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| 2 | How do your spouses initiate when you take an ED pill?cialis lasts all weekend | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 11:05 PM |
| 7 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I ami’m not an expert on shows and competing but i thought the shows were usually people with ridiculously low body fat. i’m not talking about the huge hulk looking beasts but the pencil thin women with super defined muscles your right about run clubs i typed that one without fully thinking it through | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 11:32 PM |
| 120 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amyoga, pilates, workout classes, climbing gyms, run clubs, maybe go to a body building competition. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 11:19 PM |
| 43 | I (M26) hooked up with a girl (F28) twice over the weekend. When should I reach out again?she hearted the message means she’s acknowledging it. she’s also setting the tone that your not going to be a texting buddy. personally, i’d wait until tomorrow then shoot a text something like “hey i’ll be pretty busy this week but let me know if you go out or anything saturday night” basically this implies either you go out together saturday night or she goes out saturday night and booty calls you afterwards. | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 08:47 PM |
| 14 | Weird eye contact pattern I’ve noticed while walking aroundmore attractive girls have better social skills and are more aware of their surroundings. Unattractive girls don’t really give a fuck. Personally, i don’t think it’s hard at all for a girl to be attractive just be decently in shape, dress somewhat nice, and maybe one more thing like. cute smile or nice hair. my point is if they can’t put the effort to be more attractive then they probably don’t care about some random dude on the sidewalk. they are in their own world and probably don’t even notic… | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 04:20 AM |
| 1 | She texted back after a night out…..honestly i get better text back rates since they it helps them remember too | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 04:29 AM |
| 1 | She texted back after a night out…..when i got a girls number i like to take a selfie with them and text it to them immediately then say “pic for reference” | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 04:25 AM |
| 4 | I made a performative male profile on Hinge and got a ton of matchescan you link the profile so we can see? | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 09:29 PM |
| 266 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happenedthis guy social circles | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Debería meterme con una chica que no me gusta mucho para ganar experiencia?yes. otherwise you will always make excuses to not close. also booking up with her second will not disqualify you from the first girl the way your thinking it will. and honestly it may even help | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 03:30 PM |
| 82 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?if your looking for attractive women then do yoga or pilates on weekends | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Is Miami really that bad?there’s definitely opportunity to spend a lot of money but just don’t go to the tourist trap clubs. Miami is a city where the girls party way harder than the guys. So the guys complaining that you need to spend money on girls, just genuinely have zero pull and that’s all they know. Girls will sniff that out and suck that money out of you. Just have fun. The women in Miami are BEAUTIFUL especially if you like Latinas. Chat them up, treat them like actual human beings, and be sure to bring high en… | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Club vs rave?i like edm so i go to edm events. i party way harder at a techno event so i pull better at a techno club. however hip hop is far more sexual so if your looking to get grinded on and take a girl home then probably hip hop | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Best way to roll into a girls DM/ Hingeif their profile doesn’t give me anything to work with then i usually just go straight for the home run and pitch the first date idea on the opening message | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | IG is less useful than in the pasta lot of it is so many celebrities have broadcast channels now so girls’ DMs are always blown up so most of them have notifications off. Meaning your attempt to slide into a DM is much less likely to even be seen now | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 01:24 PM |
| 1 | In 2026 you will find more success than ever beforeyeah but let that hold you back too much. yes wealthy men have it easier, but do you need money to get a girlfriend? no. i know it’s hard to believe but there are actually some women on this planet that aren’t prostitutes | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 12:46 AM |
| 2 | People who go clubbing alone, tips?nobody knows your by yourself if your talking to everyone one. that means start with the bouncer. talk to the first people you see. maybe set a goal for you self like “i can’t get my first drink until i’ve talked to 5 strangers” you will only improve by doing | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I feel so jealous of all the guys women choose to have sex withclick on my profile and go read my most recent post. if you like the advice then i’m offering completely free 1-1 coaching in 2026 | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Online coaching recommendations pleaseMy New Years resolution in 2026 is to become a dating coach so i’m offering completely free 1-1 coaching. DM me | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 10:24 AM |
| 1 | In 2026 you will find more success than ever beforejust commit to the steps you got this! | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 07:45 PM |
| 27 | In 2026 you will find more success than ever beforesometimes the best advice is the most simple | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Trying to focus on inner game, but outer temptation is too strong. Advice?great, you know it then live it. dont pressure yourself too hard on the outcome just have fun. personally, i do like goal setting. i like the extra push saying i need to approach x number of girls. or i can’t leave u till i get x number of phone numbers but you do you. just no excuses | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Trying to focus on inner game, but outer temptation is too strong. Advice?you’re actually right and not wrong at all. However this is called OVERTHINKING. if you see a cute girl just fucking talk to her. don’t say “oh but i’m not done working on my inner game so i can’t do it” JUST FUCKING DO IT. you will learn more by doing rather than reading bullshit pickup material, and watching shitty youtube videos designed to get you to keep watching rather than actually fix your situation. | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Trying to focus on inner game, but outer temptation is too strong. Advice?why not both? | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Please teach me how to sext with my 27m long-distance boyfriend.it was litterally the very first episode. https://youtu.be/kA5Hp9LDgpM?si=OV6EO5qzBEY6X4mv | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Please teach me how to sext with my 27m long-distance boyfriend.listen to the Call Her Daddy episode on sexting | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 11:09 PM |
| 2 | If getting numbers is hard for you to do, your judgment doesn't mean anythingit’s a rant about how people watch garbage PUAs get flakey numbers and don’t actually approach themselves | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How you manage to learn seduction?look at u/opinionthink481 below he said everyone has different game. for me, poker face comes of as “judgy eyes” - but when im animated and full of life, i can really see that affect on girls. | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 08:40 PM |
| 0 | How you manage to learn seduction?they sprinkle in just enough good advice to keep you hooked but 90% of it garbage. don’t neg, don’t brag, don’t flaunt money. that’s not demonstrating higher value, that’s being an asshole. nowadays with feminism, social media, and onlyfans, girls believe they’re better than men. they don’t seek validation anymore the way they used to want to attract a girl? be genuine, be nice, sprinkle appropriate touch throughout the interaction. be expressive and interested in stuff she likes. if she’s talki… | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 07:08 PM |
| 14 | How you manage to learn seduction?approach old men first, they are the most lonely. The goal isn’t to seduce them, the goals is to strike up a conversation with a stranger and leave them better than when you found them. over time start cold approaching and building relationships with grannies, fat chicks, ugly girls, etc, just to see if you you can. As you build confidence then you’ll soon get tot the point where you can approach the hottest girl in the bar and take her home the same night. moral of the story, practice and and s… | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Looking to connect with brothers who want to get serious about cold approach and leveling up in 2026 (dating + business mindset)25 year old and i’d be interested | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I am sick of not being able attract womeni’m working on becoming a dating coach, i’d be open to helping out for free | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 03:47 PM |
| 5 | mysterymethod - LondonDayGame - RSD style. What now?their frameworks still work. i think stuff like negging doesn’t work anymore or at least should be much more toned down. but other than that models is still considered the best option but then you look at mark mansions wife and realise he didn’t pull a girl out of league at all. you look at women coaches and they basically just tell you to improve your appearance and be funnier. mystery and owen are the only guys getting into the psychology of women. i still think routines are absolutely better … | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | conservative vs liberal cities for picking up womenit’s just a different style of pick up. i grew up in seattle and am now in a red state. first thing i realized is that even just dressing nice already had women asking if i was gay. in short id say bring slightly more feminine energy for liberal women and more traditional masculine energy around conservative women. and you’re right in the extremes. i’ve met many extreme left women the i’m not even convinced were lesbian, they literally just hated men that much. and too your point with conservati… | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 06:22 AM |
