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I've had 3 new lays in 5 days (might have to FR). And you post this. You just raise the bar no don't you?
/r/seduction11/05/11 05:51 PM
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But you succeeded because you're deaf! I kid. I can see a lot of forever aloners conjuring up some excuse. Very nice, detailed and unique FR. You probably know what you could have done better, more kino, less self-hate, more dominant/leader. Of course, well done, kiss close and number close. I hope to read more.
/r/seduction29/01/11 11:54 PM
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I really don't know how I do it. I have a hard time being just friendly to a girl. I flirt with every girl, pretty or not. When I'm especially into a girl, I make sure to use plenty of kino, and I'm incredibly playful. This means lots of teasing and sarcasm. I don't say one serious thing for the first 10 minutes. For example, often times I'm called mean or sassy, whereas I do a sort of TofuTofu PPP where I say, I'm sorry I'll be nice, and I go in for a big hug and a kiss to whoever is around me …
/r/seduction25/01/11 10:42 PM
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You're right, but most people don't know this. Pre-med does sound better.
/r/seduction25/01/11 07:43 PM
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You're a medical assistant. You should be lying anyway, at least at first (jokingly).
/r/seduction25/01/11 07:31 PM
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I read the FR, just didn't have nothing to say outside of TofuTofu's reply. Abundance mentality abundance mentality abundance mentality.. I am trying to reframe at the same time with both girls that I'm seeing, this is a bad move. Two girls is enough sex whereas masturbation isn't fun anymore and I'm starting to lose my mind. I really dislike playing games too, when I feel like texting, I text. But we have the same idea, it's time to play games.
/r/seduction25/01/11 03:54 AM
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"Well what else would be we going as, haha weirdo/dork/goober."
/r/seduction25/01/11 03:42 AM
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I'm backing off from the HBs I'm seeing too. Erm, but next Sunday? Actually, I should probably wait until they text/call me.
/r/seduction25/01/11 03:39 AM
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I'm actually a pretty social guy. I'll make moon eyes at a girl if she's cute, and a lot of the time I get 'em back. But shit, where to go from there? That's not being social. Also sets of troll alarms. You don't need help picking up women (yet). Make eye contact with strangers, smile at women. Talk to everyone, especially men. When you are comfortable in a bar search for 'style challenge' to help get started. And see the side bar.
/r/seduction24/01/11 06:19 PM
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Yea we were at the bar, no dance floor whatsoever, don't smoke . . . Guess I need a venue change.
/r/seduction24/01/11 03:29 AM
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HB# honesty is appreciated. Anyway, nice job, good move by leaving; it inspires me to be more ballsy. I always try to avoid the talk of other relationships myself or the target have been in -- otherwise, well played (obviously).
/r/seduction24/01/11 12:14 AM
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You're right. Any tips for isolating? "Step outside/over here/whatever I want to show you something." ?
/r/seduction24/01/11 12:07 AM
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That's not bad. I might use it. The comment the HB7 sucked because she was verbalizing what HB6 was feeling -- annoying!
/r/seduction24/01/11 12:07 AM
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What could you have done differently? Maybe tried to befriend Mike and flirt with the other girls to go in under the radar?
/r/seduction23/01/11 06:48 PM
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Your post is a bit vague. Do you hang out with this girl? Take it to the next level in person. "They'll just have to see it in person."
/r/seduction23/01/11 06:39 PM
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Nice bra. snaaaap
/r/seduction23/01/11 05:02 PM
3

You made me throw up.
/r/seduction22/01/11 09:55 PM
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Sidebar to the right. ------>
/r/seduction22/01/11 05:15 PM
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If you just met someone, you wouldn't do this. If you're on a date with someone and they go to the bathroom or something, just hold the damn thing and give it back to them when they return.
/r/seduction22/01/11 05:10 PM
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Just the one on the pirate bay. http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/3632650/The_Great_Happiness_Space I'll be seeding for ya.
/r/seduction19/01/11 09:04 PM
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When you hear "Christian" bells in your head should be going off that she is DTF and probably great in bed.
