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NICE FOR WHAT?eobardsthong/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:55 PM
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I also enjoy that the “evil ex” was shown sympathy and was somewhat redeemed at the end when she stops acting awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:51 PM
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BeCaUsE iM a GiRl AnD dO cRaZy ThInGs SoMeTiMeS Absolutely no sympathy for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:33 PM
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It’s ok. I lost a loser but that night he lost our apt and a potential marriage to a smart and faithful woman. I’m content knowing his bday from now on will be the anniversary of when he became single and homeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:28 AM
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Yep this was my ex fiancé as well. I didn’t even find out by snooping because he gave me his phone password and never had a problem giving me his phone. I found out because he though I was passed out drunk on his bday and he went to the living room to jerk it for his ex gf but I was still awake. I was wondering why he wasn’t coming back to the room for bday sex so I went to find him and caught him in the act 🤮 if he hadn’t slipped up I would have never found out. I immediately took his phone and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:20 PM
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These are the men libfems want you to lust over for the sake of equality. There’s your ‘king’ pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:23 AM
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SMH, stupid women! Obviously the right answer is to send off the youth of the nation to go die so daddy war bucks can make more money (that you and your children will never see) selling weapons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:14 PM
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I cringed at “go with the flow”. Too real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:32 AM
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Anyone else notice the significant amount of dogs that do not do well around men? I have NEVER heard someone say “oh sorry, my dog is just not good with women” 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:33 PM
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I agree there’s nothing wrong with putting in that extra effort and I also think there’s nothing wrong with accepting yourself for the way you look, especially as women who are told from day one we are not able to exist as happy healthy and natural. Being so pushy about looks=value is sort of sad imo. Seems like internalized misogyny but if that’s not what your to say I apologize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:21 PM
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Health and hygiene are different than “putting effort into your looks” which is what you specifically mentioned (how does being a sickly slob scream “come at me men!”?) Also focusing on your looks isn’t inherently ‘feminine’ .... I mean look at all those beautiful male K pop stars! And the rappers who spend some serious coin buying a whole bunch of jewelry or the mma fighters who get tatt after tatt to look tougher! People of all background enjoy putting effort into their looks, saying this is a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:36 AM
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Confused about how not putting effort into looks.... is pick me behavior? What?? I’m proud of the body and looks god gave me and I’m also proud of my talented sisters who may feel the same but choose to enhance their look. There is nothing wrong with being comfortable in your natural look. Makes me think you don’t really get the idea of what a pick me is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:03 PM
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“Guys a woman doesn’t want to hear my opinion I’m literally shaking”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:07 PM
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“Men aren’t terrible it’s just that you keep choosing the bad ones” Ok I’ll higher my standards “RREEEEEEEE”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:45 AM
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As someone who’s also stared into ‘the abyss‘ thinking I could never get out, I swear it gets better. I was so depressed for months thinking that no one has felt this pain, but it’s not even a year later and I am doing SO much better without my forever boyfriend. I’m making much more money and drowning in male attention that I don’t even feel like I need! You already seem like you are leagues ahead of me when I kicked my forever boyfriend out, I have so much faith in you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:08 AM
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Oh lord 🙄 They always bring it up so casually too. Waiting for the day a couple bi boys proposition me instead of an over eager man and his indifferent girlfriend/wife/friend who knows it ain’t gonna happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:25 AM
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😂 yes! Also entrepreneur means they are a soundcloud rapper who moved to Austin to “make it”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:03 AM
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Might as well be neverland over here. Bunch of man babies who think they are too progressive to be sexist because they held up a BLM poster one weekend two months ago. All poly and smells like sweat and patchouli. Or Lots of tech bros whose main personality traits are their extensive knowledge of local breweries and joe Rogan. Or Fitness freaks who drip with toxic positivity and smile even when they are the closest approximation to “upset” they allow themselves to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:58 AM
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His first date suggestion was a picnic at the park at night. No thank you strange man 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:26 PM
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I feel like whoever is controlling the front page is more concerned with keeping the narrative ‘even’ from their distorted POV. Now that everyone is unable to escape their insufferable SO and complaining about them, they see that a lot of men are the perpetrators of relationship distress and don’t want that to be as visible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:31 AM
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Have y’all noticed there’s less relationship advice and AITA on the front page since quarantine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:17 PM
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They are too insecure to argue with someone they think is a physical match fighting wise and it carries onto the internet. They can beat down a woman so the fear isn’t there. Their insecurity is so ingrained in them. This is why they hate women who speak as aggressively as they do because they are tormented by the fact it’s not socially acceptable to hit a woman over words but it’s ‘understandable’ to hit a man over words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:08 PM
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Working out won’t give him a personality or get rid of his five head but a better personality could help women get over the five head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:39 AM
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Think of someone who famously has a good speaking voice that sounds especially pleasant when explaining things. They have “uh” and “um” moments as well, but instead of saying them they fill that space with silence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:03 PM
