This is going to be a fun post, because this is a post that pertains specifically to my most recent breakup (the one that lead me here to TRP.) I've posted elsewhere about how I dumped this girl...No, woman. She's 24, can be a 7 when she really tries. Anyway, I digress.

I ran into her yesterday (it's 3 a.m now) after a few short weeks of Red Pill living. The first thing I noticed was that she had dropped on my subjective SMV scale, looking more like a 5. I started lifting just before I broke up with her, and now? Now she noticed. I got repeated comments about how good I'm looking, how my new haircut and choice of facial hair suits me. Essentially she was clearly trying to flatter me.

Now here's the interesting part. She brought the subject around to other guys/girls since the breakup. She began to tell me all about these BP orbiters she's started hanging around, apparently all of them have asked her out and she's rejected the lot. Not going to buy it internally, just not pursuing it because not interested. What I found really interesting was her reaction to my reply to the inevitable question "So what about you?"

"Me? I got a few numbers." is all I said and left it at that.

"Have you had anyone over?"

"Not really your business."

"Well...that's good. That's really good." She kept repeating this and trailed off. I read it as she was trying to convince herself.

I think the part that really got me was that she blatantly told me that she was going to use one of her friends as a "fake boyfriend" to protect her singledom sanctuary. The poor guy is the most hopeless BP I've ever met, and I don't think he even wants to see himself as having a shot with her because he sees his SMV as close to 0. This is all I'll say about this because it's a tangent and will probably come up in afuture post about asking for help to bring him back to earth/ introducing a new RP convert.

I did go and grab coffee with her and have...I dunno... turned her into an orbiter for me? Basically I'm reaping other social benefits without having to outlay much in return. She's cooking for me because she "want's me to sample her new hobby." I'm tagging along as an equal share participant to a snow trip (I'll pay my share of the trip. That's it,) ummm... yeah. That's it so far. EDIT - as a qualified PT, she has also volunteered to provide ongoing assistance with creating new programs for my lifting goals as they change and mature.

I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking at, but without the want to have sex I'm achieving other things with very little social outlay.

I do apologise about the language, I was kind of just spinning this up on the spot. It's more stream of thought than a planned out essay.

TL;DR - Ex is going to use BP as "Fake boyfriend" to fend off other BP try hards. Also, being RP can lead to other goals with women than just sex.