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| 71 | Did my wife cheat on me? If so where to go from herehaven't been on this sub in ages (saw this scrolling through reddit) If there was nothing fishy going on, then surely she would tell you she was going to drop the vacuum off? How did she explain the dick pick? change 70% to 99% dude. In my humble opinion, i would be rethinking whether i wanted to be in a marriage with someone who cheats on me (there is an obvious answer to this). Sorry to hear about the situation. Please dont delude yourself here, it really sounds like she is lieing | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck.No worries. I know im good there, im not outstanding though I've fucked some more, ahem, experienced girls, and they havent been overly impressed this girl hasn't had nearly as many sexual partners, is very petite, and more easily impressed. From her perspective i'm outstanding in bed sounds like your from my country as well. Hope you steered clear of those advertised roosh meetups! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck.No, thats not what i said, nor what was implied, nor even true. She generally cums multiple times every day (at least once), initiates sex frequently, sucks my dick as soon as she wakes up every single day I'm not saying im a sex god, and I havent always been good in bed. She is, however, definitely well-satisfied with my sexual performance. You can probably tell from my post that i have some insecurities, but my performance when manhandling this petite babe is not one of them If anything, i'm t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck.This rings true. Will make slight adjustments to my behaviour, overall i havent been far off the mark | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck.Yes and no. I have nothing of her on my social media either, its just i dont take photos so dont have any to post I'm certainly her main, but probably not her future. Both she and I are smart enough to realise this. For different reasons. She will likely head overseas for work within a couple of years, and tbh my SMV is increasing steadily that by that stage i wont care if she moves on, and may move on myself | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck.The old me? Hahaha. I'd be treated like she talks about some of our mutual friends... "hes such a great guy! I really hope he gets a girlfriend! Hes just not very manly" | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck.yeah, i hear ya man. I keep aware and notice those signs too. She already knows if we stop frequently having sex that ill bail. I don't mind having sex once a day at a minimum (on average), so a little decrease is fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck.If you're having sex sometimes 4 or 5 times a day, your girl isn't going to cum every time I'm not sure how experienced in bed you are, but thats the real world. Sometimes people (both men and women) find it hard to come. Especially if they're having sex multiple times every single day | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 07:22 AM |
| 0 | Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck.i appreciate the advice but im not going to follow it blowing up a relationship might have been good for you, but there is literally nothing wrong in my relationship right now except my own insecurities it seems I've got a couple of years of lifting and experience in and dont really need to start from scratch | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck.Yeah, you're probably right man, thanks. I need to correct my thinking. I haven't made out that it's bothered me, so at least i got that going for me | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Best of you (part 2)fair enough. I tend to think of negging and teasing as different things. teasing friends is usually light hearted, and not designed to make them feel weak. Negging on the other hand the goal seems to be different. here you are teasing with the aim of lowering somone's confidence or lowering the value they give themself | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 12:29 AM |
| 4 | Best of you (part 2)i think negging is only useful on unintelligent people These days most intelligent girls know what negging is. They notice if you do it and your actions become transparent. Instead of demonstrating you are dominant, it does the exact opposite... demonstrating that you need manipulative tricks to try and feign dominance. It will work on most people, i guess. I have a few very smart girlfriends and wouldnt bother with it personally | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Social Experiment: I tried to confirm to myself that women look for money and success.decent premise, but as far as experiments go this one is potentially massively confounded. First of all, maybe you are just feeling way more confident/attractive and girls get this vibe. Secondly, you admit you are trying to "confirm" something in your title, and then find exactly that. This is poor science. Essentially, you are biased into finding exactly what you found, and the result may be due to you trying to make that happen subconsciously. Its a cool story, but we can't really take a lot … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 09:55 AM |
| 19 | Women are getting fatter because no one calls them out on itlink the studies or shut the fuck up | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/15 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Sigma Iota Phi, the official fraternity of The Red Pilli'd suggest keeping the red pill link on the down low... as in, probably delete this post | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/15 08:05 AM |
| -2 | A few eating habits for you young men who are starting on and still beginning the changeLet me know when you look like a greek god on that poverty diet | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Keep Your Goddamn Mouth Shut!His example was clearly being applied to rape in general. Don't pretend it wasnt | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 05:03 AM |
| 0 | Keep Your Goddamn Mouth Shut!The fact remains that most rapes are perpetrated by people who are well known to the victim So, when he makes his dumb rape argument, it only applies to a small minority of real rape situations. This shows he doesnt know what the fuck hes talking about You claiming i've warped the perspective? Cos my example is the vast majority of rapes... You think this is walking through a bear's den? Debating you is more like taking candy from a retarded toddler | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 05:02 AM |
| 26 | Keep Your Goddamn Mouth Shut!You're a fucking moron in that example, and not just because you opened your dumb mouth. You've also internalised some bullshit you've read here (yes, not everything here is posted by people who know what the fuck they are talking about) The vast majority of rapes are not the "stranger jumping out of bushes rape" that you talked about. Most rapes are perpetrated by people well known to the victim. If you parked your car in your buddy's garage, and left it on, with the door open, etc etc, and he … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Im a tutor, student wants to fuck. Thoughts?it's more her trying to fuck me, but i take your point I think i have a consensus here. Appreciate the input Mods plz delete thread | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 01:05 PM |
| -1 | Im a tutor, student wants to fuck. Thoughts?Nah, im genuinely interested to know peoples' opinions. My reply to you was just to clarify that i dont think my career is in danger as you raised it as a point. I haven't decided what to do, but in order of preference so far: 1) wait till course ends and bang 2) bang 3) nothin | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 12:01 PM |
| -2 | Im a tutor, student wants to fuck. Thoughts?None of the staff will have strong disapproval... it's a very incestuous department with high ranking officials banging grad students To that end, my job and career are not in danger. My reputation among some feminist friends may be, but more in a gossipy sort of way than outright shaming (i'd easily hold my own if confronted) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 11:22 AM |
| -2 | Im a tutor, student wants to fuck. Thoughts?Aside from some feminist friends, i dont think anyone will give a shit. The whole point of the email to HR is to get the all-clear so that it can't come back on me professionally (excluding a false rape allegation or something, although i'm not worried about that). My job isn't in jeapordy, my college friends are the only ones who will give a shit | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Friends new wife came on to usRight on man, tell your fucking friend. I care enough about my mates that I would tell them. If it burns the relationship, so be it. He will eventually know the truth and respect me for telling him like it is Not only that, but OPs other friend will clearly back him up. If the social circle starts turning on OP, his friend can be like "nah she did the same shit to me" and that is enough proof for the social circle to back OP up, even if the husband is a lost cause | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 11:16 AM |
| 1 | The red pill works and I'm disgusted.makes sense, but the problem is that people are not thinking rationally when they are suicidal Breaking it down into a rational decision is missing the point entirely | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 04:55 AM |
| 0 | The red pill works and I'm disgusted.You guys are getting too hung up on this Most people are naturals at reading others' emotions and intentions. It's part of human nature. Specific parts of our brains are dedicated to facial processing. The only thing wrong about it is that OP seemed to think he was alone in that regard | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 04:52 AM |
| 8 | Woman makes guy wait 3 months for sex, while fucking Chad on the side.obviously we make the generalisation that AWALT, while knowing that in actual fact some women behave differently. The generalisation is useful because in the AVERAGE situation, the woman will respond in the AVERAGE way. What trpSenator is saying is that he feels he is able to somewhat accurately discriminate between the girls who are holding out because they arent sluts, and the girls holding out as a trick. Not everyone needs to stick wholeheartedly to the generalisation that AWALT, although it… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Post Shaming Male Sexuality Makes It To The Front Page. Hamsters Go Wild!Depending on your profession, you cant always respond "thats just how i like my women" without it having professional consequences. Even if they are just women in the workplace claiming you're creepy | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 01:15 PM |
| 15 | Realize that many women won't like youthis is such a trash post. You are nitpicking someone's grammer based on the idiotic premise that women only think in the present tense. Slap yourself | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Rules: Paying for her on dates?If you care to look it up its from the weschler intelligence scale, im not gonna do the legwork for you | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Rules: Paying for her on dates?Yeah i meant the guy who you replied to, soz. People get all butt hurt when you call out their ignorance here. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Rules: Paying for her on dates?Actually, the terms retarded, moron, and idiot all meant different levels of intellectual impairment. They werent just replacements for each other. Just some more general shitty "information" from another "retard" on this subreddit. It's beyond common. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 10:27 AM |
| -7 | Red Pill Rules: Paying for her on dates?unsure why u were downvoted for this comment... Throwing around homophobic terms like "faggot" is deplorable in this day and age. The term has obviously come to be derogatory, and using it in this way further strengthens this association. I wonder if the_USUPER has ever had a gay friend/relative deal with distress from hearing this kind of shit. Despite Louis C.K.'s thoughts on the term, it's a shitty thing to do, and really shows immaturity or just a general lack of intellect | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.I've since found out more the blood test is supposedly unreliable and the doctor was unwilling to do it | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Get'n Pussy Get'n Gains at the Same Damn Time!Well, he has obviously decided he wants to market his product here first of all. He realises he needs at least some pretence of a post before he can hawk his product. So he comes up with this decidely average thread. We read through his post only to discover at the very end of it that he's just written this bullshit as a guise to sell his product. It's a pretty slimey way to get his product out there to be honest I'm not mad or anything, couldn't care less if people want to buy his shirt. The ab… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Promiscuity and Why Men Are Repulsed by Women With High Partner CountsWell, this wont be the reason why you have that instinct, but genital herpes comes to mind. 20% of the population has it. Thats a lot. If someone has slept with 100 people, it's likely at least 20 had genital herpes (although not necessarily an outbreak, transmission can be while asymptomatic). Factor in other incurable diseases like genital warts, and you've got very good reasons to avoid women with high partner counts (and also good reasons to avoid fucking as many women as possible as others … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Shut up and sit still.seen plenty. Usually it is just a fun-loving guy with a fun personality. If they look decent, they get heaps of pussy | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 06:50 AM |
| 4 | Shut up and sit still.You guys are really arguing about entirely different breeds of "class clown" There are the guys who aren't very popular/socially skilled and so use humour as a crutch to fit in. They overuse it and everyone treats them like a joke. Often these guys are short, ugly, watever. These are the monkeys prometheus is talking about Then there is the socially skilled guy who everyone likes. Friends with most people, talks to everyone, etc. This guy can also make lots of jokes and pranks, but hes seen as "… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 12:21 PM |
| 1 | This is what weak frame looks likeavoiding conflict isnt a major symptom of social anxiety Social anxiety is summed up by excessive worrying about what others think about you, to the point it impairs your life (social, work, home life). The key thing is excessive. It is normal to worry about what others think of you sometimes. Avoiding conflict may be a symptom of social anxiety, but not really a defining feature | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 12:10 PM |
| 0 | I'll take smiles, I'll take tears--just don't let women be indifferent to you.My response was kind of tongue in cheek, but i think there is some misinterpretation. no stimulus is not more painful than a negative one, it's that the people preferred the negative stimulus. That doesn't mean no stimulus is more painful. Cutting isn't really a good example. Most cutters are getting a sense of relief out of their cutting. E.g. they are feeling overwhelmed by negative emotion, and cutting somehow relieves that distress. In that way, cutting is reinforcing. Generally, people aren… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 12:49 AM |
| 2 | I got friendzonedi think this is trolling satire and should be reported Is the moral of the story that you made a friend through tinder? Good for you. This sub isnt really about making friends though | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 06:25 AM |
| 0 | I'll take smiles, I'll take tears--just don't let women be indifferent to you.So strange that im pretty much convinced you have misinterpreted the results | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 06:14 AM |
| 7 | I'll take smiles, I'll take tears--just don't let women be indifferent to you.nah dude. the man they read about who "does things to her, for her, with her", as you put it, is also a tall, handsome, well-built man of high SMV Girls don't give a shit about average guys with nothign going for them | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 06:11 AM |
| 2 | A Cruel GameIn the course of about 2 years, I've gone from blue-pilled monogamy, to spinning a few plates for a couple months. After a herpes scare (and only a scare - thankfully) i'm rethinking my "fuck em if i find em attractive" stance i've had. Keep your shit clean bro, I'm not gonna fuck sluts anymore. If i get a hint they've been with heaps of guys, i'm gonna pass. Sex with multiple women is great, but having herpes would be so so bad. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 12:03 PM |
| 2 | A Cruel GameHis point is: Strategy 1 is more likely to lead to quality offspring that have a higher chance of reproducing and raising subsequent offspring successfully. As you can have a large role in shaping their personality/lifes, you have a lot of influence that should turn them into awesome people Of course, strategy 2 can probably lead to a greater quantity of offspring. But if these are going to be poor/fatherless, they will probably be less likely to successfully raise quality grandchildren (due to … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 11:57 AM |
| 1 | A Cruel Gamemost people, male and female, are pretty good at "seeming repentant" imo | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.It seems like you have some knowledge. I was under the impression if u were exposed to type 2, but didnt show any symptoms after 2 weeks, you're likely in the clear (a doctor told me this and wouldnt test me, but i didnt push hard) Any idea if this is correct? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.I presume they arent testing for herpes tho... The test for herpes is a swap of a herpes sore. I think there may also be blood tests, but i doubt youve been getting blood tests | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.how long did it take for you to show symptoms? I was under the impression if you're exposed to the virus but dont show symptoms within 2 weeks youre in the clear | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Media jumps to womans side (read aggressors side) in bar fight against FSU qbI'll stop short of saying that he "should have submitted to her wishes...", but he should have been ready for what transpired and acted appropriately. He's in the public eye and shit like this is clearly bad for his career, so yeah, maybe it would be best to avoid fights with drunken hags. Even if it means not pushing past them to get a drink faster. In my opinion this was clearly avoidable. You're right that he shouldnt "have" to, and shes a hypocrite etc, its not fair, yada yada. Life's not fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Media jumps to womans side (read aggressors side) in bar fight against FSU qbYou're right, she did. That doesnt change the fact that when he tried to push past her first she turned around and they exchanged words - she clearly wasnt happy with him doing it and he just squashed past anyway I do go to college bars, it does happen and isnt a big deal. However, if someone is clearly going to be upset and you squash past anyway, you have to expect some sort of verbal or physical backlash. Especially if it is a dumb drunk female. He squashed past anyway and then handled the en… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Media jumps to womans side (read aggressors side) in bar fight against FSU qbWell, like i said the definition of assault clearly varies from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. I'm not from where the incident took place, but your definition is incorrect where im from. it wasn't unexpected... he pushed past her, and they exchanged words. She was clearly upset with getting pushed past. Do you think he behaved like a grown man in that clip? I frequent bars, and know what contact is acceptable when getting a drink. He crossed the line a bit, and should have expected her to mouth o… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Media jumps to womans side (read aggressors side) in bar fight against FSU qb1) You're right that its fairly standard bar procedure, imo he did go about it in a way that is going to provoke a reaction, but i can cede this point. 2) She held her fist up. Gripping her wrist tightly is clearly going to escalate the situation. There are other ways to act when she has her fist up that are much better. For instance, putting ur hands up as if to say "woah lets not fight over this" will probably result in her turning away in a huff. I'm not saying he is completely in the wrong, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 10:46 PM |
| -6 | Media jumps to womans side (read aggressors side) in bar fight against FSU qbPeople are quick to condemn the female here (and rightly so), but where is the condemnation of the man? He clearly shoves his way past her and someone else to get to the bar, which is what started the altercation in the first place. He then escalated it when he could have de-escalated fairly easily. She deserves blame for what happened, but i have literally 0 sympathy for him. He put himself in a shitty situation, and his actions directly contributed to what transpired. Furthermore, her punch di… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 11:09 AM |
| 20 | Permanently damaged my relationship with my parents.Yeah, stop being a spoilt little bitch OP. All parents make mistakes. Some make bigger mistakes than others. Someone else on TRP once said that all a child really needs is food, shelter and love. Did you get those things? Your parents probably did the best they could with the info/knowledge they had, with a few slip ups along the way. You're mad at your dad for not being manly enough? You are acting like a fucking child right now | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 07:42 AM |
| 0 | FR: Six Flags with gf and her friendsmisogyny can also be defined as "ingrained prejudice against women" according to the dictionary This is a much broader definition than hatred | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 11:49 AM |
| 8 | Lion vs hyenasSmart move, do this if you are forced into a fight outnumbered as well Always try to take out the ringleader. If you fuck his shit up, the others will lose their nerve | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 11:40 AM |
| -10 | Guy on r/tinder spits truth about the brutal reality of dating. Welcome to female hypergamy 101.Ugh, your comment is so dumb. Why would anyone (male or female) want to side with logic over emotion if it doesn't suit their interests? Maybe it's harder for both sexes to think logically when under pressure? Maybe both men and women still can think logically under pressure but logical thinking is just impaired? Maybe there are sex differences, and on average men are better at this? Then again, maybe not. I'm not aware of any solid evidence either way Claiming that women cant think logically un… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 01:16 PM |
| 8 | Guy on r/tinder spits truth about the brutal reality of dating. Welcome to female hypergamy 101.what does health insurance do for herpes? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 12:44 PM |
| 42 | Guy on r/tinder spits truth about the brutal reality of dating. Welcome to female hypergamy 101.See, this is a good example of a woman showing logical, rational thinking Take note some of you dummies who claim women cannot think logically. It's commonly spouted, and some of the most ignorant and illogical shit on this sub | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 12:42 PM |
| 0 | The Art of Whore: Why Betas Marry LeftoversYour first link just links to various blogs that are loosely related... so, not really good evidence at all. The second and fourth seem much better, and i appreciate you posting them. I'm not sure why you got your fucking panties in a bunch... i asked if anyone had any evidence handy, you chose to post a snarky comment that contained no evidence - hence my reply | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/15 06:45 AM |
| 3 | The Art of Whore: Why Betas Marry LeftoversWhat exactly would i be looking for? I find it interesting that this sub tends to flaunt the "it's science" argument a lot, without actually presenting any of the research. It's become extremely common here in the past 6 months to have someone say "studies show..." and then not provide one single study. I've seen people claim things in my area of expertise that are just not true and tried to back it up with "studies show". When challenged they tend to disappear. It's fucking pathetic that i'm do… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | The Art of Whore: Why Betas Marry LeftoversWhat evidence do we have that women with a higher number of sexual partners have impaired mate-bonding? I'm not talking religion, or personal experience (although that is a form of evidence). Is there any science behind this statement? I'm willing to believe it's true, but if anyone has any solid evidence i'd really appreciate having a read. Mostly just want this so when i'm chatting with some of my smarter friends I have something to back up what i say (otherwise i just wouldnt say it at all) | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Red pill went down easy 18 months ago. Progress reportmm yeah maybe i failed that shit-test, although i cant see how i could possibly say no without coming off as a dickhead - the guy is friendless and from japan No Jealousy or anger, the guy is really low SMV | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 08:38 AM |
| 1 | The hardest truth I realized when I swallowed the pillWell, i guess it depends on the context. For example, you may come across someone with a severe intellectual disability. Are you going to go up to them and call them a retard? No? Why not? It's the truth right? The harsh light of truth? My point is you aren't going to do that, because there is no fucking point in telling the guppy the truth in that situation. Was there any point in OP telling his over-the-hill old man that he was a lousy father? Probably not | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 12:35 PM |
| 0 | The hardest truth I realized when I swallowed the pillharsh truth is great, when there is a purpose behind it. What was his purpose? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/15 06:48 AM |
| 1 | The hardest truth I realized when I swallowed the pillYou don't have to forgive someone... but what is there to gain from spitefully hurting your dad like that? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 11:21 AM |
| 8 | The hardest truth I realized when I swallowed the pillHonestly dude, so what if it's true? Why would you say that to your own dad? What is there to gain from something that you likely knew will cut him so deep? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 11:20 AM |
| 135 | Today I painfully watched a bluepiller become a redpillerFucking this! Left with only half his shit, abandoned his PHD when he was in the midst of finishing up... Honestly, if i were you i'd be terrified he has committed suicide | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 11:17 AM |
| 37 | Argued with a Male Feminist on Facebook. This is what he said.testosterone levels spiked? I'd say you're estrogen levels spiked if you're arguing with people on facebook | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Am I wasting my time? Rant.Make a plan to get out of debt. If it means moving back with your parents, or just saving 70% of your income then do it. Look into bankruptcy if it's overwhelming, although i don't really know the ramifications of this Change your fucking lifestyle... upcoming prison sentence? What the fuck. If it means cutting friends from your life, do it. Join clubs to get pro-social peers. Realise that you can get through whatever you are going through right now. If you cant afford weights or a gym membershi… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 09:38 AM |
| 11 | I don't understand what is wrong with me. Everything has changed. Did culture just change in front of my face over night? I'm on the brink of tears. I don't know what happened. Did I humiliate myself or did I just try?Maybe you look great but when you open your mouth to talk you're an instant turn off. Could be a number of things: -Creepy/whiney/nasal/highpitched voice -dumb opinions, seeming like an unintelligent person -many other things | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 08:14 AM |
| 1 | "That's not what I look for in a boyfriend though"Hey, no judgement here dude It's obviously a real thing that happens, young girls forced into that life (which then becomes the only thing they know how to do). It may be exaggerated by the media etc, but i tend to think the opposite is the case. Think of the girls lined up on the street in these countries, how many of them do you think genuinely want to be there? Like i said, no judgement. Been there, done that, thought about it more afterwards. Let's not hide from the truth with our head in th… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be Alpha without a Thundercock?Ditto. 6 1/2 here and medium girth and have had girl tell her flatmates (with it getting back to me) that im huge | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 12:03 PM |
| 1 | A conversation with my sonYou can't put words in a man's mouth simply because "he didnt say much about it" That is fucking stupid, for starters Secondly, that terry cloth mother experiment does not "cast doubt on operant conditioning". Operant conditioning is essentially an established fact. It is a core process involved in learning that happens to ALL animals and humans, and has a large role in our behaviour. This is undisputable to anyone with rudimentary knowledge of human and animal behaviour. Thirdly, I dont give a … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 10:44 AM |
| 1 | "That's not what I look for in a boyfriend though"I dunno where you draw your line on morals, but let me offer some information A lot of the countries with sex tourism are also popular places for human trafficking. Girls sold and then raised to be "bar girls" or hookers in thailand, africa, south america, etc. There's some good documentaries on this stuff. It's quite sad. Thats literally the only thing stopping me going on a sex vacation | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 12:36 PM |
| 5 | "That's not what I look for in a boyfriend though"My dad's pretty redpill, but can also be a bit domineering Told me a funny story the other day. When he was younger he was driving some young woman around a secluded type area and they pulled over by the water. She slammed his car door a bit (pet peeve of his). He told her "dont slam my car door". She opened it again and slammed it harder. He just drove off leaving her there. Said "i dont know how she got home, and i didnt care either". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 12:32 PM |
