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| 10 | How to approach/maintain conversation with awkward/quiet girls?Sounds like you were doing everything right the first time... spend more time with her | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 12:06 AM |
| 17 | How to just stay fuck buddies?Tell her straight out.... "I think you're great, but I'm not interested in a long term relationship right now. I enjoy our time together, and would like to continue seeing each other casually. If that makes you uncomfortable, then we should stop now" Don't string her along. Be honest. You'd be surprised how often it works | /r/seduction | 16/12/14 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Can a somewhat feminine guy still be alpha?There's nothing wrong with wanting to look your best, be clean, have nice hair, etc. But there's a fine line, when wanting to be good looking turns into you being a narcissistic douche bag who's concern for his hair outweighs the concerns of more important things. Don't be that guy. | /r/seduction | 18/03/14 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Unsure of how to proceed after openerI don't know if that's the right idea. Sure, calibration only comes with experience, but don't practice by being narcissistic and braggadocios and then learn to back off. The point is to have something to say for yourself. It doesn't matter what it is, you should just say what's on your mind. Or just make shit up for practice. Google "Conversational Threading" You ask a question, and based on her answers you pick up key words, and then you say the first thing that comes to your mind to keep the … | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you seal the deal for a same night lay? I.e. how do you actually transition to taking her home?"Come with me" Love this line. But you should always have something to do, no matter how mundane. "I'm heading home in a few minutes to smoke a joint. Come with me" | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 09:50 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/20/14Send her a PM of basically the exact same thing you said here. Short and sweet: "Hey I'm planning a trip to [her city] on business and meeting up one night would make it significantly better. Know of any good spots?" Hopefully she takes the bait and you already have an excuse to meet up. | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 12:41 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/20/14How many girls have you met since you got her number? | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 12:36 AM |
| 0 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/20/14The lack of responses in this thread saddens me. These used to be great threads. | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 12:35 AM |
| 8 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/20/14Probably because you immediately assume 8s and 9s are dateworthy, just because they are simply "8's and 9's" and other girls aren't. It comes off as needy, and you're really just seeking approval from your peers (bro that girl you banged was so hot. High five. You're cool). Fuck the number scale dude. Be more selective with your dating and raise your standards. Don't just date hot girls, but date interesting girls too. Maybe dip into some crazy strange once or twice. You'll eventually learn more… | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 12:32 AM |
| 9 | I'm 19 and in Canada for a few days. Never been to a bar and am really excited. Anything I should know before going to a bar for the first time?Pace yourself, and don't drink too much. And don't forget to drink some water. Focus on having fun and meeting some new people | /r/seduction | 14/12/13 08:25 PM |
| 2 | If there's one thing you could say to change the topic of the conversation, what is it?I find most conversations that I enjoy are ones where I'm knowing more about the person I'm speaking to And nobody else does? | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 02:46 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/9/13What makes you think you're becoming a bitch, exactly? | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 02:24 AM |
| 0 | WTF happened. Opinions? #closedme: "this better not be fake!" And then i called her to check and hey, her phone rang. Me: "heeeey! High five! Thanks!". Cringe | /r/seduction | 03/12/13 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Terminally ill with oneitisSo why are you pining away on seddit? Go talk to some women for fuck's sake | /r/seduction | 03/12/13 04:37 PM |
| 8 | [fr] Night at the club, K-closed and then dunno WTF happened.You were the drunk dude on the dance floor who everybody was avoiding. Plain and simple. Don't let your ego lie to you and tell you it was all a coincidence. Be a man and admit it. Let it marinate for a few moments..... Now that you've come to terms with it, think of some ways you can avoid that next time. 1) Don't drink so much 2) Practice proper eye contact 3) Practice proper kino 4) Try again Don't sweat it dude. Become a better version of yourself. Not a horny drunk one. | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 06:42 PM |
| 13 | Two problems; 1) I'm not DTF... Really. 2) I'm ONS worthy but not BF material apparently.I don't understand. Why can't you have sex with a girl the first night you meet her and still continue the relationship afterwards? I'll give it to you straight, dude. You show your cards too early, girls don't like that. It's good to be honest with women, but most girls want to have some fun with you before you start getting all "date-y" on them. Why not give in to sex once in a while, and see where that takes you? Maybe nowhere, or maybe a serious relationship. Don't know why you think you can… | /r/seduction | 20/08/13 06:52 PM |
| 50 | AMA - I've been on OkCupid for over a year, been on over 50 dates, had multiple first date lays, many fuck buddies, and even 2-3 "serious" girlfriends!When was the last time you cold approached a girl? | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 07:44 AM |
| 6 | Do you have huge approach anxiety? I have come across a solution, and it's brilliant fun. The Name Game.That sounds good. I'll have that. | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 06:56 AM |
| 17 | How can you tell the difference between friendly playfulness and sexual flirtiness?Ok, next time I'll just say that you're awesome and it's her loss. I'll pet your head and tell you that she doesn't deserve a great guy like you anyway, and you're a boss. Seems like that's the standard seddit advice nowadays anyway. Seriously, I was just trying to help. No offense intended. Sometimes you just need to sack up and make a move. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How are you supposed to assume attraction when you're short?Sounds like a mindset problem. You worry too much about how you appear to women rather than how you make them feel about you. I've been on seddit for a couple years, and its always the same thing: "Girls only want good looking guys" "Girls only want guys with money" "Girls only want tall guys" "Girls only want guys who work out" I'm none of those, and I was pretty damn successful at picking up women. Stop worrying about shit you cant change, or buy boots with 4" soles. Instead, worry about how w… | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 05:03 PM |
| 5 | How can you tell the difference between friendly playfulness and sexual flirtiness?Exactly, you need to escalate and see how she reacts to your touch. If you just go out there with the mindset of "she's just being 'friendly'" and never act on any of her advances, then yeah, she'll probably just be friendly with you all the way to the friendzone. OP needs to stop being a pussy and start acting like a man who goes after what he wants | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 04:52 PM |
| 23 | How to "abort" in a good way when rejected?Always with a smile | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Critique this text conversation pleaseChrist. Is this how college students write now? Fuck. | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 12:31 AM |
| 18 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)There are way better drugs out there to do on a first date. But, whatever floats your boat. | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 06:25 PM |
| 7 | Found this gem: "Hey Cajun what's the single most important piece of advice you can give to a young pua just starting out?" ANSWER: "Don't give up."Is that what's considered a gem these days? | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 04:22 PM |
| 3 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesAKA calibration | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 02:38 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I'm being very serious. Based on OP's post and lack of detail about how he's going about getting numbers, I can bet that he hasn't asked for anybody's number. | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 02:14 AM |
| 11 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I can never seem to #close Have you, umm... asked for any numbers? | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 01:34 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)They're not hard to conceal, that's what they're made for. The best method for hiding it is taping it to your chest, above the sternum and under your shirt. Depending on what you're wearing, it shouldn't affect the sound quality too much. Maybe just a little. Just try to not move around or fidget too much when you're talking. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 08:21 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)OP would better off with an omnidirectional lapel mic. It might be a bit noisier, but it will pick up whoever OP is speaking with better than a cardioid that's meant to only pick up the person wearing it. It's better to hear everybody. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 08:12 PM |
| 0 | "Where do you work?" Shit test ideaI don't think ThrowawayPUA or I debated any of that. If anything, we're both saying you should avoid bringing up your economic status at first. Otherwise, you come off like a douche. I'm just saying it's not a shit test. There's definitely a right and wrong way to handle it, but it's not necessarily a shit test, that's all. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 08:20 PM |
| 2 | "Where do you work?" Shit test ideaI see your point, but I'm still not convinced it's a shit test. Boasting about your job and income is just being a douche, not necessarily failing a shit test. But I'll never answer the job question seriously when she first asks, it's more fun to reflect it like you said. But i think a shit test is more often used to try to elicit some sort of reaction from you. Things like "You're not really my type" or "you look like you're in highshool" or "your shirt is ugly" or "I bet you have a tiny dick".… | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 06:44 PM |
| 7 | "Where do you work?" Shit test ideaYou clearly have no idea what a shit test is. Seddit has a really bad habit of thinking everything that a girl says is a shit test, and that you need a list of edgy and witty pre-scripted responses. It shows a lack of confidence and a lack of game. A girl asking you where you work isn't a shit test. Sure, you can tease her, and tell her you're an astronaut or something, but its far from being a shit test for you. The best response to any shit test is to be non reactive, ignore it, or just agree … | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 03:47 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/1/13 (please upvote - zero karma)It was mutual. She insisted I give her mine instead, but I told her no. We ended up exchanging numbers instead, called her 2 days later, and took her on a date. The rest is history | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 04:07 PM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/1/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Yes. My current girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 06:57 AM |
| 24 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/1/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Similar to what /u/bl1y is saying, whenever a girl would insist on taking my number instead giving hers to me, I would almost 100% of the time simply say "No, thanks. That's OK" in a non-butthurt and non-judgmental way. I wouldn't leave, i wouldn't change my frame. I would stand my ground and plow through. They always act shocked and a little upset by the fact you don't want to give it out. They always ask why and they won't let up, so you should just simply say "because you aren't going to call… | /r/seduction | 01/07/13 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Ways to meet women in the summer without hitting up bars or clubs?I didn't downvote him, but it's probably because there a million better ideas posted. Remember the movie Mallrats? | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 06:40 AM |
| 7 | Ways to meet women in the summer without hitting up bars or clubs?Haha classic ThrowawayPUA answer. I miss the days when you were even more ruthless than this. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Which parts of PUA should I avoid for High School?I live in central Europe where the girls aren't as slutty as over in the UK or USA/Canada You're an idiot | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 07:20 PM |
| 13 | How to keep distance with a girl looking for more?No offense, but this is shitty advice. Contrary to popular seddit belief, a witty/cocky response isn't the answer to everything. OP has already stated that he expressed disinterest in a relationship, doesn't hang out with her too much, doesn't text her all day, etc. He's not leading her on or anything, so if she's still swinging from his nuts, that's her problem, not his. OP, if you're reading this, keep doing what you're doing (assuming you do, in fact, want to continue in a loose relationship … | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 05:06 PM |
| 7 | I have no problem with the approach or with building attraction. My problem is the date.No, you're not interviewing her. OP needs to learn to communicate better, not just ask questions and act interested in what she's saying. That's chump game, and incredibly insincere. Conversation Threading is a great way to learn better communication skills, and it forces you to listen. | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 03:50 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/17/13 (please upvote - zero karma)"Can you cook?" | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 07:44 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/17/13 (please upvote - zero karma)No sweat, man. You'll do fine, just stick to the game plan. | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 07:40 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/17/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Play the field, dude. | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 07:30 PM |
| 16 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/17/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Clarify? Dude, no. Who gives a shit if it's called a "date" or not. Call it whatever the fuck you want, if you're interested in her, just show her a good time, make her laugh, and escalate. Putting labels on things puts women in an awkward position. It makes them feel trapped. They get excited when things develop organically. Think about this: if you ask her "is this a date?" (Like some fucking chode), you're putting tremendous pressure on her (and yourself, too). In her mind now, a "date" = you… | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 07:28 PM |
| 5 | How can we make friends with attractive girls?Can anyone share some tips as to how they are able to make more friends that are hot girls? Even girls who have boyfriends! Everything you've done before discovering the community. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 10:30 PM |
| 6 | Why do girls not text back so much?Girls are always texting. Look around, girls are buried in their phone all day, everywhere you look. They're just not texting you back, probably because they think you're boring. "I'm great! Did you just get off work?" Boring, and creepy. She probably doesn't want you hiding in the bushes waiting until she leaves. Try to be more playful in the future. Don't be so cut and dry with texts. That shit is so boring. Have fun with her for a bit, and as soon as she's hooked, tell her you gotta run and t… | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 09:16 PM |
| 5 | advice, please: shift away from AFC while living w/ parent or no?If you're a chump while living at home, you're going to be a chump when you move out, too. It has no real bearing on your success, so you might as well start now. Right now. Leave your parents house and just go say hi to a girl at the mall or something. Stop bitching about how much it sucks at home and just deal with it. Realize that it's what you need to do right now and own that shit. You're 28 years old, man up already and take control of your life. Do it NOW. You're just being a huge pussy a… | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 06:24 PM |
| 23 | What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"?No, but i have stuck my dick in a I just took a whole bottle of vicodin and I need you now kind of crazy and a I know we just recently broke up, but i just miscarried our baby on my bed kind of crazy. Those are just two that come to mind. I feel like we're just splitting hairs now. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 07:45 PM |
| 18 | What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"?One of my best friends sometimes says that to girls he's picking up. They fall in love every time. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 06:40 PM |
| 64 | What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"?I disagree. Girls in their late 20s and 30s, especially financially secure ones, often bring this up as a legitimate concern, mostly from a biological standpoint. I think a lot, if not most, girls want to be married before 30 and have kids shortly after. So if you're dating 29 year olds, and they bring up marriage or kids, it doesn't mean they are crazy, it means they are ready to settle down, and seeing how you react to the word marriage is a good way for them to feel you out, and see if you're… | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 06:17 PM |
| 65 | What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"?I never really fully agreed with the "don't stick your dick in crazy" crowd. Personally, I enjoy sticking my dick in crazy. It's certainly more fun than some boring "regular" girl. That said, girls who smoke cigarettes and enjoy whiskey or scotch have always been a little crazy, in my opinion. Also, their occupation is usually a dead giveaway. I dated an artist or two in my day, and they were by far the craziest girls I've dated. Also, writers can be pretty nuts too. All of them enjoyed cigarett… | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 06:08 PM |
| 10 | [FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUAI don't get that impression at all. She gushes more about this dude than she does about herself. It reads pretty much in line with everything the community says to do. I'll allow it. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 12:48 AM |
| 18 | [FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUAI love how even though you knew what he was doing, right down to the routines, you still found him attractive because he was displaying attractive behavior. Who knows, he may even be a total chode on day 2, but it just goes to show you that attraction is not a choice. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 12:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUAIt's a pretty standard pua routine. The questions don't matter, really, except for the last one. Google it. Too lazy to link Edit: I think Style has a great video of it in action on youtube. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 12:38 AM |
| 44 | [deleted by user]Don't forget to show your friends | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 10:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] A word on text game - Don't try to use negs.Cringe. That's not a neg, and not even close to being rude or whatever. And next time, just shut the fuck up and keep moving the conversation forward. Stop going in circles over your shitty joke, and move on. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 12:28 AM |
| 5 | Taking this girl to the movies tomorrow....Ugh, not the movies... You should make it movie night at your place instead. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some InsightsI can't help but feel partially responsible with my comment, (having it deleted with a bunch of deleted replies and all that) but I really didn't think it was going to get as much attention as it did. It's probably my highest rated comment, and I was really just trying to be humorous, but I was actually pointing a finger towards the seddit users, rather than the OP. The people who misunderstood my post were the same people who I was pointing out. I don't really disagree with the OP, but it's far… | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 06:42 AM |
| 36 | [FR] Number Close HB8 Owner of Modeling Organization at Sandwich Storehttp://imgur.com/qfqLD.gif | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Seddit just hit 100,000 subscribers a few seconds ago. What has been your favourite post ever made here?What happened to your old username? | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Seddit just hit 100,000 subscribers a few seconds ago. What has been your favourite post ever made here?Ah, my final field report. A lot of sedditors have PM'd me since then, I'm really glad a lot of people found value in it. Didnt think anybody would think it was one of the better ones when I posted. My FR's are nothing compared to Tofu's. What was your old account? I've been here forever, I'd probably remember you | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 10:58 PM |
| 2 | How to Get Laid on New Year's EveYeah, Brad P was one of the first guys i knew of who screened within the first few minutes before he bailed on the set, but I've honestly never paid any attention to aaron sleazy until he started posting on seddit. After a while his crusade against pickup artists lost it's merit. I mean, it's one thing to be a whistle-blower, but to do that and then make money off the same business is really shady. And his advice isn't really all that great anyway. Something about him doesn't sit right with me. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 07:47 AM |
| 17 | How to Get Laid on New Year's EveSeriously. Get to the club early, don't drink, and then force yourself on a drunk girl at midnight. Sounds like a great new years. I fucking hate aaron sleazy. I had a few words with him a while back He's bad for the community, if you ask me. Seems like his method is to just bang drunk girls. Worst PUA ever. | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 08:39 PM |
| 45 | A girl I've been hanging out with called me "boring husband material" and it shook me.No. No. No. You say you've been reading everything you can about seduction, but I don't know if that's true. If it is, you certainly aren't implementing any of it into your lifestyle. After one week of talking and hanging out I decided to tell her that I wanted get more intimate with her, I wanted to be more than friends That's exactly what you DON'T want to do. You don't "hang out for a week" and then explicitly express your feelings for her. What seduction material have you been reading? Inste… | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 11:18 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/9/2012I can definitely say that I've been there, and most people who are successful have been there too. It's especially common for guys who have been doing this for years. I've been practicing seduction since high school, and I'm in my late 20s now. I didn't actually internalize anything and get consistent success until i was 25. But that's because I constantly practiced even though i wasn't really getting anywhere, but i made small goals for myself and set out to accomplish them. it wasnt just "talk… | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 11:57 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/9/2012What exactly were/are your goals with seduction? Would you say you accomplished any? | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 04:29 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012I depends really. Here in NYC you can easily spend $100 in a night. But if you're smart, you can search the web for bars that have happy hour, drink specials, dollar drafts, food deals, etc. Once you get comfortable in a few places and befriend the bartenders you will see your spending drop dramatically. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 04:42 PM |
| 44 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012This is what I did: go out at least 3 or 4 nights a week by yourself. Weeknights are the best for big cities. Less tourists and out of towners. Visit new bars every night, a few each night if you have to. Frequent the ones you like a little more often. Small talk the bartenders, especially on slower nights where the bars not packed. They will start to recognize you, buy you drinks, and introduce you to people (and girls). Approach approach approach. Guys, girls, everybody. Don't try to become ev… | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 01:29 AM |
| 9 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012I think this is more of a newbie thing, where you are instructed to approach the hotter ones a little differently. Personally, I think now it's a little counterproductive to use this approach. You should really learn to have your own attractive persona that everybody enjoys being around, and that all girls find attractive. Even the really hot ones. I talk to fat girls the same way I talk to hot ones, and it's the same way i talk to my best friends, which is the same way i talk to complete strang… | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:57 PM |
| 6 | This just happend to me: Kiss close at my place and then she left.Bitches be crazy sometimes | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:25 PM |
| 15 | ROUTINES: I flake, and it works.This is brilliant. Probably one of the best things Ive read on this subreddit in a long time. I'm kicking myself. Can't believe I've never thought of this. Well done raystantz. I always like seeing the (rarely seen) old school sedditors posting good shit. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 08:06 PM |
| 56 | The best advice I've got for beginner's with AA...If a girl not saying hi to you ruins your day, you've got a lot more to work on then just seduction. First world problems... | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 04:55 PM |
| 15 | Books to read after The Game and How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleStop reading and start approaching. Start learning from experience rather than a book. Time to spread those wings little birdie. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 07:27 PM |