| 7 | How to approach girls?write down the liens and memorise them. cold approach is a skill. it’s gonna require practice | /r/seduction | 15/12/25 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone here have any advice for attracting hood chicks?cocaine | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 12:37 AM |
| 56 | Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s?early 30s is prime time for guys | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 01:25 AM |
| 10 | What others skills that will help me becoming good at approaching ?the skill is called exposure. keep talking to pretty girls until that feeling goes away. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 12:11 AM |
| 6 | What’s the craziest in person approach that worked for you?that’s good. the stupid stuff works better for me cause i’m a pretty good looking guy but im 5’7” so if go i go indirect they always think im gay so id rather be direct and to not get shot down immediately i just hit on them in a ridiculous way | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 08:18 PM |
| 98 | What’s the craziest in person approach that worked for you?i walked up to a group of 6 girls and hollared “which one of you ladies has the lowest standards” they all laughed and singled one out. she was half offended but still laughing so i asked the group if i could buy her a drink | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Real talk… what actually makes you stop on someone's profile ? (especially want to hear from girls)as a guy my profile is all about partying because that’s what i do. needless to say i have much better success at bars than on the apps. | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How is Seattle?idk do you are asian then no better city, but other than not nobody moves to seattle for the girls | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 06:29 PM |
| 23 | Need some tips to improve my blowjobwrong sub but the best blowjobs are the ones where it feels like the girl is enjoying herself more than i am. moan, make slurping sounds and just act like you are loving it | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 06:36 PM |
| 8 | How the hell do you flirt and date as a lazy introvert?get yourself out there and learn to become more extroverted | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 04:50 PM |
| 4 | How to seduce a Indian Mature Women (30-45)that’s hilarious i’m 5’7” and do much better with older women i noticed women stop caring about height around 28. it’s the straight out of college and thinks they’re hot shit 22-27 year olds that care the most about height and looks | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 08:31 AM |
| 3 | How to Deal with Stares or Negative experiencesthe first one you just ignore, if i see a guy approaching i want to watch. i’m curious if he’ll get the girl or not. the second sounds like it was just an awkward interaction, maybe you should’ve built more comfort before going for the compliance test. just move on and don’t let it bring you down | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 06:31 PM |
| 22 | Jerking off to her picture before the date to reduce anxiety. Does it help?will raise anxiety significantly if anything | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 01:55 PM |
| 13 | What will happen if I start approaching daily?you’ll start learning what works what doesn’t, you have personal field reports to reflect on instead of just what you read online. but most of all - you’ll see how easy it really is when your not stuck in your own head | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 04:11 AM |
| 4 | People with success first of all how big is your ppif it’s bigger it hurts them if you don’t lube up. the 10 inch cock thing is definitely just for porn. you’ll see a lot of OF girls that only make content with their boyfriend and your realize how many smoking hot girls are dating guys with 4-5 inch peens | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 11:07 PM |
| 16 | How do you make same night lays easier off dating apps?i usually say if you have 3 or more drinks and didn’t have sex it’s probably your fault and need to work your game. not always of course, but usually 3 drinks = sex | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 05:17 PM |
| 12 | How do you make same night lays easier off dating apps?getting the date is the hard part getting them back to your place is the easy part, just start at a bar nearby and early on mention something you want to show her back at yours. i usually tease pictures of my cat early on, then end with wanna come meet my cat? then pour her a drink and start making out with her | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Help me find some optimal cities to move to for day game.don’t move to miami nobody dates there | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 02:05 AM |
| 0 | Help me find some optimal cities to move to for day game.hookups | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Help me find some optimal cities to move to for day game.it’s easy to hookup with tourists | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Help me find some optimal cities to move to for day game.LA Miami Scottsdale | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 12:42 AM |
| 2 | For guys who had 0 experience with hookups/one night stands before starting to take action in person (no dating apps/social media), how long did it take you before you had your first?does it only fog when talking to pretty girls? or do you run out of stuff to say when with your friends too? | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Where should a man move too in the USA if he wants the best dating opportunities? Curious about Miami Florida.it’s not that they are looking for gold diggers it’s that those girls are the only ones giving them attention and they are damn good at what they do | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | For guys who had 0 experience with hookups/one night stands before starting to take action in person (no dating apps/social media), how long did it take you before you had your first?i don’t have canned routines. they don’t work. they come off as inauthentic. my stores are just my life’s stories. pick your favorite ones and segway them in. don’t think too hard about the opener | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Vegas and would you want to live there for dating?terrible for dating, great for learning cold approach and pickup. hookups are pretty easy in vegas. it’s also a lot cheaper than most big cities. meet a few promoters and get on guest lists so ever pool party and nightclub should be free | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 02:53 AM |
| 23 | For guys who had 0 experience with hookups/one night stands before starting to take action in person (no dating apps/social media), how long did it take you before you had your first?a lot of it is luck. my first hookup from tinder was a girl who had a long distance boyfriend and wanted to film her getting fucked so she could send to her boyfriend. very strange case but just shows apps are honestly just a slot machine. learning cold approach is where it is at. literally just start talking. don’t worry about lines or anything just tell stories. it took me long my 8th cold approach before it turned into a hook up. same day lays are also like a slot machine | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 02:46 AM |
| 1 | To stand out from the competition while flirting in a crowded environmentin group settings it’s best to entertain the whole group or at least your section of the table. the real game is when you isolate her | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:52 AM |
| 8 | Where should a man move too in the USA if he wants the best dating opportunities? Curious about Miami Florida.miami is the new LA. so if your into that smoking hot latina gold digger then miami is heaven. but actually dating in miami is hard. girls have too many options, there’s always a better guy. i’m originally from seattle and so im sure you’ve noticed now how many people in seattle have second homes in arizona. so my top choice for you would be scottsdale | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Would going to a strip club help with building confidence and sexual confidence ?no and it’s gonna end up costing you a lot more money than you’d think | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 07:19 AM |
| 2 | College gameopen with “how’s date night going” that’ll tell you quick if she’s single or not | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Say they don't have social media but gave me their number/asked for mine insteadhad this happen recently, got her number. texted her the next day saying it was nice to meet her, she responded back and forth a few times but when i setup a day i got ghosted. her friend posted a pic of her and she wasn’t tagged so she actually didn’t have social media. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 12:24 AM |
| 16 | Is Mark Manson’s Models only relevant for cold approach?i thought his model was terrible for cold approach. sets you up to get rejected quicker so you can move onto the one that is interested. you should always be non needy. maybe you don’t ask her out in front of the whole group but you can still be yourself. then pull her aside and ask her out | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 05:59 PM |
