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3

That’s very disturbing! I feel like men who are so willing to look the other way when other men are literally sexual assailants are often telling on themselves. It reminds me of a quote I heard once: everyone knows women who have been sexually assaulted, yet no one seems to know any men who sexually assault women. It’s so true. Obviously these men are out there, and even men we know! If sexual assault isn’t an automatic deal breaker for friendship, that says more about this friend than I’m sure …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:28 PM
3

Ugh I’m so sorry you’ve had this trauma and pain but please know that you’re thoughts and process is actually super common to survivors. One thing I tell my clients when they struggle with self love after trauma (or just in general) is to imagine what happened to you had happened to a sister or friend or someone else you love. How would you talk to them/what would you say, and learn to say those same things to yourself bc you’re just as deserving! I definitely feel like you should distance yours…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:34 PM
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As someone who’s never watched or sought out porn, it’s shocking to me to learn that it really is this violent and degrading towards women and that it’s been considered so normal to the men (and some women) who watch it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:43 PM
89

Do the pickest or pickmes REALLY go for this??? (Don’t answer that)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:26 PM
12

Then they expect us to lick that thing 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:22 PM
30

What’s always stuck out to me is the way the female mental health crises are covered. Even a mentally healthy person would breakdown under the pressure she was under. Watching the clips of her crying in interviews about the paparazzi was the hardest part of that documentary to watch for me. But I think specifically I look at how men in Hollywood are treated for struggling with mental health versus how women are when they come forward. I look at robin williams and how he was basically Martyrized …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:14 AM
20

Also not to mention the way they pitted Britney and Christina against each other. Specifically Christina’s “innocence” vs brittneys “sexuality” (which, considering how young they both were, makes me want to vomit)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:06 AM
9

Of course! Only someone contemplating killing or hurting themselves would be irrational enough to make themselves so disgusting to the male gaze like that!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:04 AM
6

Mmm well I need to see if we’re “financially compatible” from the beginning so let’s see those pay stubs and tax returns, fellas! 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:07 PM
3

Amazing. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:38 AM
7

Wow. That just kept getting worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:00 PM
28

I remember my roommate in college got into a terrifying car accident and hurt her back driving him from visiting her boyfriend. The next weekend he went see her and expected her to give him a blowjob 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:34 AM
7

Men with premature hair loss have a special brand of audacity 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:30 PM
13

“Go with the flow even when nothings flowing.” Why does this sentence speak so much truth to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:53 AM
46

Nothing like getting ghosted by a guy with a receding hairline at 27
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:39 AM
4

He sounds broken and rotten to the core to feel the need to do that to you! Even if you weren’t prefect in the relationship, cheating and humiliating is abusive and never acceptable. Good for you for not accepting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:15 PM
10

It’s never your fault when a man is a scrote! One day you’ll look back at this and be able to give yourself loving kindness, but until then we’re here for you to support you as you heal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:04 PM
29

“Let me get that for you then.” 😂 I can’t. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:29 PM
21

This man gives new meaning to the word “audacity”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:24 PM
4

You even brought your sources and they STILL couldn’t handle it!!! what’s that saying they love to throw at us “snowflakes?” “Facts don’t care about your feelings”....?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:04 PM
19

Is there something you like to do together? Maybe you could get him something related to that! An example: my sis and her bf love to go to events together so for his birthday she got a glass box with their names on it so they can put the tickets from movies or sports games ( etc) that they went to together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:56 PM
5

THIS!!! So tired of guys constantly whining about how you have to be over six foot and makes a ton of money to get matches. Men, no one is asking you to put your height and wages on your tinder profiles. You are doing that on your own!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:40 PM
4

Not sure how “only date men you are attracted to and aren’t purposely giving themselves ED with violent, degrading porn.” Is “body shaming” but whatever..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:40 PM
3

There’s not but there’s therapies you can do to adapt and learn social skills to have healthier relationships. But again, he doesn’t seem motivated anyway!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:44 PM
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First of all if this dude legitimately lacks empathy that’s not an “easy fix.” That’s intense therapy and cognitive work, which it doesn’t even sound like he’s motivated to do! If he doesn’t care enough to carry her water bottle up the steps I can’t imagine a world where he agrees to serious mental health treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:33 PM
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Omg you are such a queen! I don’t have anything to add except that I’m so inspired by this story and the way you provide for your mom and siblings! Ps, glad she left your LVM dad!!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:29 PM
11

Yes same! I’m in my mid 20s and have never had a relationship longer than two months and thought there was something wrong about me. Not in the sense of “no one wants to be with me!” But in the sense of “why don’t I want to be with any of these guys?” But you hit the nail on the head: high standards! FDS hasn’t really changed my dating in life in terms of what I practice but I definitely feel more validated and confident when I make the decision to cut a guy off over “little” things. I’ve also a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:16 PM
60

“Be a hoe” is the only way men think about women have value to them if we’re not in a relationship with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:36 PM
13

This sounds so peaceful ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:48 PM
4