| 7 | Getting laid vs. getting a girlfriend.This is some bad advice. Pursuing a girl for the interest of a girlfriend makes it a lot easier to get laid, because the value exchange is more tilted in the guys favour. This doesn't even make sense. How is it more in the guys favor if he's the one pursuing? This goes against pretty much everything this community has been teaching for years (increasing your value, showing disinterest, willingness to walk away, outcome independence, etc). If you're in the mindset of "I'm looking for a girlfriend… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 06:27 PM |
| 1 | New to pinning plates: dealing with visible evidence of others. Do you clean it up or leave it around intentionally?Serious question... Pads?? As in, for periods? | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 06:16 PM |
| 3 | New to pinning plates: dealing with visible evidence of others. Do you clean it up or leave it around intentionally?Eh, I would try to keep my room clean. There's the usual things that get left behind (hair ties, hair clips, hair, etc) that you may forget to clean, but purposefully leaving stuff for another girl to find is just kind of rude, IMO (stuff like clothes, notes, condoms/wrappers visible in trash) and makes you look sleezy. That's your personal life, and nobody else's business. However, lying about it is just as rude. So keep your room clean as much as you can, and it should be clean anyway, but don… | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Just diagnosed with herpes of the mouth. Seddit I'm dying inside, I've made so much progress trying to be a man and improving myself and now I feel alone and helpless. Anyone have any experience with this?Yeah i remember reading 80% somewhere once. Google 1st hit said 57.7% with a wiki link. Either way, it's safe to say the infected outnumber the non-infected | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Some blonde chick on day game: What do you guys think?I think she's reading a script some guy selling PUA shit wrote up for her. | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 11:45 PM |
| 43 | Just diagnosed with herpes of the mouth. Seddit I'm dying inside, I've made so much progress trying to be a man and improving myself and now I feel alone and helpless. Anyone have any experience with this?Yeah, you and 80% 57.7% of the rest of the country. A lot of people get it and never even show signs. Hell, i could have it and I've never had a cold sore in my life. Don't sweat it. Edit: fact checked Also, avoid oral sex when you show signs of a breakout. It's rare, but you can pass hsv-1 from mouth to genitals | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Alright Seddit, not sure if there is any interest in this... But I'm a 24 year old natural with 2 hours to kill. AMAI've been around a while and have seen these "natural" AMAs before. They never really get anywhere, since most naturals don't really "get it" the same way us non-naturals try to understand it. You've always been successful with women, so it just comes naturally to you. There isn't much to really learn from naturals, unless you're out with one and watching what he's doing. These usually don't end well, usually a circle jerk over you being good looking and that's why you get laid, then other mini-… | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 09:22 PM |
| 2 | just so damn beta...I wish I could just hug her... wut? Check the sidebar ------------------------------> | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 05:27 AM |
| 19 | Step by Step ApproachIf she responds with something negative or insulting, say "Well you were cute until you opened your mouth. Have a good day!" This kind of butthurt reaction is exactly what we want to avoid while learning seduction. One of the cardinal rules of seduction is to remain nonreactive. So if a girl ever gives you a bad attitude for approaching, the key is to plow through like she never even said anything. Don't acknowledge it at all, just continue on with your charming banter. If she still gives you a … | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 05:25 AM |
| 30 | How do I re-seduce my own girlfriend of 3 years?Be careful with this one. Showing your gf that you still have the goods is important, and can get her to focus a lot of her attention on you. But taking it too far can have shitty results. Going out of your way to do so is a big mistake and will cause bitter jealousy, or worse, she'll start doing the same and maybe even start cheating under false pretenses ("well he's probably out doing the same thing") | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 07:46 PM |
| 52 | How do I re-seduce my own girlfriend of 3 years?just to add to this. Doing something immature together, or risky, or even something that can get you into a little trouble is fun and can re-spark the flame that might be getting a bit weak. Just recently i fucked my girlfriend in the hallway of her well-lit apartment building. For the next 2 weeks or so it was like when we first met, we couldnt keep our hands off each other. Doing dumb shit once in a while like a bunch of teenagers is great for a relationship. It's a reminder that you're not st… | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Looking for some uplifting advice from one of my favorite communities/r/circlejerk | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Give me the best pep talk you canHa, we've all taken a break at one or more points, I think. I've been in a relationship for a while, but I've been more active here recently because I hate seeing so many misguided sedditors giving "advice" to other misguided sedditors. It's the blind leading the blind. I pointed out your post because there is still good advice around here, just rarely seen and upvoted. Stick around a bit. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Give me the best pep talk you canI've missed you. No homo. This is the best post I've read here in a while. It's too bad not many people will get to see it, being buried in a day old thread and all. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 04:34 AM |
| 29 | Got AMOG'ed, last night. Looking for a good retort.He only "won" because you're all butthurt about it now. Don't let it get to you, man. Even the best lose. You did all the right things, as far as introducing yourself and trying to befriend him. That's great. However, ancient PUA scriptures tell us to approach the guys first when entering a mixed set, that way it doesn't seem like you're trying to pick up their women. Jealous butthurt dudes HATE that. He got you good, I have to admit. Other guys here are saying to ignore him and talk to the girl… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 02:39 AM |
| 9 | Is this some sort of shit test?! How do I respond when a girl does this? [23M]no. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 06:50 PM |
| 17 | Is this some sort of shit test?! How do I respond when a girl does this? [23M]Maybe because you treat everything as a shit test. She's just asking you your opinion on something, so give your fucking opinion with conviction. You're already on thr 2nd or 3rd date, drop the schtick already and stop trying to be alpha. Be a real person for a bit. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 04:42 PM |
| 1 | [txt] Had Sex but messed up my game after! What did i do wrong?Well, somebody here clearly likes Mumford and Sons a lot... | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 03:04 PM |
| 2 | The best tip for beginners.Fuck that. The FAQs and the sidebar was made for beginners who ask the same shit over and over again. I know this because I've been here since there wasn't even a sidebar. That shit was made for the influx of newbies who don't understand exactly what this post says to do. This post was concise, informative, and to the point. Seems legit to me. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 02:19 AM |
| 1 | The best tip for beginners.I disagree. Being pushed into the lions cage is great. I was once an AFC as well and the only time I saw improvement was when i went out an pushed my comfort zone and did shit i would never do. The video he links to is spot on. Shut the fuck up and do it. Or don't. The choice is yours. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 02:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl left after watching a movieYou told her she's turning you off and you acted butthurt about it. It's no wonder she left. You should have said something like "nothing is wrong. I get really turned on by kissing you, that's all. I don't want to go any further than what your comfortable with" and carried on whatever you were doing. Don't make her feel guilty for not fucking you. If you said this instead, I wouldn't be surpised if she stayed and let you "feel her boobs" | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Turning a friend into a friend with benefitsJust poking around in the top seddit posts, located over there....-------> http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/yo0d6/sex_now_emotions_later_part_two_of_some_men_smell/ http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vc108/how_i_unfriend_zoned_myself_fr/ Also, you should know that making your intentions clear with the girl is heavily preached here in seddit. Also, r/askseddit | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Turning a friend into a friend with benefitsIf you've read around seddit and the sidebar, you'd find the answer you seek, for it's been answered for thousands of years. Also, r/askseddit | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to approach a girl when she is with a parent?Come on, guys. Everybody should know if you flatter the mom first, then she won't cockblock you. It will show the girl you have some confidence, and mom already approves. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Easy way to open: ask a question!why was this even downvoted? | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Need Advice On "The One"You must be new here. Have a downvote and read the FAQs | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 06:11 PM |
| 2 | What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community?Yeah but all that doesn't mean they are successful with women. You clearly don't spend much time with women. Holy shit, I hear girls talk about good looking dudes all the time and how they can't get sexual with them because they're dumb, or boring, or annoying, or just a huge pussy and it's a huge turnoff for them. I think it's delusional and unhealthy to think that good looking dudes are getting more girls than you. One thing I've learned as i got older and better at game is that most guys don'… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 11:24 PM |
| 8 | What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community?Girls are just less obvious about it. After hanging out with my girlfriend and her friends a few times, you pick up on a few things. Like girls checking out guys, non-chalantly walking over near them, acting cute, accidentally bumping into them, twirl their hair and appologize profusely, chump guy oblivious to the signs walks away, girl returns and acts like nothing happened, and stuff like that. I've seen this more than once. This is where good game trumps good looks. Sure, she approached him b… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 11:12 PM |
| 8 | What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community?false. There's plenty of really good looking guys who are terrible with women. As long as people suck at girls, the community will be here. Also, it's pretty easy to change your looks. Buy some nice fitting clothes, a nice pair of shoes, get a nice haircut, and shave. You'd be surprised how just modifying a few of your features can change the way you look and feel, as well as change the way people view you. Give a homeless guy a haircut and a suit and you'll think he owns his own business | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 10:42 PM |
| 15 | "Sex Now. Emotions Later" : Part Two of: Some men smell like "White Picket Fences" and some men smell like "Sex and Sin"Tell that to her "best friend" who secretely wants to have sex with her. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 06:38 PM |
| 22 | Women say "I can't stay long" right before we're supposed to meet.I wouldn't say it's a test to see how you react. Granted, if you get butthurt about her saying that, you pretty much are dead in the water. OP handled it like a bitch and blew himself out. The reason for her saying "i can't stay late" is so she has an exccuse to leave at the drop of a dime when she realizes you suck. It's a false time constraint and nothing more. You don't need to escalate any faster than you normally would, but just brush it off and show her a good time. I've had plenty of date… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 06:21 PM |
| 14 | Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test.Guys may be selective as to who and how they approach a women, but that is because women make it difficult. Spoken like somebody who has no idea what they're doing. One of the first things you learn in pickup (or should learn, in your case), is that guys make it hard on themselves due to irrational fear and limiting beliefs ("she'll reject me and call me a creep" or "she's out of my league" or "why would she want me to go over there and bother her). I was saying that you will get as many if not … | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 08:46 PM |
| 11 | Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test.I agree here about more successful guys being more picky, and I'm not disputing that girls have an easier time, but it's not an open and shut case like that. Good looking guys have an upper hand over me, at first. But I'll outgame better looking guys than me 3/4 of the time. I outgame my extremely good looking friends a lot too. I just think it goes both ways, but the scale is only tipped one way or the other an insignificant amount when it comes to looks or gender. Good looks or a vagina are no… | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 08:03 PM |
| 182 | Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test.not so sure I agree here 100%. All this "it's easy for women" talk is complete horse shit and nothing but chump talk. Sure, women may have it easier when it comes to picking up, considering that they have vaginas and guys like to put their dick inside of them. But you seem to forget that your logic can be applied to guys picking up ugly/crazy/slutty women. It's shooting fish in a barrel as long as you have a microscopic piece of social intelligence inside you. But consider an average to above av… | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 07:07 PM |
| 18 | Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test.Is it wrong I like playing with these sweet guys? I feel like they left really confused. Haha ...I like this. No, it's not wrong as long as you aren't intentionally giving these guys false hope or purposefully letting them become emotionally invested in you just to cut them off when they try to escalate. Again, it comes down to your intentions, whatever they may be, and making sure these guys you pick up know the deal. Hint towards things like "I'm recently single and not really looking to get b… | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 06:50 PM |
| 176 | Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test.This is great. Your banter really is funny. You sound like a fun date. Just a quick tip for you. Guys like the cocky/funny girl attitude that you have. Don't take it too far though. At some point you need to tone it down and let the guy know your intentions (you don't have to state them directly, just give off a few hints). Same goes for guys, the cocky/funny thing is great, but at a certain point you need to let your guard down just a little and let them know the real you. Even if it's just or … | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Glancing backI fucking miss those days. Seddit was such a cool little community when there were only a couple thousand of us. I miss the old crew, like Chedderchexmix, intjpua, mouthpiece, reseddit, etc. Even TofuTofu and LesbianPUA aren't even around very much anymore. Definitely a different crowd and attitude around here nowadays. A lot of feel good hippy shit gets thrown around a lot here now. Rarely a good FR or any field tested material. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 10:26 PM |
| 3 | From friend to girlfriendhttp://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/estpo/frequently_asked_questions/ | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to approach this.http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/estpo/frequently_asked_questions/ | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 07:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-Close. Friends partydo you know how hard it is to f close, not to mention dive into the deep end when your fucking terrified of leaving your comfort zone. Yes, actually. You think you're the only one who has struggled before? But I sucked it up and got over it. And please, don't delete this post because I think it sucks. It certainly isn't the worst thing I've read on seddit. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 06:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] F-Close. Friends partyWow. This FR is a piece of shit. Not only are the details incredibly vague, but your brag report is about fucking the ugly girl at the party while everybody watches and cheers you on (read: making fun of you). Not saying I've never taken one for the team before, but I didn't make a spectacle out of it. And this "FR" is being fucking upvoted. Wow. Just wow. What happened to you, Seddit? I thought we were learning self improvement and applying it to attract women. The fuck is this shit? | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 06:20 PM |
| 4 | DAE notices that when it rains it pours, and then there are dry spells?http://www.myconfinedspace.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/This-cool-story-brought-to-you-by-BRO-INCORPORATED.jpg | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:50 PM |
| 7 | DAE notices that when it rains it pours, and then there are dry spells?It happens dude. Anecdote: About 2 years ago, I had a hot streak for a month. I was closing like crazy, swimming in phone numbers, and had a harem of fuck buddies. I even had 4 one night stands all in the same week all from cold approach. After that, i had a wicked dry spell for like 3 months straight. Shit like that would happen a lot, but that one really stuck out to me. I think we get complacent after a lot of success. We stop pushing ourselves to further our game. We think we're the mack dad… | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:26 PM |
| 17 | Getting Rid Of Scarcity Mindset When Living In Scarcity?You don't need a harem of women to have an abundance mentality. You don't need any women, in fact. It's not that literal. Abundance mentality is just knowing that there is a ton of women in this world (plenty of fish in the sea, etc.), and you can have your shot at any one of them if you just man up. You don't need to have lots of sex to know that women do in fact want to date/fuck you. That's abundance mentality. But you have to truly believe that shit. It's not as easy as fake it till you make… | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 05:48 PM |
| 7 | Street / Day Gamejunior lol you seriously need to reexamine your life lol. Thanks annonymous internet user who knows nothing about me. Dude, the term doesn't bother me. Rating girls based on looks doesn't bother me either. But when I read a post like "I look HBs in the eyes now" and "started talking to a bunch of HBs" and "I smiled at an HB walking down the street" and not even attaching a number to it, it just sounds ridiculous. It gives no context, and could easily be replaced with "girls" instead. I'm just sa… | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Street / Day GameCan we stop with the HB thing when referring to any girl ever? I'm not trying to feministic or anything, and don't have any issues with the 1-10 scale to be honest, but replacing the words "woman" or "girl" with "HB" when just referring to a member of th oppisite sex just sounds retarded and childish. I don't mean to bomb your post, I've just been seeing so much of this recently that I felt the need to vent. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 06:40 PM |
| 1 | I finally manned up...facepalm that is not "manning up." Manning up would have been to march in there and ask her on a date when she was actually working. This is just... i don't know. It's not what we practice here. Take a look at the sidebar material | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Escalation and coming off as needyI don't think anything involving escalation can come off as "needy." When I think of someody who is needy, I think of sombody who texts girls constantly, gets butthurt over girls, orbiting girls who aren't interested, etc. But certainly not escalating too much or too fast. That's the opposite of needy. | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 06:16 PM |
| -4 | I'm an adequate PUA, but I have a unique problem I need your advice on!Woah, sorry bro. I meant no disrespect to such a high class player such as yourself | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:07 AM |
| 0 | I'm an adequate PUA, but I have a unique problem I need your advice on!That's crazy. 2 or 3 drinks each and your breaking $100??? A typical date for me, or anybody I know who dates in NYC, never spends nearly that much, especially if it's just to get together with a girl and maybe hookup. And the bill gets split more often than not. It's a few drinks, maybe one or two bars, and then hopefully back to your place or hers. You're dating wrong. Dating in a more serious relationship is different. Dinner, drinks, maybe a movie or a show. That gets expensive. But you said… | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 12:52 AM |
| 1 | I'm an adequate PUA, but I have a unique problem I need your advice on!Dates can cost hundreds Wut? I'm in NYC and I never spent that kind of money on a date when I was single. Where are you taking these girls and why are you spending so much money if you're only interested in good times and sex? Go for a couple drinks with a girl and split the bill. $20 each maybe | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Request: How to host a successful party when you've never hosted one before.It really depends what state you're in. American alcohol laws are fucking stupid to begin with, and then they vary from state to state. Plus, you guys use the metric system for everything, which I'm sure everything is bigger in Australia and Europe (except dick size). You can get a 1/4 keg of american light beer for about $35 USD. That's about 90 beers (12 oz. cans). A half keg of same quality (shitty) beer is about 180 beers at $50 USD. Ready to get your mind blown? Some states (like New Jersey… | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 06:28 AM |
| 15 | Request: How to host a successful party when you've never hosted one before.Schedule: If your party is on a weekend, give people notice early on in the week so they have something to look forward to during their boring work week. People will ask "any plans for this weekend?" and they'll say "i dont know yet, but I think Magicroot75 is throwing a party" and so on and so on. Drinks: You should have a least beer available at your party for free or cheap. You can get a cheap keg for $50 bucks and ask for donations at the door. You probably won't make your money back, but pe… | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 05:45 PM |
| -5 | What should I have done?Call her a perv | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Hi, Sedditors.. how exactly does one ask for the opposite gender's 'number'?It's explained in this video You should also check the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 04:15 PM |
| 3 | You are your own HB10 - Act like it.That's amazing. I seriously think about Stuart Smalley every time I visit Seddit nowadays. "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and dog gonnit, people like me!" Then they go and get blown out of a set and get a front page post about how butthurt they are. Every time it's 50/50. Half feel-good-circle-jerk rhetoric, and half butthurt white knights. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 05:47 AM |
| 2 | I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7...lol | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 08:24 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Get Myself to Open Up to Guys and Actually Start Dating? I'm gonna be 23 this month and I *still* suffer from social anxiety. :( *UPDATE*I second this. I would think it was cute if a girl said that to me. It shows she's being genuine, and I would totally grab a drink with her if she asked. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Leading the interactionHa. She had home-field advantage over you. She's at her work where she feels completely comfortable, and you're just some guy who came in. I feel this way when I'm at my local bar. I'm there a lot, all the bouncers and barteders are friends with me now. I feel invincible when I'm there. It's good to get familiar with a few people and places where you like to hang out. It makes you feel more relaxed and more at home, so you can have the same advantage as that girl did with you. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 05:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Presenting Ultimatums to best friend, her choice is surprising, but mindfucking! Need advice?but she's not dating you really, you're just her cuddle buddy. This doesn't belong in seddit | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Presenting Ultimatums to best friend, her choice is surprising, but mindfucking! Need advice?Still, she's not giving you need and she's all on the fence about it. You shouldn't be waiting around for her. She's clearly not ready, and that's fine, but you need to sack up and move on. You can still be friends with her, and if neither of you can be adults about it then you need to drop her completely. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 07:28 PM |
| 4 | [FR] - Presenting Ultimatums to best friend, her choice is surprising, but mindfucking! Need advice?This is not an FR. Also, ultimatums and being so reactive over shit like this is bitch behavior. Cut that shit out and live your life according to you, not on some girls feelings. She's just butthurt that you're with another girl. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 07:22 PM |
