| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 22 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfYEET HIM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅Just want a tall dude jesus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 08:39 PM |
| 19 | PSA: This is not a sub for binary political or ideological thinking or adherence to established belief systems, this is a sub for STRATEGY.Glad this was posted, I have thought about leaving before just because of some politics here, good to clarify | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:47 AM |
| 22 | Men are jerks. "I kept breaking her heart and she still was so kind to me". Found in r/relationship_adviceSo many mixed messages of her being strong yet soooooo needy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Reading this post genuinely made me upset and her replies are even worst. It’s one thing to get back with a cheater, and another thing to stay with him when he isn’t even putting effort.I can’t believe I used to read shit like this and not be sure. Are pick mes really this lost? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:06 AM |
| 35 | JEALOUSY: The thread. Post your examples so we can get a better look at the different ways it manifestsNot acknowledging the fact that I randomly sat down and played a flawless Beethoven sonata that I have spent years learning when you had no idea that I played piano in the first place but rather acting like we got to go somewhere and are gonna be late so I better stop playing that Beethoven Sonata that I spent years learning while waiting for you to put on your tennis shoes because it’s time for the gym and we’re gonna be late even though we don’t need an appointment to go to the gym and could j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:02 AM |
| -4 | Men contradict themselves at every turn.Can’t lose the argument if nobody understands what tf you are saying with your big words taps head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 11:25 PM |
| 34 | I feel bad for because HE'S the one who wants to leave instead of her realizing she needs to leave his nasty ass behindThought this was a rant and her being proud of revolting against his bullshit but my jaw dropped when I realized this was an AITA post. WOMAN, WHAT THE HELL DO YOU THINK?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 11:21 PM |
| 5 | I would rather swallow a jean jacket than make a GROWN ASS MAN a schedule like this 🤢6,550 people liked this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 19 | My father on men who wait because they ‘have no expiry date’She’s right. Look up Adam ruins everything on this topic. Mind blowing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Struggle is realI never thought of it as a way to manipulate women to stay. That just never clicked. Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:12 PM |
| 8 | Struggle is realYep, my dad was an abusive alcoholic. My mom stayed with him and covered his tracks pretending we were perfect just to protect our image (she has narcissism). She goes to therapy now because she claims that she struggles with the guilt of keeping us kids there and not moving out but says she had no other choice and that staying with him was the best option we had (she didn’t want to work either). When they got divorced everyone treated us different. Mom finally left and went into a full on midli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:07 PM |
| 11 | yOuRE DaMAGinG hiM bY nOt ALLowiNg hiM tO fUcK yOu wHeNeVer He wAntS reGardLess Of yOuR fEELingSOh god wowwwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:32 AM |
| 10 | yOuRE DaMAGinG hiM bY nOt ALLowiNg hiM tO fUcK yOu wHeNeVer He wAntS reGardLess Of yOuR fEELingSWow, I need a minute that just sent me into space | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:32 AM |
| 7 | New Flair Alert! FDS Translates Men. I speak fluent Scrotenese.I think some guys get off on that tbh we can’t winnnn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:44 PM |
| 3 | New Flair Alert! FDS Translates Men. I speak fluent Scrotenese.Oh is this what the alpha guys at the gym are reading? I always switch between not even looking at people in the eyes in the first place to avoid any of that, just walk in there, hat down, eyes down, do my thing. Or staring back, blank face Or staring back with a look of disgust Or sometimes I’m in a mood where I’m like “oh hell yeah I’m so hot too bad you can’t have disssssss” and I might notice their stares but then I move on and mind my own business. If they think they’ve won some kind of dom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:29 PM |
| 12 | I hope she gets picked. Also, getting in a car with a stranger on the first date... Couldn't be me 🤡🤡🤡Probably never has been taken on a nice date before and that’s how she copes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Men not understanding how it’s creepy for a woman to just be approached randomly on the street, at dusk!I don’t understand...I COMPLIMENTED HER Must be some crazy b***h | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:08 AM |
| 45 | pick me spotted.You’re so cool with a hint of miserable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:02 AM |
| 4 | Thought this belonged hereImagine a culture when instead of everyone laughing and liking this on insta, she wouldn’t even share that in the first place to normalize men’s laziness with humor. Of course best case scenario she doesn’t even consider a man who couldn’t figure out what the fuck a shallot is. I don’t know what a shallot is but I could confidently find that in the store with google images and common sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:58 AM |
