Should one look for IOIs before approaching?

bkamin14 · 2019-05-28T12:16:05+00:00

Yes you should but even if you don’t see any, there is nothing wrong with approaching

folasanmi · 2019-05-28T12:17:16+00:00

Not at all. You can be introverted and still cold approach but it requires some manipulation of social situations to appear high value, like indirect game, false time constraints etc.

darksidessj25 · 2019-05-28T12:57:48+00:00

I get IOIs before I approach and sometimes I just make eye contact and see what happens during a conversation. Don’t be afraid to flirt with someone you find attractive. They might like you back.

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-05-28T13:00:14+00:00

When you first start approaching and gaining experience then don't look for IOIs, just approach girls that you want. Over time when you start to get better seek out IOIs. I recommend reading "Undercover Sex Signals" by Leil Lowndes. It's kind of an annoying read but it is stupid accurate.

OptimalStreet · 2019-05-28T15:41:05+00:00

Just Approach, with something trivial like, Hi, Did you go to (random name) School? I recognize you from somewhere'

The IoI will be displayed if here, If any.

You can follow up her answer (Most likely a No) with any natural statement, with no harm done, allowing you those extra 5 seconds of looking for a direct IoI (Smiling, Positive body language, rebound question).

JinTheUnleashed · 2019-05-28T17:53:56+00:00

Easy hack. Ask for Directions or The Time. As you get more and more comfortable stopping with firmness/slowing down your speech, eventually you can just compliment something genuine before you leave.

"You're very pretty by the way."

"You have very pretty eyes by the way"

"You have a really dope energy by the way, where are you from? Oh thats awesome I'm actually from so and so. Nice meeting you"

Random ways you could easily transition after getting a girl to stop for the time/directions/GPS.

I also did a recent video just today on meeting women in the summertime and I go a bit into that as a easy way to warm up when you go outside solo:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1SbLdc7U-s&list=PL4kMVvKvmH2DH6HFkYsyA9fSu73o8Cvux&index=24&t=3s

We also got a podcast episode on talking to a girl for the first time for free on soundcloud/spotify/stitcher etc..

https://soundcloud.com/seduction-unleashed/talking-to-a-girl-for-the

Feel free to check those out I think it could genuinely help you and all our content is raw and from the heart. If not no worries. Keep us posted on your Journey Fam.

Title	Should one look for IOIs before approaching?
Author	embar5
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	May 28, 2019 11:58 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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