| 16 | I feel as if my "Nice Guy" persona is hurting me more than helping meBeing a nice guy isn't the same as being supplicating pussy who is scared to make moves on girls. I feel like when you say "care about them too much" you really mean "scared to make a move on an attractive friend because I'm unsure of what she'll think of me" Your friend clearly doesn't care. All the girls still like him, though | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 07:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you kiss?8 years, eh? Think of all the kissing you could have done if you just sacked up and moved on already | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 04:19 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Completely unexpected...I agree. This is more of a brag report. I could have sworn there a was popular post recently about this type of thing. I can't even read field reports anymore. Every single one is like "yeah so i approached her and said some dumb shit, did some kino and push/pull and then i banged an HB9" Fucking terrible. How does this have 10up/0down votes? This place is turning into a circle jerk. Please people, make your FRs interesting to read. Put some thought into it and think about the reader. Some detai… | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 10:54 PM |
| 7 | Destroyed AA but now I'm having Date Anxiety.Go on more dates | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 07:46 PM |
| 9 | Golden Suggestions to those who wants to try and meet women and tired of being socially inept?Haven't seen you around here in a while. This is a really great post. Thanks for contributing again. Edit: For a true relationship I found this rule of thumb to be true. "The girls has to be a little bit more into you, than you are into her". I somehow found that the relationships I had that last, this was true. It's almost awful to say something like this, if it weren't so damn true. I remember reading something that said the person with the least amount of investment in the relationship is the… | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Initial Kino, how aggressive are you touching in a bar/club with touching as you open?If I was out for a one night stand, every approach I did involved some kino right off the bat. Whether it be a high five or a hug or whatever, it's a good way to guage how open she is to futher phsyical contact. If I walked up to a girl and gave her a hug and pretended she was old friend and she played along, I know I'm headed down the right path. If I touch her shoulder while talking to her and she seems timid, I would politely excuse myself and move on to the next one and repeat the process un… | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 11:22 PM |
| -2 | Do women find intelligence attractive?Sorry, if you don't know who Snooky is you're not an idiot, you're a dinosaur who has been buried under dirt for millions of years. | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 05:27 AM |
| 5 | Do women find intelligence attractive?Just highjacking your comment to say that I complelely agree, yet I don't see anybody here saying that fluff conversation is just as important as intelligent conversation. Being able to keep up with celeberities, current music, and other pop culture is important too. Being diverse in your intelligence is attractive, on either side of the spectrum. | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 01:36 AM |
| 7 | Well-written wall of text analyzing Neil Strauss, Mystery, and the PUA movementtl;dr? | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 09:45 PM |
| 7 | In-field video of a PUA's FULL interaction from open to close. Very smooth and helpful for AFC'sThis video is old as fuck, and I'm pretty sure it was determined fake. Apparenly he knows the girl and it was staged. | /r/seduction | 05/05/12 11:38 PM |
| 17 | I mentioned the word "future relationship" and she won't initiate text with me anymore.When somebody shows you their cards while playing poker, the game isn't fun anymore. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How to Pull a Starcraft Chick (In Field Audio + Later Footage in Comments Section)Don't know why you're being downvoted. I only listened to the first few minutes, but I like his game a lot. Notice his tone of voice never changes, no matter what. He remains calm, cool, and confident. 5/5. Other notables: When they asked if he was gay, he never tried to convince them that he's not. He just played along and ignored the girl who kept asking. I also like: Girl: "She has a boyfriend" PUA: "I don't care" | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 06:50 PM |
| 21 | From beta to PUA, couple of pieces of advice seddit doesn't want to hear.When you're learning anything new it's important to treat the "rules" as if they are fact and unbreakable. As you get better, you realize the rules are just training wheels. You will be better at knowing when to bend the rules and set your own standards. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 10:43 PM |
| 23 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.Don't talk about drugs to people who don't do drugs. It's like talking baseball to somebody who doesn't watch sports. It's a conversation they can't wait to escape and they feel awkward being involved in it. On that note, what you do on your own time is nobody else's business. I tend to not talk about it because it's my personal choice and nobody needs to know what I do on my time off, but I'll never lie about my past drug use/abuse. I don't brag about anything, but I won't act like it never hap… | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Whats a good reply for "Do you have a gf?I'm not big on routines, but Brad P has a great routine called the 8 Girlfriends routine (or something like that). Basically just saying that he has 8 girlfriends who all know about each other, and then asking if she wants to be #9. Then he says he can try to pull some strings and make her #8 instead, an so on. Just google it and it should pop up. It's actually pretty funny. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Day 2 Sticking Point: An Issue Important to AllThis isn't really a sticking point, your views about the day 2's are just all fucked up. Who says you need to introduce her to your friends? Think about who these girls are and what they mean to you. Are you comfortable with introducing them to your friends? I mean, if it's a day 2 I can only assume you hardly know these girls. One of my best friends is a natural with the ladies, and I've only personally met a handful of the girls he's dating or has dated. Same goes for him with the girls I've d… | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 08:42 PM |
| 46 | My girlfriend wants me to teach her to pick up girls.My only advice is don't get selfish. Make this a treat for your girlfriend, not you. Open a few sets, flirt a bit, and let the girls take care of attracting each other. You're job is to figure out logistcs. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 11:07 PM |
| 7 | I do exceedingly well at social circle game but badly in clubsThat's because club game is a different beast. Girls tend to have their guard up more in clubs because it's a more sexual environment. They're dressed up real nice and look hot, so many guys (and chumps) will hit on them and their friends all night. Can't really say I blame them... Club game is much more physical and body language oriented. Most chumps get right in a girls face and scream questions like "WHAT'S YOUR NAME?" and "WHERE ARE YOU FROM?" and try to talk over the music. Instead, you ne… | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 03:59 PM |
| 6 | What to say when your soloing and a girl ask where you friends areI just say "at home" and proceed as usual. | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Is it better to be sexually direct?Wow. The concept of being direct is completely over your head right now. The idea is to have the girl see you as a potential mate, and not just a friend. You can accomplish this by being flirty, making your intentions clear early on, and physical escalation. Not by telling her you "have some balls." That's just idiotic. Sounds like you could use some sidebar material -------> | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Need your help here seddit...the other guy and the girl are chatting on fb, I can't as I have work so gotta go sleep. So go to sleep. Stop worrying about what that guy is doing. I'll put money on it that he's killing his chances by being too available and seeming needy. | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 07:05 AM |
| 22 | Don't #-Close, D-Close and Stop Flakes ColdGood post. People are less likey to flake if they have already agreed to something. Girls still will flake from time to time for whatever reason, but you'll probably get less flakes overall. The iron wiill never be hotter Hard mode: while the iron is hot, go for the bounce or mini-date right then and there. Go get food, drinks, coffee, or go for a walk. Use the number close and day 2 as your contingency plan. Always escalate if you can. | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Step by Step Guide to Kiss CloseIve kissed girls within minutes of meeting them. If the attraction is there, strike while the iron is hot. I know it's hard to believe, but girls like guys who know what they want and go after it. The key is knowing how to tell if her buying temperature is high. Only field experience will help you figure this one out though. | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 09:30 PM |
| 11 | Step by Step Guide to Kiss CloseAll this work for just a kiss? I like my way better: Step 1: stop being a pussy and just kiss her. Be a man of action. | /r/seduction | 07/04/12 07:33 PM |
| 43 | As a female bartender, what can I do to help male customers with the women they're attempting to flirt with? In return I'll answer any questions you have about picking up cute barmaids!I've never had this not get at least an introduction, but it catches girls off-guard so your game needs to be pretty tight to keep it alive. It's different than a cold approach and kind of a role reversal because you're pretty much putting the girl on the spot, instead of you. My advice, do it for trolling your friends. Not picking up women | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 09:34 PM |
| 12 | Opening seddit up more for the ladies.http://fabianmastrorillo.com/tumbleweed.gif | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Will sudden change be weird?People are going to notice the change, especially those close to you. The real question is: Do you really give a shit? You aren't hurting your friends by changing your attitude towards life (for better). If they can't accept it you for it, then they aren't really your friends. Maybe you'll end up being the example they follow. And if somebody comments on it, just be honest. "Yeah, I'm making an effort to be more social and meet people. You only live once" | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Alright folks, first post, lend me a hand hereHoly shit... http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/rpb1u/its_getting_hard_to_sort_the_good_content_frs_pua/ | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 03:56 AM |
| 1 | So... There's this girl at the gym.Dude, this is on the front page, #3 right now. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/rpb1u/its_getting_hard_to_sort_the_good_content_frs_pua/ Repost to /r/askseddit | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 02:39 AM |
| 14 | Utterly fucking confused, I think pickup materials destroyed my brain. Need expert advice, very tl;dr.There's nothing wrong with your mindset, as far as confidence goes. But when you say you're confident, and then you get scared to flirt with a girl, you're really just being a huge fake pussy. Not trying to be mean here, it's just something i think you need to hear. You know exactly what your problem is, you're being a pussy and your too dependent on the outcome of EVERY girl you talk to. Cut that shit out, let go, and have a good time. And I think most guys deep down inside want a girl they can… | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 06:02 PM |
| 24 | Utterly fucking confused, I think pickup materials destroyed my brain. Need expert advice, very tl;dr.What I want: I want to fuck at least 10 different chicks in this year, I want to be able to approach a beautiful female ANYWHERE, talk to her and get to know her. I want to be able to get gorgeous girlfriends and fuckbuddies any time I want like the good-looking and smart males who have normally functioning brains. You have goals, which is good, but you're aiming pretty high right now. You want to play in the World Series, but you haven't even played your first Minor League game yet. You seem li… | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 03:17 PM |
| 1 | It's getting hard to sort the good content (FRs, PUA material) from the shit (very specific questions, people asking opinions). If you have a question, go to r/askseddit.This wouldn't solve the problem. The front page would just be filled with "[Q] Girl in my class??" Askseddit may be a wasteland of newb questions, but at least it's not clogging up the front page here. Take a look at askseddit, the same questions are answered everyday. It clears up seddit so good posts can be seen, and newbs get their questions answered. It's a win-win | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 02:17 PM |
| 9 | The Dirty Secret Behind Boot Camp “Number Close” DemonstrationsSo, you now quote random stuff off the Internet. Not random. You brought up PUA hate as a valid source, now you're taking it back? you are attempting some kind of smear campaign instead of conducting a proper argument. Haha did you really just say that? Go back and read your blog post and think about who is doing the smearing. Do you happen to be an intern at RSD or Lovesystems? Haha no, I'm a 27 year old with a girlfriend and a full time job. But now you finally "spilled the beans" on who you h… | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 10:48 PM |
| 7 | The Dirty Secret Behind Boot Camp “Number Close” DemonstrationsI hope someone pays you for your defending this industry. Haha, good marketing mindset you have there. Any way I can make a quick buck, right? It's funny you mention PUA Hate. Here's a good PUA Hate link on you that I just googled. Turns out you were a moderator there and deleted threads of people criticizing you. I don't know for sure, I was never involved with PUA Hate, but you mentioned them, not me. Other notable quotes from PUA Hate members: Sleazy's part of the newest breed of internet mar… | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 10:31 PM |
| 9 | The Dirty Secret Behind Boot Camp “Number Close” DemonstrationsNeither do I use "PUA fear mongering" ORLY? Taken directly from your link: The Dirty Secret Behind Boot Camp “Number Close” Demonstrations Sounds juicy. I'm listening... I did play with the idea of adding some material to Debunking the Seduction Community but not only have I for the most part moved on from bashing this industry. So this was an ongoing flame war against the community? This must really be bad. Oh cool, a book about game is linked, authored by you [EDIT: The original link from this… | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 09:48 PM |
| 6 | The Dirty Secret Behind Boot Camp “Number Close” DemonstrationsI have no problem with your free e-book. I don't even have a problem with you posting a link to it on Seddit. My only gripe is with your use of PUA fear mongering to promote your own book, which at it's core is the same shit everybody else peddles. | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 09:21 PM |
| 9 | The Dirty Secret Behind Boot Camp “Number Close” DemonstrationsMy favorite part is when you link "Debunking The Seduction Community" to your own book about pickup. | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 08:39 PM |
| 1 | SimplePickup Barney Stinson Openers. Legen...wait for it...Tofu did it better | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Had a shot with someone last night, missed the chance. I'm gonna have a shot with someone else tonight, what can i do to not fuck it up?kino Touching | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Had a shot with someone last night, missed the chance. I'm gonna have a shot with someone else tonight, what can i do to not fuck it up?This should have been posted in askseddit. Free advice: You're digging your own grave right off the bat by thinking "This girl is different. I can't fuck this up. What should I do?" instead of thinking "this girl is pretty cool. We're going to have a lot of fun tonight and its going to be awesome." Don't psyche yourself out. Make sure you're having a good time first, then make sure to include her in you bubble of awesomeness. She's not your girlfriend yet and you guys have no obligations with ea… | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 11:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Failed first date, so many mixed signals I'm baffledIt sucks at first, but after a few blowouts it doesn't bother you anymore. You soon realize it's just not a big deal at all, and incredibly insignificant. Just learn from your mistakes, and stop doing what is NOT working. Don't be afraid to try something that seems counter-intuitive. That's usually the stuff that works the best. I hear you on the question though. It can be misinterpreted, and I was really hoping it wasn't as bad as I thought it was. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 01:16 AM |
| 8 | [FR] Failed first date, so many mixed signals I'm baffledThat's cool man, I love a good discussion. Seddit lacks this at times. I can see how "why did you say yes" can be misinterpreted. As OP commented below, it probably wasn't all that needy after all. Only OP and his date can know for sure. But for everything else, the visual picture I get from reading his FR is OP on his date that isn't going so well (I think we can all agree on that to some extent). He's trying to talk over the music, trying to force conversation ("do you remember kissing me?") a… | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 01:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Successfully used the "He's Not Coming" opener from Barney Stinson's Playbook, got called out on being a PUA, and still got the girl :)Yeah those were some good times for me man. Lots of fun. I did hit a rough patch last spring. I was getting jaded of the whole pickup scene and after a few years of doing this it becomes a chore. Since then, I've stopped following pickup and met a great girl who is now my girlfriend of 8 months. I still drop by seddit every now and then and leave tips if I can. I still go out with my friends and approach women, and I'm an awesome wingman, if i may say so myself. My girl is cool with this and lik… | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 11:41 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Failed first date, so many mixed signals I'm baffledShe already knows they're just friends, because she is clearly not attracted to him anymore, and I'm sure she's glad that they're just friends as well. This works better for girls you just met, and you are falsely disqualifying yourself. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 11:18 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Failed first date, so many mixed signals I'm baffledI'm sensing a lot of neediness, desperation, and approval seeking. I'm sure she was getting the same vibes. Girls are experts in sniffing these out. Of course she remembers you two hooking up. That's why she agreed to the date in the first place. She was willing to give you a shot, but you went in with the wrong frame from the get-go (remember: neediness, desperation, and approval seeking). She sniffed you out right away and then went into denial about the whole drunken make-out. Basically her w… | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 11:16 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Successfully used the "He's Not Coming" opener from Barney Stinson's Playbook, got called out on being a PUA, and still got the girl :)Learn to have some fun in your life. Tofu is doing what 98% of seddit is too scared to do, and the best part is that he's having fun doing it and he's enjoying his life and experiences. That's more than you can say for yourself, I'm sure. So enjoy sitting on your computer talking shit about people on the internet. You're my hero. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I found out she has a kid. Would love any kind of advice.Come on, Throwaway. Even you know this one is a bit of a stretch. I agree with your top post, but seddit is becoming littered with posts unrelated to seduction and "wat do" posts again. This one is included, IMO. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Guys, how does your perception of a girl change when you find she is a redditor?Unrelated to seddit. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 06:18 PM |
| 0 | I found out she has a kid. Would love any kind of advice.What the fuck does this have to do with seduction? | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 02:27 AM |
| 5 | Need some help with a current situation with a HB7 please!Came here to downvote your post, tell you to read the sidebar, and tell you to move the fuck on already | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 10:59 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Is there such a thing as being too outcome independent? (long)Sounds like you had a great night. Just because you didn't close doesn't mean you failed. If you had fun and met some interesting people, that's a fucking success, dude. That said, did you try closing any girls? Nothing is going to happen unless you make it happen. Go for the number, the make out, the bathroom pull, etc. Don't cockblock yourself. Just go for it. grabs my hand and puts it to her pussy and gets me to rub her shit while I'm doing my thing. I didn't know you were allowed to do this … | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 04:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Fingerblasting a girl within a minute of meeting herI'm ENFP, so I've got a lot of social energy like you. If I'm not out socializing or being productive I feel like I'm missing out on countless opportunities and epic lulz. It's almost a curse, because after a week or two I feel overworked, overstimulated, and I get sleep deprived. I usually need a day or two to decompress (read: get stoned at my apartment and play video games). A good balance is healthy for your mind. Reading your FR's make me miss the single life (okay.jpg). Keep us posted on t… | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 08:39 PM |
| 18 | [FR] Fingerblasting a girl within a minute of meeting herTake a fucking break, dude. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 10:01 PM |
| 8 | What are some things on game you've heard and then later discovered are false?True, but it certainly helps with keeping women. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 07:04 PM |
| 5 | What are some things on game you've heard and then later discovered are false?Buying drinks. I still advise against buying a drink as your opener, but I've bought drinks for girls after having a good conversation with them, and if they're fun to be with and they didn't ask for a drink (read: freeloading), then why not? It's not try-hard because they're already attracted to you, and it's being friendly and showing high value. I also still strongly recommend splitting the bill on first dates and day-2's. There's no reason for the guy to pay automatically, unless he invited … | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 04:41 PM |
| 2 | What are some things on game you've heard and then later discovered are false?Came here to say exactly this. There is no true or false, just what works for you, and what doesn't. Many new sedditors think a good line or a good neg is what they need to open or close, but the truth is you need to try everything (more than once or twice), and calibrate as needed. Calibration is key to good game. Also, negs are way misunderstood and overused in poor context. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 04:31 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I've Been Seeing A Serious Lack Of FRs Lately, So Here We GoWithout question, you should have photobombed those girls. Probably one of my favorite things to do when I see people posing for photos. I'll be damned if it didn't generate a good reaction 90% of the time. It's always funny. Another thing I like to do when I see a group of girls taking a picture of themselves, is to ask them "do you guys want a picture?" and pretend I'm being helpful. After they give me their camera, I take a picture of myself and say "there you go" and give their camera back, … | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 02:15 PM |
| 2 | The NeighborsI've just been out of dating game for so long, that I wouldn't mind a relationship. Slow down there, fella. That mindset is setting you up for failure, heartbreak, and it's like buying a one-way ticket for the express train to the friendzone. Not really want you want. The thing about your neighbors is, it's like hitting on people that you work with. Sort of a "don't shit where you eat" situation. You see them just about everyday, and say you put the moves on them and get rejected. Now everytime … | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 03:05 PM |
| 5 | My friends keep trying to hook up with the chick i bring to partiesI'm SHOCKED this hasn't been mentioned yet, so I'll say it. Besides your friends being dicks, which they are, you should really find some better quality women. I'm against slut shaming, and very non-judgemental when it comes to sexually active women, but why are you dating girls who hook up with 2 dudes at a party that you bring them to, and then go home with you? Sounds like it's happened more than once. "To each, his own" as they say, but you should be going after higher quality women who don'… | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 06:08 PM |
| 2 | What's a good answer to the FAQ: "What music are you into?"Yeah, those are horrible responses, and not funny at all. An honest answer about your musical preferences should suffice. | /r/seduction | 07/03/12 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Play fighting, how do you deal with it?I've been known to give girls noogies | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 06:12 AM |
| 1 | [LR] watching Princess Bride after a "Failed" Date ... Now it's a strategyInconceivable! | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Proclaiming your love - need perspectiveThis isn't really relevant to seddit. Try /r/relationships | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 01:05 AM |
| 21 | Getting out-DHV'd by a friend, need adviceHe's better than you because you really believe he is, and that makes it so. He sounds like a pretty decent guy by the way you talk about him. It's no wonder why he bangs chicks. | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Just got out a 6 year relationship and getting back into it. Could use some advice or helpShe's probably not interested, or she was but not anymore. And I wouldn't be surprised if she gave her frend the signal to take her away from you while you were dancing. You said you read all the FAQs and the sidebar, but I doubt it because I kind of cringed through most of your post. Putting this girl on a pedestal? Getting butthurt because she's dancing with dudes? Visiting her at work? Telling her how you feel when you barely know her on a personal level, and not at all on a sexual level? You… | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 12:08 AM |