| 1 | A conversation with my sonthat experiment doesn't cast doubt on the "universality of operant conditioning" Do you even know what operant conditioning is? Behavioursm does NOT think of humans as a blank slate. You are creating a scarecrow to argue against and then tearing it down. Behaviourism as a discipline freely admits that there are genetic drivers to behaviour, and that people are born with instinctual responses. We are also products of our reinforcement histories and these interact with the genetic predispositions … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 10:55 AM |
| 1 | A conversation with my sonthats not behaviourist conditioning at all... you're referring to a strong sense of blind nationalism? that has nothing to do with behavioural psychology... | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 10:55 AM |
| 2 | A conversation with my soni implied nothing of the sort | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 10:58 AM |
| 0 | A conversation with my sonHe made a baby fear bunnies... so what? thats a simple generalisation experiment and nothing to do with modern schooling Also no idea what you mean by "reprogram people" | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 10:57 AM |
| 4 | A conversation with my sonBF Skinner was a radical behaviourist - he was interested in how people and animals behaved, not their thoughts and feelings Don't sully his name by linking him with the modern education system if you have no fucken idea who he is | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Why This Whole Bruce Jenner Thing Ticks Me OffThere is some good to come from Jenner being in the spotlight Gender dysphoria is a real mental disorder, and despite what others on TRP may tell you, there is not really much evidence for treatments etc to stop it. If someone hates living in their male/female body, truly believes they are meant to be the opposite sex, and are old enough to make the decision, then who gives a fuck what they do? Jenner being in the public eye gives a voice to others who are suffering the same plight and raises aw… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Life in your 30s as a male in the that decided not to get married or start a family.Yeah, i agree with you to be honest. I have some friends who claim otherwise. I'm 28 now, and I know some intelligent females around the same age (regardless of what you may hear about females and intelligence - they do exist). The two im thinking of both have the position: "Sure, when i was early 20s i dated guys who were 30, and i thought it was fine at the time. In hindsight, it wasn't really okay" My position is: "If we had a 22 year old girl listening to this she would find what you're sayi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Life in your 30s as a male in the that decided not to get married or start a family.Um, no. I am being honest, the brain is almost never fully developed at 20. "Adolescent brain development. Sarah Helps, consultant clinical psychologist: We used to think that the brain was fully developed by very early teenagerhood and we now realise that the brain doesn't stop developing until mid-20s or even early 30s" The reason i bring it up is because part of your argument for older men sleeping with a 20 year old woman is that she is fully develped mentally (decision making ability etc).… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Life in your 30s as a male in the that decided not to get married or start a family.Your brain generally isnt even fully developed until you're 25 or even later. The frontal lobe - the part responsible for decision making amongh other things, is the last to develop So, generally nobody is fully developed at 21. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Solid fashion & grooming YouTube series for putting your best foot forwardOkay. Levis 50X type jeans are good quality you think? Say i was willing to splash out more given your advice, Levis would be the go to? I know you say price = quality but there must be a point where the extra money you are spending doesnt make them a whole lot better. I'm after something that is good but wont cost several hundred dollars | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Solid fashion & grooming YouTube series for putting your best foot forwardim looking for some decent jeans, already have some black ones. Size 32 or 33, 6ft, slim/muscular what do you think? I can afford anything up to like 100$ but cheaper is better | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Why Red Pillers Are (Probably) Sexy As Fucktoo bad no women actually want a 6 | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 10:50 AM |
| 11 | Why Red Pillers Are (Probably) Sexy As FuckNot scientific... pseudoscience at best. I've seen way too much unsubstantiated bullshit posted here to claim TRP is "downright scientific". I questioned another TRPer's bullshit the other day, to which he replied "...there are many studies which clearly show the above to be true". I responsed telling him to link one, he did not. Just one example, but that shit happens way too often. Science is not only the pursuit of truth, it is the pursuit of truth via empirical methods (TRP doesn't do this).… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Female friend has habit of calling me a creep, how should i handle?Thanks, this is actually helpful. A few commenters have grossly misinterpreted what i've said. I'm certainly not in "the anger phase"... lol. You can be bothered by something without being angry about it. I think i've misinterpreted her comments as well. Like you said, it's shit testing. I've been thinking like its a serious comment indicative of how she actually thinks of me, but this is almost certainly not true | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Female friend has habit of calling me a creep, how should i handle?I understand the sentiment and have come to somewhat the same conclusion, but i feel there are intermediary steps. We've been friends for 5 years, being "done" with her without even letting her know her behaviour is a problem seems over the top What do you think about letting her know i don't appreciate it first? As i mentioned, i tease people a lot and get a lot back in return. Cutting her out of my life entirely seems a few steps ahead, when cutting me down may very well be subconscious. If i … | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Chad Thundercock Jr. (The mark of the whore)yeah, its just a standard normal distribution graph, and the overall example (people assuming the distributions are more different than they actually are) is quite a common misconception. Example: Study says people are more attractive when wearing red. People tend to think of the latter graph, when in reality it is the former, but still a significat difference. Like i said, the first graph should obviously be revised though, the distributions will both be skewed heavily to the left (most men bei… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 12:42 PM |
| -3 | Chad Thundercock Jr. (The mark of the whore)You have to remember that while a LOT of knowledge can be gained from TRP, like most communities there are also unintelligent mongoloids who will make claims like the guy saying that a white woman dating a black man is not a quality woman. There is a gigantic difference between admitting that black men generally have a lower SMV than white men in western society, and saying that a woman who dated a black man is a poor quality female. Essentially he is making a really elementary error in thinking… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 09:07 AM |
| 0 | How To Talk To Women Like A Manplease, do link said studies. "All of the above is clearly supported by studies" Besides the fact that this sentence is most likely untrue, you cant say something like this without linking the research and expect to be taken seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 08:36 AM |
| 0 | How To Talk To Women Like A ManYour general advice is sound but when you broke it down you make some gigantic logical leaps. For instance: "...women's lower testosterone makes them indecisive" I don't believe there is any sound evidence that testosterone influences how decisive a person is. It is far more likely that a trait like decisiveness is an aspect of personality that is determined by a person's past learning history. I.e. what have they been reinforced/punished for in the past? Males (especially leader types) have lik… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 09:48 AM |
| 5 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]The best thing about shrooms is you know what you're taking (if someone experienced is showing you which ones to get) It boggles my mind when i see people snorting lines of stuff that they dont even know what it is... "its like speed". Fucking muppets | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 12:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you find a girlfriend?learn to paragraph bro nobody is gonna read that | /r/askTRP | 13/04/15 07:44 AM |
| 0 | You Don't Have To Be Handsome To Get Beautiful WomenUh, you missed the point and then reached the same conclusion OP would have suggested to you. A bit funny. You're not going to be famous, so focus on maximising the qualities that will have the best impact for you (i.e. lifting) | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 03:42 AM |
| 1 | "Partner Count Doesn't Matter" vs. Medical RealityI think such a fact-riddled OP is tainted by your use of this 80/20 idea. Is there any solid research to back this up? Or is it mere speculation that isn't called out because it fits with TRP's agenda? Genuine question. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 11:01 AM |
| 1 | "Partner Count Doesn't Matter" vs. Medical RealityThis is true. However, a promiscuous man is still allowed to have a preference for non-promiscuous women based on the logic in the OP. E.g. A fat man can still prefer to fuck fit women. The fact that he is fat does not render his reasoning for preferring fit women redundant (e.g. healthier offspring) | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 11:00 AM |
| 1 | "Partner Count Doesn't Matter" vs. Medical Realityfrom a brief google search, one thing reported 7 (unsure if lifetime or not) and another reported 12 (lifetime) This will be a much better representation of the average, since the mean will likely be skewed by some men having hundreds of partners | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Maintain frame. Do not tell her everything. This is why...His advice isn't redundant if you are successful. Spilling the beans on your life if you are successful can (and probably does) have benefits, sure. However, a woman finding out through the grapevine that you have X history or X achievements is arguably more impressive | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 10:17 AM |
| 26 | To the "victor" goes the spoiled vaginai appreciate the use of statistics to back up your argument. It seems like there is enough info in those graphs to find the orginal source too. This will be helpful when discussing promiscuity with one of my academically-minded colleagues. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Post-wall woman writes 9 paragraphs on r/okcupid convincing herself that she's more sexually desirable than younger girls. Comedy gold.I've read the sidebar, that doesnt mean i have to keep such an open mind that my brains fall out. I'd advise you to look at material from all sources with skepticism. There is sound research showing that we are more easily mislead by sources that we trust. Our frontal lobes arent even fully developed at age 18. This part of our brain is important in decision making, weighing consequences of actions, it also has a role in emotion processing and much more. So, with this in mind, to think that a pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 12:05 PM |
| 7 | Post-wall woman writes 9 paragraphs on r/okcupid convincing herself that she's more sexually desirable than younger girls. Comedy gold.The idea that women cap out in emotional maturity at age 18 is absolute nonsense Whether we care about their emotional maturity is one thing, but actually believing the above? Please. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 09:41 AM |
| 3 | "PMS is a mental illness"Clearly you have never spent any time around anyone with a severe mental illness It is obvious to anyone with half a brain who has had experience with people suffering from mental disorders that they exist | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 01:33 AM |
| 12 | "PMS is a mental illness"This article is a gross misrepresentation of PMDD, and we should avoid using it for the basis of our opinions on PMDD. PMDD is considered to be extreme symptoms of PMS. Most women will have PMS, very few will have PMDD. It is when PMS is so severe that it is essentially ruining the woman's life. She cant make it to work or school because the pain is so bad, her relationships with family suffer because she can't fulfill her duties. This is obviously a lot different than just the standard PMS. The… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 01:30 AM |
| 14 | Gentlemen, do not be this guyWhat? He's burdened with the cost of raising two children. That is going to far, far outweigh any money he gets from her death unless she is a multimillionaire | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 01:22 AM |
| 11 | Simulated Sex - Will It Spell The End of Beta Bux for Post Wall Women?"I can definitely see it used as a tool by insecure men to develop courage around women" I'm in a mental health field, and technology like this is really exciting. For a lot of anxiety type disorders (e.g. PTSD, social anxiety, general anxiety, phobias) the predominant treatment is graded exposure. This is where you are first exposed to something that is a little bit anxiety provoking (e.g., a picture of a spider) and gradually work upwards towards the real thing. This technology would be great … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Sarah Kaplan blames 'gender gap' on alpha traits, or as she describes them, 'the least attractive personality traits'It's amusing and ironic that you resort to emotionally calling me a woman when i've stated a logical point. To your credit you do later present some form of rational argument which i will now address, but we can leave the name calling (thinly veiled as it was) out of it. Firstly, you don't seem to understand how being very narcissistic can impact someone and those they care about. Someone at the far end of the spectrum (read: narcissistic personality disorder) will not be well liked. People will… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Watch your mouth, fap less, lift more. Simple advice, but difficult to apply.There are a number of ways to self improve, it seems like you are not looking at the wider picture with regard to this. For instance, travelling. Travelling around overseas tends to give you a bit more perspective on what is important in life. It also gives you stories to tell, makes you more cultured, and a number of other benefits. Another example would be learning or improving at a practical hobby. Woodwork, surfing, hunting, anything masculine like that is pretty sweet to have in your report… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersThis is very black and white thinking... There are elements of PUA that are helpful to TRP, and obviously heaps of TRP is helpful to PUA | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 10:07 AM |
| -4 | Sarah Kaplan blames 'gender gap' on alpha traits, or as she describes them, 'the least attractive personality traits'mm no not really, you've added the word "naturally" but that shouldnt be in your sentence. Narcissism is thinking you are better than other people. Doesn't matter what your accomplishments are. Of course, narcissism should be thought of as being on a dimension (not narcissistic all the way up to extremely narcissistic). I think many TRPers would be slightly elevated on narcissism, mainly because the focus on self improvement makes us better than others. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 09:42 AM |
| 1 | The Renaissance Man"assortive mating" Criminals also tend to end up with shitty women from similar backgrounds | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Top post in 2XC acknowledges that HEALTHY fertility has an expiry date.dude, you are missing the point. Correct, the viable age could be later. No argument here. What we are talking about is the optimal age, which happens to be when women are young. This optimal age isnt going to change. The reason we talk about the optimal age, is because that is a large part (maybe the only part?) of why men find women of a certain age more attractive than their older counterparts | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 03:09 AM |
| 9 | Top post in 2XC acknowledges that HEALTHY fertility has an expiry date.I dont really understand why you're making that point though.. Of course, it is common sense that a person who looks after themself is likely to have better fertility than someone who doesnt. It is also common sense that there may be some overlap in the fertility distributions of young women and old women. I.e. some older women will produce better eggs than some younger women. The thing is, who cares? In general, younger women are more fertile | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Suicide Note of Wilkes McDermid - Basically an Elliot Rodgers that didn't kill anyone else.Im definately no expert, but the main exercises i do are Shoulder press with dumbells Lateral raises with dumbells sometimes do some cables or other stuff Have a look on the bodybuilding subreddit. I usually just go to the gym with my massive cousin and do what he does | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Suicide Note of Wilkes McDermid - Basically an Elliot Rodgers that didn't kill anyone else.you can bulk. And you can approach. And you will command res yep. I probably had "narrow shoulders" but they quickly got big! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 09:19 AM |
| 2 | TRP and depressionamerica's overdiagnosis problem is mind boggling! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 09:15 PM |
| 3 | TRP and depressionThose are dumb examples (wife cheating, wife fat). Clinical psychologists deal with abnormal mental health issues. They generally dont see squabbling couples in a professional capacity, unless there are underlying mental health issues. Anyhow, since you brought them up, ill adress them: I (in a small class) have had this drummed into me by a well-respected psychologist: There isn't always an amicable solution when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, people need to break up. This is the logical… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 09:34 AM |
| 3 | TRP and depressionThe thing is, SSRIs are not the gold-standard treatment for depression, so comparing exercise to this is missing the boat. The gold-standard, most widely studied and effective treatment for dealing with depression is cognitive behavioural therapy. It has been found in many studies (not just one), including many meta-analyses, that CBT is the number one frontline treatment. If you can find studies showing exercise outperforms CBT (hint: you wont find good ones), i'll eat my hat. EDIT: since there… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 09:17 AM |
| 2 | TRP and depressionhow many therapists do you know closely? I know a great deal, and have never sensed this "belief in the ideology of the victim". Generally, they take very practical, evidence-based steps to adressing the problems their clients face. Working together with the client is a big focus, collaborative effort in understanding and overcoming their difficulties. This is the empowerment you talk of. There shouldnt be any "do as i say" going on. It is more educating about what the evidence says will be bene… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 09:12 AM |
| 3 | TRP and depressionyeah this is what i was getting at. Simply telling a depressed person (whose symptoms may include lethargy, lack of motivation, feelings of hopelessness) to "just go lift bruh" shows a fundamental lack of understanding about depression and how to resolve it | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 03:45 AM |
| 22 | TRP and depression"Staying social and healthy us a great way to get outvof depression" The thing is, a depressed person is going to have a really hard time just "staying social". Same with exercise. If it's not part of their routine (or they have stopped), simply saying "go exercise" is missing the point entirely. There will be negative thinking biases, and a lack of willingness to engage in these activities. Listen to your therapist OP, exercise is a great way to prevent depression (and also recover from it), bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 11:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Fail Report - I Shat Where I EatI did a really similar thing with a girl about a month ago. Chalk it up to experience and dont repeat the same mistake | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 02:34 AM |
| 5 | Epic Hamster: rationalizing, even on her way into the fertility doctor's suite to get her eggs frozenAdd to that, the guy that she settles with is going to be nowhere near the SMV of the men she used to fuck. Can see how that makes for a shitty relationship dynamic really. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 11:18 AM |
| 4 | Epic Hamster: rationalizing, even on her way into the fertility doctor's suite to get her eggs frozenThe old doctor probably doesnt understand it from a male perspective, since he came up in a different time. Women these days can slut it up harrrd with tinder/online dating, much more so than in his day. Its a sad state for the average man... He sees/knows the girls he wants are generally fucking multiple guys a week, and they arent gonna want him till they get old and busted and lower their standards out of desperation. Why would any sane man who sees this pattern commit to her? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 11:16 AM |
| 8 | Epic Hamster: rationalizing, even on her way into the fertility doctor's suite to get her eggs frozenlol no way. Shes probs a 5 or 6 depending on her body In her youth she would have been a good 2-3 points higher She played her cards, now she's gotta deal with the reality of the situation | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Code Red: Offline PDF dump of all sidebar material in lue of current circumstancesThe one thing that will be sorely missed is the community itself. Wasn't there a webpage set up in case this happened? I forget the name | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 07:55 AM |
| 29 | Code Red: Offline PDF dump of all sidebar material in lue of current circumstancesdont try to make money off other people's content and its fine | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Special SnowflakesI like the way OP puts it. You're saying there are outliers but who really knows, maybe there is a couple of populations - Strong women who wont succumb and then the rest. The point OP makes is great, it doesnt matter if this is the case | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Let me tell you guys a story about my SenseiHow often are you in those scenarios though? The only times iv been in altercations in the last decade is in bars. Usually a friend will get a bit cocky and mouth off at someone or vice versa, and i end up pulling them away and gathering people to leave the venue and go somewhere else. I havent once been chased by a gang of people. I have never been in a fight in a mall (lol). Usually there is alcohol driving some chest-thumping which is why it happens in bars a lot | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 01:25 AM |
| 12 | Current situation with LTR, adviceyeah thats incredibly stupid for a med student OP... You honestly didnt expect the tinder thing to come back to you? If your intentions were as innocent as you said, you could have told your girlfriend about it or done it in front of her. It just looks from her perspective that you are being really shady | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 01:11 AM |
| -1 | Let me tell you guys a story about my SenseiYou must be unfit or slow if running is usually not an option for you. If not, im curious as to what these situations are. Give some examples There is a reason martial arts instructors always preach escaping the scene as the #1 solution | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Let me tell you guys a story about my SenseiSo if the gazelle-hunting-africans are chasing me, you're right, i cant run. That is not representative of most situations where you are in danger though... I'd much rather leave a dangerous situation with my face and teeth in check than fight it out | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 12:51 AM |
| -1 | Let me tell you guys a story about my Senseidude in that situation just run for your fucking life. I cant believe this is even in question. Running head on into a weaponised mob who want to kill you?? Seriously? It may have worked in his instructor's case/story but who knows who true/exaggerated it is? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 12:38 AM |
| -1 | Let me tell you guys a story about my SenseiUmm no it wasnt, he wasnt in a dead-end street based on the OP. Did you even read the comments you replied to? I said that outcome independence is terrible in a fighting situation. Generally you have the option to somehow escape. You just turned it into the "dead end street' scenario because your advice sucked for 99% of situations. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Let me tell you guys a story about my Senseiin most fighting situations, you arent in a dead end street. walking away/escape is usually the best bet. Outcome independence is stupid when there are other options and you are risking your life | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Don't let people AMOG you... even if they claim to be dispensing red pills.yep, a beta gorilla is not an alpha just cos he walks around pretending hes the top dog | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Let me tell you guys a story about my SenseiIn a life or death situation when there are likely other options than running head on into the threat? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The following comment was upvoted to 1000+ in mainstream reddit, gilded x3. Can you spot the subtle redpill?i think the 20% rule is grossly out of whack. Looking around, i'm clearly in the top 20% of men. It's not enough to get laid all the time by hot girls. Objectively, from a decent girls perspective i think i'm in a strange zone where im good enough for a relationship, but not good enough for casual sex. I think the true number would be closer to 10%, or 5% | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 11:26 AM |
| 1 | The following comment was upvoted to 1000+ in mainstream reddit, gilded x3. Can you spot the subtle redpill?If you're that ugly, honestly, just focus on career and use prostitutes | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Gay men vs Feminism: An unexpected allyDisagree with your reasons for why straight guys often dont have gay friends In my experience, i just don't have close friends who happen to be gay and my friends dont either. I have a few acquaintances, but not really friends. It's just that we run in different circles | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 11:01 AM |
| 12 | Let me tell you guys a story about my SenseiLol? Outcome independence is a TERRIBLE mentality in a fighting situation! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 10:09 AM |
| 2 | How to Work out for Hard casesfrom what iv seen on bodybuilding forums, stronglifts is recommended ESPECIALLY for skinny guys Going straight to isolation exercises isnt as efficient early on | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Female coworkers laugh at me because my wife gave me a sponge bath for being sick.I'm with you. Their behaviour is many things, but to go that far is just overboard. For a sub that prides itself on logic and rationality (instead of emotional responses), and argues it is not filled with rampant misogyny, things like this are dissapointing | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 10:55 AM |
| 14 | How to Work out for Hard casesWorking out at home with dumbells is simply avoiding the problem in your case, social anxiety - a fear of being negatively evaluated by others. You are kinda giving people an easy way out. The most effective, proven way to get over this is exposure. Get out there and experience it. Truth be told, nobody is judging you, nobody there gives a shit! You think all eyes are on you, but they're not. Better advice: Suck it up and get to the gym. Learn a programme like 5x5 stronglifts. Download myfitness… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 10:45 AM |
| -5 | A lesson from 2xc of all fucking places (get ready for another influx of subs)Guy is probably angry at himself and frustrated with his girlfriend for being so fat and gross | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 08:40 AM |
| 3 | The number one mistake of married women: marrying a guy to whom they're not attractedIm undecided. There are numerous things that are attractive about raising a child or children 1) being able to pass on wisdom/learning experiences 2) carrying on the family line. Every single one of our ancestors managed to reproduce successfuly. 3) I imagine (havent tried) it is a great sexual experience. Cumming in a fertile girl trying to get her pregnant 4) Having a little mini-me who i can help mould into an awesome person Of course there are downsides, and i admit i am undecided. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 06:50 AM |
| 1 | My aunt is an alcoholic because her world behind the wall withered away. An example of how some women dread settling down.I dont really get the point here (more than likely this is my fault). Anyway, the issue is that things like "herp she obv has a personality disorder" gets thrown around a lot by people who dont have a clue what it even means. He didnt even suggest which personality disorder he thought she had. Just used the catch-all category as if it was somehow an explanation for her behaviour, when the reality is different personality disorders are quite different from one another. Add to the fact that it is … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 06:44 AM |
| 2 | My aunt is an alcoholic because her world behind the wall withered away. An example of how some women dread settling down.LOL. If we're just gonna go by correlations that "prove" she has a personality disorder rolls eyes then: She must have had depression and anxiety problems all her life, both of those are often comorbid with substance abuse. 100% confirmed. Also she has an eating disorder too! Fuck outta here. Just because someone's behaviour is counterproductive, or goes against the grain, doesnt mean they have a personality disorder. Personality is persistent across time. If she had one now she would have had o… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 06:53 PM |
| 3 | The number one mistake of married women: marrying a guy to whom they're not attractedFrom the standpoint of your genes, it certainly IS a necessity. it is the ONLY necessity | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 06:44 PM |
| 1 | My aunt is an alcoholic because her world behind the wall withered away. An example of how some women dread settling down.people like to make things up without proper knowledge of diagnosis or even the mental disorder in question. Partying a lot is not indicative of a personality disorder. Neither is abandoning her family Adding "statistically" to the end of your sentence as if that somehow confirms your point is just cringe worthy | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 06:42 PM |