/r/seduction18/01/11 11:18 PM
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By that time I calmed down enough that I answered her text that day and said about my car and then basically told her in a nice way that she was gonna end up alone if she kept being a workaholic all without mentioning that I know what she said to her friend and it seems she realized that and is still talking to me but idk what else I should do See this: . It's a period. Fucking use it.
/r/seduction18/01/11 02:49 AM
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I've only seen some videos, but Real Social Dynamics (RSD) has a plethora of videos ranging from in field tactics to inner game. Available with torrents nonetheless..
/r/seduction17/01/11 05:36 PM
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Sounds like a good idea.
/r/seduction16/01/11 11:47 PM
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The last lay I had I told her on the way back to her house that I don't like to move too fast, and we weren't having sex that night. She started saying she wasn't going to have sex with me, so I told her I was thankful for her respecting my decision. At her house and in the taxi she must have said she wasn't having sex with me 10 or so times. I kept on telling her I don't move that fast. When I suggested her bedroom, which she said we weren't going to, she said she wasn't having sex with me agai…
/r/seduction16/01/11 06:04 PM
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What you are describing is a large part of pick up. Getting the girl to qualify herself to you, getting her to chase you, etc. It is a pretty big realization.
/r/seduction16/01/11 05:41 PM
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Videos on kino: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RV4A9KKjb3I&feature=related
/r/seduction15/01/11 05:40 PM
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I started reading and it made the last semester of college a lot more fun. Actually you should read my first FR on how I netted a girl from class.
/r/seduction15/01/11 05:28 PM
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I agree he should take action, but the action that he should take is not the one you have chosen.
/r/seduction14/01/11 05:04 AM
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The exercise you mentioned seems fun, but to use it on the aforementioned woman seems foolish. Random girls in bars only have potential value, while this girl has actual value.
/r/seduction13/01/11 07:02 PM
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It's good for an abundance mentality.
/r/seduction12/01/11 06:17 PM
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Voice If you say it's fine, it's fine. Don't worry about it. Kino The video suggested by Sford is great regarding kino. Smiling Laugh at things that are funny. Eye Contact Girls on the street, shoot them a smile if they hold your gaze. For men, enjoy the awkward alpha stare down. Hug/call Regarding the hug/call, this would be more appropriate when leaving her or when you meet up for a hang out. Not on the first day of class. I misread this. A surprise hug isn't a good idea (haha). Yes, you need …
/r/seduction12/01/11 06:47 AM
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Obviously, one day to learn these things can be a bit difficult. You have a lot of confidence about you so definitely keep that mentality, it is great. The best advice I can give is, be yourself but don't be a bitch. The rest of this might very well fuck you up if you try to do it in a day. Be a man. Lead her, be decisive. You are now a touchy-feely kind of guy. Hug her when you see her. Walk right up to her smiling, open your arms and pull her in with a great big hug and a squeeze, feel those b…
/r/seduction12/01/11 05:18 AM
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I want to have sex with her. FTFY
/r/seduction12/01/11 01:50 AM
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Alpha men don't get infections. Infections get alpha men. Sorry.
/r/seduction11/01/11 10:38 PM
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It is very strange at that age. But it seems like she isn't attracted anymore because you moved too slowly. Others have said this before, women will forgive you for moving too fast but not for too slow. She won't even kiss you? It's over. What to do? Friend her and you have a wingwoman.
/r/seduction11/01/11 10:31 PM
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Fifty dates, you should be an expert by now.
/r/seduction11/01/11 07:43 PM
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How old are the two of you? Also, what Throwaway said...
/r/seduction11/01/11 07:27 PM
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I definitely agree on the latter point. When I was eleven I played truth or dare with two girls. I was getting a handjob back and fourth between each girl. My sexual peek was at 11, but I digress...
/r/seduction11/01/11 07:24 PM
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Trololololo. Mods delete?
/r/seduction11/01/11 04:54 AM
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If I recall, you should say thank you and ignore it more or less. In a way that says, yea I know you like x, but the compliment is still appreciated.
/r/seduction11/01/11 04:30 AM
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This could very well be it. She's thinking, man, two weeks really killed the attraction, he's probably not into me.
/r/seduction11/01/11 12:21 AM
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Maybe hmm... we'll have to follow jamba's lead.
