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Activism/Supportdudester3/r/MensRights25/08/24 12:03 AM
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False Accusationdudester3/r/MensRights30/04/25 09:18 PM
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Anti-MRMdudester3/r/MensRights30/07/24 05:51 AM
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TY. Were there a larger and more diverse universe of male advocates-like in feminism over last 50 years- we wouldn't have to focus on the extremist's shortcomings. Face it, masculinity in general is not popular.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 09:03 AM
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Agreed...but Phillip K. Dick was a genius.
/r/MensRights25/07/26 07:53 PM
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Oh, got paranoid, thought you were implying my comment was misandrist. My bad.
/r/MensRights24/07/26 01:54 AM
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What's misandrist exactly?
/r/MensRights24/07/26 12:48 AM
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MeToo making a vast majority of men realize in general women just ain't worth it.
/r/MensRights23/07/26 09:08 AM
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As I enjoy coy & supercilious claims to an unearned intellectual high gound! Thanks!
/r/MensRights22/07/26 08:50 PM
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Get more "facts" from Huffy?
/r/MensRights22/07/26 08:40 PM
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Damn, some really bad feminist takes about what it means to be male- AGAIN!! (but ya better not tell US what it means to be female!!) https://www.reddit.com/r/IntellectualDarkWeb/s/iLLLHWA4pY
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/26 08:29 PM
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And you should be grateful that your grandparents and parents took on the adult challenge- and costs- of being a parent.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 08:06 PM
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They're using public input -willingly or not - to train models. That's why the push for the data centers. Predictive Machine learning a' la Minority Report.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 09:41 AM
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Thank you. On a sidebar, I've noticed most studies state that "women apologize more than men" - but this data is substantiated largely by self-reports that women claim it so.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 08:58 AM
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TY for this. Literally an expose' of just how men are the disposable sex WORLDWIDE.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/26 09:05 AM
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Crude sound bite: "100% of all abortions done by women." 73 million/year.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 06:44 PM
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"There’s no evidence to say that the femosphere is radicalising its members in the same way as the manosphere, which has seen members committing shocking acts of real-world violence and fuelling populist political movements." Um, like, going to a tailgate party without her? Maybe asking her to make dinner once in awhile? Holding an emotional terrorist accountable? But apparently there's NO such thing as toxic feminism... As an American, this is why it's tough to trust media, especially euro-fem …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 05:12 AM
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Disagree. Leftist-controlled universities, mainstream media, NGO's and non-profits have no power? As a retired male educator 'Karened' to death, I beg to differ.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/26 06:47 PM
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Oustanding research! TY!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/26 06:42 PM
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Even tho I'll be down-voted hard.... Am I the only one that sees the irony in the phrase "left-wing male" advocacy? Truly, I mean no disrespect to readers of this thread, but such terms seemed SO much less an oxymoron 20+ years ago. (I apologize for the distraction.) 🫩
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 03:49 AM
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You keep making unsubstantiated allegations. Facts, please.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 12:22 AM
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Many studies belie your claims. Most liberal NEA- sponsored positions that insist on control of education (curriculum, enrollment $$, no vouchers ,etc.) don't trust parent choice, and treat children as wards of the state under the guise of "equality." Your fear mongering is typical of progressives who hide poor school/teacher performance and political libdoctrination by demanding "more money," even as boy's relative performance wanes while budgets increase. Trad-fem education has had decades to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 07:25 AM
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70 YO, Long time Alaskan, outdoorsman, married 2X, 4 kids 2 step, parenting, relationship help.
/r/MensRights30/06/26 01:34 AM
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Only Women Bleed... Love is a Battlefield... (Alice Cooper & Pat Benetar) Except during war.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 11:23 PM
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Please explain this idiocy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 02:02 AM
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Apart from the fact that bringing radical Islam to the argument is a 'guilt by association' ploy, implying that an alternate curricula have "agendas" -while extant SEL 'Character Building' curricula don't - is disingenuous. We've now a coterie of victim secularist teachers who want to disavow boys and girls are NOT the same. THIS is what's radical. Your reply endorses that to educate them differently is necessary to remove the rot that teaches boys are inherently 'sexist' -and must be 'corrected…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 01:54 AM
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I'm writing a book about the need to segregate the sexes early in schools. As a retired educator, I've seen the harmful effects of feminist indoctrination on young boys, as well as girls. Problem is, feminist Trotskyites, most of whom comprise the NEA, have opposed it for decades.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 05:18 PM
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THE real world fact that divorce courts unfairly favor women: 85% of primary physical custody given to women. Incontrovertible proof that women, largely fueled by feminist ideology, enforce a female-headed family superiority when given opportunity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/26 09:53 PM
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Mean like women? (Even tho I'm a 'boss babe?')
/r/MensRights11/06/26 09:39 AM
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Hoe_Math and Kevin Samuels (RIP) have nailed this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 03:00 AM
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Feminism short & curlies: "Don't you DARE try to steal my victim mantle!"
/r/MensRights10/06/26 02:22 AM
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Men's rights poseur. Worst type of academic grifter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/26 07:44 PM
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Reseach feminist eugenics...interesting history. "Several prominent early advocates for women’s rights and suffrage were eugenicists who believed that securing political and economic equality for women was essential for improving the human race. This ideology, known as eugenic feminism, argued that educated, empowered women would make better mothers and regulate reproduction to prevent the "overbreeding" of those deemed "unfit." Key figures and organizations that blended feminist and eugenic age…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/26 05:22 AM
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See evolution of city- state to nation-state.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/26 06:44 PM
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What's most disconcerting is the pattern of late-stage civilization we're in, with the gynocracy (as you say) encoded in law and custom, with no real acknowledement of the excesses of 4th wave feminism. Read Unwin's 'Sexual Regulation & Cultural Behavior' or De Reincourt's 'Sex & Power in History.'
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/26 05:15 AM
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I've read a lot of history, so I believe conflict is unavoidable. A better question might be how to best manage it. Female in-group preference, aka gynocracy, IMO is really the issue, and after 50,000 years of evolution it will be hard to unlearn cave man instincts. Even harder will be teaching women to let go their cave woman instincts, and associated privilege.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/26 03:24 AM
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I agree with most of what you say, except the scrubbing part. Enough cancelling so far already! We need the Tate's of the world to balance out the plethora of Dworkin-infused clones inhabiting social media in droves, as you aptly pointed out. Those with grey matter between the ears can sort the wheat from chaff.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 10:03 PM
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Which is pretty much what they should have done after they got the vote and the Pill commercialized in 1960.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/26 05:17 AM
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I think if ANYTHING rises to the level of addiction, it's an issue. Within the larger context of societal anomie (loss of purpose, faith, rapid change, etc.) only, IMO, can we make sense of porn- or any- addiction. BUT, we can't even agree on basic definitions of what addiction is, let alone why we blame men more for male proclivities than women, say, indulging in emo-porn or pet relationship 'substitutes.' I think science needs more time to help understand what's happening.
/r/MensRights09/04/26 03:28 AM
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Should be faced with comparable legal consequence.
/r/MensRights09/04/26 03:19 AM
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Keep trying: it is not Christian, nor practical, to despair. A long term perspective is imperative. As much as it pains me to say it, the woman's rights movement took nearly 100 years to have any real impact.
/r/MensRights25/03/26 07:16 PM
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I'd say that the MRM needs the Andrew Tate's of the world to balance out extreme feminists like Andrea Dworkin and Kate Millet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/26 05:43 AM
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I did. Haven't they been defunded yet?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/26 05:48 PM
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Agreed- so full of shet. Yet male politicians know no pssy at home, and lawsuits/cancelled/dis-elected if even a HINT or threat of sexism implied. Greatest unifying political factor for women under 30? Abortion. Should tell you all you need to know.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 12:07 AM
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So entrenched in the victimhood mindset, they won't give it up for NOTHING. SO, they project like hell, like Gollum unable to let go of the Ring....everyone else is a THIEF!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/26 04:52 AM
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Really the same with a boss b*tch at work. If you question an idiotic directive, or insist on accountability in leadership, you're chauvinistic. If you try to suggest alternatives, or to share leadership responsibilty/resources implied in delegation, you're controlling or insubordinate.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 11:35 PM
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...or toxic, depending upon circumstances.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 11:31 PM
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Baskerville pointed out a host of issues men face post- divorce that women don't since they pretty much never get primary physical custody. Poor physical and mental outcomes- higher rates of cancer, other diseases, and of couse, suicide. Documented in "Taken Into Custody."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 03:35 AM
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Individual advocacy helps, but don't forget the larger issues. -(Retired male elementary teacher.)
/r/MensRights07/03/26 12:35 AM
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Not to sound too maudlin, but wait until the divorce.
/r/MensRights07/03/26 12:32 AM
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I wish we could all get along, too. But if we can't?
/r/MensRights02/03/26 11:10 AM
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WHY AREN'T THERE MILLIONS OF WOMEN LIKE YOU IN THE WEST? SPEAK UP.
/r/MensRights24/02/26 01:41 AM
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Just another shaming response to exert control. https://exposingfeminism.wordpress.com/shaming-tactics/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/26 10:03 AM
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As a Christian, TY for recognizing this. Feel pretty invisible (except to have rocks thrown at you) at times.
/r/MensRights17/02/26 09:37 AM
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As a conservative Christian, I don't appreciate the religious trad "it's all on a man's shoulders, it's his fault" take if a relationship goes south. As if feminism, prejudicial divorce courts, job and training perks for women (not men), Title IX, HR departments, etc.etc. don't exist.
/r/MensRights16/02/26 08:04 AM
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This is very true.
/r/MensRights10/02/26 05:51 AM
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Educate yourself on the issues. Read anything by Paul Elam, Stephen Baskerville, late stage Jordan Peterson. A Voice for Men – Changing the cultural narrative https://share.google/bjY9O1Q0KJxSM9psb
/r/MensRights10/02/26 04:27 AM
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You're assuming everyone is honest in their interactions. Men try to lie to women to sleep with them, and women can "cuck," or fool around with multiple men in the hope of snaring the most affluent/influential.
/r/MensRights09/02/26 09:28 AM
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OK, thank you for trying to educate yourself in men's issues. A Voice for Men is a good website to start. A Voice for Men – Changing the cultural narrative https://share.google/bw8I1xtybFbVvqFe9
/r/MensRights09/02/26 02:02 AM
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For starters, required DNA tests to avoid rampant paternity fraud. Presumption of 50/50 physical custody in divorce. Option to legally terminate parental obligation if fraudulent conception occurs...Honestly, are you a bot?
/r/MensRights09/02/26 12:21 AM
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2nd this. Next level crazy in elementary school with 95% female staff/teachers.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 05:48 PM
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Good luck. Develop timelines and facts. When you get a lawyer, filter for feminist skew. Many know judges favor females, and yield the case before you even start, in/out for retainer.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 04:58 PM
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LOL!! Made me laugh in a sad way!
/r/MensRights06/02/26 06:42 AM
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Rrport it. They would if the shoe's on the otber foot.
/r/MensRights03/02/26 07:25 PM
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Ignore most of the comments. Your'e entitled to your feelings. I suggest finding an older man from whom you can get some mentoring and perspective.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 08:57 AM
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First, don't be surprised. Sever 'therapeutic' relationship immediately. Second, if so inclined, report her/him to the state licensing board that oversees therapists. Third, if you REALLY need the help, vet next counselor by identifying ideologic slant prior to engagement.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 12:42 AM