| 17 | I’m in this picture and I don’t like itAgreed. I was going to say for those whose complete mindset is to impress a guy or find a good guy can’t just decide to change their motivation like that in an instant. It took me a long time to genuinely care about my health for me than to look good for a guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:42 AM |
| 7 | We rarely see women leave/turn down someone due to mental health issues but men are quite differentAre we shaming him for leaving her or are we shaming women insinuating they are the opposite of this and putting up/staying with mentally ill men? I take this as a great example: if you can’t handle dating someone mentally unstable, don’t date them. Good for him. I hope us ladies do the same. It is not our job to be a therapist/emotional support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:05 AM |
| 10 | No Danya, no. The thought of it makes me puke and now I can no longer eat Taco bell because of you.Initially downvoted this and had to remind myself I’m voting for the FDS post not the actual post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:53 AM |
| 15 | We got another catch ladies! Senile but he can spell 👁👄👁Sounds like a win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:40 PM |
| 4 | I cringed 😬Like is it that hard? If it doesn’t work for you and won’t in the future THEN LEAVEEEEEEEEEEE It’s like that option never crosses some women’s minds. It never crossed mine once when I was miserable. Being single by default should be awesome. If your quality of life goes down being with someone? Then. Leave. That is why I think it is so important to to spend some time being actively single and learning how to love life alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 0 | Preach it!Clearly this is more of a draining debate to win than a discussion to share ideas, you’re right, I should’ve saved my energy for something more worth my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:28 AM |
| 16 | Preach it!I feel like since I discovered FDS I actually had the opposite realization. I dress up more and have for the first time in my life wear heels, paint my nails, and get my lashes done etc. It’s because it makes me feel so feminine and cute. I love the energy it cultivates with me. Best part is that society doesn’t expect a feminine girly girly like me to be an educated woman in the fire service with weird hobbies and big plans who actively chooses to be single and is working on getting her own pla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:34 AM |
| 2 | What makes a woman beautiful to you?A positive attention and interest to others. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/20 06:25 PM |
| 12 | What would happen if all women using dating apps... stopped? 🤔I mean good for you, I really do see them work out for people and you are the rare example of that.... but I’d rather be single than waste my time and energy to wade through filth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:15 PM |
| 7 | What would happen if all women using dating apps... stopped? 🤔Yes!!!!!!!! Way to level up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:14 PM |
| 6 | What would happen if all women using dating apps... stopped? 🤔Perfectly said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 47 | What would happen if all women using dating apps... stopped? 🤔Personally I think FDS should be completely against dating apps in the rule book, but I don’t make the rules here. I don’t like them because they are dangerous, they are exhausting, very very very rarely do you find a normal dude who isn’t just trying to smash. I don’t like that guys are just choosing women on how they look and vice Versa, I would want to be able to see how the guy acts before I ever consider going on a date with him. But mainly, I just know that the guy I am looking for isn’t o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:30 PM |
| 11 | Brother tells hard-working doctor sister to lower her standards as she’s 37 and single 🤬I hate that people don’t even consider the possibility of being happy single as an option if guys don’t ever work out. You got to have a man even if he don’t make you happy? What’s wrong with people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:19 AM |
| 6 | I know it might be silly, but I’m scared for future children and it makes me want to cry when I think about themThen find a good man and raise amazing children!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:17 AM |
| 37 | Looks are everything until it’s an inconvenience 🙄Getting into fashion and recently realized that I was worrying about having a future relationship and getting called materialistic or narcissistic for spending money on nails/lashes/clothes. Then I remembered there are actual men out there who admire that effort. It’s sad that my childhood and exes taught me to think that way. I am glad I am aware of this thinking though and that my life doesn’t have to be like that. There are good men out there, and if I am wrong in the end, then I would not be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | This LVM missed his child’s birth so that his work mate could see a dying relative. The gender of that work mate? SURPRISE... female.No, this makes perfect sense to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 07:06 AM |
| 5 | Just because men wanna fuck you doesn’t mean they like you. Don’t be gullible.Oof | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:24 PM |
| 30 | Being a Kinkmeisha traumatized me, but now I’m recovering!Yes, I’m glad you figured this shit out young. God bless you, I hope with time your trauma dissolves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:27 AM |
