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| 130 | Pretty Privilege Is Not All It’s Cracked Up To Be (FDS PODCAST EP. 76)FDS is no longer FDS. This is truly disappointing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/22 04:41 AM |
| 94 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 65 -HerHax Cybersecurity Researchers Dispel Myths About AirTag StalkingI believe it’s only temporarily :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/22 11:32 AM |
| 40 | Red Flag Of The Day: Grown Men Referring To Adult Women As ‘Girls’…..🤮But they get SO offended when we call them boys….make it make sense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 05:26 AM |
| 18 | People Projecting Insecurity Onto You When You’re QuietAt my job, all my coworkers are pretty much two-faced and have this superiority complex. If you're too quiet or don't engage in the gossip, they will start gossiping about you. & the worst part of it all is that the one who owns this place is exactly like this. I've come to notice she doesn't feel comfortable around me at times because I'm not like her other employees. That is not to say I don't socialize...I do, but I focus on my work and things that matter. I've been introverted my entire life… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 19 | Run if he tries to create false intimacy with you.My first ex wanted us to have sex within the first couple of weeks we were dating because his cousin started having sex early (we were 15 year old virgins) and I didn’t feel comfortable losing my virginity just yet as it felt too soon. At 8 months we lost it, but because I felt indirectly pressured to have sex. When I asked him if I would’ve made him wait longer, would he still be with me and his response was an immediate no. Then he started asking for nudes when I told him several times it made… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 04:02 AM |
| 44 | When HVM deletes the appImo...I feel that a HVM chooses to put in his time to other things instead of being on OLD apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 10:01 PM |
| 137 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.I have this coworker who confessed she finds me scary and other coworkers have mentioned the horrific things she’s done in the past with everyone there. It seems to me that she met someone who knows she can’t play mind games with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 02:34 AM |
| 70 | Straight from the horses mouth. NEVER share your past relationship trauma/problems with men because they will hold it against you. How poorly you were treated by men in the past will either make him resent you or he will use it as a bar for how much you are willing to put up with.This brings back soooo many memories. When I first started dating my ex it was all flowers and unicorns and by the end he was like “I just want you to be like before” you mean before you cheated on me and emotionally abused me for years???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:48 PM |
| 14 | Do not be jealous of the new girl… abusers do not change. Even if they somewhat “get better”, you deserve more than whatever half baked fuckboy shit this ex-douchebag has to offer you. Leave him in the past sisters, pray for the women who encounter him, and thrive. We are worth more than we know. 💞you can receive a story from them but that doesn't mean they have changed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 04:31 PM |
| 77 | I don’t even know what to say 🤦🏼♀️Ladies remember that just because he waits for “the one”, does not mean he going to be a great husband or change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 01:33 AM |
| 34 | 💯This guy I was talking too bothered him whenever I said "Morning" instead of "Good morning" so he wanted me to say certain words the "Right" way Lol...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 101 | 💯Also if the man you're dating agreed that it was Ariana Grande fault he died, you need to drop him immediately because these type of men are the type to manipulate & gaslight you to end and make you look like the bad guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 01:31 PM |
| 26 | Spotted one in the wild.Excuse my language but….. What the flying fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:53 PM |
| 99 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youI would get “ok” “stop being dramatic” “childish” “petty” after pouring my feelings out over and over again because I had hope he would consider how I would feel eventually….but that never happened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:48 PM |
| 14 | What would you tell your 10 year old self if you could?People will talk negatively about you, but that doesn’t mean what they say is the truth. You have to love yourself enough to walk away when someone hurts you. Leveling up will get lonely. But that’s okay You will lose people in your life, but that’s only to make space for those who are meant to be with you Doubt and fear will slow you down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:15 PM |
| 20 | What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you?He went on ask.fm, went on anon & started commenting on a bunch of girls pages from our class how nice there body was, etc. Then proceeds to tell me it was a joke because he knew the type of girls they were Started catfishing my close friends for about a month, possibly longer and when they found out it was him and told me immediately, he blamed THEM He was starting to get a little too close to his coworker and although I never had any evidence, I had a strong feeling something was going on betw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 12:03 AM |
| 233 | Absence is your best, most declarative weapon against men’s misogyny.Every time I sense that I’m getting disrespected, I don’t even hesitate to block anymore. No explanation. I just do it and ever since I’ve applied that, my life has become so peaceful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | I don't know if I did the right thing.I’ve learned that the reason why they start looking so bad is because everything that they are hiding on the inside starts to reflect on the outside | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 21 | I don't know if I did the right thing.Thank you, I appreciate this :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:22 AM |
| 26 | I don't know if I did the right thing.Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:21 AM |
| 69 | I don't know if I did the right thing.I felt bad for opening the door because I felt like I should’ve left him waiting like he made me wait for all those years and by opening the door somehow it made me feel like I was giving him what he wanted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:07 AM |
| 81 | I don't know if I did the right thing.This is my main concern too. I pray to God that he doesn’t come back & that nothing happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 03:08 AM |
| 223 | You know how you feel about a man within the first 5 seconds of meeting himThis is totally true. When I met a classmate through one of my college courses, I was immediately annoyed by him and did not like him whatsoever. I didn’t know why but something didn’t feel right about him. 2 years later, I was right. This can also apply to friendships, coworkers and even meeting family members. At my job, one of the previous coworkers came back to work for my boss and the moment I met her, suddenly the whole room felt different and my energy felt drained the whole day. Couple w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 11:32 PM |
| 8 | Once a cheater, always a cheater.If he cheats on you….he will cheat on his future partners too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 05:42 AM |
| 64 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profileHey there! My name is inserting fake name Matt, I’m 25 years old, here are a couple fun facts about me: I don’t cook because that’s not my job I will use my charm and a hint of neg on you If you weigh 160, we will have to see about that I’m a Menminist Long hair > short hair It’s whatever you want as long as you give me anal I would rather you come over, I’m always tired Don’t be dramatic Don’t be childish Within a year of our relationship, I’ll start cheating on you I’ll stay with you for years… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 05:59 AM |