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It's a way to maintain the moral high ground, yet place greater expectations and blame on men. If they don't "measure up" in any way - too masculine (toxic) or too feminine (incel) - it's still on men. Relationship power move. Who I really have the problem with are the male feminists who peddle in shame: Justin Trudeau, Bradley Cooper and their white knighting ilk who benefit short turn in positive PR & p*33y, while ignoring nen's issues. They set an unforgiveable example for boys and young men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/26 01:06 AM
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Fellow teacher didn't like me, both past 50. Teased her about her (our) age, pushing a cart down a hallway. Implied, I thought, in a friendly, get-to'-know you way, that she might need some help from our nearby elementary students. We're both getting old, etc. Ha ha. Next thing I know I'm reported to the principal and HR for "inapproriate" comments, and to ONLY be in her room while another adult was present.
/r/MensRights18/01/26 03:23 AM
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This has become a major concern in academic fields dominated by feminists: nursing, education, social work, and to some extent law. It's a pervasive "creep" or perversion of basic scientific method- that conclusions and research must be derived by honest inquiry only, not meant to arrive at predetermined "victim" narrative sullied by ideology. Much as I've thought that early education must become segregated by gender, am starting to think perhaps we need the same for HS and post-secondary as wel…
/r/MensRights14/01/26 09:27 AM
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EXACTLY. Meant to be a gaslit, dismissive projection. People who use the phrase are either very young or not observant.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 09:02 AM
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Agreed. So how will Trump's dismantling of DEI initiatives (defunding really) continue beyond 2028?
/r/MensRights13/01/26 07:12 AM
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Um, Title IX, ADA, CRA, Affirmative Action, EEO, SBA Minority and Female business subsidies, etc. DOESN'T disparately impact minority, female and disabled hire? Explain.
/r/MensRights11/01/26 12:08 PM
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But the fact is due to DEI and other liberal policies enshrined by the Democratic Party the main beneficiaries of these policies are women and minorities filling quotas. Wake up.
/r/MensRights11/01/26 12:03 PM
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Or contextualize it historically. Perhaps we've evolved past conflict, but try to examine even 1 century in human history, and count the wars. It's more the norm than what you suggest. I tried to empathize with the Nam vets coming home, some of whom were pretty f*ked up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 11:19 PM
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Can't agree. On paper, egalitarianism looks good, but after 40+ years of it, let's face it, it's a disaster. Untrammeled feminist victim politics is dictatorial in nature, and must be resisted. No one respects a man who stays at home and changes diapers; time for the pendulum to swing the other way.
/r/MensRights08/01/26 07:54 AM
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Me too. Twice.
/r/MensRights08/01/26 05:33 AM
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As an old Boomer wondering why my 38 year old son is yet single, he said: "I don't shit where I eat." My sympathies for young men these days. Stay strong.
/r/MensRights08/01/26 05:32 AM
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But only "white supremacists" exist?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 12:36 AM
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Would you not concur it's a logical (inevitable?) (mis) appropriation of the Hegelian dialectic first applied to class be utilized for a gender, race, (fill in oppressed group here) based power struggle?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 11:01 PM
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Dunno but better figure it out before they make us pets via gamete theft. Moving that way already.
/r/MensRights02/01/26 05:41 AM
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Imaginary, projected and weaponized victimhood. Someone should do the same, outlining how modern liberals use projection to escape personal responsibility and accountability, overlaid with Marxist, post-modern schools of thought (Marcuse, Alinsky, inter-sectionality, etc.)
/r/MensRights31/12/25 02:53 AM
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Totally agree, but most women would not agree if he's "only" making minimum wage- and "only" schooling, say, in social work or education.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:01 AM
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Your answer is implied in the question. Why do all women think they're Mary Poppins?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:34 PM
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"Black Masters; The Ownership of Slaves by Free People of Color in the " by Michael O. Magbagbeola https://share.google/6W1807dCModrglPCC A Brief History of Nonwhite Slave Owners in America | Mises Institute https://share.google/e1ZfiOgA1rcdDMLnL Rest assured, in no fashion do I defend slavery. But to just note the white majority N.A. Atlantic slave trade involvement while ignoring larger context and details is just plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:19 AM
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Ignorant self hatred. Risk taking entrpreneurs invested and some succeeded...some failed. That included many Brits, as well as minorities, some of whom owned slaves as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:58 AM
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Since 500,000 homeless men represent over 60% of that population, that makes it a good deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:53 AM
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TY for standing up to the feminist grifters in academia today. If feminists-anyone- minimally familiar with family law, divorce courts, education and media can't accede to the fact that certain conclusions MUST be derived to be funded, considered "peer-reviewed, " and NOT part of concerted 3rd & 4th wave feminist movements to enshrine female victimhood, I can't take their opinions seriously. It's not 1950 anymore, but there's BIG bucks in pretending it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:45 PM
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Hear hear. School culture, when explicit and "incusive" ONLY of community and parental values, needs to be clearly stated with defined outcomes. Otherwise, indoctination becomes a silent mission "creep," dictated surreptitiously from the teacher's lounge, or district office.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 07:23 PM
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As an ex teacher, there needs to be not only a mandated percent of male teachers, but segregated schools. This treating of masculinity as an illness to be "fixed" must stop. It won't until we remove children from the REAL problem: bitter, jaded 4th wave feminism and its adherents from schools.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 04:47 PM
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Agreed. Some of following screeds in this thread are based on imputations of minor statistical differences in numbers, with females claiming more "robust networks," thereby "proving" the lonliness epidemic is a male thing. But easier IMO to blame men, not women. Man up! The data just show everyone is more lonely than before. The impact of all-male and all-female social groups | Pew Research Center https://share.google/O7KZC2idCEjP5Ecx9
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:11 PM
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Both. California and 14 other states have attempted to extend NO SoL on rape claims; Federal SCOTUS limits in Ex Post Facto cases challenged this. This is a GOOD thing for a variety of reasons, none of which the perpetually aggrieved feminist victim will ever understand. But I try... A list of over 150 famous cases of false rape accusation Source: Reddit https://share.google/Tf6cKY3YF5fLNmOB3 Also, r7-Crime-Exonerations.pdf https://share.google/C0bedzdkCaZR6TnT2 There are numerous cases of ex-po…
/r/MensRights17/12/25 08:49 PM
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What's this got to do with Swiss voters absolving females from military conscription?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/25 07:04 PM
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Nonsense. There are numerous cases of retroactive rape charges and convictions, as well as decades- later DNA exonerations. Stop playing the feminist only victim card.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 08:59 AM
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Not surprising you ran to imaginary moral outrage. Protecting yourself against predatory victimhood requires extreme measures at times.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 08:52 AM
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You, as a 3rd party with no standing, does? What say you about comparable sentencing for false accusations?
/r/MensRights16/12/25 08:51 AM
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Paternity fraud and intent to raise a child without father involvement/prior consent is a form of child abuse. Courts need to recognize this.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 08:46 AM
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Yep.Paternity fraud has no recourse. Maybe breach of oral contract? Anything written? Why marriage rates are in the toilet. Entrapment, but he'll still have to pay.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 08:43 AM
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Already a problem now, where a woman can "retroactively" revoke consent...days, years later. France, strengthen your false rape accusation laws to counter this.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 04:30 AM
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The Left has had several decades to be "useful" to Men, but as long as they continue to worship at the altar of PC and victim feminism, they NEED men to be the "bad guy(s)."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 06:38 AM
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Absolutely!! There have been female subsidies in education, business, NGO'S, health, law, and hiring practice for decades!! Now that men are falling behind, it's time for "equality" -with a jockstrap!
/r/MensRights13/12/25 01:35 AM
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No you're not, you suffer under the Never Sleeing Eye of Sauron (female priveledge disguised as HR regulations, unfair hiring practices and, in general, gender- based DEI reverse discrimination.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:12 PM
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Wow. Really? The Telegraph "alt-right"?
/r/MensRights09/12/25 06:23 AM
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I believe in gray areas, also. But too many think the tail can wag the dog- and we need to legislate it.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 07:06 AM
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Because like Marcus Aurelius said, "This thou must always bear in mind, what is the nature of the whole, and what is my nature..." All things have a nature, and to deny it is illusion. This is not a bad thing, but in the end a frog can't be a butterfly no matter how hard it wants to be. To believe otherwise- THAT'S the real prison.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 08:18 PM
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...and onto their next marriage(s)
/r/MensRights05/12/25 09:19 AM
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Good post. In the end, insisting on male traditional behavior while ignoring or enabling female non-traditional behavior helps neither gender. Ignore this guy. All data points out the changing marital and fertility rates in the west over the last 40-50 years are attributable to female resistance to family formation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/25 06:50 AM
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While I think mores are changing, men have always been more reliant on opposite sex LTR's to build- a family, a legacy- and yet, compete in the world. Studies like this to me endorse common sense. This can be very isolating, as women have networked among women forever, and men are now learning that they can- and must - network both for business and social/mental health reasons. (Hence the man caves, gyms, and 'male spaces' that women want to insert themselves into.) But to BUILD for the future, …
/r/MensRights02/12/25 06:19 AM
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Dear God, TY for your honesty! I dare say more men respect you for speaking the truth than having XYZ degree from Harvard.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 05:33 AM
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The TRUTH is always worth it. I'd hire a pro to track the travel, as well as her internet profile. If you're that concerned, SHE'S not worth it.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 01:29 AM
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Beware the dissapearance of not only fact, but perpective as the gynocracy goes unchecked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/25 08:14 PM
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As a male teacher, I've seen how not having a vagina around elementary aged students itself can be treated as predatory. Men attempting to show care and an emotional connection with students, especially younger students, can ruin a reputation needlessly. Sexism is yet DEFINITELY a 2 way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:14 AM
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The Brave New Woke World. Make a whistleblower complaint to the school's HR department. Your anonymity is guaranteed. Do it for the many guys who get unfairly accused of sexism at work or university ALL THE TIME.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 08:37 AM
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Truly: did you ever fix the car? Replace the garbage disposal? Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:32 AM
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Matt Taibbi's "Hate, Inc." talks about the info 'siloling' by party lines to create ("angry") engagement and return click$. Not just foreigners: weaponization of the internet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/25 10:14 PM
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Spread the word. If men just try to get real, they get slammed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 09:05 PM
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Agree. But tilts definitely Left as well, with the associated biases against men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/25 04:08 AM
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Very Nietzschean; not sure I agree. There are various types of power, and vehicles thru which it is expressed. Religious, traditional, expert powers are expressed differently, thru courts, informal mores, and changing custom. For instance, women lawmakers have passed laws that favor women; Wilson would say because men have 'permitted' this. Not sure this makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:52 AM
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As one of many fathers who got graped by an ex, supported by a huge federal/state bureauracracy, don't be so hard on fathers who 85% of the time don't get custody, even tho most want it. Courts can "impute" income, as custodial mothers are rewarded to exclude (usually the father) from contact. "OF COURSE the system is geared to help females with children" you'll hear from feminists, as the bulk of care comes from mom. But they fight like hell against mandatory 50% joint custody, or any reasonabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:36 AM
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Or makes you leave a sexless marriage. Sex is normal and shouldn't be used as a weapon to shame or control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:57 PM
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Dude, you're aleeady thru 1/3rd of your life, what's the rush? Build slowly, develop reachable goals, learn to be kind to yourself even if others aren't. Sounds like you can use an older male mentor(s). Reach out and ask- sounds like you can use counseling. I'm religious-full disclosure- but get in touch with your soul. So do prayer.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 10:35 PM
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No, This.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:59 PM
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Read the article again where it talks about WOMEN opening accounts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/25 07:16 PM
5