I feel like the issue is that “ nice guys” use it as a shield to propel any (valid) criticism. Everyone had things they need to work on and blind spots that need to be addressed in a relationship, but the difference between HVM and “nice guys” is that nice guys self sabotage with this whole “ women want bad boys” narrative to keep from changing and doing the actual self work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:44 PM
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Ohhhh I see. One piece of advice my mom always hammered into me is to keep some kind of record of things as they happened (like dates, what was said, and how you handled it) so that in work if you ever did have to go to a higher up about something, you had some kind of proof that this has been an ongoing problem and that the the coworker/supervisor was made aware of it, and that you did everything you were supposed to do. Not that that’s going to change a narcissists persecution of the situation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:24 PM
1

Ahhh I know. I think that maybe it comes from a place of them being so used to feeling so entitled, that now they’re entitled to force everyone to see the situation from their own perspective- because why wouldn’t they be?? I think the best thing to do to shut them down is just to block them and stop responding, bc if you keep arguing (which I’ve definitely been guilty of) it just validates that there’s some truth to their version of the story. But that can sometimes be just as frustrating in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:00 PM
4

I hate when you call guys out and set standards and boundaries for yourself and they pull the “wow now I see you’re true colors!” Card. I don’t have any advice, but just know it’s simply their attempt to gaslight you so that they can change the narrative to not be the villain. You know your truth and if a guy can’t respect that you’re better off without him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:11 PM
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Ugh I one time put a guy in his place for trying to pressure me to meet him a place I wasnt comfortable with, and I did explain why, as a woman, that wouldn’t fly. His response was to reach out and apologize that I’d had such experiences and expresses empathy and understanding, as well as offer to meet me at a restaurant and buy me dinner. I didn’t end up meeting him or going in the date, but it just goes to show how easy it is for men when a woman shares her negative experience or trauma to sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:39 PM
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So basically sounds like you were in pain vs sounds like you were having a pleasurable experience? Ew! I’m sorry you had such an experience with so low value a man at such a young age!! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:45 PM
17

Whether or not I agree with splitting half the expense is besides the point, if a man had the audacity to even ask to split half the cost, I don’t even want to think about what he’s expect of me down the road when we’re married!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:40 PM
2

YESSS! But then they throw around “she was asking for it dressed like that! She’s a tease!” Ok so which is it? Did he rape her for power, or because he couldnt control himself sexually? Always trying to have it both ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:23 PM
31

“Actually what you and other women experienced isn’t gaslighting. Gaslighting is actually when....” OH THE IRONY! 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:11 PM
29

Any woman willing to move halfway around the globe to marry a man she doesn’t know to fight for a better life for herself is automatically a badass in my book!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:08 PM
37

“If I’m a feminist does that mean I can hit you?” 🤡🤡🤡 no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:00 PM
12

Well at least now with FDS you can learn the skills to vet more effectively and hopefully won’t have to put up with LVM in the future! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:51 PM
58

Oh my gosh. I’ve been ghosted by guys I was dating and it hurts so much, I can’t imagine what you must be feeling after having been ghosted by a serious boyfriend! Just know that as bad as it hurts now, staying with him and inevitably breaking up down the road after putting up with months more of his bullshit would hurt ten times worse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:40 PM
4

Love your moms quote! Well done, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:06 PM
19

My first reaction was “ that’s irritating but not a huge deal.” But the more I sit with it the creepier and uncomfortable I feel about someone saying that to someone they’re not even in a relationship with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:05 PM
4

Ha, typically when guys have to ask “am I the asshole,” the answer is a resounding yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:26 PM
6

Well the sad thing was, HE was the one who posted it on Reddit in an “am I the asshole?” post 🤦🏼‍♀️ so if he was trying to beg her, he certainly wasn’t doing a great job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:35 PM
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I got down voted and called superficial on another relationship sub bc I took a woman’s side who was mad bc her hinge match asked if the ring she had in her picture was from a thrift store. (It wasn’t, it was her dead mother’s). Literally unjoined every other sub that day. 🙌🏼 it’s not even worth the energy to read those comments because it just makes me mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 11:58 PM
6

YES SIS, and welcome!! So happy you left that man. He sounds like a pos for sure. This made me so happy and I’m so happy you’re going to work on building yourself and your confidence up, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 11:31 PM
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My sisters roommate was dating a guy (saw him only twice) then invited him to their apartment for the third date, COOKED HIM DINNER, had sex with him, he stole my sisters favorite travel mug, then never called the roommate again (even as she reached out to get the mug back). But tell me again how that culture is empowering and I’m the out of date prude for suggesting not sleeping with random dudes who’s last name you barely know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:09 PM
30

This situation aside, I cannot imagine being with someone who thinks like this?? He should be embarrassed that she found out he’s been lying! Not angry that his lie caught up to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:03 PM
10

I think the “worst” way FDS has changed my life is having to listen to my friends complain about their LVMs and then get defensive when I tell them they’re trash and should just simply drop them. Sorry, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:20 PM
49

The grammar is almost as nauseating as the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:17 PM
8

Ugh, seriously!! I’m sad they never used their platform for anything positive, like body acceptance, and instead went the other way with tons of plastic surgery and disproportionate body shapes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:22 AM
11

I know. I still remember when she posed naked for Peeta and her family shamed her for it bc she was “fat”!! I’m kind of disappointed that she’s gone so crazy loosing weight and doing waist trainers the past few years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:14 AM
6

It sounds like OP was politely trying to be unengaging so he’d pick up that she wasn’t interested without having to flat out reject. Take a hint, dude, and save yourself some face! 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:36 AM
28