/r/seduction11/01/11 12:14 AM
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Love you. Digits plz? :D
/r/seduction11/01/11 12:13 AM
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Hmm, it's about time we started hitting on female contributors. Need to purge them.
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:35 PM
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Have you ever talked to strangers? You create something to talk about. You become genuinely inquisitive.
/r/seduction09/01/11 07:45 PM
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Daygamer gave me some good tips for catching a moving targets' attention and I'd like to hear more, if anyone has any. What tips did he suggest? For the most part, an object in motion stays in motion. Unless you are ahead of them, slow down a bit and wait for them to move along side you then open.
/r/seduction09/01/11 07:39 PM
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he'll know it's just because you thought she looked hot, rather than any attraction you have for her personality. What you are describing is going in "under the radar". This is why many PUAs suggest talking to everyone and being extremely outgoing. Now you appear are just a friendly person. Aside from the randomly approaching people being creepy, your advice isn't terrible. Of course it will be easier to pick up women who share similar interests as you, but it certainly isn't improbable to pick …
/r/seduction09/01/11 07:37 PM
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Gunwitch seems appropriate for the the S1 stage of mystery method. After you have attracted and provided enough comfort, thinking of her in a sexual way is of course going to bring out your sexual presence.
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:50 PM
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Just to be clear it sounds like you are opening a crossing guard then proceeding to sarge a school bus.
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:37 PM
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I don't think there is a problem. Obviously not the way most of us would go about it. But he appeared to be well calibrated with this girl. Perhaps a little too romantic, but enough to show he cared for her to make her his girlfriend. Maybe he slipped up by making himself too vulnerable, giving her too much control. Healthy relationships are always give and take.
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:05 PM
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This is basically your goal for the night. Obviously the worst thing you can do is be a puppy dog and follow the girl you dated around all night, don't get stuck doing that.
/r/seduction08/01/11 07:20 PM
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No kino, coffee, and the new friends thing are probably the only good things up there. The rest can all be considered comfort builders and may actually backfire. I think the best thing you can do is have a friend join you midway or something because he is "around the area and felt like a drink". Basically wingman the girl for you as you get to her friends.
/r/seduction08/01/11 07:18 PM
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Make a throwaway and give back!
/r/seduction08/01/11 07:13 PM
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Great FR. I hope you stick around for more. Interesting choice of acronym (yea I know initialism). HB always has this other connotation that nobody says but everyone thinks, that is hot bitch. How about HD for hot dude or hot dick?
/r/seduction08/01/11 06:07 PM
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From GAP, got it for $80, originally $160.
/r/seduction07/01/11 11:04 PM
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women usually loose interest in them When I start to loose interest in the material.
/r/seduction06/01/11 08:12 PM
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Lots of new users combined with some very troll-like posts as of late make me afraid.
/r/seduction06/01/11 07:49 PM
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This is like the 10 times in the field between every good FR. Thanks for posting.
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:47 PM
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I have an inkling that there is about to be some organized trolling.
/r/seduction06/01/11 05:52 PM
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It's also just more convenient. Easier to pick another day if one of you are busy, easier to tell if she is genuinely busy, etc.
/r/seduction06/01/11 05:15 PM
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WTF I don't even?
/r/seduction06/01/11 05:42 AM
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Talk to her Think about wanting to fuck her Look like a rapist PROFIT!!
/r/seduction06/01/11 05:19 AM
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I'm just...confused. Is there enough attraction to ask her out via text, do it. All else, send a text her way if she has earned it or perhaps to escalate the relationship a bit. Part of it is putting yourself out there a bit... it's just a text though.
/r/seduction06/01/11 05:15 AM
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Politician handshake is a sign of dominance. Avoid it with higher authority.
/r/seduction05/01/11 08:32 PM
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It's your job to get these women to open up. Tell stories about yourself and ask genuine and intriguing questions that get them enthusiastic about themselves. Most women need to have enough attraction to start opening up and qualifying themselves to you.
/r/seduction05/01/11 08:28 PM
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There is this website called thesomethingbay. I can't remember the name though.