TY for your honesty and bravery.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 09:30 AM
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Is this a bot?
/r/MensRights03/10/25 08:16 AM
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THIS. As a retired teacher, there are many factors, but the ascent of post modern feminist idealogy insures that whenever boys succeed, it's assumed sexist, and if girl's fail...it's also boy's fault! Male teachers risk false accusations, and to stand up to HR is career-ending. Families and divorce now bring immature and ill-disciplined kids to school, where 1/2 the kids have no father in the home. Feminism is a cancer that's destroying families. We need to raise boys separate from the girls- fo…
/r/MensRights29/09/25 12:17 AM
0

Wait, wha...? After decades of the "there's not enough 'strong women ' exemplars, they always portray women as victims"- trope, NOW with decades of "you go girl' Mulan's, Captain Marvel, Wonder Woman, even indy Ghost Buster "Hidden Figure" heroines, you complain "average" women hardly shown? Sounds like no matter how women are portrayed, you're gonna get offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:37 PM
0

Uhhh...ever watch MCU's Thor? Superman? Even 'Sex or Single in the City,' "50 Shades of Grey" and all their spinoffs idealize mid-females punching up - either for looks or $$$. Disney's Rick Moranis isn't given a second thought until Mickey Rourke's had his fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:58 PM
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In the end, it's rhetoric. It's ALWAYS been about how women have "centered " themselves. Men, just get out of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:02 AM
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Pretty much all cartoons...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:11 AM
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Really? "Religion is the opiate of the people" - but just NOT in America? Sounds like religious philosophy as well. JSPES43_3_4_bolton.pdf https://share.google/3zlb2KZPJmBrfR0lS How Cultural Marxism Threatens the United States—and How Americans Can Fight It | The Heritage Foundation https://share.google/eomiPNofM8lgxJQ7n
/r/MensRights22/09/25 07:10 AM
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Disagree. The proper relationship of relative priorities will ensue, to include the other things you mentioned. The environment, health care, etc., will never go out of style, just assume their proper place in a well ordered society.
/r/MensRights22/09/25 04:03 AM
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You've been cultural Marxist for how long, and throwing stones?
/r/MensRights22/09/25 12:09 AM
1

