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| 25 | Why you can’t take men seriously…You’re barely a man, you baby scrote 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 10:37 PM |
| 243 | Dump him firstWhen they see you with someone else, they love you. When you dump them, they love you. They’re just selfish assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesThank you! I think it was definitely misinterpreted but appreciate that some of you understood it as intended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:27 AM |
| 2 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀Meanwhile he’s probably 300lbs and 5’9 himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesI prefer to refer to sexual violence as sexual violence, because many victims of sexual violence including myself would not have endorsed “sexual trauma” when it happened. It’s jargon. It’s another way of calling sexual violence something it might not always be. Specifically being told that if it isn’t psychological distressing or physically injurious, that it isn’t “traumatic enough”. As a victim of sexual violence, I’ve been a victim of the jargon too. Do you mean it might ALWAYS result in phy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 11:11 AM |
| 13 | I’ve seen so many of these, the entitlement is real. No one wants to be your live in bang maid, especially not for FREE!! They’re hoping to take advantage of a woman in need, forget that women can room with eachother without the expectation of chores and sex. We don’t need men like thisIt was the 290lb 5’6 man for me wanting a 120lb woman who’s shorter 5’5. DISGUSTING! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:02 AM |
| 10 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesSexual trauma (and most traumatic events) doesn’t necessarily result in PTSD. So I again wouldn’t use them interchangeably… In general, traumatic events do not always precede the development of psychiatric diagnoses either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 01:02 AM |
| -4 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesYes and this study isn’t saying women who have casual sex have high self esteem. What is saying is that the association isn’t statistically significant. So there may still be women who engage in casual sex and have low self esteem, but that doesn’t lead to an association. The article isn’t saying that causal sex DOESN’T cause low self-esteem, it very well might. But that’s not what the study is looking at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:59 PM |
| 7 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesWell, the construct of sexual trauma is entirely different than casual sex so again that’s an issue of confounding unrelated constructs. I have answered the question of why I posted this elsewhere. Regarding the type of science this is - this is a study that tried to debunk the negative stereotypes society (including men and mostly many of the women who seem to have internalized those stereotypes) has about women. The article isn’t saying that causal sex DOESN’T cause low self-esteem, it very we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:57 PM |
| 28 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesI don’t think the article is saying that at all. It’s just saying there isn’t association between causal sex and self-esteem which is a common reason women are shamed for their sexual histories | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:54 PM |
| 23 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesYes I would agree with this, and the issue is that we’re confounding happiness (someone else said health and well adjustedness) with low self-esteem. I think you can be unhappy with your sexual experiences with low value men, which makes sense, but that doesn’t necessarily mean “you don’t love yourself”. I think that’s something that men and society use to shame women because of their sexual history. This article isn’t saying women who engage in casual sex ARE HAPPY. It’s just saying it doesn’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:52 PM |
| 20 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesThat’s exactly the reason I posted it. I don’t think FDS is here to shame women for casual sex - I think we discourage it because of the negative impacts on women but not because we want to shame women into thinking they don’t love themselves for having done it in the past or even if they’re doing it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:47 PM |
| 30 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesI responded to this elsewhere too. Though I don’t “condone” or “encourage” casual sex and I’m also aware FDS does not either, I don’t condone men (or society, or other women) SHAMING women for their sexual history either by telling them that having a casual sex history makes them less or broken or that they don’t value themselves. I don’t think the post is necessarily encouraging that women should engage in casual sex either. It’s saying that this myth should be busted because making inferences … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 32 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesIt may also be that the women you’ve been around had internalized this stereotype and felt they needed to feel ashamed or down about themselves because of their sexual history. Or women who you perceive as healthy and well adjusted aren’t okay with sharing their casual sex experiences BECAUSE they’ve been shamed by men (and society) regarding their sexual histories. However I don’t think we can generalize a measure of self-esteem to being “healthy and well adjusted” either. I think we can only s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 08:18 PM |
| 197 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesThey use sex to validate every bit of their existence so it makes sense they would project their self esteem onto women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 08:14 PM |
