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The concept is obvious but sometimes I just need to hear it from others for it to really sink it. Thanks
/r/seduction10/09/22 03:41 AM
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NOT GREAT MY DUDE
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:17 PM
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If I can feel the energy, I'd just lean in and go for it. Otherwise I'm like "I'm going for it, going for it!". Always keep a playful vibe to it. If she pulls away I smirk and just go "ahh it was worth a shot" and smile.
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:03 AM
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You have oneitis because you don’t believe that there is someone that is better for you out there, you just haven’t found them yet.
/r/seduction29/12/17 01:04 AM
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Not really. I just use it cause it seems a little easier-going than Hi since Hey usually sounds like “Hey!” With the exclamation point in my mind. Hi just sounds flat and unexcited in my mind
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:14 AM
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Two texts and two texts only: First: Hey it’s Enzo32ferrari it was nice to meet you at XYZ bar. Make it a text she can remember you by and where she met you. If no response to first text, follow up with; Second: Hey lets do (activity) on (date and time). Second text always has to be an activity. Go with statements over questions as it shows you kinda sorta have your shit together
/r/seduction25/10/17 07:26 PM
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If she's out of your league thats fine but getting good at seduction gives you season tickets.
/r/seduction17/07/17 03:29 AM
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When people get angry at other people around me I get anxious for some reason.
/r/seduction29/04/17 01:20 PM
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Also make sure your outward appearance looks clean: go to /r/malefashionadvice and /r/skincareaddiction and freshen up. Since we're gonna be communicating with her visually (thru a smile) you better be sure the rest of the "package" looks nice.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:43 PM
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The bartender's well 5: gin, vodka, run, tequila, triple sec. Sweet and sour mix, fruits, coke, Pepsi, sprite.
/r/seduction22/11/16 06:46 PM
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I can't agree and stress it enough: Logistics. Logistics. Logistics. I recently moved to Austin, Texas. I live about 45 minutes North of 6th street which is the "spot" among other places (Rainer St etc.) and Uber/Lyft not being here anymore which sucks that doesn't even matter because I LIVE 45 MINUTES NORTH. Been meaning to move closer to Austin's city central since right now I'm commuting to fun and living close to work. I wanna switch that up. Also if there's anyone else in Austin we should m…
/r/seduction21/11/16 06:05 AM
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Pickup is definitely a skill that you can lose if you don't exercise it. That, and combined with the fact that real world pickup is a lot harder than college pickup there will need to be some "updates" to your game. What I've learned: I'm in Austin, so 6th Street is where all the bars that the college-aged people from UT Austin go to get wasted. Target rich environment here. Takeaway: If you're in a city with a large university, find the bars where everyone goes to. If you still have friends at …
/r/seduction26/10/16 12:59 AM
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bouncing off of what /u/puacurveball said; you don't want to be the guy she complains to about her ex. if she starts doing that, shut that shit down. interrupt her even and say "hey let's not talk about that now." you are not her girlfriend to complain to.
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:18 AM
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use /r/askseddit instead
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:15 AM
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diagnosis is no self confidence. lookup 'inner game' and start reading up on it
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:04 AM
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I'm gonna have to field test that first hand hold thing. It also seems if you put her arms on your shoulders and she holds it there that she is open to be kissed
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:40 AM
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Mmk. None of my pornstar friends then
/r/seduction06/08/15 07:47 AM
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Santa Monica?
/r/seduction06/08/15 06:43 AM
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I wouldn't bring up anything related to the porn industry. To her, it's just work and idk about you but I rarely bring up work on dates. She's supposed to be relaxing away from work not talking about it. If she brings it up then you can converse a little, ask some insightful questions on the industry (i'm actually interested to know about the industry as well) wait hold it, are you located in AZ?
/r/seduction06/08/15 06:33 AM
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I also might have another girl just to comeover and hang. unless you're going for a threesome, i'd suggest you start out with just her first. easier to isolate and kino up. start easy with her sitting close to you during the movie and then just escalate slowly as the movie goes up
/r/seduction06/08/15 06:16 AM
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we met twice and are on a date this weekend. She has a boyfriend (looking like me, meaning I'm her type I presume) but it's not going well so I'll definitely give it a try. be sure that this 'date' you have this weekend isn't just friends meeting up. Should I bring the talk about her bf or work if it comes up ? No. Whatever you do NEVER EVER talk about ex's, bfs etc. You'll become one of her girlfriends who she complains to. If she brings it up just deflect saying "Ahh we shouldn't focus on that…
/r/seduction06/08/15 06:11 AM
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going to the movies. going to the movies isn't a good place to execute any techniques because you're supposed to be focusing on the movie, not talking or interacting with her. it's better to walk around or go to dinner
/r/seduction06/08/15 05:45 AM
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read up on 'inner game'. before you can even start talking to girls you need to love yourself in the body you're in. check out/r/malefashionadvice, /r/malehairadvice, and /r/fitness
/r/seduction06/08/15 05:42 AM
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check out /r/malefashionadvice and /r/malehairadvice and i'd prepare for the downvotes. they're very insular over there.
/r/seduction03/08/15 06:19 AM
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Geez. This is a catastrophic failure But a good learning experience: First off your response to both is extremely beta. You basically told her you want to stay friends. Being flirty doesn't matter since you're just friends. The first instance doesnt seem to be a shit test. It looks more like a concern shes having. (at least in the context as Im reading It. Her inflexions couldve made it more attraction based). I would've responded with something along the lines of "oh? Is she jealous?". This way…
/r/seduction02/08/15 10:14 PM
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If youre that far into the conversation youre showing interest already so it's almost an insult whether shes older or younger because by asking shes getting the impression that there is a right and wrong answer. You should ask all technicalities about her early on. If i approach a girl who seems under age but youre unsure I just say "hey u think youre cute but you seem a little young: how old are you?". Clears things up and if shes of age then start chatting her up
/r/seduction02/08/15 09:21 PM
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saved and screenshotted. ill hold you to it ahah
/r/seduction01/08/15 05:39 AM
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keep approaching. it should get to the point where you see an attractive girl you can go right up to her and chat her up and not get all anxious before the approach.
/r/seduction01/08/15 05:28 AM
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read the inner game section on the side kiddo.
/r/seduction01/08/15 05:22 AM
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this one too. it gives them reward to stay after their initial buy in. psychologically theyll also be 'invested' in you now since she bought a drink so better chances of having her stay
/r/seduction01/08/15 05:19 AM
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tell them "ah ah ah. a drink costs a kiss."
/r/seduction31/07/15 11:21 PM
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Listen up you lil bitch jesus i thought you said that to her. "Hey, I noticed you from where I was standing and I think you're really pretty and wanted to say hi" perfect opener. "So what are you out doing today? great follow up. usually with direct game openers 99.9% of the time the target will be flattered so always follow up with a question or something to keep her engaged until you can hook a regular conversation. I was actually quite surprised that I didn't feel bad at all about not getting…
/r/seduction31/07/15 11:20 PM
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look up articles on "inner game" then expand from there. girls like guys who are comfortable in their (the guy's) own body. ADDENDUM: read this
/r/seduction31/07/15 10:31 PM
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why?
/r/seduction31/07/15 10:30 PM
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this is the IRL equivalent of asking a girl on Reddit to go hang out. have your friend introduce you to her in person first.
/r/seduction31/07/15 10:25 PM