| 6 | What is the worst LVM you've subjected yourself toGood advice hun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Any autistic women here? What specific struggles do you run into?Love these comments. I find myself getting hit on and I don’t realize it so guys think I’m inviting them to flirt with me when I have no interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:38 AM |
| 7 | Any autistic women here? What specific struggles do you run into?$20 both ADHD and autism are best buds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 01:12 AM |
| 8 | I just dumped my LVM thanks to FDS and he is outragedYessss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:21 PM |
| 14 | Highly intelligent women - are you with, or only date, other highly intelligent men?I ain’t no genius but I can easily say I am a little ahead of the curve. I am super scatter brained and so I actually come off as stupid sometimes and feel like I gotta always defend myself against people who treat me like im dumb. In my opinion intelligence is measured is so many ways, it’s hard to compare intelligence between two people. Although it’s hard to really measure intelligence, I try to aim for guys who are just around my range and have the same characteristics as me. Doesn’t matter … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:05 PM |
| 14 | This is what happens when you compromise and date a pornsick man. This guy chose porn over his girlfriend and told her to fuck off and thinks he’s not the asshole.His body?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:45 PM |
| 85 | I just dumped my LVM thanks to FDS and he is outragedCongrats!!! You’re free!!! You don’t need to give them reasons though, feels much better in my opinion to just peace out rather than give them information they can use to just argue etc Can I ask about this LVM? What conditions were you living with? Love me a juicy story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:44 PM |
| 12 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.I had back surgery last year, two days later (Christmas day) I get horrible chest pain and shortness of breath and so I go to the ER for a suspected pulmonary embolism. Texted my then boyfriend, who is an EMT and is fully aware of how serious this could be. He shoots me back a “Im so sorry my family just started dinner.” I ignore it and he shoots me a “I’m such a terrible boyfriend, I’m so sorry, I’ll make it up to you I swear.” I met his family so they know me and I figured they would care if I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:02 PM |
| 5 | When you have to motivate your husband into talking care of his OWN kids and his OWN house. Couple goals🥰Who the fuck is throwing up that often in their household? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What's your Meyers Briggs?Intj | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 12:57 AM |
| -1 | How to Attract Men.... Yes, You Have To ChangeI don't think you really read this post. The title is pick me shit... for clickbait, I will say that. But there aint no pick me shit in me talking about telling dudes to fuck off multiple times in this post. I am telling women who feel pressured to act more masculine by this society to tune into their feminine energy and create a balance between masculine and feminine energy. Not all women have excessive masculine energy. So this does not apply to everyone to change themselves. I am not saying t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 03:10 AM |
| 18 | NO EXCUSES - Date Multiple Men Until Commitment is EstablishedIt just clicked. When a man chases, the woman knows he actually wants her and when the woman chooses from a variety of options, he knows that she wants him. He doesn’t want her just for the quickest ticket to sex. She doesn’t want him just for the quickest ticket to a relationship. They actually genuinely value each otherrrr. Wöw. Like I already knew this. But now I know this... you know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | This feels like it carries LVM energy but I’m not sure. 90% of me feels like I should cut him off because he wants me to act exclusive after three dates but taking no initiative to make that choice himself. Thoughts?He just talked about his ex and admitted he is insecure. No. A pick me would be willing to commit early in order to avoid losing him. If you don't think he is a LVM and want to keep dating him without be exclusive, then try, he might leave. That's okay. But commitment aside, he seems to be paranoid and insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | FOR FUCKS SAKE, what kind of question is that?Approximately 20% according to my calculations Bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 04:31 AM |
| 14 | I’m being told in the original comments on r/niceguys that I should have been nicer to this guy that is married going behind his wife’s back. Apparently “No thank you” isn’t nice enoughThis dude putting spaces before and after his commas wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 04:11 AM |
| 2 | What is it with LVM and wanting to"cuddle"?Men don’t simply cuddle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:59 PM |