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How do I feel about mommas boys? I believe most ‘men’ are mommas boys whether they flaunt it or not. The need for unconditional love (we need to look past their shitty behavior while also being a “Madonna” in their eyes) and their casual disrespect of women which is very similar to an idiot child who gets comfortable lying to their mothers so that they will get out of trouble shows that men generally do not want equal partners. Either they aggressively overcompensate to get back at their mothers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:13 AM
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Askreddit in a nutshell: Men of reddit, what is your opinion on this not gendered idea or issue but for some reason I want to ask only men on here and not on askmen? Women of reddit what it like being a sex object who I can do sex to and in what ways does me wanting to have sex with women make you feel sexy SEX
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:06 PM
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I read the description on Netflix and immediately thought “People are gonna be shitting on the lady who had the hit placed on her.” I watched it anyways, and about a week later that’s exactly what was happening. I kinda think Netflix knew this would happen and played up the drama on her side to make her more of a kooky character worthy of being mocked since it was gonna happen anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:12 AM
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I was happy to read your story. Seriously surprised with all these negative comments especially considering you and your husband seem to communicate well and you are receiving what you want from the marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:16 AM
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There was a post on r/trashy of a woman watching porn in public and the top comment was “not even good porn!” 😤 The only shot of the screen showed a woman getting eaten out. The popular comment was not about how gross it is to watch porn in public but a complaint on how it’s content (woman being selflessly pleasures) was bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:45 PM
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Sad fact is it’s the only way they can think of to make themselves seem interesting. Men who go to websites to learn the right trick or lie to tell a woman to get her to respect him have admitted to themselves that who they choose to be in truth is not worthy of respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:24 PM
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He sounds so insecure. Like a great man won’t be trying to convince you of it the first time you talk to them or seriously compare himself to the gods the first interaction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:36 PM
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I would consider him giving her his number the first move. One that would give her an easy opportunity to reject him with no harm to herself. I would prefer that to someone asking for my number. He already put his intentions out there, he’s giving her a no risk way to say yes or no. The comments disagreeing with you seem to have the fds mentality behind them, they just disagree on what is considered the first step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:00 PM
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Thank you, it means a lot ☺️ I found fds right after I kicked him out so thankfully I was able to focus on bettering myself right after and less time on my fantasy of him. It’s great to have a community like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 06:19 AM
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Ex cheated with a girl online for months while he still had sex with me. After I found out, I showered so much multiple times of day for weeks. I always felt dirty and I didn’t understand why because he never physically touched her (as far as I know) but this is the reason why. He told me he loved me and slept with me while thinking of her.... I even searched online if people get ptsd from this like they do from rape because I felt guilty for feeling this way. Treating a woman like this is just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:45 AM
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That was an absolute chore to read. A lot of unnecessary information to say you are addicted to porn. You seem like the kind of person who is self obsessed, thinks they are unable to change, and wants sympathy for not being able to treat women like regular people. Stop watching porn.
/r/askFDS20/03/20 08:48 PM
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I was just on instantregret and there was a gif of a woman getting her hair yanked and she began hitting the guy in response. Nearly all the comments were calling her an abuser... or him gay. The state of men is pathetic. They are not self aware in the slightest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:18 PM
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If a woman asks a man for love advice he will put himself in the shoes of a guy trying to sleep with her, not in her shoes. So his advice will not be in her best interest regardless of his intentions.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 05:32 AM
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Is this gonna be in the handbook?? I always knew this intuitively but like most things on here, reading that others are of the same opinion really opened my eyes to how obvious it really is. Men know it too and act dumb so we are the ones scrambling. It’s mental terrorism and ladies who are a bit mentally vulnerable right now need to see this. Men don’t really think their lies are lies, and some of them see it but have no problem lying anyways. If a woman does something morally questionable we a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:09 PM
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Wish it wasn’t true but I’ve never had debate with a man where he didn’t become bewildered and defensive by the truth from my mouth. I’m not talking about opinions I’m talking about google able facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:55 PM
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On point about this generation. When I was raised I remember being so told to always fight for what I wanted because although the odds would be against me I was smart and being a woman shouldn’t hold me back. I don’t think parents encourage boys to be better, they already trust a male child to be who he wants to be because it’s his Male Destiny™️. So they grow up watching a generation of men who are channeling the thoughts of the generation before them. Seeing this, they grow up lazy and entitle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:52 PM
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I agree! We use it to meet people easily, they use it to get sex easily. I’m never letting a coward inside me again. If a man approaches me, shoots his shot in a respectful way and fails I would give him so much more credit than the score of no effort men who start conversations with “😍”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:59 PM
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Idk, I feel like I would rather allow one man to peruse who I believe is worth my time than making myself date a lot men I know will not work out or respect me. I’m busy with work and it doesn’t really make sense to use my mental energy on making sure it looks like I have options when I obviously do. Whether I’d like to humor them is another story but I’m not lacking in admirers. Personally, it sounds kinda counterintuitive that the way to show value is by admitting you give a lot of guys a chan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:54 PM
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Pretty words that completely ignore the fact that there are women pressured into prostitution and that they would never ever ever consider dating, marrying, or just treating them like any other woman. Edit: where is this magical land where prostitutes aren’t being taken advantage of? None of these guys would let their daughter do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:21 PM
