| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 74 | What's the best advice you've received in this sub? The worst? | ecdw | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 04:03 PM | |
| 18 | Self-improvement guidance | ecdw | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 04:03 AM | |
| 12 | Self worth and feeling scared | ecdw | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 07:04 AM | |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with regret? | ecdw | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 01:11 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How does this community feel about anxiety meds?For some people. Don't make blanket statements simply because they apply to you. Using modern medicine isn't a weakness, it's intelligent. Not using modern medicine because it's "the easy way out" is dumb and fragile masculinity af | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 01:32 AM |
| 0 | How does this community feel about anxiety meds?Stupid. Would you not take medication if you had diabetes? It's a condition that has physical factors just like any other. | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | She smells like daisies and sunshine, With a hint of river water.... | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 03:51 PM |
| 9 | How important is assertiveness?I agree with most of this but this notion that texting should be used only for logistics that gets parroted on this sub ad nauseum is stupid. Texting is a normal part of relationships and conversing with people. So use it. Don't ONLY text a girl but the idea that you can't build a rapport and keep a girl interested with texting is just plain wrong. | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Met an amazing woman, been dating 1 month, it's one of the best relationships I've ever had. Why can't I stop thinking about pursuing other women?So many typos | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 10:57 PM |
| -1 | ELI5: Why have men become so sexually repressed? [Discussion]Lol. The Red Pill promotes the view that women are objects and emotional children that should be manipulated and treated as "plates." There's nothing valid there. There is nothing about reclaiming your masculinity that requires you to be a misogynistic hateful shithead. | /r/seduction | 30/04/16 10:28 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop my self-confidence from being tied to my success with women?I really enjoy Headpsace. It is so much easier to meditate with a voice guiding you and unlike any other guided meditation I've found, it's not all spiritual and New Age-ey which turns me off. Andy does a good job of making it simple, accessible, and un strenuous to get some presence of mind and be more mindful | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 02:17 AM |
| 11 | Is withdrawl a good way to escape the "friendzone"?Grow up | /r/seduction | 27/03/16 08:12 PM |
| 1 | 3 Natural, Playful Ways to EscalateThis made me laugh | /r/seduction | 23/03/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Why Nice Guys Always Get Friend-Zoned. And How To Get The Girl.No. I call them girls. | /r/seduction | 23/03/16 05:05 PM |
| 11 | Why Nice Guys Always Get Friend-Zoned. And How To Get The Girl.Plates? Really? | /r/seduction | 22/03/16 07:01 PM |
| 7 | When do you say "I love you?"When you love her. What the fuck? This isn't complicated. Love isn't a game. You don't use it as a way to seduce a girl or get her to fuck you. There aren't tactics for when the most opportune time is to tell someone you love them. | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Can't get over that girl? Do you feel obsessive? Have a friend who is obsessed with a girl? Can't get over something in life? Here's my advice.Welp I needed this today. | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you want a stable, long-term relationship with someone you love or are you more into hook-ups and just meeting as many women as possible?No you're not an emotional pussy. You're a human being that desires love and genuine connection. It's the fundamental thing that makes us human. There's too much emphasis on being a "player" and "pulling bitches" and this really narrow, often toxic, definition of masculinity. If dating lots of girls is something you find fun then go for that, but don't do it because you feel like it's what's expected of you or so you don't feel like a pussy. If you want a relationship then date with that goal in… | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 03:49 AM |
| 1 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!You sound like who I wanted to be in college but failed to be | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Yes! Thank you r/Seduction!!!!Get it. Way to grab life by the balls. Don't get hung up on her though, and keep momentum going and text her | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What are your excuses and strategies for using kino?Thanks for this | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Still magical but you're less likely to see her as this perfect angel made of unicorns and rainbows | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Congrats OP. I will say that boyfriend line was over the top for me and a little clingy. You might be young and I know the first time you start falling for a girl it's magical. Constant butterflies and she's amazing to you. Go with that, enjoy it, but as others have said keep talking to other girls. Make sure you are still an independent man outside the relationship, and listen to your gut. Listen to your gut and take care of yourself-always be honest with yourself and be in the relationship if … | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | My 10 fundamentals of becoming a better self, as simple as possibleSpot on. Mental strength and stimulation, emotional well being, physical health, looking good, and taking a positive I'm going to do some shit today attitude to life is what is going to make you your best and most grounded self | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you find out what is wrong with yourself?This is good advice | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 02:00 AM |
