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“I Snapchat and text a lot of girls regulary” Start with this: do this less and instead ask them on a date where you can flirt.
/r/seduction18/10/17 09:28 PM
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Looks do matter, but not as much as you thing. Sure, having a good jaw line and a nice head of hair will give you some points, but if you are unable to emotionally stimulate women you have almost zero chance. How many fat dudes have you seen with beautiful girlfriends? Seriously, next time you’re out look around. Men see a women with a nice ass or good tits and they are willing to fuck. Women do not work that way, they need to be emotionally stimulated. So, learn to talk to women and you will ha…
/r/seduction14/10/17 10:05 PM
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Your dick ain’t broke, your mind was in that moment. It has happend to me before, not getting hard, it happens to all of us. To we as men sex is when your dick is inside of her and you cum, to women sex is a lot more emotional. Give her good foreplay and eat her out good and she won’t mind you not getting it up. Serious though, stop touching your dick so much. I have observed myself that when I have jacked off a few days before having sex I will have more trouble getting it up. Stop touching you…
/r/seduction14/10/17 09:58 PM
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I used to like texting a lot, but I am disliking it more and more since I realized it is time consuming and only good to set up dates. For your question: it doesn’t really matter. I mean, if Brad Pitt would ask her for a date next month she would probably still be down. Do it when you feel like doing it. If she is interested, she is interested. Personally, that is the reason I ask them out within a few texts, to find out fast and don’t waste time.
/r/seduction14/10/17 09:46 PM
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Information is too little to tell. Did you feel her orgasm? Either way, assume it is a good thing and text her to meet up in a few days. If she’a down then you have your answer, if she is not interested you will have your answer too. Good luck
/r/seduction14/10/17 09:40 PM
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“Let’s grab drinks next [insert day here], you down?” Just text her this. If she is interested she will be down, maybe not on that day but she will propose another day. If she isn’t close the book and move on. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/10/17 09:36 PM
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Peepee in veevee
/r/seduction09/10/17 06:48 AM
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I came up with escape room dates myself too. I think it’s one of the best settings/activities for a date. Too bad it’s too damn expensive here, so I won’t take girls there for a first date.
/r/seduction03/10/17 05:53 AM
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Remorse in what sense? You mean that I was shitty or we had sex too early and she doesn’t feel comfortable now?
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:02 PM
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Thanks for your insights and information man, I appreciate it. You have a point, the line is pretty shitty...
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:59 PM
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What do you think is a good line? I get this question a lot.
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:52 PM
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Been there, done that. I know it's hard for you to change your mindset, but I will leave this comment anyway. Look, I have no idea if (and what) signs there are that she is texting other dudes, but know that if she is going to cheat or break-up she will do it eventually. There is nothing you can do about it. She is going cold because that's sometimes the natural phase of a relationship, and maybe because of your neediness. Go back to the state when you met her. It's good that you have identified…
/r/seduction26/09/17 11:33 AM
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Shit, I hope you're okay man. Good thing you dodged the bullet by not actually realizing those plans and finding out later.
/r/seduction14/09/17 09:01 PM
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I know, my man.
/r/seduction03/09/17 12:16 PM
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Sure thing, it means "I don't speak Spanish".
/r/seduction02/09/17 10:23 PM
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Sick, I saw it on Instagram and was wondering where it came from (apart from PornHub of course). Thanks for sharing the subreddit
/r/seduction21/08/17 03:36 PM
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Forever 'mirin
/r/seduction30/05/17 05:37 AM
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Had a similar experience some months ago. Me and me now ex broke up, and I fell broken. I posted here and people told me it will get better, and you know what? It really did get better, better than before actually. Especially with your mindset, so good job. Also nice to see a 'Who Moved My Cheese' reader, it was a great short read.
/r/seduction25/02/17 11:04 PM
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That's for your comment, although I still don't really know if I should tell her or not. Also, how can one have attractive female friends without being in the friendzone? I mean, doesn't everyone want to have sex with an attractive female? Doesn't that mean that -in your example- one is friendzoned too?
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:47 PM
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Thanks for taking time and answering me, really appreciate it. I also though about doing that, but wouldn't that make her dissapear since she said she didn't see us dating anymore? I don't have female friends so it's a consideration I need to make..
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:43 PM
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Rookie mistake. Always tell the girl you want her to eat corn and shit in your mouth in such situations. Works 90% of the time, everytime.
/r/seduction17/02/17 12:22 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/seduction16/02/17 09:55 PM
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I know you can feel bad about this, but always put things in perspective. There are people that can ejaculate when having sex. I don't know your view about that, but I personally think it's shittier. A big part is breathing, focus on your breathing and breathe slow. Also, try NoFap for a decent period of time, I know it sounds counter intuitive, but it helps against PE; Google it. Also, if you use a condom, use a thicker one, or a delaying one.