/r/seduction05/01/11 07:22 PM
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Meh, should call.
/r/seduction05/01/11 07:18 PM
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Correction: high value males already have their attention on other women.
/r/seduction05/01/11 01:06 AM
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Honestly, I don't think it does work. Long distance relationship, which I would say this is, only works if it is completely platonic or the two of you have agreed not to see others. Perhaps an occasional fling when one is in town, but attempting to maintain a relationship by phone and text simply isn't worth the payoff. If neither of you are looking for more than some fun and some dating, how do you expect to get that when you live so far away? You can't maintain attraction forever through phone…
/r/seduction04/01/11 06:50 PM
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You were sick for New Years? Oh man, it's like the PUA's dream that night. I don't know how I feel about fucking exes. I guess I'm a bit jealous, as all of mine would take me back in a heartbeat but they'd be clingy as fuck if we had sex. So good on you.
/r/seduction04/01/11 07:52 AM
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To anyone who hasn't read the FR yet, don't overlook it for its length, it's worth the read. Really great, detailed FR. This is how social proof is done, removing yourself from outcomes, growing balls of steel, and getting the girl. edit: woops
/r/seduction04/01/11 07:44 AM
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Don't text. At least call.
/r/seduction04/01/11 06:38 AM
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This seems obvious to me. Actually the OP seems like a troll it is so painful. This could have been the conversation: Girl: "Come to my bed!" Guy: "I have flowers!" Girl: "WTF, I just want you to fuck me. "
/r/seduction04/01/11 06:33 AM
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Good luck! If it doesn't work, just say hi.
/r/seduction03/01/11 08:39 PM
1

Might work but probably too late, drop something, he'll look, when you pick your head up make eye contact and smile, then submissively drop your head over your shoulder (if you know what I mean).
/r/seduction03/01/11 07:36 PM
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Look to the sidebar. You're welcome.
/r/seduction03/01/11 07:34 PM
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This lady is the closest you're going to get to knowing about gaming women as a woman. I would message her or maybe review some of her FRs and other comments.
/r/seduction03/01/11 08:12 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/user/LesbianPUA
/r/seduction03/01/11 08:05 AM
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This is push/pull.
/r/seduction03/01/11 08:03 AM
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Always take initiative. Girls suck at it. Don't leave it up to them. Give her a compliment that makes her smile, make sure it is specific. Never vague (you're beautiful) and follow it up wit a neg of some sort. The classic example is "Nice nails, are they fake?"
/r/seduction03/01/11 04:19 AM
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Classes, library, volunteering, mall, coffee shops (bring a laptop), ice cream parlors, take out places, grocery stores, billiards . . .
/r/seduction02/01/11 10:13 PM
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ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction02/01/11 10:12 PM
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Why you must assume she wants you. If she is being more than polite small talk, she wants you to escalate. So start slow. Play stupid games (thumb wrestling, look online for others), high five, grab her hand and say something nice (or mean) about her bracelet, ring, whatever. Watch this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI .
/r/seduction02/01/11 06:11 PM
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He'd just be being friendly. Really really friendly.
/r/seduction02/01/11 04:26 AM
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She'll probably be a worse cockblock afterward. How about "i'm gay, really".
/r/seduction02/01/11 03:56 AM
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After the attraction it is really all with kino escalation and comfort building.
/r/seduction02/01/11 02:35 AM
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I don't think you've read enough. Sure the acronyms and abbreviations can be unnecessarily complicated at first, but they describe distinct and as reph mentioned, field tested concepts. Seduction isn't complicated, be the man the girl wants, have fun, be interesting, be alpha, be yourself but with no negativity, use some simple techniques (kino, dhv, neg/tease). More or less accept yourself for who you are, have a great time and don't be a bitch.
/r/seduction02/01/11 02:33 AM
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New Years Eve/New Years you can probably get away with opening with a kiss when 1:00m (25:00) rolls around.
/r/seduction02/01/11 02:08 AM
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Maybe I've missed it Fred, but are you going to add any inner game stuff?
