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eggilicious/r/MensRights07/05/12 03:45 PM
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eggilicious/r/MensRights25/09/12 05:16 PM
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It could even be an MRA posting for karma fodder
/r/MensRights01/06/14 07:25 PM
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Based on how it appears in the TV show, yes. Going by the books no
/r/MensRights26/04/14 09:15 AM
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Paternity test your lawyer to see if he is the father
/r/MensRights21/04/14 11:38 AM
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I know someone who handles her child support issues in exactly that manner except she never went to the gym in the first place
/r/MensRights21/04/14 11:37 AM
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did you watch the whole thing? I'm pretty sure he's an actor
/r/MensRights30/03/14 09:13 AM
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Why do you put feminist in the title?
/r/MensRights11/03/14 08:10 AM
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Complaint sent. I am in a similar position and I have seen woefully incompetent girls get funding from the Loreal/Unesco funding scheme when there were much better male students who couldn't get any funding at all and subsequently couldn't do a PhD
/r/MensRights20/02/14 08:16 AM
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How does this affect mens rights?
/r/MensRights18/01/14 09:11 AM
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gendererratic is not a reliable source. just saying...
/r/MensRights17/01/14 07:22 AM
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In Ireland a lot of stores have baby changing rooms separate to the bathrooms. It makes much more sense
/r/MensRights07/01/14 09:55 AM
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Just a word of warning John Waters is a bit of a troll in Irish media. He is known for batshit crazy views so I would wait until the thesis is published rather than take his word for it
/r/MensRights16/12/13 08:16 AM
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ask if they will also be asking residents if they are happy with black or gay staff
/r/MensRights10/12/13 10:01 PM
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He was a lot more sensible a few years ago. He is from the vein of the mythopoetic mens rights movement who were basically a load of hippies with drum circles. He is into paganism and new age bullshit and best avoided
/r/MensRights09/12/13 11:50 AM
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I would argue that the MRM needs to move away from saying 'false rape' and instead arguing for due process in rape trials and identity protection for both parties until the trial is over.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 11:34 AM
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Change it to expressed emotions version actual emotions and you have a good graphic for a stereotypical male in the western world
/r/MensRights06/12/13 11:22 AM
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yea your right. The health risks from downvotes are too high
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:37 PM
2

anal is my favourite kind of birth control
/r/MensRights03/12/13 08:30 PM
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Often in self defense scenarios the person defending themselves goes overboard because of the endorphin rush
/r/MensRights03/12/13 01:58 PM
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It depends on the feminists. Most do acknowledge that there are neurological differences between men and women but that these are reinforced or modified in some way by their upbringing which is what the reliable data suggests. The vast majority of feminists who think gender is 100% a social construct are TERF's who use this idea to deny that transgenderism is a legitimate thing and that trans people are just impostors. TERF's are scorned by the mainstream feminist movement to a large degree
/r/MensRights03/12/13 11:15 AM
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they prefer to be referred to as pots of colour
/r/MensRights02/12/13 11:31 AM
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I agree to the extent that a lot of armchair activists do take this approach and I think as a movement we do focus too much on feminism but anybody can pick and choose aspects of a movement and use them to discredit it
/r/MensRights02/12/13 10:54 AM
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Circumcision is something that pretty much everyone can get behind and would probably be safer than family courts. Suicide and PTSD are good options too
/r/MensRights28/10/13 11:33 PM
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every drug is tested on animals
/r/MensRights26/10/13 07:54 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvnYIxv_364
/r/MensRights26/10/13 07:02 AM
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She needs to go into an area where there is no WiFi so the internet trolls cant get her
/r/MensRights23/10/13 12:26 PM
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why is everything a culture nowadays?
/r/MensRights15/10/13 07:15 PM
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No, because not all feminists are like that. Christina Hoff Summers describes herself as a feminist and Warren Farrell has stated he is happy with the term once it is meant in the context of equal opportunities
/r/MensRights10/10/13 12:09 PM
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The mens rights movement existed before him and he isnt that influential. Its just a title he made up for himself
/r/MensRights09/10/13 07:29 PM
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no he's not
/r/MensRights09/10/13 04:50 PM
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they hire them to work in the back rooms and do all the lifting where I am from
/r/MensRights07/10/13 06:17 PM
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is there any other way?
/r/MensRights06/10/13 10:47 PM
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I'm just going to assume you are male. You should have said 'women supporting women' shouldnt need a man to financially support it and burst into some beyonce
/r/MensRights06/10/13 06:16 PM
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good but no longer relevant to todays society
/r/MensRights30/09/13 10:12 AM
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what if its a rape whistle?
/r/MensRights30/09/13 09:42 AM
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No. Any social movement will have a certain percentage of extremists and careerists. As the movement achieves more the percentage of this people increase as less moderates are attracted to the movement as the need isnt as great. These sort of people can never be satisfied and will continue to see victimhood and oppression where none exists
/r/MensRights22/09/13 10:26 AM
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I'm highly trained and not afraid to use it
/r/MensRights21/09/13 08:00 AM
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Dont make me blow my whistle!
/r/MensRights20/09/13 11:21 PM
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I never said that
/r/MensRights19/09/13 03:54 PM
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To the moderate feminist, patriarchy is having power institutions dominated and by opposing patriarchy, they are supporting a more balanced split in the sex of people occupying these positions. They do not see this as being anti male
/r/MensRights19/09/13 12:27 PM
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The problem is that truly, not all feminists are like that. Talk to your average feminist and they aren't all that bad. The issue is that the most vocal ones are truly shitty and they tend to invest more in their feminism and they rise to the top. Its like saying all muslims are terrorists because the most prominent muslims in the media are those who believe in violent jihad. The best way forward imo is not to pursue feminism per se but to focus on mens issues and deal with feminists only when t…
/r/MensRights19/09/13 12:19 PM
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call out bigots in their own ranks and treat MRA's with respect
/r/MensRights17/09/13 04:31 PM
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are you based in Ireland?
/r/MensRights05/09/13 05:19 PM
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there is, its called the bookshop duh!
/r/MensRights28/08/13 03:18 PM
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Are you in a school run the by the brothers or an educate together school?
/r/MensRights19/08/13 10:23 AM
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Exactly. Do you think feminists are omniscient and chose to ignore your situation?
/r/MensRights18/08/13 09:44 AM
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touché!
/r/MensRights10/08/13 09:16 PM
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I dont know if its actually him or his account was hacked but if this is true all I feel is sadness. I dont like his work but its sad to see someone break down in such a public manner
/r/MensRights10/08/13 08:54 AM
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Also beware of talking in absolutes. Saying 'studies have indicated' rather than 'x is a fact,heres a citation' is a much better attitude to take. No research is flawless and most people throwing the 'facts' around aren't capable of properly critiquing a study and I would say that most dont even read more than the abstract. When reading a paper relating to my own research I will often spend a week with it before I am confidant I have understood everything the authors wish to communicate
/r/MensRights10/08/13 08:51 AM
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UK has free college
/r/MensRights09/08/13 10:39 AM
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New writer for AVFM?
/r/MensRights31/07/13 04:49 PM
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I dont have the links to hand but IIRC he wrote some articles conceding a couple of points to the MR side of things. I think he was throwing a line to see if he would be received by us as the feminists were giving him a lot of flack
/r/MensRights31/07/13 02:51 PM
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I think the gravy train has kicked him off. The feminists wont have him and neither will the MRA's
/r/MensRights31/07/13 01:29 PM
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Well known feminist, wrote a lot about whats wrong with men and got a lot of credibility for it because he was a guy, lost favour with the feminists after it came out that he used his academic position to sleep with students, made attempts at getting sympathy from the MR side, was rejected and had another stab at white knight feminism and has now thrown in the towel
/r/MensRights31/07/13 12:32 PM
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It is actually carried out similarly to a vasectomy. They still have to cut your scrote and pull out your vas to inject it
/r/MensRights29/07/13 02:03 PM
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In Ireland the ban also extends to women who have had sex with a man who has sex with a man iirc
/r/MensRights26/07/13 12:13 PM
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Original news report was already posted
/r/MensRights21/07/13 07:21 AM
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Most IAMA's are
/r/MensRights18/07/13 12:49 PM
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not at all
/r/MensRights17/07/13 12:36 PM
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sauces?
/r/MensRights16/07/13 02:55 PM
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Its not a wage, its the prize for winning
/r/MensRights03/07/13 10:16 AM
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It is used in that context and it is fully understood by pretty much every english speaker. Language is fluid, grammer rules arent set in stone
/r/MensRights26/06/13 09:00 AM
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Every time you sleep with someone, you are sleeping with their past
/r/MensRights25/06/13 04:23 PM
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The dismissal of criticism has become a problem in the MRM in the last year or two. Valid concerns are dismissed out of hand as concern trolling and the critic is usually branded as a feminist. It reeks of McCarthyism
/r/MensRights25/06/13 10:28 AM
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Most people in the MRM are left wing but many of the most vocal proponents are right wing
/r/MensRights24/06/13 04:42 PM
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Actually I was thinking of Chapins Inferno. Thanks for correcting me
/r/MensRights24/06/13 03:49 PM
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Yup! Especially when you consider what he does to female assholes for a living
/r/MensRights20/06/13 12:02 PM
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All the previous surveys have found that this sub is predominanlty left wing. The right wingers tend to be more vocal both here and on youtube (stardusk et al)
/r/MensRights20/06/13 10:03 AM
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Not really relevant
/r/MensRights20/06/13 08:43 AM
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He was sending unwanted sex texts to an underage girl. Thats harrassment, not healthy sexual expression
/r/MensRights18/06/13 01:51 PM
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Bit of both. Everyone is susceptible to confirmation bias and hyper sensitivity
/r/MensRights17/06/13 02:53 PM
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Circumcision and family court bias
/r/MensRights17/06/13 10:27 AM
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It was the infidelity more so than his promiscuity that ruined his career
/r/MensRights15/06/13 10:48 PM
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feminism is too wide a label. You can find someone who identifies as feminist that will agree with pretty much anything
/r/MensRights15/06/13 07:36 PM
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It is the social attitudes that promote rape, promote the blaming of the victims of rape when there is none, fail to adequately prosecute rapists and/or do not take rape reports seriously
/r/MensRights13/06/13 03:49 PM
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Agreed. They place I work know has a unisex restroom/baby changing room and it is never dirty. Its unbelievable
/r/MensRights13/06/13 09:14 AM
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AMEN is a mens domestic abuse charity that operates in Ireland and is growing steadily
/r/MensRights11/06/13 09:26 AM
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Set up your own one and advertise it here. Build it and they will come
/r/MensRights11/06/13 08:49 AM
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Not really. Routine circumcision isnt a thing here and we have a pretty low Jewish population and a small but slowly increasing Muslim one
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:39 AM
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to abortion? No. The conversation is one of bodily autonomy and church state separation
/r/MensRights09/06/13 07:35 PM
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In my country they are fighting mostly for access to abortion which I fully support
/r/MensRights09/06/13 08:31 AM
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Not all feminists support MGM
/r/MensRights07/06/13 05:39 PM
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sources?
