Inner game first - trust the process and the rest is easy

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-19T02:40:34+00:00

As cliche as it sounds, it's really important to work hard in that age range. Too many people continue to rely on parents in their 20s and it's a bad precedent to set. You want to be able to deal with stress and hardship on your own. It annoyed me in college when I'd come to class with bags under my eyes from working to pay off the semester while so many kids would skip class to get high while their parents gave them tuition checks and an allowance.

Give yourself routines and goals to stay busy. I don't mean PUA routines, but have a structured life. Wake up on time, make your bed, set goals. Partying won't do you much good after college. But as far as meeting women, it's the easiest time in your life from around 18-25. You really shouldn't need that much effort.

After college you obviously want to focus on establishing yourself as a career man, but don't be afraid to date and pursue a relationship. If you worked hard in college and gained insight on being an independent man, then carry that confidence into your dating life.

becomesharp · 2025-05-19T18:09:30+00:00

Lol your post title is all about how inner game is key but your entire post is about lifestyle improvements lol

epimpstyle · 2025-05-19T10:13:04+00:00

Looking good is one thing, but making a great first impression is another.

Looking good: there’s only so much you can change, you can’t make yourself taller or alter features like your nose, ears, or eyes (with surgery you can, but it is BS unless in severe cases). It’s mostly a matter of luck. For example, I wanted to have an oval-shaped head, but I have a round head like a ball. The only thing I can do is use tricks like lifting my haircut, growing a beard sometimes, or wearing a V-neck T-shirt to make my head look less round. Take Phil Heitlinger, for example, he does his best, but you wouldn’t call him handsome (the nature was not generous with him, and guess what? I look like him).
First impression: this is different, anyone can make a strong, positive first impression. It includes basics as you said hygiene, smelling good, but super important - wearing nice clothes. If you look at Phil Heitlinger, you’ll see how he makes up for his appearance with other qualities, he’s optimistic, playful, and charismatic

don’t live with your parent

No, mate! It doesn’t matter.

be funny and out going enough to entertain groups of girls and not just your target

How can you do that? Through routines, gambits, jokes, or tricks. It's unlikely that you naturally know how to entertain a group or your target, but that's how you learn, and you learn in a few hours, not in months or years!

any decently looking guy that has a fun personality can get a girlfriend.

First impressions matter most! Take any homeless man, if he gets a good haircut, wears nice clothes.. .etc... he can start a conversation with any woman because anyone will stop and listen him so this way he’ll earn 10 seconds of her time, and with a funny or interesting story, he’ll get another 30 seconds... and so on. All you need is time because this way you can show to the other person that you are optimistic, positive, playful, friendly... these are the requirements you need.

SinglePie2 · 2025-05-19T12:57:19+00:00

Meet people ! This should be on top....

ratfooshi · 2025-05-20T01:07:49+00:00

Pretty much haha.

Well you can be a child if someone looking for a sugar baby lol

OneTxp · 2025-05-20T11:14:34+00:00

Alternatively just fucking love social interaction, if you think back on any positive social interaction you’ve had and you say to yourself everything you loved about it you will automatically put yourself in a state where you feel like you’re having fun and happy whenever socialising. This leads you to want to do it more and you build a positive value giving vibe that comes across in every interaction.

Now people want to be around you and you have no issue connecting with new people, the rest is easy.

Title	Inner game first - trust the process and the rest is easy
Author	entitledwank
Upvotes	20
Comments	9
Date	May 19, 2025 1:16 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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