| 138 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesWhen will they realize they need to shame women because they ain’t shit??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesFull article pasted below and link here “We were surprised that this stereotype was so widely held,” said Jaimie Arona Krems, an assistant professor of psychology at Oklahoma State University and first author on the paper. “This stereotype was held by both women and men, liberals and conservatives, and across the spectrum in terms of people’s levels of religiosity and sexism.” But across the studies, Krems also observed that the stereotype was unfounded: There was virtually no relationship betwe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 3 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorOf course, because it’s always our fault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:30 AM |
| 3 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorSomeone really needs to. Hope he does that to a woman with a man 3x his size hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 2 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorSeriously, what’s next? Normalizing being hit? The first time a man put his hands on me he tried blaming me, like I somehow provoked it. They know no limits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 3 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorCan only hope these men do it to the wrong woman and get fired/arrested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:57 AM |
| 8 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behavior“You mean you won’t accept me for who I am?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:33 AM |
| 3 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behavior“Oh I thought you would accept me as I am”, or “You shouldn’t try to change me”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:33 AM |
| 5 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorI can’t believe they use that card at work too, but then again I think about it more and I’m not surprised… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 6 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorExactly!! Now that’ll layer on the trauma of already being followed around by men. Pigs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:55 PM |
| 10 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorIt makes my skin crawl to think there are married men who do this. Or any men at all who do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 5 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorWell said!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:53 PM |
| 8 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorAnd it’s also the lowest form of an excuse you can use. So manipulative, and it appeals to women’s more empathetic character. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:53 PM |
| 19 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorThey love the diagnosis but never therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 08:02 PM |
| 25 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorYeah just try to be a little understanding since women are the weaker sex but somehow stronger. Weak when it’s convenient. Strong when convenient as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:39 PM |
| 18 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorAnd then let’s not even get started on the fact that they then abuse the children as well. And they can’t afford children. They want women to continue to provide and be excellent mothers while they literally have nothing to offer because being a good father goes against their stereotypes of masculinity. They’re gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 2 | 10 year age gapRun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:14 PM |
| 10 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorExactly, most people with mental illness hurt themselves more than they hurt others. Like people with schizophrenia have such a bad reputation but they’re more likely to be abused than to abuse others :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:13 PM |
| 16 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorYou got this sis!!! Happy to be around especially given that it took me forever to cycle out of men’s web of lies myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:50 PM |
| 37 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorOh yeah and if you’re over 30 but have a career, it isn’t that you CHOSE to be single because you don’t wanna destroy your career by being with a manchild, it must be that a man didn’t “choose you”. Like actually if I wanted to get married to a manchild, I could find 20-30 and just doing whatever they want me to do and spend my life wondering what else I can give of me. So no, thanks!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:48 PM |
| 31 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorYeah but then they won’t take your career seriously and somehow they invalidate your career for not WANTING to deal with men’s bullshit. Like no, I didn’t go to school for 20+ years to become a nanny for your perverted son. Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:46 PM |
| 9 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorI know, I’ve been asleep for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:45 PM |
| 21 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorThese type of men are also almost more dangerous than the ones who explicitly shame feminists. It’s just a toxic passive way to be… they probably get away with a lot more and it’s awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:45 PM |
| 29 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorMost women also have extensive trauma histories and aren’t complete assholes either. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:43 PM |
| 31 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behavior“Women have a support system, you can cope, I can’t”. And then the fake suicide attempt. It’s all classic gaslighting and toxic behavior… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:12 PM |
| 42 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorExactly and how is following someone “impulsive”? That actually requires a lot of forethought and premeditation to disguise… Desperate, thirsty scrotes!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 58 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorAnd even if they had a mental disorder they could always get help. But they won’t. Because it’ll uncover all the other shit they do they don’t wanna address, like their porn addiction and financial irresponsibility | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 22 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorAnd then when you don’t enable their lazy behavior you’re an evil bitch… but imagine not working as a woman. Then you’re just a gold digger. It never ends with the scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:06 PM |