Also can we NOT compare women like they’re objects?? Both of these women are beyond gorgeous and definitely way above the “average” woman looking at this post (granted, only bc we don’t have professional make up and hair teams and crazy-flattering lighting) what is this post even portraying besides, the statement that that all women inherently deserve to be cheated on for not be the most beautiful woman alive??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:31 AM
124

Apparently glory holes will be making a comeback post-covid. Maybe they can suck each other off and leave us alone for a bit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:28 PM
7

Or some barely legal insta model he doesn’t even have a chance with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:20 PM
11

STILL probably wouldn’t be good enough for this scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:26 PM
31

I don’t even want to know what this mans idea of “wowing” him is. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:50 PM
4

Good for you, though I can feel how down you are about your situation right now. It sounds like this relationship wasn’t going to last anyway as he was clearly cheating, so at least you can take solace in having ended it on your own terms and not looking like a fool. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:11 PM
79

This post has really convinced me to get a dildo, which I never even considered before. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:14 AM
8

I can’t even imagine the comments coming. You’re way braver than I am! Good for you for dishing out solid advice, though. Maybe he’ll take it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:41 PM
9

Then when you ignore that cordial invite they follow up with “where’s my cuddles?” A few days later. 🙄😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:37 PM
10

At least Hooters understands their demographic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:36 PM
2

It’s exactly what you think it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:29 AM
3

Lmaooo that he actually had any other girls who were viable romantic/sexual options. Congrats on the house, and double congrats on not being tied down to a SCROTE coming into the new year!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:10 AM
3

APPLICANTS!! 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:45 PM
9

They need their sunglasses bc they’re aLwAyS oUtDoOrS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:10 PM
1

How disheartening that such a HVM (the father in law) can still raise such a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:59 PM
9

This is amazing! Was she really that bad? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:09 AM
84

At least uncle fester is a HVM! He treated that babysitter right!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:25 PM
2

Love funfetti! Nice choice and beautiful cake! I hope you’re planning to get yourself something special when you finish your therapy. ❤️ You deserve it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:01 PM
81

Right?? Does he realize she lives in a town full of millionaires?? Please check yourself, sir!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:39 PM
2

Not overlooking LVM behaviors bc he does some sweet things. I had one ex that I thought highly of because he would do sweet things when we were together, like get me another beer and show affection attention in front of his friends. I broke up with him because he showed up 20 minutes late for dinner to meet my parents then closed the door in my face on Valentine’s day bc I wouldn’t have sex with him (we’d been dating for like two months). Still thought of him as a good guy despite it bc he was ✨…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:08 AM
6

I had a friend who’s bf would literally make negative comments about me and my friends to her right in front of us, trying to be funny. When I brought it up to her she used that “social anxiety” excuse. I hope I’m never the woman who throws my friends under the bus to please some SCROTE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:00 AM
6

Once blocked someone because he insisted on a park date after I told him I expect to be taken to dinner (note: this was after he suggested drinks and I gave him a chance to correct himself with a proper date). A few minutes later he texted me again from some random number! Asking why I had blocked him! We had just matched on OLD that day. of men can’t respect when you literally block them than there is no hope for prompter boundaries down the line. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:57 AM
6

This is 100% the type of guy who demands/expects blow jobs from his girlfriend when she’s on her period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:28 PM
46

First off your reaction to that LVM was ICONIC!! second you sound like your living lockdown goals rn! Love that for you queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:54 PM
16

Congrats, sis!! So much to celebrate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:49 PM
4

100% this!^ not sure what state you’re in but in my state of practice licensing goes through the department of consumer affairs, so you can start there! Also I’m assuming he’s a member of the American Psychological Assoc (note: not the American psychiatric association, they’re the same acronym) so you could try there too. If youre looking for more info I’d suggest looking up the code of ethics to get more familiar with what he did that is against his code (besides the obvious coercion).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:44 PM
2

Glad you found FDS, queen! Sorry you had to go through that abuse, but happy you now know you’ll never be in that position with a relationship again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:19 PM
18

I work with teenagers and came to say this same thing! It is in no way teen girl things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:15 PM
9

My dad is definitely a HVM and honestly I feel like I’ll never find anyone who will treat me as good as he treats my mom (sob). I’m 26 and still living at home and he has never asked me to contribute to groceries or pay rent or anything. He does his share of housework and cooking, goes out of his way to take care of our cars, buys groceries for my sis and her bf who don’t even live at home. Despite having two brothers in the area, he did 100% of the work taking care of his mother (who lived with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:08 PM
1

Love that he truly believes he made a good point! 🤡 it does not sound like she missed out on “a good brotha,” sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:54 PM
24

I had a conversation with my coworker about dating yesterday and she basically recited the fds handbook! I need to recruit her to the sisterhood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:47 PM
3

I hate when you match with a guy and they pull the “wow I didn’t think you’d be interested in me,” or “you probably don’t usually talk to guys like me.” Wtf do you say to that? It is your job to convince me you’re worth my time, not mine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:22 PM
78

“I feel like I’m being used.” Spoiler alert: it’s bc you ARE being used!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:13 PM
51

Looking at her standing there alone. So pathetic. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:01 AM
3

QUEEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:01 AM
96

Exactly what is his “side hustle.” I automatically do not trust anyone that uses that term!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:33 PM
11

Best advice I ever got was from a high school teacher who said “ any time girls fight it’s over a guy. Maybe not even a guy who they’re interested in, but a guy is always at the center of it.” I shrugged it off but it always stuck with me, and the older I get the more I realize how accurate she was!!! Every fight Ive ever had with a girlfriend has somehow involved a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:51 PM
14

Nooooo! Omg the bar cannot get any lower for these men!!! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:48 PM
13

My dad is a definite HVM! Earlier this week my mom got mad at him bc he bought her cookies as a treat- she’s been suffering from high blood pressure and is trying to eat healthy. She told him that she felt like he wasn’t listening and telling her he didn’t care. The next day I came home from work to find he had gone out and bought her garlique! He also just retired, so he’s been cleaning the house and cooking dinner almost every night since June (as he should, but he is happy to do it and doesn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:33 AM
31

“He’s my husband so he takes priority.” But notice how he didn’t make her his priority. Gosh this post worse and worse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:40 PM
8

Love this point! So well worded, thank you! I’ll definitely be using this in my arguments in the (probably near) future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:34 PM
99

They act like we can only focus on one or the other. Empowering women vs ending toxic masculinity. They don’t realize that doing one is doing both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:10 PM
7

I was looking to see if someone else picked up on that! The sign of a 2020 Pickmeisha for SURE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:04 PM
3

No male role models is probably better than LVM/nvm male role models, tbh. Especially with all the scary stuff that goes on! You’re doing a great job!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:54 PM
2

Haha he probably paid for like a five minute session!! Yeah I can see how that’s been hard bc you don’t want to deprive your son of something/cut off that relationship if they were close (especially with your ex hounding you and not letting you process it), but you definitely made the right choice!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:45 PM
3

Yes!! The hair monologue (sometimes referred to as the bob monologue) from the vagina monologues made me realize just how messed up this practice is. And, societal implications of pedophilia aside, can we talk about the practice of waxing down there?? I’ve never done it but I’ve heard friends talk about puffed up and swollen they get down there when they go for a Brazilian. That cannot be healthy for an already sensitive part of the body! Or good for your ph with all that wax and products. Not t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:38 PM
6

I hope he’s just being a troll, but still what a horrible message for any woman struggling with cancer or hair loss to read. Those ladies are stronger and more bad ass than he will ever be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:29 PM
5

He bought a cam girl?!?! That’s icky!! Good for you for staying strong! I know it’s not easy with everything going on right now. Btw, I think you made the right choice about the present for your son! I’m not sure how easy that choice was for you but it would only confuse your poor kid (and also give your ex an in next time he tries to guilt/manipulate you into talking to him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:27 PM
5

Every friend that “pitied” you has probably been in your same position at one time, whether they know it or not! So don’t be embarrassed. Also those people that pitied you for not knowing probably now secretly admire you for having the courage to dump his cheating ass! Focus on the victories as much as the negatives and celebrate yourself and your growth, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:59 PM
3

Get up there and slay, queen! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:10 PM
13

Haha when I’m on a swipe spree, his preferences are so far from my mind! I’m trying to figure out if he deserves ME, not the other way around! Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:09 PM
8

I think at the end of the day the answer is why you’re doing something. Are you doing it to have fun and feel yourself, or are you doing it to attract male attention and interest? After that the audience is going to perceive it as they will and you can’t control it, as with all art. But I think it really boils down to the artists genuine intention, and hopefully we can get to a place as a society where we can see a woman being sexual and don’t have to assume it’s for horny men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:13 PM
45

On any OLD app if a guy states that he “doesn’t do” a certain type of girl/behavior (like “bikini pics”???) I’m automatically out. Even if it doesn’t apply to me, we’re not going to cast judgment and value on women for living their lives the way we want to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:03 PM
18

“If this was a woman”... yes bc statistically women don’t beat women!! MEN do!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:23 PM
10

Ugh I hope she finds the strength to tell her aunt and her aunt raises some hell!! So gross. Unfortunately the parents won’t take this seriously until he straight up assaults her and it’s too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:19 PM
8

Needed this reminder today. Thanks, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:12 AM
8

Mentioned off hand that it was national men’s day to my 13 year old male patient today. His reaction was “what do we need an international men’s day for?!?!” Lol I don’t know, kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:27 AM
2

Anyone else concerned about how he “somehow” made 30k in the stock market out of nowhere??? If I were her I’d call the IRS on his audacious ass. That’ll teach him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:25 AM
33

Never said they were female prostitutes... 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:22 AM
3

Pop off! I love the ring!! Congrats, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:18 AM
7

I remember when that movie was coming out I read an article about male vs female strippers and it said that while both genders tend to go into stripping for similar reasons (easy money), statistically females leave as soon as they are financially able to while men actually express that they enjoy it and will choose to stay even beyond their own necessity. That always stuck with me as a good illustration of the differences between male and female sexuality in the context of society, even when the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:10 PM
7

It doesn’t have to be a perfect song for the message to be true. People complaining about wap arent saying “these women are glamorizing being degraded during sex!” They’re saying “these women are glamorizing being comfortable in their sexuality and vocal with their needs in the bedroom!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:06 PM
8