/r/MensRights06/06/13 03:07 PM
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Wow what a loaded post. I support equality which is why I support campaigning for removing the stigma from mental health. Not for men, not for women, but for people with mental health issues. If you remove the stigma, you help all sufferers, if you remove the stigma but do it in a way which only helps men, you leave women in the lurch
/r/MensRights06/06/13 11:02 AM
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It depends. How do you define a false MRA? It can be easy to confuse an MRA who does not share the same views as you with someone who is intentionally trolling. Attacking everyone who posts things which are critical of the MRM prevents the movement from weeding out the extremists and allows them to dominate the conversation
/r/MensRights06/06/13 11:00 AM
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oppression olympics much?
/r/MensRights06/06/13 10:55 AM
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The problem is that people of both genders feel stigmatized and to not ask for help. Its not like there is a policy of denying men help and helping women instead
/r/MensRights06/06/13 10:43 AM
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Personally I dont like that style of campaigning as it ultimately leads to exclusion. It is similar to setting up womens shelters to help victims of sexual abuse because they are statistically more likely* to suffer this varies from country to country and reliable figures are nearly impossible to come by. I use this example for argument only
/r/MensRights06/06/13 10:27 AM
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I think mental health awareness is a much wider social issue than just being a mens issue. People of both genders feel stigmatized about mental health issues
/r/MensRights06/06/13 09:20 AM
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He has been very open about his bipolar disorder and previous suicide attempts. He was part of a documentary to raise awareness for it
/r/MensRights06/06/13 08:52 AM
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Sauce?
/r/MensRights31/05/13 10:04 AM
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Also there were white slaves too, mostly Irish
/r/MensRights29/05/13 03:51 PM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 03:10 PM
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Just gonna play the devils advocate and point out that most of those people chose to join the army of their own free will
/r/MensRights28/05/13 12:02 PM
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All the parties in my country are as incompetent as shit so I tend to vote for independent candidates. Politically I lean towards the left/center-left
/r/MensRights27/05/13 08:58 AM
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It sounds more like she was pissed off that he was a dickhead and made fun of her more so than the fact that he was holding a door
/r/MensRights25/05/13 10:22 AM
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Posting your area might help
/r/MensRights22/05/13 01:18 PM
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This made me feel all warm and fuzzy on the inside
/r/MensRights21/05/13 08:45 AM
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There is a saying that says the Irish are the niggers of europe and there is some truth to it. Up until 30-40 years ago you could walk into a pub in England with a sign that said 'no dogs,no blacks,no Irish'
/r/MensRights19/05/13 08:58 AM
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ITT: People misunderstanding the meaning of aquatic ape
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:10 PM
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But I believe in your right to have them!
/r/MensRights16/05/13 10:17 AM
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Tell her that some gay men have approached you about the lack of services. They tend to be more sympathetic to gay men
/r/MensRights11/05/13 10:53 PM
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No
/r/MensRights05/05/13 09:48 AM
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The expression on his face says it all
/r/MensRights03/05/13 12:55 PM
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Bad title
/r/MensRights02/05/13 01:44 PM
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how is that feminist? Is that a new term for everything we dont like in the MRM?
/r/MensRights30/04/13 04:40 PM
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We are not a downvote brigade. This sub would be ruined if it turned into another SRS
/r/MensRights30/04/13 02:25 PM
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Welcome! There are a few trans* bigots here but they are a minority so just ignore them if they give you grief
/r/MensRights27/04/13 07:52 AM
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She was trespassing technically
/r/MensRights19/04/13 08:48 AM
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Sweet delicious precedent!
/r/MensRights12/04/13 10:12 PM
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I wouldnt say hidden. Ignored definitely
/r/MensRights12/04/13 06:03 PM
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I remember reading that article a few years ago. Its pretty intense stuff
/r/MensRights12/04/13 06:03 PM
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Herbivore men arent exactly the same as MGTOW. MGTOW is a conscience decision to avoid long term romantic relationships with women due to perceived inequalities in the system if they break up which outweighss the potential benefits. Herbivore men for the most part are the equivalent of 'basement dwellers'. They are men who are happy doing their own thing and usually are socially awkward, especially around girls and avoid them because of social anxiety. There is a strain of herbivore men who act …
/r/MensRights11/04/13 09:37 AM
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How the fuck is this relevant to mens rights?
/r/MensRights01/04/13 09:46 AM
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lol
/r/MensRights01/04/13 12:58 AM
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'murica fuck yea!
/r/MensRights01/04/13 12:50 AM
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I'm sure peadophilia is much more common than people believe. Child abuse on the other hand is not
/r/MensRights31/03/13 06:31 PM
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Not many do. Most think he ruined an opportunity to do something good. He is terrible in debates doesnt represent the MRM well
/r/MensRights26/03/13 04:22 PM
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It means your psychological gender matches your junk. Basically non transgendered
/r/MensRights25/03/13 05:42 PM
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Doubt it. The default subs are ones with wide appeal, MR is a bit too partisan
/r/MensRights25/03/13 02:11 PM
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I would feel the same. It irks me to hear MRA's suggesting that radfem arises from socialism just as much as feminists conflating the MRM with american right wingers
/r/MensRights19/03/13 01:18 PM
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I'm pretty left wing. I think some of the more vocal MRA's are right leaning which gives the impression that the movement is right wing
/r/MensRights19/03/13 12:53 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSr39UwpELo
/r/MensRights17/03/13 05:44 PM
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I agree that he wasnt sober but I'm just pointing out that he accepted to drink alcohol. The predator may not have drugged him without his knowledge. He put himself in a dangerous situation
/r/MensRights17/03/13 05:44 PM
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plus the reproductive systems of female rodents differ from humans a lot more than metabolic and other systems. They are quite susceptible to stress induced miscarriage too which makes it a bitch to try and draw conclusions on reproductive toxicity of drugs using them as models. Thankfully I work in early stage drug design so I dont have to take care of the veterinary duties
/r/MensRights17/03/13 05:28 PM
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Your liver metabolises ethanol. Young livers have a lower expression of the isoform of the CYP450 enzyme that does the majority of ethanol metabolism giving a slower rate of clearance. Less clearance leads to a higher bioavailability which means alcohol has more of an effect on young people
/r/MensRights17/03/13 05:21 PM
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source? Also just cos you start drinking young doesnt mean your liver can handle it
/r/MensRights17/03/13 05:13 PM
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Stop oppressing me!
/r/MensRights17/03/13 02:57 PM
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Good article. The only thing I take issue with is that he said he drugged him. He was 16 and drinking alcohol, he was probably just drunk
/r/MensRights17/03/13 11:17 AM
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I think I would prefer a castle that can move Dont you dare point out that it is called a rook
/r/MensRights17/03/13 09:42 AM
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Actual scientist here. We use males because their anatomy is simpler
/r/MensRights17/03/13 07:45 AM
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Isnt that a family guy episode?
/r/MensRights15/03/13 06:45 PM
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I would give her once chance.If it ever happens again dump her on the spot
/r/MensRights09/03/13 11:14 PM
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There is in most countries, and its a day, not a week
/r/MensRights09/03/13 10:46 PM
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How do you know the allegations were false? Much of DV is reciprocal and Tallaght is a very violent area.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 06:31 PM
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Not relevant
/r/MensRights06/03/13 05:02 PM
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/r/conspiratard
/r/MensRights03/03/13 12:33 AM
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Yes tons. Dont let the extremists drown out the good ones. Not all are belligerent ideologues, there are a lot of genuine egalitarians in the movement
/r/MensRights02/03/13 11:31 AM
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During the second wave there was a lot of 'political lesbianism', these were more radical feminists who became lesbian not out of an innate attraction for women, but because they viewed relationships with men as fraternizing with the enemy. This documentary touches on it http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VaYUBeVdnbU
/r/MensRights25/02/13 08:31 AM
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Best person should get the job, regardless of gender
/r/MensRights19/02/13 03:36 PM
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Is rape by fraud/deception recognised where you live? You might be able to argue that your consent was dependent on her taking the pill
/r/MensRights17/02/13 02:29 PM
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People are allowed their own preferences
/r/MensRights05/02/13 03:20 PM
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Fuck right off
/r/MensRights03/02/13 07:50 PM
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I would expect that many of the gay men suffering from depression dont admit to being gay, hence the depression
/r/MensRights01/02/13 01:12 PM
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Did she make you sit in the back of the bus too?
/r/MensRights01/02/13 01:09 PM
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They objectify him into a piece of meat valued only for his sexual organs
/r/MensRights28/01/13 06:28 PM
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She has a team of people to play the games with her. Its such hard work its hard to believe that some people actually do that for fun!
/r/MensRights28/01/13 03:10 PM
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Um there has been a lot of pressure from feminists to get women on the front lines
/r/MensRights24/01/13 07:59 PM
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I want to get married but there are issues with the way divorce is handled
/r/MensRights24/01/13 05:25 PM
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you dont have a classroom do you? Sly dog...
/r/MensRights22/01/13 08:43 PM
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Sickening. Kinda has a Jim Crow feel to it
/r/MensRights20/01/13 06:13 PM
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Seriously who gives a fuck about some shitty FB comment. This sub has gone downhill
/r/MensRights20/01/13 03:18 PM
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It does not emerge logically from empirical evidence. We have a system that has different positive and negative discrimination against both genders. This would suggest that gender roles are the sole root of the problem. Patriarchy theory turns this into oppression of women by men, where all of women's privileges are benevolent sexism and thus still oppression as it is condescending and all of mens problems are just a by product of their power. It is viewed through the filter of ideology and thus…
/r/MensRights17/01/13 09:31 PM
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childish
/r/MensRights17/01/13 09:26 PM
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Is it peer reviewed apart from the editor(s)?
/r/MensRights15/01/13 06:59 PM
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fuck right off
/r/MensRights14/01/13 05:00 PM
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consent is dependent on the other party involved
/r/MensRights14/01/13 02:15 PM
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Why dont you use chrome?!
/r/MensRights14/01/13 01:56 PM
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mens rights?
/r/MensRights13/01/13 09:30 AM
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Patriarchy is interpreted as men, as a class, ruling society regardless of the actual definition. Although in many places there is a majority of males in positions of power, power does not lie with males as a class. Males also occupy the lowest rungs of society in greater numbers than females and hence from this perspective patriarchy theory ( which is not a theory at all but it was concieved during a time when the humanities were trying to mimic science to gain credibility. Read up on the Scien…
/r/MensRights10/01/13 07:04 PM
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They go hand in hand. Anti male opinions are justified by anti male laws, anti male laws are passed because of anti male opinions. Both need to be challenged to achieve equality
/r/MensRights08/01/13 02:20 PM
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A masculinist group lead by Aoirthoir Mac an Broc has something like this. It was envisaged as a database for relevant studies,articles,blogs and other resources. It never got off the ground because not many people contributed to it and most people dont have access to academic journals to keep it up to date with academia
/r/MensRights05/01/13 06:23 PM
1

Thats an insult to marxists. Its only post modernist ideologues that believe there is no biological differences
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:54 AM
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I know what it is but it has been used as an insult towards transgendered people long before the MRM started using it
/r/MensRights01/01/13 01:53 PM
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hate to be that guy but what does this have to do with mens rights?