| 1 | My aunt is an alcoholic because her world behind the wall withered away. An example of how some women dread settling down.I didnt disagree about the alcoholism being a mental health issue, there is just no evidence to suggest a personality disorder | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 06:41 PM |
| 2 | I signed up for a gym membership 3 hours ago. In 1.5 hours I'm going down for my first workout.What sort of macro breakdown are you using? I'm curious because i use the standard myfitnesspal 50%carb 30%fat 20% protein, and i easily hit my protein goal everyday. 2 whole chicken breasts is a lot of protein! Do you have some meals with no protein at all? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 11:13 AM |
| 1 | I signed up for a gym membership 3 hours ago. In 1.5 hours I'm going down for my first workout.If I was in your situation i would just keep bulking on whatever you're eating. Don't increase calories again until your weight plateaus for a few weeks | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 10:36 AM |
| 9 | I signed up for a gym membership 3 hours ago. In 1.5 hours I'm going down for my first workout.agreed. I think most people respect it... "That guy's new, good on him. Hope he keeps it up" | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 10:33 AM |
| 2 | I signed up for a gym membership 3 hours ago. In 1.5 hours I'm going down for my first workout.Great stuff man! The hardest part is definately making the trip in to get started. If you're like most people you probably spent ages thinking about it. Like others have said, most people respect you for getting it done. They can remember how intimidating it was to start. Make sure you start eating like a fucking horse, or you wont get anywhere. Download myfitnesspal on your phone (or your computer). Track what you are eating. Eat clean and eat lots (oats, brown rice, etc). Milk is a good crutch… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 10:32 AM |
| 6 | Advancing your personal attributes with deliberate actionThis post is great. I like your list of things you are motivated to improve, seeing the 0 and 1s really puts my life into perspective as well. I'm interested to know if you have thought about what the most important attributes are. You have listed ones you want to improve, but what are the most important attributes? It would be great to come up with the core attribute list so we can evaluate ourselves and see where we need to improve Off the top of my head (with my ratings): Social life: 4/10 Me… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 10:23 AM |
| 3 | The number one mistake of married women: marrying a guy to whom they're not attractedumm, this is rather easy to answer and im sure you know what im about to tell you... The reason we breed is so that our genes carry on... if humans werent thoroughly motivated to breed, our genes would die out. You could make the argument that your sole reason to exist is to pass on your genetic material with a (hopefully) desirable mate | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 10:13 AM |
| 0 | My aunt is an alcoholic because her world behind the wall withered away. An example of how some women dread settling down.There's nothing to suggest a personality disorder in what OP said. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 10:03 AM |
| 7 | 5 minutes that taught me how to never lose sight of your goal while approaching a womanlol if shes all dressed up ready to go on the night they are having a date, shes not flaking | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Active & caring father teaches his sons "man lessons" and makes sure to include his daughter as well. Mother does "woman lessons" too. Women in /r/DIY explode with how OP is indirectly responsible for why their own lives are ruined.Big brutish guys often still have the mentallity that you "dont hit a female" It's conditioned from a young age | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 05:07 AM |
| 5 | Active & caring father teaches his sons "man lessons" and makes sure to include his daughter as well. Mother does "woman lessons" too. Women in /r/DIY explode with how OP is indirectly responsible for why their own lives are ruined.well, can you then picture the opposite scenario of a female being more comfortable talking to a female officer? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 06:25 AM |
| 11 | Active & caring father teaches his sons "man lessons" and makes sure to include his daughter as well. Mother does "woman lessons" too. Women in /r/DIY explode with how OP is indirectly responsible for why their own lives are ruined.women in the police force are more useful in some situations than a man For example, it may be easier for a woman to calm down a big, angry guy who is about to wreck shit than it is for a man Since im being downvoted, ill add some more examples. 1) can search females without hassle of sexual assault accusations 2) may be more natural at questioning young children (more empathetic, more naturally inclined to be be a carer than a man) 3) May be more comfortable questioning female sexual assault vi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 03:12 AM |
| 1 | My Experience with Girls (Need feedback from you guys)damn dude, that really is cringe-worthy. She used you and you let her. There's a big difference between being a gentleman and being a doormat. No woman is going to be attracted to a guy without a spine | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Much of the mental "frame" draws power from the physical one. TL;DR: Why lifting is a necessity.wow, you must really have been active. Did you do manual work as a trench digger or something? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Much of the mental "frame" draws power from the physical one. TL;DR: Why lifting is a necessity.Bjj is all about ground fighting. For a street fight, you dont want to be on the ground where his buddies can stomp your head/kick your head I would much prefer judo to bjj in the above mentioned scenario - being able to throw the guy on his head | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Much of the mental "frame" draws power from the physical one. TL;DR: Why lifting is a necessity.This is why im a big fan of boxing for self defense. Guy is coming at you, plant your feet and ring his bell. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Beware of the envious white knights15% of the population has clinical depression at one point or another Most people get sad though | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 09:23 PM |
| 8 | Silly Girl, Car Rides Are For Bros!And a sexual preference that is not mainstream is also not a mental illness. Fetish for feet? Not a mental illness Fetish for frottering? Not a mental illness Attracted to cars? Not a mental illness. If your behaviour is harming yourself or others, then its a problem. If you just have a fetish for something weird but nobody is getting hurt, there is no problem. homosexuallity is not an illness. You are also dead wrong about reparative therapy working on homosexuals. The evidence for this is non-… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 10:13 AM |
| 1 | FR. Some redpill and bluepill from me. Interesting results though.you can a little. Its still obvious you're skinny, just not how skinny | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 10:07 AM |
| 2 | FR. Some redpill and bluepill from me. Interesting results though.You may be right about yourself, but why are you diagnosing the OP with a rare condition without any evidence to suggest that is the case? 99% he just needs to eat more. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 10:05 AM |
| 1 | FR. Some redpill and bluepill from me. Interesting results though.agreed. I remember telling people i "eat like a horse" when i was 6 ft and 65 kgs. Then i started eating properly to supplement lifting and was like "oh". | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 10:02 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report] Alpha moments in the past week.need to paragraph that man, no way am i reading it | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Beware of the envious white knightsim curious, what did you do that instantly turned this girl off? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 09:47 AM |
| 6 | Silly Girl, Car Rides Are For Bros!It hasn't officially been considered a mental illness since the 80s. Homosexuals make up over 10% of the population. Thats a lot of people. So many people, that it cant really be considered abnormal anymore | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 09:32 AM |
| 10 | Good news everyone, I am NOT the Father.You still dont make good sense here. Regardless of whether i prescribe to your idea or not, the vast, vast majority of people are going to think in terms of "im gonna get mine, fuck these other people i dont know". So, there is still gonna be a whole lot of fucking retarded people, even if i try and look out for everyone around me. I'll end up wasting my resources, just so that some fuckup named cleetus can do a shit job working on my car. We dont live in a society made up of 100 people anymore.… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 02:40 AM |
| 28 | Good news everyone, I am NOT the Father.fucking bitch. Im not a woman-hater by any means, but fuck her. She tried to commit fraud and take you for all you're worth | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 01:23 AM |
| 21 | Good news everyone, I am NOT the Father.Well, sure we could waste our resources providing for fatherless children, but why should we? It's essentially a cuckold situation. Wasting precious resources that could be better spent on our own children or just for our own satisfaction. You're right that if everyone helped raise everyones kids the world would be a better place, but thats not gonna happen. What you are suggesting is that we take one "for the team" and cuckold ourselves while everyone else goes about living their normal life. F… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Part 1) Beware the optimism bias. Part 2) I fucked up, FRInteresting, this advice definately goes against the grain of what others are suggesting | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Part 1) Beware the optimism bias. Part 2) I fucked up, FR"If you were "objectively" more attractive, more successful, and have a more fun personality than her male friends, why did she flake on you?" I gave a few reason in the OP why this might be the case in the OP. Also, even if im better than her friends, that doesnt make me better than the guys vying for her attention on tinder etc Edit: About the boat thing, i would just be spearfishing around the coast/rocks. No boat. She could sit around on the beach/rocks in the sun (its summer) | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Part 1) Beware the optimism bias. Part 2) I fucked up, FRI appreciate the sentiment of your post. However, some of your reasoning is too superficial. "stupidity set it... you knew what the exact outcome would be" Agreed, however, im not a stupid person. So, why did stupidity set it? In my view, the optimism bias played a role, as did delay discounting (discounting the value of a delayed reinforcer - in this case the possibility of pussy later if i played it cool) "Jumping off a 5 storey building is not fucking "optimism bias"". Right. This is a good a… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Part 1) Beware the optimism bias. Part 2) I fucked up, FRI have learned from my mistake and will continue to learn from future mistakes. My point is that if you can avoid making the mistake in the first place you should strive to do that. The optimism bias can be a contributing factor in making an avoidable mistake | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 01:32 PM |
| 35 | Life is awfully similar to pokerI think you need to add a very important concept in poker: When you have the best hand, you need to get more money in the pot Ideally, if you have the nuts (best hand possible in that situation), you want to have all your chips in the middle so you can win as much money as possible. There is nothing worse than winning a small pot with the nuts because you were passively hoping someone else would build the pot for you. Assuming our goal is fucking women, when you are at your peak SMV, you want to… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Part 1) Beware the optimism bias. Part 2) I fucked up, FROptimism bias is good in a variety (most) of situations. With regard to approaching etc it is great It is not good when you are considering making a subpar move instead of a clearly superior move , and overestimate how likely it is to work E.g. "I know that a common mistake people make is X, however, if i do X it is not that likely i will suffer the same consequences as them" I do need abundance mentality, 100% correct. The fact is i don't have the number of any other attractive girls at the mom… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Makes me a terrible person saying this, but cheating can be a great way to make up for lost time.i didnt defend him actually. I just said your position was absolutely stupid, without taking a stand as to whether i agree with his or not. I'm ambivalent about him fucking other girls | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 11:34 AM |
| -1 | I designed a shirt which, according to a research study, makes women think men are 12% more attractivefrom what i've read (im no expert): 5-6 reps is best for gaining strength 8-12 reps is best for gaining muscle size | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 11:05 AM |
| 1 | There's an AskReddit going right now about how it feels to have "settled." A lot of AWALT going on in there.The dont get married thing is just a rule of thumb really. Sure, you can get married and keep things tight and live happily ever after. That is fucking hard to accomplish> For the average guy reading this sub, it serves him well to just not get married | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Spicy Food Linked to High Testosteronesample size by itself means nothing. If you have a good effect size, you wont need a big sample to detect a difference. 114 is probably fine, without knowing particulars. The thing about sample size is, it can be misleading. For example, if we were looking at IQ differences between humans and aliens. In this example imagine humans had a mean IQ of 100, and aliens had a mean IQ of 101. If the sample size was small (between 2 and 500 or watever) the statistical tests would tell us there was no sig… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Makes me a terrible person saying this, but cheating can be a great way to make up for lost time.yeah say whatever you want you're still wrong. "being red is only doing what i find acceptable" | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 10:32 AM |
| -1 | Makes me a terrible person saying this, but cheating can be a great way to make up for lost time.piss off with your high horse. Maybe what he did goes against your morals, but why should another man give a shit what you think about it? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 10:48 AM |
| 32 | The Reddit Sex Partner Count Thread - a case study in Hypergamy, the Cock Carousel, Beta Bucks, and The Wall.There will also be a selection bias, the OP would have gathered examples that suit his story. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 07:46 AM |
| 1 | In a rare moment of honesty, AskWomen admits they are disgusted/insulted by beta guys asking them out.There is plenty of evidence for testosterone suppressing immune system dude.. The rest is just inference that makes sense according to logic | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 06:39 AM |
| 1 | In a rare moment of honesty, AskWomen admits they are disgusted/insulted by beta guys asking them out.you've probably never used tinder. I'm an average looking guy based on my photos on facebook In the flesh, im 6ft (tall enough), good body, good posture, confident etc. On facebook i swipe right on almost everyone and get maybe 1 match for every 100 i swipe. Its usually a gross chick I dont think im overestimating my looks as i always had low self confidence etc until a couple years ago. Im prob a 6/10 or 7/10 on a good day. Cant get a look in on tinder | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 06:37 AM |
| 2 | In a rare moment of honesty, AskWomen admits they are disgusted/insulted by beta guys asking them out.serious? Good looks signal good genes. A strong, masculine face/frame signals high testosterone. testosterone is known to supress the immune system. Therefore, a strong looking high T man who looks healthy probably has a great immune system. In short, a male that looks good is a good sign that his offspring will be healthy and viable. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Always hide your effortright. Don't pretend the context went over my head, your writing was poor if that is what you intended the statement to mean "women completely lack empathy or the ability to place themselves in another’s shoes" if you changed the end of the sentence to what you wrote above i would have no issue with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 09:35 PM |
| 1 | why inconsistency works, A theory.definitions are a bit flawed. Reward and reinforcement are essentially exactly the same. If something is interpreted as positive, it is also something that will increase behaviours that have led to it in the past. Behavioural psychology makes no distinction between reward and reinforcement. intermittent reinforcement is when something is reinforced not every time. This includes erratic or random reinforcement, but it not limited to these. It also includes when things are for instance reinforced … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 10:38 AM |
| 2 | My Reaffirmation of the TRP Truths (The Story of My Divorce)Regarding your tinder success, how would you rate your own appearance? Also, what sort of profile photos do you use? Shirtless pics showing your body? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 08:18 AM |
| 28 | Spicy Food Linked to High Testosteroneremember that correlation does not equal causation It may be the case that having higher T -> more likely to enjoy spice, rather than enjoying spice -> higher T By all means, eat chilli if you want to, this research just isnt evidence that eating spicy food leads to higher testosterone. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 08:14 AM |
| 1 | FR: Don’t Believe in Hypergamy? Look No Further than Tinder.hes probably only swiping on girls who are 7/10 or higher its not about being ugly, 7/10 girls are looking for 10/10 guys. If he swipes right on EVERYONE, he will get matches. They will just be ugly. Ugly girls tend to know whats up as they get treated like shit by people too | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Always hide your effort"women completely lack empathy" umm... no. That is not true. Besides the fact that women dominate the "caring" professions - nursing, social work, counselling, women have been the nurturing gender since forever. There is a reason children tend to flock to their mother when hurt rather than their father. Women tend to display a lot more empathy than men | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Even Will Smith could not get girls as a beta bucksIt is interesting, and maybe a case of not working on yourself early enough? Or do you just have a high ceiling? Personally, i have taken a while to find TRP and improve so i will be a late bloomer too | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Don't overtrain. (Applies to more than just your muscles.)you dont understand what negative reinforcement is. What you mean is positive punishment Positive = introduced into your environment negative = withdrawn from your environment reinforcement = will increase the behaviour (good things) punishment = will decrease the behaviour (bad things) An example of negative reinforcement would be taking painkillers to reduce pain | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Even Will Smith could not get girls as a beta bucksIm not quite sure why you just provided another anecdote, do you disagree with the premise that men's peak smv (IN GENERAL) is <50? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 09:24 PM |
| 2 | just got flaked on, excuse potentially legit, response?yeah, you're right man. I realise it too... I fucked up. Feel like shit now haha. Her decision was probably already made beforehand but i certainly put the fuckin nails in the coffin It was a bit forward for me to suggest drinks at my place alone (we havent hung out alone before), and i half expected her to flake, so i should have been more prepared | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 08:10 AM |
| -1 | just got flaked on, excuse potentially legit, response?Its not bad advice, but you didnt read my post very well. Im asking for responses other than nexting her, because i still want to fuck her, and she's the best option iv had for a while. Soft nexting her if she doesnt reschedule is the equivalent of nexting her | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 04:25 AM |
| 9 | Even Will Smith could not get girls as a beta bucksi thought we at TRP are able to see anecdotes for what they are? TRp often makes generalisations and understands that it doesnt apply to 100% of the population, why are you trying to delude yourself? You think you will be more attractive at 53 than 40? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Even Will Smith could not get girls as a beta buckslol what are you on about? his comment is pretty much unarguable | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 02:04 AM |
| 12 | Even Will Smith could not get girls as a beta bucksExpiry may be a bit too strong a word, men having a best before date would be more accurate You're going to be more attractive as a 40 year old successful man than you will be as a 60 year old successful man. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Strategy for the Less Endowed15cm is a lot closer to 6 inches than 5... so there is a bit of a discrepancy in your measurements. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill Strategy for the Less Endowed6.5 here, i would love an extra half inch but i do admit it is GREAT to fully bury your cock to the hilt | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 10:31 PM |
| 5 | My recent AWALT experience. (attempted branch swing)Yeah thats some stop notch shit. Out of all my friends, i am pretty sure that only one (my best friend) would hold my interests above an attractive woman in this way. Its a rare quality | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 10:25 PM |
| 13 | My recent AWALT experience. (attempted branch swing)If a friend did this to me i'd instantly cut him out of my life and be pleased that he outed his true self | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 10:24 PM |
| 8 | My recent AWALT experience. (attempted branch swing)nah, you're the worthless friend in that scenario. There are literally hundreds of thousands of girls around (more or less, depending where you live). Why would you have to fuck someone who your friend was into? Go fuck one of the other 99,999 women. I wouldnt fuck an ex-GF of one of my best friends even if he was ok with it, just out of principle. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 10:22 PM |
| 29 | Even Will Smith could not get girls as a beta bucksFeels good to say that but its not true. We may have a longer expiry date than women, but we still plummet in smv at some point | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 09:50 PM |
| 0 | The phoenix is rising - needs short term guidanceThanks for you suggestion of drinks by the way thats a lot better than the coffee thing i was gonna do. I thought a bit more about it and decided that drinks somewhere in public also isnt the best idea. Its better than coffee, but it still imposes a barrier to sex (having to go back home together). I suggested we have drinks and a movie at my place and shes coming over in a couple nights. Nobody else will be here. It will be hard to fuck this one up | /r/askTRP | 16/01/15 12:50 AM |
| 1 | The phoenix is rising - needs short term guidanceSometimes you can just tell someone is attracted to you by the way they look at you. My cousin is a bit of a dick and very self centered, he wouldnt tell me if he heard she liked me. I've been close with him my whole life, but thats how he is. he gets jealous easily, and shes more attractive than his gf imo His GF, who is close with her, told me to hook up with her a week ago. Thats a decent-ish sign. Anyways, who gives a shit if she likes me or not, im gonna find out one way or the other. You'r… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/15 10:11 AM |
| 0 | The phoenix is rising - needs short term guidanceYou make some good points and have put them forward constructively, thanks. I know she is thinking about me because im funny, assertive, new to the group, relatively attractive and intelligent. Plus she gave me her number and agreed to meet up. Based on the guys she is used to, i cant imagine another reality than her thinking about me I realise i talked a lot of shit about them, they are fun guys, but i stand behind what i said. I NEVER shit talk others in person though. This is where i can say … | /r/askTRP | 14/01/15 09:54 AM |
| 2 | A 24 year old woman asks a sex column about her problem. AF/BBfucking her so good/hard that her pussy is later sore. It will probably be a bit uncomfortable for her to walk afterwards the first time i fucked some slut that well (i was the nice guy to girlfriends but this was overseas with an obvious slut), she said she was sore and walking hurt. I apologised (lol) and she laughed saying not to be sorry | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | College professor on student rapeBoth are missing the crucial ingredient... Cognitive dissonance is mental discomfort which is caused by competing thoughts, or competing thoughts/behaviours. Not everyone with competing thoughts has cognitive dissonance. We are motivated to avoid discomfort. Oftentimes the cognitive dissonance arises when someone points out their competiting actions/thoughts and how they don't make sense. Based on your OP, the lecturer didnt have any mental discomfort, and therefore there was no cognitive disson… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 09:59 PM |
| 7 | College professor on student rapesounds like she had some ideas worth exploring to be honest... The idea that no doesnt always mean no has been floated here a lot and seems to have a lot of traction. Also her reasoning on why this was the case (not wanting to seem easy). I would disagree with her point about it being due to "the patriarchy", but on the whole she doesnt seem to be spouting complete rubish. I think you went into it pre-judging her based on the context (e.g. educated woman, sociology class). You also misused the t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 03:48 AM |
| 2 | At dinner party over the weekend, women says she only dates tall menso true. I was part of a room full of people who heard about this girl getting some loser's (her words) dick rubbed all over her face from her best friend. Apparently everyone was drunk, and the guy was skinny and gross. Lol. Her best friend told everyone | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | My dad just schooled my BP brother HARD - financial tipfuck letting a friend do this! Friends come and go Family is forever (or so im told(=) | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 02:15 PM |
| -1 | The Red Pill is even tougher to swallow for girlsso? You missed the point. In darwinian terms, survival of the fittest is that only the strongest survive. In todays society, it tends to be the poorer people who produce the most offspring, with the government bailing them out of financial crisis (and therefore avoiding starvation etc) Human society is no longer survival of the fittest | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 03:04 AM |
| 3 | My dad just schooled my BP brother HARD - financial tiploan sharking is legal in new zealand i think. Without giving away too much, my dad has a history in law enforcement and is an avid believer of using lawyers for contract stuff so i imagine it is legal | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 01:17 AM |
| 3 | My dad just schooled my BP brother HARD - financial tipyup. Two years of living together means that each person is entitled to half of what they have. Just like marriage | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 01:16 AM |
| 3 | My dad just schooled my BP brother HARD - financial tipIm sure he got his lawyer to write it up with him. It is all written in legal speak and is a multi page document | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 12:27 AM |
| 36 | My dad just schooled my BP brother HARD - financial tipNew zealand. He definately would have talked to his lawyer about this and im probably simplifying it too much. Trusts here are under attack. There are laws being passed to mean that "men cant just hide their money from their partners in trusts" | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 12:25 AM |
| 0 | How has your weight affected your relationship with your SO?lol fuck off with that shit. Fat is unattractive. Super skinny isn't great either. However, a skinny girl who does squats etc and builds a bit of muscle in the right places is super attractive. Even if theres a few extra pounds in there, the athletic build is the best. Being skinny fat is not attractive | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/14 11:47 PM |
| 13 | My dad just schooled my BP brother HARD - financial tipSounds like you dodged a cannonball there... The house in your parents name is a good idea. I imagine my dad didnt suggest that because he would be worried my brother may lose his job and then the debt would fall on him or something | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 11:37 PM |
| 60 | My dad just schooled my BP brother HARD - financial tipMy dad got burned hard which is where he probably developed this thinking. My mum left him after nearly 20 years of marriage for an inferior man who managed to appear better (think seeing my dad in his home gear all the time etc, other guy trying to impress). She took half but he negotiated to keep his house he bought prior to their marriage - this meant him getting a lot of extra debt and my mum getting a new house. It fucked me up actually. I was 11 and went from a strict, controlled environme… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 11:35 PM |
| -2 | The Red Pill is even tougher to swallow for girlsI dunno, with state welfare at epic proportions its not really survival of the fittest anymore. There are handouts for people who are stupid, have too many kids they cant afford with different fathers who arent around, etc | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 11:16 PM |
| 1 | What are some female social/relationship strategies that you weren't aware of previously?Shes short, like 5'4 or something, maybe shorter. Its hard to describe, but all the weight she gained went straight to her belly and hips, giving her an awkward pear shape on a short girl look. orginally she was slim, probably gained about 5-10 kg over the 2 years but all on those spots it was very obvious | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 11:37 PM |