| 33 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorIf anything as women with a history of trauma or mental health disorders, we actually end up being victimized even worse rather than becoming victimizers. How come these assholes are out here abusing women? Oh right it has nothing to do with their mental health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 25 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorAnd they’re so emotional. I bet when she dumps him (wishful thinking), he will somehow find a way to guilt trip her.. it’s all off the same book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:02 PM |
| 106 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorSee it isn’t even about attraction. He’s just a scrote… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:01 PM |
| 43 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorYup, thank you for sharing that and validating it! Why does it make MEN be assholes? Seems to be a pattern… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:00 PM |
| 103 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorExactly, I hope she sees that she can get out and not have to tolerate any of this bullshit. The lowest you can go is excuse your negative behavior too. I make mistakes for sure, but I don’t blame them on my mental health, society, or my history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:00 PM |
| 38 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorI hope she really finds the light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 37 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorSeriously, what’s next?! For me, next was physical and financial abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 28 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorJust pain and negative self-esteem. Just reading it made me sad, imagine living it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 162 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorIt’s like they all read the same manual I swear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:44 PM |
| 178 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorYes they call you a therapist until you ask for $150-250/hour!!! And they don’t respect your career but when it comes to using it as an excuse, then you’re TOTALLY a therapist, doctor, psychologist. Barf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:44 PM |
| 83 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorJust imagine how we’ve shamed Britney Spears as a society, completely disregarding her mental health and family’s exploitation. But these scrotes make up a diagnosis and as a society we have all the sympathy and empathy for them. Gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:42 PM |
| 211 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorIt’s like they have a manual on gaslighting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 210 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorCoMmUnIcAtE to him he’s an asshole and that she’s getting a divorce. I can’t believe she’s stuck around for 11 years! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:33 PM |
| 501 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorAs a psychologist, I have many clients who will say “he will not be affectionate because he has trauma”. Most traumatic events do not result in PTSD. Even when people are diagnosed with PTSD, symptoms of PTSD are treatable. ADHD is also treatable. Also, being an asshole to your partner is not a symptom of ADHD and not a symptom of most mental health disorders. (Personality disorders are way different, and even then, they can still get help.)They might need help coping with the symptoms, but that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 4 | No more wishy-washy menSame, I did this for two years 😂😂 you did well after six months sis! Go you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:49 AM |
| 6 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Hemorrhoids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Ugly scrotes fishing for women in low income countries… they’re scrambling!Just because it’s a low income country, it doesn’t mean that they’re doing it to escape poverty. I am one of those women you speak of who was granted political asylum without needing to escape poverty— I left for political reasons — and sadly that process is a lot more extensive and requires a lot more evidence than a man getting you a green card. That includes having expensive legal representation and waiting a lot longer than a fiancé visa. So, it is an easier process to have a man “endorse yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:54 PM |
| 13 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!If there really was awards imagine what we’d be celebrating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Ugly scrotes fishing for women in low income countries… they’re scrambling!Hopefully they just use them to get out and find themselves a HVM. I can only hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Ugly scrotes fishing for women in low income countries… they’re scrambling!I hope so! 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:09 PM |
| 18 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m glad you’re out of that relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:08 PM |
| 101 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Imagine romanticizing safety 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 75 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!He deserves an award clearly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 298 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Because they try to normalize rape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 22 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Exactly… feeling safe should be a given not a reward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 115 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!He’s priceless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:51 PM |
| 347 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!My boyfriend never yells at me so I wanna marry him. 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:50 PM |