| 16 | I’ve been saying this… It only takes men just a few months to know if you are the one! 👆It’s been said that men will keep you around until they find “the one” but….. really it’s more like “The one who will tolerate his bullshit the best” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:14 AM |
| 39 | What types of OLD websites or apps do you prefer?Honestly? None. I feel that HVW and HVM don’t have time to be wasting their time on a screen trying to convince someone to date them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 11 | "wait to have sex" labeled as "bad dating advice"...and all of the people in the comments applauding...Uh no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:32 AM |
| 35 | Instead of matching their energy, give them less.Sorry but I do not agree with this Time is too precious to be using it like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:31 AM |
| 54 | Love yourself enough to walk away.Exactly. Who are they to even get a second chance? No thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 08:16 PM |
| 34 | Love yourself enough to walk away.Apparently he “stopped” watching porn months ago because he said that it was slowing him down. But he was in the military a couple years back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 08:13 PM |
| 85 | Love yourself enough to walk away.I will not allow him to do so. My family already knows and will be backing me up 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 08:11 PM |
| 82 | Love yourself enough to walk away.Apparently if I don’t respond back to him via email or message, he’s going to go to my house and leave them at the porch. I’m going to throw it to the trash as soon as he leaves because I no longer want what’s been touched by him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 08:11 PM |
| 92 | Love yourself enough to walk away.Sounds exactly right, thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 07:39 PM |
| 84 | Love yourself enough to walk away.No they’re not! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 07:39 PM |
| 46 | Love yourself enough to walk away.Thank you love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 07:39 PM |
| 12 | Promise rings are a fucking joke.Damn this brings back painful memories. When I was a senior in HS, I saw how other long term couples were getting promise rings and I was the only one who didn’t have one and I would beg and beg for one…..he already started cheating on me and I thought if I get a promise ring, this will show that he loves me and see my worth. Once we enter college, I still find myself begging for one and on one of our anniversaries, a gift is laying on his bed and in my mind I’m like “oh my god….is this it?! Is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:43 AM |
| 49 | “I think about her as my daughter. I’m worried I might be physically attracted to her.”You can see the pain in her eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:28 AM |
| 24 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himWhen I broke up with my ex of 7 years…his last words were “This is it?” I said yes and he just left so easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:26 PM |
| 24 | Do not go back where you did not belong — your shitty, abusive ex will never change for the better.This came at such perfect timing. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 22 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮Wow…………. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 02:44 AM |
| 376 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮My ex cheated on me twice and I asked him if I cheated on him if he would’ve stayed like I did and it was the fastest no ever I felt horrible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 03:31 PM |
| 13 | Never stop vetting! Even after being faithful to your partner for 8 years, he could still think that he can do better and want to bang other women. Scrotes like this just want to get their dick wet and are never satisfied no matter how spectacular their gf is.I saw this and immediately made me want to throw my phone against the wall You can never win with these parasites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:22 PM |
| 38 | Relationship status = singleMy ex mom would start making dinner when her husband was close to coming home so he can eat well, she was the last to eat and would stay up until 1 am cleaning all the dishes while everyone was deep asleep and would have to wake up at 5 am to serve her husband breakfast….this is still going on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 02:18 AM |
| 24 | Everyone in this supposed feminist sub is telling her to propose herselfThis man will never propose to her. End of story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 01:25 PM |
| 22 | Read this if you’ve ever wondered “what if I gave my lvx a second chance…?”I gave my ex a second chance and it added 5 years of emotional trauma, so nope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 06:36 PM |
| 45 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Men who ask for your number but have never initiated a conversation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:35 PM |
| 74 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?What in the world?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:32 PM |
| 56 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Saw his dirty finger nails and then he told me they’re even dirtier in the summer because he helps his dad out in construction 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 11:06 PM |
| 30 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.If he makes fun of your body parts (A form of negging) this isn’t love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 12:34 AM |
| 4 | The "huh?"Yup yup yup yup yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:58 AM |
| 51 | The "huh?"If they also tell you “You’re not making sense” that’s another red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Is it okay to not want to date in your 20's?Period 💅🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 02:39 AM |
| 9 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?A woman name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 01:05 AM |
| 53 | Be wary of the guy who communicates a little too wellCan you give an example please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 03:15 AM |
| 13 | Men who only pursue you romantically after your “glow up”No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 11:21 PM |
| 21 | Raised on porn - documentaryWhen I was around 5-6, I remember my cousin sleeping over one time & I know I went to bed with shorts on. In the morning I woke up in my underwear and my cousin was gone. Sometimes I wonder why I woke up like that. I’ll never forget that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:16 AM |
| 3 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesBasically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:56 AM |
| 95 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesI was with my ex for 7 years and the reasons he “loved me” were the following “You have a good heart” “You’re kind” “You’re hardworking” I asked him if that was it and he told me he had to think about why he loved me. He had to THINK about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 09:26 PM |
| 18 | Why it Never Works When Forever Gf Finally Gets the RingIf your ex gets to marry the next person he dates and you ask yourself “why not me and why her?” Don’t believe for a second he’s a changed man and he’s HV. They will always be low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:11 AM |
| 11 | Make sure he’s complete because if you build a man, they will leave.Or they will treat you like shit so they can make you leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:15 AM |
| 21 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨SCROTEEEESSSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:15 PM |
| 30 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..My ex would repeatedly say “women are annoying man” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 09:17 PM |
| 33 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..This made me uncomfortable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 09:16 PM |
