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embar5/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:38 PM
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embar5/r/MGTOW27/05/19 05:26 AM
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embar5/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:51 PM
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embar5/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 08:07 PM
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embar5/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:30 AM
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embar5/r/seduction22/05/19 12:47 AM
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embar5/r/seduction28/05/19 11:58 AM
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embar5/r/ExRedPill18/07/20 07:39 PM
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embar5/r/askTRP18/07/20 08:05 AM
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embar5/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:06 PM
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embar5/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:52 PM
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embar5/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:55 PM
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embar5/r/askTRP04/07/19 08:57 AM
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embar5/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:08 AM
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embar5/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:24 PM
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embar5/r/askTRP27/05/19 03:00 AM
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embar5/r/askTRP23/06/19 11:45 AM
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embar5/r/seduction09/06/19 01:53 PM
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It gets easy / becomes default once all distractions are eliminated
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:30 PM
32

Challenge her to a fight. Pin her in a postion that forces her to submit. Boom sexy time
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:17 PM
7

Pretty shallow question, I hope you get past this mindset
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:40 AM
4

If you want a woman, try it out. Plenty of bi curious girls out there and your friends/family will never find out about a one off fling. Yeah, long term it's almost certain. We don't have to speculate, a girlfriend app in Asia has 600 million downloads! In the west look how screens have replaced conversations. Now add the realism of a person who is essentially perfect. It'll be a Tesla to our Model T.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 10:14 PM
-5

I'm going to be honest. If I or my bros every got in a fight with you we wouldn't be the least bit intimidated. That said, I'm glad you're making it work
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:26 PM
-3

Accuse her of cheating and prepare to break up. If she wants to defend there's only one way
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:07 PM
1

that shows serious interest and thoughtfullness IMO
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:02 PM
6

You're exaggerating, they think they're 7 range. but yeah, girl power culture and male over-interest.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:26 AM
-1

Programming is hot. Home trades are solid if you're more hands on
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:18 PM
2

Honestly just save for a few years. Illegal stuff is faster but way riskier. You'll be 5'8" and a thick head of hair but it'll take a good job first.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:08 PM
1

I think you handled it fine. The next message should not attempt to ignore it though. Say something like "how do you feel right now" to acknowledge the awkwardness and then move to something else
/r/askTRP09/12/20 04:35 PM
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I downvoted because it feels like a double standard. I know most people here are okay with this particular one but not me
/r/askTRP09/12/20 02:31 PM
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Normal in this context means a girl who is confined by social norms which are stricter for girls. Same reasons JAV movies all show the actresses crying (their idea of femininity). They're doing their best to tow the line between sexual and decency standards. Non-normal girls carve their own path which is better for sex specifically.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:30 AM
1

I don't see a problem with it unless marriage is the goal which obviously is discouraged for financial and mental reasons.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:47 PM
2

In the past low friends meant death or close to it. Nothing is more powerful than alliances.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:15 AM
2

Certian professions lean towards toughness or rationality: IT, law etc. Sure, they could still be feminine, but it's more likely a nurse or actress will be. Professions that reward femininity get more of it.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:52 AM
12

I'd say "Why the past tense?"
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:37 PM
2

If you go your own way you'll realize the true cost of this nobility shit. Look, I understand no one wants to be lord under a mad king. But life is compromise and sometimes the reward is worth it. Think of what life is like with and without that business. I spent 9 years building nothing and went back to the job world underskilled. I'd have killed for your position.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 09:35 AM
1

No one will judge you if you share your plate as a mutual kink man. it's just that, a fantasy
/r/askTRP05/12/20 09:33 AM
1

Seems wise. Downside is you wake up with your penis cut off, so make sure your girlfriend isn't crazy first
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:21 PM
1

I assume you mean all meat was Meh. Is Vegan good compared to somethng more moderate like paleo?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:03 PM
2

What do you guys think of just giving her your social media IDs but never using it? That's what I do with people. Sometimes I get comments that I'm never on and say "Yeah". I find most people don't prod.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:36 PM
2

Oh damn. Do you believe Dr. Shawn Baker is a quack then? What would you consider balanced, maybe a small portion of lean meat 2-3x/daily?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:41 AM
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Better you than someone else IMO. Helps them learn to see the girls as disposable and never "under their ownership"
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:13 PM
1

