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What are the different personas?
/r/seduction22/01/26 11:31 PM
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Usually I just go to them and ask them their name.
/r/seduction06/10/25 09:04 PM
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5’9
/r/seduction06/10/25 09:04 PM
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I go for 5’s and 6’a too. Think I just ain’t good at approaching yet.
/r/seduction06/10/25 09:03 PM
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Don’t you need to be able to approach before you can actually build comfort and be interesting? And I think my posture is good. Idk if I am attractive but I get told I am.
/r/seduction06/10/25 09:03 PM
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I just go to the club not expecting anything and if I see a girl I find attractive I just say hey what’s your name and then go from there. Usually, right from the start, I can tell the girl is cold so it doesn’t get far.
/r/seduction06/10/25 08:05 PM
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I usually just go up and say ‘hey what’s your name’. I know it isn’t the best approach but I have seen other guys do it and it work at the club.
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:29 AM
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Sure
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:50 AM
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Thanks! Yeah I did a few both times. I did 3 on Saturday and the time before I did 4. Before that I would very rarely approach though.
/r/seduction21/07/25 10:44 PM
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Definitely boosts my confidence knowing that.
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:33 PM
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Yeah I’m not really annoyed just wondering why.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:22 PM
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Yeah im definitely proud of myself for doing it. This is the second night out I actually did an approach. First one was 2 weeks ago so I’m just happy for the growth
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:21 PM
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He told me she wasn’t really feeling him and was dry.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:20 PM
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I wrote down all my fears. A few: *id be laughed at *the girl would think im a creep *I may see her again through the night and it’d be awkward And a few more. But then I wrote down why those wouldn’t matter and how the benefits outweigh the negatives. Also, I wrote down my strengths as a person to make me feel happy. That and I set the goal that im gonna do 1 approach no matter what. Don’t matter if I say something dumb but if I approach and at least try, I won.
/r/seduction09/07/25 02:23 AM
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Yeah i agree 100%. How do you get over FOMO. I feel for the last few years I’ve been missing out on hookups/makeouts and I’m 23 now. Been clubbing since 19
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:20 AM
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Thanks I’ll check it out
/r/seduction18/05/25 06:56 PM
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I agree. For me, it’s just hard on a dance floor with so many people. No idea why I find it so hard.
/r/seduction18/05/25 06:54 PM
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Thanks! I’ll read it tomorrow
/r/seduction18/05/25 11:54 AM
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Sure that’d be awesome
/r/seduction18/05/25 11:44 AM
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Nigga huh
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:50 PM
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How does one have a good vibe though
/r/seduction09/04/25 06:49 PM
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Great post, would love examples
/r/seduction01/03/25 09:04 PM
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Most random post I’ve seen. I don’t think your hobbies really affect your chances. If anything, they make you more interesting.
/r/seduction26/02/25 03:33 AM
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I’m honestly just trying to get more comfortable talking to women. Simply by just doing it and setting mini goals for myself.
/r/seduction21/02/25 09:26 AM
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I took a break from dating and got more consistent at the gym than I was before. I’m probably in my best physique ever at the moment. Also been working on my personal aspirations daily. I feel happy with myself for the most part, but right now I’m just trying to work on my confidence with women and just in social situations in general.
/r/seduction20/02/25 10:57 PM
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At least 1 hookup. I was in a toxic relationship that ended in 2023 which fucked with my confidence. Haven’t had anything with any women since then aside from a few dates.
/r/seduction19/02/25 10:28 PM
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Yep talking about dreams and ambitions is a personal favorite of mine.
/r/seduction15/02/25 04:44 AM
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I do this a lot so I needed this post. Thanks!
/r/seduction09/02/25 12:33 AM
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Aye I’m in the same boat right now, thanks for this!
/r/seduction08/02/25 09:14 AM
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I never do once I fuck up. Though I’ve had a time where I was too needy with a girl and once I realized she picked up on that, I backed off. We had a lot of mutual friends though so we’d see each other often in a group setting. I didn’t even try flirting or anything but she started coming back to me without me really doing anything other than being in the same friend group and just being myself without displaying neediness.
/r/seduction05/02/25 10:21 AM
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We talking in person or text? I have had instances in person where a girl was pretty reserved but I talked to her a bit more and she opened up. Over text, no luck for me lol.
/r/seduction31/01/25 08:08 AM
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Number 2 is especially helpful. I started asking women for directions then compliments before I approached.
/r/seduction30/01/25 03:47 AM
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How’d you improve your social skills?
/r/seduction28/01/25 07:35 AM
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Been thinking this today. Fumbled a girl I really liked today and it got me thinking - I genuinely don’t know why I’m still doing this.
/r/seduction27/01/25 11:44 PM
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Yeah I do that too but still fumble. I think I just need to keep practicing.
/r/seduction27/01/25 05:45 PM
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I do this but once I see them, my mind goes blank and I forget what I was gonna ask em
/r/seduction27/01/25 06:29 AM
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I’m brown as well and I’ve dated white girls. Some wouldn’t wanna be with an Indian guy but some would.