/r/seduction11/02/17 10:40 PM
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Those are the people that read about pick-up online, and think it's a magic formula to get every girl. The main idea is -like you said- to become a better version of yourself, so girls you get in contact with will like you more. I feel like that guy didn't touch a self improvement book or article, but just copied the techniques from a webpage with the terms 'alpha male' and 'shit test' in it. Not everything is a fucking shit test. Either way, he got hit, so it's a learning proces after all, isn'…
/r/seduction11/02/17 10:28 PM
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First of all, props to you for even trying to take her out knowing she sees someone else. I first want to give you a piece of advice, to avoid a situation where you are the one that needs to guess what she means. This is: Saying "(...) grab dinner one day" projects some sort of uncertainty, for both sides. Instead, saying "Let's grab dinner next friday" is less uncertain, and you will either get a 'yes' or a 'no'. So no guessing what she means. How can you expect her to give you a certain answer…
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:16 PM
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Approach from the front, not from the back. Open when you have made eye contact, not out of nowhere (best if she has smiled). Keep your volume down. Gg wp.
/r/seduction07/02/17 03:37 PM
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Depends in what type of restaurant you work. If you work in a low-culture fastfood kind of place then you can. If you work in a classy restaurant I personally wouldn't. The main question of course is if your boss is cool with it.
/r/seduction06/02/17 01:09 PM
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You acknowledge that you're needy right now, that is the first step. This is good, because you can act on it, but not in the way you mentioned. Making her chase you more while you are being needy right now = putting more of your time and energy in her, which just leads to being more needy. You see? It's a circle track. The only way you can become less needy is by doing more things for yourself. Go out, take a hobby or grab a beer at a friend. Come on, you know well enough that you are needy beca…
/r/seduction05/02/17 04:18 PM
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Wrong nummer or acting like she doesn't remember does not mean shit. You approached and even wanted to take her to another location, that's what this is all about. You did good, keep this momentum!
/r/seduction04/02/17 10:08 PM
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If you use the extra free time that you have gained to improve yourself (ex. reading a book), then it's a good move. As long as you're feeling you're more out of your head it's cool actually, whatever works for you.
/r/seduction26/01/17 10:37 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. Can you elaborate your point on how knowledge of shit tests contributed to the end of your relationship? I am curious about this one.
/r/seduction03/01/17 09:15 AM
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Sounds emotional shattering to end a relationship out of the blue. Thanks for sharing your story and for your words. I gotta work on myself again, and hopefully be out of this state soon. There indeed are no highs when you haven't hit lows. Thanks and have a good weekend.
/r/seduction03/12/16 07:26 PM
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That sounds rough and like a emotional rollercoaster you was in. Thank you so much for your reply, I really appreciate it.
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:20 AM
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Weird, never heard of it here in The Netherlands. I don't even think it's possible here.
/r/seduction01/12/16 12:56 PM
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I don't know if I don't get this because I am from Europe; but how in the world is someone able to make money orders without PIN?
/r/seduction30/11/16 09:14 PM
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What kind of response is that? Just because some guy like RSD Todd said it was push/pull doesn't mean it is. What is does prove though is that sometimes these guys don't know whatever the fuck they're saying.
/r/seduction29/11/16 10:58 AM
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[deleted because didn't read good]
/r/seduction26/11/16 11:02 PM
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Have sex.
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:34 PM
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That's where you are wrong. You can get inner game without girls. Think hobbies, friends, work etc. If you think the only way to get inner game is by getting girls, you don't understand the concept. Your happiness must not depend on the girls reaction.
/r/seduction15/09/16 06:05 AM
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I think you're mixing a couple things up. Good looks and a good job can help to some degree, but having those things only won't get you laid. Inner game is confidence, abundance and being outcome independent. Inner game is basically being happy with yourself.
/r/seduction14/09/16 08:52 PM
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I assume you are in your young twenties, or younger, right? I say this because don't expect this to work on some more serious/older women. I think a pretty big part of this sub is with me on this one: what you are doing is pretty disrespectful. You are doing this to get her from her pedestal, which may work sometimes. The thing is, you are putting yourself on a pedestal, which is just as bad. You are trying to hard to be witty, so hard that you seem to have developed a routine and ask for other …
/r/seduction14/09/16 05:48 PM
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How exactly did you break up if she said she didn't want to have a relationship from the start?
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:05 AM
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Thanks for your advice, I appreciate taking so much time to write that out. However, you can't make assumptions about my sex life since I gave no details whatsoever. But to reply to your advice: the sex with her is great and I've done almost everything with her you can imagine.