If you fight it beyond school (appeal courts), stronger evidence standards will apply. Most US colleges have biased kangaroo "panels". Like most have said, easier to drop it (and her) unless you go scorched earth, long term.
/r/MensRights20/09/25 10:27 AM
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Hmmm..tie together basic morality (as you've done with Aristotle & Kant (i.e. concern for others as self), and link it to male disposability. The basic numbers are irrefutable, now men as 2nd class citizens with no access to Title IX, EEO, hiring quotas, training incentives, etc. that females get. Historically, goes off the rails with 19th century Marxist-laden post modern relativism, and caters to group identities as "more deserving." Make THEM prove capitalism or patriarchy explains why men di…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/25 10:18 AM
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HR departments are the residence of woke feminists, and the bane of Western civilization. Try to work at a place with more men, and become the little b!tch they want you to be, by complaining to HR FIRST, next time.
/r/MensRights19/09/25 12:18 AM
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Come from big family. Married 2X. Biggest hassle was dealing with bitter ex; but necessary to have 2 daughters. Kids are not pets, but seems today they're replacing children. Children can be a comfort in old age... Eyes wide open.
/r/MensRights18/09/25 07:29 AM
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Wha...?!?? Let a woman know you got stones, and get shamed for "making her feel uncomfortable?" Be the 'nice guy' mind- reader who gets friend-zoned, and shamed like your stones are too small? Welcome to the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:53 PM
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Old Boomer here. Things have changed dramatically in 50 years, and not for the better. Delve into your hobbies, develop connections outside of romance, and ENJOY THE STORM!!
/r/MensRights13/09/25 03:14 AM
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Wow. Just WOW. Thank you for your honesty. Your brother is lucky.
/r/MensRights12/09/25 02:08 AM
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Allocating "rights" with no understanding of consequence or related responsibilities is foolhardy fantasy. Children are not given adult rights -or obligations- until adulthood.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 02:21 PM
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Per other recommenations DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT. Expect them to play victim, and the administration to close ranks behind them to cover their a$$. You are dealing with a hostile workplace environment based on gender, clearly a human rights violation. Rumor mongering, gossiping and coordinated reputation destruction is typical. In the US, there are state based Commissions that process complaints. There are filing deadlines and protocols to follow. Such workplace mobbing incidents are stressfu…
/r/MensRights10/09/25 05:35 AM
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His comment makes more sense than yours in that he at least suggests a solution.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 04:35 AM
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Actually, its documented. Feelings of "loss of love, connection, and lack of respect and communication." Adultery and DV are just a small fraction of cited reasons. So, we know. But it's not women who lose 1/2 their sh*t in divorce court. I have 2 lovely daughters who are looking for spouses. I hope they find them. Because 2 generations of men who watched their dads, uncles, friends REAMED because an ex's "feels" makes them avoid the altar like it's the plague. ‐-------------------- https://pmc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:26 AM
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Yet it's women filing for divorce 80% of the time.!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:09 AM
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We 'd all be wise to listen to Walter here. Very smart man who's been through a lot. That said, glad I could be of some help! Been looking myself into how Haidt's "cult(ure) of safeteism" has morphed into a feminist trump card, insuring our children are raised fearful and isolated from masculine authority, especially in schools. The Coddling Of The American Mind : Greg Lukianoff : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive https://share.google/WWnE7GJm7bPPi0Sb5
/r/MensRights29/08/25 02:14 AM
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TRUTH. You'll not have it acknowledged on this thread, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:16 AM
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THIS. Ladies, you CAN'T ultimately avoid accountability. If these men keep 'magically' appearing in your mirror, perhaps you should find a trusted male to vet the creeps. Remember fathers and uncles? Before feminism, they helped for free. Now, you've claimed you can do it all yourselves-fine! Just quit taking it out on the next date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:10 AM
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Get a mentor- church, gym, neighbor- someone to trust. It takes time to get to know yourself- how old are you? Be patient with yourself. You might want to try the "What Color Is Your Parachute?" book series. Helps you walk thru these questions.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 04:01 AM
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Unwin's stuff is eye opening. I suggest in a similar vein reading "Sex and Power in History" by de Riencourt.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 01:29 AM
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I married a non-white. Does that count? (Libs, so predictable.. ICLT..'immutable characteristic litmus test'...) Non-serious question: Are you over 40?
/r/MensRights22/08/25 11:22 PM
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I agree with KarateInAPool above. As a lapsed 'Buffet Atheist/Socialist,' I've found MUCH more tolerance and diversity in conservative circles than in liberal. AND as a added bonus, their ideas actually make sense!
/r/MensRights22/08/25 11:00 PM
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This is to be expected of the last 2 generations of males born into a female-headed home, with no man present. All they know how to do is react to mommy.
/r/MensRights22/08/25 10:54 PM
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Tough one...links to good divorce lawyers, fact pages documenting violations of men's rights, MRA organizations by state? Useful info like this gets doxxed, censored and banned.
/r/MensRights18/08/25 06:04 AM
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This was my experience. If the Hive decides "you're not a good fit"....
/r/MensRights17/08/25 03:43 AM
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I would say your experience is the unusual one. You likely have evinced the 'proper' attitudes that fit into the expectations of your educational culture. Best keep it that way. https://nepc.colorado.edu/blog/hidden-bias et.al. ................... Male Teacher Discrimination Male primary school teachers face significant discrimination and societal bias, primarily stemming from deeply ingrained gender stereotypes that view teaching as a feminine role. This leads to a 'double bind' where male teac…
/r/MensRights17/08/25 02:59 AM
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Men don't go in because in a profession thorougly feminized (75% female) they are treated like 2nd class citizens.
/r/MensRights16/08/25 10:09 PM
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Anybody?.... VAWA, Title IX, EEO, sex based subsidies & quotas, (SBA, Education, etc.), Women's Office of Health, disparities in custody and criminal sentencing, Divorce Court, workplace injuries & deaths, ....Anybody? anybody???
/r/MensRights12/08/25 10:40 AM
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It means facts don't care about your feelings. If you're so ossified you can't admit error, then truth and logic become irrelevant.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 10:53 PM
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Any good website has it- disparities in divorce or law: physical custody, alimony, filing rates by gender, incarceration rates for same crime, economics: subsidies for women only- SBA and MBA loans/grants for female related causes,incentives for STEM fields, federal Offices for WOMENS Health, etc.- nothing comparable for men. How about the rise of "Boss Babe" employment? Easily found. Nor so many women bricklayers tho...
/r/MensRights10/08/25 03:48 AM
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Disagree. I live in Alaska, with many Eastern Orthodox (and Russian "believers") who know full well what they believe, as do many Catholics (eastern and western Orthodox), and nobody "takes a swing" at each other just because of denomination. Greater angst within each orthodox branch (Catholics vs. Catholic 'charismatics' and Eastern Orthodox vs. "Old Believers.") But patriarchy is not a bad word...organizations need leaders. Is matriarchy better?
/r/MensRights06/08/25 10:32 PM
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Good reply. Even the Vatican would say they are following the tradition of Christ, who established a church with 12 - male- apostles, who were the early presbyters and priests of the Church. He had many followers, including many female saints, AND His Mother considered the greatest of ALL saints - but claiming it's all about "power" ("patriarchy") denies and distorts the whole point of Jesus' message.
/r/MensRights06/08/25 10:26 PM
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TY for the facts. How do we promote them, when many either wish to silence the truth, or refuse to listen?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/25 09:24 PM
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As a teacher recently retired, I say FO to the whole "trauma informed" movement, bronzing real or imagined stress like badges of honor. Grow up, learn how to get over it. Better yet, learn to help others and stop playing the victim YOUR WHOLE LIFE. Just say no to the enabler$.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/25 09:33 AM
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Exactly. Legally, this is letting the 'tail wag the dog', and ANOTHER presumption of guilt due to gender. Just outright misandry: need to RAISE burden of proof for the accuser, not lower it.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 11:56 PM
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Any attempt by women to define what is "correct" masculinity is automatically arrogant and 1 sided. Ask yourself: How do women react when a man states: "A 'REAL' woman always....."? (How the hell did this opinion piece get on WebMD- 'reviewed' by a (female) doctor- anyway?)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/25 06:46 PM
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They are eligible for, and likely receiving, SBA and other government subsidies and preferences due to "minority" like status. Even though they're a majority.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 10:39 AM
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Last line correction: "If women ruled the world, we'd still...."
/r/MensRights14/07/25 10:35 AM
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A well considered response. But given the unreasonable nature of 3rd & 4th Wave feminism's derision of the male gender, and its outcomes-demographic suicide, destruction of the nuclear family, rational progress in the sciences enslaved to feminist dogma, weaponized courts & HR...seems not a good idea to "forget the past." Personalize as you will, and I get it- it's just 1 article- but part of the huge gap she bemoans is the unwillingness (inabilty!?) of many modern Western females to let go of t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/25 08:05 AM
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Disagree. Part of the problem at least is the casual and unthinking demonization of men implied by Western media for the last 50 years. While the Drucker article is a step forwards, your suggestion to let sleeping dogs lie undergirds WHY sleeping dogs need to be woke occasionally - especially when allowed to sleep too long.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/25 05:20 AM
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"Fascist in Catholic countries?" Hmmm....
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/25 05:58 AM
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Tell me more about DARVO.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/25 05:20 AM
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But in doing so acknowlege female sexual agency- women decide if sex (and breeding) occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:15 AM
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I have, working in education field. Got "mobbed" by elementary teachers who didn't like my conservative politics. I know others as well, and political pov's shouldn't matter in a professional setting. Why I bring up the point. In the US, 'victim rights' - now get construed in many HR policies as mere 'appearance' of wrongdoing. This permits nameless accusers to force the accused to explain why 'Johnny sat too long in your lap during reading' or 'you hugged that student too long'- when they do th…
/r/MensRights05/07/25 10:52 PM
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Amercan here. How does Aussie law deal with presumptive innocence? We need to collectively shift burden of proof BACK on accusers: lower standards of 'proof' since Obama era in US in female dominated fields leading to gendered siloing effect. Prima facie sexism.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 05:04 AM
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PREACH!!!
/r/MensRights05/07/25 04:58 AM
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"Goodbye. Hope that victim mentality works for you- doesn't work for me."
/r/MensRights03/07/25 10:00 PM
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Use same stats women have used against men for decades: hiring and promotion stats, %age of new hires by gender, promotions. Look at OUTCOMES, and like feminists, ignore disparate inputs, as any imputed difference suggested 'discrimination," later formalized into EEO. We can do the same. Many men avoid trad female professions due to reverse discrim and feminist standards but academia has become so gender siloed, to even address it is the kiss of death. Read "Coddling of American Mind" by Haidt t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/25 01:29 AM
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Just another way to avoid accountability and play the victim card.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 10:36 PM
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I think its safer to appear in agreement, and thereby increase later survival and breeding opportunity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/25 09:08 PM
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Best therapy is with other, experienced men who live life unapologetically. Join a hunting club, biker gang, softball team, whatever. Do something. Iron sharpens iron.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 12:53 AM
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In 2019. https://townhall.com/tipsheet/leahbarkoukis/2019/01/07/aoc-it-doesnt-matter-if-im-factually-correct-about-things-n2538586
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/25 09:22 AM
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This is an important observation.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 03:48 AM
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TY. The siloed, narcissistic man-haters are out there, and no amount of facts will change it.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 03:04 AM
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Welcome to the feminist New World Order "It's more important to be morally correct than factually accurate." - AOC
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/25 02:50 AM
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Anecdotally, yes. Note I am NOT in any way suggesting that promiscuity benefits anyone. Just that there are different outcomes for males vs. females, and while unpopular, most studies suggest men can tolerate a promiscuous lifestyle better than most women. The Long-Term Effects of Promiscuity: Not For The Faint Of Heart | by Robert M | Medium https://share.google/uTvPhQ0xMwqhoYZFR
/r/BlackPillScience26/06/25 11:46 PM
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HR departments EVERYWHERE
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:01 AM
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But other studies indicate gender differences. Men exhibit less downside to multiple partners, to include ability to pair bond well after multiple partners.
/r/BlackPillScience25/06/25 08:31 PM
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Or NIMBY or deflect:..."It's not my problem- or yours" OR "Your issues with women are YOUR issues with women."
/r/BlackPillScience25/06/25 08:28 PM
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Absolutely true. "Mommy Dearest, Fatal Attraction , Basic Instinct" - female dark triad traits in cultual memes. Distorted quests for power & control in hetero women, turned inward become...?
/r/MensRights25/06/25 12:52 AM
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This on Men's Right's? Worst President ever. He channelled Alinski bunk, began the slide towards an EO sponsored woke bureacracy, undermined our country's image overseas, then a President. Being 'passionate' doesn't excuse you from being an effective leader.
/r/MensRights22/06/25 03:11 AM
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Lets him off the leash only to say comnents like this.
/r/MensRights22/06/25 03:04 AM
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TY for this.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 11:31 PM
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All modern phenomena, since the Pill and technology. Females now can have sex indiscriminately, and with minor exceptions (STD's, etc.) without repercussions. This was NOT true for both sexes for a long time. Now with techno-porn (visual or literal) and dolls, we have vicarious and displaced sex objectification, and this has loosened the need for intimacy and relationship. I do think your question well founded: has this disparately impacted sexual market dynamics, and especially female control o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:14 AM
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The REAL problem is that this feminist reality denial now comes with a slimy, academic and legal veneer. Stay strong in the truth, men.
/r/MensRights17/06/25 10:02 PM
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"We really have a nuanced, sympathetic understanding of your patriarchial malaise" says the patronizing, misguided Libs who now realize that political fallout is real when you malign and insult half of humanity.
/r/MensRights17/06/25 02:37 AM
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An experience replicated in the West a million times. I predict one day that there will be a memorial for lost father love for children, similar to the Vietnam War Memorial in DC. Or maybe not. Nobody notices man pain.
/r/MensRights15/06/25 11:44 PM
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Equivalent for what term? If you mean "pick me," I am not sure. I think the male derogatory terms tend to stick longer - once a 'white knight' or 'soy boy,' always a WK or SB. Once a woman gets a LTR or married, the PM label drops, IMO.
/r/MensRights15/06/25 02:47 AM
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THANK YOU!!
/r/MensRights14/06/25 09:25 PM
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Or even Egypt. Or Saudi Arabia. Who won't take them.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 09:25 PM
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What the heck did you just say? Are you saying there's a ratio? What ratio? It's implication?
/r/MensRights14/06/25 09:23 PM
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Yes. My point above. There's a public shaming element and a permanancy to WK- not so for PM.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 07:40 PM
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Disagree. White knighting is not a common term men use to shame other men, at least not I've heard in public. WK is a phenomena in play since the Middle Ages at least- now metatastised into fawning subservience to females with power (boss babes or sex objects). PM women are necessarily desiring of male relationships, but not always permanantly. WK pretty much stay there.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 07:36 PM
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Yet the MeToo types expect men to mentor women in the workplace. (''Lean In") Horrific double standard. Stay strong men.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 07:27 PM
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Yes, but women largely deny it or NIMBY it- "that's YOUR lived experience."
/r/BlackPillScience10/06/25 10:06 PM
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TY. Tell him he's in good company, as I got a 45 day ban from r/Alaska, and I still havent figured out why! We're doing something right!
/r/MensRights10/06/25 10:43 AM
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As usual, you are a light in the darkness Wally! Almost as though our Neanderthal genes are our own worst enemy, fighting and dying to keep females and babies safe! Most men are OK with that, as long as they keep a "legacy" - a claim to their own progeny- but modern divorce court insures that's no longer the case. The link to Baskerville's article seems to indicate that the current "Marriage Strike" (originating from men, but media poses this as 'female choice") is a natural force to be channele…
/r/MensRights10/06/25 12:12 AM
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That SHOULD be true, but....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:57 PM
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Thank you for this. How to get the ABA to now issue a policy statement endorsing initiatives to create a federal presumption of joint custody, an Office of Men's Health and a Task Force For Establishing Gender Equitable Sentencing?
/r/MensRights06/06/25 06:11 PM
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Right on. Clearly the OP is generalizing so much, feels like man-hating. Many societal indices point to "culture death " - Rome revisited part deux (rise in loneliness, declining birth rates, middle class 'squeeze,' AI economy, etc.) - that blaming a social indolence on the blue pill alone seems minimally reductionistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:18 AM
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...or maybe they have a point. They may not judge it correctly, but as I've watched our increasingly feminised society over the last 50 years, the onset of "safe spaces' , "trigger warnings," and woke culture, etc. might lend credence to the claim.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 05:13 AM
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The larger issue, in my mind, is the 2nd or 3rd generation feminization of culture, especially impactful on young men. Too many children have now been raised by single mommies, "empowered" by a state that lionizes a sick infatuation with female "leadership." Any movement towards trad male or masculine styled leadership is decried as "toxic," yet we ignore the decline. I think many people acknowledge this in their hearts if nowhere else, and know that traditional roles and values arose for a reas…
/r/MensRights02/06/25 10:42 PM
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You're talking about sex based genocide. Learn about historically why harems were all the rage up until the Industrial Age. Then look ahead to the control and commoditization of the gene banks you're talking about.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 04:39 AM
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Presumed (and enforced) joint custody, upon divorce, with majoirity of cases 50/50 physical custody. Judges with history of less disbarred. Divorce/CS settlements not to exceed 40% of net income, with income 'imputation' off the books. Permanent Office of Men's Health.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 06:35 AM
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I have when first divorced 30 years ago. Most politicians are either unaware of men's 'issues'- plight, really- or are concerned about feminist backlash, so they 'white knight' it, only talking bout ''deadbeat" dads and male obligations. Ths last US election I think finally showed men as a voting block as something to be reckoned. We need educated men unafraid of fighting the culture wars, targeting men's issues and coordinating with national/statewide men's organizations, but prepared for sland…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:01 AM
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I see a lot of feminist projection in the world; I think it's the men out of self-protection that are avoiding women and dating. Men have always been disposable- not right, but true. So, I'm sure women are "lonely" too. But it's also true that women typically have more support networks. Men need male only spaces where they don't have to worry about females or children. Avoid female "dating" or "relationship" experts. Build your own networks.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 09:39 AM
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There's much in the literature about how men defer to women, avoid arguments, and generally avoid anything that women feel 'threatened' by. I ABSOLUTELY agree with your premise, but we need to roll back reduced standards of evidence in divorce court, campuses, and workplaces so men can express themselves freely without fear. Currently a live-in girl friend can have a man removed from his own house just by expressing 'fear.' Similar at work. This is wrong: the burden of proof yet needs to be on t…
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:12 AM
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Yes, this. No challenge, innovation, just corporate thralldom, often obedient to a boss bitch. No wonder men are checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:09 AM
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You articles cited are 2/3rds female, and the sole NYC 'male' author is heavy into animal rights. Hmmm. I don't disagree with the trends; perhaps looking inro real causes might help, instead of a general male malaise, or 'patriarchy.' A larger concern will be what will we do with a good portion of male youth incarcerated, underemployed and disconnected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:57 AM
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STEM fields boys, and a rock-hard prenup
/r/MensRights27/05/25 04:58 AM
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Do you agree that men's issues are actively ignored or even resisted by a political groupthink that frustrates 'action' items such as formation of a men's health office, related studies, reformation of divorce court, legal and educational dispisarities?
/r/MensRights25/05/25 09:30 PM
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Good luck trying to get women to 'admit' it's unfair to award physical custody- upon which child support is based- 85% of the time to women. Facts are irrelevant to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:04 AM
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It's not 1960 anymore. Men are learning how to act cogently, coherently as a group. Partisan media as well as politics plays a role in groupthink, and if you support men's issues being consistenly waved aside - for whatever reason - you're part of the problem.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 07:21 PM
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No, I'm pointing out fact. Historically, women have received alimony for decades, while men received nothing. Some of the awards are inexplicably huge, and had you actually read the references you'd note that the bulk of awards- flowing consistently 85% of the time one way- is in the form of child $upport. The divorce industry is a multi-billion dollar franchise that has been largely responsible for declining marriage rates in the West, much to the harm of families and especially children. Hail …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:33 PM
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Why male influence away from children is pathologic. Anything trying to "replicate" or replace this is always a half-measure.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 10:58 PM
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My stats read different. 70% of alimony recipients are women; yet females receive 80% of physical custody in divorce. (the child support is major incentive to divorce). Your 10% figure is recent; it was much higher previously https://gitnux.org/alimony-statistics/ https://divorceresourcecenter.help/alimony-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:04 PM
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Been going on long time. Wealth is different than income. In past century or so, most older women inherited dead husband's wealth. 'Nouveau riche" billionaires tend to be male.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 08:02 AM
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TY!!!
/r/MensRights13/05/25 02:12 AM
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I'd be interested to know the demographics of Reddit users. https://explodingtopics.com/blog/reddit-users Sounds like your conclusion that the "gentlemanly" 18-24 male group becoming enthralled by 4th Gen feminism is spot on.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 04:37 AM
1

