| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 3507 | Go build me a table! | COUCH CREATURES | farevvell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 2413 | Keep re-reading this until it sinks in. | NICE FOR WHAT? | farevvell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:43 AM |
| 1280 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budget | FDS RESCUE MISSION | farevvell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:21 AM |
| 1251 | Pickmes after being burned by LVMs | FDS MEMES | farevvell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:15 PM |
| 24 | Did they misspell "clown"? | PICKME CULTURE | farevvell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:33 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 36 | What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you?LOL that reminds me of my ex who burnt my birthday bacon cause "he liked it crispy" aka it was burnt literally inedibly black. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:54 AM |
| 10 | Pickmes after being burned by LVMsWe live and we learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 11:53 PM |
| 13 | HVpartner, but no attraction after many years - advice wanted!Are ... are you sure he's HV? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 03:41 PM |
| 178 | Pickmes after being burned by LVMsTrue, I hate the phrase "shark infested water" that's where they live!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 02:24 PM |
| 134 | Woman’s NVM husband constantly bends over backwards to ogle at other women and underage girls in public, right in front of her. A shitload of pickmes in the comments are coping with their husbands who do the same.Just because it's "normal" or "usual" doesn't mean it isn't totally messed up. Look how normalised porn is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Woman’s NVM husband constantly bends over backwards to ogle at other women and underage girls in public, right in front of her. A shitload of pickmes in the comments are coping with their husbands who do the same.Just because it's "normal" or "usual" doesn't mean it isn't totally messed up. Look how normalised porn is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 281 | Spotted sneaky red flags in my old messages when I was still learning and analyzing them through FDS lensesUgh. This is the date equivalent of apologies that end with "I'm the worst person ever, just leave me." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:21 PM |
| 4 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InI'm looking for a post to send a friend specifically about (not) telling a man you like him first. Any recs/links? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Indian "influencer" has a conversation with a follower about contraception. Men have no idea what female contraception entails. He then goes and asks for testimonials from women in his life after getting dragged on social mediaAn implant is not irreversible, it simply merely reconfigures your entire system.... Knob. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:34 AM |
| 19 | Any of y'all feeling lonelyUsually I just want some skin warmth, so I have a nice lonnng shower and exfoliate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 11:04 AM |
| 3 | If a guy negs you or triggers youHAHA this is fantastic. Would work perfectly in Russian. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:57 AM |
| 30 | Gina knows bestGina is a self-love icon. And Chelsea Peretti is just... amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 12:23 PM |
| 38 | Giga Pickme gets fatass husband to lose weight by rewarding him with anal and blowjobs. Can’t make this shit up.All I can think of is that sarcastic Natalie Portman clapping image. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:23 AM |
| 186 | What consent in a HLM looks likeReading those little cues also shows they are paying attention to your pleasure, not just trying to get themselves off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:29 AM |
| 140 | Seeing the amount of men that are pedos makes me understand why my mother was so protective!🤢😬Wow, that hit me hard. Imagining the sh*t my mother had to go through to make her so protective of me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:15 AM |
| 10 | How to deal with friends that have something to say about being single"I need comebacks" "Say 'no' more" I think your answer is in your own post. 'No' is a complete sentence. Stop hanging out with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:17 PM |
| 10 | My Crush Stopped Talking To Me but Is Extremely Active Elsewhere 🤷🏿♀️Read the handbook. Why are you telling him he seems like he isn't interested? Girl, trust your gut. He's not interested! Block and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:10 PM |
| 70 | I only recently prioritized myself enough to realize I don’t owe men another opportunity to tell their “side.” I no longer waste my time on liars.So true. You don't need to text him to let him know he hurt you. He already knows. If he's never said or given you what you need in the past, what makes you think he will now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 01:39 PM |
| 26 | By pitying your abuser, you do a disservice to yourself & your healing. Don't bother doing it.YES. Thank you for posting this. It also completely invalidates the pain that I went through. I deserve to be treated right, NO EXCEPTIONS. 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 01:45 PM |
| 6 | I give too much?I know it's easier said than done, but I think the only thing you can do that will really help remedy this situation is moving out of home. I feel like at this point, nothing you say or do will change their behaviour. You can't change them. You can only change yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:17 PM |
| 4 | Time to heal and cut him lose. What was your “last straw?”Previous oneitis: My grandfather died and he wouldn't pick up the phone. Most recent oneitis: My other grandfather died and he wouldn't pick up the phone. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:14 PM |
| 32 | Please let’s help her. I don’t know what to do. Please help.You're not alone, I still have the same recurring thoughts with my first (abusive) boyfriend. Since I've accepted my past and moved on, I sometimes forget how bad it really was, and find myself fantasising about reaching out before I realise how awful that would be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 02:17 PM |
| 40 | Saying so much nothingness and yet so much entitlement, insecurity, bitternessThat's a lot of words to say "I'm nothing special." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 02:13 PM |
| 23 | Wondering if this guy is trouble. HelpSorry what's the question? You've got a post full of red flags and ...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:34 AM |
| 147 | Please let’s help her. I don’t know what to do. Please help.This is so heartbreaking. The parts where she describes herself as his best friend, better half, everything... That is not how you treat your best friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Nothing will change his mind if he’s decided he doesn’t want you.This is FDS 101. Placeholder vs Dreamgirl theory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:24 PM |
| 8 | Not sure how to respond to this...You already know the answer. You can do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:52 PM |
| 20 | Eww... he thinks this is a funny birthday present?!Ahhh yes, the 'cool girl' who is definitely real and totally exists IRL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:44 PM |
| 3 | While it may seem like this the majority of the time, remember to never settle!The bar is low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:42 PM |
| 13 | What are your thoughts on last minute dates ?Last minute = low effort. It's repeated many times throughout the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:30 AM |
| 2 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Him: He had a well tailored suit.. Presume that was your doing. Me: Is that why you messaged me? Him: The thought occurred, but no. I've had a busy/stressful week and felt like saying hello. Me: Not for long. Then I'll never hear from you again. Him: Ouch, frosty in here! Me: Give me a reason to think otherwise. Him: Because I enjoy our exchanges? This AH has made no indication of wanting to see me in the last month, has made no concrete plans, and expects me to be his shoulder via messaging. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Fragile little things they are"Promise?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:23 AM |
| 15 | Why What He Spends MattersPoint 2 is so important. A man who spends lots of money on you just to hold it over you in the future (I spent X so you owe me Y) is NOT a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 03:43 AM |
| 21 | you can do better than this."If he's into you, you'll know" has been a game changer for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:25 AM |
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