Overall I would say as a generalization White girls are hardest Light skinned Asians Latinas Dark skinned Asians Black girls There are stronger factors like the girl's fitness/attractiveness, personality, extroversion etc. But as a loose guideline I've found the above true
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:40 PM
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I was of that mindset and did two things: 1) Moved overseas 2) Made more money. It worked out quite well
/r/ExRedPill30/11/20 12:30 PM
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think hobby forums: programming, business etc. Standard distributions applying there and the focus isn't how depressed everyone is but something productive.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:37 AM
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When you have 20 girls in your world you are kind of scatterbrained, you see all of them and their quirks and pleasant sides. With 3 or 4 in your life, 1 or two fucking you, every one occupies a large part of your life
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:10 AM
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I personally wouldn't DGAF that much. it's basically their version of porn. But since they crave attention they need a more personal interaction to get off from it
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:27 PM
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200 guys worshipping on phone. 1 to 1 in person. I'm in Thailand and see farm girls turn to princess when they buy their first phone. We will never recover from this shit unless ALL men regain parity
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:46 PM
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You got downgraded from LTR to plate. Either be content, or withhold sex unless she agrees to commit
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:39 PM
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I know how it feels man
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:10 AM
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Haha, a large segment of them are into white guys in Asia too. Only the purists (bias towards the higher classes) are anti-white guy
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:27 PM
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I was once robbed in the US, also had my place broken into. US is way worse for lower tier concerns IMO.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 06:44 PM
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Phils is super easy for banging tons of 6/7 range girls. Thailand is great if you're white and/or willing to pay. In general for ease of puss it goes Southeast Asia, Latin America, Eastern Europe. I guess Africa would factor in too but I don't consider it.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 06:16 PM
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yeah, you have to balance it with getting blown. and make sure she sucks you for longer
/r/askTRP26/11/20 03:27 PM
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Cool, so since 50 is around mid life there should be a lot of good looking ones at that age. Can you post some sexy 50 year olds?
/r/askTRP26/11/20 02:14 PM
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No it doesn't. All women look off peak at 50. You know why? 50 isn't 20. It's 50. As in nearing old age
/r/askTRP26/11/20 01:28 PM
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I think it is a mixture of 70% emotion (seeing you as attractive and fun to be around) and 30% logic (seeing you as a solid long term bet). Ratio can change if she's emotional vs gold diggerish
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:29 AM
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50 is an exaggeration. 35 though is possible, 40 for unicorns
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:05 AM
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i did this once and was on the path to a lay that night. She instantly pulled back and delayed for 3 more dates. I never made that mistake again, was a valuable lesson
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:10 AM
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Remember what the S stands for. Very rare for any guy to have the SMV of even a 6/10 girl. But yes, buy a car, dress nice and gym, be witty and so on. Do your best.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:17 PM
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Milfs are a LOT more sexual. They'll happily take a cock down their throat, take it in the ass etc. With girls in their 20s it's more of a mixed bag. I personally think they get burdened by their sense of status whereas post wall women don't have anything to protect anymore.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:34 AM
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I have started coming to this realization myself. Hard because he's a close friend but, the problem is not just emotional laziness. He's behind in life because of laziness in general.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:28 PM
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I'll give a few: I updated him on the progress of a side business. He ignored me and switched topics the next day. This one is common, even when the conversation continues he just acts like I didn't say anything about my project. It never goes the other way, he's training in a field that I have more experience in and I always try to help (I'm trying to work on being a positive alpha, not just with girls. I'm not always there but I mostly am when people ask for stuff). I asked him about me offeri…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:42 PM
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That is not an accurate characterization. He flat out ignores something I ask about. In real life no one would tolerate that
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:16 PM
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It won't be easy, i'm not a text expert either. My thoughts If you say something benefit focused they'll immediately detect it as you trying to patch things over. For example "Been practicing clit stimulation, can't wait to get her to squirt next time". Everyone knows this is a huge reward for you and expects you to sell yourself. Best guess is to take a dominant position IMO. "I want you on Saturday. Tell me what time you're free for a fucking" It's still low probability but your aggression and…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:55 PM
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Speak to a common enemy (Maga etc) One advantage of leftists is they see anything frame as experiential or ground breaking as cool. So sex should be talked about as this hip cool thing that doesn't need all that conservative ritualistic bs If all else fails, start crying and throwing accusations
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:48 PM
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This is exactly the experience of all the guys I knew who went out to clubs regularly. it is hypergamy at its extreme. One of the finest girls I ever laid came home the same night from a club. A promoter introed her to me. Other times I went months with no results. That shit is brutal. You MUST find an advantage to avoid being put into the 'single male pen'
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:18 PM
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Move fast, in a week they'll have another guy lined up. Read sex god method and follow DEVI with emphasis on D. take viagra this time (if you get another chance). Try to get into her butt. No strategic reason, but it would be awesome to wreck some dude's gf's ass
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:02 PM
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PUA in its light is self improvement in the male sexual sense. At its worst it turns into this mechanical attempt at sex grabbing.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 01:00 PM
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Towards/after adulthood you can sometimes out-alpha the dad to become the primary male authority. Not saying it's a sure thing, but see if there's an opening
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:33 AM
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The key word you left out was max. Probably as an upper limit to minimize tolerance
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:25 AM
1

I'm going to suggest you fuck her but try to make it bjs and anal only. It's all animalistic that way, and you kind of "own" her by taking her secondary holes. Then maybe your could pull some sexual control shit over her to let her loosen your scheduled hours, take long breaks etc
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:51 PM
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i have looked into the theater one, but apparently there are cameras, plus staff checks in on occasion
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:47 PM
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Can you link a girl willing to meet for $80? I don't think you can get that price even in the hood of the US with fat ones.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:42 PM
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So you are saying women have all the advantages and men have none?
/r/ExRedPill15/11/20 01:58 PM
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I think it stems from porn, a more extreme version of hotwifing.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:47 PM
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That's the superpower of women, no denying it. But men have all these minor powers. To go out at night and be mostly safe. To lift heavy things. Less emotion, less social constriction etc.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/20 01:46 PM
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They love makeup flings so there's that. In Thailand they are everywhere and easy to fall in lust with. Remembering what will happen if you father her child should dampen the emotions and keep you rational.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:32 AM
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I have actually found that Indian girls from India (i'm Western Indian) love my personality including the softer parts. I can just pop a few jokes, smile, treat them not as property and they sometimes get giddy. The difference is contrast. Being socially competent, kind yet edgy in the American way. Compare this to an average Indian guy's nervous energy, seriousness, lack of playfulness. Quite a big difference to them.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:30 AM
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Yeah, in terms of leaving a dominant impression, painting her face is probably tops, followed by in her mouth/throat. Anywhere else is still good. Going limp or not being able to finish could be interpreted as you wank too much, get laid with other chicks, or have an ED issue. Those are perceived as they sound. you can help things along by not cumming for a day or more.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:20 PM
1