| 2 | What are some female social/relationship strategies that you weren't aware of previously?Yeah, i know i done fucked up. I kinda found TRP about half way through our relationship and the bulk (excuse the pun) of the damage was already done. I made efforts to rectify but her lifestyle was too cosy. She began working out but it wasn't enough and her diet was terrible | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 11:35 PM |
| 13 | What are some female social/relationship strategies that you weren't aware of previously?I had an ex hold me accountable for our declining sex life. We had been together 2 years and she had gotten fat, she was becoming unattractive to me. She knew this in some form, always hiding her belly and getting changed behind doors or crouching down with the bed-frame as cover. I stopped wanting to fuck her as much, it became more of a chore. I would close my eyes and picture other girls, or just masturbate. Anyway, she acted like there was something wrong with me. "We're young, you should be… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 12:57 PM |
| 0 | Wu Tang concert and the red pillbully because i stand my ground huh? Sounds like you're one of the entitled cunts i was talking about | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Wu Tang concert and the red pillI feel sorry for you if that's your take-away from this | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Because Scienceinteresting. Seen on facebook today: Fat feminist with chronic medical problems: "stupid self-important doctor made me eat a whole block of chocolate" some impressive externalisation of her locus of control! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Some tips on "faking" like you're rich to get laid. (Without having to actually lie)well, welcome to reality guys. Most people didnt end up here because they are wildly successful with women | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 12:38 AM |
| 1 | This has to be the most horrible thing I've ever seenyup. This shit happens. Also, a controlling husband not letting his wife gain employment, keeping her dependent on him (this may be in combination with physical abuse). Financial abuse happens, I just don;t think its on the scale it looks like they are trying to propose. Most of the upvoted comments are logical, but denying it happens at all is a bit of a stretch. Still, this is worrying because it doesnt look like they are just talking about those severe, real cases | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 12:06 AM |
| 8 | [FR] Slaying LMR, F-close on college cutie off cold-approach. X-Post from /r/Seductioncan you elaborate on the "god hand" part? How did you approach her | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Useful skill setsthey all have practical use, the effectiveness of each in certain situations is up for speculation. The ones you listed are more rare tbh. In my city of 500,000 people, there is no krav maga. Then you have to wonder about how good the club where you learn it is, if there is only one in your town | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 10:29 PM |
| 6 | Why are looks so important?Why are looks important? Essentially, good looks are a sign of good health and therefore reproductive utility. For men, this may be a strong jawline etc indicating high testosterone. Testosterone has a suppressing effect on the immune system, so if someone obviously has high testosterone and yet is not visibly sick, then their immune system is pretty strong. High testosterone is also correlated with being stronger etc. For females its a bit different but still related to reproductive value. Abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 11:57 AM |
| 16 | Useful skill setsFishing, hunting Martial arts (primarily the more practical ones - boxing/kickboxing/judo/jiujitsu) Being able to build/fix things (house, car, boat, watever) would also be great. All of these skills have practical utility, even if you dont need to use them | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 11:50 AM |
| 2 | This could be the future for YOU if we let feminists get away with "rape culture" BSumm. Good troll? Dressing slutty and being drunk does not automatically mean they are down for sex with anyone that wants it. The valid point about the above behaviour is that it makes it more likely they will be taken advantage of. Hence, dressing moderately, being sober, and not walking alone are good ways to lower a female's risk of being assaulted. Just because they chose to do those things doesn't mean they are fair game for rape dude. How do you have any idea what the percentage of false r… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 02:26 AM |
| 5 | This could be the future for YOU if we let feminists get away with "rape culture" BSwow you really are a bitter cunt. If somone dragged your mother into a parking lot and raped the shit out of her, how would you feel? Is this something she is used to doing? Denying rape is a crime? There is a huge difference between consensual sex for "money, favors, whatever" and non-consensual sex. If one party doesn't want it to happen, doesn't willingly going along with the sex, and all signs (body language, verbal) point towards them being unwilling, then thats a fucked up crime and the ra… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Lowered ExpectationsYou think he can go from an 3/10 to an 8/10 with "simple" fixes to his appearance? Yeah right... Of course financial status matters, is this ever in question? Having financial security displays that you can look after yourself and others, females are instinctively attracted to that. If the guy is broke he's not gonna become an 8/10 with some minor fixes to his appearance, unless he has movie star good looks. Likewise social status. It shows you can command people and are well respected by the gr… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | r/theredpill shower thoughtlol what? I have no idea how you inferred all of that from my short statement! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 09:14 PM |
| 4 | Lowered ExpectationsI think you are looking at him from a man's point of view. Looks-wise, maybe he could be an 8. Women care about other things. Is his social status easily fixed? Is his financial situation easily fixed? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Check out Tom Cruise just elbow out Graham Norton.I agree with the general sentiment of your post, but not the spectrum part. The current thinking among psychologists etc is that most mental illnesses exist on a spectrum (from mild to severe). This does not mean that everyone has the illness at a very low level, that is a common misconception. There are usually genetic influences involved that simply aren't present in everybody. People overdiagnose, but professionals shouldn't. Thats part of my point, your last paragraph explains how the averag… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Ladies practice what you preach!I think this has been posted and discussed before. I like his frame. Right at the start when he gets a chance to talk... Host: "... I know you're gonna go nuts" throws hands in air Man: broad smile for 2-3 seconds takes his time replies calmly The alimony call right at the end is also kinda funny, she had no response other then "I have three kids!". As if that somehow means she isnt a hypocrite | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 03:47 AM |
| 19 | r/theredpill shower thoughtWomen dont like gross men even if they are gross themselves | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 03:35 AM |
| -1 | How To Tell If Your Girl Will Stay Thinumm, welcome to TRP? This whole sub is based off theory and pseudo-scientific observations of people's behaviour. Personal experiences are certainly valuable sources of information, as long as we recognise them for what they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Check out Tom Cruise just elbow out Graham Norton.yeah, self diagnosis via the internet is real. Confirmation biases lead to people picking out some criteria they may or may not fit and ignore others. If you don't have repetitive type behaviours, don't have noticeable social impairments, and dont have problems with communication then you aren't on the spectrum | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 10:52 PM |
| 1 | The demotivatoinal playlist I hear every time at the gymAmen... The shitty music is pretty easy for me to ignore, i usually don't even notice it. Maybe its just really loud at some of these guys' gyms? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 10:22 PM |
| 1 | The biggest cock carousel rider is posting sad posts on her Facebook about being single past the age of 30.Lol, a woman can certainly stop partying at 30 and go for a career, but who gives a shit? Men don't care about women's career, they care about their looks. Women are not attractive because they are successful, they are attractive because of their physical qualities and femininity. This is obvious. I know a 30 year old woman who earns 200k a year, and is a 5/10. I would not fuck her, and certainly wouldnt consider a relationship with her. Success in a woman means nothing to a man. We would rather… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Keep TRP to yourselfThey do have the stress (as you put it) of confirming to your opinion when 1 on 1 though. Most people are quite agreeable, and may agree with you while not internalising that opinion | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 12:09 AM |
| 0 | After 3 months of marriage, woman is no longer in shape. Husband admits he's not turned on anymore and begs her to go to the gym. Instead, she drags him to "counseling".Regarding 2) I don't think there is anything wrong with clearly and concisely communicating his displeasure with her appearance. The key is not to harp on about it. Don't whine. Don't bring it up all the time. Tell her she needs to change her situation. He can still run dread game. It's important she has a clear understanding of why he is not happy with her, rather than figuring it out for herself, which will not lead to the conclusion that she needs to work out more | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Confirmation in university lecture that women are the gatekeepers to sexi dont disagree with anything you just said. Feel free to continue arguing with yourself i have merely had the opinion that socialisation is also important in determining behaviour. I find it hard to believe you would disagree with this basic premise. You say you work with CD kids... you must have some understanding of effective parent-training techniques and therefore how the parents can shape their child's behaviour? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Confirmation in university lecture that women are the gatekeepers to sex"they start biologically therefore biology is the greatest factor involved" This is not sound logic. I never denied biology is hugely important in determining behaviour. I merely stressed socialisation is also important. You can rant all you want about the "science". I'm well versed in examining research and wont be broscienced by you | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 07:31 AM |
| 1 | FR Breakup complete with Nuclear Meltdownregarding reassurance (this was a common theme in how you dealt with her being upset) The evidence suggests that for a parent of an anxious child, constant reassurance helps to maintain the worrying. Think of it this way. Your lovey dovey attention from reassuring her is very reinforcing. She learns (probably not consciously) that by worrying and coming to you with her fears she will receive the goods. Rinse repeat. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 12:33 PM |
| 2 | behavioural psychology - gaming women using intermittent reinforcement and a coin tosspretty much on the money confused is the wrong term, as conscious awareness isnt necessary for reinforcement to have effect. It's well known that different schedules of reinforcement produce different patterns of behaviour. Variable ratio schedules produce fast and steady behaviour, so thats what we should use. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Confirmation in university lecture that women are the gatekeepers to sexNah, the retarded thing is pretending that we have the answers as to whether biology or social conditioning is more important. As jingle_hore said, there is an interaction between these two processes, and both are important | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/14 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Confirmation in university lecture that women are the gatekeepers to sexI don't disagree with any of what you just said... The presence of cognitive scripts is just about the way we think of certain events. This is nothing new to cognitive psychology | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/14 04:52 AM |
| 1 | MarijuanaTrue. Current research suggests that whether you use/abuse a substance is mostly due to social factors. Whether you become dependent/addicted appears to be due to genetic factors | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 07:21 AM |
| 2 | "Advice to young men from an old man." (craisglist;2007-02-15, 9:08AM)Sounds like you're talking more about judo techniques than jiu jitsu, correct me if im wrong though. I think judo and BJJ are also great. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 05:43 AM |
| 1 | MarijuanaThere is an abundance of solid research suggesting that it is a disease. Most addictions have been found to have significant genetic components (e.g. abnormalities in dopamine receptors) That is very congruent with the definition of disease. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 03:39 AM |
| 0 | Confirmation in university lecture that women are the gatekeepers to sexJust because there are "scripts" people follow does not mean that evolutionary aspects are not important. I think your criticism is somewhat of a straw-man | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 03:36 AM |
| 1 | MarijuanaThere isn't a whole lot of withdrawal symptoms for cannabis dependence. You should be able to quit through sheer will power. The main problems people have are with sleep disturbances (trouble wakening, trouble getting to sleep, wakening throughout the night, early wakening, etc etc). These typically resolve themselves within a month. What you should do is take all your pipes/bongs utensils and weed and throw it in the trash. Get rid of it. This is an easy step you can take at a time when you don… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 03:26 AM |
| 7 | MarijuanaThere is an inherent problem with this idea for someone who is already abusing a substance: They are likely to be having problems with impulsivity around the substance and "cutting back" is often a lot harder than just stopping cold turkey for a while | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 03:16 AM |
| 10 | "Advice to young men from an old man." (craisglist;2007-02-15, 9:08AM)Boxing has better answers for these 2v1 situations than traditional martial arts (including BJJ) for sure. You do NOT want a street fight to hit the ground. Here you are incredibly vulnerable to being booted in the head or stomped out by the guy's friends. For a person who is untrained, boxing will be the best art to practice to defend yourself. The idea is not to fight, but if shit goes down you act decisively. Boxing is better than kickboxing solely for the reason i mentioned earlier : Stay on… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 03:04 AM |
| 1 | The Sound of Status"The authors seem to feel it's the position of authority which creates these differences in speech, but I'd argue the opposite... they are in authority roles partly because of their manner of speaking.' That's a really tough one. Occam's razor wouldn't have a clue | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 06:00 AM |
| 10 | Fat chick on TwoX gets furious because her boyfriend doesn't want to marry her while she's obese.Seemingly incompatible beliefs, yes. Cognitive dissonance, no. It's a personal gripe of mine when people misuse this term. Now, if you brought up the hypocrisy of these beliefs in front of the poster, you would likely create some cognitive dissonance which may lead to them changing their opinion. Cognitive dissonance is mental discomfort caused by competing ideas or actions. You can have competing ideas without have cognitive dissonance, in fact most people do. Therapists sometimes invoke cognit… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 03:23 AM |
| 13 | Fat chick on TwoX gets furious because her boyfriend doesn't want to marry her while she's obese.you can bet your ass the boyfriend gave her hints along the way "lets go for a walk" "we should start exercising and eating healthy" etc etc. I've been in that situation with a girl who let herself go. Again, there were excuses: "I'm just so busy", even though her main hobby was lieing in bed reading/watching tv. It's amazing how women can ignore these not-so-subtle hints that they are getting fat. When i stopped seeing my ex as much, she wanted to know why. I gave her PC answers that were along… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 03:16 AM |
| 5 | Girl refused to say 'please'!the whole "can" vs "may" bullshit is what a bored woodwork teacher tells his student when they ask if they "can" use the bathroom. If you're trying to be witty/smart/normal you should refrain from boring people with that nonsense | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/14 02:41 AM |
| 0 | 3 Reasons Why You Will Never Make GainsNah, it doesnt even out like that. Some builds are more conducive to the mechanical movements involved in weightlifting | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 11:02 AM |
| 1 | 3 Reasons Why You Will Never Make Gainshow deep you squat also depends on your height and flexibility. My 6'4 brother has real trouble getting to parallel because he has really long legs. It is a LOT further for him to get to parallel than it is for a 5'8 guy. If you have inflexible hips your back will also get rounded at the bottom and you may hurt yourself. Like most exercises, it depends | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Here's a handy list of what not to do.intermittent schedules of reinforcement produce the most rapid response rates :) Taking blowjobs as the behaviour you want to happen more readily: Basically, give her love and compliments after an average of 3 or so blowjobs (sometimes after every blowjob, sometimes after 3, somtimes after 5, etc. It is key that it is a variable ratio). This is a variable ratio schedule and will produce behaviour that occurs frequently and consistently. To start with, you may want to give her the love etc after … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 12:39 AM |
| 0 | New Zealand Earthquake Recovery boss quits over 'sexual harassment' claims...If that's all it is, calling women "sweetie" and "honey", it doesn't seem very bad at all. Then again, since he's resigning there's probs a lot more to it | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 08:23 AM |
| 1 | If Squats Aren't A Part of Your Lifting Routine, They Should Be, or Why You May Want To Try 5X5 Strongliftsi replied to a comment upset about him being downvoted. I just gave reasons why it was probably downvoted. I didnt downvote it myself If you came to learn, he could get a lot further with a proper delivery that mentions his credentials. I.e. Im a personal trainer yada yada yada if you're not eating xxxx then you should be | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 10:07 AM |
| 1 | If Squats Aren't A Part of Your Lifting Routine, They Should Be, or Why You May Want To Try 5X5 StrongliftsI didnt downvote him, i just offered reasons why he was downvoted after someone was upset about it. I can take criticism, constructive criticism, blunt advice etc as well as anyone | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 10:07 AM |
| -3 | If Squats Aren't A Part of Your Lifting Routine, They Should Be, or Why You May Want To Try 5X5 StrongliftsIts probably in his delivery man. "None of you are are eating right..." This statement is clearly false, and also patronising. It may be true that many here aren't eating well, but its no suprise this was downvoted. "Eat more steak and eggs" This is good advice if people aren't eating enough of these. However, there is no reasoning behind this advice so it can seem pretty empty, even if it's correct. "Food is more important than programming" This is absolutely true. Now, there are obviously many… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 07:45 AM |
| 1 | If Squats Aren't A Part of Your Lifting Routine, They Should Be, or Why You May Want To Try 5X5 StrongliftsWhile what gaylubeoil said is insensitive, its also probably correct most of the time. When i first started, my max was about 50kgs and i was a massive (yet small) bitch | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 07:31 AM |
| 1 | 25 things every woman needs to let go of before she turns 30heh its prob less likely TRP and just the author's own observation that at 30 she needed to make major changes | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 07:15 AM |
| 1 | 25 things every woman needs to let go of before she turns 30oh hahaha i forgot to comment on that part. "its time to erase the call log". Wow. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Study: Up to 60 percent of women fantasize about ‘being dominated’your example is not an analogy for delay discounting. I was using a behavioural phenomenon to attempt to explain the women's behaviour and comment from the lead author Your "fix" turns it into something else entirely | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 09:26 AM |
| 11 | Study: Up to 60 percent of women fantasize about ‘being dominated’may be a case of delay discounting When a reinforcer (for these women, masochism) is delayed, it loses some of its value. Different people have different rates of discounting but this is a phenomenon well-known to behavioural psychology. I say delayed, because it's a hypothetical question they are being asked, they are removed from gaining reinforcement from it immediately. In essence, they can precommit to not being hurt, even though they would like it in some instances. A useful analogy would … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 12:42 PM |
| 1 | TIL that you don't need that paternity test.Trying to understand the mechanisms by which one has come to a certain way of acting/believing is fine. However, you basically just made up your own fairytale about the guy. He shows absolutely no evidence of cognitive dissonance in his post, but it may have played a role, we will just never know | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:39 PM |
| 11 | TIL that you don't need that paternity test.Nah. Cognitive dissonance is mental discomfort caused by competing thoughts/behaviour. He seems reasonably happy with his decision. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 10:24 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Got drugged last night... Guys, even you must be careful with strangers, even if they are beautiful girlslol, whether a "couple of bites" or 2 whole brownies is "way too much" is variable. This will be determined by type/quantity of weed, and style of preparation and baking. | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 10:51 AM |
| 54 | PSA: Got drugged last night... Guys, even you must be careful with strangers, even if they are beautiful girlsJeez man, if you're out drinking and someone offers you some "cookies", its safe to assume they are weed cookies At least ask before you eat them | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 11:51 AM |
| 35 | MTV show "Friendzone" is full of RP truth for a five-year orbiter [from r/cringe]It's not part of a beauty regime. Spending time in the sun is good in a number of ways - mentally, vitamin D, and you look better with a tan. I don't go out of my way to sunbathe, but i regularly participate in activities that involve being in the sun without a shirt - swimming, beach, spearfishing, etc. Everyone knows that in western society guys look better with a slight tan compared to being pasty white. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Displaying high SMV w/o coming across as "Try Hard"fuck yeah you should be. Stop being a bitch If you're that tall, and you're not being a leader, it is very conspicuous | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 05:22 AM |
| 2 | 8 reasons why New York women can't get married should be applied everywherecould be something to this tbh. With the increasing militarisation of the police, and growing restrictions on civil liberties, is this to keep the workers down? Oppression of the peasant class has a long history, and to think it doesn't happen these days is naive. Feminise the men, they wont fight back | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 04:43 AM |
| 1 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong."Since when does masculinity include people who literally AREN'T men? I don't even understand this. All I know is there's a problem when literal scientific labels are now deemed as "exclusive"." I disagree with this point. You can be a feminine man, just like you can be a masculine woman (e.g. big jaw, big brow, muscly, etc). These labels aren't scientific at all and certainly not just categories. Probably better to think of them as a spectrum with femininity at one end, and masculinity at the o… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Handling friends on night outIt was more that the messenger was relatively aware of how the situation might play out, and also aware that Gregg liked her, rather than Gregg himself factoring me into his blabbering about the girl he likes Your advice seems solid though | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 04:01 AM |
| 14 | Woman breaks down why modern feminism is fucking retardedIt's good to be educated on this issue so when someone is parroting feminist bullshit at you you have the tools to debunk it, if the situation warrants that approach | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 05:19 AM |
| 1 | TRP applies to male friendships just as much as it does with females, doesn't it.....i think this is an excellent point. I've found that among friends it becomes obvious who you are cooperating with, and who will try the dominance card. It is most obvious around girls they want to sleep with. Do they back you up as they would wish to be treated? Or try and point out faults etc to look better? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Wife bragging about being hit on... didn't know how to react.yeah but it doesnt actually punish the behaviour hes wanting it to. Punishment needs to be swift and uncertain. Him punishing her there will just stop her from telling him, its not going to stop her flirting | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 10:54 AM |
| 4 | Field Report: When plates trust their friends...He can still get ya mate. You walk in, the dentist's face is covered with one of those cloth things, has a hairnet and glasses. "Have a seat sir" "ooh, this canine really needs to come out, its rotten to the core!" | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 08:44 AM |
| 5 | Hold your frame. It changes women.What's with walking away from the group on the beach? Were you in a hurry to get somewhere? If not, it really seems like this is a lack of social grace | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 12:04 AM |
| -2 | "You need to learn how to deal with me"Was OP really over-explaining? He admittedly said two lines of text to her in that whole exchange. Two sentences. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 11:30 PM |
| 80 | "You need to learn how to deal with me"lol, thats disgusting dude | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Very Short FR - Dont be a beta buxIf he does this often, it is likely he would get a conditioned response to jiu-jitsu through pavlovian conditioning (repeatedly pairing sex with jiu-jitsu). Then during jiu-jitsu, he may start getting hard (a conditioned response) due to the above pairing. Of course, this association is weakened every time he does jiu-jisu/thinks about jiu-jitsu without sex present. My point is, you better keep training jiu-jitsu at least as often as you have sex, otherwise you could be in for some awkward momen… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Very Short FR - Dont be a beta buxi dunno why, but i think about ice. a big ice cube, slowly melting. Works for me | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 12:09 AM |
| 16 | Girls are funshe is rationalising her tolerating/enjoying his arrogant behaviour due to the fact she finds him so attractive. If she didnt do this, she would have cognitive dissonance due to the competing thoughts about him ("hes so dreamy, smart and wonderful" vs "hes such an arrogant prick"). To ease this dissonance, she can either change her behaviour (not find him attractive anymore - this is hard), or she can reinterpret his behaviour ("hes charming!" - this is easy) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 12:00 AM |
| 1 | 14 Things Every Fat Girl Absolutely Needs to HearI think the point he is making is that for skinny guys, they are used to not eating much. When they start lifting and bulking, it is a huge increase in the amount of food they have to eat. For a big guy who has been lifting a while, he is not going to start eating literally twice as much going from cut to bulk, its a difference of like 500 calories Proportionally, for a skinny guy who has just started lifting, its a shitload of food | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 11:54 PM |
| 8 | The importance of weightlifting with TRP - it's not just for your bodyHah, this seems great for shits and giggles Unfortunately, i'm hoping OP wont do this for his kids' sake | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 10:59 AM |
| 3 | "I'll come over...but I'm not having sex with you" (multiple layers of meaning)As long as he writes the long version the first time he uses the acronym (like he did), it's easy to understand what he means. This is commonplace for any use of acronyms in writing | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 11:38 PM |
| 1 | An Assortment of Red Pill Reports/Studies (PDFs)No, its description does NOT sound like psychotic behaviour. Psychotic behaviour are things like hallucinations, delusions. Stop throwing around terms if you don't know what they mean. Who was talking about the dark triad? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 11:28 PM |
| 0 | An Assortment of Red Pill Reports/Studies (PDFs)I dont know what you're on about with this "actually.." bs and "psychologists know EXACTLY what to look for" I've had a whole year studying under one of the leading psychopathy researchers in the world, so dont try and cram this "ACTUALLY PSYCHOLOGIST KNOW EXACTLY WHAT TO LOOK FOR" crap down my throat I know what personality disorders are, i don't know why you brought them up though | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 04:10 AM |
| 0 | An Assortment of Red Pill Reports/Studies (PDFs)Well, most of that is just your opinion. You do talk as if you have the concept nailed down: "...referring to 4 different types of anti social behaviour when you refer to "psychopathy" and not actually psychopathy in and of itself". I'm just stating what the current research is pointing to Regarding the abuse/genetics thing. Not all abused kids go on to become psychopaths, and it is most likely there is an underlying genetic predisposition which works in tandem with trauma/learning history Edit:… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 12:13 AM |