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Added bonus, you get to sleep in pillow city!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 08:29 PM
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“Why do n-words call each other the n-word?” 😂 does he think he gets points for not actually saying it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:47 PM
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Yes! Do not mistake a mommas boy for someone who is actively taking care of their mom! A mommas boy wants you to coddle them like their mom did, a man with a good relationship with his mom will naturally want to support his mom considering everything she has done for him. It won’t be a chore or on a list of things that needs to get done, it will be a priority because he knows and understands the sacrifices she made for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:17 PM
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.....why is this true?? I never connected those dots but it’s been my experience as well 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:04 PM
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Not only do I not agree this is universal, I think this thought process will lead women lowering their standards when it comes to sexual reciprocation. We deserve to expect to be spoiled sexually since it is so easy for men to get their rocks off. I do agree many men are bad/lazy lovers. Edit: also agree don’t have sex only because you “miss” it. The feeling passes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:29 AM
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That’s why I don’t shave. I’m proud to be a grown woman, I’m not gonna pretend to be a child when everyone in my life wants to treat me like a girl anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:12 AM
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They don’t want the responsibility that comes with being married but don’t want to be the bad guy so they gaslight the fuck out of you till you either dump them or get driven crazy enough for it to be socially acceptable to cheat on you. P.s. the same thing happened to me, I guess it’s like the last chapter in the fuckboy playbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:42 AM
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My ex cheated on me with this girl. I knew about their past and I felt bad by how ugly he treated her when they were together. I even told him that while we were dating (red flag, but I was naive at the time) until he told his friends, family, and I that she raped him years ago... well when I found out last year he was still carrying on with this girl I kicked him out and messaged her telling her what he’s been saying and to who. As far as I know they are not speaking anymore, I hope she has gai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:43 AM
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Adam move on, she is improving her life! How about you improve yours and GET A JOB!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:38 PM
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“I put a foot in” 😂 I thought it was gonna be a Dan Schneider story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:05 AM
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“No drama good vibes only” If a guy says this he rubs the women in his life the wrong way. I don’t like those things either but I just filter that stuff out of my life as it comes along. He’s essentially telling all women he interacts with that he expects them to act in a way he sees fit, and not taking each individual as they come along. Any guy who talks obsessively about good vibes is a budding performative woke actor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:56 AM
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Thank you for writing this. I’ve recently changed into this mindset and it can be tiring. Seeing someone else successfully navigate this path is encouraging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:42 AM
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“As long as you have trust in a relationship...” yeah dude you just said that every man would go behind your back if porn bothered you. So it’s already established there is no trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:29 PM
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W O K E
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:03 AM
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I love her so much!! “Dreams” in juxtaposition to “ go your own way” just shows how much of a witchy woman she is. They are different sides of the same breakup within the band if you don’t know the history. One song is a woman cleansing herself after a storm and becoming stronger, the other song is a man whining because the woman does what she wants to do. Also the line in his song “packing up....shacking ups all you wanna do” was added to make It seem as if Stevie nicks was sleeping around. She…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 09:48 PM
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Psst they wake up hard and know we won’t ask questions if they say they are pooping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:21 PM
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Simone De Beauvoir! ‘Philosophize This!’ Podcast has several good episodes on her philosophies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:03 AM
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Oh my god my ex would constantly tell me my boobs were growing each time he had sex with me. Yeah I’m an adult woman my boobs have been the same size for years...Found out he was addicted to “expansion porn” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 04:24 PM
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Hah! He really said he has no time for lengthy dialogue in a message that’s about as long as all the texts you wrote put together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:50 PM
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Best rule of thumb is if you block someone, mean it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 12:10 AM
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If you are attracted to them physically and they have the qualities you like in a person, then height shouldn’t be an issue. As long as you’re not tying to force attraction when it’s not there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:40 PM
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I’m not dating right now! I’ve spent too much time not doing what I wanted to do so I’m focusing on that right now. I’m excited to date again in the future but that’s after I explore my interests and nurture myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:36 AM
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“That bitch” by bea Miller should be added! Big fds vibes on that one. Also, anyone have any empowering songs/playlists that have nothing to do with relationships? I’m trying to become the best me I can for myself and I’ve essentially had to toss all my old music because it’s giving me the feeling I’m doing this for some future man who would be worth it instead of the future me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:02 PM
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Proud of you lady! I also ended a relationship with my ex “fiancé” after 6 years a few months ago but unfortunately it was only after catching him cheating on me. And even though I kicked him out, he’s the one who ended up blocking me because I wanted to know why and when and how long etc etc 😓 Don’t be embarrassed because there are worse things than realizing you were a pickmesha.... like still being a pickmesha ! You will probably feel crappy if you’re anything like me but I think it’s importa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:20 PM
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Especially if they have no other skills. The lack of understanding that they will not have their body in peak condition for most of their lives shows they do not think about or understand consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:32 PM
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