| 13 | Why do dating coaches advise against approaching in the gym?if you see a girl you want to talk to in the gym then go for it. coaches advise you not to hang around the squat rack and staring at their ass then asking them if men or women lie more | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Anyone still go out and use the Mystery Method?curious as to how they went about it | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Ever met someone who totally switches up on the “I hate sex talk” thing?i’m a horny guy and i hate talking about sex. it literally is uncomfortable and unnecessary. i’m not talking about kissing the first time i kiss her, im not talking about getting naked the first time i take her clothes off. so i don’t need to talk about sex to take her back to my place. if the energy shifts just say my bad that joke didn’t quite hit. keep at it and you’ll be fine | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Tiktok attention whores - are they worth the investment?oh…my bad. here’s my 2 cents. gen z is tik tok brain rot. can’t judge a book by its cover. every girl nowadays knows at least one person that has gotten tik tok famous and made money off it, so you can’t hate them for posting. Also it’s fun. don’t judge the girl by her tik tok. and maybe even use that for conversation, ask her about it. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 06:59 PM |
| 8 | Tiktok attention whores - are they worth the investment?why are you thinking about it so hard, just show up. literally that’s it. show up. if it goes well invite her to your place. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 06:53 PM |
| 17 | Anyone still go out and use the Mystery Method?negs don’t work - but mystery method is still the best way to learn cold approach pickup. but keep in mind the system was designed to get LA 10s not your average girl. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 04:27 AM |
| 19 | Is it significantly harder to get to sex the first time with no alcohol?no the top pickup artists barley even drink. if your going out to approach 5 nights a week and hitting 3 or more venues a night the bill racks up fast. learn to be talkative without alcohol | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 12:02 AM |
| 3 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingyeah if it’s one on one in an elevator then you’d ah excuse me. other than that just start talking, it should feel spontaneous not like planned approach | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Anyone with bartending experience?“ladies you look beautiful tonight, what are we drinking” | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Im an OG pua Demon. I endorse wheat waffles as d ultimate master of this art. check his latest video call videowhat about in the united states | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Im an OG pua Demon. I endorse wheat waffles as d ultimate master of this art. check his latest video call videoso which markets are the best for guys | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 08:42 PM |
| 62 | Why doesn't Mystery appreciate direct gamebecause mystery method is designed to hit on girls that are significantly out of your league who you would expect reject you if they know you’re hitting on them. The whole point of MM is to buy more time with stuck up hot girls. | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 07:13 PM |
| 37 | Full blown got laid in the club [field report]cause it didn’t happen | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 08:10 PM |
| 23 | Full blown got laid in the club [field report]i want to see | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 08:05 PM |
| 60 | 20 truths about seducing women that transform ordinary men into magnetic menmore like 20 don’ts. can you do 20 Do’s | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Question: if I (woman) want to be picked up during daytime, how do I make myself available?sit at the bar | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Alternatives to th peg memory systemit’s not important at all it’s an example. if you don’t like it don’t use it. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Should I be honest to an older woman that she’s my first experience with somebody significantly older?people have different sexual preferences. | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 02:14 PM |
| 63 | How have you gotten an online dating match to come over directly to your place for a hook up?“drinks at my place” “come watch a movie” “come cuddle” “my pet js so cute you have to meet her” dont over think it just invite her | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?if a woman asked a guy directly it would work. but women like being seduced. they like the chase. they need to experience emotions. i’m sure there are women out there that it would work on, but if you want lays then learn how to seduce | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 02:34 PM |
| 2 | First date with co-worker / fall offunderrated comment | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Photo with platonic female friend on dating profile, yes or no?no don’t listen to Mystery’s preselection bs. Girls will think either that is your gf or you wish she was | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 01:35 PM |
| 28 | Can Someone Please Explain The Point Of Negging…..it’s only for girls with inflated egos that think their super models when they’re not. the does a few things. It lowers their value and therefore comparatively raising yours. it’s shows you’re not simping over her. and it makes her start qualifying herself to you as she wants your validation. i’m not a fan of negs, most people aren’t. but they work. I get tik toms of girls venting over a subtle comment a guy made, to me that shows that days later she’s still thinking about him | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather?what happened to this sub (but yes the milf) | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 07:38 AM |
| 33 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.the third date usually means sex | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 05:57 AM |
| 5 | How to get hot girls?don’t treat them like hot girls since every other guy is doing that. ask them about love island, your not hitting on her your just having. nice conversation about love island. when she’s comfortable make her laugh and touch her hand then escalate from there | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Stop asking if intimacy is “on the table” before the date happens. Attraction is spontaneouswhen i’m down bad and willing to clap. usually just invite them straight to my place but sometimes they want in actually date | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 03:19 AM |
| -1 | Stop asking if intimacy is “on the table” before the date happens. Attraction is spontaneousnot gonna lie i’ve asked when girls that are 4s or so want to be taken in a real date haha hit them with the are you gonna waste my time | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | How to go from talking in the club to making out?i’ll try this | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 05:19 PM |
| 34 | What is the best career for game ?only issue is girls don’t want to wait till closing so you warm them up just for some other guy to take her home | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Barney's playbook?ohhhhh. yeah that’s fire. | /r/seduction | 28/05/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Barney's playbook?the techniques were jokes. some of the plays in the book were shown. the insane skits were comedy and likely wouldn’t actually work | /r/seduction | 28/05/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Inner game first - trust the process and the rest is easyclick bait :) | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 06:30 PM |
| 0 | What is worse watching porn or posting bikini photos in relationships?what wrong with bikini photos? if your that insecure then maybe you should hit the gym so you too can post shirtless photos so to answer your question - porn is worse | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:48 AM |
| 5 | Can you date if you live with your parents?at 25 you gotta grow up. work two jobs if you need to, but you can’t bring a 10 home if your going back to mommy’s place | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Dating under 25 as a guy is a losing game — Here’s why :wrong sub to post this. seduction is about no factors limiting | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Dancing is Peacockinggood post. sometimes peacking is simply about getting noticed | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 04:38 PM |
| 7 | It’s easier to pull a hot girl who is way out of your league in in a big city than a smaller oneall of game is common sense. However some of us need to be taught the absolute basics | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 12:43 PM |
| 21 | It’s easier to pull a hot girl who is way out of your league in in a big city than a smaller oneawesome man love that for you. how’d the date go? | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 11:55 AM |
| 8 | Being funny and charismatic means nothing unless you are good-looking and have money.Black Pill - a sad way to think. Get out there and talk to women, you may be surprised | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 01:28 PM |
| -4 | She's a "10" but she doesn't suck D and hard to satisfy in bed. | She's a "6" easy to please, but prefers pleasing you. Which one you keeping?6 easy - just turn the lights off | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 06:13 AM |
| 16 | Is it true if you are physically attractive man, women generally approach you first and make a move?no | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 11:55 AM |
| 22 | How do I seduce women in their 50s and above when I'm in my 20s?commenting for visibility. the oldest i hooked up with i was 21 and she was 38. now i’m 25 and the last girl i dated was 22 and damn i need me a real woman. 55 would be so ideal | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 04:46 PM |
| 6 | The pick-up line that gave me the best reactions after 8 years of real-world testingi’ve used this line, i think it’s from Style or the mystery method. it works for me cause i am a lot pretty than most guys. often if i’m not forward with a girl and she wonders why i’m not hitting on her she asks if i’m gay so I’ll rip that line or another alternative is “i can prove i’m not” and go for the kiss. point is: it’s not the line, it’s that it’s stupid and random which is more fun | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 02:26 PM |
| 4 | What is the meaning of cold approaching?do you you are thinking way too hard about it. you see someone - talk to them. doesn’t matter if they are hot, ugly, male, female, short, tall, bald, smelly, sexy, lgbtq, etc etc just learn to talk to strangers first. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 01:35 PM |