| 6 | If he makes fun of you for going to a community college, he ain’t the one.So when I got my first job ever AND going to school, he didn’t have a job at the time, he was just going to school (Mommy didn’t let him wok 😕) and I treated him with respect and showered him with the same amount of love I did before I even had a job and mind you….he already cheated on me but I still stayed despite what he had done too me. Years after, I had to quit my job because I was mentally going through a lot at the time..he got a job and he started treating me like shit and was acting lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:38 PM |
| 4 | If he makes fun of you for going to a community college, he ain’t the one.You got that right sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:14 PM |
| 5 | If he makes fun of you for going to a community college, he ain’t the one.I freaking agree with you 10000% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:14 PM |
| 45 | If he makes fun of you for going to a community college, he ain’t the one.LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 03:03 AM |
| 20 | Ladies how do you feel about mother’s who pick out girlfriends for their sons?Hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:41 AM |
| 49 | Ladies how do you feel about mother’s who pick out girlfriends for their sons?Omg preach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 12:41 AM |
| 59 | The amount of hypocrisy I've seen from men is just staggering.If you hear them say "Women are so annoying" Girl....RUN AS FAR AS YOU CAN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 10:43 AM |
| 61 | 100%I’m ngl I felt crazy for never feeling comfortable with this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:00 PM |
| 73 | I caught my husband watching porn and kicked him outYa know, one time my ex downloaded tinder and you know what his excuse was???? “I downloaded it to see what the app was about.” Uhmmmmm….I mean it says Dating……? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:49 AM |
| 23 | Jealousy in partners families? Has anyone experienced this?My ex and his best friend would play around sexually and it was a “joke” and every time I wanted the three of us to hang out, he would back out. He didn’t like it when I was involved because he didn’t want to feel like the third wheel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 2 | When you see it..I like this point of view, thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:10 PM |
| 5 | When you see it..That’s definitely another way to look at it. Once I’m done, you’re dead too me and I feel that they know that. I also deleted all my socials mainly because I have decided too prioritize my mental health and have also changed my number for over a year now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 13 | When you see it..Yeah of course it’s a good thing! But in my last relationship, he cheated on me several times and was emotionally abusive for 7 years to then jump into another relationship months after our break up. I have moments where it makes me feel like I just didn’t really matter enough to fight for after everything I did to make that relationship work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:55 PM |
| 31 | When you see it..This happens to me too. But I am curious, why is it that for certain women we don’t have exes come back or have those crazy “omg he’s been stalking me and made like 10 accounts just to talk to me?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Best perfumes that you recommend?Wouldn’t that be in the female dating strategy sub though? and since this sub says ask, I assumed it’s to ask about other things besides dating since this is a sub for women. | /r/askFDS | 27/08/21 08:52 PM |
| 14 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 02:54 AM |
| 52 | Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problemsAaand this is why I’m never joining OLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:24 PM |
| 13 | I have never met a HVM in the context of dating… how common is this?I’m sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 11:56 AM |
| 55 | I have never met a HVM in the context of dating… how common is this?What happened? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:20 AM |
| 6 | I have NEVER regretted dropping a man the moment he waves his first red flag. I have ALWAYS regretted giving them a second chance because it’s never just one red flag.And remember, LVM a majority of the time will remain LV. No matter who they're with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:46 AM |
| 42 | This card at the store made me think of y’all…Meredith grey drops mic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:52 AM |
| 5 | Have you ever truly felt immediate "sparks", or was it just lovebombing/emotional vulnerability on your part?🥺❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 10:47 PM |
| 48 | Have you ever truly felt immediate "sparks", or was it just lovebombing/emotional vulnerability on your part?Butterflies actually aren’t a good thing. This is going to be corny but….when you’re with the right person, they should feel like home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Angry scrote texts me from another phone number after I blocked and deleted him because we’re not a match...All I can picture is a whiny little boy sobbing trying to tell you why he’s angry that he didn’t get to play with his toy and not making any sense at alll Wah poor baby :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:06 AM |
| 26 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.mhmmmmmmm, nope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Public Displays of DisrespectMy ex once said after I’d beg for the bare minimum Him: “If you want me to do these things, then behave” Me: “Behave?! I’m not a dog….?” Him: “Never said that” Him: “I just want you to be yourself” Get outtttaaa here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Public Displays of DisrespectTHIS IS SO TRUE About a year ago, some guy I was talking to confessed to me that he was embarrassed to be around his girlfriend in public when they were together, than he told me “I’m not ashamed to be seen with you. I want to show you off. Show everyone that you’re mine.” I was basically his trophy. On top of that, he showed me a list of women he banged 😶 he was like…..so proud of it It’s so upsetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Withholding as a Form of AbuseThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Withholding as a Form of AbuseMy ex once told me “you’re my security blanket” with so much pride and joy….it broke my heart when he revealed how he truly saw me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 06:01 AM |
| 24 | "Dress to the Nines Everyday Because You Never Know When You Might Meet Your Soulmate" 🤡Someone once said “Don’t dress up just for holidays. Dress up everyday because you’re alive.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:58 AM |
| 33 | Why I Stayed Single in College and Why You Should TooThis also applies for the queens who are pursing a higher education such as a masters program! ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 02:25 AM |
| 115 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanI found out my ex liked a twitter post that said "When you're finally in a healthy relationship" yet he was the one who cheated on me and was emotionally abusive to then jump into another relationship months after I broke up with him because I couldn't take it anymore. And then we're the "Toxic" ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:12 AM |
| 115 | GREAT ANSWER TO "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A MAN?"You can also say "A man who doesn't ask me that" Leaves them speechless ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 10:24 PM |
| 7 | Creepy guy friends.I know you said you need him for studio purposes but…..are you really going to put your discomfort last over this??? | /r/askFDS | 26/07/21 12:54 AM |
| 3 | If he wanted to, he wouldI agree to an extent. Although this shows that men should be doing these type of things to make us happy, I feel this also gives them a chance to portray that image of being HV on social media. Once the cameras are off, thats all over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 10:57 PM |