I have mixed opinions on the song as many other comments have similarly expressed, BUT I absolutely LOVE that perhaps the biggest hip hop record of the year is two women not only owning their own sexuality but also telling a man exactly what they want in bed that will get them off. I mean... need I say more? And I love that teenage girls are growing up with that being normalized bc of this song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:02 PM
4

Entire birthday cake to myself > sharing with any man any day!! Happy birthday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:23 PM
5

Lmao how audacious of her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:22 PM
12

Funny how some gay guys tear women down as a way to win over their straight counterparts who are too homophobic and drowning in their own internalized toxic masculinity to ever acknowledge them as equals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:34 AM
14

Bc that’s GaY, and god forbid someone think they’re not having sex with numerous women a month!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:33 AM
14

It says so much that we describe women who approach men as “aggressors.” If we called men who approached women aggressors we’d get a nOt aLl MeN lecture from some LVM who took offense to being called aggressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:31 AM
16

I wonder what this man thinks of all these memes stating women have to spend their hard earned money on a new game console so their boyfriends da can ignore them in higher definition. Would one made of macaroni suffice instead??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:28 AM
14

“Victim of his audacity” is my new favorite phrase 😂👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:25 AM
7

They have to convince themselves that they’re right and we’re wrong so they can justify the decisions that lead them to such a miserable life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:31 PM
3

I mean yeah stuff does happen which is partly why I support the right to choose, but it seems like a lot of the times in these situations people aren’t using appropriate means of protection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:30 PM
8

Yesssss congrats!!! Happy you don’t have to carry that energy around for the holidays! Sounds like it’s time to celebrate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:44 PM
14

I am in the same position as you and feel very similarly! I hear my friends talk about sex with their boyfriends not wearing a condom or being like “I made them pull out.” And always think... “you’re going to get pregnant!” I’m supportive of a women’s right to choose, but I wish men would take getting a woman pregnant more seriously. From a somewhat outside perspective it seems like the burden of birth control is always put on the women and asking a man to do the bare minimum, like put on a codo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:39 PM
22

You bring up so many good points and I can feel the frustration! Personally, I shave my legs and would never let my body hair grow out, but it is wild to me that these men take such offense to women they will never meet and would probably not have a chance with any way having leg hair!! To the point that they have to make chat rooms to whine about it?? Get a life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:26 PM
29

I’m actually sad for this woman, having adopted such a depressing narrative of gender norms in modern society, no doubt to make herself feel better about being in a loveless marriage with a husband and sons who walk all over her while she supports them and does all the house work. But it’s ok bc that’s how God wants it! Alrighty, then...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:16 PM
57

He took it so personally! 😂👀 really has to make you wonder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:13 PM
11

Pining women against each other. Evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:28 AM
24

I haaaaaaate ittttttttttt when you say you’re not looking for hook ups and they STILL try to convince you/waste your time. Please leave, sir!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:25 AM
43

Because they can suppress the voices of little girls when they need to- when it becomes about more than using them as props. They can’t silence powerful women. It’s all about control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:33 AM
14

Ugh remind me again how sex work is positive for women when we have minors glamorizing posting naked pics online for money before they can even drink! And crusty grown men drooling over women who are barely older than a literal child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:26 AM
6

And there is no known treatment. I feel like we need a specifically colored women abs month of awareness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:12 AM
4

Ewe I’m so sorry! What an ass.. who tf does that?! But actually, you may have dodged a major safety bullet.. something doesn’t sit right with me about how he unmatched then matched again and did acknowledge it. I’m glad you’re safe and surrounded by supportive friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:23 AM
12

I remember the first time I DM’ed a girl and suggested she join. I felt so good knowing I’d shown her a group of people that thought like her (ie demand thoughtful communication and not being harassed on hinge). Ironically today I unjoined every non-fds dating sub because turns out they’re filled with men stroking each others’ egos and bashing any woman who gives a different perspective. I’m so thankful to this group and love bringing others into it/teaching my non-fds friends the terms and conc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:07 AM
10

I’m so sorry to read about your experience! Mostly I’m sorry because he sounds like he ended things in such a way that didn’t allow for you to get any closure, that he put the blame on you and was abusive and cruel even as he was leaving. I’m hoping you’ve found a way to come to terms with the abuse and find better for yourself! So happy you are free and can share your story with others who may be in your position!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:26 AM
41

There chickens in an apartment?!?! 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:43 PM
7

There’s so much to unpack in this but I can’t imagine being with someone who really feels 500 dollars to play the same games on a system that will be out of date in a few years anyway is a responsible investment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:04 PM
76

His profile picture is literally a man who dresses up as his mother to murder women because being nice to creepy dudes they don’t a really want to have sex with and then having the audacity to be naked in the privacy of her hotel shower is sluty(tm) and deserves death at the hands of an entitled man. Literally all you need to know about this pos! Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:46 PM
30

How have we not canceled this pod, nvm yet?? His own children disavow him for crying out loud! And I’ll never understand why big name celebrities keep working with him and making him relevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:39 PM
36

Does he realize he can’t sleep with his therapist...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:08 PM
4