| 60 | I just got cockblocked HARD. Any tips to deal with this?A few things I want to point out... Tonight at the bar I spent about 2 hours chatting this girl up, eventually leading her to the dancefloor where it was getting heavy to say the least. Too long. You should be getting physical within the first few minutes. Or else you'll have the 2-hour-go-nowhere set. What a fucking waste of time and energy On the stairs, some random guy who supposedly knows her (though I found out only met her at a different bar last week and thought he had hit it off with her… | /r/seduction | 01/03/12 04:16 PM |
| 3 | I am SASHA DAYGAME - and I will help you GET SOME SEXY GIRLS IN YOUR LIFE! Ask me anything! :)Sounds more like brad p. He talks extensively about "the 20 minute go nowhere set" | /r/seduction | 29/02/12 05:45 AM |
| 2 | [LR] Thanks Seddit (and the community in general). 32 year old, lost my virginity last fridayStarted going out regularly since August, nearly every day since December, read a ton of material and approached a lot of girls IMO, this is the most important part of you're FR. Just wanted to highlight how important this is for newbies | /r/seduction | 29/02/12 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Sticking Point. Anyone else have this going on?Sex isn't the end of game. You need to remain interesting, confident, fun, etc. You might be getting lazy after you sleep with a girl, and not keeping your game as tight as you think it is. Honest question, are you making the girls orgasm? Sex is very important in a relationship. Maybe pick up some sex tips at /r/sex or do a google search (not porn). | /r/seduction | 29/02/12 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Girl insistently asks "are you seeing other people?"Youd be surprised how many girls are cool with casual dating though, and are also seeing other people. Just be safe out there and there shouldn't be a problem. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 03:20 AM |
| 17 | Girl insistently asks "are you seeing other people?"I enjoy her company, she's cool, and the sex is good I just don't have any desire for a relationship and I don't have a desire to hurt her feelings either. So why don't you tell her this and get it out of the way? there's nothing wrong with telling a girl honestly "I'm dating other people and not really looking for a relationship right now" and this the first step to having a great friend with benefits situation. If she doesn't like that idea, and you don't really want a committed relationship w… | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Any interest in an AMA by a "natural"? I'm a stereotypical nice guy, socially awkward and nerdy - and I regularly get laid with ladies way out of my league, with only minimal effort.Use lots of smileys and punctuation, so when she starts using them too you get a better feel of her. Oh man I hear this all the time from naturals. You guys love smileys. I personally never use them because I cringe at the thought of it, and I think it's annoying when girls send smileys every other text as well. I've even heard girls say they hate when guys do smileys, but you naturals seem to have great success with it. I don't get it, naturals always amaze me. Blatant edit: Good luck with the … | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Any interest in an AMA by a "natural"? I'm a stereotypical nice guy, socially awkward and nerdy - and I regularly get laid with ladies way out of my league, with only minimal effort.I like hearing the perspectives of naturals, but the problem is usually they don't know what they're doing exactly that gets girls attracted to them. They're just being themselves and acting, well... naturally. I'm having trouble finding any value in this AMA. Memorizing and practicing techniques isn't something I'm interested in. For the same reason, I'm not interested in the seduction game - hours and hours spent courting a lady, and for what? Your view of the community is a little skewed, and… | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Not sure if this is the place to post, but any tips/links/etc for a girl looking to pick up guys?With all due respect to Tyler, that's dumb. It's a good start, but what really separates the high quality girls from the rest of the girls is a good personality. I talk to plenty of approachable people on any given night. Just because a girl is approachable doesn't mean I want to hook up with her or date her. There have been countless times where I was really turned off by a good looking girl's awful personality. And nothing is worse than that. She's looking for advice on how to pick up guys. I … | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 07:10 AM |
| 5 | Not sure if this is the place to post, but any tips/links/etc for a girl looking to pick up guys?I think women can benefit from most of /r/seduction just as much as men. We're a male majority, but at it's core /r/seduction is a tool for gaining social skills and improving the sex lives of anybody, male or female. You should learn to approach people, put yourself out there and be a value giver. It's ok for a girl to be confident, a little sexual, and know about kino and sexual escalation. Just apply the techniques to your own life and calibrate as needed. EDIT: and post some field reports. T… | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 03:03 AM |
| 12 | Not sure if this is the place to post, but any tips/links/etc for a girl looking to pick up guys?this is terrible advice. This is like telling some forever alone basement dweller to "just be confident bro. Chicks love confidence." For some people it's easier said than done. That said, everything in /r/seduction can be used by anybody to improve their social and sex lives. It's about gaining self worth, learning how to approach and meet interesting people, and going out of your comfort zone. It doesn't matter if you're male or female. Everybody loves a confident value giver. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 02:48 AM |
| 9 | [FR] For the first time experienced awkward, embarrassing rejection, and I dont give a fuck about it.You have a long way to go young man. First, you shouldn't be pursuing "this one girl" for weeks. You should be pursuing many girls, and new ones all the time. This is perhaps your biggest sticking point right now. To be honest, your field report made me cringe. But that's ok, that's why you're here. You should stick around here a while, read some top rated reports to get a feel for how things should be done. Hopefully this rejection will give you some closure on this girl and allow you to move o… | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 10:17 PM |
| 0 | i need help seducing my boyfriendLIK DIS IF U CRY EVERTIM | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Retro seddit - the most influential links from 2010I've seen a few of the old seddit crowd post recently. Dudes like philosoraptor (sp?), intjpua, and maybe a few others who were great contributors seem to still lurk these parts. Some great field reports too. I miss those days. | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 03:54 AM |
| 1 | I Feel Like I'm Regressing!Winter in NYC is weird. Everybody is miserable, school is back in session, and most girls stay indoors where it's warm, cuddled up with their winter boyfriends to keep warm and get steady dick during their hibernation. I had a similar episode last year around the same time. Don't sweat it. Spring is coming soon enough. The girls will be back out and horny again when they can wear their sexy dresses and show some skin. Trust me. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 08:37 PM |
| 68 | I have a 'condition' that sometimes makes me walk with a limp. How to overcome?Get a pimp cane. Seriously though, don't let that shit bother you. A limp is the least of your worries. Flip the script and have fun with it. Make up a funny story about how you went skydiving and your parachute failed and you walked it off. My point is, it could be worse and a limp is really nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed of. Learn to accept your flaws | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 03:52 PM |
| 13 | Why does rejection hurt so bad? How can you get over it?Rejection only hurts because you let it hurt you. You have too much invested in your interactions with people. This is why we preach a lot about outcome independence. You can't take every interaction too seriously. It seems like you try too hard to impress this person or get that person to like you. Fuck that shit. Love yourself and if people reject you, that's there loss, because I'm sure you're an awesome dude. And you talk about vengence on those that hurt you. Let it go man, that's jot healt… | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 05:14 AM |
| 4 | To formerly social awkward people - how did you change?Right. I should have been clearer. If you approach a girl, it's your job to make/keep her interested. Day 2's, feel free to bask in silence. You need to pull your own weight, but not both of yours. Thanks for clearing that up | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 06:13 AM |
| 12 | To formerly social awkward people - how did you change?I actually like to sit there and bask in the silence. I'll sit back, smile, and wait for her to say something. It's not my job to keep the conversation flowing. It's a two-way street. If the girl has nothing to say, she's boring. What's the point? Move on. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 06:10 AM |
| 3 | To formerly social awkward people - how did you change?I wrote an AMA a while back about my transformation from a drug using depressed AFC to a "PUA" (for lack of a better term. I hate that acronym). here's a link PUAcurveball wrote a really good one too here Hope that helps a bit | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 05:59 AM |
| 6 | Describe your smoothest pick-ups (example video)http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ilnp1/i_am_delightful_white_ask_me_anything/c24ryq1 | /r/seduction | 21/12/11 02:20 AM |
| 12 | Dress to impress. Dressing for different girls?Exactly this. Nothing is worse then a poseur. | /r/seduction | 19/12/11 06:01 PM |
| 12 | [FR] (NYC) Santacon = 3 F-closes in one day (w/ pics)Are you a wizard? Curious about the karaoke room lay. How did just you two end up in the room? Aren't those rooms expensive? Edit: you must walk around with a shit load of condoms on you at all times | /r/seduction | 11/12/11 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How not to get a second date.Painful to read. Reminds me of this guy | /r/seduction | 07/12/11 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Been lurking here for 2 weeks or so. Tried it, amazing!True, tonality is important, but hot girls hear the whole gorgeous, cute, hot, etc line all the time from chumps (not saying you or OP is a chump). I think talking to them like every other person you meet works just as well without coming off try-hard | /r/seduction | 06/12/11 07:01 PM |
| 6 | You have 5 minute walk from a building to a parking deck to create attraction, make some plans, get a number and seal the deal. Whats your game plan?not gonna lie. I'm digging this novelty account | /r/seduction | 06/12/11 04:18 AM |
| 6 | You have 5 minute walk from a building to a parking deck to create attraction, make some plans, get a number and seal the deal. Whats your game plan?Detailed plan: I'd run to my car, start it, put my foot on the brake and put the car into drive. I'd head home as fast as I could, while still going the speed limit as to not injure myself or anybody else. I'd then log on to /r/seduction and then I'd READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR. I'm mostly busting your balls, but seriously, read it. Maybe post this to /r/askseddit? | /r/seduction | 06/12/11 02:45 AM |
| 30 | Been lurking here for 2 weeks or so. Tried it, amazing!Haha I'm so using that line. Although I'd exclude the whole "gorgeous" line. Seems a bit try hard. Next time try the same thing but just say "I'm kidding. My name is Derp" and build some rapport first, then go for the number. Great first run. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 06/12/11 01:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Past Months Have been a RollercoasterNot much to say about this FR except you can tell, just by your writing, how much more confident, charismatic, and sexual you were with the less attractive girl at the en of the night. Try being more confident and sexual with hotter girls, like the first group you were talking to. Good things will happen, I promise | /r/seduction | 29/11/11 06:59 PM |
| 22 | Trouble getting things started in a dance club scene, any advice?You'll rarely see a girl dancing alone. You're looking at this the wrong way. If you see a group of girls dancing, just jump in the middle of their dance circle and have a good time. Only two outcomes are possible: they tell you to go away (who cares?), or they start grinding with you an join in on your fun. It's all about your frame. Just jump in with the frame of having a good time. Not to mention, the odds are in your favor. More girls = more chances to land one. And if they tell you to go aw… | /r/seduction | 28/11/11 07:17 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Don't confuse a date with a pickup (AKA after doing so many things right, how I fucked up with one wrong decision)I did downvote it. I figured I'd at least give an explanation. I'm not trying to be a dick. Honestly. I don't necessarily think it's bad advice. I think it's just generic pickup advice that isn't relevant to this particular thread. I've been seeing a lot of generic and even bad advice get too much upvotes recently. just figured I'd point it out here. | /r/seduction | 04/11/11 08:47 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Don't confuse a date with a pickup (AKA after doing so many things right, how I fucked up with one wrong decision)no. That's the right mindset to have but that has nothing to do with this. please don't come in here and blurt out stuff about abundance mentality. we don't need more replies like "just be confident bro" that gets upvoted to the heavens. | /r/seduction | 04/11/11 06:29 PM |
| 37 | [FR] Don't confuse a date with a pickup (AKA after doing so many things right, how I fucked up with one wrong decision)No. You did nothing wrong by inviting her in. She clearly wanted to come in. she may have not been expecting your roommates and felt self conscious about what was about to go down. She probably didn't want to look like a slut. We call that ASD. I think it was more about your (self-described) chodey behavior and she probably felt weird/shy in front of your roommates. that's what I can gather from your FR. DON'T AUTOMATICALLY THINK THAT IT WAS BECAUSE YOU INVITED HER IN FOR SEX. THAT'S A BAD MINDS… | /r/seduction | 04/11/11 06:20 PM |
| 2 | The secret of good text gameExactly. What I'm saying here is that if a girl says she doesn't like talking on the phone, I'll bet there's at least one guy she's WISHING would call her. So if this girl that you speak of had a crush on some other guy who she really liked but he never gave her the time of day, do you think she'd ignore his phone call if he called her late one night while she was home alone? I highly doubt it. I hate talking on the phone too. But if some girl I was chasing for a while called me randomly one nig… | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 06:51 PM |
| 1 | The secret of good text gameIf she really likes you she'll be more than happy to pick up the phone to hear your voice. | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 06:22 PM |
| 7 | The secret of good text gameOr just man up and make a phone call. | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 05:04 AM |
| 8 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?They are a clever bunch... curious how you handled it? | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 08:45 PM |
| 11 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?I would have probably walked over and tried catching them in my mouth and getting others, including NotLurking, to join me. If he knows you're not bothered by him, he'll eventually stop and go away. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 08:24 PM |
| 5 | I just dumped an HB10 because...She's probably not even a 10. I'd say 9.6 maybe 9.7 but not a 10 | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 06:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Beauty contest party - #-close and k-close + second date. Threesome offer but a moral dilemma for me.I've slept with 2 married women in my life. I didn't lose any sleep over it, as I wasn't the one who was cheating. In my defense though (for any white knights and haters), I didn't know they were married until after we had sex. | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 03:37 PM |
| 15 | Do women still notice chivalry?being chivalrous is fine, as long as you aren't doing it to get her to notice you, like you, or expect anything in return other than "thank you". But like anything in life, you can overdo it and come off try hard. Use it in moderation, as it will come off more sincere. then again, I'll close a door on a girl I'm with on purpose just to be a dick. They usually think it's pretty funny, as long as they know I'm just doing it to get a rise out of them. Try it once, it's pretty funny. No trolling. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Chodes Night Out 2: Lessons from the worst "game" imaginableInteresting stuff here, actually. Here's what I liked the best: THE 4-TIMES RULE: When trying to persuade someone to change their mind its reasonable to persist, or attempt to persuade up to about 4 times. This rule is a testament to the malleability of peoples’ attitudes and frames, meaning that, if you apply just the smallest amount of persistence (or frame retention) then others’ could change their attitude toward you very quickly. In application to pick up guys let themselves get pushed out … | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 12:19 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 2 - Tuesday - Uni night success - 50+ openers, 10ish numbers, few Kcloses & FClosed a hot soon to be doctor on beach/park bench - Best night yet :)this is one of the better field reports I've read in some time. Nearly perfect example of outcome independence, cofidence, keeping a strong sexual frame while still out making sure that having fun is your #1 priority. I've had a similar experience with getting everybody to the dancefloor and starting your own party that everybody wants to be part of. Check it out here if you're interested http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eva42/fr_lord_of_the_dance_fclose_and_other_interesting/ well don… | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Did the regulars/mods stop posting?there is one. Reddit.com/r/sedditelite. It used to be invite only. I had no idea it existed until one of the mods invited me. I never posted in there anyway, and it doesn't look like it gets much action. Edit: Holy shit I've been gone a while. When did ThrowawayPUA get the boot and Frogma become a mod? | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 12:18 AM |
| 3 | (FR) What went wrong HB9not an FR. bitch sounds crazy | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Best way to leave when you've been shot down by a girl, or group of?why not? It beats trying to think of a new opener and psyching yourself out, which can easily happen depending on how much of a bitch the first girl was to you. Whether or not your opener is canned, situational, or direct, it doesn't matter. Just immediately open a new set with the same opener if you can't instantly come up with a new one. ex: Me: approach girl #1 "hi I'm delightful_white" Girl: "I don't care. Leave me alone." Me: turn my back to her and approach girl #2 in a nearby set "Hi I'm … | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 04:16 PM |
| 45 | Best way to leave when you've been shot down by a girl, or group of?Don't say anything. No "it was nice meeting you" or anything, because it really wasn't. Don't run away and hide, just turn around and run the same opener on the closest set near you. Do it IMMEDIATELY. The longer you wait around to open a new set, the more awkward and unconfident you'll feel. Don't wait around, just do it. Don't even let the idea of being embarrassed or awkward slip into your head. It's a negative spiral that will take you deeper and deeper into your own head. You'll often find … | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 05:58 PM |
| 7 | Devil's Threesome situational adviceYou're kind of a dick for having a deceiving title. But I'll bite, seeing that you do really need a little bit of help with this... Here's the splash of cold water in your face that you need Mr. Moneybags owns a high rise condo, has more experience than me w/ the game, and has a lot more free time than me (student vs. 40 hr work week). Dude, first of all, you're just player hating now. Cut that shit out. Being a player hater is just pitiful. Just because he has shit that you don't have? That's l… | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 12:40 AM |
| 19 | #closed a HB8, can't remember her name...any advice what to text?try SlyDial. You can call and have it go straight to voicemail without showing up as a missed call on her phone. I find most girls have a personal greeting on their voicemail, usually with their name ("Hi, you've reached Derpina. Leave a message!"). slydial has saved me a bunch of times. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 05:15 PM |
| 7 | thoughts on female wingmen (with a male PUA)A good wingwoman should help open the set, DHV your wingman once or twice, and then get the fuck out or isolate/distract any obstacles or man-targets (if she has one). She shoulld also help with inviting the target(s) to another location/home. A lot of female wingwomen I've been out with have a habit of sticking around to long and kind of blowing the set or DHVing their wingman too much. Don't do that. Just hang around for a while and then let the guy do his thing. If you see him floundering dur… | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 09:46 PM |
| 16 | Seddit, what are some quick tips someone can do to improve their game? I'll start.Good post, but you forgot Protip #1: Get off of reddit and go meet girls | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 04:28 PM |
| 2 | I'm just going to say it... stop hitting on other guys gfsThis post should say "Girlfriends: Stop Cheating on Your Boyfriends" Don't blame us, bro. We're not wizards, we do not cast spells on girls and trick them into sleeping with us. my current gf left her old bf for me. Not a single fuck was given. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 01:08 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Hanging on South Beach F-closed SNL HB 7.5 in town for the weekend using cold reads and PUA Judo.I call guys like that "impromtu wingmen". Not all AMOGs/other guys should be seen as enemies. good game. | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 06:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] OK Cupid SNL #3 - Pro-tip: ALWAYS BE CLOSINGHaha I'm going to assume you aren't trolling and asking a serious question. To be honest, most times I didn't even need to use the bathroom. It's just an excuse to get inside her place. Safely assuming that I've been escalating properly all night and if I can tell there is mutual attraction, I'll pretty much escalate farther and faster as soon as I get in the apartment. Another good line (when you're inside) is "Are you going to give me the Grand Tour?" If she's game, she'll show you around her … | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 01:50 AM |
| 15 | FR: F-Closed Married Chick in 4 hrs (maybe less?) North of The Border by just being Alpha and Cocky Funny, w/ Picsif you listen closely, you can hear the White Knights on their horses galloping closer and closer. They're headed this way!! Prepare yourself for an onslaught of butthurt! | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Text game: i miss you?I've missed you. Where have you been? | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 09:20 PM |
| 7 | [FR] OK Cupid SNL #3 - Pro-tip: ALWAYS BE CLOSINGGet creative, make excuses. Say you need to use the bathroom. Seriously, one of my favorite lines when walking a girl home is "can I use your bathroom?" I've used this numerous times. Only once or twice did it not work, that I can recall. The other 4 or 5 times ended in lays or at least making out. Props on batting a thousand on OKC | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 06:57 PM |
| 14 | What's your favorite and funniest toast to say when buying shots?"to respecting women!" | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 08:35 PM |
| 4 | So last night I got a booty call… from an ex with a boyfriend.Oh, the downvotes!!! How could you, bro? How do you sleep at night knowing that you satisfied the sexual needs of a girl who isn't getting what she wants needs from her significant other? She's not the one to blame for this dastardly deed, and neither is her nice-guy boyfriend, or their shitty relationship! You are, sir! You're to blame, with your deceit and internet pickup trickery!! /butthurtwhiteknight | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 02:37 AM |
| 5 | AMA With Neil StraussSend him a smiley face. Neil Strauss loves smiley faces. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 08:06 AM |
| 25 | AMA With Neil StraussHe flaked. Didn't build up enough attraction on the first meet, and not enough comfort. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How to phrase shitit has nothing to do with what you enjoy doing. It's all about the passion you have about doing it. Which is better?: "I like camping" or... "I love the outdoors more than anything. It gives me such an amazing feeling that can't be matched. This one time while I was camping with my friends we had this incredible adventure where [blah blah blah DHV story]." You get the idea? | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 05:15 AM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]My girlfriend is very aware that I hang out with my single friends and flirt with girls. I don't cheat on her, but I keep my social skills intact. She does the same. Neither of us get jelly, and we are open about our flirtatious ways. She knows that I'm just a wingman now and has even told me "you have good game". She couldn't care less about me flirting, and I couldn't care less about her flirting either. She even gets hit on right in front of me when we're out together and I just laugh. We bot… | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Off like a light switchyou're doing it right | /r/seduction | 19/07/11 04:42 PM |
| 1 | SO confused. Does this guy like me or not?! I need your help guys of seddit!can we please not turn seddit into r/DoesThisGuyLikeMe? I've been seeing more and more of these lately. I will tell you what I'd tell anybody else who asks this question: Please read the sidebar ---------> | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 01:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First try with a *real* pickup line. No close, but otherwise a success!I like where your head is at as far as your motivation and drive to succeed. I can feel how enthusiastic you are about this whole process just by reading a few paragraphs. I see good things in your future. Keep up the great work and good luck. | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.Do it. | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 05:25 PM |