| -1 | If he wanted to, he wouldunpopular opinion: Why does he have to show social media that he's making his partner happy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 53 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.My ex family cousins had a major crush on another family member of theirs and one of them even dated her and the family was like perfectly ok with it…..? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 04:08 PM |
| 72 | How should I respond to this message?I mean come oooon! That was most likely less than $50 bucks and he's "urgently" requesting for money back?! DEFINITELY DO NOT pay him back. He probably can't even afford enough toilet paper to wipe the shitload of personality he has all over him NEXT! | /r/askFDS | 05/07/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | When men become single, they hop on to another relationship. When women become single, we pursue a higher education, become financially stable, glow up emotionally, mentally, spiritually & physically, & most importantly find self-love within. Hence, why men die earlier.They keep commenting on my post as if what they say is relevant 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 02:31 PM |
| 5 | When men become single, they hop on to another relationship. When women become single, we pursue a higher education, become financially stable, glow up emotionally, mentally, spiritually & physically, & most importantly find self-love within. Hence, why men die earlier.Well said 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 03:22 PM |
| 31 | When men become single, they hop on to another relationship. When women become single, we pursue a higher education, become financially stable, glow up emotionally, mentally, spiritually & physically, & most importantly find self-love within. Hence, why men die earlier.No. A true HVM will focus on himself rather than throwing his baggage on to his next victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 01:11 AM |
| 21 | When men become single, they hop on to another relationship. When women become single, we pursue a higher education, become financially stable, glow up emotionally, mentally, spiritually & physically, & most importantly find self-love within. Hence, why men die earlier.You go girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 10:54 PM |
| 18 | When men become single, they hop on to another relationship. When women become single, we pursue a higher education, become financially stable, glow up emotionally, mentally, spiritually & physically, & most importantly find self-love within. Hence, why men die earlier.Omg yes!!!!!!!! I have noticed that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I want to block.My intentions are not to sound ableist at all. I deeply apologize if I have offended anyone but yes I definitely did block him! | /r/askFDS | 01/07/21 11:04 PM |
| 23 | I want to block.I blocked him. | /r/askFDS | 01/07/21 11:50 AM |
| -1 | I want to block.I respect your opinion but this is not getting anywhere, have a good day. | /r/askFDS | 01/07/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | I want to block.I’m not there anymore because I transferred as I mentioned clearly in my post. I was in a community college YEARS ago, as was he and he also transferred. Also, disabled or not, I treat everyone equally. I’m not friends out of pity with anyone. I made this post because I normally am not one to end friendships out of no where without an explanation, hence why I’m seeking for advice. Also I mentioned that my friend was uncomfortable when he was around us not because she’s against those who are disa… | /r/askFDS | 01/07/21 02:24 AM |
| 0 | I want to block.How am I an ableist? | /r/askFDS | 01/07/21 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Transform your Online Dating ProfileExactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting me...................... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”What the hell did I just read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 32 | if he wanted to he wouldGot an upvote from me! In my point of view, every time I see these videos I always feel like they're staged. Why show off these things to social media? Shouldn't these type of moments be between you and your partner? This is just my opinion, and I understand if others see it differently! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 03:44 PM |
| 16 | Finally met my HVM 🥰I think I saw the same post!!! I had a major eye roll but I’m like you know what….yeah I’m not going to waste my energy on this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Leave the Door OpenSigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 24 | So proud of ladies waking up and seeing through the 50/50 scam !Back then, I used to want things to be 50/50 but mainly because I wasn’t being treated the way I should’ve been treated. I was cheated on, emotionally neglected, gaslight, etc. I felt like I was the only one doing the most work in the relationship because I was “the creative one” I begged to be loved, I begged for the attention I wasn’t getting. But ever since I finally ended that relationship, I now see why the 50/50 logic isn’t the way too go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Another giant step forward for womankind!Scrotes throwing tantrums in the back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 11:17 PM |
| 8 | I can’t unsee this now…I have a question. How do you reply if they tell you this: “I asked you first” “Why don’t you answer my question first and then I’ll tell you” I tend to either stay quiet or end up answering their question out of pressure and honestly it gets tiring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:37 AM |
| 16 | So few words, so much accuracyMy ex told everyone I was jealous but he didn’t tell them that he cheated on me several times in the past because he wanted to “wait” to tell them later. Meanwhile he was seen as the “good guy” while I was the crazy jealous one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:16 PM |
| 14 | Porn does cause higher occurrences of childporn use and pedophilia and studies are coming out suggesting this connection with porn use and paraphiliaUnfortunately this is something my family doesn’t understand. At a young age I caught one of my uncle watch porn, as I grew I became aware he would sleep with prostitutes whenever he felt like it, he used to hate showering, has never gone to the doctor, poor eating habits and the list goes on. Now that I’m older, I don’t feel comfortable being around him or my father for too long (also watches porn) for too long or wearing what I’d like around the house. I’ve caught my father look at my breasts … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:29 AM |
| 17 | Don't over-complicate your relationships: if a relationship is not making you feel good majority of the time, it's time to leave.This also applies to friendships! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:15 PM |
| 38 | Why is it that women get shamed for being "gold diggers" (even though they aren't) but men can get away with using women so much? Answer: Patriarchy.Aw man this brings back some unpleasant memories I was on a trip for almost a month and when I came back, the first thing my ex said to me when he came over my house was “what am I going to eat for dinner?” Men don’t care about women. They care about themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Moving on from NVM ex and finding your inner strength..^ | /r/askFDS | 22/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 48 | GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎I rather be alone than have a parasite suck my soul | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 16 | Remember, Your Ex Is an Ex for a Reason. For More Content From This Talented Singer/Songwriter, Check Out Her TikTok @ mollylikestosing.Why do they do this? I had an ex do this to me when we saw each other in a restaurant, he immediately got up as quick as he could and hid in his new girlfriend car. (Btw, he was emotionally abusive and cheated several times) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Men will be on their best behavior until they get what they want.you got that right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 13 | Men will be on their best behavior until they get what they want.Say it louder sis!!!! 🗣️🗣️🗣️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 24 | Men will be on their best behavior until they get what they want.I definitely agree! I have a friend, lets call her friend #1 who has experienced dating manipulative and narcissistic men in the past, luckily she got out of them but now that she's talking to someone new, every little thing he does he gets praised for it.....I told her to be realistic about it and to stay guarded because men can easily switch on you. Then I have another friend, friend #2, who is rooting for our friend #1 to get laid (This was before friend #1 got asked out) and said "Why do we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:51 PM |