/r/MensRights01/01/13 12:55 PM
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I dont like the term mangina tbh. It is insulting towards transgendered people and where I live it is used to shame men who are manly enough. I rather the term white knight. It is much more descriptive
/r/MensRights01/01/13 12:14 PM
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The MRM is pretty fragmented. I was participating in the MRM on youtube and 2 other forums for about a year before I came to reddit. I had been discussing MR issues since long before that. A lot of people realise there are serious issues, uniting and providing a unified platform that everyone can support is the main challenge
/r/MensRights01/01/13 12:11 PM
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It was someone in my uni studying sociology and she (a self described feminist) said she didnt believe in it because of some essay she read by a feminist academic. I'm not sure how numerous they are though
/r/MensRights01/01/13 12:02 PM
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The problem arises with defining feminism. It is a banner term for a philosophy that covers a lot of different ideas and concepts which a lot of feminists argue with each other about. Not all feminists believe in patriarchy theory and by attacking feminism rather than specific concepts and ideas which are under the banner of feminism we attack people who do not deserve it. In truth, not all feminists are like that
/r/MensRights01/01/13 11:49 AM
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the general public. We already have a reputation for being angry misogynists. It is better not to confirm that reputation for people who take a quick glance at the reddit
/r/MensRights01/01/13 11:36 AM
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and this is why the MRM is dismissed as just a bunch of angry dudes
/r/MensRights01/01/13 10:59 AM
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Indian society is fucked, plain and simple. It treats men and women awfully but in different ways. It needs an egalitarian movement to help both sides without pointing the blame at anyone else
/r/MensRights29/12/12 01:52 PM
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I would say the dismissal of any criticism as concern trolling is a much bigger problem
/r/MensRights24/12/12 09:27 AM
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you need butter too!
/r/MensRights23/12/12 12:44 AM
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If they offer male only sessions I wouldnt mind too much
/r/MensRights21/12/12 12:33 PM
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downvoted for calling out the downvoting
/r/MensRights19/12/12 04:32 PM
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Children of lesbian couples do far better than children of a single mother
/r/MensRights19/12/12 03:59 PM
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no. we arent your personal upvote brigade to make your trolling more visible
/r/MensRights17/12/12 04:58 PM
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A man forced to penetrate by a woman is not recognised as rape under Irish law if you are interested
/r/MensRights17/12/12 12:21 PM
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Pretty much any criticism on this sub (especially that aimed at AVfM) is dismissed as concern trolling or accusations that the critic is a feminist
/r/MensRights17/12/12 09:26 AM
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He is a hypocrite. Also he makes it sound like the flak he received was for doxxing. In reality, most of the criticism he received in the last couple of threads by him were over his use of male shaming language as an insult and for his immature arguments style
/r/MensRights17/12/12 12:05 AM
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Well he did just make a post about the principle of moral universality....
/r/MensRights16/12/12 11:54 PM
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JtO's name is out there. It is removed by the mods when it is out there but it can be found with some googling
/r/MensRights16/12/12 11:02 PM
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Its a bit hypocritical for JtO to use a pen name and call out other people for want anonymity
/r/MensRights16/12/12 11:01 PM
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Its true. If you disagree you are just a concern troll and will be ignored
/r/MensRights16/12/12 10:49 PM
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Exactly. Which is why JtO doesnt use his real name even though he participates in real world activism and his full name is removed by the mods whenever it is posted here
/r/MensRights16/12/12 10:46 PM
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how can you tell what is a 'natural' gender role and what is a socially constructed one?
/r/MensRights16/12/12 08:43 PM
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You do know that gender roles have vary considerably depending on the culture dont you?
/r/MensRights16/12/12 04:12 PM
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old
/r/MensRights15/12/12 12:54 AM
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This sub has been steadily declining into an anti feminism circle jerk
/r/MensRights13/12/12 01:33 PM
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Thats what happens when you start a thread to answer criticisms but then dodge them
/r/MensRights12/12/12 09:53 AM
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Oh yes because calling people pea brained morons really riles people up
/r/MensRights12/12/12 09:53 AM
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Very mature.
/r/MensRights11/12/12 10:23 PM
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so calling people pea brained, morons and sissies (nice bit of male shaming there, cant have anyone straying from the male gender role without shaming them can we?) you think it actually will make people take you seriously? Calling out bigotry is one thing, it is drawing attention to a specific behaviour, infantile insults just make you and by extension the whole MRM look bad
/r/MensRights11/12/12 10:06 PM
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Seeing as you cant answer my previous question how about this? Why do you think I am a troll? Is everyone that disagrees with you a troll or is it just people with legitimate questions that you cant answer?
/r/MensRights11/12/12 09:50 PM
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No I'm not and you are avoiding the question. Do you think that name calling helps or hinders your arguments?
/r/MensRights11/12/12 09:39 PM
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so you think that by calling people names you make progress?
/r/MensRights11/12/12 09:29 PM
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Until then, SFTU. 'addendum: I know I'm not going to make friends by calling people "morons" and "pea-brains". It's fortunate that making friends is lower on my priority list than opposing the male-targeted hatred and violence and censorship our esteemed opponents on the opposite side of this conflict appear so keen to promote. ' People wont take you seriously by using childish insults. They serve no purpose other than making you sound like an ass
/r/MensRights11/12/12 07:33 PM
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Way too late
/r/MensRights11/12/12 11:01 AM
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what would be the difference? Is this the long awaited schism between the antifeminist AVFM style MRA's and the moderates or is it just for long term posters to cut out the newbies and SRS'ers?
/r/MensRights10/12/12 10:58 PM
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But the government is just a front for the feminist Illuminati so they can steal our freedom and turn it into abortions!
/r/MensRights10/12/12 10:41 PM
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Who said it is about pedohysteria though? I wouldnt want a babysitter posting pics of my kids without my permission
/r/MensRights10/12/12 06:00 PM
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how this relevant?
/r/MensRights10/12/12 05:05 PM
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you know about as much about socialism as glenn beck
/r/MensRights10/12/12 04:15 PM
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How would you describe the MRM then?
/r/MensRights10/12/12 02:33 PM
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The debt crisis was not caused by socialism, if anything it was caused by unregulated banking
/r/MensRights10/12/12 12:01 PM
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Just a stab in the dark but are those experiences with american socialists?
/r/MensRights10/12/12 11:56 AM
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+1
/r/MensRights10/12/12 11:55 AM
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I consider myself a socialist and we arent all like that. Socialism is an economic philosophy, it has nothing to do with gender issues
/r/MensRights10/12/12 11:54 AM
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im glad
/r/MensRights09/12/12 09:28 AM
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damn I really hate those imputations of malice. It feels like hes imputing malice upon me by accusing me of imputations of malice. I just cant stand imputations, especially of the malicious kind
/r/MensRights08/12/12 10:26 PM
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I never thought you would stoop to name calling. It cheapens the whole message of this letter and makes it sound childish
/r/MensRights08/12/12 10:05 AM
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So man up everybody or feel the shame!
/r/MensRights05/12/12 10:49 PM
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no.
/r/MensRights05/12/12 07:03 PM
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Cos on this forum feminists are evil incarnate
/r/MensRights02/12/12 07:44 PM
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Dont use stats. There are always other stats that prove the contrary. Use emotion (not quite intellectually rigorous but it works) and basic logic. Avoid controversial topics and stick to stuff that most people will agree with eg paternal leave, circumcision and rape law for male victims
/r/MensRights01/12/12 08:10 PM
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Write to the parents association. The school rarely listens to pupils but a few irrate parents can make huge changes
/r/MensRights28/11/12 09:36 PM
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This has nothing to do with mens rights. It is widely known that eyewitness testimony is next to useless
/r/MensRights28/11/12 06:59 PM
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Not gonna happen on reddit. I'm afraid
/r/MensRights26/11/12 09:41 AM
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wrong sub.post it to /r/fuckedupandstupid
/r/MensRights25/11/12 01:35 PM
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The reddit MRM is mostly just antifeminism and slacktivists. A thread will start with a title somewhat related to male discrimination and the rest of the discussion will be blaming feminists and saying how evil they all are no matter what their beliefs are. To the vast majority of the reddit MRAs once you call yourself a feminist you are automatically evil and endorse the worst aspects of radical extremist feminism
/r/MensRights25/11/12 12:39 AM
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How is this relevant to mens rights?
/r/MensRights24/11/12 03:48 PM
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how is that relevant?
/r/MensRights21/11/12 11:22 PM
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And this is why we arent taken seriously
/r/MensRights21/11/12 10:23 PM
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I should note that I posted the article only for discussion and for the general gist of the article. The writer is widely regarded as some what of a troll and is known for having opinions unsupported by evidence
/r/MensRights21/11/12 09:47 PM
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PUA's play a valuable role in the MRM. They offer proof of how fucked up the dating game is. By showing the dating game for what it is ie power for sex, they offer an insight into society as a whole
/r/MensRights18/11/12 09:15 PM
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Bring a female family member with you when you speak to her again. Do not bring a male or female friend as a male will be less trusted in the courts eyes and a non relative female would be accused of being a sex partner
/r/MensRights17/11/12 12:55 PM
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How is this related to mens rights other than reinforcing the stereotype that we are all misogynists?
/r/MensRights16/11/12 10:17 AM
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The Old Spice Boys?
/r/MensRights14/11/12 07:23 PM
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Its a safe space for everything you know
/r/MensRights13/11/12 05:56 PM
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all of them?
/r/MensRights10/11/12 10:16 AM
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Thats why you always cite your sources. Bring them to the principle
/r/MensRights10/11/12 01:07 AM
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The Old Guard vs New Guard hostility is the same reason for 'misogyny in nerd culture' Heres my reply from a discussion on a different sub 'IMO the problem is people, typically younger and of both genders dressing, acting and becoming 'nerdy'. These get rejected by older nerds as posers who do not understand what nerdiness is. The reason behind this is that the older generation of nerds grew up nerdy when it wasnt cool and were called nerds and geeks as insults. They grew up and accepted themsel…
/r/MensRights04/11/12 09:37 AM
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I'm pretty sure that counts as libel/slander
/r/MensRights01/11/12 11:06 PM
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A drunk person cannot give meaningful consent
/r/MensRights29/10/12 09:21 AM
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Yup. Thats kinda how bills work
/r/MensRights23/10/12 09:14 AM
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Is paying your electricity bills a tax?
/r/MensRights22/10/12 04:35 PM
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spam
/r/MensRights17/10/12 09:43 PM
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Not a stated reason. You wouldnt say that because it leaves you open for accusations of discrimination
/r/MensRights14/10/12 05:34 PM
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It only really holds for the US which is where the study was carried out. It does suggest that there is some discrimination against women but this is not unexpected. University labs can be intense places and I would not be surprised if they were less likely to hire women purely because they can take maternity leave. I work in a university lab and it is a massive blow to the department when a lab manager leaves because they have some much specialised skills and information specific to that lab. I…
/r/MensRights14/10/12 05:25 PM
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Was it your birthday suit?
/r/MensRights14/10/12 04:57 PM
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There is more than enough information in r/intactivists or just google it
/r/MensRights12/10/12 09:54 PM
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You are completely wrong
/r/MensRights12/10/12 09:35 PM
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Of course not. Biology is part of STEM and thats not hard. It is the science equivalent of doing arts
/r/MensRights11/10/12 10:41 PM
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so its another creepy nsfw sub? Dox the mods!
/r/MensRights11/10/12 09:35 PM
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and?