| 2 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I don't feel like I'm qualified to answer a question if you are clinically depressed. If you feel you are suffering from depression, you should absolutely seek professional help. What I can tell you is what helped me a little bit. Just set small, attainable goals for yourself. Whether it's getting to work extra early, or talking to a stranger, or opening a set of girls and number closing. It doesn't really matter what it is. The key is to make attainable goals for yourself and achieve them. This… | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 05:09 PM |
| 2 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.Mostly anywhere on weekdays. I'm a big fan of the village, lower east side, and upper east side | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 04:19 PM |
| 2 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I wish. I've attempted a bunch of threesomes and got very close once or twice. I've learned that it can't be about you at all. It has to be about the two girls and making sure they're flirty and getting sexual with each other first. All you have to do is be there to supply the dick. | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.most people won't even ask about you being alone. Even if they do, so what? | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 04:16 PM |
| 2 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.just say hi, or open with something situational. I've also been known to just sit down at a table and just start talking. Confidence and friendly attitude is all you need | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I'm 26 now. When I first moved here my count was at 4. I used to keep a list in my phome with all their phone numbers, if I even got one from them, but I got a new phone and lost it. My number now is somehwhere in the mid 20's. Probably 24 or 25, which isn't that high of a number, but considering 20 of them were in the last 18 months or so I don't think it's too bad | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 04:12 PM |
| 2 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.1) I've very familiar with this problem. So familiar, that this is why I always try to go for the one night stand. I'd get tons of numbers, and maybe 10% would call back. And that 10% is usually girls who I don't even really want to see again. I find sending a text the night you meet her and leaving your name is good too. You can get creative with it, but even a standard "I enjoyed meeting you tonight - Nappythrill22" is fine. Always text the day after and try to set up a date. I've found that n… | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 12:41 AM |
| 1 | In what country or culture are Americans viewed as sexy for being foreign?Asians. Pretty sure only the Asians think we're sexy. | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.There's SO many girls. And good looking ones, too. Everybody enjoys meeting new people because everybody has an interesting job, or story, or something. Everybody is so driven and motivated. And the night life is ridiculous. Everybody is out trying to party and have an awesome time (and hopefully get laid). When I visit home in Smalltown, USA it's totally different. There's almost a culture shock. Everybody is more laid back, there's no hustle and bustle, and everybody seems to be content with t… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 11:30 PM |
| 9 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.Well, it certainly gave me something to do on a Sunday. But seriously, I just hope other readers get something out of this more than I do. I was a depressed teenager on drugs who was always getting into trouble. To top it off, I couldn't get girls. I knew something needed to change. Pickup honestly changed my life, and I hope my AMA inspires somebody to get out of their shell and fully experience how rich life can be. I genuinely hope at least one person reads this and decides to take action to … | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 11:24 PM |
| 4 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.It wasn't EVERY night, but it was at least 4 nights a week, including friday night and saturday night. Depending on the bar, and who was working that night, I could easily get shitfaced for $20, and then maybe a $15 cab ride home if it was late or I was bringing home a girl. Weekends, forget about it. I easily spent $100 last night. Weekends usually suck in NYC anyway for this very reason. I've had better nights, more fun, and had more success on weeknights here. It's when the locals come out an… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 10:57 PM |
| 2 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I certainly didn't feel bad about not having more girls. That's not the case at all. I felt like I was settling for girls who I really didn't like because I didn't think I could do better. It wasn't a sexual status thing, although that is what a lot of guys want here in the states (I don't think there is anything wrong with that either). I just wanted to meet tons of girls and have my pick of any girl that I wanted. Not for any superficial reasons or anything, but because I wanted to find a girl… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 10:43 PM |
| 1 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.To answer your other question: For example: Your reply to that one short, hot girl when she asked why you were being an asshole. Your response was simple, yet convincing. I would have probably given a bit of an explanation to convince her to tag along. How does one start being that instead of doing that? It's tough to say actually how you become that. It's just training yourself to be non-reactive and level headed during a shit test. It's just really not giving a shit whether or not you "pass" i… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 10:08 PM |
| 2 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I hardly ever day game to be honest. It's pretty atrocious. I've been meaning to break out my camera this summer and go to central park for pictures and day game because it's something that I lack. I'm usually available sundays | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 10:00 PM |
| 10 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.the most important things to know for college? Stick your penis in EVERYTHING. Edit: Wear a condom | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I was never a fan of canned openers and routines. It's just not my style. My game is mostly humor and getting girls to laugh. So if I run out of things to say, I usually end up saying something ridiculous to get the girl to laugh. I know Mystery Method has a routines manual you can download if that's what you're into. I personally don't use them, but if you're running out of things to say, routines may get you over that initial hurdle. I advise against routines normally, and I only say this beca… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 08:46 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Dear god I love this shit. Thank you, seddit.Great FR. I like the breakdown of the RSD stuff. The guest list move is fucking awesome, btw. Good job, but waiting a few days to call is kind of an old school thing before people had cell phones and facebook. Girls are constantly on their phones now and will probably forget about you in a few days. I like to text something funny right after I get their number. "Blackdevildisco is so handsome!" or something of that nature. That way she has your name and number as well. I'd text her today a few t… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 08:34 PM |
| 5 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I am literally drowning in literature. What should I be reading? This is bad. You should be out practicing more. Reading too much will hurt your game more than it helps. You should stick to one method. Go out and try it for yourself. If it fails, try again and again. If it keeps failing, keep trying. You'll get better. If all else fails, try a different method then and repeat the failing process. You're going to fail a lot, so don't get discouraged. I was really a huge fan of Mystery Method. It'… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 08:16 PM |
| 6 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I totally agree with your edit. Nothing wrong with polyamory, and it's something that I've considered, but if I really like a girl I can't look at her the same way knowing she's fucking some other dude(s). I have no problem fucking multiple partners, but I can't get over my girlfriend fucking some other guy. It's a bit of a double standard, I know. But I can remain monogamous. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 08:07 PM |
| 4 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I've recently thrown out all of my PUA stuff. I don't really read the books anymore or watch video religiously like i used to. I had the same problem. I was tired of walking around like a pickup artist. Making sure my body language is perfect, noticing "sets" all around the bar and seeing who would be most open for a one night fuckfest. I basically just try to run natural now. Since avoiding the PUA books, I do run more naturally and I'm no longer in robot pickup artist mode. Not that there is a… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 07:53 PM |
| 5 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I agree. NYC is great for meeting people. Most people I meet here aren't even from NYC and I've even banged a few tourists and foreigners. One girl was from Barcelona and barely spoke English. Fish in a barrel | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 07:47 PM |
| 9 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I've been asked by many new york sedditors to go out sarging. I'm totally open for it, but things never seem to pan out right for me. I keep an eye on the Gotham Seddit for any happenings but it seems like not much is happening at the moment. I certainly don't go out as much as I used to, but PM me and we'll try to work something out. If anything, throw up a post at the NYC Seddit and we'll try to get something going. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 07:43 PM |
| 58 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.St. Patricks Day. Been drinking all day. I'm headed to a friends apartment to meet up with them and get some more drinking done. I stop at the liquor store and buy a bottle of booze. Forget which one. Probably Jack. On my way to my friends house I have to stop and take a wicked piss. I pull up to a building and start pissing. This piss is like the Nile river. The piss stream went around the block. I was pissing for what felt like 10 minutes. Mid-stream, I see a girl on the stoop watching me piss… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 07:34 PM |
| 6 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.I feel like I cleared up most of my inner game issues in my late teens/early twenties, but I've had my ups and downs since then. I just learned love myself first and foremost, made new friends, and started a better life. I think the key is to just be OK with yourself. Accept your flaws and stop worrying about what people think of you. Self confidence is essential for inner game. If you lack that, your game will crumble. I think one of the biggest inner game boosters is karaoke. It's an incredibl… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 06:41 PM |
| 9 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.Glad you haven't totally peaced out of here. Thanks man. I'm more of a lurker now, but I drop by to reply to a few posts here and there. Why would you want to date ANYBODY exclusively once you have game? I know, it's weird. I just really like her. I can spend a whole day with her without once wanting to shoot myself in the face. She's not annoying, bossy, or needy. She just seems like a chick who I can settle down with. To be honest, a few months before I started dating her I was getting kind of… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 06:30 PM |
| 8 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.Mystery Method is great for beginners. Mystery Method really helped me. The Adventures Of Brad P was a game changing book for me. It's not really a method book, but a collection of amazing field reports. It's really good because he really breaks it down and tells you why certain things work. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 06:17 PM |
| 12 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.What would be your single sentence definition of game? Game is being socially savvy, with both males and females, and having them admire and be attracted to you. I do believe there is MUCH more to it than that. But that's in a nutshell. Biggest epiphanies? Girls aren't attracted to my looks, but how I make them feel. Kino is the difference between "let's just be friends" and "let's go to bed". And my happiness is not based on my success with women, but how I feel about myself. Best practical adv… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 06:15 PM |
| 5 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.were you good at flirting before pick-up or is it a skill you learned along the way? If it's the latter, how did you work on this skill? I was definitely terrible at flirting when I was in highschool. It was definitely something that I had to learn and practice. I started off with just learning cocky/funny flirting. I was always kind of funny and could make girls laugh, so that was a good starting point for me. It definitely took me a while to get comfortable with flirting and teasing. I used to… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 06:01 PM |
| 7 | I am Delightful_White. Ask Me Anything.It certainly wasn't easy. I was probably out 4 or 5 nights every week. It wasn't very easy on the wallet either. The key is to frequent as many bars as you can, but make friends with the bartenders at your favorite places. They'll give you a shit ton of free drinks and it's great social proof. Also, with minimal internet research you can find bars that have cheap happy hours, free food, drink specials, etc. But some of the best spots I've found was just walking around the city and thinking "this… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Paying (or not) for dates?There's nothing wrong with paying if you invite them out for dinner or something. If you're just going out for drinks you can say "I'll get the first round" which pretty much sets the idea that you are going round for round. If you're paying a bill at the end of the night, you can say "let's go dutch on this bill" which is a better way of saying "you're not drinking for free". Don't worry about paying for dates though. What you want to avoid is buying a stranger a drink just to talk to you. That… | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 04:28 PM |
| -2 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)lol Canada Day. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 07:01 PM |
| 12 | I'm TofuTofu. Ask Me Anything about Japanese girls.Do most japanese girls speaka da engrish? At least a little? | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Accomplished Sedditors: what ways (if any) do you regret your decision to become a PUAYeah I'm sure it's easier for them having a lucritive business based on it. Not to mention it shows social savviness which is very attractive | /r/seduction | 07/07/11 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Accomplished Sedditors: what ways (if any) do you regret your decision to become a PUANo, but she knows that I know what I'm doing when it comes to women. Things she admitted she's attracted to about me: Confidence, sense of humor, and "when I met you, you didn't let me push you around". So although she doesn't know I "practice pickup", she knows I have what it takes to get women attracted to me. | /r/seduction | 07/07/11 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Accomplished Sedditors: what ways (if any) do you regret your decision to become a PUAConstantly push the boundaries of your comfort zone. Don't fear failure. Embrace it, desensitize yourself from it, and learn from it. Take risks. Risk being blown out, risk being denied a kiss, risk being denied sex. Just take the risk and you'll be pleasantly surpised with the outcome 95% of the time. Don't give up. Keep pushing and learning. It's so fucking worth it. | /r/seduction | 07/07/11 04:25 PM |
| 5 | Accomplished Sedditors: what ways (if any) do you regret your decision to become a PUAThe only thing I regret is not learning this stuff sooner, and even that's a stretch considering I was only 18 when I started doing this. Now, at 26, I can say I've led a more than interesting life. It's given me the power to allow myself to have amazing experiences, good and bad, which I would have never had if it weren't for the PUA community. I've met amazing people, been with a lot of amazing girls, and now have an amazing girlfriend, which I just got done fucking and is next to me sleeping … | /r/seduction | 07/07/11 07:07 AM |
| 2 | This stupid shit doesn't make a man; it makes an emasculated "nice guy" [aka vapid high school girl shit]why is this the top post? I get the point, but why 142 (as of now) upvotes when everything else has no more than 20? | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Random field-tested opening line of the day: "Ladies, I sent five innocent lobsters to their grave today. Console me."or you could just try it for yourself? | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Random field-tested opening line of the day: "Ladies, I sent five innocent lobsters to their grave today. Console me."I open sets all the time saying ridiculous shit like this. I once opened and # closed a hot 2 set by saying "Hi, I am a War Horse". Worked like a charm. yup. Makes no sense. They laughed and were like "lol wut?" and then I just sat down at their table and started chatting. it doesn't matter what you say EDIT: I believe Jeffy from RSD has been known to open sets with "Hi, I'm a douchebag. Let's be friends." | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 06:44 PM |
| 2 | My favorite movie pick-up scene: Meet Joe Black - Coffee ShopHe's right though. Everything about that cone-ing video is awesome | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with an AMOGI would have done best with a physical removal technique by taking the other 2 girls away and having him chat up the one who was having the negative vibes. Maybe, but you have to understand that you were outnumbered, and you haven't exactly won them over yet. Your best move I think would have been to befriend all of them. Get them all on your side, especially the guy. When they are all disarmed, go rapport with your target a bit more and then isolate to the dancefloor, outside for fresh air or a… | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 10:39 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Trying out Mystery Method from Revelations for the First Time; F-close & #Close another girl (same night)textbook. Well done. Great FR | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with an AMOGYeah, you let the AMOG take control and win. The girls saw you get walked all over like a rug by this guy. He completely dominated you and you let him do it right in front of those girls, now they see you as a beta pussy. I think you did good by not holding his drink, that would have really been a bitch move. In this particular situation, there was 3 girls and only two of you guys. You could have easily done a shot with him, became buddies and used him as your wingman. Depending on the situation… | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I ask for your help.first! to answer your question.. Read the sidebar -------> | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 04:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] F-close 2 girls HB7 and HB8bowtie, on couch with HB8, telling her she looks cute, taking phone away from HB7 and making out with her, and then calling HB8 over to the bed to join in | /r/seduction | 10/06/11 06:29 PM |
| 23 | [FR] F-close 2 girls HB7 and HB8I agree, but these girls definitely knew what they were coming over to do. Regardless, OP isolated and escalated damn near perfectly. Given these circumstances, this situation still could have easily been fucked up in the wrong hands. Well done, OP | /r/seduction | 10/06/11 12:37 AM |
| 2 | I give up on you guysDon't let the door hit your ass on the way out. | /r/seduction | 05/06/11 06:11 PM |
| 10 | She threw out a shit test, and I think I passed. What can I do better next time?make up ridiculous names next time. "Professor Bigglesworth, Esquire" "Hugh Jidick" "Lance Uppercut, Jr." "Max Power" "Rembrandt Q. Einstein." | /r/seduction | 04/06/11 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Ignoring the ones that you like to try and attract them...you must be new here. That's probably the most standard takeaway in the book. Like Heckz said, it's obviously done with a playful and teasing manner. check the sidebar for some intro material. | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 12:23 AM |
| 5 | I don't have the time to study seduction. I want to get out there and practice. Can I get the TL/DR of this stuff?I field tested this and it works 100% of the time. No need to read anything else. /thread | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Ignoring the ones that you like to try and attract them...who said anything about insulting her? | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Ignoring the ones that you like to try and attract them...with takeaways. At a high point in the interaction, just get up and leave to go to he bar/outside/anywhere away from her. You don't even have to say anything. Do this only after enough attraction has been built up. Alternatively, you can say something like "you're such a dork. We'll never get along" and turn your back on her. she'll actively seek you out to get your attention again | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Rainbow T-shirt for climbing,not for gay!!haha good joke. I think I may have worded it wrong (it was late), but I agree with you. I'd rather they think I'm gay. I hate hippies. All they do is sit around and get high while complaining about gov't and corporations. Yet, the hippies do nothing to change it, except go to Phish concerts. | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Rainbow T-shirt for climbing,not for gay!!I would say the same thing. I'd rather have people mistake me for being a homosexual than a hippie. | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 06:02 AM |
| 3 | rust (fr)If you haven't picked up a basketball in months, do you think you'd be able to dunk from the foul line on your first attempt as soon as you get back on the court? Everybody gets rusty. You need to keep your social skills sharp. I know that you already know this, but talk to everybody. Even if you're busy with work, you can still talk to people on the street, on the way to work, on the way home, at the dunkin donuts for your morning coffee, etc. Otherwise, when you finally do get back out on the … | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 05:55 AM |
| 6 | I'm getting LMR before the last minuteDude, you fucked up a threesome the first time. Now, the Pickup Gods have given you a second chance. don't blow yourself out again. Don't psyche yourself out again. THREESOME. Let us know what happens | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 06:21 PM |
| 6 | How can I F-Close with a girl if I am staying at a friends place?My friends fuck girls on my living room couch all the time. I don't see the problem here. Find an excuse to go back to your friends place (more drugs, alcohol, a movie, etc) and bang her on the couch dude. "hey come back to my friends house and lets sleep on the couch together." That sounds lame. Well, that's because it is lame, unless you have serious game to pull that off. Try this instead: "Hey, we have more alcohol at [friend]'s place. Lets go!" It's also easier if your buddy is a good wingm… | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Just Keep Saying the Wrong Thing [AFC]Have you considered that you might actually be gay? There's nothing wrong with that. I'm just saying because I don't see how being shy and not being able to talk to people led you to gay sex. | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?have you changed in terms of what you want from women? Nothing has changed really. The ultimate goal is to find a cool chick that I can hang with for the rest of my life. There's no better way to find her than banging as many chicks as I can until I find her. That hasn't changed at all. You've given me much to think about though. I don't think I'm changing for any particular reason. Maybe because I've made a lot of new friends, a lot of them naturals with women, and seeing them easily get with w… | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 07:36 PM |
| 2 | What Happend To My Game?Couldn't agree more. | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 07:11 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?And you didn't tell me you are a Scorpio. That usually means a degree of obsessiveness about sex, death, and a lot of other things. I usually describe Scorpios as having a bit of Goth in them. Haha is that a cold read? You know dude, that's fucking scary because that's so fucking true. Especially about sex and death. I enjoy having a very exciting sex life, and any long term girlfriend I've had has always been very sexual. The idea of dying used to terrify me as a kid. I was a total pussy and af… | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 07:08 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?Yeah I'm hearing good things about Blueprint and it's good to hear that this is normal. I'm not suggesting you get all sickly sweet and shit on her, but open up slowly. You may lose her but it would be for the best otherwise you'd spend a lifetime trying to hide a part of who you are from her - that doesn't sound good Totally agree. I've been opening up slowly, definitely. She's got a weird situation going on right now, so I'm keeping my distance to avoid getting hurt mostly. I don't want to get… | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?And you should totally use your knowledge of astrology with your game. That shit is chick crack, and I've gotten lots of attraction in the past by just saying things like "our signs don't like each other. this isn't going to work out" and "we wouldn't get along but the sex would be awesome", and just basically making shit up off the top of my head. Bitches love astrology. | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?Haha, I'll throw you an upvote to negate those downvotes. You know, I've never believed in astrology but I've always found it entertaining. I read my horoscope every now and then and sometimes it makes me think, "wow, that's so true." I have a friend who is REALLY into astrology. She's always telling me things about my sign, Scorpio, and saying things like "You're such a Scorpio!" whenever I do anything. She even has a book about sex + astrology. I have to admit, most of the things I read about … | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 06:14 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?I'm not really upset about them ditching me. It's not a big deal and was kind of funny actually. But yeah, my standards have definitely increased and I just don't find it fun gaming girls who aren't hard to get (usually they're the hot ones). So you're probably right, I'm not closing as much because I'm only out to game hot girls. I enjoy talking to everybody, but I'm no longer spitting game at the 6's and 7's. It's just not fun anymore. Just what I needed to hear. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 11:13 PM |