Yes this group is the only side of reditt I allow myself to go on! I love reading people’s posts and communicating my own thoughts and experiences with people I know will get it and support me. It’s like therapy when I’m stressed out over men! I’m glad I was able to help you and thank you again for standing up for yourself. I know it seems like a small and meaningless act and it doesn’t change your experience but I do believe if we women dont stand up for ourselves we can’t make meaningful chang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:05 PM
4

❤️ never! It sounds like you were probably in a trauma response and not even in control of your body at the time, totally going on survival instincts. Terrifying! Give yourself the same understanding you’d give a girlfriend. What matters is that you stood up for yourself in the end (in a BADASS way!!) and hopefully he’ll think twice before he traumatizes the next girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:31 PM
3

Omg I don’t blame you that sounds terrifying and traumatic! I’m glad you’re vibing on your own now as a confident, single QUEEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:27 PM
45

Honestly the fact that you took pics and sent them to him and demanded an apology/told him that wasn’t ok or normal is so powerful!! Thank you for standing for women by standing up for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:00 PM
32

“Sex with Emily” (sex therapy podcast) says adding a drop of two of lubrication makes the woman around 80% more likely to orgasm (while having sex with a partner or masturbation)! But something tells me suggesting adding lube to a male sex partner would get him butthurt that he can’t do the job himself (spoiler alert: he can’t).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:55 PM
11

I would say he sounds like he sucks in bed but honestly he sounds like he’s not even trying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:51 PM
18

It’s such a freeing feeling being “done” with someone without the pain of being upset or mad. Glad you were able to move on to something better!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:35 PM
7

Yes!! There was another post on this sub earlier this week about misogyny in gay men and honestly Ryan Murphey (writer/producer) is 100% guilty of that. Glamorizing these (predominantly white) male sociopaths- in a pretty irresponsible way considering the youth of his fan base. And even when there are mostly female characters in his shows (like scream queens) they’re just super toxic and constantly pulling each other down. Even when they’re “fan favorites” it’s really only because they’re making…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:22 PM
71

I wouldnt say I’m not a fan due to it, BUT I find it so upsetting how people glamorize certain characters despite the fact that it happened! Like people dressing up for Halloween as Evan peter’s character in murder house, who raped and impregnated his girlfriends mom?? Not to mention the fact that he’s a mass shooter. But I guess we glamorize white male rage..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:50 AM
10

Also why I don’t feel bad at all for shutting down LVMs in my own dating life as well as other relationships and areas. You’re choosing to be low-value and mediocre. If you put in more effort, maybe you would have a chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:54 PM
53

I died when he threw in her face that he left his daughter to be here and said “I get it, my mom is literally dying” and instead of giving any sympathy or empathy just cut her off with another “let me finish.” She handled that with so much class and put him in his place! Clearly he just hates women who have more power than him in a situation so I don’t know why he went on a show like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:39 PM
34

Wow.. this really blew my mind. Thank you for posting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:56 PM
19

Yeah also, 5 9 and 175? You’re definitely not fit. You’re just skinny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:21 AM
22

I love this! I’m always preaching against this movie! Most Disney princesses have some aspects of their story that are cringey from a post-modern feminist lens, but this one takes the cake!! Literally giving up her voice??? For a man she’s never even met???? I don’t think so! Ugh wtf! Great music, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:06 PM
11

To be fully honest, I couldn’t stomach to read this whole post and I’m so sorry this is your experience! However, from what I could bring myself to read, it sounds like most of this (and most abusive relationships in general) was about control and humiliation. He controlled you by dictating every little detail of your “chores” and yelling at you if it was “wrong.” Also to make you feel like a child who had to do as he said and not a partner on his level. When your business took off that meant yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:30 PM
15

Yeah we’re pretty sure he waited until after the wedding to come clean bc he thought it would “trap her” into working things out. She left him that weekend and took the dog!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:32 PM
5

I feel like not even just considering the violent and asaultive themes of many porn “movies,” female porn stars are often taken advantage of financially and professionally by their managers and producers, so even men who argue they don’t watch that kind of violent videos... you’re still watching an actress being sexually exploited? And getting off on it. Also, I’m open to the opinion that forced sex fantasies are normal for both men and women and often not about rape at all but rather control or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:28 PM
29

Lol sims 2 probably his current employment situation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:22 PM
82

Also unless that’s literally a picture of her butt, no way her husband made that. He just found that meme online and sent it to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:59 PM
12

Wow I’ve never considered this perspective before but you bring up so many good points about how most, if not all, men participate in normalizing and validating the cultural norms that demean and victimize women even they don’t actively perpetrate against them. With all systematic oppression there is obviously many layers of seemingly harmless practices that further reduce a groups humanness in the eyes of the majority. It makes me think of my male friends who for all intents and purposes I’d co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:45 PM
79

“Because of the current situation” note the lack of taking responsibility for his position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:37 PM
12

I feel like a majority of men I talk to bring up the fact that they like to cook/bake/grill, but now I’m wondering, given the low standards of the averages mans acceptable living state, how edible these dishes they’re bragging about actually are! 😂 Also I’m wondering if they’re only bringing it up to see if I’ll jump in to comment about how much I like to cook..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:34 PM
23

With a 34 yo account gf?!?! Ugh it’s 9:30am and I already need to leave the internet today I’m done. Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:29 PM
61

Men are really out here exposing themselves by getting personally offended by a movie that talks about killing date rapists but that’s none of my business 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:28 PM
41

