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Also I have no idea why theres a random camera emoji in there, that was supposed to be a comma lol
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 05:04 PM
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Thank you 🧡
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 05:01 PM
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I want to do life with her - including all the ups and downs. This is the mindset that so many people dont get. Many people either want to he in it only for the good stuff or expect that both people will "fix" eachother. Thats not how sharing life works. If one wants to be accepted fully they need to learn how to accept fully which isnt easy. Serious long term relationships arent easy but theyre extremely rewarding, arent they? It was very wholesome to read your comment, I wish all the best to y…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/23 10:22 PM
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Id suggest watching COC's podcast with Dr. K. The guy seems genuine, definitely not to be put next to PUAs and red pill gurus, he just analyzes celebrity body language mostly, wether it works, some aspects definitely do but I wouldnt advice you to be obsessed with this, its gonna make you overthink every social situation, work on things like eye contact, good posture, not closing yourself off, but try not to overthink
/r/ExRedPill31/07/23 05:35 PM
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Reading this, I was able to identify I do slightly have this as well, thank you OP, I will mention this with my therapist. I wish you the best of luck
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 09:55 AM
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You know, its pretty ironic, I was certain there is a couple of them I can still follow thinking theyre not so bad (upon leaving TRP) just to have one of their videos recomended after some time, to hear them spew more of the hypergamy or hardcore conservative views. Each time this happened Id just unsubscribe and Ive realized after some time that there are no more RP/Manosphere creators I follow lol
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 08:09 AM
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Just like getting out of harmful mindsets and getting through rejection isnt easy, being empathetic isnt easy either, but I believe we as humans should deal more kindly to one another and be there for eachother. Its nobody's responsibility to fix broken people, but if they ask we shall show empathy if someone acknowledges the possibility that they may be wrong and ask for advice Edit : Upon reading this I kinda sound like a philosopher on crack lol, anyways, all love, I know that if myself from …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 05:51 PM
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I hope venting this out helped. It might be comforting for you to know, theres millions or even billions of people out there thinking and feeling this exact thing, plenty of which are women, many of those women who would be great for you and for whom youd be great in return. Its just a matter of you bumping into eachother. Make sure youre prepared well for that moment, and help them find you. Keep being the best you, better days are coming brother, I know its scary and you dont have certainty on…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 05:48 PM
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Hey look, Im not advocating for OPs mindset, but lack of empathy will only create more people who are bitter and hateful. As someone whos worked hard to get out of those ideologies and have a healthy outlook on life again, I know how long it took for me to snap out of it and how hard it was to battle those mindsets. I can somewhat relate to OP even despite the fact I think he missed the mark completely. I used to get bullied hard when I was a kid, and those bullies would get attention from girls…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 12:37 PM
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Id say, apply the same standards to who you pick. If youre trying to get mad at the world that noone gravitates towards you if youre not taking care about your appearance, I suppose it would be hypocritical for you to reject women who dont care about their appearance either? I mean, I bet their personality is great as well isnt it? Sure, with age we begin to decline, thats natural, but thats not something we have control over, but you definitely have control over it at this age. Taking care of y…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 12:07 PM
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This. Personally, to OP, Id have a long conversation with myself about why it is I attract those kinds of women. Maybe its a matter of the enviroment? Perspectives differ within enviroments. Or maybe there is a deeper reason you keep attracting women who are into those ideals? You deserve someone who is mature enough to understand what mutual respect is. Some women will 100% base your worth off of only what you can provide, but many women won't. Relationships shouldnt be one sided, you're lookin…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 12:45 PM
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So you're telling me women aren't a hive mind after all? /j
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 12:42 PM
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As an ex red pill dude I can confirm. The fact that Id do all that shit like the gym and all that grind to be "hYpEr mAsCuLiNe" because theyve said so, and then to see some guy who did none of that shit and had way better success, yeah it was frustrating. Good news is that since Ive left and worked on my insecurities and self love, I can tell you my relationship with women my age, people as a whole and myself has never been better. Its nice not to operate on fear and insecurities at last