| 3 | What Happend To My Game?That's a good point. I do game hotter girls now, and I have been very selective recently. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 11:10 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?Good analogy. I think that's what I needed to hear. It's motivational. Any idea where I can find that part? There's like 80 dvds | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?No, but I've been saving up and plan to travel/vacation really soon | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 11:02 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?not really. I actually have a lot going on in my life. That's probably why I'm stressed out. I probably need to slow down actually and just do nothing for a while | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?music production, writing, photography, longboarding, I like to go out to parties with my friends, etc. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 10:09 PM |
| 1 | What Happend To My Game?I agree with what you're saying. But I've been doing this for about 8 years. I'm pretty sure it's ingrained by now. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 08:42 PM |
| 2 | What Happend To My Game?Good point. This has crossed my mind. I try to go out now without the mentality of "Ok, I'm at the bar, there's a two set over there. I'll open the ugly friend and disqualify myself to my target. beep beep beep I. Am. A. Robot." I just enjoy myself whenever I'm out now, maybe make some new friends (or not, whatever). Total outcome independence. I've been going out with my friend, a natural, and he's always saying things like "Let's not go out to hit on girls, let's just get beer and hang out. Wh… | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 07:32 PM |
| 3 | What Happend To My Game?Go bang some ugly chicks. I'm only half kidding. Will do. These ugly girls don't even know what's coming to them. I'm only half kidding. PM me and we'll trade contact info if you want to hit the town for a bit while you're here. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 07:17 PM |
| 3 | What Happend To My Game?Good advice all around. I definitely don't take it personally when a chick flakes or does some dick-ish shit. It happens. But I've never had a group of girls ditch me at a diner while I was taking a piss. Haha, thats a first. I don't take that personally either, and I laughed it off and went home, but it was a shot to the ego and kind of got me thinking. I don't know about the psychiatrist yet. I'm not taking it off the table, but I think I'm just in a funk right now. I have a lot going on. | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 07:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] took the girl i like to a barIt's better for your her attention to be focused on her you and not divided like that. FTFY | /r/seduction | 07/05/11 10:42 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Open HB8s by throwing dodgeballs at them? Why not! (with pics)This FR is awesome. Your reports are like a breath of fresh air in a cloud of chode smog. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Boner problem?Any advice? Not really. At your age the dick has a mind of it's own (at my age it still has a mind of it's own). There's really nothing you can do except ride it out. I guess I would suggest focusing on other stuff besides her ass on your crotch. Think of this if you have to (seriously). I would even suggest being cocky and play it cool/funny. Next time a chick is on your lap and you feel some flow down there, I'd say something ridiculous like "Hey, go easy with the movement or I'm going to pop … | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 03:51 AM |
| 10 | Boner problem?I'm 17 btw Shit, I'm 26 and still pop wood every now and then when a hottie sits on my lap. It's called "being a normal warm-blooded mammal." You're 17 and still developing all your manly parts. It's gonna happen, a lot. Don't sweat it. Try the belt-tuck. We called it "The High Noon-er" when we were 17 Do you think the girls know? lol Would you know if a hard dick was poking you in the ass? Hell, some chicks even like it. | /r/seduction | 05/05/11 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I failed in my goal to post 10 FRs in April. Give me a punishment.just a teabagging should suffice. haha who cares dude. Just post more epic FRs | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 02:43 PM |
| 2 | How to "game" a girl that knows all about "the game"not sure why you're being downvoted. I totally agree, especially the part about waiting longer to text for being an attention whore. If you ask me, she cracked OP. He is now her supplicating bitch | /r/seduction | 28/04/11 12:53 AM |
| 2 | This Changed My Game Forevercheck the post for downloadable hyperlinks before you act like a dick. | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 09:17 PM |
| 1 | This Changed My Game Foreveranswered in this comment | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 12:48 AM |
| 3 | This Changed My Game ForeverNo doubt, it's not for everybody. But, minus the misogyny and routines (which also isn't really part of my game either), there's a lot to learn from him. He has no approach anxiety, totally outcome independent, has no fear of rejection, and he is a risk taker who is able to spot an opportunity and capitalize on it. Also, he never gives up. Even after getting blown out all night he keeps on going and eventually closes. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 10:28 PM |
| 5 | This Changed My Game Foreverhaha no I'm not mormon. I'm just white, and delightful | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 04:16 PM |
| 1 | This Changed My Game ForeverI wish I was an intern for Brad P. I'd probably be swimming in pussy. I'm just a fan of his work and his stuff helped me take my game to the next level. I have also suggested him before for an AMA in one of the older threads. I'd love to see him do one | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 04:02 PM |
| 1 | FR - Is that normal or did I mess up?Who cares? You had a short interaction with a girl in the gym, and she walked away. Don't over think things. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 06:17 AM |
| 9 | Is using your business card a good way to give to your number to a woman?My business cards are for business. Personally, I won't ever give a girl my number unless I have hers. It's a cop-out and I have more dignity than that. I'll simply say "No thanks" if she only offers to take my number. Anyway, I can't even remember the last time I was given a hand written number. Seems old fashioned now. Just have her punch it into your cellphone, or grab her phone and text yourself. Recently, I've been taking their phone from them, like "let me play with your phone" and then I'… | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Just met this Girl.. Like her a lot.. but I seem to always fall to fast.. Help:?His grammar is atrocious. I'm not sure if that and his misuse of capitalization is intentional and meant to be artistic, but it's definitely retarded. It's like he tries too hard with his metaphors and imagery. That shit needs to be subtle. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Approaching a girl with a physical deformity / missing limb.I think this is hilarious, but it's pretty clear why you were downvoted. I'll give you an upvote for hilarity. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 04:03 AM |
| 1 | It all came together last night, I can see so much clearer now. [FR]I can see so much clearer now. FTFY | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 03:35 AM |
| 3 | (I'm a girl) Heads up to all you shy guys!!You may get a nice surprise! I hope it's a blowjob | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 03:33 AM |
| 15 | [FR] First time almost taking a girl home from a club. Thoughts on inner game and ASD.First of all, I love this report. Your writing style is hilarious and entertaining, and you hit a lot of good points. Getting a girl home from the club or bar was a big sticking point for me for a while (and still is, in a sense, due to location mostly). I live in a different borough of the city than where the usual night life is, so getting a girl back to my place has always been a pain in the ass. Here's a few pointers that help me: 1) First and foremost, make sure you're friends with her frie… | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 03:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] An accidental seductionI was thinking the same thing. I've had some epic lays, but nothing like a girl straight up knocking on my door and asking me to bang her just for fun. It's the little things like this that are the best. A friend of mine was telling me the other day that he met some girl and her friend at a concert. He went back to their place and ended up hooking up with one of the girls. While they were going at it, the friend knocks on the bedroom door and invites herself in and a threesome ensued. Some guys … | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 10:27 PM |
| 6 | Tips for Building RapportWhat are your methods for moving past the "ok this guy is funny and attractive" stage and into the "I really feel a connection to this guy" phase? There really aren't any methods. Building a connection and bonding with somebody needs to be genuine, and doesn't really involve any witty banter and cocky routines. It's about having shared experiences together, finding commonalities/differences, talking about the good old days when you were a kid, etc. Just last night I was out with a girl and at so… | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Update onI would like to say this isn't one-itis, I'm just trying to get this one girl and get a regular thing going lolwut? | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 05:39 AM |
| 2 | 'Nice guys aren't really nice' GIVE IT UP.looks at username ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 05:37 AM |
| 2 | [FR] and looking for your opinionsThis is not an FR. Why aren't you out trying to fuck other girls and writing FR's about that? | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Need some adviceNot sure what more info I should give but I just have no idea where to start any advice is appreciated. If only there was some sort of, like.. beginner post or something... Or maybe if they put it in some sort of... "sidebar" ------------------------------------------> | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 05:25 AM |
| 3 | She offered to take me to get STD tested but I'm having doubts she's DTFBitch sounds crazy. Why do you need an STD test in the first place? You were in a monogamous relationship for 7 years. Does your dick itch and puss come out of the tip? If not, I'm sure you're good to go, bro. Worry about STDs when you get over this one-itis and start fucking women. I mean, it's no harm to get tested regularly, better safe than sorry, so I'm not going to hate on that. But I'm sure you're clean. Go ahead and get one to be safe, and you should get tested regularly when you get bac… | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Rookie Mistake: Talked to a girl at the gym today and forgot her name. Oops.This used to happen to me a lot, and still does every now and then. I've always been terrible with names. I'll remember a persons face for the rest of my life if I met them for even a second, but their name is literally gone from my memory as soon as they tell it to me. I've read that if you repeat somebody's name three times you'll remember it. I've made it a habit to repeat the name back to the person immediately after they tell me. "Hi [hot piece of ass's name], I'm Delightful_White. Nice to … | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Dating someone in a relationship?Give her a good dickin' and she'll break up with that chump in no time and want to date you. Just don't turn into the guy that she's dating now. Is this subreddit just about getting laid? Mostly. But if you want a relationship, nobody is against you. We're all on the same team here. I'm not trolling either. I'm giving you some good advice. Don't worry about dating this girl yet. Get her attracted to you, give her some good dick, and then you can start thinking about a relationship with this girl… | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Dating someone in a relationship?Turns out she's in an "on again off again" long distance relationship Translation: There's a guy in my life but it's not serious. Let's fuck. Just fuck her. It's none of your concern whether or not she breaks up with her boyfriend. TL;DR: What boyfriend? | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 04:00 AM |
| 3 | The Difference Between The F-Closers and the AFC?I don't think it's so much the balls to approach, but rather the balls to take chances. The closers are the ones who see an opportunity to isolate, escalate, close, etc., and just go for it and don't really care about a specific outcome. Chumps, AFC's, and chodes are afraid to take risks because they're afraid of rejection and afraid to "lose the girl", and usually end up home alone or in the friendzone. Personally, I try to take an interaction with a girl I'm attracted to as far as possible and… | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 02:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Unexpected SNLAlmost a threesome, I couldn't fully close it. I was making out with the friend while groping the girl with the boyfriend. She wouldn't let me kiss her, but my hands were allowed to roam free. I've gotten close to a threesome like this a few times, all off of cold approach, but can never seem to fully close. Practice makes perfect. I don't want to say what I do for a living because it's pretty specific and I want to remain anonymous, but I can say I work in media. I'm not on TV or anything fancy… | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Blueprint 02 & 03: Social conditioning & subcommunicationno, I know what you meant. I'm just letting the chodes know what's up. great post btw. I like how you break down the blueprint | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Blueprint 02 & 03: Social conditioning & subcommunicationonce you do meet a nice girl to marry, you might have trouble keeping her attracted and satisfied, and the next thing you know she's Delightful_White's girlfriend for 12 hours. Don't take this warning lightly, gentlemen. I have no qualms about doing this, and neither do a lot of other men. Learn to keep your girl satisfied or else somebody else will. Now downvote me for being honest. | /r/seduction | 12/04/11 10:40 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Unexpected SNLgreat breakdown. Thanks for a quality FR. I had a girl a few months ago drop the "i have a boyfriend but lets be friends" line on me. Just plowed right through it and played right along but kept things sexual. I ended up fooling around with her and her friend in bed that night. "lets be friends" lulz. clearly, "LJBF" doesn't mean shit to us anymore. | /r/seduction | 12/04/11 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Can we get a day game thread going?I'm glad you posted this. Since the weather is getting nicer I've been wanting to do a lot of day gaming. I'm planning on getting a longboard to cruise around the city, and I want to dedicate every saturday and sunday afternoon to daygame and collecting numbers. I could easily get 10 numbers every weekend if I put in the time. The ultimate goal is to get a mini date and a lay within the same initial meeting. | /r/seduction | 12/04/11 08:57 PM |
| 6 | HB says "You're sexy", you say ....?"I know" trollface.jpg | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 03:18 PM |
| 8 | Hey, since I'm logged on with a TA, I wanted to tell you guys you have a really awesome sub-reddit here! Can i help in any way?also, my advice to you is to not read any PUA books. Just chime in with your opinion of what you would naturally do | /r/seduction | 05/04/11 06:08 PM |
| 6 | Hey, since I'm logged on with a TA, I wanted to tell you guys you have a really awesome sub-reddit here! Can i help in any way?not sure why you're being downvoted. Input from "naturals" is sort of lacking in this subreddit, and I think we need more. It's an important viewpoint. Personally, I've learned quite a bit from observing my "natural" friends with girls. stick around | /r/seduction | 05/04/11 06:03 PM |
| 5 | The most cringe-inducingly AFC thread I've seen in a while. (from r/sex)jpjamo: what im tryin to say is i dont think it matters how nice you are sometimes, i just think women are strange :P and just dont get horny any more..... there just doesnt seem to be any reasonable explanation. lulz | /r/seduction | 02/04/11 06:35 PM |
| 4 | [April FR #1] First time solo in a while. A cougar, a goth, and an F-close. Epic win.For whatever reason I'm in the mood to go solo. Does anyone ever feel this way? I say go with it if you do! It's usually a sign of great things to come! I couldn't agree with you more on this. Some of my best nights out have been when I fly solo and just have fun and meet new people. I think being with friends (who aren't really out to get laid, per se) restricts you to some form of social pressure, even if you don't realize it. When you're by yourself, you can really let loose and do shit that … | /r/seduction | 02/04/11 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Easy Springtime Prop: Soccer ball or FrisbeeHaha, we used to do this at concerts while tailgating. Works every time. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Flirty Barista GirlAs far as her having a boyfriend, I wouldn't think about it too much. It's his own fault if she leaves his chump ass. You have nothing to lose. I would send her a funny text. If the girl doesn't have my number, but I have hers, I always sign the end of my first text. For example: "We have you on camera stealing Kenny Loggins CD's (or whatever your store sells that she would never want). You're banned forever - Delightful_White" If she responds positively, take it from there. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Reality vs Myththis is the biggest load of horse shit. | /r/seduction | 29/03/11 03:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?I guess I misinterpreted your post. My bad. In that case, I agree. | /r/seduction | 28/03/11 01:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?no offense taken. I just think you missed the whole point of the FR. The end result isn't what's important. It's about how you got there. I just hope you've taken something from this FR besides the fact that I didn't "fuck her brains silly" | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 08:29 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?You sound like you're pretty bitter and you hold some kind of resentment to a girl who cheated on you. I can understand. I've had a girl cheat on me once too. It's not a good feeling. I think of it as flying on a plane. There's a number of things that could go wrong that are out of your control and the plane may crash. You could even die. Does that stop me from going on a plane? No. So why would I be afraid of dating a girl who "may cheat on me", just as i'm not afraid to get on a plane that "ma… | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 07:25 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?Well, he's extremely good looking and a natural with the ladies. He's definitely the real winner here and you're right, he didn't put in much effort at all. | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 07:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?What gave you the idea that I was trying to take anything from her? We had a mutual connection between us, and things naturally progressed all the way to getting her into my bed. She refused sex, but I didn't force her or act like a dick because she wasn't giving it up. I have more respect for women than that. I'm pretty sure it's clear we both really liked each other. | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 07:12 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?Wow. Way to take a cute role play between two people and take it so literally. In the words of Antoine Dodson: "You are so dumb. Really really dumb." | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 07:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?Thank you. | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 07:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?Yeah she is. Her boyfriend is a lucky guy. I hope he treats her well. | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 07:08 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?Yeah, think about how I felt actually living the experience... | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 07:06 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?Maybe not. I've gotten a bunch of PM's from Sedditors saying some really kind words to me after posting this. It's giving me second thoughts about leaving Seddit. I definitely won't be here as much though. However, I will be deleting my 6 gigs of PUA videos/books/audio. I just don't need them anymore. I feel like they're holding me back now. And dude, when you come to new york, hit me up. I think we'll do some serious damage here. Thanks | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 07:04 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?Constantly thinking a girl is going to cheat on you is just you being insecure. I know a few (happily) married couples (with kids) who met their husband/wife because they cheated on their previous significant other. You can't judge a girl based on what she does with her boyfriend. You don't know the complexities of their relationship. Neither do I. All I know is that I'll be the best boyfriend I can be. Whether or not she cheats on me is out my hands. However, I'm not insecure, and I wouldn't be… | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 06:59 PM |
| 25 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?bitches love karaoke | /r/seduction | 26/03/11 11:37 PM |
| 21 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?Wow, thanks man. The thing is, I can't stand going out anymore thinking like a pickup artist. I've been doing this since I was 18 (8 years ago! jesus christ thats a long time...). I've been going around thinking like a pickup artist all this time. The less I read, watch, and post, the less I think that way. I'm trying to shake off all the PUA shit and just go natural. I love Seddit though, and I'm sure I'll be here every now and then. Just not as often. And you're right. It wasn't about getting … | /r/seduction | 26/03/11 11:37 PM |
| 89 | [FR] Making HB9 My Girlfriend For 12 Hours (The Power of Persistence and Other goodies). My Last FR Ever?I suggest that we go hit up a karaoke bar. I love karaoke. It’s a great attraction builder even if you suck at singing and it’s always fun to do on group dates. I’m terrible at singing. But I pick fun songs to sing and rock the shit out of them. I dance, sing my heart out, and do songs that people don’t normally do at karaoke bars. If you seriously just let yourself go and get into the moment, you display a shit load of self-confidence, which is extremely attractive. You have to honestly not giv… | /r/seduction | 26/03/11 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Kino from a girl's perspectiveChuck, if you're reading this, please take note that this man is correct. | /r/seduction | 13/03/11 01:51 AM |
| 6 | "I don't know you"/"I'm embarrassed to be your friend"relax dude. Some advice is best given like a cold splash of water in the face. Clearly, this was one of those times. Take the advice for what it is. we're all on the same team, but sometimes our teammates need a slap to the back of the head. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 12:56 AM |
| 7 | "I don't know you"/"I'm embarrassed to be your friend"congrats! You just became their little monkey boy who does tricks for them for their own entertainment. Great job! | /r/seduction | 11/03/11 09:58 PM |
| 9 | Picking up women by being a doucheYeah, some of them looked real and some of the actors were pretty good. Either way, they had to sign release forms so... | /r/seduction | 07/03/11 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Weekend [FR] A tale of two wingmen.Great writeup dude. I hate when weird dudes try to be your friend at the bar and end up embarrassing themselves, and then you. I'm a friendly guy, so I generally talk to everybody anyway, but sometimes you get mixed up with the wrong people, even though they're good people at heart. Good people don't always make good wingmen. Sounds like you're on the right path. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 07/03/11 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Let's compile a list of hacks to help us in the fieldUpvote for Colon Blow. You could also drink a cold bottle of Schmitt's Gay to get into state. | /r/seduction | 07/03/11 12:09 AM |
| 53 | Picking up women by being a douche"Tonight, I'm going to be so deep inside of you that the guy who pulls me out will become the King of England" Awesome. takes notes | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 11:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met at the bar, then again at the clubI watched him make his moves. He waits for guys to go to the bathroom and then sits next to the girl and tries to move in I had some dude doing this to me last weekend in my FR. I fucking HATE that! I'd rather him do it in front of me and try to out-game me. It's the thrill of the game that I love! I'd never been on the "participating" end of it though. Sounds like he's a rough wingman to deal with. One of my friends tries too hard to be charming, and is always leaning in on his approach. I'm no… | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 11:32 PM |
| 2 | [Female FR #3] K-closed, lots of lessons insideI personally love when girls kino me. Like when I say something funny and she laughs and puts her hand on my chest. Or grabs my arm. I don't think it shows lower value at all. It shows you're at least interested in talking to me at that moment, which can bring up a guys confidence. Don't be afraid to touch the guy. What happens when they're oblivious to clear IoIs? what you say are "oblivious" IOIs in your eyes, may not be for him. What kind of oblivious IOIs are we talking about here? | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Thank you Seddit. And I bid you adieu.upvoted for beastie boys quote. My favorite band of all time. | /r/seduction | 05/03/11 08:41 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Observations from Entourage Game Party #2 (Everything went better than expected, but room for improvement)I got a BJ in a bathroom from a fat chick. (don't hate) Been there before... Best BJ I ever got was from a fat chick. I'm talking THE BEST. I think inviting people a day or two before the actual party is probably better. It'll stay fresh in their minds, and if their plans fall through they'll be like "oh shit tofu is having a party, lets go". I'd say try keeping it short like you did this time, but invite everybody 2 days beforehand. A reminder text to flakey or low-investment people probably co… | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 08:50 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]where do you think 11,000 newbies in 3 months came from? We're often the answer to a post on r/dating_advice. "check out r/seduction" EDIT: I think this post is rather interesting and has some good comments. Sounds like some of them may be sedditors. | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 06:28 AM |