pretty badass job from my pov, just fuck all day, reject whoever you want, make tons of money for keeping up your body.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 01:16 PM
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Be sure to send her estimated kills counts of your platoon every quarter. If she's a liberal also include the skin color or other ethnic information of the enemry
/r/askTRP08/11/20 01:14 PM
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Maybe a good middleground is to ban "read the sidebar" posts unless they are explicit about a specific topic. "React the sidebar, you need to get up to date on what soft nexting is for" That way if the responder is being lazy or trying to win an argument through alpha positioning, the asker can point out why the section doesn't apply to his question, assuming it doesn't. Or explain what he already knows/is still confused about.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 10:40 AM
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The problem is a lot of guys use "read the sidebar" as a lazy argument winner (including when they're wrong). It sounds strong and fits the sub's ethos. But that doesn't mean it's a blanket answer to legitimate uncovered topics.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 10:32 AM
-3

Don't this violate AWALT?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:56 AM
1

Yeah, I endorse it. The counterpoint to the above negatives, is if you like slutty girls, well this place might have a few of them haha. Great fun and memories to be had $50 at a time.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:41 PM
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Here in Thailand they can be sweet and girlfriendy. THeir common problems: Constantly cheat (with young white/asian guys or thais). Sex to them is like a kiss on the cheek in level of intimacy. It has been normalized Lazy. Imagine you never had to grow up. Not good for keeping fit or mentally sharp as you age (The top 10% of gogo girls work out though. But will they continue for the guys who marry them?) Lieing is just a part of their personality. They have to given judgement from others, all th…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:22 PM
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i spent close to a decade trying to start a business (and failed). Being 17 again I would have gone down the coding path. it's a great low risk option because you can earn a western wage and live in a very low cost locale where it's easy to get cheap sexy girls.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:25 PM
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Tell whichever bimbo you pick up you can't take her to your penthouse for privacy reasons because of some company related BS (even though you own it your board wouldn't approve etc)
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:05 PM
0

Is that stuff actually real? Or does it come from insufficient exercise? My mood yoyos to a near feminine level if I don't exercise, specifically cardio, for a while. With daily runs though (25 minutes min, ideally twice that) I'm level. I say try to sidestep the whole thing if you can. A depressed man is not a dependable head of his tribe.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:40 PM
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During one of your talks ask where she sees herself relationshipwise, without judgement. If she shows sadness then you have an opportunity to point out the importance of fitness, both for health and for finding a partner. You just have to bring it to the forefront, maybe paint the details how to lose weight and keep fit.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:55 AM
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I would say cheap vacations until you have a fair amount in the bank. So instead of Europe or Asia, an occasional Vegas weekend trip. Cancun maybe once/year. Not as exotic but the rest of the world will be there in 10 years and you'll have a strong financial position doing it that way.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:20 AM
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"That's the first time I've heard a guy use the word 'creep'. Hope it gets you out of the friend zone bro ;)"
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:15 AM
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They don't if your SMV is high. Focus on yourself first. His SMV was deflated by a monogamy oath. She then held a monopoly
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:08 PM
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I think it's pretty hot personally. i'd just ask her why not involve me too?
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:19 PM
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Everyone sounds so harsh in this thread. Just laugh, smack her ass and maybe start a sexy time off camera.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:27 PM
4

It would be even funnier if you frame it as equal payment for that blowjob you let her give you
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:21 PM
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Try to take a dominant frame with her. Tell her to wear elevated shoes on days she meets you. Tell her what hairstyle to wear, whether you want her in denim shorts or a tight dress, etc. Makeup I've never explicitly stated but as long as it's done to please you, and not hinting at making her feel like she needs to fix herself, it should work. Tell her to overdo it one day. Then to keep it light another day, etc
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:28 AM
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Ask her to rate your performance. If she's feeling catty she'll give you a 3 or 4. Then you reply back with an emoji and ask for her list of improvements. After that I think you are safe.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 06:04 PM
0

What's wrong with just saying No?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:54 PM
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"oh come on, you liked it a little bit I could tell we may be divorced but i know how you get after a week of no action. You have my number"
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:23 PM
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Don't treat it like flipping a switch, kino lightly and base off response
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:38 AM
1

It's not a big deal to lay her, but if she's in the 8+ range she already knows where every guy wants her. If you can get her, after the first bang be sure to bring up how you get around and you hope she's on the same page
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:27 PM
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Give her two weeks to one month off. Just say you're busy this month. Check yourself at the end to see if you're detached. If not then move on. If you DGAF say "what's up?". You'll be on better footing and maybe able to plate her from a position of high value. But if she's on your mind that whole month off, no, best to cut ties.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:57 AM
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I'm 6'2". Rare for my ethnic background. It helps but ethnicity is a big hinge factor for a lot of girls
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:57 AM
2