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 09:09 PM
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Ive read the book "The way of the superior man" and honestly I think this had fucked me up more than anything. Once I tried to be an authentic human being, which means Im a mix of feminine and masculine, made me terrified this means Im unlovable, and even though Im working through this, still its not good man, I really wish you all know how much this ideology can fuck you up, please stay out, it causes me a massive identity crisis rn Edit: I dont blame the book, I think it has some slight nice a…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/23 07:04 PM
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As someone who has been in a closed and pretty introverted group of friends, all the women in our group had been single for years and still struggle to find anyone, because theyre people who focus on their life more than parties, arent too outgoing and have the exact same struggles as we men do. In our group everyone who found a relationship did it at their own pace when the time was right, and there was no difference in gender. Sure, the women we know do occasioanally get approached by some gro…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 07:25 AM
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Thats actually a very interesting perspective, thank you for bringing this up
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 07:05 PM
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As an ex redpiller, its mostly cause they say if you dont do it women will walk all over you and ruin your life cause thats "female nature". Personally, Id believe that shit out of fear, they know how to make something sound scientific even though anyone educated enough could easily debunk this shit, but "nah theyre just afraid to tell the truth" 💀
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 06:30 PM
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Well, I wouldnt say all of them but considering theres 4 billion women on Earth its safe to assume for some that might have been the case.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 06:28 PM
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I mean, yeah perhaps, or maybe he's scared that he's gonna ruin his relationship with big companies like Meta, seeing Tate, Sneako etc get banned, although it is surprising as he's basically describing a lot of people he's been friends or collaborators with in this space, but I agree, Im not going to be interested in their content no more as it can be as bad as TRP, though I have some respect for at least calling that shit for what it is and perhaps making his manosphere audience see through the…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 05:45 AM
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We can battle the ideology but lets double down a bit shall we? Battling an angry mob by creating one isnt a solution. I highly condemn this post
/r/ExRedPill03/07/23 01:32 PM
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Cant tell you, I know one thing though, we're no longer living in the era of force and strength, back then I get it, it was the way it went, the bigger the bear the more dominance it had, and it just happened we, a species that is pretty violent had evolved to be intelligent. Right now though? We're living in an era of technology and intelligence. Even the red pill guys acknowledge that "today alpha male is a nerd programist". We have nuclear weapons and huge alliances like NATO, so conventional…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 02:21 PM
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As an ex red pill guy it makes me sick to my stomach that I used to learn this shit as well. For me it was more out of fear more than an intention that I will go out there and manipulate people, but rather women were shown in such a terrible light that people who fall deep into this rabbit hole make you think women are something to be conquered and tamed rather than seeing it as two people trying to create something beautiful together. That being said I take full responsibility, fortunately I di…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/23 02:38 PM
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One of my core values is the fact that Im a big minimalist, and I think the first straw for me was when I realized that I started to want wealth just for the sake of being the alpha that everybody wants attention from like Tate. Ive realized I never wanted that in my life, why now suddenly? Then I started to get paranoid about my distrust about women, I remember one day I started questioning some of the "female nature laws" they all talk about, because if what the red pill says is true then you …
/r/ExRedPill30/06/23 09:36 AM
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The main risk is that they try to point a narrative by anegdotal evidence while promoting ideas harmful to women mostly but they harm both genders, as they make people paranoid about bs like hypergamy, trying to show women as pieces of meat who just react on impulses and are too emotional to ever do anything competent, so basically theyre incompetent and ruthless and only exist so you can use them for sexual purposes and having kids, but remember that male infidelity isnt bad at all because its …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 06:42 PM
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Ask yourself if thats really something you want deep down, because to me it seems like theres some kind of an expectation and pressure on you. Hooking up can sound fun but at the end of the day (and that is my personal opinion, yall can do whatever you want but thats how I personally view things) youre having meaningless sex with women who are most likely only interested in casual hookups and having fun, and you're risking catching feelings for such person, which likely isnt going to be a good p…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 08:42 AM