| 9 | rebuttal to "The odds of being attacked by a shark is 1 in 3,784,067, while a woman's odds of being raped by a man is 1 in 6. Yet the fear of sharks is rational, while being cautious of men is seen as misandry."This is the thing people don't get. It's rediculous. Some women need to realise that while they dont "deserve" to be raped, and its not "their fault", their actions usually do contribute to the situation. Oh, you got blackout drunk and someone raped you? Oh, you walked through a park in a miniskirt at 2am by yourself? Well, there are steps you could have taken to avoid that situation entirely. There is a disgusting removal of women's accountability and agency in the discourse about rape. This is… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 12:59 PM |
| 6 | An Assortment of Red Pill Reports/Studies (PDFs)People talk about psychopathy as if they have it nailed down as a concept. Newsflash: in the psychological literature, there is no real consensus as to what psychopathy is. The most agreed upon model is the triarchic model of psychopathy, which is basically as follows: Psychopathy is made up by a constellation of 3 traits 1) disinhibition - problems with impulse control 2) Boldness 3) Meanness It is also seen as having a large genetic influence (like most personality traits) and it is much more … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Society and Doctors Think It's Okay to Cuckold Youim now slightly confused, but what i meant was that we could essentially get our offspring raised by a couple of parents with no responsibility ourselves | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Best way to see some truth about women you normally wouldn't? Talk to someone who has a female roommate.Well, there is obviously going to be some sort of continuum from "talks loads of shit" to "doesnt talk much shit" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Best way to see some truth about women you normally wouldn't? Talk to someone who has a female roommate.Jesus christ... bloody tampons on the floor? HOW DOES THAT EVER FLY? If one of my female flatmates did that, i would call them out on it immediately and i am certain they would feel the utmost embarassment On a side note, one of my female flatmates (the one i share a bathroom with) didnt clean the bathroom for a solid 3 months after moving in | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Society and Doctors Think It's Okay to Cuckold YouOr on the other end of the too-nice -> asshole spectrum, is it up to us to spread our genes through their women? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Society and Doctors Think It's Okay to Cuckold YouIt's probably not that they are lieing per se. Self report data is just not very accurate. People are not always great at identifying what they do. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Society and Doctors Think It's Okay to Cuckold Youthe fact remains you are waaaaaay more likely to get sued in america than in countries where being sued for this stuff is just not possible, morality aside. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 09:45 AM |
| 3 | In epigenetic studies, it is revealed that the health of women leading up to conception, during pregnancy, and post-partum has a significant effect on the developmental health of their children. Pointing this fact out is blaming mothers and women. [NPR link in post]We don't really know if the increase in developmental disabilities is actually an increase, or just greater awareness/detection/diagnosis | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 09:34 AM |
| 2 | From clinical anxiety to beast mode - advice on success with women and diminishing social and approach anxietythe very notion of cheat days baffles me. People seem to pretend they dont matter, but they obviously do. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 12:24 PM |
| 18 | So, I met the "Other Man" today."You pretend that somehow you are better off and that he is the lesser man in all this" Of course, the OP is better off as hes now not looking after an unfaithful wife. The other man is lesser as he has essentially been cuckolded into a relationship with a deteriorating woman with 3 kids | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 03:42 AM |
| 16 | not alpha fucks? don't despair.expire is a bit of a stretch, it implies they are rancid after that I'd say they have a best before date instead, its more accurate | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Therapy? Is it a good place for men to get help? What are your experiences?I didnt say it isnt effective, i said it isnt AS EFFECTIVE AS CBT, which is true. Don't twist my words, thanks. Honestly, your arguments are borderline retarded dude, dont put words in my mouth. CBT stands for cognitive BEHAVIOURAL therapy. Half of the fucking thing is about getting a person to change their behaviour to things like exercising and socialising if these were lacking in their life. You have just supplied articles showing something that i never disagreed with... exercising alone is N… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 10:59 AM |
| 0 | Therapy? Is it a good place for men to get help? What are your experiences?"most psychological studies tend to be poorly controlled" - with your psyc degree you should know that good meta-analyses will only include studies they deem to fit a certain criteria (e.g. well controlled). Furthermore, it's basically impossible to have a perfectly scientifically sound study with mental disorders, as there is an ethical responsibility to provide the best treatment (CBT or meds), so a waitlist control is usually the best option. "this matches other studies i've read". I dont car… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I reveal my HSV+ status to a new plate?how does it usually work out? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 10:52 AM |
| 0 | Therapy? Is it a good place for men to get help? What are your experiences?please link me to these studies, I will provide evidence to back up my point and i sincerely hope you do the same. You say to check my studies? Here ya go, mate: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3584580/ press CTRL+F and type in "depression and dysthymia". Read that section. In a review of meta analyses, cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) for depression was significantly more effective than no treatment, and equal or greater than other treatments (some studies showed CBT = other psyc… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Therapy? Is it a good place for men to get help? What are your experiences?It sounds like your situation is a lot different than someone with a mental health issue of clinical significance. For someone with depression or an anxiety disorder, therapy has been proven to be effective, and requires a number of visits | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Robin Williams' divorce rapeDepression can be thought of as having a biological/genetic component, as well as being triggered by negative life events There is research showing that significant negative life events (e.g. a bad divorce, losing your job, an injury in some sort of accident, death of a loved one) act in a cummulative way. Risk of depression goes up with each one, although after around 4 of those events there is a significant jump in risk. So its like this: An underlying vulnerability (genetic component) is trig… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How to Respond to a Disrespectful WomanThat is probably a lot of the reason behind 1) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How to Respond to a Disrespectful WomanEveryone is somewhat a product of their reinforcement histories. We are all animals. If i seemingly spontaneously give you money every time you brush your hand through your hair, you will start doing it more and more | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period.You're right, im not a doctor and i know nothing about that medical condition. However, I'm training as a clinical psychologist and am completeing my phd in behavioural psychology, so i do know a little bit about what can cause/maintain difficulties. Although, obviously you are a greater expert on your life than anybody else, let alone someone who has just read a post of yours on a forum. My point wasn't to try and bag you. You were ignorant of what was causing your problem (i don't mean this in… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period.Its very impressive that you can make a comeback after such a rough start, man. In your case, it sounds like you had some significant difficulties you had to overcome. Taking a position of "its not my fault" opens one up to a sense of determinism, being resigned to their fate, etc | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 04:22 AM |
| 12 | How to Respond to a Disrespectful WomanI'd like to add a little something that is well known in behavioural psychology literature: For a punishment to be effective in deterring a certain behaviour, it has to be 1) Swift, 2) unavoidable Taking a while to do the enforce step will most likely lead to ineffective punishment which doesnt decrease the behaviour at all. This is an effect that is consistent across animals and humans | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 04:19 AM |
| 6 | redditor introduces his gorgeous gf to gonewild. She becomes very popular. A couple months later, she's fucking other redditorsheh yeah rice isnt actually the bad. My point was more that we have to eat lots. Since i started working out, i have roughly doubled my food intake (while cutting out any shitty foods). A significant portion of my day is spent eating, let alone preparing food | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 04:16 AM |
| 2 | redditor introduces his gorgeous gf to gonewild. She becomes very popular. A couple months later, she's fucking other redditorsits basically a case study in perceived SMV, and how inviting thousands of men to view your wife naked may result. It's relevant to everyday behaviour such as trying to get your GF to dress more seductively when you go out At the end of the day, its just an example of hour people are influenced by their environment and the behaviour of others. Dont really see what your problem is | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 02:00 AM |
| 10 | redditor introduces his gorgeous gf to gonewild. She becomes very popular. A couple months later, she's fucking other redditorsWe dont just have to do both, we also have to shovel a shit-ton of brown rice into our faces | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 01:49 AM |
| 14 | How to Respond to a Disrespectful Womanagreed, reading through that step is certainly missing . "deliver your consequence"- what does this mean? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period."its not attractive to me"... THATS just social conditioning doe! Sometimes its nice to be able to expand on why it might be attractive to you (evolutionary biology is hard to argue with) | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period.I imagine the men on TRP are significantly different than other reddit men | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period.I get what you're saying, but i think it skirts around the issue. Essentially, you are improving yourself while hoping she will feel the need to do the same. The thing is, exercise is hard for a fatty who never does it. It's very easy to hamster away needing to do so (He luuurrrves me, im perfect to him). Telling them that their weight is causing problems gets the issue out there. It becomes something they cant hamster away as easily You're right that it can come across as shallow, but it depend… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period.Yup. Two different approaches to dealing with cognitive dissonance right there. How do we reduce the mental discomfort caused by seeing oneself out of shape while simultaneously wanting to be attractive? Two different approaches Men: Actively seek to change the shape (solve the problem itself) Women: Change their cognitions. Read congratulatory magazines, watch Glee, You go girl! I'm a real woman with curves! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period.Meh, anyone can rationalise their situation in life like that. "its not my fault im fat, my parents started feeding me McDonalds from a young age and we never ate healthy or exercised" At a certain point, you have to put that shit on a shelf and look at what you could do/have done to be better physically. You lost weight due to your behaviour, you were fat when you didnt do this behaviour. There may have been significant predisposing/maintaining factors that were outside your control, but it is … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 10:56 PM |
| 4 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period.sounds great but you will hit a plateau most likely. If you just want fitness its fine, but if you want to get bigger you're goign to need to get progressively harder exercises | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 10:50 PM |
| 15 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period."Daaaaad, not in front of the guys!" | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Women: if you gain weight, you will become less attractive to men. Period.Pointing out that she is only XX pounds and XX height is hiding the truth and she knows it. My recent ex tried this... she gained weight during our relationship and was a shorter girl. I let her know that I was less attracted to her because of her weight gain, and that is was going to cause problems. She tried to pull the "I weighed myself, im only 55 kg". Yes, but you are constantly buying flattering clothing (read - ponchos) and hiding your gut from me when getting dressed. There was an excess… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 10:46 PM |
| 2 | People NEED to be lead. My experience going full RP to lead my house boating tripthe Ben Franklin effect is the result of cognitive dissonance. You're doing a favour for someone, and you can have various thoughts about this: 1) I'm doing xAFC a favour, cos hes a cool guy, i actually don't mind doing the favour! 2) I'm doing xAFC a favour, cos he asked, but its annoying and i dont want to do it. option 1) leaves you with no cognitive dissonance (mental discomfort caused by two competing thoughts_ option 2) leaves you with cognitive dissonance - you're doing a favour but you d… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 07:53 AM |
| 21 | I feel like I was in a Red Pill cartoon last night. Attention whore Vs. nice girl at our party.a 6.5/10 with a good personality who has a slim body in their early 20s? Not that rare.. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 07:41 AM |
| 1 | "A good boyfriend"It sounds like when you told him she grabbed your cock you didnt say it in a way to get the point across (it sounds like you just blurted it out, which he may have taken as some friendly "ribbing" or watever) I know this stuff is easy in hindsight, but for future reference it seems like the better idea would be to take him aside so you are both alone and say something that would reveal the gravity of the situation: "Hey dude. Im going to tell you something that just happened, and i want you to k… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Cant tell if my flatmate is attracted to me, hates me, or is just a bitchyeah, fair point dude. I can take that on the chin I'm not all upset about it i just haven't had this experience with flatmates before | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Cant tell if my flatmate is attracted to me, hates me, or is just a bitchI would definately still care if she was a guy, for the same reasons. I am absolutely not creeping on her. I don't find her attractive at all in any way shape or form | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Cant tell if my flatmate is attracted to me, hates me, or is just a bitchYou make a good point. I probably shouldn't care. I guess with other people if they dont like me we can just avoid each other, but someone you live with you see almost every day. It becomes an awkward situation where you see them and exchange pleasantries which are fake if you just genuinely don't give a shit | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 09:58 AM |
| 6 | Woman on HuffPost Live sheds her solipsism and opens her mind to the male view on what sex means in a relationship. Results bear fruit.Opportunity cost may be what you meant to say (i.e. if there are other things worth doing more) I think you may have meant "response effort". That is if the effort you put into fucking her isnt worth the reward. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Question for the "Elders"I'm by no means an elder here, but i have a question. Is your girl slim because she works out a lot (i.e. great body), or slim because she is naturally slim? If its the latter, her metabolism will slow down in the next decade and you may end up with a meat-bomb on your hands | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Woman explains how she got over her "bad boy phase" now wants marriage and children. AFBB confirmedBy cognitive dissonance do you mean irony? She likely has very little cognitive dissonance... Cognitive dissonance is the mental discomfort caused by holding two competing beliefs at the same time. Yes she is a "great woman" who slept around and fucked losers, but she has hamstered this away as being her "finding myself" period. She hamstered her behaviour away to REDUCE any cognitive dissonance. The term gets misused a LOT in the TRP community. As humans we are generally motivated to avoid disc… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 03:16 AM |
| 12 | Grow a beardmy jeans became skinny when i started lifting, purely accidentally | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Grow a beardCant grow a beard, feeling a bit like a mangina after reading that! haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Line between joking and trying to put somebody downi'm not a violent guy, although this guy is such a pussy i would handle him easily. Generally i just start giving him shit back, hes an easier target and takes things personally so my barbs sting more than his. E.g. he goes to sleep at like 8.30pm every night so i can start calling him grandpa, is doing a long degree that will give him little to no job prospects, is the worst at all physical activities among our friends. I would never challange him to a fight, as this would show i have lost my c… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Why they hate us is pretty simple, their relationships always end up with the guy begging or being cuckoldedAlong the same lines, sperm banks A very interesting operation in terms of evolutionary strategy | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 11:44 PM |
| 13 | FR: How could she think that this would work?yeah that was a great read! It's great that you handed her enough rope to hang herself with the phone situation | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Line between joking and trying to put somebody downyeah, its totally contextually dependent. One of my best friends takes the piss out of me a LOT, but he gets it in return. The kind of telling factor here is that he would NEVER do this around some girls, or in a situation where he is trying to make himself look good in comparison (trying to elevate status by pushing me down). This guy is a champ. One of my other best friends, will only try and make jokes at my expense if there are girls around (trying to elevate his status), whenever he does th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Humanitarian blue piller realizes he's been cuckolded.im inclined to believe it was just a blowjob. i know we are big believers of trickle truth, but Jack had no reason to lie at that point. None. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 11:28 PM |
| 7 | Increased sexual interest from Women after bulking-up/muscles?if you eat properly you can expect to have comments from people within 3 months about you looking good etc | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Increased sexual interest from Women after bulking-up/muscles?exact same transformation for me over just >3months with corresponding increase in female attention (although id say may twice as much) I dont think it's purely due to the size. My posture is much better. I stand a lot straighter and just feel like a champ. These things have an effect on my own mentality as well as others' edit: reading this while eating oats+peanut butter right before hitting the gym :D | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Figured out something important about sexual withdrawal and the nature of women. Why you MUST not lose frame in the face of continual sexual denials....Amazing. I guess you could call her blowing a fuse an extinction burst, after you put her into extinction by withdrawing all of your sources of reinforcement. Bravo | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/14 03:40 AM |
| 14 | TRP from the perspective of an old man (33 yrs old)But everyone doesnt lift dude... Most people dont | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 12:28 AM |
| 8 | TRP from the perspective of an old man (33 yrs old)agreed, Bustersin is comparing apples and oranges here. "It's hard to be corporate success in the >90th percentile range, much harder than being fit in the >40th percentile range". What if we compared becoming a competition worthy bodybuilder vs gaining an entry level corporate job... which takes more dedication and effort? This is the reverse of what his example is doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 12:26 AM |
| 31 | TRP from the perspective of an old man (33 yrs old)you obviously know nothing about body dysmorphia. It's a fanatical obsession with certain part(s) of ones body, where you look in the mirror and you actually see something different than what actually exists. They actually see themselves differently. On top of this, it causes significant impairment in certain parts of their lives (social, educational, work, etc) Wanting muscles to appear more masculine is not body dysmorphia. I take issue with two other things you've said. 1) getting swoll is ch… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Redditor has a dead bedroom, wife goes away for a work trip, gets back and starts fucking him again. Guy gets suspicious, and is totally justified.you seem to be confused about what cognitive dissonance actually is | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 04:16 AM |
| 14 | Redditor has a dead bedroom, wife goes away for a work trip, gets back and starts fucking him again. Guy gets suspicious, and is totally justified.Right, in many cases, gaslighting is just a biproduct of covering their own ass. It's not always that they've set out to cripple you mentally Not that this makes it any better | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 04:15 AM |
| 23 | LTR -wife keeps mentioning a new guy at work. How do I respond?legs should be playing footsies with Jonnys wife while maintaining eye contact | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 10:17 PM |
| 24 | ITP: 29 year old woman hits the wall. Wants her AF/BBplease show us some transcripts, i would love to vicariously enjoy this pleasure | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 09:15 AM |
| 8 | You guys are going to love my story. BP, RP, field report, and askRP in one. Grab a seat gents.Honestly, my advice is to cut your losses and cease contact forever Keep in mind im not a parent. She seems so fucking insane, do you really want her in your life? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 11:35 AM |
| 0 | Joe Rogan: Excellent example of a strong alpha frame. He embodyies TRP principlesOur brains still develop until typically 25 (mostly frontal regions). The damage appears to be more located in the temporal/parietal lobes though so your claim of 18 is probably more accurate I personally wasted a good deal of time (age 16->early twenties) abusing marijuana. Like most things, you can use it responsibly and relatively safely or you can go overboard which will have a negative influence on your life | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Joe Rogan: Excellent example of a strong alpha frame. He embodyies TRP principleslook on google.scholar for studies on the effects of certain drugs. Marijuana is known as being harmful to the brain of adolescents (probably anywhere from childhood -> 25 or so). It seems safe for adults | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 09:08 AM |
| 2 | I've Fucked Your Wife. Lessons From A Nightclub: Bachelorette EditionWhat you are talking about is basically the distinction between discrimination and prejudice. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 04:00 AM |
| -3 | I've Fucked Your Wife. Lessons From A Nightclub: Bachelorette Editioncalling him insecure is way overstepping the information he has provided here Claiming it's a defense mechanism also implies that there is something wrong, yet there is no real evidence of this It seems just as likely (if not more so) that he just enjoys fucking taken women because he gets a kick out of it. There is nothign to suggest it is a defense mechanism. Fuck outta here with that amatuer psychology bullshit | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Starting TRP. Circumstances extremely against me, need to work harder.Yeah there is some subjectivity. The point was that the OP said "You need to eat 6000 calories + to bulk". This is not true for the vast majority of people who read this, and would end up getting them really fat | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Starting TRP. Circumstances extremely against me, need to work harder.yeah, that is by no means true for most people I gained 10kg (22 pounds) in 3 months by eating 3000 calories a day. If i was eating 6000 i would have also have gotten very fat I'm 6ft and was 69 KG to start with, so its not like i was that tiny. Even at 80kg, i still only need to eat just over 3000 calories to continue growing | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 09:34 AM |
| 22 | "Look at me... Look at me... Look at me... HEY WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT YOU PERV!!!" Why do women do this?it doesnt bother me if an ugly girl is checking me out, not in the slightest I'd wager that is true for most men. Basically, your argument falls short at the very first hurdle. Women complain and call various men "creepy" for looking at them, men don't do this | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 04:38 AM |
| 0 | What marriage REALLY means for a womenThe first thing I think about every morning is: "I'm gonna stick my dick so far up insert name of random girl i must have been thinking about's ass" No joke, that is literally what runs through my head every morning as soon as i wake up. Jeeeesus | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 11:26 PM |
| -1 | Do looks really matter?I agree that every person is unique, but why cant we classify people based on attractiveness? Don't push your subjective morals on us | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 04:02 AM |
| 1 | My collection of Women's lies and Blue Pill Myths you MUST IGNORE IMMEDIATELY (For Newbs)"You said smarter. Show me the study that says smarter" Intelligence is a notoriously vague and "un-nailed down" concept. IQ tests basically test a range of different areas of functioning which the test designers have deemed to be part of "intelligence". We shouldnt let this debate go into exactly what is intelligence as it will never end. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Classic Beta Fag Behaviour. (Humour)Granted, people look down on betas as being pussies etc, usually as a reflection of their past self. However, you call them fags like you hate them or something? I dont get it. They are humans just like you | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Easy Way to Practice Dominancewink at him. Winking at someone automatically makes them your bitch | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Lifting weights isn't everythingI lift mostly for aesthetics, which those sports wont do as well for me. The likelihood of me getting into a fight is slim. Basically, those skills aren't that useful if you aren't going to use them | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Why Gym toned men are a huge turnoff.For me, motivation at the start was easy. You feel a big difference so quickly, that it is almost addictive | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 07:42 AM |
| 0 | I found a "good woman" now I'm in dilemmaShe's a 7 now, at her peak. From a females perspective, you sound like a stud. Good body, outstanding career prospects. Your smv is going to skyrocket and hers is going to be in a gradual decline Looking at it objectively from what you've told us, it is clear you should move on. You will be able to score better when your smv is higher. Start a family with the best | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Experiencing "crabs in the bucket" effects from friends and family (all BPs). How do -you- deal with the crabs?Its not a well paid profession here, so most people who become teachers just did so because they didnt know what else to do | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Experiencing "crabs in the bucket" effects from friends and family (all BPs). How do -you- deal with the crabs?Having your own place must help. My flatmate (P.E. teacher) has decided to start worrying about my supplements (100% whey isolate, BCAAs). him: Have you researched the ingredients? me: Its amino acids him: reading back "Potassium"! your gonna need to read up on that man, it cant be good me: ? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 03:19 AM |
| 3 | My friend's girlfriends are trying to give me shit for hooking up with 18-20 year old girls off of TinderWhen you turn 45 i hope you remember your position on this | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts On My Personal DevelopmentThis seems like great advice OP. I'll add a caveat to the personal trainer thing. Get a few sessions in with a personal trainer that knows what they are doing (i.e. get the jacked looking PT, rather than the female one) A PT will be able to help you with form a lot, whereas by yourself you may not notice what you are doing wrong | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts On My Personal Developmentget bigger/stronger, dress better The first is a lot harder than simply changing your glasses (they look fine to me, but what do i know), but will probably pay off the most | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 02:20 AM |
| 2 | 2 years of increasing smv.isnt it just a matter of calories in, calories out? For the most part at least I.e. if you are doing cardio + weights and eating 500 calories above maintenance, you should be gaining muscle This is assuming that the cardio isnt hurting your lifting performance. I typically do about 15 mins of cardio every day before lifting (waiting for friend) and i dont think it hurts at all. This 15 mins stacks up over the week to where i've done about 75 mins of cardio | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with Dark Triads in Every-Day Lifeumm.. You can have various personallity traits without them being clinical disorders. Even if you fit all the criteria for a certain disorder EXCEPT the one which reads "... results in clinically significant impairment" then you WONT fit the criteria for being diagnosed with that disorder (this is true for almost every disorder). The people the OP is referring to, clearly are not living lives where their career/family life/education etc are being ruined by their personality traits. So they would… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 02:06 AM |
