You believe (a) I should text her because I think she probably likes me.. (b) I should text her because I'm thinking of her and want to give some positive energy to her day.. (c) she hasn't texted me, so, why should I text her?.. (d) give the context and what has worked for you because you thought.. why?

I'd like to know a time when you were faced with this.. and reflected (maybe?).. how did it go?