| 31 | PSA: as soon as man says that, run the opposite direction sis 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ This is RED FLAG. Manipulation.“it’s just a joke” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 06:44 PM |
| 12 | Men will never understand how vulnerable it feels to be a womanI used to do groceries at a local supermarket nearby, and there was always this employee eyeing me everywhere I went or would get close to me on several occasions. I felt like I couldn’t have me time without feeling uncomfortable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 35 | Stop normalizing men’s immaturityWhen my ex mother found out his son cheated on me, she specifically said "If she loves you, she will come back to you" So basically it was acceptable to be careless about someone else feelings! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:35 PM |
| 34 | PSA: Ladies, don't post self identifying content using the reddit account you participate in FDS with. And PLEASE don't cross post in beauty subs with your face!It’s sad how they come to be these strong macho men online, when in reality they are a bunch of cowards who can’t even wipe their own ass 😆 Hehe oopsssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:47 AM |
| 17 | ✨ mood ✨And the worst part is that they don’t care how many UTI’s you can get! They don’t care if your anus ends up coming out and you have to go to the hospital to get surgery, because it’s “NEVER” men’s fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:38 PM |
| 56 | ✨ mood ✨For 7 years my ex asked me about anal. every. single. time. I would always say no and that I’m just not into that but even then, he still persisted. He would also always ask me to record us having sex and it made me feel so uncomfortable but I did it anyway just for him to shut up. He ended up cheating on me. More than once. I never felt comfortable taking nudes either, but did it anyways so he can shut up. It’s as if he didn’t care how it made me feel, as long as he got what he wanted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:25 PM |
| 24 | ✨ mood ✨Ugh of course it’s always has to be a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:15 PM |
| 14 | ✨ mood ✨I’m sorry but what’s vanilla sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 14 | Say this louder!Because she can | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Found this on Facebook...What the hell did I just read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:08 AM |
| 9 | Book ListWhere can I purchase this book?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:15 AM |
| 20 | Preach it 👏🏻At the end of the day it backfires on them and these assholes end up alone 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:38 AM |
| 15 | Preach it 👏🏻Mmmm, I don’t exactly agree with what she said at the end. If a man “changes” for a woman, just know he’s changing his tactic to be able to manipulate her better in order to get what he wants If a man treats one of his partners poorly, you can bet he will treat his future partners the same or worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:30 AM |
| 4 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.When I used to work for my boss, he was constantly venting to me about his family problems and a majority of the time I NEVER asked. Not because I’m a heartless individual, but I’m not your therapist. He would start off by saying “yeah my _____” is doing well” and I would just be like ???? A lot of times I would have to stop what I was doing, be behind on my work because I had to listen to him. And the worst part? It was just me and him working together, no one else. So you can imagine how uncom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:23 PM |
| 2 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InI know this is out of fear and pure anxiety, but how can one stop believing that our LVM exes can turn into HVM and get their happy ending? I guess I’ve watched way too many “romantic” movies/soaps and even the assholes get the woman at the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:54 AM |
| 33 | This is such a great argument for why “don’t bring up what happened in the past” is such bull. Men just wait for you to calm down so they can brush everything under the rug, and then do the exact same thing again. LVM truly do not care about their partners.“I’m getting tired of this” “Stop being dramatic” “Petty” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:40 AM |
| 31 | My nvm expected me to put the groceries awayThen do it. Sticking around longer isn't going to make things better. He's just going to get better at being abusive. | /r/askFDS | 30/03/21 03:53 PM |
| 20 | My nvm expected me to put the groceries awayTell me you're packing your things like YESTERDAY | /r/askFDS | 30/03/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivationMen don’t really change that much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:36 PM |
| 4 | It frustrates me seeing women do their husbands/boyfriends laundryMy father doesn’t know the difference between a softener and detergent 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:28 PM |
| 11 | It frustrates me seeing women do their husbands/boyfriends laundry🥺🥺🥺 You got yourself a winner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:38 AM |
| 8 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivationOr the famous “I don’t check other girls out” Yeah ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:33 AM |
| 6 | Please remember, most men are not your friend. Yeah, yeah #NAMALT. Protect yourself physically and emotionally ladies.wtf????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:14 PM |
| 19 | Please remember, most men are not your friend. Yeah, yeah #NAMALT. Protect yourself physically and emotionally ladies.I also had a "friend" who was there for me when I got out of a 7 yr relationship, & when I had sex with another guy who wasn't him, he blew up and you know what this fool told me??!?!? "I CAME FIRST, I DESERVE IT"................. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:12 PM |
| 52 | Boys who believe its the womens fault she was assaulted, deserve to be lonely.Certain women use this word as if it such a good thing...no my love no.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Vibrator recommendations?Luna rechargeable personal wand massager on Amazon! I go to sleep like a baby after this | /r/askFDS | 15/03/21 02:19 AM |
| 19 | 🔥🔥The Female Dating Strategy podcast teaser is now live on Spotify! Check it out! 🔥🔥I feel like a little kid on Christmas 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 01:27 AM |
| 14 | 👑 Listening to this on repeat! It’s valid for me to happiest single. Marriage and babies don’t have to be my life goals 👑Men??? What's that?? I'll get a dog, they're the best companion a women can get! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 8 | Women being abused isn’t enough for men to quit watching porn.They are. But who cares about them, we have each other support and that’s what what truly matters the most 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:40 AM |
| 14 | Women being abused isn’t enough for men to quit watching porn.Mine said it would be easy to move on from me....months after our breakup, he’s telling someone else he loves them. Yup..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:15 AM |
| 8 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMAre their brains filled with cum? HAHAHAHA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:59 PM |
| 13 | I’m shook. Got told today “after you’re done healing I hope you’ll give me the chance I deserve.” DESERVES?? Because you got me flowers after I had deleted you and have not spoken to you at all? Lmao no. He’s so pushy and obsessive it’s creepy at this point.BLOCK HIS DUSTY BOOTAAAAYYYY | /r/askFDS | 23/02/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Two pieces of advice regarding marriage and childrenThat’s living the life 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:57 PM |