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"I have been feeling depressed because I feel like my friends are living life like actual adults with decent pay and I have fallen behind" Let me ask you this, have you ever thought about what it is that you actually want? Is there a plan? Is there a vision? Or do you just wanna find any job that pays well and "live the life like the rest"? The rest isnt better nor worse than you. Not everybody had equal chances and youre dealing with unique challanges, that is ubderstandable. But ask yourself, …
/r/ExRedPill27/06/23 01:46 PM
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Its me and you together bro. Ive been worrying about this for sometime, but I realize this fear is subconcious and pretty much irrelevant on a bigger scale, my brain is worried about being cast out and rejected, thats natural, and I suppose thats how you probably feel too. Ive been detoxing from the red pill for a while and Im a lot better. But you gotta realize, worrying only has negative impact on your well being and doesnt change or impact the world, and Im a hypocrite for saying that as Im a…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 09:41 PM
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Have you thought about what strengths you actually have? As much as I dislike the redpill way of thinking that "you must grind get rich then you'll get pussy and live the life" I do actually think finding some purpose for yourself is a good way to start. If you trully think about it, unless you're religious, there isnt some large divine purpose to our existence, thats a strength as your purpose can be whatever you want. Think of it a positive nihilism and embracing the absurd of life, you were b…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 08:37 PM
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Ive actually thought about it back in the red pill days a lot. Like those men crying conversations, I always thought things like "so does that mean all the soldiers with PTSD will never find a woman since all women supposedly are repulsed by weakness?". Never made much sense to me. I could never get that brainwashed as I have tons of friends with mental illnesses like schizophrenia, depression, bipolar disorders etc. I have a big past related to mental illness as it was thought I might be schzop…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 08:02 PM
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Here hoping we all find that special someone we're compatible with. Thank you for a great conversation 🙏 Im glad Im starting a new with a healthy mindset and clear intentions on who Im looking for, I can and most likely will get hurt during the way, but if pushing through many times to find the right one is what I need to do, then I will. Wish you the hest of luck 😁
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 07:40 PM
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Exactly. I agree you should always strive for the best you can and improve on what you can. But when it comes to emotions some people either cant help it when something bad happens, some are just straight up softies. I dont think any person should make their significant other feel responsible for their emotional state or well being, man or women, but I do also believe that when you trully love someone, you both feel the need of putting your partners needs above your own, and at least in my opini…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 07:00 PM
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Id say for me its the opposite, Ive had very loving parents, and the unconditional love from my mother is something I will always seek, I just cant accept the idea that we "love" eachother only as long as I provide her with stability and play a character of a rock. Just felt like I couldnt ever love or be loved, you know? You can imagine this realization wasnt pleasant, but I reject it. I dont have a guarantee Id ever find that person, but I will do whatever it takes. Falling into healthy true l…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 06:35 PM
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Im proud of you that youve realized that. Sometimes, whats annoying is that my brain still has the red pill beliefs inside. It feels like its rather scared of leaving them behind, its scared of them being true deep down, and fears all and that people who reject them are just deluded and lie to themselves. The absence of love, the absence of women who can accept me for me, I can tell why Im scared. Im working on it though. Sometimes I struggle to know whats trully real and the red pill has given …
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 05:51 PM
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Dont get me wrong, those arent my beliefs, Im quoting red pill beliefs just asking for someone to show me a different perspective on this
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 04:13 PM
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I cannot lie, this was a wonderful watch. Gave me so much hope and motivation, another couple video to add when I visualize my future relationship. Thank you for sharing ❤️
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 03:01 PM
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The evolution argument is something Ive been stressing myself over for a long long time, while searching and even speaking to a licensed therapist, human behaviour is wayy too complex, and what youre saying right now is AWALT brother. Everything we do has something to do with evolution and we can clearly see we go against evolution all the time, human behaviour cannot be oversimplified this way and this is exactly why the red pill rethoric on all women being evolutionarily hardwired to want X an…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 10:30 PM