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I'm thinking about waiting a few days and sending a random joke or something, to keep interest Just ask her how the vacation is going and if she has time to talk about her experiences.
/r/seduction31/07/15 09:59 PM
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I usuallu give my number. If shes interested then she'll text back. If not then onto the next one
/r/seduction11/07/15 07:43 PM
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Perfect execution dickhole. I have always gotten a positive response whenever I approach a girl with her parents. As a matter of fact, these are probably the easiest to get a response back IMO because the parents like to see that their daughter is attractive to guys. Protips in my experience: Direct game is the way to go (unless you're like waiting in line with her or something) ALWAYS acknowledge the parents first, and have a smile on your face dammit. Just make eye contact with the Mom and Dad…
/r/seduction11/07/15 05:38 AM
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I beat myself up after Ask yourself this; would you have beaten yourself up even more if you didn't approach her? But keep going. There will be days where you just can't make it work, and days where you can. Looks like you just had an off day and that's ok. Onto the next one
/r/seduction26/06/15 06:53 AM
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Could you elaborate?
/r/seduction25/06/15 05:56 AM
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Next step is to figure out if youre a direct gamer or an indirect gamer: Direct game: the bold guys out there that can go up to any girl, tell her she's pretty to her face, and have her home by 8pm...the next night. Indirect game: the smooth guys who can sweep a girl off her feet without her even knowing it. You'll definitely need to be versed in both, but I prefer direct game since it gets to the point and states my intentions immediately and if she's for it, then we're good, if not, onto the n…
/r/seduction25/06/15 05:35 AM
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I kissed her at her car and we made plans to hike to a local spot and watch the sun rise in the morning, I'm bringing breakfast. Don't even change anything. You're doing fine
/r/seduction25/06/15 05:26 AM
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If your facial expressions are deemed very 'serious', try applying some dry humor or very witty remarks that can only go over well if given with a straight/serious face. If they laugh, let that be an indicator, or an IF statement, for you to smile.
/r/seduction25/06/15 05:20 AM
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I'm 23 and I own a Prius but about 6 months away from getting a Tesla. Now, a Prius gets a lot of shit just for being a Prius. But I just own up to it; "hey yea, it's a Prius but I save a lot of money on gas, get great mileage and I like going on long roadtrips." My advice is this; just do what you can; keep the interior clean and smelling good, and it shouldn't matter what kind of car you have. Just be glad you have a car. Just remember this; if she is really bothered by the quality of your car…
/r/seduction25/06/15 01:53 AM
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I'm going to assume that you're just starting up; you first need to read up on 'inner game'. Before you can even approach women, you need to feel comfortable with yourself; be confident in the clothes you wear, grooming etc. So I'd search for articles on "inner game' first.
/r/seduction25/06/15 01:17 AM
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yeah i dont go onto MFA as much. if you dont like their 'set' style, be ready for a hail of downvotes. i just go on there for inspiration
/r/seduction23/06/15 03:22 AM
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I even use the "I can't hear you" motion so I pull her in close so she can hear me. 9/10 would use again. Sometimes mistaken for going in for a kiss and got a kiss anyway.
/r/seduction23/06/15 02:31 AM
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Don't take it to heart too much. I've been rejected lots of times, but I've gotten more successes. With wins will come losses. Work on your inner game and you'll get over it eventually. I eventually did; it sucked at first, but I learned to learn from my mistakes or why things didn't go as well as they could've and made my game better cause of that Sounds like you need to visit /r/malefashionadvice or /r/malehairadvice to fix things up.
/r/seduction23/06/15 02:27 AM
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No it's not. You have control of approaching; you have control over actually trying but you don't have control over rejection that person's choice of accepting or rejecting you. EDIT: clarified
/r/seduction23/06/15 02:25 AM
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I wear earplugs to clubs. I like to have fun but not at the expense of my hearing or tinnitus a day latermawhp. When I talk to people, guys or girls, I just get in real close so I am talking directly into their ear and they're talking directly into mine. At that point they're already shouting so you can hear what theyre saying
/r/seduction23/06/15 02:23 AM
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I always go direct game. Yeah, it's a little more forward but your intentions are clear cut and to be honest, most girls don't get people who go up to them directly and tell them theyre pretty (at least in my experience) so it really boosts your chances a bit. (Kinda stuns them and they lower their guard a bit) But again, it's dependent on each person's style of pickup. I'm more comfortable with direct and the next guy might not be.
/r/seduction19/06/15 04:45 AM
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Dont assume the ladies on askwomen represent all the women out there.
/r/seduction06/06/15 01:58 AM
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When you see her is the best time to approach her. Because 9/10 you probably won't ever see her again. I don't care what time of day it is (okay, if it's early in the morning, I'll probably let that girl slide cause even I'm not feeling it yet; she'll have to be a real stunner for me to chug my coffee and go up to her) The "creeps" are the guys who just sit there and stare and don't do anything. If you go up to a girl and talk with her, and don't totally blow it, you're not a creep. You have the…
/r/seduction05/06/15 06:02 AM
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Bartenders often do it though...by having women meet them where they will be (another venue) after work. This. Being a bartender myself we get an inordinate amount of numbers from the entire HB scale. Some we follow up on, most we don't.
/r/seduction05/06/15 05:58 AM
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beta job of being a software engineer. since when did anything ending in "engineer" become a beta job? my degree is in aerospace engineering and that's definitely not beta at all. we (including you) can do things a very large part of the population can't. 95000 at 22, is this attractive? fuck dude. I make 80 at 23. Yeah it's attractive but NEVER bring up salary in pickup. Not only is it inappropriate it just comes off as incredibly insecure. Just say you make "enough" and the way you work it in …
/r/seduction05/06/15 05:53 AM
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wait no..that's not what..uhmm
/r/seduction05/06/15 12:08 AM
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I was talking to Taylor Swift but no onegotthehint
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:57 PM
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Hitch gets it right. Keep it simple, calibrate and keep it going. If a chick is high energy, totally feeling it at the club, homegirl wants to be spun and shit.
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:35 AM
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Look up "conversation threading". It uses cues from words said in the previous sentence to keep the conversation going. Now, it shouldn't turn into an interrogation; a conversation is not Q/A all night but threading it will get to a topic you can converse with a girl. Here's a quick scenario (now I use direct game so you may have to adjust) ME: "Excuse me, please don't take this the wrong way but I think you're really cute." HER: "Oh my gosh, thank you so much!" (9.5/10 times they're flattered, …
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:30 AM
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Have your friends 'choose' who you approach. If you say no, or don't approach, drinks are on you.
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:14 AM
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Please excuse me if this post offended anyone. you need to up your self confidence buddy. I'm 2 years behind you (23). I've been doing pickup for as long as my reddit account (3 years). It's never too late to get it in socially awesome gear. Sooner the better, but later isn't worse either. In some cases, a little later is better since you're "wiser". in order to get any "good" at all the stuff we talk about on this subreddit you have to do some soul searching of yourself; you have to love yourse…
/r/seduction03/06/15 07:58 AM
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Me: Sorry. I know I probably shouldn't have apologized, but it's something I'm not used to and I felt like kind of a creep after saying it. I even saw one of her friends staring at me out the window. you're over-thinking it. if she just wasn't having it that day, then that's not your problem at all; how could you have known she was going to give you a flat response? you're right; you shouldn't have apologized for telling her she was cute. just approach approach approach and don't think about the…
/r/seduction03/06/15 07:53 AM
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ayyy. same here
/r/seduction10/11/14 05:45 AM
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Paradise Valley
/r/seduction10/11/14 05:44 AM
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I thought it was a joke post and was going to slowly transform from believable into ridiculous. Like "this signal is called the chloroform."