| 13 | How to figure out if he will be a good dad, would any FDSers with children be willing to share what vetting worked for them?I know we talking about men here.. but I was raised by the worst examples of parents ever and I can really confirm that it takes sooooo much effort to unfuck your mind to understand that your normal actually isn’t normal. Shitty parenting was all I knew and I thought that’s just how this world worked. As long as they recognize their crappy examples of parents and are working on themselves... maybe. I don’t know if I will ever have kids just because even if I think I am ready and know how to rais… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do men think having negative bios will attract women? Doesn’t seem logical to me 🤔Cause then he knows anyone who actually swipes that bullshit probably has no self respect and is going to be sooooo easy to manipulate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Are most LVM in America?? Thinking about leaving this country for good.It would come to much disappointment to go to the extent to endure the struggle to possibly learn a new language, laws, finances, just to find that shitty people are actually found all around the globe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Shorcels can’t cope with FDS telling women to raise their standards. Reminder: these manlets think women actually fuck dogs (aka dogpilled) and openly hate and wish death upon us. Yet our sub is the problematic one?Sorry for acting like a man but the role was available and I figured someone had to take it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Marriage is an econmic propositionI am so lucky to be born today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Whyyy??? Whyyy would I read this type of book written by, I assume, a man??Maybe he has some secrets spot some real bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 2 | The reason dinner (as the first date) is such a point of contention in dating is because men don't want to feel like they are overinvestingThat’s a good debate topic: Would you fuck Donald Trump? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 10:39 AM |
| 1 | "Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date.I’m curious to how you can tell if a woman is a reformed slut? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Level Up Check-In: what have you done lately to improve yourself?I don’t let people interrupt me by simply not pausing when they speak over me. I will pull shit out of my ass to keep on talking and pretend I don’t even hear them at all to prove the point that I don’t listen to people who don’t listen to me. It’s never been fair because my whole life I have had this value to NEVER interrupt others and hardly anyone does the same. I am practicing keeping unwavering eye contact I am using statements more than ever rather than expressing my opinions through quest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:44 AM |
| 14 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?I went half because I felt bad because after he asked “wanna get ice cream” I said “no I’m too full” and he said “Oh thank God because I don’t think I have enough money!” The me now would’ve just laughed in his face and walked. Wöw Im such a gold digger for expecting a guy to be able to have enough financial responsibility to elect to not ask women on dates in order to avoid calling mom later leeching for gas money because his financial priorities are shit.... women are so shallow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:32 AM |
| 31 | I'd rather be single forever than deal with a manchildGlad to see you feel the same. The difference is that we cook our own fucking meals rather than complain and demand that our maid makes one fresh on our schedule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:24 AM |
| 17 | I'd rather be single forever than deal with a manchildNot sure how I feel about this because I’d rather go hungry for a meal or two than eat leftovers. I don’t think I’m too good for them... I just don’t like them. But I cook my own food and so my solution is just to cook myself individual meals rather than meal prep or bulk. Anyone else?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:20 AM |
| 3 | CringeAlmost commented “Cringeeee” but then I realized that the title already beat me to it. Holy helllll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:17 AM |
| 8 | Remember, most of the world is pro-FDSI’ll be in Mexico or China bye everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:16 AM |
| 11 | I deserve a man who takes care of me — what FDS means for meI’m sorry but your ex broke up with you because you said “Thanos is more gracious than God.” And I am laughing my ass off over that. You seem very philosophical. I am procrastinating on reddit when I am supposed to be writing a paper on Socrates’ quote of “the unexamined life is not worth living”. I think the biggest fault in our world is the hostility towards people asking questions or having different opinions. Especially when it comes to questioning faith. I hate that the culture of religion … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:31 PM |
| 12 | Many pickmeisha traits are nothing more than repackaged narcissism. Reject this in yourself before it is too late, and keep it gone.Kids of narcissists usually end up with some sort of concoction of Narcissism, Too empathetic for their own good, or recluse introverted schizoid. You could end up with a little bit of all or on an extreme side of one. It’s a hard pill to swallow but please realize... if you were raised by narcissists... that means almost everything you know was learned by them ESPECIALLY your attachment style (anxious, avoidant etc) Find those traits and drop them. Good thing about having narcissistic traits ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Imagine actually dating someone who is better than you? What a concept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Ugh I’m so jealous. I want to exercise my power to dump anyone and everyone now that I’m not a pickmeisha. I fantasize about dumping men now is that weird? I just want to get all this anger out from being mistreated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 11:52 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020“I’m a grown ass woman, I don’t “chill”” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 11:38 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020No balls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 11:38 PM |