/r/MensRights11/10/12 09:28 PM
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I would disagree. There is a lot of stupid shit here and the most important discussions arent the ones that go on in MRM spaces, it is discussions of mens rights in other spaces which make outsiders think about men and how they are treated as a class
/r/MensRights10/10/12 08:24 PM
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The rightsbot automagically copies everything posted
/r/MensRights10/10/12 07:33 PM
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Which means it wont attract as many trolls or time wasters posting facebook arguments or reposts. It would separate the grain from the chaff
/r/MensRights10/10/12 07:33 PM
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Part of me thinks that it wouldnt be a bad thing if /r/MR dies. The MRM has various other sites and outlets for discussions and it might be the push needed for some people to get out of cyberspace and into meatspace activism
/r/MensRights10/10/12 07:03 PM
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Define leftist
/r/MensRights09/10/12 01:07 PM
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When every woman is happy at all times
/r/MensRights07/10/12 05:28 PM
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I am not a mod, I havent banned anyone
/r/MensRights06/10/12 07:43 PM
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I was banned there for calling someone an idiot. They insulted and ad hom'd me countless times but they were not banned
/r/MensRights06/10/12 09:13 AM
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If you disagree you must be a feminist!
/r/MensRights04/10/12 07:15 PM
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Well there are no female mass murderers who are as recognisable as Hitler and co and if it was 2 men having sex there would be more outcry from the conservative right
/r/MensRights04/10/12 08:58 AM
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To get the idea out there that if you are HIV+ and you have unprotected sex with someone, you are committing murder and the person can unknowingly spread it further and therefore it becomes mass murder
/r/MensRights03/10/12 09:32 PM
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Yes it does. It doesnt say 'men spreading HIV is mass murder' does it? Not every poster needs to have a male and female victim you know
/r/MensRights03/10/12 09:25 PM
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because there are people here who view any male being depicted in a negative light as misandry
/r/MensRights03/10/12 09:18 PM
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Not at all. It is likening spreading HIV to mass murder, hence using well known figures associated with mass murder. These are specific people, not generic male figures
/r/MensRights03/10/12 09:15 PM
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the most recognizable instigators of genocide have been men. I have no issue here
/r/MensRights03/10/12 09:06 PM
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no its not
/r/MensRights01/10/12 09:57 PM
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If AVFM were open about where the money guys they might get more. Personally I would rather donate to a specific event rather than just the site
/r/MensRights01/10/12 06:01 PM
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'Advocating for violence/illegal acts may be removed (this is not the same as advocating for changes to the laws governing these acts)' Why is there not a zero tolerance policy?
/r/MensRights30/09/12 07:36 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/MensRights28/09/12 03:56 PM
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I often hear it called Éire, both at home and from foreigners. Many do it as a mark of respect
/r/MensRights28/09/12 03:54 PM
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Technically speaking abortion is not contraception and it is possible for people to travel north of the border and get one
/r/MensRights28/09/12 03:42 PM
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Éire it the Irish name. It is perfectly acceptable
/r/MensRights28/09/12 03:41 PM
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Ah yea I forgot. Thanks for pointing that out
/r/MensRights28/09/12 11:28 AM
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Law making over here is pretty slow and there are issues with the way our constitution was written. We had to bring in a blasphemy law for similar reasons even though no one has any intention of ever using it just because to remove it would mean holding a constitutional referendum which is too much hassle and money for the government at the moment. A ruling was made 10 years ago that means that the government has to legislate on abortion yet it hasnt been dont because no government wants to be t…
/r/MensRights27/09/12 10:17 PM
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and this has what to do with mens rights?
/r/MensRights27/09/12 07:20 PM
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Whats your ideal date?
/r/MensRights27/09/12 10:26 AM
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Just search on sciencedirect or the lancet
/r/MensRights24/09/12 08:27 PM
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it permeates all of our lives in more ways than we realise
/r/MensRights24/09/12 07:25 AM
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Theres no such thing as a good Mexican, they just suppress there instincts better. It is bred into them as part of the Mexriarchy
/r/MensRights23/09/12 09:18 PM
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He talks about people using 'the fear of crime' rather than crime stats to pressure the government into passing legislation and he ridicules it comparing it to the fear of zombies rather than actual zombies. This is akin to rape culture which talks about the fear of rape rather than actual rape
/r/MensRights23/09/12 12:57 PM
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Very true! I'm glad people are finally waking up and having Zombie Walks to raise awareness about how are culture endorses the feasting of the undead upon the living
/r/MensRights23/09/12 11:51 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YMvMb90hem8
/r/MensRights23/09/12 09:32 AM
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Boards.ie is more late 20's + age group
/r/MensRights22/09/12 03:57 PM
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Ireland is decent enough as we dont have the massive money grabbing divorce culture that the US does and most girls here are down to earth. It is changing though as our youth culture is becoming more americanised and there is a generation of self entitled princesses growing up
/r/MensRights22/09/12 10:32 AM
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whatabouthemensrea??!!!!?!!?!?!1111!?!
/r/MensRights21/09/12 05:31 PM
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These reddits are mostly troll reddits and are inhabited by SRS people to smear the MRM
/r/MensRights21/09/12 01:04 PM
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Gender roles, not traditionalism is the problem. If a guy wants to live his life in the traditional manner its his choice, the problem arises when men are pressured and raised to live this role even though it does not suit them
/r/MensRights20/09/12 06:56 PM
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Everything by Warren Farrell
/r/MensRights18/09/12 09:52 PM
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Its a looooooong shot but if you can get a good lawyer you might be able to make a case for rape as your consent was dependent on contraception similar to cases which have been levelled at guys for not wearing condoms. You would need a sympathetic judge and it is extremely unlikely that it would work but you should look into all options
/r/MensRights15/09/12 11:05 PM
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:)
/r/MensRights15/09/12 10:19 AM
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We do not support gender stereotyping of any sort in this sub
/r/MensRights15/09/12 12:49 AM
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Womans body, womans choice. Its as simple as that
/r/MensRights15/09/12 12:31 AM
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Proof?
/r/MensRights15/09/12 12:28 AM
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Whats wrong with helping someone in need? I would hate to live in a society where no one would help a fellow human being who needed it
/r/MensRights14/09/12 11:39 PM
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Maybe now but she could stretch the term 'generous' to include inconvenient times for you in the future if she decides to give you grief. I dont think this is likely as you seem to have a pretty solid agreement but there is always the possibility
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:18 PM
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3) is a bit too ambiguous for my liking
/r/MensRights14/09/12 09:09 PM
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I would rather if it would only let you downvote if you leave a comment to explain why you disagree with the comment
/r/MensRights14/09/12 01:32 PM
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I came up against this recently too. According to the law here they can make whatever rules they want if the owner is living in the house or there is already a tenant renting the place
/r/MensRights13/09/12 03:30 PM
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Dont you tell me not to rape! It oppresses my freedom
/r/MensRights12/09/12 07:34 PM
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Which is not always the best when a controversial movement is trying to gain credibility and support
/r/MensRights12/09/12 03:31 PM
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Wow thats an awful lot of projecting you are doing there
/r/MensRights12/09/12 03:30 PM
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I would rather JtO. He is more likeable and less likely to say something controversial which would damage the movement. Paul Elam would be more likely to say some incendiary just to increase the traffic (for the wrong reasons) to his website
/r/MensRights11/09/12 09:55 PM
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Not really. If anything it reinforces the traditional gender stereotype that men should be able to do everything and not ask for help
/r/MensRights10/09/12 07:44 AM
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Care to explain what it has to do with mens rights? And downvote away, no one really cares
/r/MensRights09/09/12 10:50 PM
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Completely irrelevant to this sub
/r/MensRights09/09/12 10:17 PM
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How were the pies?
/r/MensRights09/09/12 06:32 PM
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/r/ShitRedditSays A forum of hardcore radical feminists who hate pretty much everyone, including moderate feminists
/r/MensRights08/09/12 01:37 PM
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You always have the choice to wear what you want in public although you do risk getting hassle for it if you live in a conservative area. Shops cater to whatever sells so if men start dressing differently the shops will cater to the changing fashion Work and formal dress is a different issue. Men are pretty much restricted to a suit or slacks and a shirt. It is rather restrictive although personally I like it because I dont have to worry about choosing my outfit beyond making sure my tie doesnt …
/r/MensRights08/09/12 11:58 AM
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Learn what a troll is first of all and in no way did I insult them
/r/MensRights07/09/12 09:15 PM
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So you have no problem when guys apologise on your behalf for rapists?
/r/MensRights07/09/12 08:28 PM
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Great job but no one needs to apologise on behalf of their gender ever. No one is responsible for anyone elses actions
/r/MensRights07/09/12 01:17 PM
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He shot a cop and had outstanding warrants. It is sad yes but it was his own fault for trying to fight cops
/r/MensRights07/09/12 09:18 AM
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This is nothing to do with male rights
/r/MensRights07/09/12 09:08 AM
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Keep this misogynistic shit out of here
/r/MensRights07/09/12 09:01 AM
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Other than that good work. Its nice to have something other than AVFM to link to
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:25 PM
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Do they have an article about all the girls who arent growing into real women because they arent popping out babies and doing housework?
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:08 PM
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Disgusting. The MRM doesnt need pieces of shit like you
/r/MensRights05/09/12 10:48 PM
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I wouldnt put false accusations as the first point. It is controversial as many people automatically assume you are a rape apologist and it isnt as widespread in other countries as it is in the US. I would lead with fathers rights or circumcision as it is a more moderate issue that most people have no arguments with and lead from there. I also dont see the need to mention feminism and anti feminism at all. It is an intro to the MRM and it should focus solely on mens issues, many people looking t…
/r/MensRights05/09/12 10:47 PM
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For raising him probably father and child reunion or the myth of male power
/r/MensRights05/09/12 08:47 PM
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Real men can handle themselves if a woman attacks them Real men never hit women Real men always fight back QED Real men are punching bags for women
/r/MensRights05/09/12 10:54 AM
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This is relevant. I posted there literally one or two times to point out that men and women face different kinds of discrimination https://twitter.com/Aerik/status/243144349356003329
/r/MensRights05/09/12 08:50 AM
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Read everything by Warren Farrell
/r/MensRights05/09/12 12:33 AM
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No one will take them seriously if the best resources you can point them to are reddit and wikipedia
/r/MensRights04/09/12 11:06 PM
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Not the womans requirements, the survival of the next generation and the propagation of the species
/r/MensRights04/09/12 10:33 PM
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I can understand that. I used to dress like a metal head in my teens and people would treat you like a freak. Even recently since I grew a beard I find people respect me a lot more than when I was just your average white guy in his 20's
/r/MensRights04/09/12 04:27 PM
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The sweet tooth is more to do with identifying calorie rich food than vitamins but the rest of the video is good
/r/MensRights04/09/12 12:00 PM
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congratulations you are a man woman hating radical feminist MRA who thinks that there is no way for women men to get along with men women!