I swing from being too nice and chill, too being too gamey and mean. IMO the right balance is a bit of both. I'm still working on finding that middle ground.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 09:44 PM
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I'll give you my story. Indian American kid, few friends in high school. When I started actively pursuing girls a backturn around the first word would be typical. It took strong finances, lifting, and other fixes to turn things around. Even now some of my peers still have it far easier with less effort. Take away the advantages you listed and it becomes real clear that it's not just mindset. You have a lot of passives that gave you an early boost.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 09:37 PM
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At his height 215 at 12% requires steroids. I know you'll disagree but I thought I'd post anyway as we need to dispel these erroneous ideas.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:23 PM
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Man, is this really a problem compared to the overwhelming simping on every social media platform? IMO that is far worse
/r/ExRedPill25/10/20 06:09 PM
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Look into trips to cheap closeby countries, or even moving to the place you like the women. Bringing them here causes them to Americanize and opens the door to visa exploitation and divorce.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/20 11:52 AM
1

money is probably the bridge trait where alpha and beta overlap a bit. That makes it very important to use it well, to slant it towards alpha/genetic attraction (and not beta/resource provision). Attractive uses of money Flashiness. i hate to list it but might as well get it out of the way. riding around in a car that makes her girlfriends jealous is intensely gratifying for her without costing you Experiences. In theory poor people are more limited in what they can do. Alphas can do what they w…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 11:28 AM
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In a good area, on the nice side of town where the night life is, there should be 8s in the nightclubs. 9s will always be rare because it requires genes and high dedication and discipline. In the top venues you'll see them sprinkled in.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:45 PM
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Yeah, kind of expensive there too. The real standard is the on the ground policy. In Dubai it's not actually enforced. That makes everyone happy (theocratic state, local rich guys). In America there are constant sting operations to actually arrest people on both sides of the transaction.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 01:58 PM
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illegality greatly constrains supply. Less women willing to work means the ones who do take the risk can charge a lot more. Nowhere else is it this expensive. UK, Germany, Australia, Dubai, Japan all much cheaper. In most places a nice girl can be had for an hour for $100 - $150. Even less in some places. This is the single biggest problem with the US in my view. We need to fix this shit. Ironically it's the left who is right on this one.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 01:05 PM
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I have had this problem in the past. I've tried Getting angry about it. This locked her into her position (ego is a powerful thing) Trying to use guilt / relationship norms to get past pushback on the 3rd or 4th date. This actually worked but comes with downsides. First, it's weak and beta, and she responds in kind with sympathy sex. Which doesn't continue. Also, you have to wait a long ass time The only thing that has worked well is disengaging. The girl ALWAYS assumes you're seeing other girls…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 08:35 AM
1

I need help too but I use Kamagra. It takes about 20 minutes to kick in. How long does it take for goat weed?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:28 AM
8

I wanted to ask her if she would take responsibility for prostitutes. But the teacher already poked me for my comments on a prior guest.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 10:43 PM
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And lonely men into a virtual army of emogi signaling orbiters feeling like they have a lite e-girlfriend. Saddest shit I've ever seen.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:24 PM
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In a college level sexuality class a rape victim came in. Towards the start of her presentation she said something like 'To the men in this class, I'm sorry but it's you. 99% of perpetrators are men.' Extreme example but there's a non-stop effort to constrain male behavior and victimize women. You don't even have to leave reddit to see it. One of my threads elsewhere was deleted for sexism. I mentioned that men carry the burden during dates. There wasn't a hint of frustration or anything, I was …
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:21 PM
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Say "sex toys don't have feeling, why you lying"? If further offended you can say you were just joking and talk about your next meetup
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:54 AM
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Study bantering, teasing, witty and sarcastic humor. Practice it in the form of joke writing or improv if really serious. As a bonus, humor softens any rough edges that might be jarring in a non humourous tone.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:24 AM
1

If I were you I'd base in Miami and stay in Medelllin Colombia much of the time. A less cool but more convenient option is the San Ysidro border between San Diego and Tijuana.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 11:38 AM
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Makes sense. My theory was muscles are animalistic in the same way boobs and ass are. So when a girl says she likes muscles, she's also saying she likes a guy's body for sexual stuff. Whereas a height preference could mean she sees him as authoritative, leaderlike, protective.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 09:28 PM
4

I agree but any idea why that is? Strength seems more obivously beneficial than height
/r/askTRP16/10/20 09:14 PM
1

I feel like you are inflating the difficulty of finding a guy in the 7-8 range for women in the 6-7 range. With a base level of health and fitness it's not hard to find solid males for sex. You're kind of making it sound like it is. The argument I usually hear and agree with, is women aren't interested in that most of the time, so it's not a free lunch for them. Conversely, one can philosophize but men definitely want women in the 6-7.5 range. And being a 6-7 in looks and other life factors is j…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 07:37 PM
0

You're getting a lot of pushback which is expected here. I personally don't think you said anything too controversial, obviously if you focus on getting better at something, you do. I want to ask why you think PUA is better than Red Pill. Red Pill strikes me as a way to boost your passives. Body, attittude, drive. PUA seems more of an active skill. Personally it made talking to others more stressful for me, having to remember specific things instead of let my mind meld into the mood.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 06:55 PM
0