| 1 | My luck fucking sucks (hint: the last two words aren't happening)best advice in this thread. A bit harsh, but true. | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on "The Afro-Pick". (First seddit post, and I want input from all, but the advice from black/African-American sedditors can help here).extremely white guy here. I'd rock the afro and the pick all day if I could | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 10:05 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Smoker here. Why do you care what she thinks? Bad mindset, right off the bat. Don't avoid talking about it if it comes up. Be honest. She can go fuck herself if she judges you for it. It's none of her business really. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 04:12 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Two very different day game approachesGreat post. I've been working on my day game as well. NYC is a great day game city and there's so many cute girls to open. And if one approach goes bad, just turn around and open the next girl. They're everywhere | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Something I've noticed.upvote for misspelling "generalizing" and getting away with it... LIKE A BOSS | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Tricky girl. Can't gauge if I have her.no prob. Good luck, you'll be fine. She sounds like she likes you. | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Tricky girl. Can't gauge if I have her.never take anything too seriously. Especially encounters with women. Keep doing what you're doing because she seems to have fun with it. Just strap on a pair of nuts and TELL HER to give you her number. Don't ask. Just assume she wants you to have it and hand her your phone and have her punch it in. Done deal. I haven't said this in a while, but have you read the sidebar? ---------------------------> | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Tricky girl. Can't gauge if I have her.why does she have your number and you not have hers? 99% of girls aren't going to call you for a date. That's your job. Unfair? Yes. But that's life. | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Some help with the Text Gamehere | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 09:54 PM |
| 7 | Some Quotes"Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to becme a man of value" - Albert Einstein. I read this quote the other day and thought it was great, and especially relevant to pickup. good post. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 06:53 PM |
| 9 | RANT: Do you have a genuine passion for learning about seduction? If not, LEAVE.they were almost completely in line with seduction material Exactly. Almost everything she wanted the guy to do is basic advice we give here and practice every single day. But when that advice comes from a girl, all of a sudden it's invalid and she's a whore? It doesn't make sense to me. It's pretty much a bunch of chumps who can't tell good advice from shitty advice, regardless of the gender of the OP. I'll bet if the OP was a guy, and instead posted "[FR] Here's what I did right and what I did… | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 10:19 AM |
| 2 | RANT: Do you have a genuine passion for learning about seduction? If not, LEAVE.I just realized you're a mod now. When did this happen? | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 09:43 AM |
| 35 | RANT: Do you have a genuine passion for learning about seduction? If not, LEAVE.If you ask me, she had a well thought out and well written post. She seemed to know what she was talking about. I'm looking forward to seeing more of her on here, but I don't know if that's going to happen anymore. She was bashed for posting and scared away. I'd actually like to see more female contributors here, but this is why we don't get too many of them. And I understand that many women will say "we just want a good guy" and "just be yourself" which is terrible advice. But I didn't see anyt… | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Dear Nice Guy FriendI think grabbing my hand and pulling me across the street, or leading me around the club, is actually a stronger signal than placing hands on my hips. I love it when men grab my hand and force me to come with them, it's sexy. I say this all the time. I can't stress it enough. It's so important to take the leading roll, even if it's just "hey let's go over here" and take her hand and go. | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Dear Nice Guy FriendA lot of advice from females in this subreddit is trash. This is a good post though. You should stick around and post a little bit more. | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 11:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Cockblocks and out-gaming AMOGsSomebody needs to be the Alpha. | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 11:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cockblocks and out-gaming AMOGsGood point. That's why I was looking for impromptu wingmen on the dance floor. This time however, I had 2 guys against me trying to take my 2 girls. One of my girls already made out with one of those guys. I was outnumbered and they were either going to come home with me, or them. They chose me. | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 11:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cockblocks and out-gaming AMOGsI agree with Tofu. Don't worry about it, most people want to avoid fights. Just do it with style and grace and don't be a total douche about it. | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 11:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cockblocks and out-gaming AMOGsDo it. Just be careful out there. Don't do this to a boyfriend or anything unless you want to get your ass kicked. But if you're talking to a girl and some chode comes up and starts hitting on her, he's fair game. | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 11:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cockblocks and out-gaming AMOGsA threesome would have been awesome. But no, didn't happen. There isn't much more to talk about. I pulled them both to my house, drank more and smoked a bit. I took my target to my room to "charge her phone" and left the cockblock in the living room. I tried to escalate to sex in my room but the cockblock kept on texting my target while I was making out with her, so it didn't get too far. They eventually both went back to their hotel. | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 11:31 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Cockblocks and out-gaming AMOGsGood tip. I love whiskey. Yeah I don't know why people get so uptight about banging a girl in a relationship. I don't actively lurk on women who are dating, but if I sleep with one who is dating I don't have any regrets the next day. It's not my problem. | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 01:16 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Cockblocks and out-gaming AMOGsAnother variation is to use "Wow, how good looking is this guy?" If he's actually good looking Yeah I've done this too. I'll straighten the guys shirt collar and brush his shoulder off and tell him how fucking handsome he is and how he must have 30 girlfriends. I did this to a dude once and it turns out this AMOG wasn't really an AMOG after all. He was gay and he thought I was hitting on him... | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Are there any guides to Facebook/OKCupid/online game?I'll just leave this here | /r/seduction | 25/02/11 03:51 PM |
| 2 | [LR] Home territory is easy pickingscarpet burn sucks Yeah. I fucked a girl on the floor of my office once. I had the worst carpet burn on my knees and it took forever to heal. She even had some rug burn on her back. I would have went for the classroom fuck, but I like sneaking around and banging girls where you aren't supposed to. It's awesome. But since you've done it in a classroom already, I guess it's time to move on and try to bang her somewhere even weirder. Broom closet, maybe? I got kicked out of a bar a couple weeks ago … | /r/seduction | 25/02/11 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Last night, after a few bottle of wine, my bro texted me and said, "Losing AFC status is like discovering you're in the Matrix"I couldn't even read past the first two paragraphs. This sounds like the insane ramblings of a madman. Instead of posting this you could have been out trying to fingerbang some girls. why is this the top post? | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 09:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Turning up the heat. Literally.these go up to 11 | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Can someone please help me (Dire need of help)http://www.reddit.com/r/Askseddit/ | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 06:48 AM |
| 5 | REMINDER: David Wygant Q&A Session TONIGHT at 7PM PST!! DON'T MISS IT!!Never | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 03:15 AM |
| 20 | [FR] Turning up the heat. Literally.The first paragraph had me hooked. Great FR man. One of the most entertaining I've read here on Seddit. The heat trick is a fantastic move, and I've used it before. The couch in my bedroom is right by a heater, so when it's winter I crank the heat up to 11 and it's not long before those winter clothes come off, unprovoked. My roommates hate when I do that though, but they know the deal. Great work | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 03:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] She got away from me. Where did I go wrong?lol Noob forgot to hog-tie her in the trunk. You need to next this victim and go kidnap 10 other women and keep those FRs coming! | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 08:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting Punched and Still Picking Up Girlsyeah. Even if he didn't run away there isn't much I could have done since I was bleeding profusely and couldn't see out of my left eye. Wouldn't have been much of a fight... unless I was like Brad Pitt in Fight Club, in the basement of Lou's Tavern, bleeding all over Lou the owner. "You don't know where I've been, Lou!!" | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 05:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] asked her out. But like all girls I fall for, she already has a BFthis is not a field report. go hit on 10 other women. Write a full report on it. Get back to us. downvoted for being a whiney bitch about it | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Define creepyIf you don't notice creepy people, you're probably the creepy guy | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 08:56 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Getting Punched and Still Picking Up GirlsHere you go | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 08:21 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Getting Punched and Still Picking Up GirlsHere you go. For science! | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Seddit's response to 'you're the woman' shit tests?"Fuck you" Of course, in a playful and high value tone | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 05:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Mission 21: Poison GirlsHoly shit. I have family members who are/were alcoholics and I've seen that shit bring out the worst in people. You seem like a good dude who just tries to do the right thing but it gets you into shit that you don't need to deal with. At some point you have to just cut ties when it's affecting your life. Also, I would have told that cab driver to go fuck himself. There's NO WAY I would clean her mess out of his cab. Her mess/His Cab. That does not involve me at all. In fact, I would have just we… | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 05:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting Punched and Still Picking Up GirlsI agree with you that violence is never the answer. I mean, I could have been knocked out and smashed my head on the ground and could have died. It's not likely, but it CAN happen. I didn't file a report. The girl wont give up his name, and I don't know who he is. I could file a report just to have it on record, but that would waste about 3 hours of my time. Normally, this might get him caught if I lived in Smalltown, USA. But I live in NYC, and the NYPD isn't going to waste their time looking f… | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Refresher on Passing Shit Tests - Agree and Amplify and WHY IT WORKSAsking what you do for a living isn't a shit test. | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 02:49 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Virgin/Shy college guy # and K-close with hottest girl at the partyif a girl ever asks you to do something crazy and offensive, she's testing your frame. It's a shit test to see if you're really confident or a little monkey boy who will do whatever she asks. You did the right thing by not doing it. Keep the stronger frame and ignore the shit tests | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 12:07 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Getting Punched and Still Picking Up GirlsI feel like a boss. I was just approached on the street again. I'm rarely approached. | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 06:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Went Out Not Expecting Anything, Wound Up Getting 2 #sI would have tried for the threesome pull with the injured girl and her roommate. Sounds like they were into you. You should have at least hung out with them for a bit and maybe even banged one. You got a number, so keep up on it. Same thing with the two girls you drove home. You definitely would have gotten laid by at least one of them. I have to do like a dozen approaches to get the results you got. Girls are GIVING you their number and INVITING YOU IN! I have to throw down serious game to get… | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 09:28 AM |
| 1 | First day at work FRhighschool girls have nothing good to talk about. I mean, they're in highschool. All they talk about is who is hot, who fucked who, and who has drugs. Keep at it though. The more you talk to girls they easier it gets. | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 09:22 AM |
| 15 | What is the sexiest cologne/perfume to smell on a male or female?I wear Sex Panther Cologne. 60% of the time, it works EVERY TIME. | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 09:16 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Getting Punched and Still Picking Up GirlsI've only told a few people what really went down. Others hear it from word of mouth. Others, I've used so far: 1) Attacked by monkeys 2) Skydiving. The parachute failed and all I suffered was a black eye. 3) "Some jealous dude" Feel free to give me some more ridiculous ones. I'd love to use them. EDIT: I even came up with an opener that I want to field test: Approach a girl, look at her in her eyes. Let her see my face and stitches and black eye. Then ask her "What the hell happened to your fac… | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 08:35 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Getting Punched and Still Picking Up GirlsYeah he sure can hit. My friend got a punch to the back of the head. Neither of us saw him coming, or know who got hit first. Plus, when you get sucker punched you don't even see it coming so you don't have time to move, react, or block. You're wide open. I figured it was a relevant post. I tried to AMOG a dude and he got violent. Like I said, I wasn't going to post it but I felt inspired by Tofu's post. I read a FR the other day where some dude almost got into a fight with a biker dude. Not coo… | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 08:11 AM |
| 5 | Plea to seddit - PLEASE READHere you go. I was inspired by your post | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Nick Savoy Love Systems PUA Q&AThis question isn't specifically about seduction, but now that you're a little familiar with Seddit, do you see yourself reading Seddit and posting in the future and leaving comments on other posts and field reports? | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 04:51 AM |
| 8 | Nick Savoy Love Systems PUA Q&AThanks Savoy Just curious. Have you ever been involved in physical violence during a pickup? From jealous/angry males or females? And how did (or would) you handle the situation | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Facebook game?why not? You're an alpha male who gets tons of girls' numbers. You'll call her when you get around do it, just as she did to you. also, girls have shown me their facebook inboxes. There are literally hundreds of messages from chumps that they don't check. Don't take it personal if yours gets lost in the mix | /r/seduction | 14/02/11 02:28 PM |
| 4 | What are some unique ways to ask a girl to be your girlfriend?that's too outdated. He needs to write down on a piece of paper: "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" and have the options "Yes", "No", and "Maybe". Then, like a boss, have his friend hand it off to her in class and have him say "kelpmeout wanted me to give this to you" | /r/seduction | 14/02/11 08:30 AM |
| 18 | After a good date, I made a move on a girl and it abruptly ended the nightAwkward Kiss Achievement Unlocked! Do a google search for The DiCarlo Escalation ladder. There should never be a point during the date where you are awkwardly standing there waiting for a kiss. It should be a smooth escalation throughout the night where the kiss "just happens". Sounds like she's a bit shy, and it could have went smoother, but I think you did fine. Just don't shout "I had a good time" as she's running off. It looks desperate. | /r/seduction | 13/02/11 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Dear seddit, can you help me with my one-itis?I understand that this isn't your regular seddit post No, this is pretty regular. In fact, so regular we made a subseddit for it. Try /AskSeddit This subreddit is for FR's, field tested techniques, etc. Normally, I'd say "grow a pair of balls and go hit on 10 girls". However, I was watching an RSD video last night and they said something very profound that I'm going to share with you: "In order to attract that 'One Special Girl', you have to be able to attract ALL the girls." Let that one marina… | /r/seduction | 13/02/11 09:29 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Subway Day-gameGood job playing the logistics in approach 3, where you found out what stop she was getting at and timed your number close perfectly. If she said no, it wouldn't be an awkward ride (and if the train gets stuck between stations you could be there for a while), and if she says yes than you still had time to get extra rapport with her. Great FR. Analyzing where you went wrong is key. You write well and it was interesting. | /r/seduction | 11/02/11 06:54 AM |
| 1 | For the last time: Negging is NOT teasing a woman or insulting her.I get what a neg is, I'm not a noob. I'm just saying that it has to come from a place of sincerity. A lot of new PUAs will start negging when they don't have to, just because they learned that its what they "should" do, as if it's "part of the process". And girls pick up on it if it's contrived, and they think you're saying it to piss them off. Then it becomes insulting. I usually don't neg, but I have used stuff like "You need chapstick" and "your hair smells like cigarettes", but I was being h… | /r/seduction | 11/02/11 06:12 AM |
| 0 | For the last time: Negging is NOT teasing a woman or insulting her.Negging has quickly become an outdated pickup technique. Girls pick up on it and it comes across as insincere and try-hard. I find playful teasing to be more effective, unless my "neg" is sincere. For example, I told a girl "fuck you" the other day and she gave me her number, but I was seriously telling her to fuck off. basically, don't neg unless you seriously mean it. | /r/seduction | 11/02/11 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Q & A?I'm just breaking your balls. I actually dig your posts and I'm not the one downvoted you. Just saying. | /r/seduction | 11/02/11 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Q & A?u mad? | /r/seduction | 10/02/11 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Is she flirting with me or just being nice? How can you tell?all your base are belong to me | /r/seduction | 10/02/11 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Best friend.almost everybody I meet is better looking, smarter, etc. I still get more girls than them. Don't let them be a burden on your game. | /r/seduction | 09/02/11 11:00 PM |
| 4 | [FR] You never know what you will find until you go over there."Blow me or blow me out" I live by that philosophy. Go for the gold! I hope they blew you... Edit: added link | /r/seduction | 09/02/11 02:25 AM |
| 7 | Awesome in real life - unresponsive to text messages... anyone else encounter this before?more like the one-itus | /r/seduction | 09/02/11 02:23 AM |
| 24 | Awesome in real life - unresponsive to text messages... anyone else encounter this before?in that case, and I'm not trying to sound like a dick, you need to get over yourself and face the facts that not every girl is going to bang you. She doesn't care about those games because she's not intetested | /r/seduction | 09/02/11 01:09 AM |
| 7 | Awesome in real life - unresponsive to text messages... anyone else encounter this before?you obviously are new at this. Girls do this all the time. And your text game is pretty weak too. Sounds like you made a new friend though. read the sidebar and try other girls ---------> | /r/seduction | 09/02/11 01:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Winning the Body Language Battle - #Closetoo much push, not enough pull. Granted, with a girl like this you need more push than pull. But when she got serious with you, you pushed again when you should have pulled. I would have upped my kino at that point and given her a playful hug and said something like "aww you're a nice girl but I think we should just be friends". It sends mixed signals that keeps them guessing. | /r/seduction | 09/02/11 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if I fucked up, but at least I got over approach anxiety.Im doing pickup because of a disastrous LJBF experience aren't we all... | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 11:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)in your first sentence you mention friendship. I'm trying to avoid the friendship frame, although teasing her about it, like philosaraptor said, is probably a good idea. You seem to stand by your method, and while I'm intrigued by it, I am still a bit skeptical. I've never seen you post on this subreddit. Just curious as to who you are and your experience with pickup. I know this subreddit has attracted the attention of a few mPUA's, and I'm wondering if you're one of them. I only ask this becau… | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 06:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)not really sure of the logic behind this, and it seems like going backwards and not keeping my eye on the goal. I didn't downvote you, but this seems to be missing the point a bit. Why focus on her friend and my friend? | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 05:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)I wasn't revealing any game. The bitch shield destroyer isn't a routine, per se. It's more like understanding why she acts that way, and why you don't buy it. | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 05:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)no she's attracted, and she's actually not a bitch. I stated she was actually very nice at the bar. However, she was shit testing me to make sure I'm congruent with my frame, which I passed | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 05:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)I wouldn't really consider that bitch destroyer "talking about pickup material" It's more of a DHV that shows you're socially calibrated and not afraid of hot girls who act like a bitch | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 05:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)this is good advice. I'm going to have to try this. Thanks dude | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 05:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)it's quick compared to the rest of my FRs | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 04:56 PM |
| 1 | A call for a PU with appreciation of consequences [mini-FR]fact that I'm going to see both of them in class precludes me from getting rid of her, which would have been easy enough. I confound this limitation in my head. Exactly. It's a limitation in your head. You think the douchebag who probably went home to bang her that night cares about consequences? I don't think so. | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Mixer on Thursday - What do I need to do?I've never really been able to use what I read here in the real world, for various reasons (objectifying women, insincerity, etc). However, I've never gotten laid That attitude will never get you laid. You don't have to be insincere and objectify women to get laid. Just stop being a supplicating pussy and stop putting up with their bullshit and putting their pussy on a pedestal. Read the sidebar and work on inner game issues ----------> | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 07:30 AM |
| 1 | An [FR] with a PunchlineDon't let that discourage you from talking to girls and writing FRs. Thankfully I have not been slapped or punched by a girl during a pickup, considering the kind of shit I've been getting away with recently. I'm going to assume this is rare and you just so happened to be at the wrong place at the wrong time. Next time, just remember what Mr. Miyagi taught you. "Paint the fence. Wax on/Wax off. (sorry, I had to) | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 07:20 AM |