| 80 | I hunt Gold Diggers with a Prank Bank App and I don't feel badbest ad for an app i’ve seen in a while and i’m sold | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 10:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media?literally just post. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 09:51 PM |
| 19 | How does everyone pick up girls in the club?think of the club as 2 parts. dance floor and non-dance floor. overall non dance floor is better for actual gaming. 1) dance floor find the girl that is dancing and partying the hardest, those girls like to have fun. if she’s in too big of a group then she’s probably with her friends and not looking for a hookup. when you see a target you can either match her dancing and make eye contact and hold your hand out, you can bump into her then apologize and ask to dance, or you can outright ask to dan… | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.that’s a defeated attitude. if your that active then take pictures doing one of each active and make a hinge | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 03:06 PM |
| -6 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.everyone hating can’t afford it. i can’t either. but it’s your lifestyle do what you want. cause i know girls that money spent on them are the ones that are moaning out daddy the hardest | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 03:01 PM |
| 0 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.sorry to break it to you but hot girls aren’t at trivia night. just try going to a couple regular bars on a friday or saturday and let me know how it goes. if you don’t want to feel out of place sip on a sprite and say it’s a vodka soda | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.not every approach has to be a model. an approach is an approach. you can even count approacheign guys in the beginning if you need to. just bounce around a couple of bars a night and try to hold a conversation with a stranger for 10 minutes | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.how many approaches do you do a week? the old mystery method that 4 approaches every hour for 4 hours 4 days a week so if your not doing 100 approaches a week i don’t want to hear it | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 02:35 PM |
| 10 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.Ha good luck the easy route isn’t going to get you laid | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.find your nearest college campus litterally even community college is fine. just learn how to talk to strangers | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 01:24 PM |
| 4 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.litterally anywhere there is women, don’t be picky. grocery stores, parks, bars, events, block parties, festivities | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 01:22 PM |
| 9 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.don’t be scared to approach, learn how to hold a basic conversation, ask for the date rinse repeat till you have 8 on your roster | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 01:19 PM |
| 87 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.sounds expensive | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Where to find “good girls”how do you find club girls and rave girls??? i litterally only find them at the club or at the rave. but day to day im convinced they don’t exist | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 05:22 PM |
| 9 | Does bodybuilding really increase my chances twentyfold?yes | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 12:18 PM |
| 3 | I’m thinking about spending $150 on a photo shoot to improve my dating profile pictures. Is this a good idea ?$150 is not bad at all, every girl i know spent like $400+ for senior photos back in hs and college. if you really don’t want to spend the money then just get a tripod. you can still get decent photos but obviously someone else helping is better | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 11:45 AM |
| 0 | How do you decide whether to go direct or indirectbro chill, just speaking generally to get my point across i mean if a girl is hot enough to where she may not say yes to a simple “hey i thought you were cute and want your number big time”, then it’s to go indirect | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 06:34 AM |
| 0 | How do you decide whether to go direct or indirectdirect for day game indirect for night game also if a girl is out of your league then indirect is always better | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Only guy in a groupwhen a girl asks if i’m gay it 9/10 means i treat them like an actual human being im better looking than most guys (litterally just basic hygiene and not dressing like a 12 yr old) they are wondering why i haven’t made a move on them and the other 1/10 times it’s a bisexual or lesbian girl hoping im gay cause idk, people are like that i guess lol | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Online opener for blank profiles?there’s your answer | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 12:55 PM |
| 0 | Online opener for blank profiles?yes it dows | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 12:31 PM |
| 22 | To the guys who took the prostitutes/escorts route. What effect did it have on your confidence/self esteem?i mean it’s not going to make you better at talking to girls. it did help me where i usually am so nervous i can’t get hard by just giving more experience. i personally pro escort but it is expensive so only do it a few times and don’t get hooked | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 04:37 PM |
| 0 | Girls or gay men i have a question?actually i’ve wondered the same every guy in porn has a fucking horsecock. i’m pretty average around 5 or 6 inches but i was hooking up with a girl once and asked her what’s the biggest dick she’s taken, then she asked why like if she didn’t want to tell me she’s taken some massive dongers though i will say gorgeous girls like arikysta keep us alive, her boyfriend is like 4 inches max. and he’s like 6’3” so that’s makes it look even smaller | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Girl taking 1-2 hours for reply on Snapchat but her snap score isn’t going up at allwas about to say the same thing | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 08:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?Coaches are usually cheaper than Personal Trainers since they aren’t there at every session i’ll send a link to his instagram https://www.instagram.com/zerowondering/ as you can see he’s just a gamer bro turned gym bro. he’s not some tiktok guru. obviously there’s other coaches out there but i would watch him play smash bros daily for years and saw him gradually lose weight so i would trust him. | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 10:07 PM |
| 3 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?tbh i came from being super scrawny and had to workout to gain muscle instead of the opposite. i just suggested incline because it’s burns a lot of calories using less energy, whereas running will make you hungry after. would hiring a coach be possible? i was a huge smash bros gamer so i followed ZeRo . He used to be 400+ pounds and now looks like a gigachad, i know he does online coaching for men trying to lose weight | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 11:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?well then not to be rude but women may have think that when they see you. if you don’t have something to offer, like status or wealth, then it’s time to start walking on an incline for an hour a day and counting your calories | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Best Cities for Cucking, Swinging?vegas for obvious reasons but also cost of living is pretty damn low Chicago for size Amsterdam would be worth changing countries for | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Best Cities for Cucking, Swinging?let em know when you find out i’m also in the market for a sexually liberal city and plan to move in a year or two | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 04:30 AM |
| 1 | I feel insecure about not being able to have sex every daygo for it | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 10:28 AM |
| 20 | I feel insecure about not being able to have sex every daywhat’s your porn usage and masturbation frequency | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 08:39 PM |
| 2 | How to pull at loud dance clubswhy’s that the wrong mindset? it would be way worse if he went with the intention of getting laid and then be disappointed when not sure how to approach | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 09:24 PM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?stop blaming yourself and acting like the world is against you. there’s autistic girls for autistic guys and obese women for obese men. my point is your probably not going to sleep is Americas next top model, but if you meet girls that kinda look like you and like the same things as you then strike up a conversation, if it feels like she’s easy to talk to and you want to keep seeing her then tell her and setup a date | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Real eye opener about Miami after hearing about this, is this true?tbh i have new clue. after reading this post i just posted the same question asking where i should look into moving. maybe give an upvote and follow that thread too. however i only care about night game, i like to party too much. not much of a day gamer | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Real eye opener about Miami after hearing about this, is this true?pre covid miami was god tier. obviously the yachts, clubs/tables, cocaine, clout, etc was a big thing before but now it’s the expectation. if your a guy looking to relocate somewhere for seduction take vegas or miami any day. but definitely don’t write off visiting, the girls there are by far the most attractive in the country so it’s a great test to see how good your game really is | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 07:53 PM |