/r/seduction31/12/10 10:51 PM
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I blurted my feelings out once, I didn't use the 'love' word (eww), and the girl reciprocated. I left my then GF for her and nobody has ever made me happier. And really good sex. If you don't reciprocate directly two things will happen: Indirectly the two of you will rebuild attraction to reexamine mutual feelings or He will act very weird around you and avoid you as much as possible in order to stay loyal to his SO.
/r/seduction29/12/10 09:36 PM
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He put himself out there for you, maybe you can do the same for him. He won't mind.
/r/seduction29/12/10 09:23 PM
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Kino Escalation ladder.
/r/seduction29/12/10 02:28 AM
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IDontGetSeduction already has this troll spot filled. Choose another?
/r/seduction28/12/10 07:49 AM
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Oh I don't know you at all because you must never go out and even try.
/r/seduction28/12/10 04:57 AM
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Prepare for clinginess. If you're not ok with it, don't break her heart, much.
/r/seduction26/12/10 09:25 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it. It is certainly a bit outside of the norm. I like the idea of evidence outside of field reports, especially academic.
/r/seduction26/12/10 06:52 PM
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To be more comfortable with myself and to correctly convey my personality to others. This is my primary use of seddit. Secondary use would be to learn the techniques to have fun (and help others have fun) in order to make meaningful connections with women and live a fuller life. Actually you should read some of my recent (longer) comments. edit: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eqns3/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability_ted_talk/
/r/seduction26/12/10 06:45 PM
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Of course there's the obvious say there name as you talk to them. In The Game Style uses a memory technique which utilizes alliterations and a pop culture or other reference. If she's a heavy drinker she is Bloody Mary. If she is a beach girl she is Malibu Mary, if she is a geek she is Mary Maddox. You get the idea. I think this is how Style did it.
/r/seduction24/12/10 09:59 PM
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Google is your friend. DHV is a demonstration of higher value (also on the right). Simply put, it is anything that makes you look better than the competition. http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/display-high-value-dhv/ There are many other DHVs that come from other schools of thought: wealth (perceived) family background body build sense of humor social intuitiveness and witty-ness ability to have fun and positive emotions (AKA vibe control) understanding how to redirect social pressure sens…
/r/seduction24/12/10 09:28 PM
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Control yourself! Not here, not now.
/r/seduction24/12/10 09:18 PM
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You really think she wants to date you? A young, poor college student such as yourself is good for only one thing (to her), sex.
/r/seduction24/12/10 05:56 PM
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There is this weird mentality with women, whereby they know exactly what is going on but don't want to hear it from you.
/r/seduction24/12/10 05:52 PM
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This should be fun for the 10+ girls' numbers I have. Going to be a shit show of "who's this?" and "aww thanks I thought you forgot about me."
/r/seduction24/12/10 05:49 PM
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Most of it is on the right. ->
/r/seduction24/12/10 05:43 PM
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I agree and is my point, a PUA is built on his successes, the alpha state is beyond PUA.
/r/seduction24/12/10 05:21 PM
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In terms of inner game, this concept will keep things internally consistent and sane or else you might end up crazy like Mystery. You cannot be perfect. You will never be perfect. If you can realize that you are a victim to vulnerability, you can move past it, you can be great. We all seek validation. Given, validation is a great feeling, and in many regards this is what we all want, but what is the greatest PUA of all time when he is without validation at all? Nothing. He would feel lost and ho…
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:00 AM
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I agree that on the surface it is exactly as you have described. There is a distinction between AFC, PUA and true alpha. With that said, what does it mean to be alpha? There is something to be said about being perceived as alpha: fun loving, care free, making sure everyone is having a good time, mostly non-reactionary, not needy, independent, and so on as oppose to being alpha. To be alpha is not to adopt qualities or as she put it, aspiring to be something you are not but rather to accept yours…
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:00 AM
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Some key points that hit home: "When you ask people about connection they speak of disconnection . . . when I pulled back from the research . . . this thing turned out to be * shame and fear." Shame and fear is vulnerability. People that have a strong sense of love and belonging believe they are worthy of love and belonging. One thing that keeps us out of connection is our fear that we are not worthy of connection. People that have a strong sense of love and belonging have courage. Courage comes…
/r/seduction23/12/10 11:11 PM
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I am not advocating to blurt your feelings; however, with that said, my last LTR was essentially that. What happened was over a month or two we became friends, but we both had feelings for each other that none of us were willing to move forward on in account of each of us were in a relationship with someone else. I basically said, listen, I have feelings for you and they aren't going away, my current relationship isn't working out, I hope you feel the same way. Luckily she did. Two days later we…
/r/seduction23/12/10 08:02 AM
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Obviously good FR but more details! What the hell does natural instincts mean? Also transitioning from head in the club bathroom to a coffee date seems a little weird.