/r/MensRights04/09/12 10:55 AM
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The MRM doesnt blame gynocentrism. It doesnt have an official ideology and the most common cause suggested is gender roles which evolved from a survivalist society which needed to exploit biological differences between the sexes
/r/MensRights04/09/12 08:42 AM
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They identify with the Suffragettes because they were the first womens rights activists in the west in modern times
/r/MensRights04/09/12 08:07 AM
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I think it is making fun of stereotyping and feeling intimidated when there is no reason to be more than being specifically anti male
/r/MensRights03/09/12 06:28 PM
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He handled that very well. The landlord is a hilariously bad actor
/r/MensRights03/09/12 01:49 PM
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It sounds like she was on a power trip more than anything else
/r/MensRights02/09/12 11:38 PM
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get in touch with fathers for justice. I'm sure a lot of their members would be interested
/r/MensRights02/09/12 11:28 AM
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The MRM doesnt need this petty x posting bs. Downvoting does fuck all
/r/MensRights01/09/12 10:56 PM
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Abortion is always an option as is the morning after pill
/r/MensRights01/09/12 10:35 PM
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Psychological damage is the main damage done by rape which is equal between the genders
/r/MensRights01/09/12 10:23 PM
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Because wiki is a reliable source
/r/MensRights01/09/12 07:40 PM
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The america prison system is actually a rape culture, its what the term was originally used to describe. Many people view it as part of their punishment so there isnt much interest in stopping it
/r/MensRights01/09/12 04:28 PM
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Stupid article
/r/MensRights31/08/12 11:34 PM
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This is bullshit. Its no better than the anti-male separatists of 2nd wave feminism
/r/MensRights31/08/12 10:54 PM
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That would be incredibly insulting to trans people
/r/MensRights31/08/12 11:15 AM
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The MRM doesnt need this bullshit
/r/MensRights30/08/12 10:57 PM
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You mean Derry.
/r/MensRights30/08/12 04:30 PM
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But the real message is one of misogyny. He is forcing heels upon women as a group and enforcing stereotypes. Misogyny I say! MISOGYNYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!
/r/MensRights30/08/12 08:40 AM
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Then why doesnt he let Hillary have his job?
/r/MensRights30/08/12 08:28 AM
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Send them an exceedingly polite email detailing the flaws and offering the studies which are more accurate. Dont mention mens rights or feminism though
/r/MensRights29/08/12 04:34 PM
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Check what they are in your state but keeping a written record should be sufficient if you alert the authorities and lawyer early enough
/r/MensRights28/08/12 09:13 PM
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Make contact with the police now and give the a heads up. Get a lawyer and record everything
/r/MensRights28/08/12 09:07 PM
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+1
/r/MensRights28/08/12 04:32 PM
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Yikes. My uni just has posters telling you to use contraception and phone numbers for STI clinics
/r/MensRights28/08/12 12:27 AM
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Diamonds are a womans best friend duh
/r/MensRights28/08/12 12:13 AM
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I disagree with quotas regardless of gender
/r/MensRights27/08/12 01:04 PM
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I'm pretty sure that would count as assault and she could lose her license to practice
/r/MensRights26/08/12 10:18 PM
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Dont talk to her. Tell her if she wants to talk you can have a meeting with both your lawyers present to prevent and skullduggery on her part
/r/MensRights26/08/12 09:12 PM
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Over here it usually refers to when a guy tucks his junk between his legs and it looks like he has a vagina. hence mangina
/r/MensRights26/08/12 08:12 PM
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More often than not it is but I've seen it used legitimately in some of the feminism reddits when guys bring up male issues when they are discussing unrelated female issues that genuinely need addressing
/r/MensRights26/08/12 11:29 AM
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She was a musician, I would have done the same
/r/MensRights26/08/12 11:04 AM
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Yes but that is negating minor attributes. Objectification is usually used to describe when you negate everything except their physical being, reducing them down to essentially a living statue
/r/MensRights26/08/12 01:06 AM
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You dont understand the term. To objectify someone is to view them purely as a physical object and negate their personality, intellect etc
/r/MensRights26/08/12 12:08 AM
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It depends on the context. If there is a discussion on female inequality and someone brings up unrelated male issues then I dont mind it. If it is used as a silencing tactic then yes it pisses me off
/r/MensRights25/08/12 11:59 PM
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Yes it is. If a guy has a dispostition to be a protector, great let him do it but there is no need to raise all guys telling them that it is their duty to protect
/r/MensRights25/08/12 11:11 AM
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Or you could just oppose Romney because he is an idiot. Not everything has to be about mens rights
/r/MensRights25/08/12 10:46 AM
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Equal opportunities, not equal outcomes. Also I want children raised without being socialized into different gender roles based on their genitals
/r/MensRights25/08/12 10:46 AM
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Maybe it smelled like someone had emptied their bowels....because she had emptied her bowels?! Suspicious....
/r/MensRights25/08/12 08:15 AM
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She has a point though. Women do need time to recover after giving birth
/r/MensRights24/08/12 10:23 PM
2

I do this too
/r/MensRights24/08/12 10:12 PM
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She didnt want trolls obviously and there is no guarantee that she would have added his video. She sounded like she was humoring him because he identified as a supporter
/r/MensRights24/08/12 02:39 PM
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it is a pretty short period of leave though
/r/MensRights24/08/12 02:32 PM
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She didnt endorse it though. She just said that the program they are running is people saying what is their opinion, not hers or her organisation
/r/MensRights24/08/12 02:28 PM
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She never said anything bad and if anything she sounded uneasy
/r/MensRights24/08/12 08:51 AM
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Evidence?
/r/MensRights24/08/12 08:27 AM
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Wrong, check the facts
/r/MensRights24/08/12 08:14 AM
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I agree 100%. MGTOW members seem especially prone to this
/r/MensRights24/08/12 08:13 AM
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You can believe an associate with whatever system you want. There is no official MRM dogma. I support many feminist goals and issues although I do not call myself a feminist because I disagree with their ideology insofar as many of the beliefs they take as axiomatic are founded upon postmodern philosophy which has been rubbished over and over
/r/MensRights24/08/12 08:06 AM
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So basically a webpage they update and the info stays in the cloud? Sounds like an online blog except its private
/r/MensRights23/08/12 10:47 PM
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Do male students have access to the faculty lounge and is it a safe space for them to talk about their issues?
/r/MensRights23/08/12 10:39 PM
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pointless
/r/MensRights23/08/12 10:20 AM
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Well I think she is shallow and pedantic
/r/MensRights23/08/12 09:47 AM
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They are incredibly unfair. Dont sign it. Also a prenup is between you and your wife, not her family. It is none of their business and by the sound of it you need to nip this in the bud or they will always be interfering in your marriage
/r/MensRights23/08/12 08:47 AM
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no,no
/r/MensRights23/08/12 08:29 AM
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Most of the MRM is pro choice as far as I can tell
/r/MensRights22/08/12 10:14 AM
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You are going to have to specify which feminists you are talking about. Many agree with us on circumcision
/r/MensRights22/08/12 09:10 AM
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He does lactate, just not to the same degree as a woman. He was born female and had breast reduction as part of his transition
/r/MensRights21/08/12 10:41 PM
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actually 50% percent is neither and it is wrong to assume that every divorce is unfair
/r/MensRights21/08/12 08:44 PM
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Wow a lot more restrained than he needed to be
/r/MensRights21/08/12 08:40 PM
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Stop blaming an entire gender for the actions of a minority. It is the unfair laws and unscrupulous lawyers that are to blame
/r/MensRights21/08/12 08:29 PM
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Either way I think he would be disqualified, either for being born a male or transitioning and becoming a male. Masculinity is viewed as a negative trait in these situations
/r/MensRights21/08/12 07:50 PM
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I hope we do not get associated with this gobshite
/r/MensRights21/08/12 07:46 PM
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What a little turd. He couldnt defend his arguments in a debate so he waits until Joe cant respond and spews shit. I cant wait for Joe to respond
/r/MensRights21/08/12 07:36 PM
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Call them out. MR is controversial enough as it is. We need to keep our space free of trolls and misogynists so we dont end up full or extremists and douchebags like other movements
/r/MensRights20/08/12 05:53 PM
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They should be for both genders
/r/MensRights20/08/12 05:42 PM
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Its too diverse to pin down. There are different philosophies within feminism that have almost no overlap
/r/MensRights20/08/12 08:22 AM
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http://www.azcentral.com/ent/celeb/articles/2009/02/26/20090226browndefense.html The pic of his lip http://www.anorak.co.uk/274915/celebrities/music-celebrities/rihanna-gave-chris-browns-fat-head-a-matching-lip-photo.html/
/r/MensRights20/08/12 07:59 AM
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Given how the media usually treats man vs women issues and how Rihanna is their little starlet its not surprising
/r/MensRights19/08/12 08:58 PM
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He had a fat lip but he wasnt as beat up as she was although if anyone fucks with me while I'm driving I get really stressed out because I could potentially crash and kill everyone so I could see why he overreacted
/r/MensRights19/08/12 07:16 PM
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Its gray and it would probably be considered some form of implied continuous consent. I wouldnt agree with it though. If shes having a seizure you should help her, not finish your fuck
/r/MensRights19/08/12 06:35 PM
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She hit him first http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2011/03/chris-brown-abuse-photo-did-rihanna-strike-first/ Sorry for the source but I read it in more reputable sources around the time
/r/MensRights19/08/12 04:04 PM
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It is sexism that girls and boys are valued differently but I agree with the sentiment
/r/MensRights19/08/12 09:15 AM
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Leave out feminism in the article. If you appear anti-feminist most people will assume you are anti-womens rights and think the MRM is a bunch of guys who want women back in the kitchen. Focus on the issues, problems and double standards. Let them reach their own conclusion on the cause
/r/MensRights19/08/12 08:38 AM
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The term Rape Culture originated from a critique of the prison system oddly enough
/r/MensRights19/08/12 08:05 AM
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1) Disregard for men and male issues in the public sphere 2) Gender role policing 3) The abuse of men in family and divorce courts
/r/MensRights18/08/12 10:02 PM
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Just another news reporter misinterpreting scientific data that they are not trained to understand
/r/MensRights18/08/12 11:09 AM
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Are you an idiot or just ignorant?
/r/MensRights17/08/12 09:40 AM
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I can see that they are trying to bring attention to the MRM but this will just make us look silly in the public eye
/r/MensRights17/08/12 09:06 AM
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Are you saying that nothing good has ever come from feminism?
/r/MensRights17/08/12 08:43 AM
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I dont think its appropriate behaviour for the olympics but it has nothing to do with mens rights
/r/MensRights17/08/12 08:34 AM
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That isnt discrimination, it is responding to market forces
/r/MensRights17/08/12 08:08 AM
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I'm not saying its not possible and if as much research had gone into it as the female pill we would definitely have it by now but there are a lot of different factors that companies take into account when they are looking for new drugs. A couple of companies stopped their research into it when a number of studies came out that showed most women wouldnt trust a man if he said he was on it and married couples would prefer to use the female pill as it had a proven track record. They decided it was…
/r/MensRights16/08/12 09:32 PM
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This is more research being done into it but it isnt very promising. Most pills for male contraception have a higher risk of causing permanent sterility than for females because the pill takes advantage of the fact that women have a natural temporary period of infertility and uses hormones to sustain this temporary infertility
/r/MensRights16/08/12 09:25 PM
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The wikipedia page is probably the best source for the non specialist reader. I can give you journal references if you have access to them
/r/MensRights16/08/12 10:10 AM
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Drug design chemist here. It was abandoned because it had too many side effects and was too risky. Theres no need to bring discrimination into it when there is none
/r/MensRights16/08/12 08:20 AM
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How is she being a hypocrite? She has been open to donations for a long time
/r/MensRights15/08/12 11:11 PM
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Yes it is. People are free to do what they want. If you dont like it move the fuck along
/r/MensRights15/08/12 11:07 PM
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The movement is focused on discrimination faced on the basis of gender, not race, disability status or orientation. We stand for the rights of every man as a man. That is not to say the vast majority of us dont support these causes but we are a movement with one goal in mind
/r/MensRights15/08/12 10:29 PM
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No one is forcing you to donate. She is a valued member of the community and if people want to help her out thats their choice
/r/MensRights15/08/12 09:23 PM
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Its only an issue when you only do it for women or when they expect it solely because of their gender
/r/MensRights14/08/12 12:47 PM
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Will they ever realise there is a difference between sexual harrassment and unwanted sexual attention?