/r/seduction06/11/14 12:35 AM
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Definitely need to tell my buds about nametagging
/r/seduction06/11/14 12:02 AM
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Man, I've been out of it for so long if she was hot enough and she tried to rape me I probably wouldn't fight back. Good thing you're safe though bud
/r/seduction19/10/14 09:59 PM
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Oooh. Good point.
/r/seduction06/09/14 09:00 PM
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"They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention rather than for the simple pleasure of giving." This particularly struck a chord with me.
/r/seduction14/08/14 06:15 AM
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"I said lady what's your number, she said 911." Lil Wayne.
/r/seduction14/08/14 05:56 AM
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when you act like you expect or are entitled to sex, you're done THIS.
/r/seduction12/08/14 05:43 PM
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/r/gainit would probably have a lot more benefit from him.
/r/seduction12/08/14 03:31 PM
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I have a friend who runs the old "can I buy you a drink" and gets more tail than a taxidermist with it. DEAR GOD HOW
/r/seduction12/08/14 02:34 AM
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but you can't stand Olivia Wilde might get past the bitch shield because you had such a sacky open? Dunno. Could you rephrase? I didn't understand what this meant.
/r/seduction10/08/14 11:38 PM
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it's summer motherfuckers, you don't wear socks in the summer. go sockless
/r/seduction24/07/14 07:34 PM
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Insecure bf texting you back. Eject and move on. Poor girl probably talked to you like that in Chipotle cause the guy is boring her.
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:00 PM
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Today, I fell out of a relationship with a fantastic girl. I'm gonna miss her like hell but we're still great friends. This is actually a good thing. Yeah the 'not-being-in-a-relationship' part sucks, but look at it this way; make her your wingwoman now. You two can now talk like that and joke around if you two are still good friends. Tell her straight up "yo. now you gotta help me pick up other chicks." Hell, the relationship may start back up again. I want to find love you gotta find the girl …
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:25 AM
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i dont have a lot of experience with nightclub game so that's what i'm hoping to improve on
/r/seduction17/06/14 07:46 PM
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I can relate to #2 a lot with the whole "sure I'll text you back" and then she actually doesn't; that's basically the majority of my flakes rather than the "oh i can't make it cause X". I never really call her out on it like "youre not the type of person etc etc." cause i think it might make her feel uncomfortable, but I guess it's something different to try. Jesus, #4. I can't agree more. To add onto it, I'd think that if you're in the USA, take words and phrases from our friends over the pond …
/r/seduction02/06/14 10:23 AM
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Yeah I agree my terminology was out of whack. I was using them since the actual terms escape me. It just had to do with her bitch shield or some cycle her mind goes into that you wanna break. Not sure where I can find that article
/r/seduction14/05/14 07:44 PM
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OP did fine if the objective was the number. The objective is the girl behind the number. I can collect numbers all day but not have a single one text back. That's working hard. I prefer to work smart; attract the girl, make her interested in you and actually make her want to call/text you back before you even ask for the number.
/r/seduction14/05/14 07:28 PM
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Good effort but, You were correct in that the "And why is that?" is a shit test but you failed the test in that you gave her a typical answer and indulged her "response cycle" meaning she got an answer she was expecting to hear, therefore activating her "shut down sequence." Sounds robotic but that's how most girls are wired to sift through guys who talk to her. By answering her question it shows that she is in control. You don't want that. You want to be in control. When faced with a shit test,…
/r/seduction14/05/14 05:39 PM
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Wow, calm down.
/r/seduction14/05/14 02:46 AM
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Who cares? She already rejected you. reputation carries. she might tell her friends at the bar what happened.
/r/seduction13/05/14 10:46 PM
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this. when you're on /r/Seduction, class is in session. when you're in the field, it's exam time and it's pass/fail.
/r/seduction13/05/14 04:20 AM
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i use: "I'm going for it!" I got this from "A-Team" (2010). Bradley Cooper said it when he was hitting on this French reporter and it's perfect. Say it when you're leaning in so she knows what you're going for:
/r/seduction13/05/14 04:11 AM
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Well of course. You're reading it. There's no intonation, inflection etc. I can totally see this going over very well if performed correctly.
/r/seduction11/05/14 10:35 PM
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fucking this. i've seen the following posted so frequently that I'm going to assume all the targets out there have already heard it: "We just met I don't need to hear about your problems yet" The "I have a goldfish line" "Want another one". it's imperative you stay in frame. don't even draw attention to the fact she said she has a boyfriend. and even if she does, move on to the next one! i might get downvoted but I have enough respect for the guy who is already in a steady relationship whereas i…
/r/seduction14/04/14 06:05 AM
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I see this response getting posted so frequently that I'm going to assume that girls have heard this one already.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:42 AM
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Wet and dirty martini on the rocks pls.
/r/seduction07/04/14 05:56 PM
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well first off, you can't game with this floating around. reputation carries itself over wherever youre at. square things up with this, and then start gaming.
/r/seduction31/03/14 11:59 AM
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expanding on this; when you make eye contact with her and you manage to hold it, that's the ideal moment to go up to her and talk to her. she has you locked on target, and knows that you're going to approach her to talk to her. it makes it a lot less uncomfortable for her.
/r/seduction31/03/14 11:48 AM
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shameless plug: expanding on #1; you might want to read this
/r/seduction31/03/14 11:46 AM
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first, before you even try any of the techniques out here, you need to focus on improving/upgrading yourself. search for articles on this sub about "inner game". perfect your inner game, and then move onto techniques to use in the field, "outer game".
/r/seduction31/03/14 11:44 AM
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I said some stuff to some people, they had me arrested, I was in jail for 5 days, barred from campus, forced to withdraw, can't return until Fall 2014 jesus fuck, what did you say?!
/r/seduction31/03/14 11:42 AM
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qualify me, not a shit-test. qualification tests are shit tests. just another form of them like you have a math test, history test etc.
/r/seduction30/03/14 09:20 PM
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"what are you looking for? ...Love? ...Sex?" blatant shit test. Read this.. Billy is my nigga. "I'm looking for... adventure." uhm..well...yeah.ok..i guess When girls throw out shit tests, they get into a 'rhythm'. This rhythm, to an untrained guy, basically "controls the conversation": It'll leave him speechless, fumbling on his words, coming up with answers she's already heard. If you fail the test, it's gonna be an uphill battle for you. To battle shit-tests, you need to break her rhythm. You…
/r/seduction30/03/14 08:58 AM
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when you're texting. Texting is not natural conversation. Expect topics to be changed at the drop of a hat. I use texting mostly only for technicalities like when I'm setting up the date: the what/when/where and don't indulge in conversation over texting. i conversate with the HB face to face only or thru the phone where there is a 'natural' conversation with tone, sarcasm and inflection.
/r/seduction30/03/14 06:36 AM
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rule of thumb: TWO TEXTs MAX. As in if she doesnt reply to your first text, wait at least a day or two and then send another one concerning another topic and NOT a "hello?" type text that refers to your previous text. if she doesn't respond to the 2nd text, then you've exhausted your texts. do not send her any more. if she really wants whatever to happen with you, she'll have her phone on her ass, replying nearly immediately.
/r/seduction30/03/14 05:44 AM
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Think about how you act/behave around unattractive women. Basically copy and paste that behavior when you're around attractive women.
/r/seduction30/03/14 05:32 AM
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[META] this question right here is like the fucking midterm to reading all the content on this sub.
/r/seduction29/03/14 12:51 AM
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AA is a hell of a drug.
/r/seduction24/03/14 03:41 AM
2