| 56 | What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?you don’t have to pull the shit out of her hair and leave bruises on her ass. Just enough for them to be able to fantasize about it. i’ve found with these girls the orgasm comes from the submission more than the sensation | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 04:28 PM |
| 161 | What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?it’s tough cause every girl is so different. Some girls want to get absolutely railed, some think they do but actually get overstimulated, some can only finish from oral, others in certain positions. i once gave a girl an orgasm by teasing and sucking on her nips for like 30 minutes. obv this was a special case and won’t work with everyone. my point is notice how she reacts and keep doing what she responds well to | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 04:21 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?I gotta try this! | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Strong Day Game, no night gameit means your boring in the club. flirting with them shows confident at day but i night they get hit on a lot and expect it. stop validating them in the club and start getting them to validate themselves to you | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Any1 know how to talk mean or be more aggressive/confident?read “No More Mr Nice Guy” | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 04:36 PM |
| 11 | "lets get to know each other before meeting"why is she going to go out of her way to meet you in person if she hasn’t even vetted you yet? | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | I'm thinking about traveling, where do you think it's easier to get a laid? The United States (if you can tell me the best city you know with the best clubs, I was thinking about Miami) or Spain, Madrid?not in miami those girls are crazy full of themselves but they are still seducable | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 05:15 PM |
| 3 | I'm thinking about traveling, where do you think it's easier to get a laid? The United States (if you can tell me the best city you know with the best clubs, I was thinking about Miami) or Spain, Madrid?it’s going to be tough to find rent for 1 person for under $3500 a month. gonna need roomies | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship advicethe only good dating advice is the red flags, and what not to do | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:09 PM |
| 52 | I'm thinking about traveling, where do you think it's easier to get a laid? The United States (if you can tell me the best city you know with the best clubs, I was thinking about Miami) or Spain, Madrid?Miami is going to have some of the most gorgeous women in the world, but your not going to get very far if you aren’t ready to drop 50k at the club | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 08:03 AM |
| 7 | Rave for first datei personally like being single at raves cause too many baddies | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps, what's the point?point is they work you just gotta follow rules 1 and 2 | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps, what's the point?i met a girl from tinder last and within an hour of matching we met up for drinks and ended the night with her letting me fuck her in the ass raw | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 04:17 PM |
| 0 | What's the best daygame online training course you've taken (self-paced or 1:1 but remote)?you don’t need a coach. google some routines so that you have an idea of where to take a conversation when it comes to an awkward pause. learn to grow a pair and flirt back when she’s interested. be willing to fail, it’s gonna take trial and error but you will soon get it if you just try | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 04:52 AM |
| 8 | I finally got over my cold-approach fear at bars but I realize I just have no rizzgoogle PUA routines and gambits they are word per word lines gimmicks you can memorize and use to help not run out of things to say. a lot of people on this sub are against canned material but i thinking it’s a great starting point especially when you stack material together and turn it into natural conversation | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 06:57 PM |
| 8 | I finally got over my cold-approach fear at bars but I realize I just have no rizzthis is why i advocate for routines. i know it’s cheesy but at least you know you can entertain for 15 minutes before escalating and going for the kiss | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 04:24 PM |
| 3 | How would you improve your dating life, if you had some money?Hard to say without knowing your baselines. Dating isn’t always Pay to Win, sex can be, but not the type of girls you probably want. | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 03:59 PM |
| 8 | Do you pay on the first date?yeah that’s why never do dinners for first dates. They are pretty expensive and very boring so the odds they don’t want to meet again are pretty high. A lot of people like walks in the park cause thats free. i personally don’t mind spending $20-$30 so i always do first dates at a bar during a happy hour special Some other cheap ideas, coffee, ice cream, cat cafe, dog park, or anything to get her to your place like coloring, puzzles, wine and movie etc | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | REVIEW: Speed Seduction Ai is my gamechangerhttps://apps.apple.com/us/app/chatgpt/id6448311069 | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | REVIEW: Speed Seduction Ai is my gamechangerleft menu “explore GPTs” then it’s under “Lifestyle” it’s only on premium not the free version | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | REVIEW: Speed Seduction Ai is my gamechangersounds good but i’m not paying 24.99 there’s a “Rizz GPT” that comes free if you have the premium chat gpt but it’s pretty hit or miss. I successful have gotten nudes with rizz gpt and my tinder and text game has gotten better but it usually is just the ai giving me ideas before i type my own thing | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 09:02 PM |
| 9 | A first date idea I’ve been using recently which has some interesting results2/3 chance of success isn’t exactly a no brainer. But i do like a girl with a higher risk tolerance. But hey if she loses and has to pay for the date you could say that going back to your place is free | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 08:36 PM |
| 23 | A first date idea I’ve been using recently which has some interesting resultsAwesome for those that love gambling! Her choice tells a lot about her too! well done | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 08:18 PM |
| -6 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?except i’m a very good looking guy and notably fit, but i’m on the shorter said so the few times i got an instant rejection like that i blame it on my height and insecurity pours like crazy. No shot they would reject me if i was 6’2” | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 06:21 PM |
| 23 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?the worst is when the don’t even acknowledge your approach and just give you a bitchy look and turn away | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What healthy advice do you have to not feel bitter and jealous of successful guys, especially ones who are younger than you?till my legs start shaking | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 05:22 AM |
| 4 | Looking for a mentorStare at a computer screen for a week straight and then tell me your social skills are just as good | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 04:29 AM |
| 8 | Girl in the gas stationwhy are you already planning to say “that’s a beautiful name”? just replace that part with you introducing yourself | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:08 PM |
| 5 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldi want to here more about the women pay you to have sex part, my dms are open | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 11:20 PM |
| 16 | Getting girls in Techno partiesdon’t move else where if you hadn’t kissed yet. should’ve just gone for it | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?same author as think and grow rich right? | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Advice for when you are mopey/introvertedthat depends, do you want to be a more social and extroverted person? are you introverted by choice and what are your largest sources of dopamine. cause if you’ve always been introverted but you want to be social and your main hobbies are video games and porn then you can guess what i’m gonna say next. but to answer your question, opposites attract so go for loud extroverted girls. She’ll be amazed at how you’re so chill | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Met a customer from work on dating apps, not sure how to proceed.why are you playing it so safe? just message her and ask if she’s ready to order whatever she usually gets or what the place is famous for with a side of you. or tell her message her and say next time she’s at your restaurant dessert is on you but then don’t give her something from the menu, take her to a bakery something and make that your date. my point is dont be scared, your the guy, you have to make the move, otherwise someone else will | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 06:27 AM |
| 7 | How do you get a girl isolated from her friend?the old school mystery method line was “the girl and i like each other can i take her over here” | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | If you live in Seattle, your f**ked, and will probably only have hookers to rely on. (unfortunate truth), please prove me wrong.seattle sucks 9 months of the year. it’s amazing over the summer though pro tip for hookers asian massages are extremely popular. should only run like $200 for a full service happy ending | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:52 AM |