My cousin and her partner of ten years got tattoos of each other’s initials when they finally got engaged bc they’re quirky and I guess the idea of traditional rings is too mainstream for them. eyeroll anyway six weeks after the wedding he confessed that he’d been cheating on her the whole time and she left him! At least shes marked herself with his initials though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:57 AM
500

“I’m a mixologist” lmaoooo honey you’re a 54 yo bartender but nice try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:52 AM
62

I love how men make action movies about men going off and killing tons of people for zero good reason, and they nut all over the theater floor for it. yet when it’s a woman killing people they mad (nvm that she’s killing for a good reason!). It’s like even if you as a male choose to get upset at it and show your LVM colors.... it’s a movie? It isn’t real? No one watching it thinks it’s real? But, yeah, anyway, we’re the sensitive ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:47 AM
4

Not sure how “you can ride my face so though I” were a trump supporter is a promise for a good time considering most of them can’t handle wearing a face mask for any period of time as it restricts their breathing and are unfamiliar with the concept of WAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:08 PM
4

I can believe this man is 37 yo..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:29 PM
2

I’m so glad you moved on and now know how you SHOULD be treated and know not to settle for this BS. I wish this wasn’t a lesson most women and girls had to learn the hard way-if at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:23 PM
63

Words from a queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:49 AM
16

Yes I am cheering you on for sharing your story and spreading your truth! I’m sorry for this horrific crime that happened to you (that you in no way deserved or brought upon yourself) and hope you are finding peace and healing. Thank you for sharing your experience so that others may make wiser and safer decisions with the benefit of your knowledge. I admire your courage to declare your worth and reclaim your power, as well as empower other women and girls to do the same through your words and p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:47 AM
23

He really thought she was going to swoon when he mentioned his yacht 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:02 AM
17

Maybe they’re trying to take advantage of the assumption that women will be more polite and agreeable when they’re career is involved? Definitely seems manipulative to me but knowing how these LVM think I’m in no way surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:46 PM
7

Yes!!! We need to demand men do better but we also need to empower women to expect more! Ugh there’s so much work to be done..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:02 AM
4

Are we gonna pretend she can’t afford her own luxury car and designer hand bag??? Sis has the number one song in several countries and many more hits coming out with the biggest artists in the world but ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:15 PM
7

You can buy a 20 dollar vibrator on Amazon and make yourself come better and faster but ok 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:12 PM
31

Right? After posting I called a mom and left a voice mail, just wanting to touch base. Five minutes later dad called and talked to me for like fifteen minutes and had so much understanding and insight about how his son is doing. It’s literally not hard to be a good dad. Or a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:47 PM
127

Ugh this is all so true! Some of my patients have amazing fathers who are often my go-to family member when I need to touch base even over mom so I know it’s possibly for fathers to be less shitty! Eventually mom woke up and took over the call, started telling me about this intense bullying that had been going on (to the point that she, her mom, and her two older sisters were getting death threats and had to go to the cops), not eating, nor showering... all stuff that dad should absolutely know-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:55 PM
931

Did a family assessment with a dad the other day over the phone bc mom was resting.. he couldn’t answer basic questions like “ are there any safety concerns at home?” “What are your expectations for your daughter in treatment?” He kept acting irritated that I had the audacity to expect him to know these answers! I wanted to say “your daughter was just in a mental hospital for two weeks.. maybe the fact that she’s so depressed has something to do with the fact that her father really couldn’t care…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:30 AM
64

Honestly, Hollywood. So many movies with wrinkly men in their 50s/60s getting with beautiful women in their 20s and 30s? And the age difference is never acknowledged. It’s just treated like something natural. Absolutely gross! I’m glad more women are getting bigger roles as directors, writers, and producers to put the kibosh on that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:39 PM
2

Yes yes yessss! Or those friends that always pull the “we’re adults now and busy we can’t talk every day!” Card. Like girl we don’t need to talk every day but could you maybe text me back within two weeks when I text you?? Then when you finally do get to see them they’re on their phone the whole. But somehow can’t text you back? Interesting.. and 9 times out of ten it of course has to do with a guy. SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:23 PM
4

If you were together for four years and he didn’t realize how much that plant meant to you trust me you dodged a bullet! I’m so sorry you went through this though. I’d be livid too if I were you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:30 PM
2

So true! It’s crazy how many times I see beautiful women with such potential settle for a selfish pos shit like this and then screw themselves over by giving up careers and education to support him and have his kids, to the point that now they can’t leave without compromising heavily on their quality of life and ability to support themselves! It makes me so sad and I’m so thankful that that will never be me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 12:03 AM
9

This is good advice for low value friends, too! People will always make time for what’s important. You’re not so busy that you can’t pick up your phone and text someone back, or plan a dinner out at some point in the next month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:58 PM
39

I really can’t believe this man is married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:26 PM
9

Love the implication that respecting your wife’s sexual boundaries “hurts” the husband. Like not getting to rail their wife’s butthole is detrimental to their mental health. Gimme a break...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:55 PM
13

My thoughts exactly! If they’d been together for a few weeks or months than this would be super cute! A homemade meal and clearly he put a lot of effort into placing all those goldfish perfectly! But for a first date? Not safe and not high enough effort. But as far as low effort first dates go it seems like just a poorly advised date idea that some guy conditioned to putting in the bare minimum with pick me’s came up with... Not necessarily an LVM but definitely needs to learn the rules of datin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:47 PM
1