| 3 | I've yet to hear a valid answer to this question on the "$.77 to every $1" wage gap stat.statisitical significance is highly influenced by sample size. A 1% difference can be statisically significant if the sample size is large enough You would need to look at the results/data yourself and make conclusions from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 12:06 AM |
| 2 | I've yet to hear a valid answer to this question on the "$.77 to every $1" wage gap stat.hitting the nail on the head | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 12:04 AM |
| 4 | New Zealand leftists plan to change rape law to reverse the burden of proof from the accuser to the accused. If accused of rape, one will have to prove innocence or be automatically found guilty.they wont be able to show that sex took place (and men wont admit to fucking a girl they didnt fuck), so the complaint would go nowhere This is truly dangerous territory when it comes to "regret" rape accusations, as men will admit the sex happened and then BAM -> Rapist. Lucky for us, labour wont be getting into power. However, it is still a sign of the times | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 04:39 AM |
| 1 | New Zealand leftists plan to change rape law to reverse the burden of proof from the accuser to the accused. If accused of rape, one will have to prove innocence or be automatically found guilty.I live in NZ, and am legitimately concerned for my future | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 04:26 AM |
| 1 | TheRedPill and Depression.i can only imagine the look on my flatmates' faces, hahaha | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Yay! Male crotch watching celebrated ... I wonder if men are now supposed to feel bad about being victims of "female-gaze"?I'm happy for girls to stare at my cock. Lap it up ladies | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 09:50 AM |
| 3 | TheRedPill and Depression.I want to preface this reply by saying that if you really think you have depression, then see your GP and ask them to refer you to a clinical psychologist. They will be able to help immensely if this is the case, especially if you are motivated to improve your situation. Otherwise... im interested in what makes you think it was "severe" depression. This would look something like you refusing to wash, refusing to get up and make any food even though you are starving, shuffling your feet while wal… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 09:44 AM |
| 1 | NZ head opposition minister apologises for "being male"i just cant see the rationale behind his statement. It loses him more votes than it gains. The only people who will be sympathetic are the people who vote for his party anyway | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 12:00 PM |
| 1 | NZ head opposition minister apologises for "being male"Yeah, but unlikely he will be the leader of them after the election (8 weeks) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 11:59 AM |
| 2 | NZ head opposition minister apologises for "being male"there is roughly a 0% chance he has enough personality to pull that, haha | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 11:59 AM |
| 1 | NZ head opposition minister apologises for "being male"There is no way this gets him elected, if anything it pushes him further away. It shows how far removed from reality he is, and he looks like a suckup loser | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 11:57 AM |
| 3 | I feel like my entire social network is turning on meGet a job man. You can look for the "perfect' job while you are working some other shit in the mean time. Get a job, move out of home. Your relationship with your parents will improve greatly. From your last paragraph, it sounds like you're giving up on your own life. The world doesn't owe you anything, but from your last sentence it sounds like you think it does. People are going to do what benefits them most, especially in a western society. Nobody is going to look after you apart from yoursel… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Feminist Funnies #10: (VIDEO) Feminists Interrupt a presentation at the University of Iowa by president, Sally Mason and play the name and shame card. Stay classy, Feminists.if the president was the one talking, she didnt ignore them at all, but responded to lots of their comments and talked about them when they left? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 11:49 AM |
| 6 | Feminist Funnies #10: (VIDEO) Feminists Interrupt a presentation at the University of Iowa by president, Sally Mason and play the name and shame card. Stay classy, Feminists.hmm yeah you're totally right | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 11:48 AM |
| 6 | Feminist Funnies #10: (VIDEO) Feminists Interrupt a presentation at the University of Iowa by president, Sally Mason and play the name and shame card. Stay classy, Feminists.yeah completely overlooked that | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 11:48 AM |
| 2 | I feel like my entire social network is turning on meI'm interested in your parents' thoughts. They must have thought you were "ill" at some point before you got angry at them for calling you ill, so i think there is more to this than you are letting on. Do they think you have anger issues? A drug problem? I wouldn't say your parents have uneducated opinions, they've known you your whole life and know a heck of a lot about you. They are certainly not novices most likely. being unemployed with no hobbies is CERTAINLY a problem. Do something about t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 08:53 AM |
| -17 | Feminist Funnies #10: (VIDEO) Feminists Interrupt a presentation at the University of Iowa by president, Sally Mason and play the name and shame card. Stay classy, Feminists.can someone explain to me why this is bad? Those girls are exercising their rights to free speech, watevs. A 0 tolerance policy for rape seems okay, as long as its for people convicted of rape, not just accused of rape. Please enlighten me | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: She Just Couldn't Get Enough.fair enough, i believe that personal experience is a valid form of "evidence", although extremely subjective and prone to the confirmation bias etc. The reason i thought you havent read was your comment that abstaining for 7 days causes a "45% increase across the board". If you read the study and this is your summary of it, thats extremely misleading given that the levels drop back to normal after the 7 days. I realise its probably an honest mistake | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: She Just Couldn't Get Enough.http://link.springer.com/article/10.1631%2Fjzus.2003.0236#page-1 I found this after searching for around 5 minutes on google scholar. Basically, this found that testosterone among 28 participants on day 0 of nofap was = days 1 through 6. On day 7 there was a spike in testosterone, on day 8 its bake to baseline level = day 0. This is probably the exact study you referenced above, except you obviously didnt bother to read it. You cherrypicked (or listened to someone else who cherrypicked) part of … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Field Report: She Just Couldn't Get Enough.like the guy above said there is a bunch of evidence either way. One study doesnt prove a whole lot when there is a bunch saying the opposite too | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: She Just Couldn't Get Enough.sounds like your friend is a clown... how is cutting out processed foods and sugar not going to reap rewards? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Field Report: She Just Couldn't Get Enough.by "test boost" you probably mean "placebo effect". There are studies showing that nofap doesn't increase testosterone Either way, if it works it works! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 10:37 AM |
| 2 | I need to stop smoking weed. Any tips to make it easier?The potential withdrawal effects are relatively minor - hard time falling asleep, early wakening (like 4 hours after u start sleeping), feeling unrested etc. These can last for a couple weeks. Disturbed sleep is the only real withdrawal effect found iirc That being said, there are no real physical cravings. This means it's all mental. If you want to quit, just stop smoking it. Stop buying it. Throw away your bongs/pipes etc. Your willpower alone should be enough to stop smoking weed | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 09:18 PM |
| 13 | Got slapped by a fat girl last night and got told to leave. What do?"he'd get more of the same". I dunno what bouncers are like in your area, but here if you get physical with a bouncer things are not going to go well for you. They certainly wont end with him in a wristlock apologising. OP i think either you call the cops or let it go and move on. If you didnt get kicked out you could have ordered a drink and then tipped it on her head | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Stood up for myself last night. Feels awesome.umm... ice is a hard substance and that cracking you on the cheekbone can cause pain. That bartender deserved to be told off like the petty little child she was acting like | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 04:32 AM |
| 6 | Feminism's dirty little secret: blatant and stunning racism and white privilege.One of the first times i realised TRP was on the money and feminism was fucked, was when my otherwise intelligent feminist friend (female) went on a rant about guys having a "fetish" for asian women. She was claiming they were "fetishised" and its degrading to them Fucking lol at her. I responded (rookie mistake, i know) with "i dont think its a fetish for most people, its probably more that they behave in a certain way from being raised in more traditional cultures and men are drawn to it". She… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 12:14 PM |
| 6 | Preselection on easy mode.I don't understand why they actually believe it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 11:06 PM |
| 1 | What this all boils down to. Read this.Agreed. There is virtually no risk in searching for a job while you still have a job | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Men And Women Are Not EqualI don't give a shit if they turn 99% of guys into massive pussies. Theoretically, that should make it easier for me to get laid and be dominant | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 09:57 AM |
| 6 | What this all boils down to. Read this.This seems like a defeatist attitude. Surely there are ways you can make more money? E.g. in your old job, you could have constantly been on the lookout for new jobs that would pay more. Apply to as many as possible, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 09:35 AM |
| 1 | 28 year old goes to TwoXChromosomes for support because The Wall is approaching. She wonders if she should have been so "relaxed" about dating and she says she's scared about "freezing eggs" to have kids. She wants to know what she has to do to make guys like her as 30 looms. Classic Wall anxiety.Heh, you could be fixated on worse things than socks hey. You're totally right about the "spectrum" side of it too. Autism can range from debilitating with a poor quality of life right up to relatively mild forms (what people used to call asbergers). The savants like Derek are almost exclusively the ones with the relatively mild impairment, and never the poor souls who have had their lives destroyed (from a normal point of view at least) | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 08:19 AM |
| 1 | A few quick mantras I've picked up from this subreading this while waiting for the call from the gym-bro, cap'n | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 04:39 AM |
| 7 | feminists define the type of men who like casual sex.Having lots of sexual partners lowers a woman's SMP value. This is a truth. Do you want a woman with 2 partners or a woman with 200? The same is not as true for men. I'd wager this has been the way of the world for centuries, probably even since we were cavemen. How are we supposed to try and turn this preference on its head? Why should we even try? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 04:30 AM |
| 11 | Recently post-wall woman [31f] is literally making a pro/con list on paper comparing her new Beta Boy to her previous (likely Alpha) boyfriend, and is practically sexting her ex right in front of her new Beta. Hypergamy is a hell of a drug.Ah, cognitive fluency. Nowadays, this is so normal and unsuprising to you that it just all fits into place. Before finding this place, these things would seem abnormal, and much less cognitively fluent - this makes them harder to understand and believe. There has been a bunch of research on fluency, and it is thoroughly interesting. For instance, people are more likely to believe something written in bold text than something that is faded like a poor photocopy job. Relating to TRP and a bunch of… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Super confused about how TRP handles LTR or GF's going out without themI think it depends a lot on your girlfriend and the circumstances. If she's getting dolled up frequently (i'd consider monthly as frequently) to hit the clubs without you, and you know she will be drinking a bit, then imo its a problem. If my Gf did this i would let her know it's not appropriate. If she continued while knowing i had a problem with it then she wouldn't be my GF anymore On the other hand, if its an infrequent thing and you think its more of a legitimate thing (e.g. her friends bir… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 09:06 AM |
| 1 | 28 year old goes to TwoXChromosomes for support because The Wall is approaching. She wonders if she should have been so "relaxed" about dating and she says she's scared about "freezing eggs" to have kids. She wants to know what she has to do to make guys like her as 30 looms. Classic Wall anxiety.You are correct. Paternal age is still a factor for autism though Someone posted this earlier in a differnet thread: http://drexel.edu/now/news-media/releases/archive/2014/April/Autism-Risk-Older-Parents/ I guess it depends on what you think is an acceptable risk. Also, with these graphs they have skewed the x-axis (horizontal scale) to look worse for men - notice how it goes up to 60 for men but only 45 for women? Now mentally change the male one to end at 45 and stretch it to the same size and… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 08:57 AM |
| 1 | 28 year old goes to TwoXChromosomes for support because The Wall is approaching. She wonders if she should have been so "relaxed" about dating and she says she's scared about "freezing eggs" to have kids. She wants to know what she has to do to make guys like her as 30 looms. Classic Wall anxiety.Not quite "as much a factor", but paternal age is certainly a factor | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 08:50 AM |
| 5 | 28 year old goes to TwoXChromosomes for support because The Wall is approaching. She wonders if she should have been so "relaxed" about dating and she says she's scared about "freezing eggs" to have kids. She wants to know what she has to do to make guys like her as 30 looms. Classic Wall anxiety.autism has a variety of features. One person with autism will often have a vastly different presentation than another person with autism. One common feature is that the person may have a seemingly strange fixation with a certain thing (e.g. they may have a fascination with leaves, and incessently rip them to pieces over and over again). Another person may have a fixation with eating dirt Another common feature is that autistic people may have different taste preferences. They often tend to prefe… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 08:46 AM |
| 3 | On being the most beta person everhaha. Man i have to admit i cracked up with "dont date a fat feminist" ya dont say!? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Alphas don't play video games. Is this true?i dunno, i think a lot of what he says rings true. I played video games way too much in my early twenties. I was good, damn good. I got flown around different countries and won tournaments etc. These days i can see the futility in it. What was i achieving? It was something to do that was fun, and i could avoid any problems or commitments i didnt want to do by escaping into this game-world. Even as a competitive player, unless you are making hundreds of thousands of dollars, its just not worth it… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 03:10 AM |
| -7 | I'm 40 years old and never married...Your posting an anecdote from... your urologist? I didnt realise urologists were specialists. You're providing anecdotes from a dick doctor. Im providing evidence from a well respected journal that has been peer reviewed and held up to scientific rigour. What the fucking fuck? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 02:54 AM |
| 1 | I'm 40 years old and never married...im focussing on autism specifically because that was what the comment was about up above. It wasn't about general health. If autism was just chosen as an example, then it was a poorly chosen example and he should be set straight so he doesnt get caught out saying that shit to someone who is familiar with the research base | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 01:14 AM |
| 0 | I'm 40 years old and never married...I understand the more focus on the mother, that is fine. I'm okay with that, it is consistent with research etc. I'm not okay with people pretending the father has no influence, which is what was happening, and which is stupid. Read the initial comment i responded to at the top, his last line. He sarcastically dismissed a true statement that is based on valid research. I never said that a mothers age is not important. I'm simply saying a father's age also plays a role in autism - which was the s… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 01:08 AM |
| -1 | I'm 40 years old and never married...Wow! you found an irrelevant meaningless correlation! Any person worth their salt can realise that is retarded, that doesnt mean scientific studies are "rarely about truth" Not all science uses correlational studies, and not all correlational studies are bad. You obviously have no idea wtf you are talkign about So what if the main component is the mother? thats not what i was arguing about. A significant part of the risk is paternal age as well, look at the fucking graph that YOU linked. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 01:02 AM |
| -1 | I'm 40 years old and never married...this is laughable. Science is pretty much defined as the empirical search for truth. Life is about drawing inferences from statistics (even if these statistics are just your personal experiences). The graph you linked shows that the risk goes up with the age of both father and mother, although slightly more for mother. compare that to what you say above... the magazine reported correctly. They were correct. They were 100% correct in what they said with regard to a massive amount of scientific li… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 12:29 AM |
| 0 | I'm 40 years old and never married...you've compared two completely different disorders?! You are comparing apples with oranges there my post was in response to the message about autism, i didnt say anything about downsyndrome. Go and compare maternal and paternal age influences on incidence of autism and come back to me. While i wouldnt be suprised if maternal influence is greater, i doubt it will be to that extent. You can probably find this info the the studies i linked Edit: im not saying maternal influences on child health are… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 12:24 AM |
| 2 | [FR] On Increasing SMV and Beta OrbitersI think it's fine to have a female friend. If you were together for a while you both know each other pretty well. Some of the guys' advice above rings true as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 10:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm 40 years old and never married...Perhaps there is evidence that paternal age increases risk of autism too? I've linked some above We should look for evidence before we jump on our high horses regarding this shit. Its easy to find, it took me <1 minute on google.scholar Or, we can continue in our fantasy land where only what we want to be true is true, and not bother to look for any evidence. We will then suffer from the confirmation bias and just ignore any relevant info that isnt consistent with what we believe. You will proba… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 10:13 PM |
| 3 | I'm 40 years old and never married...there is also evidence that autism risk grows with paternal age as well http://pediatricbioscience.com/publications/pdf/Pub17.pdf http://www.nature.com/mp/journal/v16/n12/full/mp2010121a.html "Offspring of men aged greater than or equal to50 years were 2.2 times (95% confidence interval: 1.26–3.88: P=0.006) more likely to have autism than offspring of men aged less than or equal to29 years, after controlling for maternal age" | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Since bettering myself (physically fit and setting my standards higher), what I observed at the waterpark today.why would improving your physique be a bad idea? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 12:10 PM |
| 20 | Post-wall woman ventures into dating world, is shocked to discover that men value physical beauty more than her "goal-oriented" personality and Masters degree.you got duped, i got duped, she got duped. We can empathise with her situation, can we not? Just like i can probably empathise with whatever situation you had. If we understand what happened like we assume we do, why can't we acknowledge the sorrow? I'm not saying she's a special princess who deserves what she wants. The guy was right about her being duped though. Most people dont think through decisions about college as much as they should... heck, our brains arent even fully formed when we mak… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/14 08:42 AM |
| 14 | Post-wall woman ventures into dating world, is shocked to discover that men value physical beauty more than her "goal-oriented" personality and Masters degree.Actually, from what she said it sounds like she wasnt riding the cock carousel (not every single female does). Maybe she actually did and just doesnt want to sound like a slut, but maybe she didnt. This makes it a bit more sad for her. She's slowly realising that not being a slut in her youth hasn't actually worked out as she expected - she is still not highly valued by men. I find the situation slightly amusing although i can empathise with her too. her prime is gone and it's never coming back | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/14 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Possibly the most alpha thing I've ever seen (Xpost r/videos)why? It's pretty hilarious. If another car had crashed into them it would kinda serve "Jack" right, but still. Looked like good times and a story he can tell people for the rest of his life. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/14 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Possibly the most alpha thing I've ever seen (Xpost r/videos)haha... yeah... "Jack you're going to crash my car! Don't crash my car" while she grabs the wheel | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/14 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Alpha Game: Sending signals "Women always find a way of letting you know how they feel, in both a positive and a negative sense"please, do expland on this. What sort of subtle cues? I feel i am good at noticing the "vibe", but im struggling to put into words how it feels/looks | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 04:35 AM |
| 6 | How to Kiss and other basics"stick your tongue in her mouth and wiggle it around" | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Being Divorced is a Status SymbolThe point is that a female wanted to lock him down | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 12:04 AM |
| 3 | "You're getting too skinny." --- My twist on a classic shit test.heh. As a skinny guy who is being rehabilitated this would totally get me. Not long term or anything, but initial reaction id be taken aback | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Be selfish, dismissive, amused, and communicate less -- the keys to successThe communicate point is important, but i think the way you have outlined it is misleading. Communication is important in so far as your partner knows what you want/expect, and vice versa. If there is a problem brewing, e.g. your partner is doing something which you don't like (for example, has taken up smoking ciggarettes), it is important to communicate you are not satisfied with this. Another example would be rewarding behaviour that you want to see happen more often (e.g. giving your partner… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend called me and told me the doctor told her she has Herpes...Fuck herpes dude, you dont want that. Even just reading this has got me paranoid im a latent carrier | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 07:37 AM |
| 3 | How many red pill men are childless by choice? How has it turned out for you? How have you cope staying childless in face of societal and familial pressure?This intrigues me greatly. There are downsides of course, you can't have influence on your offspring to instill values and experience etc On the positive side, you can father HUNDREDS of children, surely one or two have to turn out awesome right? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 07:11 AM |
| 1 | In an experiment a woman is able to cut in line, different outcome for a man howeverIts not that i mind being delayed a minute, or 5 minutes, heck even 10. I'm still gonna get to my destination. It's the fact that i go well out of my way to ensure i am not late. I will get there at least an hour before it is recommended i get there. If you're relying on transport like the bus, then catch one that is so early that if a problem happens you can catch the next one and still get there on time. Friend doesn't show up? Have a contingency plan. The issue isn't that i'm held up for two … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/14 08:44 AM |
| 2 | The difference between being a cool older man women want to know and, well... a beta clone.I see the sence in what you are saying. How do you go about the numbers game here is what i am wondering? I.e. see girl by herself eating lunch (admittedly uncommon) ->> approach? See group of people >>> approach? The first situation is quite rare, especially an attractive female. the 2nd situation may not go down as i would hope. People who are alone are usually walking somewhere or eating | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/14 08:41 AM |
| 2 | The difference between being a cool older man women want to know and, well... a beta clone.how do you typically go about meeting girls at uni? Im interested in this because i dont take classes anymore. I teach some but i have to maintain some sence of distance from these students (i mark their work etc). Now i know lots of girls that are in the 25+ age range from old courses etc, but how do you tap into that younger range? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/14 06:32 AM |
| 3 | In an experiment a woman is able to cut in line, different outcome for a man howeverNah, fuck that. I get to airports way before my flight is due to avoid being late. If my ride breaks down, ill make it there on time anyway. IDGAF what their excuse is, they can miss their flight | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/14 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsHaha, no. I'd rather just have casual sex at this stage in my life. If i meet a girl who is amazing, beautiful, young, very low partner count, i might change my mind. I guess in that respect im open to the idea, but not with this girl. I'm just gonna focus on myself, im in this for the long haul | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsgood point. Basically, after we hooked up i just assumed we were going to be in a monogamous relationship, as i had been "courting" her for a couple of weeks. This even took her by suprise for a bit - she responded to something i said with "oh, are you sure you want this?" Of course, not really thinking it through a great deal i did think i wanted that. I mean, what else does a blue pill beta bucks want other than a nice goodlooking girlfriend? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys subscribe to /r/twox? Is there a benifit to it?wow. how do you know she actually did it though? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Woman tries to instigate an altercation, pulling the gender card while playing the victim. Guy takes none of it.Shouting at my son is bad! how dare you! I'm going to model correct behaviour by getting in your face and screaming at you! that is the proper way to handle things, my son! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Woman tries to instigate an altercation, pulling the gender card while playing the victim. Guy takes none of it.psychotic horsebeast... hahaha. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys subscribe to /r/twox? Is there a benifit to it?i chuckled at the image. The polo shirt line, kinda funny. It equates rape jokes with forced-fatherhood jokes, meh | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsYeah, i let her get way too comfortable, and she definately would have had me pegged for the provider role | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsi essentially stumbled into the LTR without even thinking about it. im not after one at this point in time anymore a bit of bellyfat would knock her down a point or two imo. significant bellyfat+hipfat = major turnoff for me The point rating thing isnt really important | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsits also honest if i tell her the spark isnt there anymore, she would have noticed this as well. We're looking to head in different directions, she has just conceded marriage and stuck with me. I can tell her these things honestly, without hurting her feelings more than necessary. Telling her shes not good enough for me will hurt not only her, but also my reputation as we have a few shared friends and work in the same organisation. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsMy plan is to keep improving my career prospects and smv. I think im on the right track there. I know im not going to be swimming in pussy when we break up, but i've got time to improve. Think monk-mode but i will still be going to social gatherings etc | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsDuly noted. You make some good points | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsI've certainly seen the error of my ways. I'm not gonna have a girlfriend for a long time. At the moment im more focussed on improving my value than trying to spin plates or watever, and this is gonna continue for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsYeah, i can see that might work. I'm not really interested in treading water anymore though, man. after about a year together i gave her the tough talk that she needed to start exercising. She wouldnt take a hint and made me spell it out for her (shes smart enough to take the hint, i dunno what was up with that) I told her shes been letting herself go, and bodyshape is an important part of attraction. She said she was so busy with her thesis and stuff that she didnt have time to exercise - like … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsmaybe i should have been more clear. The 9 is something she could become, but isnt at the moment. She would be a 9, but she has let herself go to the point she became pear shaped. She would hide her body from me, and resorted to buying clothes that flattered her figure (although this ends up being poncho type things). She has lost weight, and looks better, but she still holds some flab around the midsection. As she is about 5ft6 or so, this looks bad. I find it unattractive. I find her face very… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsI do really care about her and want her to have the best possible future. On one hand, i could tell her that guys don't care about her doctorate or her job, they care about her body, and hope she gets motivated to really sort it out. She would be a legitimate 9 if she really got in shape (a 30 year old 9 at least) On the other hand, its gonna be raw and and i dont want to do something ill regret, which that could easily become | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 11:31 AM |