| 12 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get Laideven the original mystery method taught 4 approaches every hour for 4 hours a night 4 days a week. i thought holy shit i’d be happy with with 4 approaches in a week, let alone 64 | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How to text a girl you just met but won’t be able to meet up with for a while?this ^ add her instagram so she can see your stories of doing fun things while away then hit her up again when your back | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Strip clubstrip club game really requires a lot of luck. the goal is to get her out of the mindset of being a stripper and you being the customer. you gotta say stuff like “who’s the real you behind the fake stage names and all this” once she opens up and tells you about the real her then you gotta get her out of there. if she can’t leave before her shift ends then just get her number and setup a date. the rule is you can’t pay for a dance or anything especially if you feel the need to buy some time to se… | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I hook up with girls I don’t find attractive just to gain experience/wins?i’d say i do recommend it for the experience other wise you’ll making basic fuckups in front of a 10 | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Anyone know of any good free programs to kill approach anxiety?learn from it | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 04:50 AM |
| 9 | Anyone know of any good free programs to kill approach anxiety?no magic, secrets, or anything a course could ever teach you. 3 second rule if you see a girl you have 3 seconds to approach her. that’s it no more. no “wait till she notices me” no “now isn’t the best time” no “i’m not in the mood” just do it. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 04:04 AM |
| 87 | Is it weird to approach milfs in your mid 20sif a girl is 34+ and at the bar believe me she wants to have fun. if anything it’s way better to approach the whole group rather than just the one you want. remember you should be going after women that are already having fun since they are likely in a good mood. don’t bring up age, don’t do anything that makes her feel old. if she’s divorced say hot man was idiot for blowing it with her if she starts to vent that’s fine but at least hold her hand while she does. and of course like always you go… | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Is it weird to approach milfs in your mid 20si know i am! | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 09:13 PM |
| 9 | Spotify Wrapped Are out- Your Opportunityokay what if her top 5 is literally Sabrina carpenter, taylor, swift, olivia rodrigo, Tate McCrae, etc, litterally the most basic pop starts. the what, slide up and say “omg so you”, “girl you got the best taste”… tbh if anything i kinda already know who their top artists are the only difference is the wraps added too 5 songs and how much they listen to music. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 08:59 PM |
| 19 | looking for a male perspective! :)it’s okay to be a little selfish sometimes you gotta do what feels best for you. being in top is your time to shine if grinding feels good do it. As a guy it’s true i don’t feel much but im still vocal so that she really enjoys it. so to answer your question do what you enjoy and be vocal about it. moan, call him sexy things, make it known that your really enjoying it. He wants to please you as much as you want to please him | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Advise for a co worker affair?normally i’d advise to not go for her. she might be pressured because your the bosses son which could lead to legal action. but that wasn’t your question. hooking up with her in your offices is a fantasy and can maybe achieved after hooking up but not the first time. outside work events are always best especially if alcohol is involved. start asking her about boys and stuff. later drop hints such as asking if she’s ever been hit on by older guys or what’s the oldest guy she’d go for. once you ar… | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 11:11 PM |
| 3 | I fucked upyou don’t want her man. you already started simping. please don’t put yourself through that again. don’t focus on her right now. focus on experience. go for those girls that are interested in you even if you are not interested just to get more dating experience. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 04:58 PM |
| 7 | French in the US (Seattle): Tips for Trying My Rizz with American Girls?wrong sub | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 05:04 AM |
| 8 | French in the US (Seattle): Tips for Trying My Rizz with American Girls?hope you like asian girls | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 04:22 AM |
| 12 | Any Seattle area guys need free dating profile pics?times like this where i start wishing i didn’t move out of seattle | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Anyone tried 2 girls on 1st datehad that happen before. my immediate thought was he can have her. him and i became bros though | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 04:23 PM |
| 3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?so i had a very dry streak after college cause i was focused on my career and all my looks maxing stopped. no gym, new clothes, cologne, skin care or anything. after realizing i need to get back in the game i tried approaching again and failed pretty bad. even now im not getting conisistent results but now that im back in the gym and got my appearance back up to around an 8 it realize is approach be fun and confident and go for the kiss. i have 3 bodies on the last two weeks. nothing crazy but i… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Seduction tips for the "classy" or "dandy" vibewhichever suits you most | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 12:25 AM |
| 7 | Girls who talk about sex in their dating profilesthere was a girl i saw with a very sexual bio and she said she worked at a gym. today when i checked in i realized it was her profile. now i can’t workout without picture half the gym bros plowing the receptionist | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Have good posture or mirror her's?Agree let her mirror you | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Have good posture or mirror her's?I agree. i think intentionally mirroring someone makes little to no difference. what’s best is if you have good posture and they start to mirror you unintentionally. Sometimes ill purposes raise my hand tame run my fingers through my hair and if i see them either raise their hand or at least touch my hair then they are subconsciously mirroring me and i take it as an ioi | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 11:55 PM |
| 7 | NO matches on Tinder. Any help?everyone good moved to hinge | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Tips to kiss her on a drinks and arcade datephoto booth | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 04:47 AM |
| 12 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonightgood luck i’ll be following along. it’s crazy how much easier it is to go with friend and side quest and talk to girls by myself, but it’s so hard to show up by myself. i think it’s just hard to get into that talkative space | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 04:05 AM |
| -1 | Have you ever picked up a girl that was grinding on another guy?that’s hot | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever picked up a girl that was grinding on another guy?i second this | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 06:17 PM |
| 4 | How can a virgin guy start without experience?youtube is designed to keep you watching. most of it is bad advice with just enough good advice to keep you around. you need experience not toxicity | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 06:16 PM |
| 3 | How can a virgin guy start without experience?do you want a girl to play toxic games with you? i always say leave her better than you found her | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 06:13 PM |
| 8 | How can a virgin guy start without experience?By that point she probably knows what’s up. But she’s not going to be thinking about it as hard as you will. Not everybody likes being touched but in general positive touch is better than no touch and negative touch is worse than no touch. This will come with experience. I was surprised out first how many girls were receptive to a lingering handshake or how easily a side hug can turn into my arms around her. if you want it done more subtly bring some props like sunglasses or other accessories yo… | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 05:58 PM |
| 71 | How can a virgin guy start without experience?learn to approach. Anytime Anywhere. if the dating apps haven’t worked then they probably aren’t going to magically start fix your appearance. let’s use this as an excuse to approach girls. ask girls what some of they’re favorite brands of clothing are and if they have men’s clothes too. Ask them what places have good style and take their advice learn basic conversation. before you can seduce you have to be able to not be creepy. basic stuff like where are you from. this is so you can get used t… | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 05:44 PM |
| 9 | Have you ever picked up a girl that was grinding on another guy?i have no idea what any of this means are you saying she might of just let him stand there because he want being touchy? | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 05:12 PM |
| 2 | How can I have my first make outlooks max - get fit, get a haircut, have nice style, be groomed, smell good, etc put yourself in a position to meet girls - apps if your 7 or better in looks, otherwise your gonna have to cold approach learn basic ass social skills - when she’s interested vs not, how to get her friends to approve of you, how to know when it’s time to escalate if she’s given you at least 3 hints she’s interested then for the love of god just kiss her. you don’t need a line, you don’t need a routine, just go for i… | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 01:29 AM |
| 19 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?clubs are good if you like clubbing. the reason most guys say to go to bars or nightclubs to pickup girls is only because of sheer numbers. there’s a lot of girls at these places and alcohol makes it easier. But they aren’t necessarily better places, just faster pace. if you are not into loud music and drunk idiots then you’re probably not going to find success. I personally love to tear it up on the dance floor and that’s why i can get female attention, but days when im not feeling it and am mo… | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 05:47 PM |