/r/seduction24/01/25 04:36 AM
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Don’t worry you’re good. The other guy is just being a cornball.
/r/seduction18/01/25 10:17 PM
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This sounds like shit I’d say back in high school
/r/seduction18/01/25 10:14 PM
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They got the confidence and social skills. I used to be bitter seeing ugly guys with attractive girls too but I learnt this.
/r/seduction17/01/25 02:54 AM
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Thanks for the advice! I’m gonna do this. I’ve been going to this gym since 2017 so I’m pretty friendly with most of the workers there already. Being friendly with another person wouldn’t be a problem. Can try making a move if it seems to be going well.
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:15 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/seduction13/01/25 11:34 PM
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Yeah people like that suck. I’m just trying to get into the mindset that there arent many guys that are like that and that I shouldn’t be afraid to approach.
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:01 AM
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Honestly, the amount of white knight stories I’ve heard definitely made me a little more scared to approach women than I already am lol. Never happened to me but a friend of mine approached a girl, and someone basically called him out and said he was harassing her. Shit like that scares me lol.
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:27 AM
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Thanks, this is so helpful! My taste in books is very niche (only read certain genres), so I have very little knowledge on books. I’m gonna do this if I go to a bookstore anytime soon.
/r/seduction12/01/25 02:10 AM
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Oh yeah I am consistently approaching. I still suck at it but I’m getting better and I’m getting more confident with it
/r/seduction09/01/25 11:02 PM
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I agree and I pray I one day get good at approaches lol. I’m putting the work in though.
/r/seduction09/01/25 10:04 AM
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Yeah could be unlucky. Could also be where I live. In my city, I’ve heard a lot of other crazy stories involving brown girls including someone from my school getting his tires slashed by one lol.
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:19 AM
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Third generation. The rich kids you’re thinking of are the ones who were born in India and moved here. They usually got everything paid for by their parents and shit.
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:41 PM
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Nah me and my friends are all young and broke 😂
/r/seduction05/01/25 06:12 AM
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I’m a brown guy so I was into them for a while. Dated one that cheated multiple times and then played games whenever I confronted her. Dated another that was a fucked up person and really just destroyed me mentally for a few years. Outside of Indian girls, I’ve dated 2 white girls, an Asian girl and 2 middle eastern girls, and none of them were toxic at all. Also my circle is mostly brown guys and they’ve also had very negative experiences dating Indian girls. Though, I won’t act like they’re al…
/r/seduction05/01/25 05:54 AM
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I am interested in them too but the only ones I dated were extremely toxic
/r/seduction04/01/25 11:24 PM
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I was at a concert, and I ask a girl for directions. Then, I try continuing the conversation, and she looks annoyed as fuck and immediately walks away. I ain’t gonna lie though, looking back at it, it was funny as hell.
/r/seduction04/01/25 09:37 PM
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This is my biggest fear when it comes to approaching.
/r/seduction04/01/25 09:36 PM
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Nice try Diddy
/r/seduction02/01/25 10:20 PM
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This is why wish I was still in college lmao. I just graduated and I’m always paranoid at the mall because every girl be wearing hella makeup and they all look relatively my age.
/r/seduction02/01/25 09:44 PM
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I just graduated college, and I’ve been doing malls and bookstores.
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:17 AM
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Honestly, it’s practice. I still miss a lot of opportunities but you just gotta do it and as you keep going, it gets easier.
/r/seduction29/12/24 09:37 AM
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Good work! I’m hoping to get out of my comfort zone too. It’s been happening slowly but surely
/r/seduction27/12/24 09:20 AM
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Yeah I don’t understand this. I have no plans on marriage myself, but if I did, I’d need to be with this person for at least 3 years prior to know if they’re compatible. Marriage is a huge decision
/r/seduction24/12/24 08:51 AM
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I kid you not one of those girls threatened to get me jumped 💀
/r/seduction13/12/24 06:11 AM
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Speaking from experience, stay away from them bro. Trust me
/r/seduction13/12/24 03:49 AM
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Yeah it’s a learning experience. Was bummed out because in my area, there aren’t many girls my type and I saw one which is such a rare occurrence. It is what it is though.
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:48 AM
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Yeah I done fucked up lol. Saw this comment and went back but she was gone
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:43 AM
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Yep. Had so many opportunities blown over like this too. Always make sure to do it before it’s too late
/r/seduction28/11/24 11:15 PM
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Yep gonna keep working on it
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:02 AM
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I’m with you. I always pass a few before my brain finally says fuck it. Also I do not follow girls around. That shits creepy. And yeah always gotta going for every approach is weird. I’m with you lol
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:02 AM
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Fair enough
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:01 AM
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Yep trying my best to. Sometimes my nerves get the best of me but I’m improving.