Which means, after several detours, boys (and girls) need strong, masculine fathers. Feminism fails society to the extent it minimizes this basic fact.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 09:33 AM
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Yawn. Throwing more 'victimhood' at a situation where women are already exceedingly pampered at the expense of men is like saying your 8 cylinder car is slower than a 4 cylinder car because it's heavier. No one here is saying females are inferior: just different.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 09:40 PM
3

Why we are still not in caves, ladies. It's true.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 09:33 PM
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Not even a question this is true. This is "SYSTEMIC" sexism, and needs to be addressed. The polarization of society has gotten dangerously toxic, and shows in things like marriage and birth rates in the West. This is, not to put a too fine a point on it, due to feminism that has already achieved it's goals and is more of a cancer than a remedy. I am a retired teacher who had explicitly sexist accusations made against me, and I retired rather than fight it. Just like in the earlier days of the Ci…
/r/MensRights04/05/25 09:31 PM
1

Such a good reply!!
/r/MensRights03/05/25 02:32 AM
1

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!!!!
/r/MensRights03/05/25 02:31 AM
1

👍
/r/MensRights02/05/25 02:08 AM
1

I agree with about everything you said. Western 'patriarchial' culture has many paradoxes, and lifts Mary's role above his, which I think harmonized with many of the early matriarchal/matrilineal societies the Church ultimately converted.
/r/MensRights01/05/25 01:14 AM
1

Thought I did...trying to delete it.
/r/MensRights01/05/25 01:01 AM
3

OK with that, but empowering the law to enforce your preferential worldview is criminal.
/r/MensRights01/05/25 12:29 AM
2

Tail waggin' the dog...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:57 PM
0

THIS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:55 PM
2

TY for this...
/r/MensRights30/04/25 09:51 PM
2

My bad...
/r/MensRights30/04/25 09:50 PM
7

This is misandry on parade. As if men have no concerns (other than being unwitting "beasts") with women ALWAYS the victim. Sad this viewpoint even has adherents. Talk about over-generalization.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 11:58 PM
1

"NAMALT"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:47 PM
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"...transdyke" with the standard NAMALT comment...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:26 AM
5

It's gonna take a sh*tload of important SCOTUS rulings to remind everone that we're all the same. "When people get used to preferential treatment, equal treatment seems like discrimination."
/r/MensRights24/04/25 09:35 PM
3

You're right, but there's millenia of biology teaching us to fight over breeding rights. What's changed is that with increased female access to resources, they've 'upped the ante.' Protect your genes, gentleman. This is where the next gender war will be fought.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 09:31 PM
5

And why societies that don't follow this model don't last long...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:40 AM
18

Agreed. As a retired teacher, I can attest female based HR accusations and innuendo are treated as "fact." Basic standards of proof need to be reinstated.
/r/MensRights18/04/25 07:31 AM
22

It's against male nature to whine, but we need a collective push back against the feminist #metoo BS.
/r/MensRights18/04/25 07:24 AM
7

Agreed. Just need a 2 female hen party who don't like you to get your reputation ruined.
/r/MensRights18/04/25 07:22 AM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/MensRights18/04/25 07:20 AM
1

Hi automod
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:19 PM
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Definitely a double standard. Reading comments below, I note that there's still some deflection ('everybody shames') to denial ('but women get shamed more....). You make an excellent point that is a hard truth that many men can't handle: women exert great power over procreation and mating selection, a power they often deny and frequently attempt to avoid related responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:42 AM
1

"In a Christian context, "man" refers to the human species, created in God's image, with both male and female being part of that image, and possessing the capacity for both spiritual and moral choices." I'll likely get downvotes for this, but there is more to men than DNA and bank. Sorry, Rollo.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 09:04 AM
4

THIS.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 02:26 AM
1

Nonsense. They literally counter-balance the Joy Behar's and Rachel Maddow's.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 02:08 AM
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In the end, most men, regardless of their pill 'color,' are fighting against this base, sexist stereotyping about the nature of men. That we're merely - and only - knuckle-dragging beasts. Thanks for stating it plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:58 AM
1

BEGINNING?
/r/MensRights27/03/25 04:38 AM
1

Excellent comment.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 09:50 AM
6

Because most men can only get their intimacy needs met by women. If you learn to have male friends - like Old School Greeks (not gay), then this doesn't have to happen. But you'll likely be accused of being gay, esp. by women who are jealous of your relationship.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 12:06 AM
4

Truth. I see many cops, engineers, etc. who deal with (& compete with) mostly men all day, and seem to have considered men "failing at being men" the WORST thing, while females get a pass. I believe a lot of this internalized misandry is based on childhood maltreatment or abandonment. "Daddy issues" from the male POV. Some HR dudes I'd put in this category too. As a churchgoer, a gynocentrist viewpoint gets validated, but sympathy for "men not making the grade" is lacking. Trying to reach men li…
/r/MensRights20/03/25 08:59 PM
1

I see Tate as a necessary balance to the extreme feminists like MacKinnon and Maddow. Extreme? Yes, but also necessary.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 09:41 PM
1

(Rhetorical reply): What is true femininity?
/r/MensRights19/03/25 05:02 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 12:37 AM
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Even on a Men's Right's Reddit thread we have women trying to tell men how to be men.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 12:35 AM
1

Hear hear
/r/MensRights18/03/25 12:33 AM
1

Men have no rights in family court, Selective Service, no Office for Men's Heath, have higher incarceration rates for similar crimes, etc. To ignore men's issues is to ignore men.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 11:55 PM
3