| 3 | The Pill is not free.I'd like to add a clarification. We lie to ourselves, but it's not our "ego" per se (this concept is wildly outdated - useful only as a shortcut to the truth). Almost everyone is motivated to have a positive view of themself (except depressed people), and this goes hand in hand with avoiding cognitive dissonance. Fucked up at work? Wasn't my fault completely, im good at my job! It must have been the situation making it hard for me Got fat and lazy? I'm not actually lazy, i just work too much and… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsShe has made a big effort, i just dont think she will sustain it to get close to her peak physical condition. It does take a big effort to go from lazy and sedentary to hitting the gym and doing bike machine classes. However, the last time i was at her house i saw another packet of mcdonalds in her bin, and my heart sank a bit. Its roughly a weekly habit. Its judgemental of me to let that bother me, but it does | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsYour last sentence strikes a chord. Why should i be settling for anything less than the best? i shouldn't | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsthanks man | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 07:11 AM |
| 22 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsHah, i wont put myself through that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Lifting is for losersi like lifting because it makes me feel good, and i do it with my older bro so we are talking shit the whole time. I dont play sports anymore, but i dont think any sport would get me the physique im after anyway | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Men are not happyWhile it may be true that high partner count may be correlated with instability in marriage, it is going too far to suggest that it is causal (there is no evidence for this) It is just as likely there is another (or several) variables influencing both. For instance, maybe a <insert personality variable here> woman will have a causal role in her having lots of partners, as well as unstable relationships. In the end, the correlation is still valuable. We can use it as a predictor - If she's slept … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 09:13 AM |
| 6 | The Ultimate Shit Test: Feminism and the female mating strategywell, if its an adversarial relationship like you suggested (they call me a pig etc) i can laugh at them and walk away? or just smirk and ignore them forever My only real encounters with die-hard feminists is with one of my friends. She will say something like "its rediculous that guys judge people on their sex partner count, as if it matters!". Thats far less toxic and easier to deal with than what your description of a modern feminist may say Of course my friend is probably watering down her d… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/14 07:19 AM |
| 14 | Good job Red Pill. We're once again singled out over other subreddits such as r/nationalsocialist for being a shit hole!i stumbled upon the "random" subreddit feature | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 10:37 PM |
| 7 | The Uncircumcised Shit TestFrom what I've read (im no expert), circumcision prevents smegma buildup. However, if you wash yourself daily i've never found it an issue. Pros: no smegma Cons: Desensitisation Desensitisation is a real thing. If an uncut guy's foreskin is peeled back and his dick is inside his pants, it makes an uncomfortable sensation (knob rubbing against pants). I presume cut guys don't get that same feeling, as they are desensitised slightly | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 06:20 AM |
| 3 | "The finger test"the fuck is this bullshit? Worst thread in a while | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 02:28 AM |
| 3 | VolunteerismLifting doesn't just improve your physical health, it has flow on effects. There is a Maori (indigenous New Zealanders) model of mental health which i believe encapsulates this (and what you are saying well). It is basically a metaphor about your "house" of wellbeing. There are four walls: Physical, mental/emotional, family/social, and spiritual. A house needs to have strong walls. If any wall (or multiple) are weakened, the whole structure is compromised. A weakness in any of these walls can ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Play Sports, Don’t Watch Them.uh, you contradict yourself. You could just be told the storyline of the movies you like watching afterwards by your reasoning, would enjoy it just the same? Watching game 6 of the rockets/trailblazers this year was amazing. Watching damian lillard hit a ICE COLD game winning 3 with 0.7 seconds left on the clock to WIN THE SERIES, while the home crowd goes from quiet -> exstatic, was a thing of beauty. Sure, i can tell my friends about it afterwards, and they're like "haha, cool!". But if you wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Play Sports, Don’t Watch Them.There are stories to be told in real sports, and often times they are much more amazing than in movies. For instance, can Lebron forge his legacy with a 3rd championship in as many years? Will the pacers (their bogey team) be able to stop them in a much anticipated conference finals? Will a real team filled with aging past their prime veterans (spurs) be able to beat superior talent and youth? These are exciting storylines unfolding before our eyes at the moment. Im from new zealand, and our cou… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/14 08:21 AM |
| 5 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...well, while he can be criticised, Freud was basically the inventor of modern day "talking therapy", which is often the accepted form of therapy for many mental disorders | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Abandon hope all ye who enter heregreat post. There are certainly women around who have lived their whole lives to old age without cheating on their significant other, who the fuck are we to say she is not loyal? This sub is great for generalisations, but we have to remember that they are in fact generalisations | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/14 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Innate TRP Mentality vs BP who practice TRP.based on your reasoning most young boys were then born alpha? You get reinforcement for wrestling or fighting with other kids even if your parents etc are discouraging it - its fun, you get adrenaline, etc. Its not just something you are born into with no environmental influence, thats what i mean. Of course i had aggressive tendencies, but my reinforcement history and environment was more of an influence on this. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/14 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Innate TRP Mentality vs BP who practice TRP.ill bet you were such an alpha as a todder seriously this is bullshit. Maybe your parents (who were likely by far the biggest influence on you in your early years) raised you to be a strong, independent leader. Then when your friends and media narratives became a stronger influence (typically in early adolescence) your behaviour and thinking changed to reflect this. Why are people beginning to spout the opposite of the "blank slate" idea which is just as idiotic? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/14 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Innate TRP Mentality vs BP who practice TRP.cognitive dissonance being too much? cognitive dissonance is a mechanism through which we can change. e.g. you catch yourself doing something weak (behaviour) and it doesn't match with your beliefs or sense or self (cognitions). You can either change your behaviour to match your cognitions (e.g. become a beast, act like champ you are becoming), or change your cognitions to match your behaviour (bad choice). In this sense, i welcome it. Secondly, there is no such thing as an "innate" alpha, we ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/14 06:00 AM |
| 12 | 4chan post discussing the difference between being a beta and being a good persontheres a good case to be made that there is no true altruism. We all get positive reinforcement from helping someone, it makes us feel like a good person etc. If you can't identify the reason why you are helping someone, it doesnt make you a better person than someone who can. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/14 02:27 AM |
| 1 | More fat acceptance. The before and after, true body acceptance is hamstertastic. It's not hard ladies: eat healthy and work out.cool that you found an article, but you don't link it so we dont get to read it. Lots of scientific articles can be shit. You're right that a conception of mental illness requires a conception of what is normal, and what is normal is culturally determined. It's definitely some food for thought! However, it is jumping the gun to claim that this cage you speak of is the cause of mental illness. You can speculate, and thats awesome, as long as its worded so. I'm always going to take issue with some… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/14 07:21 AM |
| 8 | My Mouth has Gotten me into Trouble more than OnceI think this switch is a symptom of trying to wear the "cloak of dominance" without having earned it. You can change your body language, your speech, your posture, and it will improve you slightly. These are superficial to some extent, and are things i liken more to the PUA community. Working hard/smart to ensure your career success, working out, forging relationships with winners, these are the things that improve you in leaps and bounds. The most important part of a house is its foundation, th… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 11:08 AM |
| 1 | More fat acceptance. The before and after, true body acceptance is hamstertastic. It's not hard ladies: eat healthy and work out.most people look better with clothes on, especially fat people | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 10:45 AM |
| 0 | More fat acceptance. The before and after, true body acceptance is hamstertastic. It's not hard ladies: eat healthy and work out.i agree with the sentiment of your post, but stating the "cause" of mental health issues without any evidence to back this is going to far. As speculation, it is fine. Edit: to clarify using depression as an example. There is scientific evidence that depression is often the result of genetic predisposition which is triggered by the compounding occurrence of a number of negative life events (e.g. divorce, injury, death of family member, loss of job, etc). There is no evidence that "self imposed c… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 10:34 AM |
| 1 | By the time they reach high school, nearly 20 percent of all American boys will be diagnosed with ADHD. Millions of those boys will be prescribed a powerful stimulant to "normalize" them. A great many of those boys will suffer serious side effects from those drugs.Honestly the main problem with this overdiagnosis in america is that GPs can just diagnose it and treat it with meds, when parent training techniques from psychologists may be just as effective It's better to think of the kids as "meeting criteria for ADHD" rather than "this kid has ADHD". Its a simple difference in wording but it has great meaning. The former implies that the child's behaviour meets criteria but with proper parent training etc they may no longer (and have better functioning at … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 12:42 AM |
| 1 | By the time they reach high school, nearly 20 percent of all American boys will be diagnosed with ADHD. Millions of those boys will be prescribed a powerful stimulant to "normalize" them. A great many of those boys will suffer serious side effects from those drugs."the whole thing" is likely not a scam, although overdiagnosis may be. ADHD is a real disorder (which can be debilitating to a child's development), and there are ways to combat this overdiagnosis. For example, there is some more conservative diagnostic criteria available from a world class researcher in the area (although this may not be used in america, especially by doctors). | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 12:39 AM |
| -12 | By the time they reach high school, nearly 20 percent of all American boys will be diagnosed with ADHD. Millions of those boys will be prescribed a powerful stimulant to "normalize" them. A great many of those boys will suffer serious side effects from those drugs.unsure why i would be downvoted for this comment, watevs | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/14 08:54 PM |
| 23 | By the time they reach high school, nearly 20 percent of all American boys will be diagnosed with ADHD. Millions of those boys will be prescribed a powerful stimulant to "normalize" them. A great many of those boys will suffer serious side effects from those drugs.From what i've heard, this crisis is somewhat limited to America where ADHD is vastly over-diagnosed. In other countries the prevalance of being diagnosed with ADHD is far lower It is a crisis though. If a kid's impulsive and/or inattentive behaviour is persistent and having a great effect of harming their life (education, family life) then a diagnosis may be warranted. If its just a restless kid then WTF | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/14 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Why is that repeated so much here?I had my brother to help me, but i can suggest: Youtube weightlifting routines and decide what you want to do. 1 day for chest, 1 day for shoulders, 1 day for legs, 1 day for back, 1 day for arms. Youtube different exercises to work muscles in these areas. Try and remember the form they use Go to the gym. If you sign up they will usually have a couple of sessions free with a personal trainer. They can show you form and what exercises to do. The hardest part by far is getting the ball rolling | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/14 02:10 AM |
| 0 | Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Why is that repeated so much here?I'm about a month into a 5-day a week lifting routine. im 27 years old, 6ft and was 66 kg (140 pounds maybe?) Gotta say i really love the feels it gives me. I am more confident, walk better, and feel like I am radiating sex appeal in some situations moreso than before. I've put on somwhere close to 5kg, and am in the best physical shape of my life. This forum gave me the last push i needed to start making this change, and i am grateful for this. If you're thinking about doing this but havent sta… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/14 01:01 AM |
| 0 | On Toxic Masculinity and Bitterness of the Red PillIn my opinion, at the the baseline of 0 i would still give a person (male or female) some level of respect. I wouldn't dislike them, nor would i like them. Most people that I come into contact with are decent, well-meaning people. That's not to say I will put their needs above mine though. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/14 12:54 AM |
| 1 | On Toxic Masculinity and Bitterness of the Red PillThe thing is "feminism" isn't a well defined movement at all. While not wanting to speak for the OP, he says that he thinks women should have equal rights. This may not be the definition of feminism you are talking about. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/14 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Why is that repeated so much here?haha yeah, thats a bit of an exaggeration though! It definately has some impact that is non-negligable. We shouldnt complain about it. Women have it far worse in this category, if they are ugly they are ugly and thats that - its a cruel yet beautiful world we live in. I wouldn't say a woman's value as a person is determined by her looks and sexuality, although her value as a sexual partner is definately determined by this | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/14 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Fat-acceptance activism as a movement largely supported by feminist groups, and their hurt feelings over the use of the phrase "clean eating."They already do that Add to this definition that they also want everyone to accept it as normal and healthy | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Why is that repeated so much here?There is some social psychology research showing that some facial features are related to our perceptions of how honest a person is. From memory, big features (eyes, mouth, nose etc) mean the person is rated as more honest than small, close together eyes, small mouth, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Lift Weights. Why is that repeated so much here?unfortunately for some we cant change our faces much, whereas we can get better bodies | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 11:00 PM |
| 2 | How do you disagree with TRP?While you're correct in that the confirmation bias will influence our recollection of events, you're wrong that looking at data (our experiences) and then seekign to explain them in terms of theory is unscientific. This is the very process known as abductive reasoning. abductive reasoning is basically looking at the data we have available (e.g. a particular person's behaviour), and then deciding what the best explanation for this data is. Often times with our experiences, TRP theory is the best … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 12:09 PM |
| 3 | The Myth of the decline of TRP.although i suspect what you are referring to is more the "pop psychology" side of it where every man and his dog is an expert | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 11:54 AM |
| 14 | The Myth of the decline of TRP.evolutionary psychology is a legitimate science | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Lets compile some not so obvious tips and tricks to be socially dominant.yeah so if your struggling with dominance then become a bad ass mother fucker. thats my point, its not an empty comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 09:29 AM |
| 7 | Lets compile some not so obvious tips and tricks to be socially dominant.yourself... if you are one bad ass mother fucker. So, become a bad ass mother fucker, and then exist | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Study shows men who use "upspeak" (ending a sentence with a question intonation) are perceived as less dominant.hahaha. thats a nice story you were told, but i very highly doubt the airline hired a linguist to sort out the issue between their staff | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen women try to cut in line? What did you do?So, in all likelihood he wasn't trying to be racist. Based on the information he can remember, what he said may be accurate to his perceptions (which are inaccurate). Keep in mind i didnt get a chance to read his comment | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen women try to cut in line? What did you do?Its the confirmation bias, a well known psychological phenomenon which rears its head often in everyday life. Basically, we are more likely to remember information that fits with our schemas or ideas about how the world is. We are more likely to ignore or fail to remember information that doesnt fit with our views. Confirmation bias being that we have a bias towards remembering information that confirms what we believe. E.G. I see a white or black guy cut me off in traffic and i think "fucking a… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever seen women try to cut in line? What did you do?i wouldn't hit a buddy first. I think you can make it clear through body language/glare or even words that you wont put up with that shit though. If they cross the line, a shove in the chest maybe? i dunno, i definately wouldnt just flat out punch a buddy over this | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 12:38 AM |
| 13 | Lets compile some not so obvious tips and tricks to be socially dominant.This has been downvoted, but i think you have a point, so i gave u an upvote. Someone who is naturally dominant does most of these things without thinking about them. Individual tricks and tips are nice, but the key thing to work on is the underlying quality we all want to possess - dominance. If we achieve this then most of these things should fall into place. This thread is still valuable though, these things are great to get into your behavioural reportoire if you're not there yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 12:25 AM |
| 3 | video example of how not being creepy is just a matter of being attractiveyup. This goes for men too by the way. There is a lot of experimental behavioural psychology research showing that people are often horrible at describing their behaviour. It's not always a conscious thing, we just aren't great at describing what we do | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/14 06:05 AM |
| 2 | The "BroScience" component of TRPyou're talking about things in your OP, but what exactly makes that independent research? Is this definition over and above what the person did who you told to go and do research? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/14 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Marketing (X-post from /r/TRPGame)He's broken sexual marketing down into 4 important aspects. While some of this is intuitive, it's great to see it broken down so we can think about it and discuss it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 11:43 AM |
| 6 | The "BroScience" component of TRPalso, observing behaviour is part of science. Our experiences are not something to be ignored just because they are not what you think of as scientific. Observing behaviour is scientific. Our experiences may be biased, but so is science. Who decides what is worthy of study? who interprets the results of experiments? These are all subjective judgements. Our experiences are subjective, but they are still valid information to base theory off. Im dumbfounded you would criticise TRP for broscience, y… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 11:31 AM |
| 1 | The "BroScience" component of TRPdoesnt seem like you did any independent research yourself? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 11:27 AM |
| 6 | The "BroScience" component of TRPuh, "jealousy is a result of the social construction of monogamy" ????? people get jealous when someone has something they want. This was likely around long before monogamy. You talk about broscience in TRP, yet you say we can "deprogram those cultural constructs" Culture permeates all aspects of life. Family life, being raised by parent(s), navigation of the social world is all very much permeated by culture. To say you can just deprogram cultural contstructs that women adhere to is broscience … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 11:25 AM |
| 0 | Women don't understand "excuses."You're making excuses for your poor performance, and honestly, they aren't valid excuses. Anyone with average intelligence can get at least a 4.0 GPA in undergraduate (and postgraduate) courses if they stick their mind to it and really really try hard. Its about the effort and time that you put in. I refuse to believe you couldn't have tried harder, couldnt have spent more time studying, couldnt have talked to professors or teaching assistants when there were things you couldn't understand. It m… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 02:26 AM |
| 0 | Long hair vs. Short hair (on men) My personal experience.i think you probably look better with short hair ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/14 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Check out this Married/LTR Shit TestCommon fellas, keep it positive. Maybe TRP is being watered down? i dunno, im relatively new. I still enjoy reading and learning here, its a great resource. On the other hand, let your wife chose what she wants to eat man. You may be the captain of the ship, but surely its okay to let the 1st mate take the wheel every now and then | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/14 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Attempting to Introduce RP to friend opens my eyes to horribly ingrained the BP mentality is in his system.amen. I tried this twice. One time on my brother and he was quite receptive to it, although he had been fucked over by a slut before. Tried it again on my closest friend who is a rational, smart man. He didnt get upset, but thought id jumped the shark and didnt take any of it in | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/14 08:25 AM |
| 7 | What's your take on male suicide?Assuming we are talking about young, physically healthyish men (and not elderly etc) Someone has to be in a huge hole to commit suicide. It often goes hand in hand with depression or other mental illness (especially disorders that influence impulse control such as a person with bipolar experiencing a manic episode). A lot of people in the world have shit lives man. Look around, who would you trade places with? Its not just due to bullying etc. Bullying would be just another stick on the camels b… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Minimalist Black Knightingthe "its only creepy if im not attracted to the guy" is easily explained by cognitive dissonance. People in general like to have consistent thoughts and behaviours. There's two ways to do that when they are competing. 1) change the thought - its not creepy because im attracted to him! 2) change the behaviour -hes gross/average! sometimes, its easier to change the thought | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 10:48 AM |
| 2 | I don't know if this is RP. But whatever it is, it feels good.what the kid believes during and after the divorce is not necessarily what we as grown adults take out of it. Im 27 and thought my father was an asshole after my mum divorced him when i was 11. It took more than a decade before i could see the situation for what it truly was. I'd still agree he should walk away though. In my experience even when a now-fat gf decides to start working out, attraction doesnt come back the same way | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 10:43 AM |
| 28 | Minimalist Black KnightingI think the attractive thing is meant to diffuse the situation slightly using cognitive dissonance. For example: Whimpy kid makes remark about "strong independent woman". Him being a "horrible sexist" is in alignment with her view of him as weak, unworthy. Therefore, he gets no respect. Attractive male makes same remark. Him being a horrible sexist is not consistent with her view of him as a strong, masculine guy she wants to fuck. She interprets it instead as "hes funny and engaging", or "hes j… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 10:27 AM |
| 5 | How many here have been physically attacked by a woman?drunk feminist friend suprise attack throttled me as she thought i had eaten her food (somone told her it was me). It was kind of in jest, she wasn't going 100% and it didn't hurt, although it was annoying I just laughed it off. Looking back, i should have just disabled her attack (would have been very easy) in a way that let her know she went overboard. I'm not normally one to hate on feminism, but damn... "we should all be treated equal in every facet of life" vs "im a girl so i can throttle y… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Unfashionable Fitness Advicedon't post anecdotal evidence and think we will take those examples as gospel | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Unfashionable Fitness Advicealso, from what i've been reading, the quicker you get fuel post-workout the better. A protein shake and a handful of dates on the way home where i make a proper meal is good for me | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 09:28 PM |
| 8 | My poor bastard blue pill friend is about to make a huge mistake.if they're getting married, i assume the possibility of having children is real | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/14 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Blue pill confessions: don't do this at home.Good. That pick up stuff is unnecessary in the short term imo. Its like building a house, you need to have a strong foundation, structure, and walls before you even think about what colour you are going to paint it. Physical health, mental / emotional health, and social/family wellbeing are the foundational things to get in order first of all | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/14 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Dick MastersonClearly you have some resentment here. I use this subreddit to motivate myself to improve in multiple areas of my life, none of them involve treating women like shit. You use it to "pointscore" in a game nobody else is playing with you. Enjoy your weekend | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/14 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Dick Mastersonread this person's comments. Just a bad troll | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/14 12:32 AM |
| 1 | NEWBIES: So its the Weekend, what the hell are you going to do?Haha... you're pathetic. Read comments in here so far. Pretty much everything is about self improvement. Only one comment says anything about females at all. Go crawl back under your rock | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/14 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Once again, a guy's girlfriend makes him look like a complete foolEh. My best friend would never do this to me. If he did, i would no longer consider him my best friend. He would be lucky if i counted him as a friend or an acquaintance at all. Sleeping with your best mate's girl shows how spineless and lacking in willpower you have, no matter how sexy she is. Bros before hoes man. I wouldn't fight him over it, though. I'd just downgrade his friendship and whatever i was willing to invest in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Once again, a guy's girlfriend makes him look like a complete foolAt a guess: Poor self image, low confidence, beliefs he cannot score better/similar women (some of this may be true). He clearly hasn't "swallowed TRP". | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 11:18 PM |