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Not currently in a relationship though Im dating, so far doesnt seem like that but we will see. As for the rock, yeah I guess but I dont neccessarily look for women who have that kinda demand as unmanly as it may sound, I dont mind being an emotional support but only if it goes both ways, as thats the kind of woman who can get turned off by vulnerability and thats not someone Im looking for. Im a sensitive person, I can be a rock if someone needs me to be but Id never play this rock 24/7 like so…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 10:09 PM
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Of course yeah, it all depends on the situation, I dont mind listening and staying if she clearly communicates that its something very important to her, dont mind saying no and going out either, but I definitely mind a situation of me actually listening just to find out it was a test. But Im glad to hear that it isnt as common as I might have thought. Ive seen that from previous relationships but my ex who did that was an extremely insecure person. And yeah TRP is gonna fit it into AWALT
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 09:39 PM
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Yeah definitely. By stay with her I mean, idk, whatever she communicates? Id probably just wanna talk it out and get to the bottom of a problem, as unsexy as it might be to someone who wanted some fun in "testing" their partner. Idk, being constantly tested would just make me hella anxious next to her thanks to what the red pill "taught" me, and I suppose this is something I gotta have as a boundary. Your answear was very informative, thank you
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 09:28 PM
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Dont mind being playful at all. Although yeah I cannot trust the red pill "play book" anymore, I really just wanna know whats up and be informed as to stop any kinda generalizations and to be able to not only respond properly but not be worried, as yeah that kinda feeds this idea of women being irrational in their nature and that a masculine man should treat that as a test of his manhood because "women cant help it". I get a lot of women are sick of being put into those boxes, just asking for cl…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 09:09 PM
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Agreed, being confused doesnt excuse the fact OP has to take accountability for his actions, no matter what his state was. I can say I st*bbed someone innocent because I was in a bad mental state, doesnt excuse the fact that I still did it (just an example, didnt actually happen lol) though OP still deserves some understanding and empathy cause we all got manipulated by this cancer of an ideology, even though I believe he has a duty to at least apologize and redeem himself as he ruined relations…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 06:19 AM
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Oh wow, I did not know mewing was debunked, shoot, Ive been obsessed with learning how to do that a couple years back, thanks for letting me know
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 10:21 PM
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Casey Zander trying not to promote his course every 2 seconds: visible discomfort Typical red pill dating coach teaching game and maximizing SMV
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 09:08 PM
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Post 7 days old but I'll share my story. Had a difficult time as a kid, needed to undergo treatment, came back to school and recovered, then I got rejected, felt bad, googled some stuff, found self help influencers who convinced me to start going to the gym and so I did. Life became better but I didnt know the red pill back then yet, though I did hear some beliefs that it includes, like game. Then another very traumatic event happened which Im not gonna disclose, took an entire year to recover, …
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 09:01 PM
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Hamzas message about implementing good habits like meditation and leaving bad habits is alright, his other advice like dating isnt too good though and defo I wouldnt advice listening to him advocating for manipulation and calling people Jeffries for not having his world view, the rest I agree though I dont really get whats wrong with Brett Maverick, the guy used to make Alpha Male/Bad Boy videos in like 2019 sure but it was mostly to follow the trend, he's usually very genuine and just does mode…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 08:49 PM
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I love watching short fighters, theyre usually more illusive, see Mike Tyson for example, or modern fighters like Lomachenko, Tank Davis, or Canelo in boxing, or Khabib or Holloway in the UFC
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 08:42 PM
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I dont think its for long. The red pill is being taken as a threat to services like YouTube, see Tate and Sneako disappearing, can only hope the same will happen to the gender war podcasts like Fresh and Fit, I mean supposedly those people are getting discussed by national security councils because of promoting r*pe culture. Fortunately enough most people arent chronically online watching dating advice and are busy with their lifes, the real world is extremely different to the internet space
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 11:27 AM
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Paranoia about women and relationships. According to the RP women are illogical in nature, and even if they mean well they will sooner or later leave you or cheat on you if youre not the hypermasculine alpha rock, because they cant help it and "cant be blamed for their nature". They use absolute oversimplifications, backed by anegdotal evidence and use only fans models on podcasts to validate their claims. In reality, humans as a whole are extremely complex, women are individuals and men and wom…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 11:09 AM
