Guys I have given up on OLD many times now and struggled with pickup cause i’m insecure about being 5’7”. But i decided im leaving all that in 2024. This year im getting fit and going to improve my social skills.

I always thought routines were pickup artisty and dumb but i sick at conversation. i also notice every conversation really is about what’s trending and what’s in pop culture, it’s the same conversations over and over which is basically a routine. so i said fuck it i’m gonna create my own

Lately I have been using New Years Resolution as an ice breaker, it makes dull chat but at least i always get a response. I kept rolling with it and reworked it many times, in the end i combined it with the classic Neill Strauss eliciting values routine and it has worked without fail on my immediate family, my friends, strangers at the bar, and girls on tinder. i’ll share the routine:

1) “if you could manifest one thing in 2025 what would it be” 2)“what does it look like and how do you know if your making progress” 3)” if you achieve your goal how it make you feel, really think about it and try to describe that feeling” 4(optional) Neill strauss would finish by saying every decision you make should bring you closer to that feeling and stay away from things pulling you away. Then he’d jokingly say we now found your life purpose you can happily die now

Right now is a time of year where a lot people are motivated, really play into that and help people set their true goals think about manifesting. You will make stronger connections this way.

Lastly, be sure not to restate this routine word per word, i only write it that way so it is easy to understand. you want to use her words and say them back to her. Use variations to fit her story. Adapt and really try to get to know her.