| 82 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?fastest was tinder. only like three messages before i got her number then she texted something along the lines of “im in an open relationship are you still down” and i said yeah i can keep a secret. we spent more time having sex than time from when to match to the time it to her to get to my place. solid FWB now in person without using the apps, about in hour. she “bumped” into me, we grinded for a while. i offered her some coke, we made it out and then i told her to come back to my place | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?dating app to cold approach? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Club gamei second this. i know this sub mostly would say mystery method is outdated and to read models instead, but the difference is the mystery method was designed to get out of your league club girls whereas models is more for someone you’d actually want to date | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 08:36 AM |
| -3 | Almost 22 years old and still a virginwhat’s that? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 02:43 AM |
| 0 | The Mystery Method - lack of openersActually yeah i love that best friends test! The jealous girlfriend opener is another good one | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 09:35 AM |
| 7 | The Mystery Method - lack of openersyou don’t really want to use Mystery’s openers they honestly are kind of lame such as “who lies more, guys or girls” “did you see the fight outside” “do you believe in spells” “would you date a guy named herman” The point isn’t to use his openers, the point is to learn the types of openers (situational, direct, etc,) but if you really want more examples of openers check out Neil Strauss Rules of the Game. section 2 is like 50 plays from openers to kiss closes | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 01:31 PM |
| 24 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsi almost think this book would be better than 90% of the seduction books out there | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Are same day lays possible in 2024?couldn’t have said it better myself | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 05:34 PM |
| 8 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"where’s the thank you for spreading autism awareness guy | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:18 PM |
| 95 | Can talking to too many girls at a club sabotage your chances?is 3 numbers too much in a night? wait until you ask a girl what’s the most number of guys they’ve kissed in one night | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 04:13 PM |
| -1 | What's the beat piece of advice you've ever gotten on this sub/ elsewhere?it’s caliche mystery method pickup advice. “go for it” refers to kissing her, not approaching | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 09:17 PM |
| 7 | What's the beat piece of advice you've ever gotten on this sub/ elsewhere?Indicators of interest could be her blushing , touching you, squeezing your hand when you hold hers, etc if you get three indicators then you shouldn’t be questioning whether to kiss her or not and go for it | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 09:16 PM |
| 10 | What's the beat piece of advice you've ever gotten on this sub/ elsewhere?look for indicators of interest if you see three then go for it | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 08:56 PM |
| 3 | What do you say when a woman asks for clarification about what you'll do in your room?it’s a shit test i usually specify * fully clothed * | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 07:22 PM |
| 35 | So I just messaged the girl on Tinder and she said ...stop trying to understand the “psyche of the human mind” and re read your messages. if you were a girl and a guy messaged you that would you go for it? probably not | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 06:26 PM |
| 70 | Fragrances / Colognes, do they make a difference?you ever walk by a pretty girl that smells good. it lingers in the air immediately makes her 10x hotter anything you read about pheromones and whatever is all a marketing tactic. it won’t change you from a 0 to a 10 but it can be the difference between receptive and not receptive. | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 06:32 PM |
| -2 | Fumbled the girl of my dreams and now I’m sadsimp | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 04:39 PM |
| 38 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?peacocking works if done right. meaning wear flashy outfits that actually look good. not whatever ridiculous stuff you find at the thrift store | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | anyone here live in Washington State?hope you like asians | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 06:27 AM |
| 321 | Any average dudes here managed to score a threesome through straight gaming?ehh i’ve gotten a threesome but it wasn’t a fantasy it was two fours. one girl was from tinder. not my proudest hookup either but good enough. after hooking up a few times she mentioned she was bi and later said she had a thing for her roomate So naturally i jumped on the opportunity. i had her invite me over and brought wine. we all hung out in the living room and eventually i asked if they’d ever kiss before. one thing led to another and threesome. but honestly i’d take an 8 over two 4s | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 02:04 AM |
| 14 | Are women honest about their ideal body type?Hot Girls don’t date guys that are hotter than them. Them want to be the hot one, and they don’t want to be the one that gets cheated on. However if a fit guy above 6 ft approaches them, he’s going to have a very easy time taking them home | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 11:17 PM |
| 3 | I'm a Pickup Artist (PUA): AMAlet’s say your in a bar with lots of beautiful women. who do you approach first? the one your most attracted to or the one that looks like she’s looking to get taken home? also got any tips for getting that first kiss? | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 02:07 PM |
| 5 | Why I don't enjoy clubs for night gameso where do you recommend a guy who just relocated to a new city and has minimal friends goes to talk to hot girls | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 04:14 PM |
| 2 | People suspecting I'm gay or fuckboy...i’ve had this too. It often just means you’re pretty. If a guy is calling you a fuck boy it means he thinks you can pull anyone you want. if a girl is asking if your gay it her way of justifying why you haven’t hit on her yet. i recommend doing some voice recordings and hearing yourself talk. your voice on recording may not sound like it does in your head. i personally had to deepen my voice and work on making my S sound a little softer. It sounds like you got the looks and building attraction d… | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Break down deadbeat/hobosexual game for meratchet girls don’t like cleaned up guys. Imagine a girl think “oh so you think your better than me” sometimes i purposely look like shit and go to dive bars girls are much more likely to let you hit raw, be bisexual, and into drugs. i wouldn’t date a girl like that but I have my fun sometimes | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 10:19 PM |
| 3 | how do i ask for instagram without feeling I’m creepy?“is it creepy if i ask for your instagram” there you go, you’ll get your answer immediately. odds are she’ll laugh and say it’s not creepy. btw this is probabaly the creepiest way to ask for an instagram and even then i don’t find it creepy. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 03:25 AM |
| 9 | Practical tips for getting over fear of rejection?Get rejected and laugh it off Eventually you’ll learn to love the chase. | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 03:38 AM |
| 0 | How to respond to low effort/boring/vague messages?If they’re not interested then they’re not interested. Now dry texters do exist so if you have heard no yet then just go for it. i personally blame myself and straight up ask them out. something along the lines of “Hey I’m not the best texter but there’s this really cool bar i’d think you’d like. if you’re free thursday night i’d love to take you out” it’ll be hit or miss since they likely weren’t interested from the start but at least you have your answer and can move on | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 03:28 PM |
| 8 | Do cute (6-8) girls act more stuck up than hot (9-10) girls?location dependent in some cities the 6-8 are absolute darlings because they know they’re not 10s but make up for it by being a sweet heart In other cities guys (like you) think they’d have a better chance with the 6-8s so they never hit on the 9-10s. The 10s get as hot as they are because they aren’t being approached and start looks maxing. Those are the gems you should be going for | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 10:04 AM |
| 6 | Going out soloi just moved and am struggling with the same. if i’m with a group it’s so easy for me to side quest off by myself and cold approach everyone by myself. but it’s so much harder when i show up by myself. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Do i respond to an instagram DM or let it go?we follow each other on insta so it says when she say it. i wasn’t left on seen but on delivered. either way though i think your right | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 05:03 PM |
| 4 | What's the best way to approach a girl in a group, when the group has both guys and girls?to get the girl you want you have to spit rizz to the entire group first. the one you want goes last. it’s often easier to start with the guys but i personally recommend starting with the obviously couples | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Club scenedon’t try to talk at the club unless you’re really entertaining. just make eye contact, dance slightly better then her, then hold your hand out, if she’s interested she’ll grab it and dance with you | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 04:37 PM |
| 3 | What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman??if you squeeze her hand does she squeeze it back? | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 08:04 PM |
| 2 | What do you do the next day after a one night stand?it’s anxiety and the nerves. your blood is pumping to your heart and your brain and not your dick | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 04:48 AM |