/r/seduction18/08/16 08:39 PM
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Still a bullshit excuse if your friend was her ex, right? She seemed to have convinced her parents about him, so she can also convince them about you. For your vacation communication, use Snapchat just a few times a week to show her you're having a good time. You are on vacation to have a good time, not to keep Snapchatting about how both your day was. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/07/16 10:09 PM
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Unless I go back to college (which I can't afford, not that I'd know what I'd want to do) I can't get a job in a different field. Your job is something you can't change, for now. And if you keep being undecisve even if you have the money for college, you will still be 'stuck'. Since you can't change this you just have to suck it up. Did you get a new boss or got something major changed at work? I feel you don't like your job anymore because all the other different factors (no friends, no girlfri…
/r/seduction24/07/16 10:01 PM
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I can relate to one part of your story, which is the 'giving of a friend vibe' part. But I also have some advice for your other points. Shes a friends ex, pretty sure he would be cool with it but I just dont know how to tell him. Do you really care about this? I don't say you should'nt or should, but ask yourself this: if she's willing to hang out, but her ex (your friend) says he doesn't like the idea, will you blow off the date? If you do really care about his opinion, ask him after she's in t…
/r/seduction24/07/16 09:40 PM
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We just fucked so she was cuddeling up against me and couldn't see her eyes.. Fuck
/r/seduction24/07/16 03:32 PM
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Thank you very much for your insightful answer. It would indeed be suspicious if she asked it out of the blue. However, we were talking about relationships and asking these kind of questions. The thing is, I don't know if this is my boundary. I have no idea how I would feel and react in such a moment, since it has never happend to me. I just responded with 'yes' in the heat of the moment. I feel like I need to clarify myself next time I see her, by saying something like:"You asked me (question),…
/r/seduction24/07/16 11:41 AM
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I was in your shoes, but I guess worse. I am 20 years old and in college and don't really need to rent a room since it's pretty close. This means I live at home, with my parents a brother in the weekends. I always thought this was an obstacle. All these excuses were flashing in my head like 'What would my parents think?', 'How do I tell my parents', 'What will SHE think?'. This left me with two choices: 1. Never bring a girl home and avoid all the 'drama'. 2. Get out of my comfort zone and bring…
/r/seduction01/07/16 02:44 PM
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This sub isn't only for people that are desperate to fuck you know
/r/seduction28/06/16 12:45 PM
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She may really had something interrupt her (sick family member). If girls are not interested they will ask to reschedule for the same week. Don't sweat it, be cool and reschedule the date. If she flakes again you can cut her off.
/r/seduction29/05/16 11:17 PM
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Was that your 6th date with that girl before she told you that, or was this ONE of the 6 dates you had in three weeks?
/r/seduction28/05/16 10:00 AM
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Approach girls from the front, and start smiling when you have made eye contact, then open. This makes sure you don't come over as creepy, but as someone that has the confidence to talk to people. Also, you are in college, not high school. What if one of the 4000 students thinks you're creepy? That's just 0.025% of all the people, no one gives a shit.
/r/seduction26/05/16 07:09 PM
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You did not really fuck up man. Next time try to read her body language, and then escalate if needed. You went out of your comfort zone, that's a great thing already.
/r/seduction26/05/16 07:49 AM
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Which book of him? The Power Of Now?
/r/seduction16/05/16 08:04 PM
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It depends on two factors: how the girl is(insecure, confident). how your text game is. Insecure girls for example need quite a lot of texting before agreeing to meet up. Usually try to set te date as soon as possible, set a week as goal for example. A week from getting her number. Believe it or not, I once talked 4 months with a girl without ever seeing her(just skype). I asked her on a date when the iron was hot, but she was a little paranoid. She even agreed to meet up after 4 months! I guess…
/r/seduction12/05/16 05:57 AM
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Simple, don't. You have been dating for four weeks and she is trying to get back with her ex. There are two options: 1. It's a test to see how you react. 2. She really wants to go back to him. Either way, it's a waste of your time.
/r/seduction20/04/16 10:05 PM
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That sucks. I would be thrown off as well. She must be so insecure for doing that, good thing you didn't make a deal out of it right there. At least she helped you with something, you got to practice eye contact for your next date. Good job being direct! Indeed don't invest too much, so she knows you have better things to do, which you do. Maybe this date will be great, till then keep learning and growing. All the best!
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:08 AM
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Had this several times. She didn't offer to reschedule, even when you said 'do you ever have free time', so she isn't interested. If this is the first time asking her, ask again in a week. If she says 'yes' well great, if not then move on. If this is not the first time she didn't reschedule move on. Your time is limited in this world so don't chase after some girl that isn't interested or playing games.
/r/seduction14/03/16 09:24 AM
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Coming from someone that is half your age, I have respect for you that you have picked yourself up. There are alot of guys that lose grip for years after they have been dumped, let alone married. I have some tips, especially for eye contact. The first time you see her when she comes in, you are the one that wins the eye contact battle. Don't break it off till she does. When talking try to see your reflection in her eye. This will establish a deep eye contact level compared to just normal looking…
/r/seduction10/03/16 06:33 AM
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Sounds like an interesting study! Can you find it somehow?
/r/seduction08/03/16 10:24 PM
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Why are you getting downvoted so much?
/r/seduction29/12/15 03:04 PM
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I always make a pro's and cons list when making though decisions. Here is one for you(speed read, don't know if everything is right): Don't tell her your feelings Pros: you keep her as a friend. Cons: you will always see her as 'more', explosion of regret when she will get a BF or isn't your friend anymore. Tell her your feelings Pros: she maybe feels the same, all regret is gone, confidence boost because you did something out of your comfort zone. Cons: you might have less contact with her/lose…
/r/seduction15/11/15 10:21 PM
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