It is never a “spur of the moment” decision when a man asks you to marry him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:40 PM
2

I’m in a similar situation with my cousin who just went back to her NVM fiancé. They have two kids together plus an older from another guy (all girls, who hopefully won’t end up with daddy issues from this pos!). He’s emotionally abusive to her and her oldest (10) and screams at them both. Rarely has a job, no skills, thinks he’s the smartest guy in the world. Aka typical SCROTE! It’s so hard once you’ve seen the light to watch other girls suffer at the hands of LVM/NVM, but you can’t force them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:39 PM
5

So good! I’ve read it twice and would read it a third time if I hadn’t loaned it to a girl friend. Every woman needs to read this book!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:27 PM
1

Ugh 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:00 PM
13

What’s so perverted to me was if he took it off just to finish it’s not even like he can use the “excuse” that it just “feels better.” Nah, it was a control thing he did bc he got off on violating her boundaries and forcing her body into something she didn’t want. Sounds a lot like.... sexual assault, maybe? Scum bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:52 PM
42

I have a high tolerance for disturbing but... wow!! This is clearly thought-out, almost to the point of premeditation! Her response had me rolling, though! So glad she dragged him and told him straight up he’s a pedo. He’s probably one of those Q-quacks who accuses any politician or celebrity that stands up for gender equality of running a child sex ring. Oh, the irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:47 PM
19

Wait why is this SO accurate??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:59 PM
9

It just kept getting worse 😭 thank you next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:57 PM
11

Sounds like “ unpopular opinion” is code for “un-pc things we want to say about women but can’t be with hiding behind a computer screen like a coward”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:35 PM
2

Ex’s and oh’s- Elle king Fool- fitz and the tantrums (male singer but still a bop!) No excuses- Megan trainor No- Megan trainor I hope- gabby Barrett Hit em up style- blu Cantrell Confident- Demi lovato You should be sad- Halsey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:27 PM
18

I think it’s more creepy in French.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:21 PM
7

I’m so sorry you’re having a hard time, but proud of you for moving on! We are taught from the time were children (implicitly and explicitly) to accept these behaviors from men as natural and normal. Be proud you saw these things are neither of those and we’re able to break free! Additionally, you are almost definitely not the first woman he’s played and manipulated and gaslight... etc! He knows what to say and do to keep you constantly guessing yourself and to take advantage of your good nature…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:41 PM
56

I never take IMDb ratings seriously when it’s a female lead/made movie bc I understand the male bias in movie sites, but I saw it got a 3.6 audience score with a 6.8 rotten tomatoes CRITICS score. The frail male ego at its best. Can’t wait to watch this movie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:29 PM
19

My new goal is to be a woman no man would ever think they could get away with doing something like this to. Bye, ya scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:18 PM
6

I find it honestly so unattractive when guys have such low self confidence they beg for some kind of interaction with us like this. I wasn’t going to give you a chance before, but now I’m definitely not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:54 PM
8

Ugh as an actual, licensed therapist I hate to hear stories about these “coaches” who have no qualifications or accountability. Especially when they’re putting lives in danger with their incompetence! The fact that it’s woman on woman manipulation just makes it so much worse.. you can bet this woman is a pick me in her personal life! I’m glad you have found a qualified professional who has helped you through this difficult time and that you’re moving on. Thank you for sharing your story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:29 PM
5

It’s the chin beard for me 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:32 PM
1

I’m glad the “no smiling with teeth” thing isnt just me. People tell me it’s silly and vapid to not give a guy a chance because he doesn’t have any pictures of his teeth but.. bad teeth are a huge turn off for me! And also, I feel like poor dental hygiene is such an indication of poor hygiene in general and by extension poor motivation and work ethic. Maybe that’s a lot to derive from a few pictures buuuuut I can’t say I’ve ever ignored these red flags and been pleasantly surprised!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:27 PM
5

I always have a personal safety alarm on me! I started carrying it bc of where I work and have since bought some for all of my friends that live in cities/do home visits/work late hours. They’re super loud (as loud as an ambulance) and you can buy them on amazon for like ten dollars. I’ve never had to use it but have accidentally activated it a few times, which is always embarrassing. Lol! Also if you have an iPhone press the screen lock button five times fast and it will call the police and sou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:51 PM
1

PLEASE never invalidate yourself for not reacting the way you “should.” You had a strong reaction to something HORRIFIC that was said to you at an already vulnerable, personal moment. You are strong for recognizing those feelings and sharing them with us, so that we may build you up and also learn from your experiences. Thank you for sharing and continue to SLAY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:45 PM
3

It’s super cliche but what always works for me: I have a “heartbreak playlist” of high energy songs that I know will get me in a good mood, most of them discussing the topics of break ups or disappointment.. Faith, woman by Kesha, no excuses by Megan trainer. Anything that’s fun and has high Queen energy! I put it on and do something mindless like housework or pack my lunch and just let it all go! Most of the time I feel ten times better afterwards and realize I didn’t actually like him that muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:48 AM
2

“The trash took out itself!” ❤️😂 stealing that one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:10 AM
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