/r/seduction22/12/10 09:36 PM
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How long have you been here? PUA isn't about losing yourself. It is becoming ok with yourself, with talking to other people, and imploring tactics (openers, kino, DHV, routines, push/pull, etc) to escalate quickly and sweep her off her feet. Just because a PUA is more conscious of what he is doing than she is, he is a creep?
/r/seduction22/12/10 06:26 PM
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Dude, from I could get her something cool, then she would like me to The one that got away just left my bed. You have clearly come a long way..
/r/seduction22/12/10 06:15 PM
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Seems like you are on the verge of succeeding. Ignore all the young kids giving you shit--they're just intimidated. And although it wasn't exactly alpha, throwing up a middle finger in somebody's face is pretty hilarious. You're right about girl #3, you should have befriended her immediately. I've had the mama hen pull girls away and it annoyed the crap out of me.
/r/seduction22/12/10 08:08 AM
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Pause more.
/r/seduction22/12/10 05:41 AM
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That is.. kind of awesome.
/r/seduction22/12/10 05:40 AM
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So i meat this chick online Ugh. You don't need to be a "pro-status" sedditor to tell you to just meAt her and pay for her. Give her a hard time about it and tell her to get it next time. You could also go Christmas shopping or meet for some coffee.
/r/seduction22/12/10 05:34 AM
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I preferred the library when I was in college. This is my first time in my life referring to college in the past tense. Ugh. Also grab a laptop or book and head to a coffee shop or icecream parlor. There can be so many women, usually by themselves, there.
/r/seduction22/12/10 05:30 AM
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Most definitely. Turn 21 already.
/r/seduction21/12/10 10:27 PM
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Or she doesn't respect you because you are crawling back after being left for another guy. If I was in your ex's position, I wouldn't respect you either. Instead show her you can give two shits less. I'm not trying to be cold, but if you want relationship advice go to r/relationshipadvice.
/r/seduction21/12/10 10:26 PM
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Seduction isn't about getting the one girl. Don't you think you're out of your mind for thinking a life long relationship can grow when she is already so uncertain? Everyone is going to give you the same advice. The best way you are going to land her back is to utilize the same principles as you would anyone else: be alpha, adopt an attitude of sexual abundance by finding other women, act like you have a hundred other women to talk to, don't be needy, be playful, don't always make time for her, …
/r/seduction21/12/10 10:12 PM
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My friend is the exact same way..
/r/seduction21/12/10 08:32 PM
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I'm taking girls Christmas shopping with me. Really, I could use the advise regarding presents so why not?
/r/seduction21/12/10 08:21 PM
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Haha, you just need to get more stuff man, and the girls will come! /s
/r/seduction21/12/10 07:49 PM
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Your refusal to even consider hooking up with a woman who is drinking sounds demeaning Keeping it classy. I'd just jack off in her hair. And that's exactly what I did.
/r/seduction21/12/10 06:19 PM
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I think the one downvote is reseddit's.
/r/seduction21/12/10 06:13 PM
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I have a friend who is AFC up the a-hole. He can't meet women because the girls in bars aren't "in the same situation" as him and the girls on okcupid are. What? He's afraid to talk to women because he doesn't have the apartment, the high paying job or college education, supposedly. He gets hung up on any one girl. I show him material/theory and he looks at it and agrees with it, but can't get past his AA, inner game issues, and, his words, "could never touch somebody in conversation". It drives…
/r/seduction21/12/10 06:01 PM
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I'm around and down to sarge whenever, although a bit older--23. I feel like an old man.
/r/seduction21/12/10 06:01 AM
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It's a novel. That's it.