boom. there it is.
/r/seduction24/03/14 03:27 AM
1

get to it!
/r/seduction24/03/14 01:00 AM
1

i think HB has become a "unit". like Mach number for the ratio of speed of vehicle to local speed of sound. so like HB3 is ug, while HB9 is omg.
/r/seduction24/03/14 12:49 AM
0

geez, settle down.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 11:58 PM
2

getting turned into orbiters. yeah but isn't one of the fundamental theories in this sub "keep your eye on the prize" or something?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:55 PM
5

How do people know that you're not flirting with them? They don't see, hear and listen to everything. They're not the NSA. They perceive, therefore assume, so take advantage of that.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 07:58 PM
3

Wise words. There are some pretty hot cows out there.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 07:56 PM
1

I like doing some role-reversal: get her to buy me a drink. It's worked 7 out of the 9 times I've tried it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 05:33 AM
1

This also extends to subjects beyond women; your career, personal finance etc.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 05:31 AM
3

Also you'll be ridding him of an unfaithful woman I disagree in this situation. It's kind of a self fulfilling prophecy. A woman isn't unfaithful unless you go out and make her so. There's nothing to 'rid' him from if you aren't there. A campfire doesn't start unless you start it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 05:28 AM
3

Sup, welcome to the club. When you start your sidebar romp, I want you to pay attention to things we call "inner game". This is basically you, your character, how you carry yourself etc. When we get new people in this subred, they're always like "what's the secret?", "what do I do to get laid?", "what's the routine?". Personally I say, no that's not how it works here. It's simple. There is no secret. It's all inner game. It's all you as a person. Yeah we might have a scripted opener here and the…
/r/seduction14/03/14 11:14 AM
1

What are you doing correctly that I'm probably doing wrong? what are you doing wrong? Network, network, network dude. LinkedIn for business, Facebook for pleasure yo.
/r/seduction14/03/14 11:07 AM
9

from my experience when there's that quiet non-awkward silence, and you two are looking at each other kinda smiling/giggling, and she looks away, but then looks back at you, that means all systems go
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:22 AM
1

Women are just as interested in sex as men, they just go about it differently. Girls have their own version of game too, and they fret about it. Know when to fold your hand, no shame in pulling the eject lever if it plain ol' fashioned ain't happening. Persistence is different than making a total ass of yourself. Pull the trigger on the kiss when the time is right, you will be shocked how often it goes over extremely well. Her eyes will tell you when the time is right. Easier said than done but …
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:06 AM
2

what. everyone is on Tinder and I'm sitting here like "this app isn't working."
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:25 AM
3

i really want to make a youtube 'how to get into pickup' series. i dont know what itll cover but i know this for sure; the 1st video won't be about going out, picking, direct vs. indirect etc. it'll be about you. before you even start thinking about trying any of the techniques/etc in field, you have to change yourself for the better first. sit yourself down in a mirror, and have a heart to heart with yourself. what can you change? what can you do differently? what were you doing right? wrong? w…
/r/seduction22/01/14 07:58 PM
1

youre better off in /r/AskSeddit /r/Seduction is about concepts and technique rather than specific encounters
/r/seduction22/01/14 07:55 PM
2

those wont be publicly disclosed in part of 1) it's procedure, and a foreign nation that knows another nation's procedures would know how to combat them. 2) they probably don't exist because honeypot agents basically get into a relationship like any other normal people do. Just slowly over time, they blackmail or create reasons that persuade the target to give up information
/r/seduction22/01/14 07:53 PM
1

gotta diversify your jokes nigga.
/r/seduction09/01/14 12:59 AM
1

thanks Obi Wan Kenobvious but I meant where is our meetup spot? where can i get in touch?
/r/seduction18/12/13 01:09 PM
1

whoah. this is more in depth about pickup than I'm used to (it has graphs and shit!) ok, so from what I understand, it's kinda like a "Goldilocks" game. you can't be too high or too low on the sexual market scale (SMS). you have to be just right, but just a little higher than her on the SMS. utilizing alpha, alpha asshole, beta, and beta supplicant actions are how you move your, as well as her, level on the SMS ADDENDUM: still dont understand the graphs
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:15 AM
1

welcome to the other side of sanity! >=D
/r/seduction28/09/13 02:33 AM
1

And if she's not into you? how do you know? if you know, or get a vibe, then FZ her yourself. the positives of FZing her outweight the negatives if she FZs you in my opinion.
/r/seduction28/09/13 02:26 AM
3

this guy...this guy right here.
/r/seduction28/09/13 02:20 AM
2

yeah, but youre not gonna catch any high leveled HB by hanging around unattractive people. i can almost guarantee you that. its a social dynamic. attractive people KNOW they are hot. their social experiences have told them this. think of it this way, have you ever heard of a shy HB-9? probably not, because she is hot and she knows she doesnt have to be shy; everyone will treat her nice
/r/seduction27/09/13 08:41 PM
1

"yea those were my intentions, too bad" good text. you weren't whiny about it. i think the "too bad" was the knockout punch; tells her "eh. i'm not clingy, and its too bad youre not getting with me". good job. The thing is, I've been keeping my distance every time we've talked. This was the first time actually trying to hang out and after being shot down so quickly, I don't know how I should proceed with future events. Also worth nothing that I don't care if I get friendzoned, she's a fun person…
/r/seduction27/09/13 08:36 PM
1

i said this above, but i'll reiterate because i dont have anything else to do, and my MATLAB simulation is running. by being friendzoned, while you had some control over her decision to FZ you (your behavior leading up to the FZ) you dont have control of her FZ'ing you. you dont have control of getting out, and furthermore attempts to get out, would probably make your relationship with her worse. there's close to nothing you can do to get her to change her mind. tldr; you dont have control when …
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:58 PM
4

unless she doesn't help you out in getting with her friends. doesnt matter. at the end of the day, you're putting in the work. if she doesnt help you, then fine. do it yourself. you just dont have help. it just becomes a regular day for a PUA
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:53 PM
1

I wonder if friendzoning HB9-10s would be a great way to cure their AA... this would be an interesting case study. maybe get some of the lairs to arrange a meeting with PUAs who suffer from AA and then pair them with experienced PUAs and then go out with the intention of having the novice friend zone high leveled HBs. field report afterward
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:51 PM
5

you shouldnt care what they think. youre the fucking alpha out there. you're chilling with HB8s, 9s and 10s, having a good time, and theyre over there in the corner doing the bro huddle wondering what to do next.
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:48 PM
1

then you need to make friends and surround yourself with people who are. guy and girl.
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:47 PM
2

she even initiated our number exchange possible IOI, but context would help confirm. she told me that she had a boyfriend and she was sorry. is that all she said? nothing like "i consider you a friend" kinda thing? acting awkward due to 4 hours of sleep what's your major? unless it's engineering like me, or something technical, just suck it up. hell, i've slept for a total of 6 hours this entire week cause of my senior project. try to always be in frame. show that you're on top of the class your…
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:46 PM
2

Any rules or tips on how to not get friendzoned yourself? no rules, just tools for the toolbox. don't beckon to her every call. dont show that you wanna be with her at every passing second. you have your own shit to do. dont change yourself just cause she dislikes/disagrees with someting you like neg often, but be careful. (i usually dont recommend negging, but its one of the tools imo of staying out of FZ airspace). dont always support her side in a conversation. have your own opinion i'm sure …
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:38 PM
1

field report it!
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:34 PM
1

yes there is a difference. by being friendzoned, you had somewhat no control over that. by friendzoning a girl, you have control. maybe she's into you and is disappointed you FZ'd her, maybe she isn't. it's how you control yourself. this goes back to treating the HB like she's your little sister, making fun of her, etc. i think there were several posts about that
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:34 PM
3

i'm skinny as fuck. i know this isn't /r/Fitness but i'm told heavy weights, low reps, many sets. is this true?
/r/seduction26/09/13 03:09 PM
1

it's all you on this one bud. she should accept you however you are.
/r/seduction26/09/13 03:05 PM
14

there's a pretty big difference between being friendzoned, and friend zoning someone else true, but I guess its about flipping those frustrations around and using the FZ as an asset. with friendzoning girls, I guess its just a social experiement to see where it goes. maybe even a test for the HB; she might think "awwh damn, he FZ'd me but I want him, how can I get out of the FZ"? kinda some role reversal shit.
/r/seduction26/09/13 03:03 PM
13

definitely hit up the gym, but in my opinion, don't try and pickup the girls on the gym floor. i pretty much view the gym as a 'secret' place where people can go to better themselves for their social activities in the outside world. the HBs there are trying to get a workout too, so just let them. meet up with them at the smoothie bar or somewhere they're not actively engaged in gym activities.
/r/seduction26/09/13 02:36 PM
5