Finding casual sex is not hard. This is not at all true for the vast majority of men.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 06:51 PM
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Think of your esteem as another version of plate spinning. if the girl plate is wobbly or even breaks, hopefully you're still looking forward to another pr in the gym. your business project is coming along nicely. your buddies have a nice outing lined up for some outdoors thing, or even something like video games. It's a balancing act because you need to put time into women but this is why people also say not to focus on them too much.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 04:41 PM
0

Damn how do you know so much about this
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:52 PM
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i would go silent for a week to help her think about your value some more. It's not clear she understands it from that instructive tone.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:01 PM
5

yeah i struggle with this situation too. you're a third wheel and would normally intro yourself and engage. But the conversation seems fleeting enough you don't feel like jumping into it, especially if they're off on some specific thing you don't know about.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:17 PM
1

once per year I do a border run, takes about 8 hours in a van. I go to ban pakard. Salary is mid 5 figures, in Thailand multiply by 3 to get the rough equivalent purchasing power in the US (products are the same price or 10% more, services are much cheaper). Late schedule to coordinate with your US team during work and party with club sluts on other days. Also to avoid the midday heat (worst between 10am to 3pm)
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:27 PM
2

I'm 35, US citizenship only, been living here 7 year on ED visas (tourist early on). Main thing I would advise is to wake up around 4pm and go to sleep around 7am. If you can do that you'll love this place.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:50 PM
5

Web developer in Thailand here, i only wish I learned this sooner. Consider the female abundance box checked if you make it out to SouthEast Asia, South America or even Eastern Europe (I hear). It's probably the last remaining tough spot for a man assuming your job is enough to accumulate savings on.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 07:08 AM
4

One article broke down response rates. If female replies were currency online dating would be the most unequal country on earth. After seeing that i don't spend another second online and have no regrets. The good news is as online becomes the only socially acceptable way to engage girls out of your circle, this opens opportunities offline again for guys willing to go against norms.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:06 PM
2

Yeah but getting a girl who's fit is way harder than a more average body girl
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:50 PM
0

It's just like your guy friends bro, just tell her how much more she'll get laid
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:49 PM
1

In most of SouthEast Asia it is a strike, I'm in Thailand
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:09 PM
3

Everywhere you look in a dense area, there are guys who don't do much in life but take a small amount of savings to go out to bars and clubs every weekend. Perfect place to start. Meeting other employed guys with similar interests takes no effort at all from there.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:55 AM
5

Does that also mean the woman should be responsible for her own income?
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:15 PM
-6

Division of labor entitles working men not to clean or perform other basic house tasks.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:52 PM
5

I believe it's accurate. Mandatory disclaimer that no one has it easy and women have it tougher with social expectations, getting raises at work, their body's aging process, discrimination in various domains and more.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 04:20 PM
1

Plenty of people have friends and family they don't live with, just teach your dogs to setup facebook accounts, take and post photos No twitter though, that shit is just cats vs dogs all day and night
/r/askTRP10/10/20 03:56 PM
7

Any time you are 1) In a group 2) Spotlight tendencies in another group ...disdain seems to follow. Some sort of hardwired group dynamic. In my view the most effective people are able to take the lessons of TRP without falling into a negative worldview of women and dating. Or adopting some of the harmful concepts like dark triad traits which are held up as unethical but attractive (there are a lot more dark triad types in jail than in a board room).
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 09:50 AM
0

because you can't tell in advance or read their minds when they don't react negatively
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:59 AM
1

Sex god method says to show dominance. Most of the time it works nicely. Every now and then light pushback like this means your erring on the right side of things. The average dude fucks with the same drive as mowing the lawn while tired or bored.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:04 PM
2

What are you supposed to say if they ask if you'd like to? I find it kind of awkward to get out of myself.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:01 PM
1

Yes, i do believe asians have it harder. Pop culture has pumped the value of others races and sidelined us.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:08 PM
15

It's true that sex comes to women easier. But just remember they face their own challenges. And sex is not more special to them, judging by how often they engage in it vs eating chocolate, haha. Another angle to hit this from is to see girls who've gone that bad girl path as equal to good girls. That's even more powerful because it corrects your value system at a better place, in my view at least.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 01:14 PM
1

Are you adverse to using an extender? The blissfull creations ones are quite realistic feelingswise. I have an 8"/6" one, that shit makes girls squirm involuntarily. Also helps me last longer.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:55 AM
2

I mean, you must know at least one for which this is not true. Just because they assess men's resource wealth doesn't make that the only criteria. For the good ones, it is not even the primary criteria.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 09:24 PM
3

7 is the range best for an LTR according to a bro. Makes sense to me. Still cute but not to the point you're on edge all the time
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:15 PM
3

I am dark skinned, and in Thailand at the moment. My experience mirrors yours. Here's the thing. We have a choice. We can beat against reality in the name of some puritanical value set. Or pay the $40 and get laid like rockstars by slutty, friendly girls. You already know this so just think about it.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:20 PM
1

It runs the other way too. We don't get a pain response (or it's greatly diluted) to rejection online. They dont get dinged for being rude or displaying other socially harmful behaviors
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:45 AM
1

In the US top 10% is 118k and top 5% is 166k: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affluence_in_the_United_States#Top_percentiles_of_income This does include rural areas though. In my gym I'd say about 10% of guys are advanced lifters (Over 3 years of consistent progressive overload). 10% of 20 total gymgoers% is 2%. This aligns with what I see walking around. Movies are warping our minds. Almost everyone sucks in some way.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 10:07 PM
1