/r/seduction21/12/10 05:43 AM
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Anything by blood on the dance floor.
/r/seduction21/12/10 03:55 AM
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I was looking forward to a 100-pushups meme.
/r/seduction21/12/10 03:54 AM
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How To Kino. Although largely based on in the bar type stuff, the series teaches about establishing consistency and being a "touchy-feely" guy.
/r/seduction20/12/10 07:31 PM
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From my personal experience, bringing it up will only surface embarrassment. A couple of weeks ago I alluded to sex directly to a girl I was with, and it killed the mood -- even if I did it jokingly. Luckily the next time I saw her I quickly left that strategy behind and all was well.
/r/seduction20/12/10 06:52 PM
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My thoughts exactly.
/r/seduction20/12/10 06:38 PM
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IDontGetSeduction Successful troll. : (
/r/seduction20/12/10 06:23 PM
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Awesome. I'm stealing that line.
/r/seduction20/12/10 05:15 AM
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My general rule depends on how much I have escalated kino. Whether that be hand holding & playing, running my hand around her neck, rubbing her arm, touching her leg, some aggressive (see: inner thigh, between hips) dancing and touching, etcetera. There was also a nice video on how to escalate to a kiss using the close ear to mouth whisper in loud areas, I can't find the link. But basically, in a loud environment you would start, while standing or sitting next to one another, with a somewhat typ…
/r/seduction20/12/10 02:35 AM
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I'd love to meet the infamous TofuTofu if he came to Boston.
/r/seduction20/12/10 02:14 AM
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Real Social Dynamics, Tyler Durden's company.
/r/seduction12/12/10 10:07 PM
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Thanks for the input.
/r/seduction10/12/10 09:24 PM
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Could you maybe provide some links or the authors?
/r/seduction10/12/10 06:53 AM
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r/relationshipadvice Really your post is so incredibly vague I don't think you're going to get anything here, or, anywhere. If you can't read her mind we certainly can't.
/r/seduction10/12/10 06:38 AM
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And this is how you know this girl gets it . . . I enjoy reading your submissions.
/r/seduction09/12/10 07:32 PM
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You're on your own there. All the girls I've been with usually just become incredibly horny.
/r/seduction08/12/10 07:26 AM
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Show up with a cupcake and a smile. Her eyes will glisten over at your compliance. Put entire cupcake in mouth. Chew. Laugh manically. I would actually do this.
/r/seduction06/12/10 12:26 AM
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Nice recovery. Went from crying in the first FR to having what seems to be an alright night.
/r/seduction05/12/10 05:30 PM
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When did this hit you? I thought I was there until I realized my self-value is mostly dependent on the validation of women, this is a sad existence and if I can't transcend to what you've described then pick-up feels meaningless.
/r/seduction05/12/10 05:12 PM
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Nice FR. I've always had a problem of coming off as friendly and not engaging enough to create a connection. Seems sort of what is happening here. I'm looking forward to the replies. I tell her I know the guitarist (huge IOI I hope). DHV* FTFY
/r/seduction05/12/10 04:55 PM
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What I have done with other (proper) end-kiss closes is to go in for a big hug (under her, her on top) and hold it for two or three times longer than you should. It should be very noticeable. Then pull away slowly a few inches away from her face. Your cheeks almost brushing against hers as you do this. Your hips stay locked as you continue holding her against you. Then eye contact and kiss. Calibration has to be right (you should feel it).
/r/seduction04/12/10 05:59 PM
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Don't say "he's such a nice guy, like a brother to me, etc".
/r/seduction04/12/10 05:35 PM
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Go on.
/r/seduction04/12/10 05:07 PM
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Girls have plenty of control. Right from the beginning when they make eye contact and smile to the end when they agree to sex.
/r/seduction03/12/10 05:13 AM
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You're probably right. It should be noted I turned back and kept walking backwards as I said this, smiling. I definitely wasn't waiting for her approval. Then turned around and kept walking.
/r/seduction02/12/10 07:56 AM
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Thanks man. The old me wouldn't have put myself out there, vulnerable. New me says she wants the kiss so give it to her.
/r/seduction02/12/10 07:55 AM
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