/r/MensRights14/08/12 08:01 AM
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I hope they extends this policy so Jews cant sit next to Muslims /sarcasm
/r/MensRights13/08/12 08:24 PM
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I agree, especially with associating MGTOW with all MRA's. I oppose this movement I and I wouldnt like to see the MRM turn out like the feminist movement where you cannot discuss the movement without considering the more extreme groups on the same level as the moderates
/r/MensRights13/08/12 07:38 PM
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Irrelevant. Downvote and move on
/r/MensRights13/08/12 11:49 AM
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Socialism has nothing to do with gender or quotas
/r/MensRights13/08/12 10:48 AM
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If the male is uncirmcumcised the frenulum is often torn during rape and is evidence of sexual violence
/r/MensRights12/08/12 09:38 AM
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We are a movement of people working for the rights of all men. We do not need to fragment ourselves
/r/MensRights10/08/12 10:45 PM
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A close friend endured 3 years of domestic violence but couldnt/wouldnt leave because there was nothing to help him and he didnt want to leave his daughter with his wife. He eventually ended up in a coma after she got drunk and attacked him with his golf clubs and she got custody of the child despite her history of violence
/r/MensRights10/08/12 10:28 PM
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Um...how?
/r/MensRights10/08/12 01:40 AM
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Bullshit
/r/MensRights10/08/12 01:32 AM
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check the mens rights directory
/r/MensRights09/08/12 11:31 PM
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Traditionalist douchebag. Men are men because of what they are, not what they do. Also I dont think feminism has any objections to any of those activities
/r/MensRights09/08/12 11:24 PM
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There is a pretty disgusting case in Ireland at the moment where a business man abused a young girl for years and is pretty much buying himself out of a prison sentence
/r/MensRights09/08/12 08:19 AM
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I think I can sum up the opinions of most people of the subreddit. Guys shouldnt feel ashamed or be ridiculed for using male grooming products but they shouldnt feel the need to conform to high standards of vanity to be accepted in society
/r/MensRights08/08/12 01:46 PM
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No blacks allowed-its a cultural thing
/r/MensRights07/08/12 01:52 PM
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It could be down to the way they talk to the boys. She doesnt explain what she meant by the statement but it could be that girls are very forward about demanding pleasure from guys then publicly shaming them on their performance if they werent up to scratch. We cant really judge without knowing what she meant
/r/MensRights07/08/12 01:18 PM
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In fairness Irish jokes are just plain old racism. I pretty laid back with offensive humour but context has a huge role to play in it. People dont seem to realise that it wasnt uncommon for pubs to have 'no dogs, no blacks, no Irish' signs up until the late 60's and unspoken racism well after that
/r/MensRights07/08/12 11:38 AM
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hahah They are both tools that feed the patriarchy!
/r/MensRights05/08/12 08:56 PM
1

What do spoons and misogyny have in common?
/r/MensRights05/08/12 08:37 PM
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Thats a spoon
/r/MensRights05/08/12 06:57 PM
0

Abortion is illegal in many countries
/r/MensRights05/08/12 06:53 PM
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I think the best strategy would be to run and express in interest in male issues like family court restructuring rather than openly declare themselves as an MRA
/r/MensRights05/08/12 03:05 PM
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I dont believe in class privileges as it reduces human beings down to objects with certain attributes but i do believe that women have advantages which men dont, at least in my own society
/r/MensRights04/08/12 01:10 AM
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It depends on how drunk you are. There is definitely a point when you are not capable to give consent
/r/MensRights03/08/12 05:54 PM
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I think this is the first time male rape has made me happy
/r/MensRights03/08/12 05:50 PM
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suicide and the neglect and lack of empathy for male suffering. emotion vs fact in public debate ie someone think of the poor disadvantaged women. the demonisation of male sexuality. men and fatherhood
/r/MensRights01/08/12 10:58 PM
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The Gardaí (irish police) are very reluctant to get involved in domestic cases. Unless the Canadians release a warrant and accuse fer of kidnapping there's nothing much they can do
/r/MensRights01/08/12 10:17 PM
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because women cant be independent?
/r/MensRights29/07/12 12:45 PM
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old
/r/MensRights29/07/12 12:39 AM
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Its a pity their nappies are terrible
/r/MensRights29/07/12 12:03 AM
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Me too. I disagree with much of their philosophy and their means of solving those concerns though
/r/MensRights28/07/12 09:40 AM
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I'm a socialist and by American standards I'm far left and I am still an MRA
/r/MensRights27/07/12 04:13 PM
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I would not consider myself antifeminist although I am critical of a lot of modern feminism
/r/MensRights25/07/12 11:56 PM
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Pretty discriminatory against gays too as it implies that they are not men
/r/MensRights25/07/12 11:45 PM
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There is already the FeMRA forum
/r/MensRights21/07/12 08:48 PM
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I have no problem with it. I dont see it as degrading when the actor has consented to do it for money
/r/MensRights18/07/12 09:42 AM
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condoms are there to prevent STD's as well as pregnancy. They are the default position for sex unless the other partner says so
/r/MensRights18/07/12 12:18 AM
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I dont like it
/r/MensRights17/07/12 10:56 AM
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There are many gay guys here. We are only interested in discrimination against men because of their gender. Sexual orientation doesnt really come into it, just the same as race and other attributes
/r/MensRights16/07/12 09:54 PM
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black is so slimming and seductive This is a joke btw, not victim blaming or rape culture
/r/MensRights15/07/12 04:21 PM
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They have it so they can keep r/Feminism as a circle jerk
/r/MensRights15/07/12 12:13 AM
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I was in one but that was just a fucked up relationship in general so I ended it pretty soon. When that happens just move on and cut your losses
/r/MensRights12/07/12 05:41 PM
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Dr Oz is a quack. I wouldnt trust anything he says
/r/MensRights09/07/12 07:30 PM
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Brilliant!
/r/MensRights06/07/12 11:23 AM
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It needs to appeal to people across the world. The movement is necessary in pretty much every country in the world, focusing solely on US issues will only divide the movement
/r/MensRights06/07/12 09:23 AM
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Pointless posting this here
/r/MensRights04/07/12 12:31 AM
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No male discrimination. Saudi Arabia is way too fucked up for us to do anything about it anyway
/r/MensRights30/06/12 11:47 PM
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Any country in particular? AMEN is a great charity in Ireland for battered men and provides assistance and counseling to male victims of domestic violence http://www.amen.ie/
/r/MensRights30/06/12 11:42 PM
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I do it with girls I dont know in case they are not comfortable being touched by a randomer around the waist
/r/MensRights29/06/12 03:02 PM
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We support TG by and large. You face discrimination for being perceived as a biologically born male and we aim for equal rights for everyone. Depending on the age you started living as a man/woman you can also offer valuable insight into the difference in the way you are treated as a man and a woman
/r/MensRights29/06/12 12:00 AM
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I'm not American and I havent been following the Obamacare story closely so could someone explain what this has to do with male rights?
/r/MensRights28/06/12 03:53 PM
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And thats why american society is one of the most fucked up in the world. You are a nation of undereducated idiots who all think you know whats best
/r/MensRights28/06/12 03:52 PM
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This makes me warm and fuzzy inside
/r/MensRights28/06/12 12:04 PM
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who knows? Maybe my comment was trolling. The trolls have infiltrated us so much we troll without being aware of it
/r/MensRights26/06/12 01:11 AM
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are you sure you arent being trolled while trying to troll them?
/r/MensRights26/06/12 12:23 AM
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care to explain?
/r/MensRights25/06/12 10:58 PM
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Tax free yes but not free Most doctors and sex health clinics usually offer free condoms if you are that stuck for them
/r/MensRights25/06/12 09:32 PM
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He is filthy rich. I'm sure he has plenty more
/r/MensRights25/06/12 08:17 PM
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He doesnt necessarily owe her money but he is looking out for her and more importantly his childrens well being. If I was in the same situation I would certainly give her money
/r/MensRights25/06/12 04:30 PM
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Its an out of court settlement which he is choosing to pay. They were together for a long time and have kids together, its not unusual that he is going to pay a large amount to her, especially seeing as they are still on good terms
/r/MensRights25/06/12 02:08 PM
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Nothing but the idea that 'groups are for pussies' is stupid and is an attempt to shame men for supporting each other
/r/MensRights24/06/12 03:32 PM
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I never said the majority of the reddit held that opinion. I said it is easy to develop that opinion reading this reddit as he expressed that he wishes to avoid women all together which is anti-woman. I invented no fictitious standpoint
/r/MensRights24/06/12 03:18 PM
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There is some truth to that but there is no need to spread outdated gender stereotypes
/r/MensRights24/06/12 02:47 PM
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Yay for oppressive stereotypes! GTFO
/r/MensRights24/06/12 02:07 PM
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Well me and a few people just walked around college and asked randomers. A lot of people will still sign even if they dont care about it and you can always open with a list of non controversial issues like paternity leave
/r/MensRights24/06/12 12:44 PM
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Do you have a student info office in your uni or a student union? In my uni you had to get a certain amount of signatures of people interested to show there was a need for the group and open a bank account in the society's name
/r/MensRights24/06/12 11:56 AM
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A bit over the top dont you think?
/r/MensRights24/06/12 11:47 AM
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Learn what a strawman is. There is no strawman there
/r/MensRights24/06/12 11:43 AM
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But honestly what are the chances of shit happening to you? Its easy to develop an anti woman point of view reading this reddit but you have to take into account this reddit is a collection of the worst outcomes, not the usual outcome
/r/MensRights23/06/12 02:18 PM
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You are being paranoid
/r/MensRights23/06/12 02:13 PM
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'Dating' is a shit way to find a partner. You end up going throw loads of women just to try and find the right one. Just live your life and you will find someone you click with without actively sorting through the chaff
/r/MensRights23/06/12 11:50 AM
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Rockingmre is a shit philosopher and he bans people from his page if they disagree with his views and try to debate with him
/r/MensRights23/06/12 11:46 AM
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and this has what to do with mens rights?
/r/MensRights23/06/12 11:39 AM
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Feminism is based on postmodern thinking and manipulates and misuses data to fit their ideology. MRA's call this out and oppose special treatment of women which feminists view as an attack on women
/r/MensRights22/06/12 06:15 PM
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I'm in the same situation but hang in their. A lot of users are angsty idealogical teenagers and the movement needs level headed people to keep the extremists and idiots in check
/r/MensRights22/06/12 06:07 PM
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Its an open forum for discussion. If you want to talk to wavegeek specifically pm him/her
/r/MensRights21/06/12 07:01 PM
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What country are you looking for information on?