Me: you weren't suppose to answer that ,I just wanted a reason to talk to you. this was a good opportunity to get her to laugh; hell, i've done this before. something along the lines of, ME: Nice weather we're having. HER: I know right? Its rained ever since we got here. ME: Really? I havent really noticed, I just wanted an excuse to talk to you. **(said playfully with a smile) she laughed. K closed in the end. you gotta get in frame and make sure you don't freeze like you did. freezing is just …
/r/seduction24/09/13 02:17 AM
0

in my opinion don't go too much into detail like comparing her to someone else (even if she is famous). this will open up a shitstorm of shit tests and makes pickup a whole lot harder. that said, there should be no well-intentioned compliments that backfire because you should be able to agree and amplify, and maneuver out of it and get back in the game.
/r/seduction24/09/13 02:12 AM
1

I don't agree with the "I find you attractive as well." It seems too needy. I'd suggest something like "Hey yeah, thanks. You don't look too bad either". This tells her you probably get this told a lot and it's whatever but while telling her she's attractive too.
/r/seduction31/08/13 09:58 AM
12

"why don't we hang out?" but I'm not sure if that was the alcohol talking or not. Alcohol brings out the inner person and breaks down the barrier of things that an HB might not say in a normal conversation. In short, if the girl isn't too drunk, she'll speak somewhat truthfully. That said, something along the lines of "why don't we hang out" is an IOI to me. So you're probably good. her: B me: what's b mean? right here, you should've responded back with a comment that would've made her laugh. if…
/r/seduction31/08/13 09:51 AM
11

it's something you'll have to "rewire" yourself to do until it's automatic. in short, when she laughs at a joke you made, touch her (we call that 'kino'). she'll associate your touch to her laughing/joy. initiate kino immediately and then escalate. look at the "DiCarlo Escalation Ladder" the arch of her back, and her tricep area are the best places to start out. arch of her back wen guiding her through a door, tricep area when you're talking to her. if you know what you're gonna say will make he…
/r/seduction31/08/13 09:40 AM
1

I was at the grocery store and there was a girl with her dad, and I just went up to the girl with a smile, and told her "Hey. I just wanted to tell you you're really pretty." in a genuine tone. She seemed flattered and her dad smiled. I think the best way to do it is direct game with a genuine tone.
/r/seduction19/08/13 05:43 AM
1

after performing triage on you, i'm gonna send you to go post to /r/AskSeddit. this doesn't seem like a situation that can be solved easily with theory etc. on /r/Seduction it's more of an entire project that'll have to be started from the ground up.
/r/seduction14/08/13 03:14 AM
0

thats really awkward for someone I barely know yeap. here's your problem. thinking everything you do toward a woman is awkward. here's what everyone is gonna tell you; don't think like that. things aren't awkward unless you make it that way. you want to project yourself to women like you're fucking awesome. you're the fucking business. people want to be around you, guys wanna be you, girls wanna be with you kinda thing. this "that's really awkward for someone i barely know" shit is beta behavior…
/r/seduction14/08/13 03:11 AM
5

/u/chaosmosis is correct in going to /r/fPUA, but a lot of the material on here is applicable to you as well, pretty much assume the role of the guy. this will set you on a course to be an "alpha female" if you're the one wanting to go after the guys which is cool. read these two articles from the female perspective; one and a two try to get on her proverbial "level". hell, maybe even send her a PM to get some personal tips from her perspective.
/r/seduction05/08/13 06:39 AM
1

I nominate this and the other post for posts of the month yo. I know it's a rule we don't ask the fish how to be caught but damn, this is some good intel and insight. one thing i picked up was CALIBRATE MOTHERFUCKER: If the girl is high energy in a high energy environment, she don’t want no low energy shit from you! Bitch want to be SPUN AND SHIT. one question though, do you have any day game advice? this seems to be all night/club game. i'm usually on the day game, public open etc.
/r/seduction24/07/13 11:04 AM
19

The NSA does.
/r/seduction27/06/13 10:10 AM
5

--> air conditioned lair.
/r/seduction02/06/13 04:15 AM
4

Phoenix, AZ where the hell are you guys?!
/r/seduction01/06/13 09:16 PM
1

Scottsdale here. let me know!
/r/seduction08/04/13 06:14 AM
1

21M engineering student.
/r/seduction17/03/13 03:14 AM
44

Achievement Completed: STICKY SITUATION
/r/seduction04/03/13 09:52 AM
91

can't wait to integrate this into Google Glass. PING PING Congratulations, you've achieved the Wrestling Achievement. GODDAMMIT GOOGLE GLASS, NOT NOW.
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:10 AM
1

engineering major here. feels like i'm one of few guys in my major at my small univ. who reads r/seduction or at least doesn't freak out when an HB-7+ comes up and asks for math homework help.
/r/seduction19/12/12 10:56 PM
6

"proto-HB8"
/r/seduction12/12/12 05:39 PM
1

I take all my advice from r/seduction but sometimes I see these ads on the Yahoo homepage and I can't help but wonder if they're doing it right.
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:25 AM
15

have confidence: most guys are too nervous or anxious to approach a woman they see at the mall/bar/store etc. don't be: go up to her and talk to her. it's probably the last time you'll see her again if you dont. kino the shit out of that girl. i read somewhere that if you don't touch/kino a girl, how in the HELL do you expect to sleep or just go anywhere with her?! attractiveness is irrelevant, appearance is.. know the difference. you don't have to be amazingly hot to get a girl, BUT you have to…
/r/seduction04/11/12 01:55 AM
2

do it inadvertently. when she does something worth noting, imply she already has one; HB-X: does something YOU: "haha, i bet your boyfriend doesn't approve of that." this way, it doesnt seem needy, and it kills 2 birds with 1 stone: you find out if she's taken, and if she's into you
/r/seduction30/10/12 06:24 AM
2

Get a laugh (naturally) in there quick. While laughing touch her on the upper arm.
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:57 PM
1

confidence in talking to attractive (HB X>7) girls; both in seducing and just small talk
/r/seduction25/10/12 06:22 AM
2

my cousin has a bottle of Noir. personally the scent isn't my jam, but it smells really good on my cousin. (which is how i found out he wore cologne; it was one of those "dude what are you wearing? smells good") again, every cologne is different. specifically, i personally don't like BVLGARI BLV but thats just me. it's all about preference
/r/seduction20/10/12 09:04 PM
6

I dance around the topic and don't pose finding out as a question; more as a statement; "I bet your boyfriend doesn't approve of that" or "Haha, your boyfriend would be mad" or something similar. in that way, it accomplishes 2 things; you find out if she's taken, or if she's into you if she tells you she's available.
/r/seduction10/10/12 07:19 PM
2

appear outcome independent this.
/r/seduction02/10/12 04:07 PM
5

I should! I heard they were giving some out earlier and I missed my chance. I'm definitely gonna be at the front of the line next time! /thread. ahahhaha
/r/seduction21/09/12 05:44 AM
1

i use earplugs in any club environment. this way, it kinda gives you the opportunity to get close to the girl. say you open a girl and she says something to you; kinda do the "i cant hear you" motion and kinda get close to her and tell her to say it again. this way, it kinda breaks the barrier. you can talk to her when youre that close too
/r/seduction10/09/12 10:33 PM
5