For perspective, 29% of people have a college degree. 30% are not overweight. 20% exercise regularly. The average N count for a man is 6. I think you are describing guys in the top 3%. 150k/year plus takes care of body plus wide friend circle. Having all three is rare.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:18 PM
0

In Thailand it commonly is sold as Kamagra. We have it at any pharmacy here.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:13 PM
1

The best, lowest energy option is to avoid them and the situation. This comes from SEAL command Jocko Willick.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:53 PM
2

It's not about how they view you as an atm or not but about finding someone that has enough value herself to be equals. That's a good way to think about the whole wealth aspect, I'll remember that.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:23 PM
1

If we are talking about enthusiam a full 70% of the equation is their attraction level to you from my set of experiences. Only 30% goes to experience, moral reservations etc
/r/askTRP30/09/20 08:26 AM
1

I think about as hard as finding a woman doctor or business owner in the 50s. Times are simply different now, the culture has changed to devalue home making and encourage traditional male pursuits and independence of thought and behavior.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:21 PM
4

He says dominance is the main factor which is in line. Variety and Immersion are obviously good traits. Emotion can be thought of as a one night stand vs her having sex with a boyfriend in some romantic setting at the peak of the pair bonding timeline. For girls, and even guys, that connection is a higher level experience. TRP discourages investment. This has tradeoffs. I think if you are able to compartmentalize the emotion you show to be just during sex, then you can capture benefits from both…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:17 PM
1

Maybe 5 hours per day most days, 2 years of studying which is on the longer side. Most people are ready after 1 year. Some pursue it aggressively and get something in 6 to 9 months even.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 12:57 AM
2

Freelance, no idea sorry. Good luck man! Send me a PM if you ever make it to Pattaya
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:32 PM
11

US salary, yeah. Some companies allow working anywhere, for the rest a VPN router lets you choose where you want your location to be. I wake up at 2pm and go to sleep at 5am, I like it because I don't have to change schedules when I go out partying at a club full of (literal) whores. Meetings are on Zoom, sometimes by phone, a US VOIP phone number is cheap, look at Zoiper, Skype, Google Voice, etc. For Zoom, the app has a virtual backgrounds option: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Zq-b51A3dA or…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:09 PM
26

Remote web developer, 35 years old, US citizen living in Thailand (and occasionally Cambodia) now. Banging $40 whores because same date lays are too much effort. I started my studies (at home, Udemy mostly) at 31. I endorse it. the subreddit learnprogramming is a good place to start (sorry can't link in this sub)
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:57 PM
5

Look into starting a local gang. Not necessarily a "run drugs and claim territory" gang; one of those leather jacket wearing, slick haired dance gangs from the 50's could be a nice alternative
/r/askTRP25/09/20 04:18 PM
3

Probably the same as a guy driving a porsche. Wants the attention of attractive women, doesn't want the attention of thugs or police. Overall considers it a worthwhile cost of being higher value
/r/askTRP24/09/20 04:16 PM
1

Your face ages more strongly than your body because we're more sensitive to subtle signs of face aging than body age, especially when you keep lifting.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 10:03 PM
1

In both cases your body composition would depend on your macro intake and how your body uses it based on training stimulus. Maybe the P ratio goes down slightly as you age, but it's not night and day.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 10:02 PM
1

Putting a 20 year old's testosterone in a 90 year old's body is likely to cause him heart issues among other things.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 10:00 PM
2

You better study sex and how to please. WIth a brain, fingers and dirty talk you can still give a good experience I think
/r/askTRP23/09/20 05:32 PM
2

Sounds wise. What would that be though? I can't think of anything you could bow out of after just 5 to 10 minutes without it signaling dislike some light activity where it's socially acceptable to head out if you're not feeling it
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:54 PM
4

He's not wrong, in relationships people compromise for each other. Otherwise they'd just be transactions.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:22 PM
2

I don't know about fighting but if I could do something from my computer in support then yeah I'd be in
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:39 AM
1

That is a good greased chute. My technique is to always have a legit reason to come over, eg showing her some relevant hobby stuff, her teaching me a meal or whatever. this is to give them plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 09:46 PM
6

Yeah, i don't think it's set in stone they always need to have something lined up
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:22 PM
1

I have one. I realized it takes away a latent fear of something going wrong and ending up in a kid. You can have a doc take sperms from your balls via injection later, for fertilization. I don't see a downside other than cost and initial discomfort.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 12:40 PM
3

Some guys prefer country life though
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:19 PM
1

ThaiFriendly is big there, i don't use it but hear it's easy for younger guys. Clubs are stupid easy, same night bangs are common
/r/askTRP31/08/20 07:33 AM
1

For a lovestruck guy I think it is quite helpful to see female behavior in an unvarnished sense. I think the problem comes when a guy becomes bitter over those facts of human behavior, as if women are just naturally supposed to be better humans
/r/ExRedPill30/08/20 07:09 PM
3

From USA. main thing is to have an income source: remote job, rental properties, etc. If you can do it I think it's a great option
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:38 PM
11

The good part is not pedestalizing, or chasing after women. The bad is the negativity and mean spiritedness it also encourages in places. The way I have reconciled it is to be a positive alpha that uplifts those around me. I try to remember to shrug it off when someone else is rude to me in any way, and think "they must have had a tough day" or similar
/r/ExRedPill30/08/20 11:44 AM
1