| 3 | A Note On StandardsWhy wouldn’t women want to date cops? I’ve heard that a lot and never known why, could someone fill me in plz? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:53 PM |
| 44 | Not dating related but wtf..“Wow Im impressed because I was so distracted by your beauty that I just assumed that’s all there was to you. Also I am going to indirectly sexualize you out loud to my peers in front of you to foreshadow me flirting with you relentlessly for the rest of your career here. Uhhh it was a compliment... you’re welcome?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:41 PM |
| 11 | Oh well, if it’s EXCLUSIVENot looking for a hook up... but here is a whole paragraph about my sexual preferences | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Is it me or are most men on OLD so f*cking boring?THEY AREEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Me and my impossible standards. If only I was hot AF I could get a man.Doesn’t watch porn Clips his toenails Doesn’t binge drink or do drugs Showers daily Not to flex but I just eliminated all living males. Beat that, b*tches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Why men knowing how to clean/keep a house is more important than you realiseCan’t cook or don’t like to, not financially stable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:24 PM |
| 9 | Why men knowing how to clean/keep a house is more important than you realiseI live with my grandparents and one day I needed help putting my clothes in the dryer because I had back surgery and couldn’t do it myself. My grandpa was the only one home and he didn’t know how to start the dryer. He is a sweet man and super respectful of my grandma but it just made me think real hard. Their home is so beautiful and always 100% spotless because of her. If she dies before him this home is going to shambles and he is going to struggle, he doesn’t know how to cook, clean, or anyt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Pickmeisha needing advice. What would FDS women do next?I can spare 20 minutes at lunch time Using this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:57 PM |
| 75 | Um? Wtf? I hate when women support stuff like this. Rough sex? Really? 😒😒😒No tf we don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:49 PM |
| 16 | Has anyone ever dated a covert narcissist? What were the signs? How did you escape it?Narcissists are dangerous because they seem so perfect at the beginning and depending on who, they can keep the act up for quite a while... that’s why it’s important to be strict with your dealbreakers and not write bad behavior off as them just having an off day/week/month. If their character is dramatically inconsistent in different environments/times... ask some questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:00 PM |
| 6 | I’m (F,20) confused. Did he (23m) lose interest right after asking me to be exclusive ? Should I move on already or is he being pensive ?He moves way too fast. You want someone to be just as picky as you are. Sounds like he just wants anyone. Don’t fall for it please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:55 PM |
| 17 | PSA: BPD men are perpetually the victim, and they will *never* change.BPD as in Borderline Personality Disorder?? Edit: for real am I reading this right???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Survey: What do you think is the root cause of your Pickmieshaism?Bet everyone here has had some influence of their attachment style by people with at least a few narcissistic pathological traits if not full blown narcissistic personality disorder from early childhood. Both of my parents were narcissists. They fought a lot. My mom played the role of the sad victim and that’s how she got her attention and fulfillment. She taught me to put up with everything my dad threw at her and she didn’t protect me from him either. My dad taught me that I was trash, yet bea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:19 PM |
| 6 | And that’s a wrap 😂Watching other women getting fucked makes me miss you because you and the woman on the screen are the exact same to me It’s honestly because I love you For sex. I would never fuck those women lol howcouldIwhentheyareinsidemycomputer You’re a big fat meany for hurting my feelings resumes playing “big booty step sister playing xbox needs a massage” The fact that I think about you serving me makes me so selfless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Nicole Scherzinger (41) & Thom Evans (34) - dating since last Fall - Reminder: HVM will put in the effort to make a LDR work. Thom: "She lives out here (L.A.) so I'm splitting myself between the two places at the moment. I live in Surrey (UK) but I visit as much as I can.I don’t care about the HVM... look at HER! She is an absolute goddess... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:07 PM |
| 3 | No, this isn't normal.He forgot to make the valentines Olive Garden reservation these past two years to offer his undying love and that Walmart ring because he was too busy play halo... I’m sure he will remember this next valentines. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:58 PM |