Perhaps you have a point, but the societal excesses (and omissions) that can lead to a civilization's downfall belong more to the realm of untrammeled feminist fantasies made reality. We need a stronger male voice in the running of today's society, not less. One could argue some of the points you make are a consequence of 50 years of 4th Wave feminism... https://www.ei-magazine.com/post/toxic-feminism-when-the-desire-for-equality-creates-inequality and https://avoiceformen.com/featured/toxic-fem…
/r/MensRights16/03/25 03:57 AM
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What toxic masculinity? We need MUCH MORE masculinity in society, which due to its lack, has now given way to toxic femininity, with safe spaces, publically "sanctioned" gender dysphoria, and Title IX quotas. THAT'S the thread we need to write up!!
/r/MensRights16/03/25 02:19 AM
2

Many elements of truth- good luck trying to get women to believe it.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 05:38 AM
1

This is WAY too common an experience of divorced men. Dumocument, and get good legal counsel. Take care ot yourself. Pray.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 05:36 AM
-1

No mention of Rollo Tomassi? https://youtube.com/@rationalmaleclips?si=NTTJNVIjUT6gpJek
/r/MensRights11/03/25 06:30 AM
2

You either don't know yourself, or the world around you, if you think there are no differences between men and women.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 09:13 PM
1

TY
/r/MensRights10/03/25 08:50 PM
1

"Agree with me? I'm right! Disagree with me? I'm still right!" -- Modern feminists
/r/MensRights10/03/25 03:25 AM
7

Very true. Something inherent in female genes? Or is it learned behavior? Men don't bond by bashing a common "enemy."
/r/MensRights10/03/25 01:38 AM
0

The argument that the modern feminist movement somehow is seeking "equality" between the sexes is so out of touch with reality, it makes it very easy to dismiss the rest of your statement.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 01:33 AM
1

Thank you. Action, not words!
/r/MensRights09/03/25 10:52 PM
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VAST MAJORITY of women.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 10:32 PM
9

Amen. As a retired teacher K-12, we need to: 1. Hire more male teachers, 2. Defang HR departments as they are dens of man-hating feminists, and 3. Honor maleness, not insult & assault it.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 10:29 PM
0

👍
/r/MensRights05/03/25 10:14 PM
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Good points. Rollo Tomasi and others have explained at length the bio imperatives that drive a gynocentric worldview. In old times, men proved genetic fitness via conquest and aquisition. Now a female driven matriarchy picks a hierarchy based on group ID, and socially driven "need." The fit are last in line, maligned as "privledged," based on identity. Clearly, Western society is a matriarchy now, and this 'experiment' will not end well.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 12:20 AM
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Confront obvious bias, especially by women. Be unafraid, as men naturally defer to women out of a sense of protection, and this often permits abuse. Yep, men are vulnerable too.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 01:04 AM
1

I was referencing your last sentence.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 10:56 AM
1

You hope or believe?
/r/MensRights08/02/25 03:43 AM
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Love your handle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:26 PM
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Game, set, match.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:49 AM
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Yet, men generally are also treated as more disposable, while women become more threat- sensitive AFTER puberty, not before. The fear- mongering, all men are rapists, "man-as-bear," castigation begins as a brood 'protective' psychic projection ONLY after women enter child bearing years. Another effect of estrogen on the female mind? https://youtu.be/RHEDF4l43SY?si=YPMBkOBeI4Y-TD4x Wally, as always, thanks for the insight!!
/r/MensRights07/02/25 05:13 AM
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BUT since they're dominating academia (in some professions) they're starting to control the narrative, to include eliminating dissenting opinion & research. This is a dangerous precedent, and must be opposed.
/r/MensRights06/02/25 09:50 PM
2

If you are soliciting the opinion of experiencd males, why are you posting on this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:17 PM
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Welcome to the everyday lives of men.
/r/MensRights04/02/25 09:18 AM
7

No disrespect meant, but talk to some NBA players about the level of deceit surrounding conception. The OP was about men's vs. women's right's once conception has occured.
/r/MensRights31/01/25 06:44 PM
1

Thank you. No woman wants to be with a man who doesn't call her out on her sh*t. THEN - the modern, perpetually aggrieved female - claims he's "controlling" or "unable to flex" to her demands. You're making good choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:25 PM
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You're absolutely right, proven across multiple dimensions. Good luck getting women to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:30 AM
2

This is an outrageously good thread!
/r/MensRights15/01/25 10:07 PM
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Forgetting that 90% of men also were NOT ALLOWED TO VOTE either? Most men in the US were granted universal sufferage only a decade before women.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 10:04 PM
0

Uh, look at birth rates post WWII in western nations. Even Germany had a baby boom. Russia too. What war you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:46 PM
2

I will!!
/r/MensRights14/01/25 04:53 AM
2

Wally, it's nice to hear from you again. We are all the better for your insights; please continue to bless us with your amazing insights and knowledge!
/r/MensRights13/01/25 04:36 AM
1

Is this a parody? Can't tell if he's making a point...
/r/MensRights12/01/25 09:07 PM
3

Just because women can pick either (and often do), doesn't mean men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:09 AM
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In the US, still waiting for a Men's Bureau (shot down by women's groups multiple times), Federal Men's Program (Commerce), Office of Research on Men's Health (DHHS) etc. We get the Fatherhood Initiative, telling us to 'man up' and pay child support.
/r/MensRights07/01/25 10:03 AM
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That's a good idea. How to start one?
/r/MensRights03/01/25 06:23 AM
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Truth. Schools, too.
/r/MensRights01/01/25 09:23 AM
1

Yeah, the "patriarchy" is why men die younger, school less, have higher mobidity/mortalty/incarcertion rates, suffer more during war, have more dangerous jobs, etc. If this is "advantage", I want nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights31/12/24 10:24 PM
3

'Involuntary celibate'
/r/MensRights27/12/24 11:26 PM
3

TY for this 'brave' post. Hope you don't get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:35 PM
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Don't be a silly girly man. I've cited half a dozen studies with false accusation rates over 30%, and 5 over 40%. 1 over 90%. Apparently you didn't read them. All available on Wikipedia. Here's another citation referencing WHY false rates approach almost half (41%). A 9 year study at a major metropolitan area. READ it before you start waving your hands- do your own GD homework. https://glennsacks.com/column.php?id=105 Referenced therein are several studies meeting your 'gold standard' 50% false …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:39 AM
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Truth, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:39 AM
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"By 1977, People had reached three million in guaranteed circulation — an absolutely wild number just three years after launch. People held that number for more than two decades, with massive (and massively profitable) direct sales at the newsstand. In the late ‘90s, guaranteed circulation hit 3.5 million; in the second half of 2002, sixteen consecutive issues of the magazine hit 1.5 million in newsstand sales alone, and total circulation reached 3.6 million." Today's rates about 2.5 million. Al…
/r/MensRights17/12/24 09:49 PM
0

That, and dealing with her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:09 AM
8

"Womynstraining?"
/r/MensRights16/12/24 04:46 AM
1

Dude deserves a reward. Should send it to those who might hear it, not fear it. Who might that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:27 PM
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Keep up the polarization Dems, it's been working GREAT!
/r/MensRights15/12/24 10:10 PM
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Per the other response to your post, the false accusation rates usually quoted around "4-10%" are grossly understated. Just a quick Wikipedia stroll reveal at least a half dozen major studies that list false accusation rates above 20%. Just look up "false rape accusation rates." Here's a couple more with citations of false rates round 50%: https://falserapetimeline.org/false-rape-429.pdf https://centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/false-allegations-of-rape-the-true-exte…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:44 AM
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Some studies posit the false accusation rates 30%- 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:18 AM
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Men are uniquely designed to strive, compete and achieve. By nature we compete (biologists say) for female breeding rights, so we are naturally more individualistic. I believe in part this is why women "pretend" to collaborate, as they just have to wait at the finish line. THEN they compete.
/r/MensRights13/12/24 09:22 AM
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Because, like many of the TDS related subs (like r/pics and others), ostensibly they need to invoke a Pilate-esque 'hand-washing' confession on behalf of their "Trump ring-kissing relatives." (Bear with me as I walk through the analogy.) Basically, it's next level projection- like the media didn't cover up Russia Gate, Twitter Files, and lied STRAIGHT UP about Biden's incompetency! Yet it's 'Trumpsters' (i.e., men) who are deluded! This bunch has NEVER read a history book - why we're allied with…
/r/MensRights10/12/24 04:03 AM
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Thank you for your service, sir.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 03:36 AM
2

Well said. In general, the difference is that men may talk shit about women, but when the car, roof, etc. needs fixing, they fix it. Women will complain about men not fixing it, while claiming they could have fixed it if men hadn't prevented them.
/r/MensRights04/12/24 08:35 AM
1

Well said. Something tells me you'll NEVER satisfy this one's threshold of proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:35 AM
5

That appellation then is reserved only for women? Absolutely my experience, and validated here by many men. Does it happen to women, too? Of course. Waving it away doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:44 PM
3

They'll never get it. Got to learn not to take it personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:22 AM
1

Well said. "To those who have ears..."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:28 AM
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Not hearing much concern here for dropping male graduation rates, college attendance, 85% divorced female vs. male child custody rates, disparity in incarceration and sentencing rates by gender... If similar disparities existed the other way, there'd be a national crisis declared.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:26 AM
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TY. That's not even a rant, just stating facts. I voted for Trump because he's a better candidate, not because he's a "good" person, the Anti- Christ or reminds you of your rich drunk Uncle Bart. Get over it libs, in 4 years when he can't run anymore we'll all have forgotten his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:34 AM
1

In 30-50 years, we'll all go to a gametes store to shop for offspring, and none of this dating cr@p will matter anymore. There, fixed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:42 AM
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This study conflicts with most others I've seen. Take most gender studies with a big grain of salt: look at their funding sources.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 08:00 AM
5

It is true. Problem I have is that, as always, females attempt to blame it on men. https://www.nber.org/papers/w14969
/r/MensRights12/11/24 10:20 PM
3

Yeah, right. Harris woman supporters will attempt to use their dildos and shame other women until they realize they can't handle it. No lib woman has the self-control to deny themselves, because it's all about them.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 10:10 PM
2