Try going to an upper tier store as well like Barney's, Bloomingdales, Saks Fifth Ave. They'll have men there who know what they're talking about. Personally I trust them over the Macy's people.
/r/seduction07/09/12 04:03 PM
2

Good smell, but doesn't fit his category of unique: I know a lot of guys who use Code
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:59 PM
3

by the way, Givenchy is pronounced "jhiv-ahn-chay"
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:54 AM
60

Nothing too expensive. I want the cologne to emphasize my maturity and not make me seem like I am "trying too hard". dont mean to pull a Mitt Romney but you should really invest in an upper tier cologne. unless you look (or i guess smell) really hard, most of the lower tier colognes make you smell like a high school freshman. also, cologne is meant to be discovered and not displayed. for example, if you walk by me, i shouldn't be able to smell you're wearing D&G Light Blue. but that girl that yo…
/r/seduction07/09/12 05:59 AM
4

in your conversations get a joke about a significant other. like while you're laughing say "oh my god, did your boyfriend tell you that?!" in my opnion, dont ask directly; imply indirectly
/r/seduction07/09/12 05:48 AM
2

Was our first interaction of 10 or so minutes and the few moments I will spend with her on Fri/Sat enough to get a number? yes. you missed out on an opportunity there; since you knew she was coming on Fri/Sat you could've said "hey, let me get your number just in case things change on Fri/Sat blah blah blah" while you say this, pull out your phone and don't act like it's a big deal. any conversation you can number close. i mean what happens if she doesnt come in on Fri/Sat because of XYZ? ASSUME…
/r/seduction07/09/12 05:45 AM
1

What would be cool is if you could get a count of all the upvotes/downvotes someone has in a subreddit. Then you could see how much people approve of the things you say. youd think that since we have an "active user" counter we'd have an upvote counter for the specific subreddit ADDENDUM: also agreed on getting flair based on up votes
/r/seduction22/08/12 08:30 PM
2

Is it true that current employees will approach attractive customers and ask them to be "models" aka employees?
/r/seduction07/08/12 03:54 AM
16

choo choo motherfucker!
/r/seduction12/07/12 04:07 AM
25

i always do direct day and night game, and from what i can tell, you handled the approach really well. one thing i want to point out for others though is the way OP navigated the conversation: HB: "i recently got out of an engagement" ok, understandable. she doesnt want to be seeing anyone right now. but here comes OP on the alpha train, OP: "how about this, we trade numbers and we take some time to get to know each other" BAM. alpha'd that shiet; told HB what they are going to do, not suggested…
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:08 AM
1

Thanks How would you go about it answering it anyway though?
/r/seduction01/07/12 09:15 PM
1

hey man, to each his own; i'm just relaying what works for me bud thats all
/r/seduction29/06/12 02:51 AM
1

like i said the need for a script only jumpstarts the conversation. everyone needs inspiration to talk about something; anything. these "scripts" inspire ideas and let you startup a conversation so she starts talking more so you can branch out the conversation
/r/seduction29/06/12 01:18 AM
1

I run direct day and night game. Indirect game for me doesn't work cause I'm not the most attractive guy out there so from my observations when running indirect game, I get friendzoned often. Whereas with direct game I have better success. In my experiences, Running direct game you need a certain amount of "structure" or "scripted lines" to get a natural conversation rolling. Think of it as a flatlined patient in the emergency room and your scripted lines are the defibrillator. For example, sinc…
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:12 PM
2

agreed; both with the appearance description and that usually appearance shouldn't matter; but you should look presentable at least. i suggest hitting up r/malefashionadvice or hell, even r/amiugly to skip beating around the bush to see what you can get done and start getting girls numbers.
/r/seduction18/06/12 01:50 AM
1

first several approaches are always the hardest. after that, you'll begin to itch to approach another HB again haha.
/r/seduction15/06/12 05:10 AM
2

you're gonna have a bad time
/r/seduction13/06/12 05:10 PM
2

something something antidisestablishmentarianism.
/r/seduction13/06/12 05:10 PM
7

TLDR: fuck you. Read it. He put effort in writing it. I have a similar gay friend (hes bi actually so he rocks it with both genders) who has similar qualities: I can agree that You definitely can learn something so hard from gay guys: they seem to give no fucks so much it's like they're giving negative fucks.
/r/seduction11/06/12 07:59 PM
2

AWWWWHH YEAHHHH CHINESE GIRLS haha. I havent yet: things got mixed up and had to cancel last minute T.T
/r/seduction06/06/12 10:04 PM
1

I guess one of the problems here is what would we do? I don't want to bring her to XYZ if every other guy she's been with has brought her there
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:28 AM
1

I guess one of the problems here is what would we do? I don't want to bring her to XYZ if every other guy she's been with has brought her there
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:28 AM
1

I guess one of the problems here is what would we do? I don't want to bring her to XYZ if every other guy she's been with has brought her there
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:27 AM
1

That's kinda catch 22. Is there anyway at all I can prepare?
/r/seduction05/06/12 01:19 AM
1

You're gonna have a very bad time.
/r/seduction03/06/12 08:47 PM
3

My suggestion: talk to her only in English and try and strain it out: be patient and help her with the English and when you go in for the number close, she might object since her English is bad: that's when you surprise her and whip out the Ruski. Gives her the ultimate cultural relief.
/r/seduction03/06/12 07:50 PM
5

TLDR: fuck you it's a good story. read it; he put effort in writing it.
/r/seduction03/06/12 12:04 AM
11

i saw a video of Sasha speaking to this Russian HB in English in Kiev and she was like "uhmm...my English not good"; and then Sasha pulled out a phrase in Russian which I'd think he said "oh don't worry about it" but when he pulled the Russian out, i was like OHHHH SHIET; impress level: over 9000. BAM; START WATCHING AT 6:15 EDIT: Point: that f close (or any close for that matter) would be easier if you know the foreign girl's language and surprise her with it
/r/seduction02/06/12 11:18 PM
17

negative negative; this one's on the house.
/r/seduction02/06/12 11:12 PM
99

ME: "Hey can you hold something for me?" HB-9: "Sure" ME: Search through my pockets "Can you hold your hand out so I don't drop it?" HB-9: Holds her hand out ME: Holds her hand "Thanks" EDIT: (k closed)
/r/seduction02/06/12 10:12 PM
1

failed for both browsers; how big is the file? can you email it to me?
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:54 AM
1

i'm having trouble downloading the PDF; chrome wont open the page
/r/seduction29/05/12 05:56 AM
2

could you give an example of a situation please?
/r/seduction27/05/12 08:12 PM
7

ones i collected from comments that i'd use: That's nice, does he treat you well? (yes) (slight smile) I wouldn't. We're just talking.... unless you're thinking ahead "I asked you if you'd like to join me for lunch, not sleep with me." (I'd deliver this one with a smile)
/r/seduction25/05/12 05:40 AM
1

did you speak to her in English or Korean ?
/r/seduction21/05/12 05:19 AM
2

could you elaborate more on the cultural differences at the bars and the differences on the clubs and nightclubs ?
/r/seduction21/05/12 05:18 AM
1

for the one that looked at you in horror; what did you do? walk in front of her and run a direct approach?
/r/seduction21/05/12 05:13 AM
1

these are definitely on the to do list; any other places you have in mind ?
/r/seduction21/05/12 05:07 AM
1