| 1 | NEWBIES: So its the Weekend, what the hell are you going to do?Saturday and Sunday are my rest days. Just started properly lifting weights and eating last week, so im looking forward to recovering. Tonight (saturday) im just gonna go to my best friends house and play darts with him and another friend. I know, its lazy and boring, but I don't feel like drinking or even attending bars tonight. I'm in self improvement mode and slightly despise the meat-market that is the bar scene here. This will probably change when i am a muscular beast Tomorrow ill go to th… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 11:00 PM |
| 2 | TRP humor - "Girls are assholes:at a bar"the confirmation bias is clearly rearing its head here. Perhaps you just cant remember a woman ever apologising to you. People of both genders saying "sorry" is quite a common thing | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 12:17 AM |
| 0 | "BF has been pulling redpill crap..." in /r/offmychestthey make get a sense of "victory" or something from their own comment. This would be positive reinforcement (it doesnt have to come from an outside source). | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 12:08 AM |
| 1 | I feel like RP men and RP women's goals are completely opposite.Yeah you make a few good points. I think i fall into the bracket of "trying to accept things the way they are, and exploit the situation for yourself". In your view, i am part of the problem, although i can agree with what you say. I think it is just too damn hard to change society... what difference can one man make? Better just to do whats good for me and my fam | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 09:31 PM |
| 2 | I started ignoring girlsYou say we arent dogs, but we are animals. I think you are twisting the meaning of my words. Like animals, body language, posturing, etc is important to how we are perceived and how we perceive others. By commanding attention, i don't mean some snivelling court jester. I mean the guy who has anyone's ear if he wants it. I think the image i was trying to portray was reasonably clear. I totally agree with your first sentence by the way. That same guy who is commanding attention etc at a party woul… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 05:12 AM |
| 1 | I feel like RP men and RP women's goals are completely opposite.way too long to read, bruh summarise it more succinctly | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 05:05 AM |
| 8 | I started ignoring girlsI disagree with your point that you're alpha "deep down" In a pack of wolves, every wolf deep down must consider themself a monster. When the big dogs are around, this doesn't show. The alpha is the guy in the social situation commanding respect, attention, girls, etc. Being big and strong is part of that. I'm not there yet, but i'm working on it. I could lie and tell myself that deep down im alpha, but this isn't the case. Deep down i know i will become a force to be reckoned with in multiple a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Found A Chunk Of Gold From 4chan For PUAsIt is obviously intuitive, although there are good reasons behind this rule 1) Past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviour 2) It shows a lack of loyalty 3) It shows a lack of respect for you I could go on | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/14 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on a woman's studies class.nobody from a government department is going to give a shit about reading things like this, and the teacher knows it. I hand out assignments like this on the course im a teaching assistant for... "You will be writing a letter to the ministry of health regarding X issue..." Nobody cares about the regurgitated opinions of undergraduate students | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Low T@20yo. Depression and being a loser"My results are 1 standard deviation below the average level for under-25 males" One standard deviation below the mean is well within a normal range. You have less than average, but this is not necessarily a problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Guy's GF makes a complete fool out of him"OP should have ran game and closed on a separate female at that party while ignoring "his girl" the rest of his life" fixed | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Alpha moments by beta guysKind of. We hated each other growing up. Our dad has given us tonnnnnes of advice over the years (some very redpill) which we tended to ignore even though he was always right. One thing he always says: "You have very few true friends in this world. Most are just people who you see. True friends are those you can count on. Most friends will come and go, but your family should always be there for you". I find it 100% true. I have one friend who i can really count on if im in a jam. The rest are mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 10:45 AM |
| 10 | Alpha moments by beta guysmy older brother (28) had been demoralised by a girl (8/10) who had him wrapped around her finger. She had likely cheated on him when they were in a relationship, and after they broke it off kept using him. He would pay for their meals and drive her around (although he did get sex, she was fucking other guys too). Months of my dad and myself go by trying to get him to ditch her completely. Eventually he tells her to fuck off and hes not gonna be "that guy" to her anymore. He joined a gym and is … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on a woman's studies class.I'd say its highly likely the letter isn't going to be sent to a state representative... the assignment is just to be written as though that is the case. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Besides lifting, what are other ways men can look the best they can be?he said hes a skinny guy, doubt he will want to lose weight | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How big a deal is not playing sports?imo its important to have outdoors skills, watever they are. I dont play sports anymore, but i often go freediving/spearfishing or just regular fishing. Theres not much that makes me feel more of a man than swimming underwater with a spear in my hand hunting some fish | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Exit Strategy - Beta RadianceYeah, this seems to be the consensus from people i've talked to, and i can see the logic. She had quite a big failure in her career a few months ago, and started slipping into the onset of depression. She felt bad about herself, became lethargic and sedentary. She even mentioned a few weeks ago that she had some suicidal thoughts (just the idea of suicide popping up in her head, not as bad as thinking about how she would do it or something). So, shes slowly getting her career back on track and h… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 05:22 AM |
| 2 | The Clean Pipes Principlehes not saying to wank right before you go on a date, hes saying to do it when you are unsure of what to do in a certain situation | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 05:12 AM |
| 5 | The Clean Pipes Principleeh, PUA stuff aside i think the OP has merit. It's something i heard joe rogan say a couple of years ago. If you're not sure if something is a good idea, jack off and re-evaluate. I have done it a few times, and it does give me a different perspective. Considering sending an unnecessary txt to a girl you like? spank the monkey and you will probably decide against it afterwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Exit Strategy - Beta RadianceThis is what im worried about. Im in a LTR from before i found TRP, we've been together 2 years. I always cared about her a bit less than she cared about me, so even though i was kind of a beta bitch i also displayed some alpha traits in my interactions with her. Now, shes 30 and im 27. Not exactly a carousel rider, she's had long term relationships which have ended for whatever reason. I have good earning potential and she really wants marriage/family/commitment. Imo, going pure beta won't driv… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Maintain frame, even when you fuck upusing a mental illness that was completely out of a person's control to verbally harass them is just pathetic really | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Is college worth it?The vast majority of people doing history degrees at the vast majority of universities are probably wasting their time though. It's a generalisation, but one that holds pretty damn true for 95% of the people doing that degree | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/14 09:09 AM |
| 16 | “Age-Inappropriate Relationships” Don’t Exist Outside the Minds of Jealous Slutsyeah... this quote from OP "Ladies past 25 these days are nearly guaranteed to be carousel riders" is complete garbage. Around half of the women i know well, who are over that age, have been in mostly long term relationships with partner counts well below 10. Blah blah blah times their number by 3, watever. I know this forum is about the truth, but brash generalisations that aren't even acknowledged as brash generalisations are a detriment to the great messages TRP is sending | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/14 09:07 AM |
| 16 | Psychology Class: Rationalization Hamster, Why Concept of "True Love" is Dangerousthe fact that there is something (i.e. brain chemistry) going on means it does exist. Love is just the name it has been given. the fairytale notions of love on the other hand... | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 04:04 AM |
| 0 | 25% of women are mentally illThe same holds for me man. "Assortive mating" is a real thing. Criminals tend to mate with criminals or those sympathetic to crime, broke losers tend to mate with broke losers, attractive people tend to mate with attractive people, etc If we are here to improve ourselves and become champions of our environment, we should be fuckin the cream of the crop eventually | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 01:06 AM |
| 2 | 25% of women are mentally illYeah, although unfit for what purpose? The vast majority of people with a mental illness can still lead fulfilling lives | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 11:42 PM |
| 2 | 25% of women are mentally illthink about it, 1% schizophrenia, 2% pathological gambling, some % substance use disorders, some % depression, some % anxiety, some % bipolar... it adds up fairly quickly | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 11:41 PM |
| 1 | 25% of women are mentally illother western cultures have similar high rates of mental illness. It's not just women either, men have a high figure too | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Sociopaths can spot a pussy by the way he walksno, they're not. At least not in modern psychological research literature | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Sociopaths can spot a pussy by the way he walksYeah, we probably all do. The study is saying that psychopaths do it with more accuracy | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Sociopaths can spot a pussy by the way he walksNew Zealand is probably getting there. Massive asian immigration as well as pacific island immigration, combined with refugees from all over the world. With declining white birthrate (and emmigration to australia for higher wages), as well as high birthrate of pacific islanders and maori, the white population is quickly becoming the minority | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Sociopaths can spot a pussy by the way he walksYup, they are different things entirely, although almost all psychopaths will have ASPD, the reverse is not true. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Sociopaths can spot a pussy by the way he walksThe study is showing that those scoring high on measures of psychopathy are better at detecting this vulnerability than non-criminal participants in the study. There does need to be a study to lend this evidence, otherwise there is no proof other than our own subjective reasoning. While some things may seem intuitive, studying them with good scientific rigour is important - otherwise observations are just one big circlejerk of opinion | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 08:54 AM |
| 5 | Plate tried to make me jealous, now it's backfiring on her.uh... id say there is a whole lot of single mothers who were in a relationship with the baby's dad but they broke up too... | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/14 01:23 PM |
| 1 | A guide for what you should be lifting.that essentially describes the body types ectomorph, mesomorph, and endomorph | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/14 01:14 PM |
| 1 | What being Alpha is not.I disagree. As somone who is not yet alpha (but working on it), being alpha is decidedly EXTERNAL. It is other people's judgements of you rather than your own which decide your position in society You can have all the inner confidence in the world, but if you are scrawny you WILL not be able to outdog the big dogs. I dont have all the confidence in the world and am slim rather than scrawny, but thats where im at in a nutshell. Sure, the right internal mindset goes a long way and you can start wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/14 12:05 PM |
| 0 | How to shut down my girl in a pending argument?Meh. People cheat, it happens. If he wants to fuck something else while treading water with his LTR, who are we to judge him? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 11:27 AM |
| 1 | How to shut down my girl in a pending argument?sometimes i get a ride from my GF if i stay at her house. I tell her before we go to sleep: "I need to be there at the latest at XX:XX, is that okay?". If i feel like she hasn't registered, ill repeat. My tone suggests this is important. In the morning, if she's fucking around, ill tell her again "we need to be out of here by XX:XX". She's made me late one time (5 minutes) in maybe 50 rides I fuckin HATE being late | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 11:24 AM |
| 5 | Video Gamespeople who use drugs, videogames, gamble typically fall into one of two categories: 1) those that do these things for the positive reinforcement they provide (i.e. the feel good factor) 2) those that do these things as an avoidance from negative mood/problems etc sometimes you may start out as category 1 and end up belonging in category 2. The important thing is to realise why you are doing what you are doing. category 2 is a problem Personally, i started out gaming in the first category, moved … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Hamster traveling abroad gets hammered, comes on to multiple men and takes one home, changes mind mid-sex, feels "taken advantage of"i think i prefer ravaged | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 03:28 AM |
| 0 | The ethics of fucking a girl who has a boyfriendpersonally, i think that if i dont know the guy then i cant really pretend that he has some sort of obligation to me (to not fuck my gf). my girlfriend and i are the ones who have made a commitment | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/14 04:21 AM |
| 17 | if she was ugly , you wouldn't careseems like you let fat girls bother you more than they should | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/14 04:08 AM |
| 3 | I helped a friend do a social experiment in university. His prof. wouldn't let us use that data, because it was "controversial" but I thought you guys would find it interesting.dismissed due to the criteria that the question specified: "based solely on attraction, would you date..." | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/14 06:23 AM |
| 1 | First situation like this, did I practice TRP or TBP?heh, this could end up working great for him to get her attached if he wants to string her along for sex whenever he wants. i think the easiest thing to do is just fuck her if u felt like fuckin her tho | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/14 12:25 PM |
| -1 | Rape Cultureyeah, true. I'm not quite sure how "unwanted sexual touching" was operationalised Still, the point remains that pushing unverified claims as fact without any evidence is doing exactly the same thing that the feminists at university were doing | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 04:04 AM |
| -10 | Rape CultureI'm a fan of red pill but let me just say one thing: peer reviewed scientifically carried out studies show that around 1/4 of women have been at some point a victim of unwanted sexual touching/rape. sexual touching can mean a number of things, but this forum is about the truth and we can get too attached to OUR agenda, imo. Saying that these things hardly ever happen is just as bad as the feminists over-representing them | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Once again Reddit tells us that women want strong men that can that can protect them. They don't want a feeble man they have to look after.dunno what therapy you are talking about, but there are evidence based therapies that are proven effective for a variety of mental disorders (including depression etc). Most CBT therapys for depression also target the person's behaviour, and weight lifting could be seen as a valuable part of their recovery (along with addressing cognitive distortions). Just sayin, this subreddit is about the truth. I know its just your opinion, but there is a wealth of evidence from scientific studies showing th… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 09:36 AM |
| 5 | Next her like a man. Your reputation is at stake.fair enough, i guess if your ex was cheating on you i cant judge you. I think the OP isn't meant for that situation in particular. Some women deserve a face to face breakup | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 09:22 AM |
| 0 | Remember, Red Pill Theory without Self-Improvement is MASTURBATIONmaybe so, but you will learn a lot slower | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Askhamsters about why they cheated.actually it is very common for people in south america to see a psychologist, far more common than western countries. Stop talking out of your ass unless you know what you are talking about. Maybe it is true in your society, dont generalise it to others you clearly know little about | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/14 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Askhamsters about why they cheated.The part about killing them is not living in logic land. Assuming that her cheating was an emotional decision she is likely not logically thinking through the consequences of her actions. The death penalty would be a retarded overreaction and goes against "the punishment fitting the crime" tenet of the criminal justice system | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/14 12:36 AM |
| 2 | I "passed" my latest shit test with flying colours.i think there is too much worrying about the "PERFECT" way to handle certain situations on this subreddit. There is a multitude of different behaviours that would maintain frame and get the desired result. Sure, occasionally somone will need help with situations and want to know how to best handle them, but if the desired goal was achieved i dont think we can sit back and armchair coach what we would have done in hindsight. Its simply not fair to the person who acted in the moment. I think my po… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/14 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Female best friendsi like this. I think sometimes people may need an ear so they can get some things off their chest. However, there is a limit, and we cant just let people whine on and on. At some stage, a person doing this needs to be told to stfu and sort their shit out | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/14 06:35 AM |
| 1 | How do Alphas deal with depression?i think its important to state the behavioural part of CBT, which you alluded to. one of the most important things is to get out and about. Do things that you used to enjoy, even if you dont enjoy them anymore in your depression. it is crucial to get out and visit friends or do things you used to like, to expose yourself to positive reinforcement (fun). Even if you dont enjoy doing it, keep at it! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 08:40 AM |
| 1 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillno but theres every chance a loving woman can decide to take half a mans assets because watever reason anyway i just dont see the point in marriage... the financial waste in a big wedding is just retarded for people who should be saving for a house instead | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 10:06 AM |
| 1 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillshe doesnt party she spends her time away from work reading novels mostly | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 10:04 AM |
| 3 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillCorrect. The number one reason for a relationship breakup from psychology literature is the possibility of a new relationship. This is true for BOTH sexes. Both sexes branch swing | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 07:10 AM |
| 2 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillcorrect. I also have been becoming more and more confident as i have been finding success in other areas of my life (before TRP). I dont give a shit what people think of me anymore (as long as i am acting as i believe is correct). | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 07:08 AM |
| 2 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillyeah | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 07:06 AM |
| 2 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillsadshark is right i wouldnt do that to her. I feel it is degrading for her considering what she is after | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 07:05 AM |
| 2 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillkind of just happened. We met, had sex, enjoyed spending time together, became exclusive, and then took it day by day for 3 years | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 07:04 AM |
| 2 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillA retarded generalisation which mayyyybe holds for some undergrads. It is definately not true for the 1% of undergrad psycs who are committed determined and smart enough to make it into the clinical psychology postgrad and manage to pass with flying colours | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 07:03 AM |
| 1 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pilli think i have been a bit misleading i dont "not want family". I just dont want one right now and not for the next half decade at least Your comment does still stand though. My preferred options here seem to be 1) end it now, or 2) enjoy the ride and not worry about it | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 07:00 AM |
| 2 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillsomething to think about, but based on conversations with her i am fairly certain she would leave. She does have some dignity and self respect and i feel that is outside the bounds of what she will allow. However, i am not 100% sure of this, and so it IS worth thinking about | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 06:58 AM |
| 2 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pilli dont plan to never have kids i have another 5 years at least before i am set up in a position where i can afford a house etc and ONLY then will i consider starting a family. Therefore, family is virtually off the table with her because she will be 35+ trying to have a baby. If she was 10 years younger, heck even 5 years younger, this thread would not exist. Sad but true reality | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 06:56 AM |
| 1 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pilli think honesty is good, brutal honesty probably not | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 06:54 AM |
| 1 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillPart of the reason i made this post is because im having trouble making the decision and feel it will help me. At no point did i say i wanted drunken debauchery. If we broke up i would be attempting to run game on chicks at uni and their frieInds not going to bars looking to pickup skanks everynight (although occasionally i will go as a wingman and have fun) 0 chance i marry. I saw the way my mum fucked over my dad. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Science says: Women most attracted to arrogance, confrontative behavior, and musculature for short term relationshipsnot trying to be a dick, but the thing you stressed as most significant was actually a null result | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 12:33 PM |
| 17 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillthis seems like a really misguided statement... taking TRP too far maybe? she is a nice person and exceptionally nice to me, good at cooking, good at sex, good job, funny, etc etc i dont NEED her, but she does make my life better Women are not always the enemy bud | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 12:30 PM |
| 0 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillthe reason i am not worried about this is she has one of those intra-uterine-devices which make it physically impossible to get pregnant. Removing it is a painful medical procedure. Of course, it could be done sneakily but the chances of her doing this are very slim | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 11:37 AM |
| 4 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillim kind of going back and forth on the subject. i often think that i should just break up with her. Other times ill tell myself its a good relationship right now and i should just ride it for a while i dont really know what im asking, just hoping for some opinions on the situation (which are being provided) im grateful for all comments so far. I just dont wanna do anything i will later regret | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 10:41 AM |
| 3 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillnot dissatisfied i never was powerless, she always loved me more than i loved her which results in the obvious dynamic. tbh i think the place ppl look for girls is wrong. A sexy girl (an 8) in my class told me she has only slept with one guy (shes 23 and its a LTR since she was 17). admittedly she does seem abnormal in that she dresses conservatively etc, but they are out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 10:38 AM |
| 2 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pilli used the terminology i was comfortable with originally, i suggested the change so you wouldnt nitpick on an unimportant detail. If i go ahead I would probably tell her the truth... that i still love her but im not looking to marry or have kids and i think the best thing for both of us is to break up | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 10:13 AM |
| 0 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillfair enough. Im not trying to be cruel, im genuinely seeking advice. I have had frank discussions with her where i just say i dont know what i will want in the future, and she avoids the subject now Im a newcomer to TRP, so im still digesting information and its quite a steep learning curve. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 09:53 AM |
| 4 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillIm capable of being honest with myself. There is an element of love there. Being in a LTR with someone who you once fell in love with you grow to love them in a different way later. I also admit the cowardice and selfishness aspects, but they arent the only reasons i have stayed with her lately if it makes it better semantically, remove the word "love" and replace with "really like" or something similar | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 09:50 AM |
| 5 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillthis is the conclusion i come to often then i remember how good she is to me, that my life is a LOT better for having been with her, and that she will probably continue to benefit me greatly It is a mixture of selfishness, love (in the traditional sense, not the lusting love you can feel for a new partner), and cowardice that is keeping me with her Edit: I should clarify. I have no immediate plan for marriage/baby, and told her that "i just dont know" with regard to the future, which is the trut… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 09:31 AM |
| 3 | i feel really bad for my GF after swallowing the pillI don't really understand the point you are trying to make, it's not negatively affecting me I'm glad i found this subreddit, i also have empathy for the shitty situation my significant other finds/will find herself in. Not everyone is a heartless bastard | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Get Them To Invest In Youof course, you do have to be careful not to abuse this too much. Everyone knows a friend who always wants rides or something and never chips in, and they get a bad rap for it too | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Get Them To Invest In Youthe Ben Franklin effect is actually just using cognitive dissonance to your advantage. The person realises they are doing you a favour or favours, and they then adjust their opinion of you to bring their cognitions into line with their behaviour | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Science says: Women most attracted to arrogance, confrontative behavior, and musculature for short term relationshipsIn saying that, the other p values for other tests were listed as all <.04 in your text so those ones are significant. The .05 may seem like an arbitrary number, but is there for a reason. If we flipped a coin 100 times and it came up tails 60% of the time, the p-value on the significance test may come out as .09. This means the difference in the flips observed (40 vs 60) is not significant, and the observed difference could be expected to happen by chance 9% of the time rather than there being … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Science says: Women most attracted to arrogance, confrontative behavior, and musculature for short term relationshipsjust wanted to clarify an error in your summary of the data: "the traits in this study were still significance and the one that was most significant was social respect (p = 0.81)" this is not true. the commonly accepted p value for significance is one that is below 0.05. This P value is above that value, and so would be classed as a "non-significant" result - i.e. social respect did not have an effect based on this sentence "For social respect, t(7927) = 1.51 (p = .081)". As an aside, p values b… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 12:03 AM |
| 0 | Guy grabs your girls ass in bar. How do you respond?if its "my" girl, as in my girlfriend, i will call the guy out immediately and wont back down from a fight (although wont start one) unless hes 6 foot 6 and built Letting this go without confrontation is being a bitch imo. if its not my girlfriend, i wont care. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/14 10:42 PM |
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