From reading the replies I'm glad i moved to Thailand. I don't drink anymore but I do go out, talk to and bed women. in asia being in your 30s isn't as big a deal
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:36 AM
2

Asian Massage Parlors are like $60 for the "massage" and $80 to $150 for "full service" (depending on area and girl hotness)
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:46 PM
2

Yeah man, i love these sluts. Look into Pattaya. Half the town is an open air bar district, super fun
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:42 PM
5

I'm in Thailand and do a ghetto version of this. Girls here cost about $50 all in.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 09:47 AM
11

$100 sounds low at least in the US. Probably more like $200 to $300 for a decent girl
/r/askTRP29/08/20 09:46 AM
2

Just how a society progresses I guess. Men are the same in other aspects. Listen closely when your friends discuss restaurants, travel, etc. Standards on everything just keep going up.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 10:32 AM
1

Well I try to embody the positive alpha, I just think it's more robust. Can you tell me exactly what the purpose of making her wonder what happened is meant to do? Maybe I'm not giving it a fair shake.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:29 PM
1

Make her wonder what happened (she will soon realize what did it). This part above is beta; it steps out of your own frame
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:19 PM
-17

Petty mindset IMO, an alpha doesn't build strength by trying to jab people like this. Stick to your principles during the breakup and move on.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 08:23 PM
0

Picasso said good artists borrow, great artists steal. I think the underlying message is that to produce a great work you can not/should not start from scratch. So to truly meet the criteria for stealing I think you need a single source, no attribution, straight copying, no additions. I don't think stealing applies here.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 09:38 AM
19

A lot of guys come here with a huge hole in their life surrounding girls. The "find a purpose" advice is used to move them to a better place mentally for attraction's sake. The side effects are mostly positive in terms of DGAF, de-pedestalizing, and general light heartedness. It's impossible to swing the power balance to your side when obsessed. If TRP is meant as a life-changing paradigm it helps to have something beyond women on that dimension too For every 100 people i would be surprised if m…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:27 PM
7

No they can't, what makes you think a first impression is worth more than decades of introspection?
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:59 PM
2

I think you're halfway there. The superficial stuff does count too though. The ultimate guy is essentially the Executive with a rich weekend life Helps at the local shelter. Donates money to needy and worthy orgs Lifts weights regularly when he has time When a major threat comes up at work he acts decisively Has a rich, diverse circle of friends Well cultured and experienced. Never short of things to talk about He's the ultimate guy to women partly because he's the ultimate guy to society.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/20 11:22 AM
0

Girls can't fight and when they shout it's more of a comedy moment. So one of their few outlets to punch back is socially dissing the other person. ghosting, blocking, spreading rumors etc
/r/askTRP12/08/20 07:31 PM
3

How about a ping if the soft next doesn't work? Give them a week off, then if attraction is too low for them to instigate then you do it as if nothing happened before
/r/askTRP09/08/20 04:09 PM
4

Ignore this guy, he's trying to overlay his own theory onto the market. We have 200 years of data with stocks posting 10% average in the US, 8.2% in Europe. Portfolio returns go down when you add bonds (about 4% annual return) but it's worth it to avoid panick sales during 40% drawdown periods.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 11:03 AM
9

I was in that situation and it made me realize monk mode creates more problems and never tapers off on its own like advocates claim. Better to nut once/week min by any means necessary
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:17 AM
0

America wasn't actually stolen Well, stolen is quite a subjective label. Did we "steal" California from Mexico? I would say no; battles of conquest count as state annexations and not theft.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/20 10:08 AM
8

If you mess up with a girl (in terms of DGAF, non-pursuit, etc) at some point, and then she seems to switch to making you work hard, how much of that decision was conscious? In one case I felt like the girl flipped a switch mentally. "Oh he's not at the level I thought he was. I'll hold back and make him work for it"
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:08 PM
1

I agree with him. Sex is more fulfilling than masturbation even if you don't orgasm.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 08:44 AM
2

There's a lot of older posters who use "read the sidebar" as a generic takedown on anyone who disagrees with them.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:00 PM
6

Are you light or dark skinned? As a dark skinned Indian white girls give me no time of day. other races are more accomodating
/r/askTRP20/07/20 10:59 AM
3

Unpopular opinion: Money decreases your sexual market value. I think this part deserves substantiation. What advantages does the 30k/yr guy have over 150k/yr, and 500k/yr?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 10:56 AM
0

Your reaction indicates how you received it and where your frame is. Imagine saying back 'lol. I saw this one dude walking around with a tent in his pants, everyone was looking" So now you've processed it as the tease it was meant to be, and also indicated you've not sexually uptight
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:39 AM
1

That would be epic if he tells you you're actually a lord set to inherit an estate somewhere.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:02 PM
1

Be less of a jester and more like the Joker. See that movie? Dude's a supreme alpha because you laugh but also with a sense that you might get axed at any time
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:28 PM
1

I'd be interested in the grad rate of non-IT engineers from MOOC style programs. I bet a lot can't do electrical or aerospace on their own; it's hard as hell
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:28 PM
1

SMV is Sexual Market Value. Maybe the problem is you're looking for SMV instead of just V. Find common interest in beneficial areas and the bonds should form naturally around that interest.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:58 AM
8

You might say “ugh, I hate getting tan lines” and that would give her the avenue to then say “just take your shorts off” and you would say “I will if you do too” examples/insight? Sounds like a high mental load to carry around to constantly think in these terms. Also I imagine it would put you in a sort of feminine mindframe. Maybe leading is the answer. "Wanna skinny dip with me?"
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:34 AM
1