sweet. guess i'll have to find parties and infiltrate accordingly haha
/r/seduction21/05/12 04:33 AM
1

i'll definitely stop by Hongdae then . in your opinion is Hongdae like a 24/7 party place like Vegas ? mainly, what kind of foreigners are you talking about? non-Korean but Asian or non Asian ?
/r/seduction21/05/12 04:08 AM
1

since summer is coming up where are the closest beaches that arent full of foreigners ? i know pickup doesnt usually favor a certain ethnicity but i'd prefer to game up korean girls during my time in korea .
/r/seduction21/05/12 12:40 AM
1

since summer is coming up where are the closest beaches that arent full of foreigners ? i know pickup doesnt usually favor a certain ethnicity but i'd prefer to game up korean girls during my time in korea .
/r/seduction21/05/12 12:40 AM
2

thanks for the advice . ill keep you in the loop; would be cool to show me the ropes around seoul .
/r/seduction20/05/12 10:43 PM
2

well i'm actually 100% asian; 50/50 chinese/filipino but i look white ish haha .
/r/seduction20/05/12 09:04 PM
1

id think that since i dont play as religiously as the native Korean guys wouldnt that be a plus ? (unless of course high leveled HBs play too)
/r/seduction20/05/12 07:48 PM
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Well I was just told on AskSeddit that directly answering a shit test is beta or something along those lines.
/r/seduction10/05/12 07:57 PM
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awwh...not even a little bread?
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:14 AM
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All systems go. EDIT: --> this is something i do to kino it up and get her to smile at the same time (this btw, is assuming you already have broken the ice) ME: "can you hold something for me?" HB-X: "sure" (assuming she agrees which I believe she will 99.9% of the time) ME: (search your pockets) "can you hold your hand out so I don't drop it?" HB-X: (holds her hand out) ME: (take her hand and hold it) "Thanks" and then smile.
/r/seduction14/04/12 03:41 AM
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It depends on the situation: Is she sitting down? Write her a note on a sticky note. Something like "what are you listening to?" Is she standing? Just tap her on the shoulder with a smile and ask her what she is listening to. Easy openers.
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:49 AM
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Yea but with more subscribers you have a higher rate of people who know what they're talking about and those who don't.
/r/seduction04/04/12 04:26 PM
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i still feel that r/askseddit should have a lot more subscribers for it to be effective. i feel as if i'm Commander Shepard telling the Council "there needs to be more attention to r/askseddit"
/r/seduction04/04/12 04:46 AM
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"...hold her feet in mine,..." wait what?
/r/seduction01/04/12 07:55 AM
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"THAT'S THE ONE! RUN FUCKER RUN!" this will be said in my head every time i see an HB i want.
/r/seduction26/03/12 05:36 PM
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Bingo.
/r/seduction26/03/12 03:11 PM
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good job dude. i usually do direct approaches; "you know on the first one i crashed and burned" - Maverick. a little tip though; after she said thanks, you needed to "hook" her; something that would make her stay; usually a question, but not always (i find it the most effective) for example: YOU: "Hi, this is going to sound really random but I just saw you walking by and thought you looked really nice." HB-X: "Thanks" YOU: "Are you a model?" or "What's your favorite store here?" seems a bit "int…
/r/seduction26/03/12 04:48 AM
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Asian. preferably (in no particular order) Taiwanese, Chinese, Japanese. not really into the big boobs, big ass; more into face, eyes and, her hairstyle
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:46 AM
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i'm not saying you should kino, BUT KINO. kino, whether or not it's to pick up that secretary sexytary is technically universal: i read somewhere here that when people are touched by another person, more serotonin or happiness chemical whatever is produced making that person "like you more" so don't kino it, business kino it: FIRM handshakes, touches on the upper arm and leave out the lowerback touches, any other intimate kino maneuvers
/r/seduction20/03/12 11:02 PM
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Well There's a difference between which ailments you can talk about and which you can't. Clearly any STDs aren't ones you can talk about but unless you're born with them the only way you can get them is thru transmission and that's your fault for not using protection.
/r/seduction20/03/12 10:06 PM
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swag doesn't exactly mean accessories; just how you carry yourself overall. i dont know how others view it but my rule is "you can never say you have swag; swag must be 'given'" on the contrary; i suggest reading this primer by GQ magazine on being a well dressed rebel. the 1st slide is about men and jewelry; you can do it, just don't go overboard: you're not flavor flav or snoop dogg
/r/seduction20/03/12 06:46 AM
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Oh yea. Told him to drop those and pick up some khakis
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:01 PM
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--> told him to lose that belt buckle too
/r/seduction19/03/12 01:45 PM
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you don't have to tell them your age; try and avoid topics/conversations about it. it would also depend on your frame and how you look; i suggest checking out r/malefashionadvice for tips or if you'd like a personal consultation (lol wow i feel like a sir haha. QUITE!) PM me. i helped a guy out go from looking like a 40 year old to a 20 year old. here is his before and his after
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:54 AM
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they're against it because your ability to remember things/overall judgement is impaired for both parties: if you have 0 alcohol in your system, while it may be harder, all minds are clear and you know exactly what you're getting into
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:42 AM
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if i could lucid dream on command, i wouldn't practice; i'd get right to the f close.
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:40 AM
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you may be able to play the "make her feel bad" card; i'm unsure about what Seddit would think about this, so i'm going to hop in my downvote bunker: regular advice: i'd suggest practicing some canned openers; some ppl use these, some don't, i think in this case you should practice a couple that you would use for openers because of the stutter. try your hardest to improve your speech however; (this is the best advice i could give). now for the controversial/downvote probable part: if you're talk…
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:38 AM
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nope. it doesn't matter at all. just because you have XYZ ailment doesn't and shouldn't exclude you from gaming it up. instead of making jokes about it, women actually might be interested to know about it; throw out a couple of cool factoids about CP. now, i myself don't know much about CP, but kino (the physical part of all this) is a big thing; that's holding her hand, touching her shoulder, small of her back etc. if CP makes this difficult, you might want to practice this or try to work aroun…
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:27 AM
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agreed; they have to want to change however refer them to this subreddit IMMEDIATELY. if i knew about seddit and all that came with it back in 2009, i wouldn't have attempted suicide due to a major case of oneitis combined with rejection. i swear, oneitis toward an HB-X compounded with rejection from that HB -X is like drinking and driving; nothing good will ever come out of it
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:21 AM
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yea you're definitely overthinking it bud. try some of these canned openers to spark a conversation/ideas and go from there next time you're in the restaurant; (use anytime) - YOU: Hey you (say this with a smile) How's your day been? (assuming you haven't got her name yet) - YOU: Hey, I've been meaning to get your name but I've never really got the chance. What is your name? if the restaurant isn't busy, introduce yourself if you haven't already; and try to get her to sit down with you and chat.…
/r/seduction19/03/12 06:45 AM
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i find that "touch and goes" where you make yourself noticed to an HB-X, but don't open, leave the scene for a sec, come back and then open are really effective like what you did. for example: YOU: (you see an HB-X, make her be "in your way" so that you have to kino a bit and say something along the lines of "excuse me" as you kino and pass her by; make sure you kino so that she makes eye contact with you, but don't open, from there, pass her by, leave the scene, go to the bathroom; just leave h…
/r/seduction19/03/12 06:25 AM
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here it is to refresh your memory: --> something i do to kino it up and get her to smile at the same time (this btw, is assuming you already have broken the ice) ME: "can you hold something for me?" HB-X: "sure" (assuming she agrees which I believe she will 99.9% of the time) ME: (search your pockets) "can you hold your hand out so I don't drop it?" HB-X: (holds her hand out) ME: (take her hand and hold it) "Thanks" and then smile.
/r/seduction18/03/12 02:10 AM