/r/MensRights21/06/12 04:09 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights21/06/12 04:07 PM
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She is pretty foxy. I'm glad she is not so uptight that she freaks out over comments on her appearance
/r/MensRights21/06/12 03:14 PM
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We more than likely will. We need to stay vigilant and come down hard on extremists, misogynists, misandrists and anyone who calls for any difference in the way the genders are treated or claims that males have inherent advantages over females
/r/MensRights21/06/12 02:36 PM
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I'm currently doing a PhD and having a personality that clicks with your supervisor is more important than grades. They want someone they can work well with
/r/MensRights21/06/12 10:19 AM
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old
/r/MensRights21/06/12 02:27 AM
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Its working for me. I'll edit it and resubmit the link
/r/MensRights21/06/12 01:56 AM
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Thank you. I overlooked that but I strongly agree
/r/MensRights20/06/12 10:23 AM
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They raise valid points, non of which are discriminatory towards men
/r/MensRights20/06/12 12:36 AM
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What does this have to do with male rights? Where is the discrimination based on gender?
/r/MensRights20/06/12 12:12 AM
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It means you have at least one Y chromosome. Masculinity is culturally defined and I, along with many MRA's and Masculinitists, reject cultural definitions of men and gender roles. Men are human beings with their own free will and lifestyle preferences. They are no less of a man if they choose to wear dress,speak in a high voice and have sex with other men than if they are strong,stoic and 'manly'
/r/MensRights19/06/12 11:57 PM
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I agree with the anti feminist issue. I feel as a community we need to refocus our discussions back towards men and away from bitching about feminism. Misandry stems from anarchaic gender roles and the male stereotype, if we can fix these we will find it much easier to fix institutionalised misandry
/r/MensRights19/06/12 11:48 PM
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To be an MRA you dont need to oppose feminism, you just need to express an interest in male rights. The MRM is about male rights at its core, feminism is just something MRA's use to project their aggression towards and to explain why things are the way they are, much the same way as feminists view 'patriarchy'
/r/MensRights19/06/12 11:46 PM
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I agree with the maximum personal freedom achievable without significantly impacting on others, regardless of gender. I think this will answer all of these
/r/MensRights19/06/12 11:42 PM
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This is why we need to focus more on dismantling the male gender role. Depression and suicide is linked to self esteem and self acceptance and when society restricts what you may live your life without facing ridicule you push men into a box which they are not happy in
/r/MensRights19/06/12 09:42 AM
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Its funny but I dont see what it has to do with mens rights
/r/MensRights19/06/12 12:41 AM
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Why are the MRM so obsessed with bringing feminism into everything when it is not necessary? Gender roles and stereotypes are the main problems
/r/MensRights17/06/12 03:41 PM
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Great video. I'm glad the coverage is more sympathetic than it has been in the past and I'm especially delighted at the younger women/girls in the protest. It will hit the public much harder than a load of 'grumpy old men'
/r/MensRights17/06/12 01:18 PM
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If women can have abortions men can commit suicide whatever way they want. Its the right to bodily autonomy
/r/MensRights17/06/12 09:19 AM
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Good article but its a shame that men are still so pussy obsessed that they need to know what women prefer when really they should only be making the decision about their own body based on their own preferences Also the writer doesnt understand what smegma is. It is mostly skin,sperm and lube that has formed a cheesy substance over time due to poor hygiene. It isnt common and lubrication is not automatically smegma
/r/MensRights16/06/12 09:24 AM
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buy them on amazon
/r/MensRights16/06/12 12:06 AM
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The short answer is your experience is based on clients who have come to you. The MRM uses stats from large scale multi disciplinary academic studies. The dissonance in your experiences and the findings of studies is due to the well documented tendency for men to suffer in silence or not to seek help when they do speak out because they are told to 'man up'
/r/MensRights15/06/12 01:10 PM
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signed
/r/MensRights15/06/12 12:10 PM
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I wouldnt judge it by karma. Many redditors are teenage idiots with no experience of the professional world and it is always possible that you could be creating accounts and downvoting it. What I have outlined is the official policy of the places I have worked. You do not escalate things to HR straight away. You have to exhaust all other means first because the company will view you as a trouble maker
/r/MensRights15/06/12 09:17 AM
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you are redefining feminism to suit your own purpose. Very few, if any, feminists actually believe thats what feminism is
/r/MensRights14/06/12 11:30 PM
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will we be allowed to stand if we are masturbating or pooping? and does hovering count as sitting down?
/r/MensRights14/06/12 06:18 PM
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you obviously dont have much experience with feminism except for internet forums
/r/MensRights14/06/12 05:55 PM
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you should kick up a fuss with the school/media. Also you could have said you are gay/transgendered and would have preferred a female officer to pat you down
/r/MensRights14/06/12 05:20 PM
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he needs to talk to his supervisors first before she can make an accusation so they know whats going on
/r/MensRights14/06/12 03:42 PM
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also let someone outside of work know you are being harrassed. If you are visiting a doctor or psychologist they would be good to have on your side if it does blow up further down the line
/r/MensRights14/06/12 03:10 PM
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It would be a pyrric victory if he won the case and lost his job. It is possible to win this case once he does everything carefully
/r/MensRights14/06/12 03:05 PM
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I disagree. To identify as an MRA, all you have to do is express and interest and work towards achieving equal rights for men and changing the perception of men in society to free them from the restrictive male stereotype. You can be pro feminism and still be pro MRM. Feminism is too diverse a movement to effectively criticize as a whole, one must focus on specific people and actions when criticizing feminism
/r/MensRights14/06/12 03:03 PM
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I'm not sure about the US but that is very illegal here and even if he wins against her he would lose his job
/r/MensRights14/06/12 02:56 PM
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have you never worked in a professional company? HR issues are a huge pain in the ass for companies and they look very bad in audits and company reviews. They take up a lot of time and are a lot of hassle for people of both departments and they arent good for the company moral. By showing that you want to sort it out quickly and quietly they are more likely to be sympathetic to your case because it shows you are not looking for a lawsuit or any money.
/r/MensRights14/06/12 02:54 PM
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It is similar in my work (pharma company) except if the accused has not made outright threats you are advised to let them know you are feeling harrassed by their behaviour
/r/MensRights14/06/12 02:42 PM
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Going to HR without letting her or your supervisors about how you feel will get you fired down the line. You have to make the accused aware that you feel bullied and threatened by their behaviour unless they have made out right threats. If you take it straight to HR there is a lot of paperwork and legal issues and she could just say that she wasnt aware that her behaviour was making him uncomfortable and that he should have told her. Harrassment has to be proven and by CC'ing the email to HR the…
/r/MensRights14/06/12 02:40 PM
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yes you do. You have made the first move and by CC'ing the HR department they know about it. You have shown that you do not want to make a big deal of it and they will appreciate that
/r/MensRights14/06/12 02:34 PM
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Care to explain why?
/r/MensRights14/06/12 12:56 PM
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It depends how you do it. Where I work it is viewed better by the company to try and sort small squabbles like this out by yourselves first to avoid adding more work to HR. The email could just be a list of incidents where he felt bullied and him telling her how he feels bullied by these actions and ask that she stops without any accusations. Its best to take a soft approach with these sort of things to avoid looking like an ass
/r/MensRights14/06/12 12:51 PM
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Send her an email calling her out on her behaviour. Dont focus in on the MRA aspect of it, just outline her behaviour and how you feel about it and CC the HR department. It avoids escalating it too much but HR will still be aware of it and it will help you if the shit hits the fan later
/r/MensRights14/06/12 12:36 PM
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that article is so full of stupid
/r/MensRights13/06/12 10:38 PM
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This has nothing to do with feminism
/r/MensRights13/06/12 07:14 PM
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once they can achieve the same standards as men they should have an equal opportunity to die
/r/MensRights13/06/12 06:59 PM
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It's still stooping to their level. I prefer to take the moral high ground and call them out on their views, rather than just the knee jerk reaction
/r/MensRights12/06/12 11:05 AM
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No. We do not fight sexual discrimination with sexual discrimination. We aim to change social perceptions and we do not do this by demonising an entire gender
/r/MensRights12/06/12 10:47 AM
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It wont happen. Most MRA's view feminism as the source of all the misandry in the world and are opposed to everyone that calls themselves a feminist. Feminism is to many in the MRM what patriarchy theory is to feminists
/r/MensRights12/06/12 09:24 AM
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Men are men, regardless of their sexuality and should not be shamed for how they choose to live their life
/r/MensRights12/06/12 09:18 AM
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Its not just gay men that have to suffer their sexuality being shamed. Promiscuous heterosexual men are rarely regarded as studs despite what many say. They are assumed to be sexual predators or users of women if they have many sexual partners. Virgin shaming is also rampant, its as if for a guy to have a socially acceptable sex life he must have lost his virginity at 14 and only have ever had sex with that one woman
/r/MensRights12/06/12 08:33 AM
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I text in to local radio on relevant topics and graffitti public bathrooms with websites relevant to the MRM
/r/MensRights11/06/12 04:07 PM
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this article is talking about intentional unemployment, your statistics dont and homeless women generally resort to prostitution and earn enough money to afford a cheap apartment, thereby not being included in the homeless figures yet remaining on the unemployed figures. Also you are only talking about America
/r/MensRights10/06/12 11:32 AM
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Its just fiction. Stick to real issues
/r/MensRights10/06/12 09:03 AM
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what does this have to do with male rights?
/r/MensRights10/06/12 01:09 AM
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massive generalisation there dont you think?
/r/MensRights09/06/12 11:34 PM
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we do have the option.Its a personal choice, not one based on gender
/r/MensRights09/06/12 10:41 PM
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this has nothing to do with mens rights
/r/MensRights09/06/12 07:33 PM
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Thats because there is no cure for the rhinovirus. In medicine the goal is always to treat the disease, management of symptoms is of lesser concern and my treating the root cause you eliminate the symptoms
/r/MensRights09/06/12 05:54 PM
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this could be a feminist video if you replaced every time he says feminism with patriarchy. The harm that feminism has achieved is a symptom of the social perception of men and males being forced into gender roles, feminism is not the root cause
/r/MensRights09/06/12 03:11 PM
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Many guys are pretty sex crazed in their younger years due to the raging hormones but most guys talk up their sexuality because it is part of the male gender role that they are pushed into to be a sex crazed beast who is horny 24/7. Tell him you prefer guys who have control over their libido and standards about who he finds attractive
/r/MensRights09/06/12 02:58 PM
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because many men view women as the source of their problems and blame feminism as a proxy. I'm not saying there aren't any flaws to feminism but many MRA's use feminism the same way feminists use patriarchy theory. Misandry predates feminism and the toleration of feminist misandry is a symptom of a wider problem which is the way men are viewed and the concept of gender roles but it is not the cause of it
/r/MensRights09/06/12 02:49 PM
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we dont want this anti women BS here. We want equal treatment, not 'all women are bad, blah blah blah' male supremacist trash
/r/MensRights07/06/12 03:01 PM
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liberal socialist although many americans have distorted perceptions of what these actually are
/r/MensRights07/06/12 01:37 PM
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my fried had a rough time in family court after years of domestic abuse and still lost custody due to the tender years doctrine
/r/MensRights07/06/12 11:12 AM
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Read up on the No True Scotsman Fallacy. Feminism is a massive and complex movement and you will find beliefs from every end of the spectrum. As such it is better not to say 'feminism is against men' or 'feminists do this' and talk about specific individuals/organisations and their actions rather than the whole feminist movement
/r/MensRights07/06/12 10:05 AM
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Its your body,your choice. If you do not want him to pay child support dont pursue it
/r/MensRights07/06/12 10:03 AM
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Irish guy here and I have never heard of anything like that. Who pays for them to go for free?