| 1 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?After 20 I got bored of proving to myself I could get girls and turned more to finding one worth keeping | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 01:45 AM |
| 2 | I don’t care about pulling women,I love my girlfriend, how do I climb the corporate ladder?Ask chat gpt to act as someone interviewing and to use the star method. Then ask to interview questions you’ve been asked. Watch how chat gpt tells a story and in an engaging and informative manner | /r/seduction | 24/05/23 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [ Removed by Reddit ]I used to not believe in shit tests, that was back when I failed them all. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | What are some books that can help me with holding a conversation with any strangerDon’t ask, read her if she’s mellow you can be too but if she’s ditsy and enthusiastic and your blunt it’s gonna rub her the wrong way | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | What are some books that can help me with holding a conversation with any strangerMaybe your reactions are just dull. Maybe you need more to be more dynamic. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Should I pursue girl with a BF?Girls with boyfriends will usually only sleep with you the night you meet her not so much later | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | I may have asked a girl out a little too quickly and messed up real bad. Any remedy to the situation?She’s a freshman in college, She’s getting plowed by every frat guy on campus | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 10 | Ladies: Asking for consent before a kiss or just by reading non verbal cues? Rule or preference?Just grab her hand. She should let you hold and if she doesn’t then thank god you didn’t go for the kiss Then hold eye contact with her and squeeze her hand a little tighter, if she squeezes back kiss her | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Best peacocking items for 2022Jewelery Literally by cha plastic gold chains and layer 2 or 3 of them. Very stylish. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 03:16 AM |
| 61 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?All you gotta know is when she’s flirting and when she’s just being nice | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Is high income less useful for younger men(23)?It’s not about how much you make, it’s about how much you spend | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 28 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?I’m 5’8” Height only matters to shallow bitches I wouldn’t date anyways | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.My friend had about 12k followers on instagram and lost 80 followers in 20 minutes cause she posted a pic with her boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:07 AM |
| 2 | How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit?Night and day. I’m a fairly attractive dude but had no game in high school and first two years of college. Then when I joined this sub I realized I was failing every shit test. Girls were teasing me and I wouldn’t tease back, I missed obvious hints, didn’t know how flirt. It wasn’t so much learning seduction as much as it was learning basic social cues | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:58 AM |
| 19 | How to not fumble the bag?Contrary to what most people on here are saying, I think she just has her anti-slut defense up. Secure a date with her sometime between now and before the wedding, be clear that you want her there as your date. If rejects being your date and wants to go as friends, then please for the love of god bag a bridesmaid for me and everyone on this sub | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Where to find girls who are more low keyThat too. There’s always cute girls shopping at discounters | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 04:47 AM |
| 4 | Where to find girls who are more low keyMarshalls and TJ maxx | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Is picking up girls at the beach possible?Gyms are off limits because people already feel uncomfortable workout in front of others, now add creepy stares and guys trying to hit on you. But no one feels uncomfortable at the beach, otherwise they would have covered up more. As long as you don’t blatantly comment on her body or her swimsuit you should be fine. Just shoot your shot and calibrate | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:50 PM |
| 9 | Go clubbingI get rejected at clubs far more than anywhere else. Meeting girls at clubs is only for tall guys. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I make myself look like I’m out of high school.Makeup. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Strategies for picking up girls at a music festival?Walk around with a big smile and look for girls that are with guys and have “help me eyes”. I can’t tell you how many girls are stuck with some Alpha Male that won’t let them leave and borderline forces them to grind on him all night. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | pills/ drugs to help me overcome anxiety?Xanax just don’t mix it with alcohol | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Am I a Simp for this?It’s being a simp if you’ve never hooked up with her and we’re flying over just for the hopes of maybe getting the chance. If you’ve already hooked up and sex is on the table then you’d be dumb not to spend a weekend in Miami | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?Bro talk to everybody. You’ll be surprised how many people are on the same boat. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Do You Guys Take Shots Before a Date?One time in college I was tripping pretty hard on acid and a friend knocked on my door with her parents there. I was super welcoming to them and had such high energy because… well I was on drugs. Anyways the next day when I saw her she kept going on about how much her parents loved me. Even she didn’t realize I was high, she just thought I was in a really good mood | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Never take a girls advice on literally anythingNo cause she went for the bigger dick | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:50 PM |
| -2 | Never take a girls advice on literally anythingDidn’t want to mention it in the post but the basketball player was black. So yeah, it was huge. She told us the next morning, she said it was bigger than her face | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022?Prada L’homme for the day, Ultra Male for the night | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 06:51 AM |
| 22 | For guys that hook up often, do you still watch porn?Not gonna lie, I pregame my sex with porn sometimes | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How to not friendzone guysKeep talking to them the way you do. Just drop some more flirtatious hints. You don’t even have to say anything nonverbal cues work better anyways. The classic “oops I dropped my phone” never fails | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I unlearn game?Did you not read the second half of the game by Neil Strauss? The whole point was to show you that the gimmicks only helped to start but very quickly turn you into a social robot. Turn your brain off and turn your listening cue on. Make every conversation personalized. Remember everyone is unique, get to know them. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:26 PM |
| 3 | When text her after sex?Dude, don’t wait 3 days. You already had sex, don’t make her feel like she gave it up too soon and got ghosted. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:01 AM |
| 3 | What do you do when your girlfriend talks about her problems?If we’ve already had sex then I validate her but never before | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Which one gets you the most results, Looks, money or status get you the most results?Your ability to hold a conversation and connect with a girl | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 03:05 AM |
| 2 | What can I have done better in this situation?That was kind of creepy | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateShes probably just busy overall or just recently got out of long relationship and doesn’t want another commitment yet. Her words matter much less than her actions. Try shooting your shot and if she shows up that speaks a lot. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | a drug that is easily accessible or easily prescribed that can help me socialize?Just talk to a therapist maybe you can get Zoloft or Prozac prescribed | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 3 | no teasing or push/pullYou don’t need to play games with girls that are already interested. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Casual Dress Guide?I shop trendy clothes at shein for super cheap. You don’t need expensive to look good. Keep in mind girls go thriftiness for clothes all the time. There’s nothing wrong with shopping sales at H&M | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I met a girl on tinder, we had a casual conversation and about on hour later we exchanged instagrams. I mean she told me her name and I followed her, she followed me back.Well, you could just ask her | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Cat string theory might be the most realistic & practical seduction theories out.Actually yeah | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:49 AM |
| 5 | Cat string theory might be the most realistic & practical seduction theories out.When you dangle string in front of a cat they’ll go first and do anything to get the string. But once they get the string they’re almost instantly bored. The idea with girls is showing too much interest bores them so you have to hint interest so show chases you but you never give her enough to where she knows she has you | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | ConfusedIs she on Snapchat? Maybe she just has notifications off | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Personalized gifs for tinder?I’d be weirded out if a girl did that to me. Crazy alert. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 05:02 AM |
| 6 | Sloppy toppyJust make it seem like your absolutely loving it | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:26 PM |
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