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Thank you. One more question: I'm usually opt for direct day game: what openers would you suggest?
/r/seduction17/03/12 09:00 PM
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Lol you saw that comment post huh?
/r/seduction17/03/12 08:57 PM
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this is one of the rare instances where you use a line from a certain person named Darrell; it'll make you unique and it'll make her laugh: HB-X: "I have a boyfriend." YOU: (Say this somewhat rapid fire and make sure you have friendly/open body language; smiling etc.) "Is he tall? Is he hefty? Is he getting you Mike and Ikes? Oh you like Mike and Ikes." From there, move off the topic of her boyfriend.
/r/seduction14/03/12 01:15 AM
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Lil too long bud: cut straight to the chase with texts. Nice try though
/r/seduction12/03/12 12:11 AM
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Youre thinking you'll never find someone as good as her because you don't believe there is someone better than her out there. You think your ex is the best you've ever and will have but you're wrong. You just haven't found someone better than her yet so you don't believe. When you do find someone who is better, I bet you're going to say to yourself, "I can't believe it!".
/r/seduction11/03/12 09:31 PM
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agreed. Simple as that: also, try to send texts that aren't formatted in questions: why? if she doesn't text back and you keep texting her it'll make you look needy its more alpha to text her what you're going to be doing BAD EXAMPLE: YOU(via text): "Hey what do you want to do Friday night?" GOOD EXAMPLE: YOU(via text): "Hey, let's have fun on Friday." or something along the lines of that
/r/seduction11/03/12 09:23 PM
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I was implying the class was a Diff EQ class lol
/r/seduction11/03/12 02:39 AM
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insert obligatory 'lie tangent to your curves' line by non-tech majors
/r/seduction06/03/12 05:37 AM
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this is some classified ish; i don't even tell my friends this little trick haha. use it well fellow sedditor.
/r/seduction06/03/12 04:55 AM
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with a classroom environment like that, making your intentions clear off the bat is like trying to solve the integral of ex/x you can try, but you won't get anywhere. i'm an aerospace engineering student; trust me, it won't work: and if you crash and burn, you'll see her everyday until the end of the semester so it's better if you do the indirect game approach and do lines that are based off the class; "hey excuse me, my name is XYZ; we have XYZ class together I was just wondering do you remembe…
/r/seduction06/03/12 04:04 AM
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most sedditors on here would say "move on!" "major oneitis!" and maybe this but hey, if things are clicking again, apply what youve learned here on seddit and see if you can escalate things again. now i say this against what the majority of sedditors would tell you cause you got a second chance; something most of us dont get the luxury of having (i myself wish i had a second chance with a girl; oneitis i know, but with the knowledge i learned from Seddit, i think i could make this one work for t…
/r/seduction06/03/12 03:59 AM
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It also gives them the opportunity to get out of it, so you can gauge their interest and save time. Why chase a girl who is not interested?? i feel as if those of us guys (me included) who are "aesthetically challenged" will have a lot of girls not be interested, so maybe just get their number directly, verify it by giving her the "missed call"; maybe neg her a bit "Lemme call you so I have your number...calls...I am now going to judge you based on your ringtone" (got that one from one of Sasha'…
/r/seduction06/03/12 03:38 AM
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--> something i do to kino it up and get her to smile at the same time (this btw, is assuming you already have broken the ice) ME: "can you hold something for me?" HB-X: "sure" (assuming she agrees which I believe she will 99.9% of the time) ME: (search your pockets) "can you hold your hand out so I don't drop it?" HB-X: (holds her hand out) ME: (take her hand and hold it) "Thanks" and then smile.
/r/seduction06/03/12 03:32 AM
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what's your opinion on Direct game?
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:42 AM
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"...make a random stranger smile." this seems like good potential to be an opener: YOU to HB-X: "Hey, my name is XYZ, I made it a goal to make a random stranger smile; how are you today blah blah blah etc."
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:38 AM
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"You tried this exact same thing on me two days ago. I told you, I have a boyfriend!" lol i'm curious as to what happened after this; what did you tell her? i would've been like "yeah, i know; i just wanted to see if anything changed since then" etc. etc. or something along those lines; idk i'm thinking on my feet here
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:36 AM
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yea trash the "ive seen you around" line. in my opinion, i'd think any line you tell her where you see her but she doesn't see you is just creepy for her.
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:35 AM
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Every table at the club is taken. I see one with three people sitting at it (two guys, one girl), and I approach them. I act excited to meet them and gave them a big smile. At first, they wanted me GONE. I could almost taste the negativity at the table, but I stayed excited and smiling. Watching the expression on their faces when they warmed up to me was like watching someone flip a switch HOW?!
/r/seduction27/02/12 09:07 PM
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thanks for the heads up ! i wouldn't use it in a social environment though; more like a 1 on 1 kinda thing.
/r/seduction25/02/12 07:36 AM
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"Hey you look REALLY bored" good opener.
/r/seduction25/02/12 12:30 AM
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I swear if you do a PUA guide written in all video game analogies...i would just socially awesome penguin
/r/seduction22/02/12 08:50 PM
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true, but if youre already involving a play on words with "serial/cereal" wouldn't it already be on the topic of murder etc?
/r/seduction22/02/12 08:25 AM
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thinking out loud, but maybe you could've added, "and if it doesn't work out, you can kill me." thoughts?
/r/seduction22/02/12 07:17 AM
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uhhhhhhhh.. idk about this one yo...i'd think the HB would come up with an ish ton of reasons, i.e., creeper, stalker, etc.
/r/seduction22/02/12 07:11 AM
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lol that's the aim of the game, but it's kind of catch 22 ish; can't get to know her if you don't know her, and you dont know her unless you get to know her.
/r/seduction22/02/12 07:09 AM
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i'm liking this one as well; not too confrontational, not too beta and you can follow up with something else to convince her further. i would think this would leave her going all bill o'reilly in her mind, "F*CK IT, let's get to know this guy"
/r/seduction22/02/12 07:08 AM
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i'm liking this one .
/r/seduction22/02/12 07:06 AM
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you didn't happen to be visiting your grandma in the woods did you?
/r/seduction21/02/12 11:37 PM
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some of us just need some inspiration to get us going. Like how artists need inspiration to paint.
/r/seduction21/02/12 09:06 PM
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it's not sounding very grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreat
/r/seduction21/02/12 07:39 AM
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agreed; maybe while getting directions from the HB5s you could've done; "are you ladies doing anything? want to have lunch with me? i'm new in town, trying to make new friends etc. etc etc" just a suggestion, good start though bud.
/r/seduction21/02/12 12:03 AM
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From what I've learned from going on here is next time you do see her, say something along the lines of "hey you're pool girl" or something that you two did last time you met: it'll spark her memory banks and you're back in the game. Good luck yo
/r/seduction20/02/12 09:50 PM
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SAVED. good read. definitely a confidence booster; anyone have any advice on how to start though? EDIT: any specific advice for this post other than sidebars
/r/seduction19/02/12 03:06 AM
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wouldnt it depend also on the crowd youre getting into?
/r/seduction08/02/12 05:24 PM
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i hate to be the devil's advocate, but wouldnt you get a lot of "wtfk. who are you?" questions/looks etc?
/r/seduction08/02/12 05:57 AM
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i was hoping you werent gnna say that haha. i did read around and found that if you leave for a while, and then come back it might give you a chance? what are the ramifications/possibilities?
/r/seduction04/02/12 09:56 PM
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yea i'm new here and yea i went around the sidebar and search around for similar topics; found things that answered my questions, but nothing really specifically to my situation
/r/seduction04/02/12 09:44 PM
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