| 33 | Patriarchy is a blight on humanityHell yeah. Team HV eugenics. It’s more about nurture than nature though in my opinion. Don’t reproduce with crappy men that will mess up your kids by being a bad father or a nonexistent one. That’s a great way to make this world a shittier place. Raise kids you can be proud of. And that requires a HVM. I had a thought the other day... I don’t only want a man to share my life with and grow with as a team... I am equally searching for a man I want my future sons to be like. I’m sure mamas can rais… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 14 | From a single mom to youNOT LETTING YOU READ?! Oh my God, why?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Men who walk in front of their partnersNooope Thank God you stayed away from that man My father also made his own life very lonely with his narcissistic traits. I have a fear that he will eventually kill himself (if he doesn’t he will die in about 10 years from alcoholism anyway) and I am the only one he really has left (I’m not no contact because I’m 20 and still on his health insurance) but we need to remember it’s not our responsibility to have our souls sucked just to help someone else be ‘happy’. Even if it means their life it i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:45 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I keep mine on DND for weeks on end because I get distracted by it easily if I’m doing homework or something. I forget to take it off DND. I also put it on DND every night before bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:30 PM |
| 2 | LVM negging women on Tinder.Imagine getting rejected by an ugly girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:57 PM |
| 7 | Men who walk in front of their partnersPreach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:48 PM |
| 9 | Men who walk in front of their partnersThe Narcissist in Your Life By Julie L. Hall Page 32 Narcissistic “Quirks” (Julie lists 16 of them, this is just #2) 2. They walk ahead of you. They literally walk in front of you or way ahead because they’re so impatient and/or need to show their kingly/queenly superiority. I dated a guy who did this in high school and even then I thought it was so bizarre. I concluded he was a narcissist later when I first started to get into studying the disorder. I read this page 2 nights ago. I had to put t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 4 | CLOWN MOMENT: my ex who i have blocked on everything stalks me on reddit to warn me about the evil monsters at FDSAHHHHAAAAAAA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | At Risk Pick Me Youth Seeking AdviceUpvoted by the first sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 13 | IMO insecurity is the biggest thing you should avoid in a man. What are some signs of insecurity that youve noticed???For real. “I just don’t feel like I’m good enough for you.” “Oh okay. Thanks for letting me know.” Leaves to never be seen again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 08:21 PM |
| 8 | IMO insecurity is the biggest thing you should avoid in a man. What are some signs of insecurity that youve noticed???over explaining something that you didn’t ask about Yes. Yepppp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 11 | IMO insecurity is the biggest thing you should avoid in a man. What are some signs of insecurity that youve noticed???Easily influenced by friends. Dude once broke up with me because we went to the gym with his friends and one of his friends was trying to make conversation and I had my headphones in. I realized he was trying to talk to me and I panicked and pulled one out and said “Oh! I’m so sorry. What do you want?” Yeah that can totally come off as bitchy but I panicked and that’s what came out of my mouth with the best intent. The tone was positive but the words “what do you want” was interpreted as “I fuck… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 4 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsGood for you! Hawaii is so beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsOHHHH NOOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsEewwww really? Pretending to sleep to avoid returning the favor? So rude in so many ways. Bro I taught myself how to cook eggs at 8 like it’s not that hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsMy jaw dropped oh my god. I am so sorry you had to go through that!!! How awful!!! I am so glad you found FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:12 PM |
| 4 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsOmfg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on revealing FDS to men we date?Thank you for the explanation! Helps a lot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on revealing FDS to men we date?Thank you! Can’t find it in the sidebar. Maybe the dumb fox fits but not sure where to read about this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 12:39 AM |
| 14 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsThe dude couldn’t get to school by himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:48 PM |
| 71 | "Men don't enjoy sex" WTFSeems as if the men focus so much on making us feel good during sex that they forget to make us feel good during sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:47 PM |
| 10 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsI think it is so much unacknowledged that pick me girls even are pick me’s to their girlfriends. I used to hang out with such back stabbing women and I allowed them to treat me like sh** | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:37 PM |
