldn't that mean that I am being honest and vulnerable to her | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?Okay so today she messaged me again... now the question is should I address this issue and tell her that I might have come off as insecure but I am actually not, and I don't care really about others perception of me... or should I just let it go and continue to talk to her regularly like nothing happened | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?I know her for 3 months now... we talk about everything... but after I opened up about my insecurities, she seems like a very distant person... she no longer messages me first to have a conversation... while earlier she will message me atleast twice, I don't think when I shared my insecurities with her I was being a needy person, I just told her I wanted to change one aspect of mine... | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 09:27 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?Thanks, this was really helpful. makes a lot of sense.... But what about opening up about childhood trauma and insecurity to a girl? Should it never be done or is there a way possible to talk about it without coming across as a weak and insecure person? | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Is sharing past traumas and insecurities with a girl good idea?have you ever done that? cause I shared some personal past and insecurities with my fwb (but we act like couples)... and she hasn't even messaged me once for last two days | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Is sharing past traumas and insecurities with a girl good idea?Have you read Models by Mark Manson? | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is emotional vomit?I read this article only... but it is not very clear about how to avoid emotional vomiting and how is it different from attractive vulnerability. DO you think sharing past life and traumas and insecurities with a girl is a good idea, does it kill the attraction? | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?yes I did, I love ted talks, so I find almost all of their videos to be very interesting... | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?Bit how can we be vulnerable without being needy, when I am flirting with her or asking her out am I not being needy on some level because I want to date her? | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?but how is it possible to be vulnerable without being needy, when I'm asking her out doesn't that mean that I want a date with her and wanting that make me needy doesn't it? | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?cool, that is a wonderful thought | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?cool, but if we always feel a need to improve ourselves doesn't it mean that we'll never be happy with ourselves... | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?but wouldn't a constant need for improvement mean that we are not happy with ourselves and other's perception of us matters more than anything | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?Okay I get it... but what does he mean by the concept of investing in ourselves? cause I think we'll only invest in ourselves when we will pay heed to and believe other people's perception of ourselves which Manson is against... | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?what does Manson mean when he says that we need to invest in ourselves... isn't it counter-productive cause we will feel the need to improve and invest in ourselves only when we will pay heed to other people's perception of ourselves (especially women). | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?okay I get it, but also something which I found confusing was the concept of investing in ourselves... if we need to keep improving and invest in ourselves doesn't that mean we are paying too much consideration to other people's perception of ourselves... I mean we will only need to improve and invest in ourselves more when we would think that something is wrong with ourselves, and most of the times we believe that something is wrong with ourselves when we are told that by other people | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?Well I have been successful before only when I have been a little persistent, I have to talk to the girl for quite a few times to create an actual connection and attraction... is it possible to be persistent in a non- needy way? | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?yeah I can do that but I have always reaped benefits before by being a little persistent, I've been able to create attraction only after talking to a girl for atleast 4 or 5 times... but I guess I've been persistent in a non needy way, and didn't make her the centre of my Universe... is it possible? | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?he talks about being non needy but we also need to be persistent with really hot girls, how can we be persistent without being needy? | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?He doesn't want us to be needy, but my experience tells me that I need to be persistent with a girl to get her... how can I be persistent without being needy? | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?how can I be persistent with a girl without being needy? | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone read Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman? How would you review it?haha I wouldn't be surprised, in theory both of them are very similar... I like the fact that these two don't advocate lines and routines to get the girl but instead wants us to focus on personality aspects | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone read Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman? How would you review it?most of them don't look genuine to me tbh, so getting reviews from actual users is a much better option | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?That is great but does that also mean I will get rejected 80% of times if I approach a 100 women or something along those lines | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?wow this concept has been discussed in Ted Talks, I absolutely love Ted Talks | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?What does manson mean when he says most women are not going to be compatible with us no matter what we do? | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?Manson says that most women are not going to be compatible with you no matter what you do... what does he mean by that? It means we'll fail more than we'll succeed no matter what we do? | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?but what does he mean when he says that most women in the world are not going to be compatible with you at any given time, no matter what you say or do? Doesn't that mean that we'll get rejected by most women of the world no matter what we do? | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?That is what I'm expecting I'm tried of following innumerable products which these dating gurus keep on launching to earn extra profit. I'm expecting Models to be quite like CYC cause in CYC also the author emphasised the need for life-style change in order to develop some personality traits that are attractive to women, instead of lines and routines | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?No I've started reading it and will apply it, I was wondering if it would be another time wasting exercise like reading Double Your Dating and Mystery Methods | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?that is exactly what I'm hoping to get from models, read the first chapter and I have liked his ideology till now | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?I read Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman (formerly known as College Dating Domination) and whatever success I have had can be attributed to that book only... however I still struggle with some aspects of my life which I think hold me back. Some one suggested that I should have read Models first before CYC, to truly be free from all the inner insecurities and doubts. I graduated college this year so thought that I should give Models a try and see how it plays out in real world. | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?that is exactly what i think, Those lines, routines and tricks to get a girl just sound ridiculous to me... I think the best book which has helped me till now was Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman through which I was able to hook up with chicks when I was in college. But my insecurities would still return sometimes and get better of me. I think CYC had a lot of info about developing personality traits that are universally attractive to women... but not much on how to deal with insecurities and … | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?Well this is exactly what I'm wishing to get from Models | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?yes besides my friend many people here also suggested for me to read Models so I got intrigued, I've begun reading it, but I have gotten skeptical of various pick up and dating books since I've read quite a few of them without any results, in short they have turned out to be utter bs | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?Holy shit dude, you are me.... I'm 6'2, have done part time modelling (so could be considered good looking) and have been hit on by different women but have always lacked confidence to bag the high quality ones... most of the times 7s or 8s would hit on me, but I feel less attracted to women who hit on me, and even when 9s or 10s that would approach me, would flake out after a couple of days for some reason... What is the rule 1 btw? | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?I am reading it now, but the question actually was whether the advise in this book is worth following or just bs like other PUAs... | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?well unfortunately that has always been my problem, I can't remember so many rules and am bound to fuck up on some level... probably if I was really confident I wouldn't be reading any PUA or dating gurus at all But anyway since I've read PUAs like Mystery and David Deangelo do you think I should try applying Models... | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 07:49 PM |
| 8 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?interesting... I've read DD too, was successful in getting a few dates but overall didn't have ant results cause I didn't knew how to act in dates... tbh remembering lines and stuff is not for me, so I thought that direct approach is more like me, and Manson advocates that I guess... | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Womanisers of seddit, What are the biggest secrets of a womaniser?makes sense, but a little elaboration would help... | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Kinda basic question, but what did you do to improve your game with women?yeah have heard about his videos on youtube but was quite skeptical about them... | /r/seduction | 03/10/15 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Kinda basic question, but what did you do to improve your game with women?thanks for the advise, you're right this thing shouldn't be complicated by using lines and techniques... | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Kinda basic question, but what did you do to improve your game with women?so in other words real life experience is the best teacher in your opinion? | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Sedditors, what exactly is flirting?no I was just wondering what kind of attitude I must have while flirting? cause complimenting a lot and kissing up to a girl doesn't work that well... | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Sedditors, what exactly is flirting?any good material for kino you can suggest to me? and is complimenting her early on really a good idea? | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Sedditors, what exactly is flirting?oh yeah I've heard of him, cause I've gone through Christian Hudson's material... are you talking about Unbreakable by Nick Sparks? Honestly I don't trust any PUAs or dating Gurus these days, I prefer taking advise from real people who have been successful in this area of life or learn through trial and error... | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Sedditors, what exactly is flirting?great, but do you think complimenting early on is a good way to flirt? does it make me too eager? | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Sedditors, what exactly is flirting?I mean some specific lines which shows that I'm flirting or that i'm interested... and the prevailing attitude that I shall have to connect with a girl... | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Sedditors, what exactly is flirting?you mean I should pretend like they are hitting on me instead of me hitting on them? | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Sedditors, what exactly is flirting?well that was quite philosophical, but can you give me some examples of flirting... | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How has been your experience with this Kino?yeah that seems pretty natural, thanks | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How has been your experience with this Kino?I read this https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1sy4wq/escalation_ladder/ and thought that it is way too complicated... so no need to follow it step by step I guess? | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Any womanisers here? Which book or material helped you the most with girls and dating?yeah I've read Double Your Dating, cocky comedy is a good concept and does work, obviously not on all girls... but other than that DD had very less points on what to do after you have created attraction through cocky comedy and what to do on actual dates... I read Mark Redman's College Dating Domination and was able to hook up with a few girls but I think I still lack confidence and got lucky sometimes... other than that all other dating gurus have proved to be kinda scams cause they actually gi… | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Any womanisers here? Which book or material helped you the most with girls and dating?okay that's good to know my experience with PUA books hasn't been good, honestly I was pulling more chicks before I went into creepy PUAs | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that?I suggest you try reading Conquer Your Campus by mark Redman, helped me quite a lot during college... | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that?that is the point... how to become that high value, high status, fun dude? | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How has been your experience with this Kino?So I should just folllow my instincts instead of using any kino steps? | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How has been your experience with this Kino?Yeah but kino seems lot of work and I think it over complicates the thing, I think that escalating and touching is important, but it should come naturally instead of following a particular formulae for touching and escalating with a girl.... do you agree? | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 10:20 AM |
| 1 | New to college! I need a strategy to meet womenread Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman helped me a lot | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 07:26 PM |
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