/r/MensRights07/06/12 10:00 AM
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Why does their gender make a difference? Its all misandry. All it does is create an us-vs-them attitude which benefits no one
/r/MensRights06/06/12 06:12 PM
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I disagree. The MRM isnt about men vs women, its about societal preconceptions and different treatment based on gender. There men are as much the enemy as women as they too perpetrate gender stereotypes
/r/MensRights06/06/12 06:01 PM
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Some good points but overall I got the vibe that traditional masculine men are the only real men and men who want to live alternate lifestyles with attributes that many would consider more befitting for a woman are traitors to their own gender
/r/MensRights05/06/12 06:36 PM
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without some good legal aid you are pretty much screwed
/r/MensRights05/06/12 06:28 PM
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check out mensrightsdirectory.net There's some stuff their and if you have more info please contribute it to the directory. It is an under used resource for the MRM and its still relatively new so it needs everyones help to get it off the ground
/r/MensRights05/06/12 06:14 PM
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Trash talking is part of online gaming, its supposed to be taken in good nature in the expectation that you will return it as good as you were given it.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 11:54 AM
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Love this article
/r/MensRights05/06/12 11:50 AM
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I have no problem at all with prostitution. Every form of work is using your physical or mental capabilities for someone elses benefit. If someone wants to have sex for money, its their choice. At least it is more honest than a gold digger marrying and divorcing a rich guy for his money
/r/MensRights05/06/12 11:48 AM
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dont hit her back, report her for assualt
/r/MensRights05/06/12 01:58 AM
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there are very few like that and those that do have that policy usually only enforce it after a certain time and are extremely high class restaurants where customers pay E300+ for a meal and expect the best possible dining experience. These are usually 2 and 3 Michelin starred restaurants
/r/MensRights05/06/12 01:54 AM
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im straight and i feel the same
/r/MensRights05/06/12 01:50 AM
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what does this have to do with mens rights?
/r/MensRights04/06/12 11:50 PM
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I cant believe it. I knew the US was a lot more extreme but this is unbelievable EDIT: this should also be posted to r/Feminism and see what they think about it
/r/MensRights03/06/12 04:23 PM
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This info is pretty useless as it can be interpreted as sexism against women or as men making points that are worth quoting. It panders to people who rely on ideology rather than data to form their opinions
/r/MensRights03/06/12 10:24 AM
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It it not that the man has to pay the women per se but both parents have to contribute to bringing up the child so it is not disadvantaged. It is because the mother is usually the custodial parent that the father is usually the one who has to pay the other parent but if the father gets custody the mother pays him. It isnt seen legally as one parent providing for the other but as ensuring both parent pay for the upbringing of their child
/r/MensRights03/06/12 09:00 AM
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impotency is a cause for a fault divorce? thats a health issue, its not a choice
/r/MensRights02/06/12 01:10 PM
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what does this have to do with rights? people have preferences in a partner. if shes not your type dont go out with her, simples
/r/MensRights02/06/12 10:16 AM
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My gf took me to the cinema last night. Does that count?
/r/MensRights01/06/12 08:58 AM
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Kick up a fuss on facebook. Something similar happened in a nightclub I frequent when they advertised that girls would get in free and all of a sudden they were handing out hastily printed drinks vouchers to guys equal to the admission price
/r/MensRights01/06/12 08:38 AM
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You are way too young for this, your statistics are false and you seem too caught up in confirmation bias to view relationships properly and times change. This is a terrible idea
/r/MensRights01/06/12 08:35 AM
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IMO a bite is a more serious attack because they are prone to infections
/r/MensRights01/06/12 08:31 AM
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Try the mens rights directory. Its still pretty new but it was set up as a place to deposit links and information http://mensrightsdirectory.net/
/r/MensRights01/06/12 12:15 AM
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not necessarily. It usually a reflection of what is considered to be in trend in their particular culture. Someone wearing eyeliner does not tell you anything about their personality other than that they like to wear eyeliner
/r/MensRights31/05/12 02:27 PM
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men are still male so whatever males do is by default masculine. It isnt a fixed set of behaviours, merely attributes that are associated with males in a certain period of time
/r/MensRights31/05/12 02:22 PM
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So you prefer to be a tool, an appliance, a utility, rather than a person who strives for self fulfillment?
/r/MensRights31/05/12 02:20 PM
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What does pedophilia have to do with this? People dont choose who or what they find sexually attractive so why should they be judged on this? Unless of course you mean child molesters which is a completely different thing altogether Why dont you respect them? Is it wrong for a man to choose how he wishes to look? Does it make him a lesser person for having different fashion preferences to you?
/r/MensRights31/05/12 02:13 PM
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yay for gender roles! 'if you arent a macho man, your not a man so stop being happy as a sissy and man up and be miserable' Shit like this really annoys me. All men are men deserving of respect, regardless of how they choose to live their lives
/r/MensRights31/05/12 11:51 AM
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I'd like to see discrimination against men called discrimination rather than reverse-discrimination first of all. Legal Paternal Surrender is another concept that I think deserves more attention once it is done in a compassionate way rather than the typical 'dead beat dad running from responsibility'.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 07:50 PM
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stay away from crazy women. Most are good enough and its pretty easy to succumb to confirmation bias in the real world after reading so many horror stories but keep an objective view and just take care to always use your own condoms and portray yourself in a way that is less likely to attract gold diggers and scumbags
/r/MensRights24/05/12 08:30 AM
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No it was brought about by psychological/neurological issues that was affecting the regulation of my GI tract
/r/MensRights23/05/12 11:57 PM
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Im a big supporter of them
/r/MensRights23/05/12 11:48 PM
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It would be embarrassing for people to know I suffer from this condition so much that I carry pills to control it with me at all times
/r/MensRights23/05/12 11:39 PM
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I can understand that. I carry tablets inside my wallet due to stomach problems that I suffer from and I felt really embarrassed when an exam supervisor had to look inside it in case I had notes in it. I can only imagine how bad it would feel if everyone had seen it
/r/MensRights23/05/12 10:23 AM
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are there any newspapers or radio stations in your area? Complain to them about the humiliation and indignation you were subject to because you are a man with health problems
/r/MensRights23/05/12 08:53 AM
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so basically mens happiness and rights are the least important thing imaginable. only when every want and whim of feminism has been satisfied completely will mens issues be worth tackling
/r/MensRights22/05/12 08:53 PM
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Its her body, its her decision. Its not great but thats biology
/r/MensRights22/05/12 08:40 PM
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Stop associating with crazies. You are responsible for the company you keep so stop screwing around with women who would be messed up enough to do something like that
/r/MensRights20/05/12 10:12 PM
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dont feed the troll
/r/MensRights20/05/12 05:36 PM
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Kick up a fuss with HR. Also demand a full suit of chain-mail, thats what I thought when I first saw the title
/r/MensRights17/05/12 07:41 PM
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The vibe of that video is basically men are too much of well,men, to do anything good.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 02:32 PM
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I have no problems with divorces as I think people should be able to dictate the course of their own life and marriages dont always work out. The issue I have is the way assets are split in divorce, particularly in the case of a no fault divorce
/r/MensRights16/05/12 02:02 PM
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Yea Ireland still has a pretty big hangover from our ultra catholic days. Condoms were illegal without perscription until 1985 and divorce wasnt available until 1995
/r/MensRights16/05/12 01:45 PM
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abortion is illegal here although you can travel to england or northern ireland and get one
/r/MensRights16/05/12 01:24 PM
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without spending time researching stuff this is a letter calling for the right of due process for people accused of sex crimes which is something the MRM strives for which is co signed by Suzanne A. Delaney, the managing director of Feminists for Free Expression. It was posted to reddit in the last couple of days
/r/MensRights15/05/12 08:56 PM
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I dont believe strict censorship is good in any situation but I think people should be called out more when they make blanket statements about either gender ie men are prone to be sexually aggressive or women are biologically programmed to be self entitled bitches. There are evolutionary reasons why some behaviour might be favoured for a specific gender role but in modern times when those gender roles are very fluid these arguments are just blatant sexism. I think the reddit community as a whole…
/r/MensRights15/05/12 07:30 PM
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That idea is pretty much the way the majority of men in the MRM view feminism! They argue that this is an extension of female nature and women support feminism to deliberately keep their privileges
/r/MensRights15/05/12 05:15 PM
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To all of your points; SOME feminists in SOME countries. Many feminists support the actions you suggest. Bitching about feminism does absolutely nothing to achieving these. We need to fight for mens rights and make this movement about men. Bitching about feminism does neither of these things
/r/MensRights15/05/12 04:39 PM
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Your attitude of lumping all feminists together is one of the reasons the MRM doesnt get much respect. Feminists have done great work over the years and by denouncing feminism you denounce these achievements to people outside of the MRM. You also exclude the support of women who identify as feminists who believe in egalitarianism.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 04:29 PM
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We should just campaign against the discrimination, complaining against feminism will achieve nothing. Its not like you are going to convince a politician that feminism is bad and all of a sudden they are going to repeal laws that were supported by people who self identified as feminists. Feminism is too broad to combat anyway as for every argument you can make against one particular individual there is always an opposing faction of feminism that agrees with your argument. We need to stay focuse…
/r/MensRights15/05/12 04:22 PM
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Pretty accurate. You left out the section of the MRM that dont discuss discrimination or do anything productive to combat it and just spend all their time complaining about feminists as if they can make everything better by pointing out the negatives of the feminist movement to people that already agree with them using BS pop psychology that was invented by other idiots who fancy themselves as perspicacious intellectuals I am an MRA by the way before people accuse me of being a white knight, I'm…
/r/MensRights15/05/12 03:30 PM
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There should be a rape walk organised to raise awareness about the victimisation that rapists face
/r/MensRights15/05/12 03:02 PM
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Personally I dont see anything wrong with calling dibs. Where I come from at least it isnt claiming the person as your own, its claiming the first chance to take a shot at trying to win her rather than all the guys going for her at once
/r/MensRights15/05/12 10:46 AM
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About time they started taking notice
/r/MensRights14/05/12 06:44 PM
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Great article. I think one of the reasons MGM isnt recognised is because it is more widespread and men tend to be very proud of their junk so rather than come out and condemn the practice, many circumcised guys try to rationalise it and say it hasnt affected them negatively and that they prefer the look of disfigured penises. This is especially true of men outside the MRM
/r/MensRights14/05/12 05:51 PM
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if you ignore the 'dont rape' bits its actually a pretty good advice sheet for raping girls. I got a lot of tips from it that I'm gonna try on tonights rape spree
/r/MensRights10/05/12 09:37 PM
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I was surprised and delighted to see the manging director of Feminists for Free Expression
/r/MensRights08/05/12 05:15 PM
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everyone else was helping and he could have rushed over and helped out. He shouldnt have taken pictures
/r/MensRights07/05/12 07:03 PM
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That wasnt rape, it was a guy pushing his luck.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 06:58 PM
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I dont see this as a gender discrimination issue, its the fact that someone took pictures rather than help the person he had chosen as his life partner
/r/MensRights07/05/12 06:39 PM
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There is no boys team
/r/MensRights07/05/12 05:25 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/tbafv/the_law_demands_equality_except_when_it_benefits/
/r/MensRights07/05/12 05:21 PM
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They had something similar in an old episode where Homer creeps a babysitter out and then he peels a candy venus di milo off her ass and he is instantly demonised
/r/MensRights07/05/12 03:52 PM
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