| 13 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsBeen there girl. There was a study that men are less likely to end a relationship even if they are unhappy in it. I think it’s because they benefit from it soooo much more than we do. I’ve been sitting there wanting to break up with guys but didn’t because I thought that maybe my reasons were too picky and shallow (ie plays too many video games for a 23 yr old) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 27 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsOH! I remember another one.... My then boyfriend took me to meet his parents for lunch. After we were heading back to our cars, his parents got out of their car when they saw he didn’t open the door for me and yelled at him that they didn’t teach him to be like that. I stood there half joking “yeahhhh open that door lol” when deep down I wish a guy would treat me like that... you bet your ass he didn’t care after and never opened a door for me. Now I will stand there on dates proudly waiting to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:45 PM |
| 16 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsWhat a man. Jesus Christ. He let you walk in the snow????? Yesterday (Valentines) I saw soooo many girls driving their guys to God knows where. It broke my heart. I wish I was a guy sometimes so I could be a gentleman and show the world how it’s done. I would never let a woman drive us to our valentines date... I would feel like a fucking man baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsI can’t believe that. I’m glad you’ve recovered! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:39 PM |
| 50 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/RelationshipsMine is probs saying “Oh it’s okay it’s kind of hard to get me to orgasm it isn’t even worth the time” when the guy offered to give me oral out of half assed courtesy after we had the most unsatisfying sex known to man. Turns out I can have an orgasm just fine if it’s not just 30 sec of shitty oral sex just to lay there and aggressively jab fingers into my vagina thinking that if you jab harder I’ll come faster so you can sleep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:15 PM |
| 49 | For any pickmeishas still wondering, FDS works.FDS does work. I don’t know if I will ever meet a HVM but I don’t care. FDS works because I know I am going to die happy that I didn’t waste 4 decades on trying to commit to LVM. I will happily die alone, and I will happily find a great man too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:01 PM |
| 18 | Husband ignores wife’s efforts to do all his favourite things for V-day...because she didn’t have sex with him. Consider what man you’re busting a gut for. LVM have only one thing on their mind.WHYYYYYYYY We need to start sending links of these discussions on these screenshots back to these women Jesus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:54 PM |
| 53 | AnalThis is totally rape. Happened to me twice and I screamed out in pain. They were so unapologetic about it “Oh sorrryyyy it was an accidenttttt whoops.” BITCH YOURE BEHIND ME YOU HAVE FULL VIEW OF MY ASS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:51 PM |
| 35 | AnalWe wouldn’t even let them. Seeing a partner in pain/discomfort is the least pleasing thing to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:49 PM |
| 39 | AnalNever doing it again anyways... but the guys who would do anal then try to go right back into PIV sex? Idiots. No idea how germs work. Hell— most guys don’t even understand why we get UTIs. I told a guy I had a UTI and he thought it was contagious. That’s it. I’m dying alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Every valentine’s I’ve said “I don’t care” about the occasion trying to be the cool girlfriend. Don’t we all deserve to be spoilt though?Yes!!! Happy for you! Tell us how it goes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:32 PM |
| 13 | Every valentine’s I’ve said “I don’t care” about the occasion trying to be the cool girlfriend. Don’t we all deserve to be spoilt though?Asked my male coworker what he was planning to do for Valentine’s Day with his girl. He said they have this cute tradition of picking out each other’s pajamas (????) and then watching Netflix. Him and I were good friends but when he told me that I realized that I don’t even want to be slightly associated with LVM even on a platonic level. Btw his girlfriend is 8/10 and he is like a 4/10 They’ve been dating for two years. Poor thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:30 PM |
| 22 | Saw this gem on askreddit, what a nice fellaWhen I was a young pickmeisha I dated a guy who wanted to treat me to an expensive date. He planned to ‘someday treat me’ to a fondue and chocolate type restaurant. I am severely allergic to dairy. He said that I could just not eat the fondue and chocolate and I’d be fine. My desperate ass was still so flattered because a scummy man had never even made fake promises to me before!!! Wowwww! This must be as good as it gets!!! Of course he never took me anyway. I did take him to a steak house thoug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Dating someone with lower qualificationsMy biggest strength is my brains. I fucking refuse to continue to date men who won’t acknowledge that. Amazingly, I’ve even been called “idiota” as a pet name before (when I took shit and didn’t stand for myself). Assholes. I will happily die alone before I give any more time to men who just think I am gorgeous and that’s all that seems to concern them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:47 PM |
| 2 | I mean.. There must be something wrong with us to resist such a perfect specimen.. LolAgreed so much I almost downvoted because I was so disturbed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:37 PM |
| 11 | i am so tiredHi how are you? Good, how are you? Goodareyouavirgin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:06 PM |
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