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Not neccessarily, financial stability is key for survival and quality of life, height isnt, there is no real need for you to be tall other than in physical confrontations, sports and attracting a partner who is into tall people
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 06:46 PM
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What defies something being a "bad thing" though? Height preference is subjective, so theres no really a way to say wether thats something bad, rather just something a lot of people get insecure about therefore the responses
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 06:38 PM
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Yeah it was a mistake on my part to blind myself in the red pill to the point of thinking this is all there is, and the point of view of the gurus is all I should take into consideration
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 11:27 AM
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All facts bro, we gotta be rational that both sides have preferences, but thinking of yourself as lesser and thinking women feel repulsion towards you because of your height is unhealthy and just not truthful to reality
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 11:25 AM
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Very valuable to hear your point of view, very sorry that you had to go through that, reading this honestly helped me a lot to understand both sides of this coin, wish you good luck as well, we all deserve better
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 11:43 AM
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Good for him he's turning his life around, the red pill has its positives and Id say your friend needs to keep those positives for sure. But just because someone has something good and valuable to say to you, doesnt mean they're right 100% of the time, but your friend is going to have such an illusion. When I was in there I had the same problem, "oh yeah but hes helped me with this, and this, and he told me to do x which helped my mental health and y to get this girl interested, so that means he…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 08:00 AM
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They invite clueless only fans models and bait them to prove their confirmation bias, they know how to manipulate the arguments as well as the setting and profit off of controversy and struggles of men. Im surprised they havent been banned yet like Tate and Sneako as at least in my opinion they are way worse. The only real positives are they ecourage men to workout and take care of their finances, but thats such surface level advice you can hear from anyone, consuming their content just turns yo…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 12:26 PM
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Thank you! I'll check it out, and yeah any time I see this content I select "this doesnt interest me", I will definitely try erasing history and likes
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 07:52 AM
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Ohh, that makes a lot of sense yeah
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 06:50 PM
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Yeah thats what I did and I still saw this content and thats why I made the post, Im trying to adapt new and more healthy way of thinking, but still even on incognito all I see is fresh & fit shorts 😒
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 04:15 PM
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"We're so much more bad ass when we all work together" This^ This is the kinda message we gotta push to the world
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 04:14 PM
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This is one of the best videos Ive ever seen on the topic, thank you for sharing
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 01:56 PM
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According to their beliefs it goes both ways. For them 100% of the time it goes like this: a guy is attracted to every female friend and only talks to her because he wants sex or a relationship, and a woman is only talking to her male friends because she wants validation and attention without having to commit or give him sex. Im not saying this is never the case, but to say that this is always the case is ludacris. I have a ton of female friends, I consider all of them to be very attractive but …
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 01:21 PM
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Ok so I'll try my best to give you the best insight I can as I know some war room guys personally (I used to be very deep into this space Ive only left recently). The war room has its good and bad, like pretty much anything. The good is, yes there is a lot to learn about business, it encourages self improvement and if youre very red pilled you can meet like minded people (not sure if you can categorize as a positive but whatev) As for the negatives, well yes they do all idealize Andrew Tate, and…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 12:58 PM
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A very new person here. Id say its the second one. The red pill have convinced me that women act on fake biological/evolutionary impulses they cant control, putting them in such a spot where you have to constantly 100% of the time with her have your guard up and put up an act otherwise she'll just leave you and betray you. It gave me extreme paranoia. I dont usually get emotional easily and consider myself go have a good emotional intelligence, but I do suffer from a form of PTSD she would soone…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 10:25 AM
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