This thread is unnecessarily beta in framing. I'm wondering what we'll all do tomorrow when we decide to walk out of this orwellian leftist haven, and onto our own site with our own rules.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 10:13 AM
100

You'll need to eventually incorporate girls and friends or else live a life of regret and pointless productivity; I say this as a 34 year old. A temporary focus period is okay but don't do this for decades
/r/askTRP14/06/20 11:08 AM
3

I just looked into this and it looks like more severe fraud is needed; not just lying about being wealthy.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:14 AM
1

Every 5 years of age difference it gets harder as you'd expect. Hopefully you'll continue to grow in other ways to offset this
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:03 PM
15

It's an SMV booster (or damper). How much it matters depends on the rest of your package. It won't compensate for acting weak
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:32 AM
1

He needs some distance to experience life without material possessions. A free roaming exploration of the cosmos, courtesy of his new pills. Where this magic carpet rides only time will tell. Just make sure not to leave valuables out around him for the time being.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:11 AM
19

I once revealed she was my only option. Instant sex with-holding and asking for BS. I was amazed how fast her mentality switched
/r/askTRP23/05/20 07:13 AM
1

Achievement has been sold as a good trait by society. You don't buy into the idea that machines are higher than men. Good for you
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:53 PM
1

I think you should just dgaf and talk to her like it never happened. That urge to punish is low value and the wrong mindset unless it's something that crosses a real boundary
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:29 AM
0

The real danger with weed is it opens you up to using other drugs which could wreck you
/r/askTRP09/05/20 08:55 AM
5

Imagine you still had to deal with all life's frustrations, but subtly being encouraged to be #2, and with 60% of the strength of #1
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:08 PM
7

Seems like mass media pushes blue, online pushes red
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:58 AM
-1

Finding purpose is a tall order, better to do that when the guy's sobered up and has bases covered. Otherwise you're coaching a druggie to find his purpose, of course he's going to want to intern at a pharmacy or some other dumb shit
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:06 AM
-10

Teach him to DGAF. Hit on girls, plate them, handle tests. I think he'll be in a good place thereafter
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:03 AM
23

So if you tell him he's too soft and you want him to be more dominant, you're right, it'll hurt him at first. But this is where guys differ because a challenge to our masculinity is met with a combination of anger and desire to assert control over the situation. Also to not lose face in front of other guys. Naturally the situation fixes itself.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:32 AM
1

I am still working on this. Initially I looked for domains with crossover appeal. I didn't like dancing, but comedy writing seemed interesting. Now I work on it sometimes after watching something on youtube and visualizing how to make it more amusing. In the wild it does train your instincts for banter. It even changes your personality to be more light and socially in tune, since that's needed to tease or poke fun at conventions.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:53 PM
5

Intelligence isn't black/white. Club girls won't win science awards but are socially smart. It'll be hard to find a girl who has no strengths at all. When you find her, don't be surprised if she's lazy and fat
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:50 PM
1

What I do (or try to, sometimes forgetting) is mimick them in a little kid voice. Watch me take this table in style... {tries to slide to chair, hits a crevice and falls on the the chair} Girl: Trying to be cool? {Little kid voice} Trying to be coouul??????! Look at me, I'm the popular judge! If your frame is high-banter you demean them under the cover of playfulness, and you don't have to think much because the same thing always works
/r/askTRP24/04/20 05:15 AM
4

Makes them feel safe and secure. "Well taken care of"
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:03 AM
13

Well, they tend to be hotter
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:09 PM
1

Personally I'm fine with cheap living, a high frills condo doesn't do much for me
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:06 AM
2

Makes sense, does this line of thinking still fit within TRP? I understand wealth/status is a part of it but I think focusing on that is beta behavior, the whole mindset of trading resources or being a provider
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:05 AM
3

TRP goes strongly against the social ideals taught from a young age
/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:43 PM
-16

Just because she wasn't into it at first doesn't mean it was rape. She started getting into it. You can parse this with legalese to open a 3 second window of non consent or just accept that men press women they know a bit and usually everything is fine
/r/seduction02/07/19 08:41 AM
1

To play devil's advocate, I think one should work towards the social ideal and then embrace any unique traits that seem to just be pillars of their identity. Example: being an extraverted, people person is objectively better for increasing your funnel. But I'm a strong introvert and this hasn't changed despite heavy effort. That's okay, because I can still be confident, humorous etc.
/r/seduction26/06/19 05:09 PM
12

Heh i think she flipped from interviewer to the one applying for the job Makes me think with a certain type of girl money kills every other attribute. She dolled up so fast
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:03 PM
2

Pretty deep proclamation, I don't really agree but I guess we won't see eye to eye on this
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:57 AM
3

Not a good teardown of the question, examples are helpful
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:13 AM
-2

Dominant frame. Exuding that you have options and are high status. Enjoyable to be around: sociable humorous. Good dancer is a bonus
/r/seduction24/06/19 11:17 AM
0

Come in higher energy than them to add value(mehow teaches this). "Wooo!"
/r/seduction30/05/19 01:55 PM
2

Good point, that would make for an awesome time and kill most of the issues with her not responding
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 06:12 AM
3

professional haircuts done every couple of weeks. This is a good one, haircuts are big
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