| 18 | When you’re a woman millionaire before your 30s and have realized your worth thanks to FDSI bought it at Spencer’s but it seems Amazon got plenty as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:50 PM |
| 60 | Ugly scrotes fishing for women in low income countries… they’re scrambling!As a foreign-born woman, I find this repulsive. Imagine being such a scrote that they start trying to find women in low income countries. But also as a foreign born woman, I kind of feel at peace with the fact that many may actually just be looking for a green card. I hope these nasty scrotes do get used for a green card AND money! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 02:57 PM |
| 19 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.I’d rather jump into a woodchiper feet first than ask a guy to marry me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:32 AM |
| 40 | This is a new low…I remember once this loser I dated tried to make me wait while he played a game. Only that made him react to the fact that I was leaving. He had all his “homies” contact him about why he left. This boy then said his mom and ex girlfriend would wait for him. His mom was in abusive relationship with his father. His ex was a victim of sexual assault. They both needed help, and so did he. I wasn’t about to be in the same boat. Sadly it took me too long to realize that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:10 AM |
| 27 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.The richer they are, the more selfish they become! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 07:01 AM |
| 12 | Basically sounds like what most men can offerOh yeah and my favorite one is accusing you of cheating when you’ve moved on. LMAOO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 17 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeThat sounds like my ex - he was a leech to me and I’m sure he is one to the government now. It was the best decision of my life to cut ties and wish it would’ve been sooner. I’m in such a better place now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:47 PM |
| 6 | The NVM I was with would complain about celebrating my accomplishments. My HVM just celebrates being with me! Thank you ladies ❤️I should go and buy myself some flowers AND a ring and post them on here. Like ok I get flowers from an HVM AND from myself, what’s wrong with that??? Self love and love are normal things, scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:52 AM |
| 69 | The NVM I was with would complain about celebrating my accomplishments. My HVM just celebrates being with me! Thank you ladies ❤️Imagine that, and then they wonder why they’re single! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 47 | Message to Male LurkersActually if you’re that kind of man, just leave every woman alone. Get yourself a home nurse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 9 | That last conversation won't give you closureI initially felt like it was a waste and anger too. However, my coach helped reframe this as a learning experience. We sometimes need to encounter trash before we become empowered and refuse to accept similar trash again. Sure, it would have been better if it never happened and it angers me that I wasted my time (and thus, delayed my own development), but it could be worse - maybe I would have stuck with the relationship or worse, reconcialed with a LVM. So here we are, taking the wins we can ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Ran into this on Reddit... this is so disgusting. And this is a medical professional?This pig was saying in the comments that he drugs her and also offering to drug her for other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:46 PM |
| 7 | Bought myself a crown just bcuz I wanna celebrate the scrote-free air I get to breath for the first time after 11 years✨ ANY future scrote that makes me feel less than how I make myself feel rn is not worth it 👋I’ve had a crown for a while and when I didn’t wear it and occasionally looked at myself in the mirror with it, I found myself myself with a scrote. This is like a whole intervention. I’m proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:47 AM |
| 6 | Could’ve been a millionaire years agoWhat a waste of my time men have been! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:46 AM |
| 25 | If you’re broke, just say thatI think if I counted, my friends have treated me to better restaurants than men have, with the exception of one who was more educated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 19 | If you’re broke, just say thatYeah same, I’ve wasted lots of time dating men in lower financial and educational brackets than I, thinking it was classist of me not to. Should have given them back to the streets sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:44 PM |
| 54 | If you’re broke, just say thatHe’s a better bf than most adult men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:32 PM |
| 56 | If you’re broke, just say thatSame, pre-FDS I had a loser bf and narcissist who would ask WHY I needed to celebrate every big achievement in my life. I don’t, but I wanted my partner to acknowledge it — not sure if it bothered him because he never had anything to celebrate or because he had to spend some money. It wasn’t even a lot. What a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:31 PM |
| 57 | If you’re broke, just say thatThey hate it even more when you’re able to afford certain things yourself and spoil yourself without the need for a man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:51 PM |
| 34 | If you’re broke, just say thatSame, one of my exes couldn’t afford my lifestyle and then somehow it was about me... it was never about the fact that he’s broke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:49 PM |
| 62 | Stop normalizing men’s immaturityWe don’t wait! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 12:59 AM |
| 40 | This will never not be funny.OMG you’ve described my narcissistic exes. My native language isn’t English so I have accent and recognize that I mispronounce words sometimes, but I’m a writer with 70+ publications, two masters, and about to finish a PhD. I have unfortunately dated men who can barely write their name. HOWEVER, when we were in argument, the fact that I have an accent was their intellectual ground and reason to try to minimize all my academic achievements. It now makes me laugh because, I, with my mispronounced … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 10:47 PM |