| 2 | How do you find out what is wrong with yourself?Rather than thinking why is it easier for him, I'm never going to be who I want to be, look at it like "this guy is better than me at this. I'm just going to acknowledge the existence of that fact and realize that it doesn't actually stop me from doing something. It's just a fact and I acknowledge its existence." You take away its power and realize that it doesn't actually have any influence on whether or not you can do something. It's just a fact, like that tree next to you is a fact, or your b… | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Self-improvement guidanceSure | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Self-improvement guidanceNo prob, glad it can help someone. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 03:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you find out what is wrong with yourself?Exactly, you gotta realize you're not gonna be perfect at everything. You can improve things but there will be aspects of your life where you are just not going to be as naturally good as others (being comfortable around strangers is one for me). These things will require more effort from you but the key is accepting that and still going out there and doing shit | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 08:52 AM |
| 10 | How do you find out what is wrong with yourself?You're looking at this like you can just follow a step by step guide and boom, figure out what's wrong with your life/self. The process of understanding who you are and your strengths and weaknesses is a personal one and it is a long process. Self-awareness is your goal. People achieve this through many means. Talk therapy, meditation, writing, art, creativity, smoking weed and philosophizing about life, seeking advice from people you admire. All of these things can give you little nuggets of wi… | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 03:46 AM |
| 25 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"How/where do you find a girl that will put a note saying "just for you" on her ass and send a picture of it to you? | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 05:48 PM |
| 2 | By Making A Game Out Of Rejection, A Man Conquers FearIt does simplify down to that. But it isn't a non-answer, you can do the thing you fear but your fear is limiting you. More often than not it isn't absolutely paralyzing you and making it absolutely impossible to do something (I'm not talking about extreme cases of anxiety). Your problem is fear is holding you back, the point here is forcing yourself to do that thing you fear, that you can do but are holding yourself back from doing. Maybe there are gentler ways past fear but the fastest and mos… | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 06:51 AM |
| 1 | "You made it easy for me"I feel you, this sucks and maybe one day social norms change but that's how the game is played today and we just gotta go through with it. | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...Dude, you went out there and approached 14 times EVEN after getting rejected each time. That's a great attitude and takes some real balls, applaud yourself for that accomplishment and don't give a fuck about messing up, just take what you learned from those approaches and use that knowledge the next time. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Are you ever afraid to be intimate or really connect?How come? | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 10:41 AM |
| 4 | Starbucks barista tends to girl flirts with me. Need help.Well, she seems pretty damn into you. Ignore the boyfriend part. Just ask her out and see where it goes, I think you're pretty much guaranteed a yes. And if not, then fuck that noise and move on. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 07:11 AM |
| 2 | A valuable lesson I learnedWell said | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Noob here, what should I do?Well I wouldn't ignore her, just don't be so hung up on her or what she does. Ignoring a girl can sometimes make her more interested but I think it's kind of stupid-that's playing games and that's a waste of your time. Some girls like having guys hanging on them because it's an ego boost so if you're getting that vibe stop doing things that make her think she'll always have you fawning on her, most important of which is stop putting her on a pedestal in your mind. Keep talking to her and getting… | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Noob here, what should I do?Just talk to her as you are, make jokes, tease her a little, and then go for it. I wouldn't do things like run after her and then tell her you're gonna follow her around, that comes across as pretty needy. You have to show that you like her but you're not going to follow her around like a lost puppy dog. Seems she likes you so definitely worth asking her out. Worst case she says no and you learn something from it. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 05:59 PM |
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