| 8 | Be weary of men who intimidate you into not voicing your concerns in the relationship.But you know what? We didn’t lose anything. We gained more than what they will ever give us. Respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Be weary of men who intimidate you into not voicing your concerns in the relationship.But when it comes to having sex or doing anything that is going to benefit them, that’s when you finally start to matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 41 | FDS women don't have high standardsPeriod 💅🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:49 AM |
| 25 | Be weary of men who intimidate you into not voicing your concerns in the relationship.It’s just not worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:48 AM |
| 86 | FDS women don't have high standardsWhen I was younger I asked my ex how would he feel if I wasn’t okay watching porn and I would like him to stop. He quickly responded “I would break up with you” 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:28 AM |
| 39 | Two pieces of advice regarding marriage and childrenMy mother aunt married at 40! She saw no point in settling down at 20s or 30s because she said she was never going to get those years back, so why waste those precious years for a single man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:06 AM |
| 75 | Be weary of men who intimidate you into not voicing your concerns in the relationship.Oh my god, I would write PARAGRAPHS just because I wanted to be heard for once. I had so much anger and pain bottled up inside, that’s all I ever was. Anger and pain. I would tell him how I feel, only to end up being called “dramatic” “childish” “petty” or ignored. Most of the time he would sleep peacefully and I would cry myself to sleep and the next morning “good morning babe” as if nothing ever happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:20 AM |
| 5 | It's been 4.5 years and he can't give me any timeline for marriage/an engagement. What should I do?Amen | /r/askFDS | 23/02/21 01:02 AM |
| 23 | It's been 4.5 years and he can't give me any timeline for marriage/an engagement. What should I do?If you guys have been together this long, he should now by now whether he wants to marry you or not. “When the time is right” is such a fat excuse. A man who loves you won’t make you question. | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 09:19 PM |
| 6 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.My aunt was there throughout the whole abusive relationship between my parents and she later on told my mother that I went through a lot because of them and it wasn’t fair to me that I had to be brought along. At some point I did feel suicidal because it was too much for me, my mom did end up seeing that she was at fault for this too and apologized. I forgave her because we all have our mistakes and so I can be at peace. Sadly, my mother, my aunt and I have gone through abusive relationships but… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Tips on assertivenessHell yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:40 AM |
| 15 | TELL YO DADDY WE DON'T CARE!!! I remember seeing this show a few years back and really really wanting to high five this boss babes!!Queens supporting other queens!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:14 AM |
| 82 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.My mother put up with my abusive father for 20 years because she feared him so much that she rather stay alive for me. Whenever he would come home from work, my mom would run to the kitchen to make sure his meal was nice and warm, she would do his laundry plus hers and mine (I had to go to the laundry with my mom as a young girl to help her out), she was going to night school AND work full time, never give her an ounce of affection, only have sex with her when he wanted to get pleased, whenever … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:45 AM |
| 2 | What happened to first dates?Oh absolutely! I used to do these type of things in high school but sadly his mentality did not move on to adulthood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What happened to first dates?This happened to me while I was in college. He’s 26 and I’m 24. What’s so normal about this though? It’s more creepy than anything. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:38 PM |
| 46 | Why can't I block him? I need a push!! ;(Do you see how much time you’re wasting by writing all of this instead of focusing on a person who is always going to be there for you and always give you everything you want and need? Want to know who that person is? YOU. He does not care about you, he cares about getting what he wants. You’re not the only woman he’s talking too, he’s leading you on and you definitely do not deserve that. Why would you want that? He’s disgusting and one day life is going to get him really good. But only if you … | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 07:01 AM |
| 27 | Since following FDS I have low/no libido! I rarely find a man attractive these days. Anyone else turned off from most guys?I feel the exact.same.way. I just can't look at men the same anymore. Whenever I go out, I don't even bother to give them a second of my attention. Why? Because my time is gold and so far none of these scrotes deserves it. I am hopeful that one day I will find an HVM that is on my level, but right now it's time to focus on myself. I used to not be okay with being alone and that is a reason as to why I attracted so many LVM's but since I have learned to value my alone time, appreciate that I am e… | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 05:27 PM |
| 5 | For the love of god please stop having their children. Twitch streamer threatens to break child’s neck for being in his roomThis boy is a father.....? Oh my god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:29 AM |
| 18 | What happened to first dates?I went on a date with this guy, thought he was pretty cool until he said “so...want to come over to my house? My parents are going to a party. We don’t have to do anything, we could just watch a movie.” UH, NO. BYE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:04 AM |
| 23 | Something feels off? Follow your instincts!I remember I saw on tik tok how our “gut feeling” is our future selves warning the present us because they know what’s going to happen and I never saw it that way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:01 PM |
| 15 | Something feels off? Follow your instincts!When I was dating my ex, he cheated on me twice (he said he never cheated, it was just a joke) he gave me all his social media passwords and I can look at his phone whenever I pleased. But eventually little by little, he said I needed permission to check his phone which I understand because everyone deserve privacy. He knew I would look at social media’s like every single day to find out if there was something fishy, it was hell. As you can see, I no longer trusted this person and put myself thr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 09:50 PM |
| 11 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?A guy that I was talking too pushed me away in public when I tried hugging him to say goodbye because that was considered clingy....lol He told me he always loved me (we knew each other in HS) and wanted to move in even when we were only talking for LESS THAN A MONTH He ended up ghosting me weeks later, but man oh man I have now realized I dodged a majoooor bullet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:58 AM |
| 13 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Once upon a time, when I was I was in a LTR, I was with someone who enjoyed playing video games & I was okay with it. I thought it was adorable & harmless. As the years passed by, I recall that one time I asked him "Who would you choose, me or video games?" immediately, he said video games. Why? Because they were there before and they will never leave him. It hurt, but at the time, I decided to ignore that pain and continue dating this lying cheating piece of shit. Scenario #1: There were times … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 07:28 PM |