Because teachers are 90% female. Speaking from experience.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 10:20 PM
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There WILL be an HR meeting. Talk to them after documenting everything so they don't build a case against you without your knowledge. Check your complete personnel file frequently, and TALK TO A LAWYER. Get familiar with personnel, HR, EEO and employment rights. Gender based discrimination suits get filed with EEOC.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 07:23 AM
1

You're in a shit show, with the actors and audience waiting to fling poo at you. Get a lawyer, document the h*ll out of everything, and get out of there for your mental health. I worked in a similar situation (elementary school) and anytime some female (85%) co-worker had issues at home with hubby, I'd hear about at lunchtime. I still have PTSD and should have sued- I retired.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 07:19 AM
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Not even CLOSE to the same reproductive or parental rights. Just obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:06 PM
1

With chivalry barely a memory, it's only logical. In fact with graduation and health rates, employment and relative income etc., women should make more efforts to help men!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:26 AM
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After being a lib most my youth, definitely right. After going through divorce court, working for female headed schools and NFP's I've seen the light. I want to think women are as capable as men in most things, but in general, they lead with their feelings, avoid accountability and unconsciously resent the dependency and vulnerability their gender implies. Most men shoulder disposability, breadwinner responsibilities and their loss of family rights 'OK.' Better, not bitter? I guess... Look up ho…
/r/MensRights04/11/24 01:11 AM
2

It might be true, but most red pilled assertions have facts and data to support them. Feminist dogma has...more dogma.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 10:05 AM
2

Nuclear family destroyed nothing. Affirmative action ("takes a village") mentality destroyed extended families, leaving only bio-nuclear families left. Watch movie 1984. Socialist gov 'm plan to inculcate Big Brother as parents, replacing family as basic unit of society.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 10:03 AM
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Similar for men. Trad, 'Nazi' control freak Trumpster or no- committal Chad who only 'uses' women. Either way, if you get female attention you're abusive, and if you get none, it's because you're a nerd - or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:40 AM
1

Unapologetic, God-fearing, decisive male politicians that take no prisoners. Reward marriage, 2 parent households, and evisceration of HR departments and divorce law would be a good start.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 03:32 AM
1

There's much science out there to suport your claim. Don't let the naysayers get you down..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:59 AM
1

OK, Karen.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 07:46 AM
5

Gonna keep this...
/r/MensRights31/10/24 07:43 AM
4

It's really about a blind narcissism in the West, generally. They are too many insufferable f**s as a rule, and wonder why men want nothing to do with them. (To be fair, not ALL women, etc... And plenty of self- centered men, as well. )
/r/MensRights31/10/24 07:42 AM
1

Yep. A sexist pig or charismatic alpha depending on if you get the ovaries to twitch. Very similar for men, but they usually can admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:32 AM
0

So your solution to "conspiracy theories" is to squash media and alternate narratives? This is the stuff of Pravda and totalitarian regimes. Did you read the Twitter files? I don't know why those that fear "misinformation" so much feel somehow it's someone else's right- Google? MSNBC? Dem Party? - to decide what is "safe" for the public to hear. Let the flat earthers, or those that insist they know better than everyone else have their "truth," but leave the rest of us alone to make our own decis…
/r/MensRights27/10/24 02:46 AM
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Natural part of life. We naturally congregate towards those with which we share viewpoints. The issue is when these groups become outlawed.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 06:51 AM
3

I'm sick of women complaining about having wombs, like it's mens fault. Men have NO reproductive rights, just obligations.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 09:43 PM
9

Same. Went back into teaching as 2nd career mid-30's. Wish I got into IT instead.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 12:34 AM
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Feminism met its goals in the mid 60's. Just a power trip for women now. Men (and intelligent) women need to say "no more."
/r/MensRights22/10/24 12:07 PM
5

But why don't they do something about it?
/r/MensRights22/10/24 11:40 AM
1

TY for saying this. How to make this more public?
/r/MensRights17/10/24 01:03 AM
5

Another used in education circles is "trauma informed," another phrase used to indicate victim homage, (presumeably and invariably) meaning women and children. Good luck as a man getting such a preferred label, implying a provisioning of additional services and supports.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 10:08 PM
0

Ah, no, not overstated. Just look at comparative graduation rates thru ALL grades, and college entrance rates over time. The increasing feminization of education is a BIG problem for men.
/r/MensRights09/10/24 09:10 AM
2

Trad man expectations, trad woman expectations. Buy her a couple nights out contingent on her AT LEAST making 1 home cooked meal. Maybe show off her needlework, etc. Otherwise no deal.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 07:21 PM
1

GOOD summary.
/r/MensRights06/10/24 05:53 AM
1

Shame...first potrayals of Joker have been epic (Ledger, Phoenix's 1st attempt.)
/r/MensRights06/10/24 05:51 AM
1

My experience as well.
/r/MensRights06/10/24 05:28 AM
1

TY.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 06:23 AM
2

TY for this.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 06:23 AM
2

Good response. Forgot about the IV-D incentives for States Didn't know it was discretionary. Any limits in its use?
/r/MensRights03/10/24 11:39 PM
64

Watch "Am I A Racist?" instead.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 10:17 PM
0

Absolute non-sequitur. Read other posts illustrating introducing 1 way, arbitrary 'self-destruct' button into marriage as an institution is disastrous.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 09:18 PM
102

I will NOT be watching this movie. I'll avoid it with my best "poker face."
/r/MensRights03/10/24 09:14 PM
1

I think I misnderstand your reference to "they." Who is "they" in your comment? Perhaps I was assuming sarcasm.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 09:07 PM
1

Largely due to reproductive "choices" of white women, simply stated.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 09:05 PM
1

Good luck. Support male teachers, who live in a toxic feminist environment.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 08:59 PM
1

But it put constraints on female reproduction, and insured monogamous pairing.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 08:51 PM
2

Few paragraphs succinctly sum up where we are today.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 08:47 PM
1

You mean, treated like men.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 07:51 PM
4

"In the past men got a fair trade..." Yep, in the past.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 01:36 AM
30

Feminists will focus on physical after-effects of IPV, portraying females as victims, ignoring (or suppressing) comparable rates of instigating violence. In other words, it's ok for women to start fights, but sexist to lose them.
/r/MensRights29/09/24 07:37 PM
3

After chatting with female coworkers, running to HR KNOWING they'll take your side because of gender.
/r/MensRights28/09/24 09:39 PM
2

Some studies, books, citing up to 40% false allegation rates. I've noted that such studies are harder to find, as opposing evidence to the '2%' narrative increasingly is getting shut down. Have women become 20X more truthfull over the last 2 decades? https://apnews.com/article/b5c40b513448cfc1269d51d923bb76f7 https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/false-rape-allegations
/r/MensRights25/09/24 09:08 PM
10

Worship her like a goddess....she'll treat you like a stupid servant.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 08:46 PM
3

In some ways it's self correcting. Note decline in marriage and fertility rates in the west over last several decades. Protect your gametes; that's next.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 08:44 PM
4

WELL SAID. To ignore the historical roots of Marxisms' ties to modern feminism is to be ignorant of both.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 08:36 PM
1

Online Luddites should share the same fate.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 08:29 PM
2

This...and will continue to be so until no longer profitable.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 08:26 PM
9

Join the ranks. Try to educate young men about the perils of marriage and sticking your d*k in kr@zY.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 04:18 AM
8

Corner a politician before an election and insist he tell you what are the RIGHTS of a non-custodial parent.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 03:26 AM
14

TRUTH
/r/MensRights20/09/24 07:50 AM
10

They have NO clue. NEVER think otherwise.
/r/MensRights20/09/24 07:48 AM
2

A 1974 study by Gelles & Strauss found that women are as least as violent against men, and that the literature found profound methodological anomalies in how to uniformly define IPV (interpersonal violence) across studies, countries over time . https://www.jstor.org/stable/3340687 Most feminists attempt to discredit these studies, citing a "preponderance of evidence' standard, as the field is rife with academic grifters who know what conclusions must be reached to obtain funding. There are other…
/r/MensRights19/09/24 08:56 PM
2

TY for this.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 08:46 PM
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A 1974 study by Gelles & Strauss found that women are as least as violent against men, and that the literature found profound methodological anomalies in how to uniformly define IPV (interpersonal violence) across studies, countries over time . https://www.jstor.org/stable/3340687 Most feminists attempt to discredit these studies, citing a "preponderance of evidence' standard, as the field is rife with academic grifters who know what conclusions must be reached to obtain funding. There are other…
/r/MensRights18/09/24 08:01 PM
1

Your logic is like a bad lawyer's prison. I have a degree in sociology, and post graduate work in several areas. What now passes as social science "evidence" in academia is now a lowered "preponerance of evidence" standard, infused by woke, cultural Marxism disguised 🥸 as advocacy. (again, false claim to moral high ground). In this view, all that matters is your ' intersectionality' of grievance, where group identies make individuality meaningless. Working as a SpEd teacher, Ive learned everyone…
/r/MensRights16/09/24 01:03 AM
1

Circular reasoning designed to give women a moral high ground, because they're always "victims"- even if they don't know it. SOMEBODY'S a victim, usually based on immutable factors, so long live the victim-perp dyad!!
/r/MensRights15/09/24 10:08 PM
2

Wally: Would like to follow you, and ask questions for general advise, as you seem knowledgeable in this arena. I'm thinking of going back to school, and possibly writing a book. I'll try not to harp...
/r/MensRights13/09/24 10:16 PM
1

As an educator, I will attest to this.
/r/MensRights13/09/24 10:03 AM
10

Right on. Why no academics documenting this? Are we all becoming soy boys?
/r/MensRights13/09/24 05:59 AM
64

Absolutely the truth. In female dominated professions such as teaching, nursing, this is the norm, and if you complain you'll hear from HR. Notice they cull for the upper level status positions only. I've tried to see if there are academic studies that looks at propensity for female to hire females, especially at a supervisory position or higher, and have found none. I'm not saying that's not the case, just that there are no studies I've found. My experience is that is definately the case. This …
/r/MensRights13/09/24 04:52 AM
4

What?? Too many lib trolls in r/conservative. Can't find any actual conservative comments.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 12:11 AM
12

How many f'in men had their wives/GF cheat on them, steal their house & kids, and then get the bill? So what, you're one unicorn vs. 100 men? You sit down- and I'm being polite.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 12:07 AM
3