| 22 | I see a lot of ladies here feel shame about the way they used to be. But please understand that most of us have been some level of pick me in the past. Some still have remnants of pick me mentality yet to overcome. Please forgive yourself. Keep growing and becoming.I’ve outgrown that girl by millions (literally) haha but I needed to be her to be who I am today ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 04:37 PM |
| 25 | This lady spitting TRUTHS. Remember to focus on YOU first and not settling up for less.Not getting married until I’m rich.... oh wait, I am rich and realized I don’t need a man to come ruin my rich life. 😂😂 As crude as that sounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:31 PM |
| 21 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”The ugly ones and the short ones really get ego boosts from their moms and then think they deserve more... like, no, sir, you actually ain’t shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:43 AM |
| 13 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”LMAO this reminds me of my ex who lived in filth and in a shit hole and then would be critical of where I lived over petty things. But he also didn’t bother to do anything about them, so it was supposed to be MY job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:41 AM |
| 344 | How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heartThey swear that’s our loss. What do we lose?? No orgasms?? Dating you years while we get little out of it??? Losing money if there’s no prenup because you’re probably broke? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:47 PM |
| 11 | Update: I dumped him!Literally these Reddit men would normalize everything just to blame the woman for men’s actions and horrors. On the bright side, here’s a woman who’s happy you’re happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 42 | Louder for the lurkers in the backIf you think about it this still happens in third world countries. Africa’s HIV epidemic still gets blamed on women even though it is men raping young girls who do not go to jail for it who are spreading it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 6 | Women deal with so much shitTake a silver award | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:50 PM |
| 8 | Let us healSame, I’m a statistician and most of the time the only woman in the class. I have men say things to me to try to define my worth — but they don’t matter and also, they suck at math! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 01:28 PM |
| 3 | My heart is getting really heavy as I'm preparing to leave my boyfriend. Any support appreciated.Long-term relationships become part of your identity because they are big parts of our life. When we break up with someone, we are therefore essentially losing a big part of ourselves. Not every part of ourselves is valuable if we strive to be and do better everyday though. Having said that, it will hurt. Just like it would hurt to move away for a different job, school, etc. However sometimes we just have to push through it. Because you deserve better and it’s something you want! My relationship… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 9 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.Lmfao my ex claimed he didn’t “dEsErVe tO gO tO jAiL” for battery on me and called me crazy or psycho plenty of times. He had abused his mother and exes for YEARS. Boy you had it coming to you. I wasn’t gonna be another victim. Call me karma, mf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Wow, how can you be this cheap? (From Apple News by the way)I’ll pay $35 and just bill for my time smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Wow, how can you be this cheap? (From Apple News by the way)I’m pretty sure I’ve eaten with a friend and our leftovers were worth more than $35 lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:12 AM |
| 32 | Women not being silent and submissive is somehow a threatExactly, shit they’ve gotten away with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:26 PM |
| 15 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.All religious books and beliefs and titles go out the door when they’re not consistent with their misogynistic ideologies and expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:37 PM |
| 17 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.Congrats on your future JD! Imagine getting a doctorate for a mother and her dusty son to think you’re a queen because you don’t wanna be a maid for him!!! We embrace the royal titles then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 52 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.One of my exes was Muslim and although generally okay, he would call every woman who would not dress “modestly” a “whore” until one day I dressed with a shorter dress and asked him if I was one. He said yes. We lived in Miami; everyone wears little clothes. Somehow it makes the WOMEN whores. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:40 PM |
| 31 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.And the cycle continues when men get used to this by their mothers and expect us all to do the same. My ex’s stupid mother told my mother she knew I wasn’t good for her son because I didn’t offer to clean the place where she was at (even though lol her son is a NVM, I know this now). My mother told her that she hadn’t made many sacrifices for me to be getting a PhD to be someone’s maid (mind you I was almost done with my PhD). I mean I enjoy cooking (not so much cleaning), but to do it because i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:32 PM |
| 6 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...This is true, men don’t seem to want to accept that thinking for them is still a lot of pressure for the woman and not egalitarian at all. I had an ex who would always ask what he needed to do next. Like wow, how about you not be lazy af and think for yourself? And well, thank god he’s an ex ☺️☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:37 PM |
| 4 | All it takes is attention to detailIn sum, I’m looking at biomarkers and heart disease (carotid plaque) among people with HIV. But yeah, I’ve found that professors are actually the only ones who wouldn’t waste my time because they have more to lose and don’t even have time to date. However, as a student, dating professors can get tricky lol. I did date some PhD students before and same, they tried to compete too much or were envious. Basically they were earlier in their careers, I’ve been around a while so I have more pubs. Howev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:38 AM |