| 14 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessThey’ll treat you like shit at your most vulnerable too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Need pep talk pleaseI completely understand how you feel. A similar situation happened to me, except mine was almost for 8 years and he was in a new relationship within months after our breakup. In social media it will seem like he's happy, it will seem like he's okay and he's a changed man with this new person. Believe me, he's not. No one will put their worst image on social media. Men don't change for anyone, they just get better at manipulating. When someone does you wrong, they will get their cup of karma even… | /r/askFDS | 06/02/21 02:48 PM |
| 18 | This is horrifyingMy first boyfriend wanted us to have sex in the beginning of our relationship because his cousin and his girlfriend of the time had sex like the first week and I’m like okay???? I’m not ready yet (we were both virgins) Made him wait 10 months to have sex. Then eventually he kept asking me to have anal and I always said no but it’s like he never gave up in asking knowing I just wasn’t interested in that. Pressured me into taking nudes, knowing I also didn’t feel comfortable with that but because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 29 | The audacity. (Found this on another sub)I wouldn’t even respond back after that To add on to that, a lot of these scrotes are going out with women who aren’t their type just so they won’t be lonely, especially now during this pandemic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:32 PM |
| 70 | So-called "petty" deal breakersHere’s another one. If he’s a mommas boy and you’re an independent woman...it will NOT work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 07:05 PM |
| 77 | Women exist only for male pleasure...🤢🤢My ex would beg me to wear thongs and too please him, although it made me feel uncomfortable (amongst other things) I started wearing them. and then when it got to the point where I actually started liking wear thongs because I appreciated how they looked on me and made me feel confident, he started getting annoyed that they made me feel good. I was just like ???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Valentine’s Day Should Include Self Love 💗 How Do You Plan To Show Yourself Some Love This Valentines Day?Go for it!!!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Valentine’s Day Should Include Self Love 💗 How Do You Plan To Show Yourself Some Love This Valentines Day?I believe they make them at papa johns! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:05 PM |
| 20 | Valentine’s Day Should Include Self Love 💗 How Do You Plan To Show Yourself Some Love This Valentines Day?Here’s a list of what I’m planning to do: Curl my hair, do my make up & wear a cute dress, maybe go to a museum 2.Buy myself flowers + a heart pizza + wine Go to the park, read some Harry Potter Write myself a love letter (I used to write love letters to my ex every yearly anniversary) Facial mask at night & watch a movie of my choice 😄❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 43 | Sex with a HVMThis gives me hope! When I was with my ex, if I would have a yeast infection his response would be “🤢🤮” Whenever I would get my period, his response would be...yep you guessed it “🤢🤮” Never ran to the pharmacy to get me anything. No emotional support, nothing, nada But yet I was the childish one in the relationship 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:50 AM |
| 36 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.It’s over for you scrotes Bwhahahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:12 PM |
| 7 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.You go girl ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:59 PM |
| 6 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.WOW I completely understand you. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, but we’re happy you got out of a relationship that was beneath you queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 8 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.I teared up a bit, haha I appreciate that I have such an immense support from all of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 45 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.My ex who cheated on me a couple of times knew I was NEVER comfortable with him going to hooters or twin peaks, yet one night he decided to go to twin peaks because he didn’t want to disappoint his friends. As of for me? I had to deal with it even if it made me feel bad. I felt crazy at some point that I wasn’t okay with it. He said that I was too jealous (well hello you cheated) old me, unfortunately believed it. Piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:40 PM |
| 8 | Saw this on Twitter and it’s so true! Be careful what man you date - they can drag you down!If they ask you what do you want out of the relationship, what can we say instead of actually telling them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:51 AM |
| 20 | This man confirmed that if he hasn’t proposed WITHIN 3 years, he DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY YOU. Please leave the men who don’t do everything they can to be with you! No forever girlfriends here!My mom ALWAYS told me “He doesn’t want to marry you. He’s using you for sex only. That isn’t love” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 05:42 PM |
| 13 | This man confirmed that if he hasn’t proposed WITHIN 3 years, he DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY YOU. Please leave the men who don’t do everything they can to be with you! No forever girlfriends here!When me and my ex made a year together I told him that one day I want to get married. Years started passing and no ring. His responses? “I don’t believe in marriage” “It’s just a piece of paper” “I don’t want you to steal my money” “I never want to get married” “Marriage is dumb” ALSO “I don’t know if you’d be a good mother, you’re too childish” “Until you change I’ll consider marriage” Those 7 years spent together involved him cheating on me a couple times, and ending up in an abusive relations… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 49 | It's a wonder I still date..I believe there's song out by Halsey (I can't recall the name of the song) that talks about her grandmother or her mother telling her that love doesn't give you butterflies, but rather it makes you feel safe and at ease. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | My ex ran away the moment he saw me.This!!!! I haven't been able to get into another relationship because I'm still healing from this one, so I been working on myself daily and things have been turning around for me. Thank you for your kind words <3 | /r/askFDS | 08/01/21 05:03 AM |
| 11 | Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatmentExactly this!!!! I got called crazy, childish, dramatic and jealous every time I expressed my feelings He couldn’t even admit to himself that he cheated on me multiple times. Blamed my friends because they were the ones who found out he was cat fishing them for a month, he was cat fishing my freaking friends!!!! One of the things I remember him telling me was “if you think I’m capable of physically cheating, there’s the door” Like what the heck!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:28 AM |
| 21 | Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatmentMy ex got pretty close to a female coworker, they texted every day, sent each other selfies, etc I told him I don’t mind if he has female friends but to please limit their contact because it made me feel so uncomfortable that they were too friendly with each other. Then he had the audacity to tell me “so you don’t want me to have any friends?!” When I told him otherwise... He got pissed and told me they were just friends. But I kept getting these gut feelings that something wasn’t right. I went … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:20 PM |
| 3 | My ex ran away the moment he saw me.This is also true, just gotta keep moving forward & leveling up 💪 | /r/askFDS | 04/01/21 02:41 AM |
| 3 | My ex ran away the moment he saw me.Sigh I know I did. Just sometimes doesn’t feel like it | /r/askFDS | 04/01/21 02:38 AM |
| 5 | My ex ran away the moment he saw me.As much as this hurts, you’re right. | /r/askFDS | 04/01/21 02:37 AM |
| 1 | my ex ran away the moment he saw me.Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Found this on Twitter and felt it in the gut!That’s right queen, you did the right thing. We’re proud of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:46 AM |