/r/seduction27/11/24 12:11 AM
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Keep going man! We all have good days and bad days. Just gotta keep on going
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:34 AM
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I’m new to this. Only done 7 approaches. The first 2 I stuttered like crazy. The next 5, I was still nervous but I definitely improved. I think it’s a repetition thing. The more you do it, the better you get.
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:24 AM
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My town does have a mall that’s near a college. Would that work
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:16 AM
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Yeah I’m trying to get over this. Just the other day, I saw a girl that was very good looking and she even smiled at me but I didn’t approach 😭 I think the best way to get over this is simply repetition.
/r/seduction25/11/24 12:24 AM
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Sometimes lol
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:34 AM
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I respect the 1000 approaches goal bro. I myself am trying to build myself up. I’ve done 7 approaches so far. Hoping to build slow and have 40 by the end of the year. Next year, I hope to do a lot more though. As for where, my college has done me wonders. I did one approach at the mall but the rest were all college.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:53 AM
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Bro all the grocery stores have people way older than me 😭 it’s always people in their 40s
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:50 AM
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Yeah true. It’s all about making it happen.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:50 AM
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Ah okay that actually makes a lot of sense. My college has a mall nearby and a few bars so I can do that. Plus you’re right - it’s only weird if I make it weird.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:50 AM
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Hahah I don’t live in the US so I don’t have either of those. My college is right by a mall though.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:49 AM
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I mean there’s the college I go to but wouldn’t it be weird a graduated guy going there talking to girls?
/r/seduction22/11/24 08:22 AM
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Fair lol. My results are much better with day game for some reason so I stick to that mostly.
/r/seduction22/11/24 07:06 AM
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Hahah hope so man 😂 I’m about to graduate college in literally 2 weeks and idk where to day game from there lol
/r/seduction22/11/24 06:49 AM
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Damn Im gonna look into this. Thanks
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:32 AM
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Nah what’s that?
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:04 AM
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This gives me hope lol. I’m 23 about to finish college and so many people my age are already in serious relationships.
/r/seduction22/11/24 12:45 AM
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I had class today so I was on campus and I did 2 approaches today! Obviously, I still felt the anxiety but I did what h said and pushed past it.
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:02 AM
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How I do that? Sorry if this is a dumb question
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:02 PM
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Yeah I try but the thoughts always just jump into my head 😭 I’m gonna keep trying though.
/r/seduction19/11/24 06:06 AM
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Damn fr? I am new. Only done 4 approaches outside of a club and two led to dates. Maybe I’m lucky lol
/r/seduction16/11/24 06:35 AM
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Talking like a what 😶
/r/seduction16/11/24 06:34 AM
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Better results than me
/r/seduction15/11/24 08:22 AM
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This is a good idea. I will try this! What’s echo technique though?
/r/seduction12/11/24 08:43 PM
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It was a bit weird at first because we had a class together and we had mutual friends. I still was cordial with her when we hung out in a group, and in class, we also had a group so I would mainly just speak with others in the group. I felt weird at first but eventually, we both were just friendly with each other. The semester ended like a month after though, so after that, we had no classes together, and our friend group sort of just fizzled out because nobody had classes together no more lol.
/r/seduction12/11/24 08:41 PM
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Was seeing a girl. Wasn’t official at the time but it came to a point where we both would basically talk every night until one day she just stopped (I was young as hell and was too scared to make it official lol). I’d still see her at school but she’d be dry as hell with me, and I would keep trying to win her back until one day, I realized I was wasting my time and just left it lol. Funny enough, she texted me like a year later out of nowhere, and we ended up hooking up.
/r/seduction12/11/24 08:56 AM
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It’s something I’m trying to work on as well. People always tell me I look great but I’m awkward as hell. Especially around women. I’ve just been pushing out of my comfort zone by talking to more people both guys and girls and working on my social skills.
/r/seduction12/11/24 08:49 AM
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Ah bet. So essentially just get near her dance with her and see if she stays with me?
/r/seduction29/10/24 11:14 PM
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What kind of invitations?
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:41 PM
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I think the point he’s trying to make is that you shouldn’t wait for signals that she’s interested and just go for it because a lot of girls don’t even give signals.
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:41 PM
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Without waiting for signals?
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:38 PM
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Yeah I can’t lie I’m a coward too when it comes to girls 😭 working on it though. I’ve been cold approaching here and there and I’m trying to work on my nightgame. It’s hard but I know I’ll get good at it one day.
/r/seduction29/10/24 08:01 AM
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Wow, thanks for the comment! This is all great to know. I was reading so many posts on here saying that you need to wait for eye contact before approaching and my only make out started from eye contact. Though, it does make sense that girls rarely make eye contact, and I should approach with confidence. I am going to the club again on Thursday for some Halloween event so I’m gonna try this! Thanks again!
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:41 AM
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Yeah my issue may be that I focus on very few girls lol.
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:12 AM
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I’m not a great dancer by any means, but I always am on the dance floor with high energy
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:11 AM
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Yeah, a few of them do.
/r/seduction28/10/24 06:06 PM
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