TY
/r/MensRights11/09/24 09:24 PM
6

I've found strength in church related activties, as they tend to attract strong men who share masculine identities. Hobby groups, sports etc. Don't let the woke isolate you.
/r/MensRights11/09/24 09:22 PM
1

WANNA BET? HR regs in many orgs cite " the appearance " of impropriety as actionable. I agree with your sentiment, but fear & lawyers reign.
/r/MensRights07/09/24 02:33 AM
11

But men have to deal with a weaponized HR department, women don't.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 10:22 AM
10

Ok...but it's authoritarian types that WANT a single government...
/r/MensRights05/09/24 10:18 AM
4

It's tough to overcome a neglected or abusive past. Greeks taught morality and virtue inculcated via example, mentors and practice. Find good men who can provide the mentoring and example. With the demise of the Silent Generation, hard to find that anymore. Welcome the hard times; they'll make you better so YOU can be the mentor.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 08:50 PM
20

Women have worked decades for this. Congratulations!
/r/MensRights02/09/24 09:38 PM
2

Thank you. Let the facts lie where they may.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 10:47 AM
1

I'd like a link to #1. Please.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 09:58 PM
1

Worse things to happen than get deleted from a sub Reddit thread. Take a risk, that's how things change...
/r/MensRights01/09/24 09:50 PM
2

We live in the West in a post-modern, pampered society. As much as the victim culture wants to project and blame, it is NOT a pathology to be a male. If any thing our society needs more maleness, not less. To the extent you can, surround yourself with those that affirm you, and traditional masculinty. Exercise and learn to value yourself in multiple ways. I attend church regularly to develop a strong sense of faith in things larger than myself, and develop networks of like minded people. I've ha…
/r/MensRights01/09/24 04:11 AM
6

It matters in public discourse, especially at work. Tolerating gender-based disrespect leads to more disrespect.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 04:12 AM
2

Eye opening logic. Thank you.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 04:10 AM
1

As I'm tired of ALL WOMEN claiming victimhood for an act 1 man did to 1 woman last week, last year, last century.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 09:15 PM
8

It is a cheap dissimulation to pretend that the "ascension" of womens rights, now tantamount to an enforced female hegemony, both economic and legal, are not somehow correlated with the demise of the nuclear family. Special privileges awarded under the premise of an unearned victim status needs to be called out, and men are finally doing so. Take your talking to, and like it, because its the truth. Remember, the OP said, like I'm sure you'll claim, is that 'not all women are like that.'
/r/MensRights27/08/24 07:01 AM
24

As a divorced father with daughters, it's tough to explain to them why men don't want to marry anymore.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 06:46 AM
1

I agree. SOME major reset is coming.
/r/MensRights26/08/24 08:14 PM
3

Absolutely true!! Females murder their children at much higher rates than fathers. (Not even counting abortion).
/r/MensRights25/08/24 09:08 PM
5

School him privately now and measure his teachers.
/r/MensRights22/08/24 01:08 AM
3

Pretty much. The reproductive imperative. Now just buy yourself an artificial womb.
/r/MensRights22/08/24 01:05 AM
1

TRUTH
/r/MensRights22/08/24 12:55 AM
3

Matriarchial societies are not able to harness male ingenuity and energy, and create an underclass of chaotic ronins that destabilize society. Western patriarchies created the Enlightenment, Industrialization, and...feminism.
/r/MensRights22/08/24 12:51 AM
2

Flips the whole basic Constitutional law principle on its head : "Innocent till proven guilty."
/r/MensRights15/08/24 10:38 PM
1

Riiiiiiigghhttt..... So women get primary custody of children in 85 % of divorces because...things are FAIR!??
/r/MensRights15/08/24 01:34 AM
2

TY
/r/MensRights14/08/24 09:04 PM
3

Women Business Enterprises (WBE) receive favored treatment via SBA loans and grants eligibility, a la minority business enterprises (MBE).
/r/MensRights13/08/24 08:10 PM
1

Leave it to Bill. https://youtu.be/rksKvZoUCPQ?si=EdboA3Hd78P4vzpC
/r/MensRights09/08/24 06:17 PM
1

I feel sorry for young men today. Maybe it's the SoCal thing, but trash- everyone of them. So incredibly narcissistic, how many generations to breed a soul back into these b*tches?
/r/MensRights08/08/24 01:08 AM
7

Perhaps, but without sounding too Hitleresque, why should we care if women appreciate a good harem? The purpose of patriarchy, like good animal husbandry, was to NOT concentrate genes excessively, leading to long term detriment. Won't matter much anyway once we comoditize gametes. Stay the course, kings.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 10:23 AM
1

Old dude here. Very trad and religious. Marriage is supposed to be a covenant , a total giving of self. GOOD,BAD, UGLY. A legal contract is just that: terms to negotiate. If you hope to have children, I think you both need to re-examine the meaning of marriage in your lives. If either of you is not ready for such a commitment, then why live together? Just $$? I understand the need to protect oneself, but parenting (hell, life) is about risk. Do you want your children to see you give to each othe…
/r/MensRights07/08/24 08:49 AM
1

Thank you. 😊
/r/MensRights06/08/24 07:26 AM
5

Why do you feel Merkel was overall OK? Her lack of immigration policy was insane.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 04:15 AM
4

This is what men, esp. in female dominated fields like teaching or nursing, face everyday. It's an outright sexist double standard, and should be called out, but it won't.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 04:10 AM
9

When men don't put them on a pedestal, they complain. When we do put them on a pedestal, they complain.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 08:28 PM
1

Thank you. I have a theory a la' Joseph Campbell that every so often society has to self-correct via war, famine, - what have you - to relearn the basics. IMO the West has become so effete that women are men, the need for a republic vs. pure democracy has been lost (tribalism), and relatively so affluent the search for truth has become tainted. Are you so inclined to think some type of severe realignment is in order?
/r/MensRights02/08/24 10:13 AM
8

Will not happen in my lifetime
/r/MensRights01/08/24 12:18 PM
1

Definition of sexism if men don't have the same options. Sue the shit out of them.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 01:49 AM
1

Guns as an expression of conflict or control? Self- hating women interested in using cancel culture censorship and government agents are the real control freaks. Educate yourself about their 'woke' efforts, and oppose them.
/r/MensRights23/07/24 03:26 AM
1

You planned for your future. Good on you.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 09:11 PM
1

For most women, it's a zero-sum game. To help men means "taking" something from women. This must change.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 09:10 PM
2

Thank you for this.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 04:02 AM
1

Incentives. Hmm... some governments in past (Rome, et.al.,) forced young men to military enroll, reducing marriage. Tax incentives, maternity leave already in place. My thinking is that we're moving towards reproductive commoditization, with artificial wombs and baby farms. Maybe Matrix not that far off. Men, guard your gametes.
/r/MensRights14/07/24 08:19 PM
3

Well said. But as society integrates more females into influential workplace environments, what to do about it? This is already a disaster related to dropping marriage/birth rates. It can only get worse.
/r/MensRights13/07/24 04:53 AM
6

More honest than most females, thank you. Why don't women state this aloud? Men have to ferret this out, at times at high cost.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 12:06 AM
12

Exactly. And you'll be called toxic if you call them out on it.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:34 AM
10

Best advice here. Take it out of family court and into other venues, civil, appellate, or even arbitration (part of pre-nup if disputed). Family judges notoriously anti-male.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 09:00 PM
11

Met a man waiting for paperwork at a family court office. I explained how screwed I was by my ex and wondered (privately) if he understood or thought me a whiner. He proceeded to tell me the parable of the 5 Monkeys, an apt allegory for marriage and Family Court for men, which at the time totally went over my head. I read about it later. He definitely understood.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 04:48 AM
1

TY for the truth
/r/MensRights28/06/24 03:07 AM
1

In other words, the patristic orthodox faiths had it right.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 11:52 PM
2

Well said.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 11:50 PM
2

Very true. If even just 1 woman has 'fear,' HR gets involved and you lose your job and reputation.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 10:07 AM
1

Agree with most comments. Maturity demands your peace of mind and a successfully lived life is more important than 1 female relationship, especially if she disses you or only takes. As females age, their value diminishes, while for men it's the opposite. Stay your best version of yourself, pray, and you will be vindicated.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 07:18 AM
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NOT AN Accident. If it continues, call her out on it or it will get worse. Respect is paramount in any relationship, especially living with PA bullsh*t.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 04:44 AM
1

I am a trad Christian male in favor of marriage. After my divorce my vindictive ex took all she could, including our son, now a stranger to me. I am still trying to financially recover. Marriage laws and family courts need an overhaul; even prenups can be voided. You could share stats, etc , about custody and divorce initation, but my guess is she's looking for assurance, while giving you none. Follow the advice most men have shared here.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 08:14 AM
1

You're right, the world's wrong.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 01:56 AM
115

Better not tell her to female up!
/r/MensRights20/03/24 04:42 AM
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Random male reading comments. In today's workplace, men are highly vulnerable to "thought police " accusations where they're considered guilty until proven innocent. As a male teacher in an early elementary, I have been accused repeatedly of the crimes of "hugging," reading "too close" to a student, and using the little boys' bathroom. Female teachers do the same, but I get reported to HR. It's this chilling atmosphere in which I - and other men- work, and you wonder why men aren't "open" emotio…
/r/MensRights13/03/24 08:16 PM
3

Called hypergamy. Why chastity belts were invented, and why Muslim countries have restrictions on women. Unfettered, you have the West. I don't like saying this, but it's the truth.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 09:26 PM
2

Ima steal this.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 09:11 PM
3

The scale needs to turn. Play the game. Report you are fearful, name names, and hold principal/school district accountable. Avoid interaction with them, don't be isolated, and get a lawyer.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 10:08 PM
2

Good comments. She's obviously planned for awhile. Get a lawyer, and fight for full custody, and only "settle" for 50/50. Realize the courts are stacked against you, and don't make the same mistake twice. Hypergamy in action.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 03:19 AM
1

Not at all.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 04:37 AM
2

Because if you're surrounded by people who think like that, you can't focus on yourself. Signed, A male elementary teacher
/r/MensRights28/01/24 10:37 PM
1

More like about 8
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:29 AM
1

You went at great length to explain why females should have no conscience, do whatever they want due to sexist, beta males. Then you shame them further as 'unaccomplished,' and on a Reddit re: 1000 cock stare ignore the question because "men have no experience as women?" I gotta call out the heavy feminist victimization rhetoric in your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:46 PM
1

Right on. Its real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:24 PM
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