| 7 | Found this on Twitter and felt it in the gut!My ex defended his shitty best friend ALL the freaking time when I would tell him he wasn’t a good friend. Yet his BFF disrespected me, & other women. What did he ever do? laugh with him. “Babe it’s just a joke” But nooooo, he was allowed to talk shit about my friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Found this on Twitter and felt it in the gut!But they can commit to video games NEXT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:41 AM |
| 5 | No more falling in love blindly, follow your intuition blindly. To an awesome and healthy 2021 🥂Yes exactly! After my ex, the times I have attempted to date I would get these gut feelings something wasn’t right about these guys, I end up being right at the end of the day. Now, I have learned my lessons and will not ignore my intuition ever again. As women, we have been given a gift that these scrotes won’t ever have & must take full advantage of our power <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:11 PM |
| 21 | No more falling in love blindly, follow your intuition blindly. To an awesome and healthy 2021 🥂I would constantly have horrible dreams about my ex with another woman. Every time I wasn’t with him, I felt like something wasn’t right. I thought I was going crazy acting all paranoid. I tried trusting him, but my body kept warning me. I found out he cheated on me twice. The second time he got pissed that my friends told me. Unfortunately I stayed because I strongly believed things were going to change. Things got worse. I lost myself. I lost myself for a very long time because I loved him for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:51 PM |
| 74 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menWOW Girlllllll, you dodged a major bullet there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:55 AM |
| 18 | KNOW YOUR WORTH!If I had a penny for every time I shoved down my ex throat to see my worth, I still wouldn’t have enough money to change his mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:20 AM |
| 1 | This sounds like my last relationship!🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:33 PM |
| 25 | LADIES!!!!! This!!!10 months since I broke up with him. 7 years together. Cheated on me more than once. To this day, I still have my moments where I ask myself If I was the problem. If I was the narcissist. It’s not easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:30 AM |
| 22 | This sounds like my last relationship!Zero. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:27 AM |
| 44 | This sounds like my last relationship!I told my ex “I feel like you don’t appreciate me” He said “I’m sorry you feel that way.” 7 years of emotional abuse for me. 7. Damn. Years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:26 AM |
| 7 | This sounds like my last relationship!Haha I love this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 29 | This sounds like my last relationship!But WAIT It gets better. Back during my pickmeisha days, I would see how the girls would get promise rings from their boyfriends and I thought it was sweet, I said “hey maybe one of these days my boyfriend will get me to show me how much he loves me!!” After yeaaaars of begging for one, he finally got me a promise ring after I took him back the second time he cheated on me All through out the 7 years I was with him, my feelings were invalidated, he’d call me childish/dramatic to shut me up, beli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:15 AM |
| 34 | This sounds like my last relationship!My ex partner went behind my back TWICE & cat-fished my friends and a couple classmates a couple years back telling them provocative comments yet he said he “never cheated” He also said “if you ever think I would physically cheat on you, there’s the door” 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 15 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.I forgave my ex the first time he cheated on me, 4 years later, he did it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:59 AM |
| 10 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.Fuck them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:58 AM |
| 50 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.I found out my ex cheated on me twice, God knows how many times he truly did. One day I asked him "If I was the one who cheated on you, would you take me back?" An immediate "Nope." and I go "But...I took you back?" you know what he told me after?? "Yeah, but that's YOU." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:56 AM |
| 8 | Straight men shouldn't be OBGYNs- what are your thoughts?Thank you. And thank you for teaching these young souls to speak up whenever something isn’t right! Unfortunately I wasn’t taught to speak up but rather stay quiet in order to seem “respectful” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:58 PM |
| 77 | Straight men shouldn't be OBGYNs- what are your thoughts?When I was about 8-10 years old I had to rush to the emergency for children because I couldn’t stop throwing up. & A male around his mid 50s came in and the first thing he told me to do was to take off my panties and I felt as if he was satisfied that he saw me....I didn’t feel comfortable whatsoever but I did it because I’m like “hey he’s a doctor, this is his job.....right??” what in the hell does the stomach have to do with my vagina??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:28 AM |
| 138 | This question always seemed like a red flag to me🚩🚩Or you can also say “whatever works best for me.” you will have those mofos wondering like crazy 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:53 PM |
| 19 | This ain’t it sisWHEN HE ISN’T PLAYING GAMES ON HIS PHONE ON A DATE 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Every time I see a before 1 year HVM post. Girl na na, please reconsider. He's just doing the bare minimum.“In just 3 months, he has made me the happiest girl! I love you babyyyyy” Please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Love. Yourself. Everytime.Awww, thank you!!! 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Love. Yourself. Everytime.Yassss queeeeennnn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Love. Yourself. Everytime.❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:33 AM |
| 4 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?I have moments where I still blame myself that I was the problem in the relationship (Have come to realize he’s a narcissist fuck). He’s already in a new relationship after almost 8 years of us being together...I don’t think he’s coming back. p.s Even though I was the one who ended it, & I know I wouldn’t take him back after all the pain he has caused...it still hurts how he’s treating better than he ever treated me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:26 AM |
| 5 | Scrotes hate seeing standards being met. Gotta humble them somehow.So wait, you guys are no longer together? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:09 AM |
| 2 | They got mad because they were caughtMy ex was cat fishing my close friends at the time for a month, & was probably catfishing other people longer then that behind my back...one time, he ended up FaceTiming one of my old friends BY MISTAKE, and when they told me he was cheating he got so pissed off at them and told me those aren’t real friends and he was blaming them for telling me....can you believe that?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:21 AM |
| 25 | I snitch on cheating men 😌Last year, I found out a girl I went to high school with blocked my ex all over social media and it made me question why she did that. My ex acted like he had noooo clue, I tried brushing it off but I only grew suspicious about it until I messaged her, only for her to tell me that she remembers him messaging her on Snapchat (I have no idea what he told her) & remembered blocking him everywhere for xyz reasons. Yet...she couldn’t come to me the moment all of this was happening and I was posting p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 02:45 AM |
| 6 | You are your own #1This also includes male friends. Sometimes they will play the “I’m a good friend, I’ll be there for you.” Until you don’t give them what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 05:03 PM |
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