| 15 | All it takes is attention to detailPhD student a year away from graduating, I should’ve given up dating because they boys just wasted my time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 10:29 PM |
| 130 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️Since I began posting here, I’ve received so many messages from men telling me how I’m the problem and FDS is wrong. Yet they’re posting on dating and social skills subreddits for help on their dating life. I’m glad more and more women aren’t falling for their bullshit, no subreddit will help if you’re an asshole 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:49 PM |
| 78 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️Haha my misogynistic ex was a gamer, a porn addict, ugly, and short (not even just shorter, he’s SHORT - 5’4). Yes I shouldn’t have been with him but somehow did (I’m out now, yay). Anyway, the point is that this dude raised his hand at me and really thought I wasn’t gonna call the cops, and then played the victim for sending his ass to jail. They really BELIEVE they’re victims, somehow, even when they engage in blatantly ILLEGAL activities all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:46 PM |
| 12 | And yet so many of them start out damaged! But oh, they’re not “psychos” or “crazy” everOh god I think you just described my so called Christian ex. This dude made fun of my passion for my own religion I think out of jealousy he deep down knew he didn’t really practice anything. All religion does for these psychopaths is give them a false sense of moral superiority and excuses for their criminal behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:13 PM |
| 4 | And yet so many of them start out damaged! But oh, they’re not “psychos” or “crazy” everExactly, they want the women to be just ask weak as their mothers were. Thankfully I grew up around strong women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:08 PM |
| 45 | And yet so many of them start out damaged! But oh, they’re not “psychos” or “crazy” everBut then they won’t ever seek therapy and expect you to fix them. I see so many posts on here from women on why their partner can’t show affection. Uh, it’s not your job to figure him out darling! I’m glad to hear about you as a mom, it sometimes seems mothers are accomplices to their sons essentially being criminals. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:29 AM |
| 56 | And yet so many of them start out damaged! But oh, they’re not “psychos” or “crazy” everYeah, they’ll be 65 years old and still haven’t learned. I’ve had plenty of older men (60s, I’m in my 20s) hit on me at the gym while I have headphones on and clearly counting sets or something. I’m just like, have you not learned??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:27 AM |
| 21 | And yet so many of them start out damaged! But oh, they’re not “psychos” or “crazy” everExactly , and then there’s the mothers who normalize this behavior in their nasty ass sons. They expect you to baby them just like they did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:26 AM |
| 2 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢Yup, he’s a narcissist who thought “god” took care of his health while having full grapes hanging out his butt (because going to the doctor is a punishment from god in his ignorant mind). Haha glad I realized he was a NVM though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:19 PM |
| 50 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢My ex was relatively young and he had hemorrhoids lmaoooo boy had balls hanging out his butt. I am sorry but I couldn’t help it now that we’re talking about balls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:12 AM |
| 17 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢Let’s operationalize old though because I met a 42 year old FIT man. And his body is just... I was speechless. And his grays. And his doctorate. And his stamina. Just yum. The man is walking sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:10 AM |
| 30 | Being single is not an insultHahahahahah I’ve had exes ask me how I could get over them so easily... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:30 PM |
| 43 | We don’t owe them anything! Stay in your lanes peasantsYup just got the first annoying message from these pigs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 29 | We don’t owe them anything! Stay in your lanes peasantsThis exact same thing happens to me at the gym, with over ear headphones... Don’t interrupt my sets you peasants... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 75 | We don’t owe them anything! Stay in your lanes peasantsThis reminds me of some men I’ve tried to talk to when I went back in the dating scene. “Are you busy?” when they don’t get a response right away. Yea, I’m busy, there’s other priorities in my life, like my career and building my wealth. Not about to sacrifice that for your fragile ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 02:36 PM |
| 25 | Show them the same amount of respect they show you!Exactly even if you’re not inviting one kid, if that kid is the bully then maybe they do need to be ashamed of how they’ve acted and use that time to reflect. Kids need consequences (and I work with kids). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 03:32 PM |
| 26 | What LVM really mean when they say...This is classic. Men like to joke about women’s bodies and sexuality but mention being bald, short, broke, or make fun of their penis and they can’t take it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low value10am? My NVM ex would want to sleep in until noon. And then his excuse on saturdays is that it is a rest day according to the Bible even though he didn’t work AND he didn’t practice anything else in the Bible. Where has FDS been all my life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Picking Up A Hot Girl In 3 Minutes (infield)Rule 1. Be attractive. Rule 2. Be tall. Rule 3. See rules 1 and 2. Just keeping it real for the ugly or shorter dudes who may try this and go to jail or have a heel thrown at them. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 01:46 PM |
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