| 4 | Not sure if I fucked up, but at least I got over approach anxiety.I completely forgot seddit and pickup tips to build comfort first Woah buddy. Slow down. You do NOT want to build comfort first. That's the express train to The Friend Zone. You always want to attract first. Attract first, then comfort, then seduce. For example, you should attract in class and ask for the study "date", then attract and build comfort during the actual date, and eventually "seduce". But you seemed to do well and your attitude towards your progress speaks volumes. It only gets easi… | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 06:23 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)You're right. I just posted something about the "don't fuck it up mentality" and it's creeping in with this girl. I just need to keep my frame and go for the day 2. If she says no, then "next!" | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 06:11 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)I looked it up. Yeah, she seems that way. I know I could close her if I get her on a day 2, or at least get a day 3. The only problem is getting her on that day 2. I'll probably avoid text and instead (gasp) CALL her. She needs to hear my voice again so I can verbally assault her. thanks brother | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 06:05 AM |
| 6 | Help me Seddit - you're my only hope. Should I do a bootcamp to break free of my inhibitions?This is free and it will get you over your approach anxiety. Like you said, you're not bad with women and you get laid. So why drop 2k on a boot camp when all you need to do is plow through your AA? 2k isn't going to solve that. The only thing that will is beat it is facing your fears and just start talking to EVERYBODY. | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 05:54 AM |
| 3 | HB9(10 maybe, I don't see anything wrong) f-close, now what?Agreed. The "I hope I dont fuck it up" mentality is a terrible mentality to have. It changes how you act, so you dont "fuck it up" instead of running normal game, and you don't even realize it. It's like the silent killer. | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 05:36 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Melting the Bitch Shield (plus text game)Yeah I'm not used to tests of this caliber. Lots of shit tests. Not 100% sure on how to carry this one to day 2. I know I'd have a great day 2 with her, but getting to that point I think is going to be tough. | /r/seduction | 08/02/11 05:19 AM |
| 5 | [Female FR #2] Being in state leads to sort-of K-Close with moderately hard-to-get typegreat FR, LadyPUA. We should have sex sometime. Or you can be my wingwoman. Whatever. | /r/seduction | 07/02/11 09:52 PM |
| 1 | [Long & Descriptive FR] Working with state, dancing, K-close, dealing with AMOG, progress.Wingwomen are awesome. Use them to your advantage, they are usually more than wlilling to help. But don't forget that you should help them too. It's even a good disqualifier. I'm still trying to crack the code on winging with a woman but I've learned a lot so far. and great FR too. I like the details, it makes it better to read. I try to remember as much as possible for my FRs and they tend to get long as well, but fuck it. It's your story, bro. I liked how you described getting in state as well… | /r/seduction | 07/02/11 04:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Met girl at an event, got a good cocky/funny drunk on, f-close + I'm a scumbag.the gay disqualifier is great. I use it often and if you do it right, the girls will try to get even more sexual with you. Good job and great FR. And you aren't a scumbag, I've had girls drop the BF-bomb after sex as well. Just means that their bf is a chump. Good work. | /r/seduction | 06/02/11 09:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Wing-Woman, The Pickup Artist, and "I'm Gay"Thanks man Was the brunette intentionally trying to CB you up until the point she asked you to leave? I could tell that there was something she didn't like about me or trust about me. She was friendly at first, but after I started flirting with her friend and she was flirting back, she just tried to take control and distract the blonde girl and leave me out of the conversation. Not even look at me. I would eventually take back control and it would go back and forth. A wingman would have been goo… | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 05:58 AM |
| 5 | A few questions for seddit vets1 and 2: Here 3: It's not about pretending to be somebody else. Maybe some people do, and that's fine if they want to do is get laid. I don't judge. But you're right, they probably can't put up the act for long and hence don't get into LTR's, mostly by choice. But it's more about not being such a supplicating pussy and being confident who YOU are and fuck what everybody else thinks. Show your best qualities to their fullest and be accepting of your flaws and own that shit. That's attractive. 4) … | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 09:44 AM |
| -2 | She is pretty much explaining how we work. Possible Seddit AnthemNot a bad song. But please don't clog up the front page with this stuff | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Climbed out of friend zone, now I need helpHere's what I don't get: You stopped paying attention to her, texted less, and she confessed she missed you. So now you're seeing her almost every day and you're wondering how much to text and how much attention you should give her? Why not just keep doing what you've been doing. It's obviously working. You're one-itus is crushing you and you'll be headed back to the friend zone by seeing her every day and texting her all the time. Just keep doing what you're doing and stop worrying about her. I… | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 07:48 AM |
| 1 | The effect of a touchThis is gold. No I'm kidding. It's pickup basics. Check the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 06:45 AM |
| 6 | Whats your favorite LMR solver?I like to tell them they're sleeping on the couch or the floor. Sometimes they'll even say "But I want to sleep in the bed" and I'll playfully act pissed off: "You want me to sleep on the floor?!" | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 06:38 AM |
| 1 | I need helpThis is cancer | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:53 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with Seddit?I literally downvoted about 15 posts in the past half hour and then I read this. Every now and then we get a whole lot of cancer that kills this subreddit. Then a post like this comes along and the cancer goes into remission, but then it comes back full force after a couple weeks. Just downvote and ignore. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Need advice after making first contactSidebar bro. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Crushing on a girl who is already seeing someone. What do?Yes, read that, and then leave Seddit forever. Thanks, Delightful White | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:44 AM |
| 4 | "I don't want this to be a one night stand."actually, I steer clear of all women, no matter what age, who are "ready to settle down" Amen. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Do You Ever Call Twice?That's why they have caller ID. If you call and they don't answer, they know where to find you if they feel like talking to you. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:30 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Solo Sarging in NYCI recalled a recent FR where the OP said "I'm gay". I gave it a shot, said "I'm actually gay", and BOY did that kill the set....to which I desperately respond "HAHA I'm kidding!" haha. I think you're referring to my FR. You're obviously doing it wrong. You need to say it like you're serious and then continue on the conversation or start a new one, like you never even said it. You want them to WONDER whether or not you were serious. You accomplish this by stating "I'm gay" and then ignoring it an… | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Roll Call for NYC Sedditors - Let's get this lair up and runningset up a subseddit. I'll join. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 02:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] More Wing-Women!yeah it's a fantastic book. It really gave me perspective on how far you can take your game and really got me pushing the boundaries and trying crazy shit. And it's working! | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 08:22 PM |
| 5 | How to keep your facebook profile attractive.I wrote a very detailed guide to facebook and how to get girls numbers with it a few months ago. Just sayin... | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 07:01 PM |
| 3 | [FR] More Wing-Women!I didn't want to throw my friends GF on the HB scale, but yeah she's pushing 9. She's a sexy little 22 year old who likes to party. She's a firecracker. None of my friends know I'm into PUA stuff. I know he's not a sedditor because he's retarded with computers. He's sort of a natural though. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 05:39 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Bouncing around Tokyo, gave up on game and managed an f-close after I stopped trying.Never did have that cup of tea. Awesome. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 05:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR] More Wing-Women!HB8 was in 100% dance mode. It was hard to get her to respond to anything I was saying. She would just smile or nod her head. She didn't stop dancing the whole time I was there. I'm realizing that I need to work on extracting. Definitely. I do OK for the most part but it's weak compared to the rest of my game. I'm in the middle of an audio book by Brad P about club game. Some good stuff in there as well. This dude is the shit. I highly recommend "The Adventures Of Brad P". You can google it and … | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 05:01 AM |
| 8 | [FR] More Wing-Women!He didn't mind. We used to go out and hit on girls all the time until I moved to the city. I knew he would be cool with it and I got along with his girlfriend right from the start, so I knew neither of them would mind. I even reassured them that I'm not trying anything sexual and it's strictly for me to get with other girls. And I didn't steal her for the night. I borrowed her for a little bit. I share. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Ignoring the self promotion, this guy does seem to have a point.I stopped reading it at #4 when he started talking about his book. But the guy does make a few solid points. Especially about the over-consumption of theory and not practicing and the overall commercialization of pickup. Don't get me wrong, I've bought into it and read tons of shit over the years. But I've spent these years practicing as well and calibrating the theory to be congruent with my personality. Doing this, you will eventually develop your own way of doing things. You won't even have t… | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 02:58 AM |
| 2 | First [FR]: Hello World.You did the right thing by staying there when she told you to "fuck off". Your first instinct is to get out as fast as possible, but you need to stand your ground. You kept talking to "A" which was good. If you walk away with your head down, you end up looking like a chump to both girls. Also, with the boyfriend, it's not a mistake to apologize. Especially if the dude looks like he's ready to kick some ass. Don't be a bitch about it, but it's ok to say "Sorry man, I didn't realize she was taken.… | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 11:44 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Old demons, new insights, no girls, but progress.Great FR dude. You definitely seemed like the life of the party. Definitely somebody that I'd like to party with. The vuvuzela part is awesome! Good for you getting out of your comfort zone. She was yelling for me to follow, clawing onto me, but I was cool letting her go. I need to #-close more, and I need more situational awareness to better calibrate This is key dude. One thing I've learned recently is to number close as soon as possible just in case you get cockblocked by her friends or you s… | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 11:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First FR, three #closes. BOOM! *Ari Gold voiceI started to use moves I seen in VH1 pickup artist season 2.. It was unoriginal and she felt it. Don't do this. That's what happens when you use shit you've seen on TV. Just curious, what "moves" exactly? Overall I think you did great. You were making sure that YOU were having a good time, and it spread like a virus to those around you. You were giving off good vibes all night and people enjoyed your company. That's where real success lies. Congrats on the 3 numbers. | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 09:24 PM |
| 0 | Second date, Just found this sub-reddit, could you give me some adviseWrong subreddit. Still, I suggest you read the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 10:31 PM |
| 3 | First [FR]. Fuck yeah!"I am not that kind of girl" and I said "That's cool" and went back to the dance floor and danced with some other girls. FTFY | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 09:00 PM |
| 3 | An analogy for canned material vs. being a naturalAnother point about comedians: When they write jokes, they perform them at different clubs to different crowds. If a joke works great at 1 venue and not at another one, they will rework the joke until it's funny EVERYWHERE. Kind of like a routine, if you use them. If it doesn't work one night, re-work the routine and try again somewhere else until it works great. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 08:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Wing-Woman, The Pickup Artist, and "I'm Gay"I feel silly critiquing someone with waaaaaay more game than me Thats why I write these. One reason is because I enjoy writing, it's a hobby of mine. Another reason is because it helps me recap what I did right, and what I did wrong. And the final reason is so people can critique it, no matter what level they're at. Thanks for the input. OK, I'm going to pretend to tickle you, and you have to make Tickle-Me-Elmo noises." I don't know if that would work out well either. I went sexual with her pre… | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 08:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Wing-Woman, The Pickup Artist, and "I'm Gay"Dude, the Horse Girl opener is MONEY. First time ever using it and it worked great. I'm sure there's a way you can reformat it to work for you in Japan. Let me know how it works out. I can feel your positivity and energy through the FR. That's the real source of success that everyone needs to take from this. As long as YOU are having a great time, attraction will come naturally. That's how I've been working recently. I make sure that I'm having fun. And if I'm having fun, anybody who is within r… | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 08:29 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The Wing-Woman, The Pickup Artist, and "I'm Gay"Solo nights are when I have the most fun. I think it's because there's not that social pressure of "embarrassing" your friends or whatever. I don't think I would have gotten away with that "pickup artist" move if I was with friends. I like the way you hopped around so many sets. I have to do that more; I have a tendency to get stuck with people. I've been reading that a lot of the mPUA's will approach a set, create strong attraction, and then bail on the set at a high point. They'll approach ano… | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 08:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Wing-Woman, The Pickup Artist, and "I'm Gay"Stork has it right. When you're in a set, you need to be in control of the conversation. If not, the girls will talk to each other and leave you out of it, looking like a chump. So you basically interrupt them with "aaaaaaaaand now back to me..... So dig this..." and start a new conversation and control it. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Pickup while doing an activity you're bad atI would normally go the exact opposite and act like I'm the shit even though I'm not, but both ways are good as long as you maintain a strong confident frame. Calling your self a celebrity for being the worst at something is actually very confident. Being able to express a weakness in yourself but re-framing it to be a positive is attractive. It really doesn't matter what you say, as long as you maintain a strong frame. (pun intended) | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Pickup while doing an activity you're bad atWhenever I participate in an activity that I'm bad at, whether or not there are girls there, I will always go overly cocky with it and act like I'm the best. Then it's funny when you do poorly, and you can make up funny excuses like "the wind took that one" and "the sun is in my eyes". Those are especially funny if you're indoors. Stuff like this always gets a good laugh and you still maintain a confident attitude about it. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 09:12 AM |
| 3 | [FR] How policing the line for the bathroom led to a k-closeI love how all you have to do is smile and guys approach you and buy you drinks. It must be easier being a girl, but you have the sexual orientation obstacle to climb over and you're trying to get with girls so I know it's still not that easy for you. It's a tough world out there... And great job of being assertive with the 9. Did you get a phone number from her? | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 09:07 AM |
| 5 | How I became a natural over the past yearGood post. But let's see some field reports. We need to read more FR's from more experienced guys. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 08:56 AM |
| 1 | How much of the PUA related stuff do you doubt?They'll be in a crowded street full of people, but we'll be able to hear perfect audio from many angles. It's called a lavalier mic. And yes, it can pick up other people. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 08:51 AM |
| 20 | [FR] The Wing-Woman, The Pickup Artist, and "I'm Gay"Bartender laughs and offers me a free shot but tells me we have to do it with “that girl” and points to a girl who is by herself a few seats away (he does this all the time! He’s fucking awesome!). He knows her. She’s listening and watching, I’m already socially proofed. I take a deep disappointed breath and look at her and say “Ughh, ok. If we have to…” I walk over to her and take a seat. From further away, she seemed like a nerdy 6. But when I got up close, I realized she was SEXY AS HELL, a s… | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 07:42 AM |
| 2 | So, I've attempted the overall method here as highschool student...There is a such thing as "over-gaming" girls. When I was in highschool and I first started studying pickup I had a bad case of over-game. I would crank up the cocky, funny, and flirty up to 11 and still not get laid. I noticed an improvement on how girls responded to me, but I was totally over-gaming when I didn't need to. Which is fine when you first start. You need to break the "threshold" and then ease up on your "gaming" until you reach a point where you're successful. But, you're young, you… | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 03:54 AM |
| 1 | NYC - who wants some practice this weekend?Set up a lair like this one I have few things going on this weekend but I'll wing you one of these days. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Had a date, now being called 'bud.' Did I blow it?I've been banging this girl who calls me "dude" and "buddy". I see no problem here | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Cute asian girl in class seems interested in me - how should I proceed?I thought you were being facetious. Sorry, disregard my last comment. Have some upvotes. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Cute asian girl in class seems interested in me - how should I proceed?Thanks for this, mod. He's doing his job. Read the sidebar | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 03:30 AM |
| 10 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)Hmm.. I may have to field test this one. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Need help closing?Magic Bullets is an "updated" Mystery Method. I don't know the story, but Mystery Method is now owned by Savoy, and Magic Bullets is an updated version of it.... or something. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:36 PM |
| 4 | Need help closing?turn the conversation from being friendly to actually flirting. You should be flirting with her right away and initiating kino as soon as possible. When I approach and open a girl/group, I'll always touch their shoulder or upper arm. It's harmless kino and actually makes them more comfortable with you and willing to talk. I kino as soon as I approach and always keep the conversation playful and flirty. I like to tease the girls (about anything), or I'll give them "roles" to play ("oh, you're the… | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:32 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Tokyo seddit makes an inaugural run. f-closeThis field report is awesome. I need to start a NYC lair or something. Sounds like you guys have some tight game. I love the move where you deleted the email from the dudes phone. You have some brass balls, my friend. Also, great job winging each other. Looking forward to more FRs | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 03:58 AM |
| 2 | [mini FR] Damn you Seddit, you made me confidentNot everything is a shit test. I think you went wrong with trying to convince her to come meet you. She gave you a hint with the boyfriend line, whether it was true or not. Your reply came off as kind of needy. Then the "cute climbers" line was the nail in the coffin, you came off a bit desperate and try-hard. Only remedy is to stop texting her. You officially destroyed any attraction with her via text. That's why we say it's bad. Damn you Seddit Seddit didn't do anything. This is all on you. Ju… | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 03:26 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Gaming Her With TextNot putting anyone down, but this remind me of my two male friends (straight) who would text each other at parties while sitting a foot away from each other. They would giggle like fucking idiots. Haha. Yeah that sounds pretty gay. However, it's way different when it's with a girl and it's laced with sexual undertones. It sounds childish because it is. But for some reason it's great at building attraction and sexual tension. Try it sometime, you'll be pleasantly surprised by the results. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 01:16 AM |
| 2 | [FR #1] #-close and day-2 setup (college bar)Great report. The part about dancing with the hottie's friends is a great point that's not really brought up much here on seddit. They ALL need to have fun, and you brought enough fun for everybody. Also, fantastic text game. You controlled the frame the whole time, cut off boring threads, and made the date. AFC's should be taking notes from you. Well done. Can't wait to hear about the day 2 | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 01:08 AM |
| 49 | "IAMA mPUA" Interview Series #1 Questions - Savoy of Love Systems, ASK AWAY!!What's your most memorable pickup and why? | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 12:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Gaming Her With Textyeah I find doing things like saying we're going to make out but then taking it back really confuses the shit out of the girl in a good way. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 08:18 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Gaming Her With TextI'm yet to have a negative response to doing this. It's only been positive so far. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Seddit 15k Milestone: Introducing two MAJOR new featuresI'd love for the mPUA's to critique some FR's if they have time. Also, request for mPUA if anybody has any connections: Brad P | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 08:33 AM |
| 2 | F-closed, then went beta modeRule 1: never be her "im bored at work" entertainment. You're a busy dude and don't have time for all that. If a girl is constantly texting me, I'll play along for a bit, but I'll literally cut off all further texts with her if it's too much. Just stop responding. I don't have to tell her I'm busy, that pretty much explains it to her. Or if I want to be nice "im getting arthritus from texting you, call me when you get out" or simply "i gotta go. I'll call you later" | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 08:54 PM |
| 5 | F-closed, then went beta modeThis is a classic case of TMT. Too Much Text. Just stop texting her. She will text you because she's wondering about you. Take your time answering her text back. Throw in "meet me at [x place] at [x time]" problem solved | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Help! I'm a 20 y/o college student having trouble with women.I used to be the biggest virgin chump. I said "fuck it" and started approaching. I failed alot. I studied the books and went out and practiced EVERY DAY. Got better and better. Fast forward a few years, I'm getting laid like crazy. 13 lays in 2010 and 4 so far in 2011. Practice, practice, practice | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Help! I'm a 20 y/o college student having trouble with women.I'm saying that life is short and he needs to make moves before it's too late. I read that in Mystery Method and it really hit me hard and got me moving and living life to the fullest. Future is gonna be nuts. I hope so | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with rejectionNo offense, but you sound like you maybe have some personal issues going on in your life that you need to work out before you start thinking about getting into relationships. | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Seddit, what is your fastest pickup story?Honestly it sounds like you were the one getting seduced (: Sort of. I like to think I seduced her with my insanely sexy dance moves. She couldn't resist. Turns out her brother was at the bar. I remember she got a text from him when we were in the cab. She showed me: "Mom and dad aren't paying your rent so you can bang random dudes" Kids. I'm surprised my post is at the top. I'm reading awesome posts about identical twins tagging up on a girl and random threesomes. | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 07:44 PM |
| 14 | Help! I'm a 20 y/o college student having trouble with women.How do I achieve my goals? Grow a pair of balls. If you've read all the intro material and aren't getting any success because you're scared, well then you're going to die a virgin. I'm not trying to be negative, I'm trying to give you a splash of cold water in the face. Here's another splash of water in the face: The average person lives only 28,000 days. That's it. You're 20 years old, how many days is that? How many days do you have left? You need to grow a pair and start approaching women or … | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 07:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR - Day Game, sort of] And a special bonus: My grand introduction to Seddit.You think? Yes. I think it's important to get the number as early as possible. He could have gotten the number and still had another instant-date with her after. There's no reason why he shouldn't have gotten it. Sure, he can get it another time, but why? There's no reason for it. What if some alpha douche does the same thing to her tomorrow in another class, and number closes her? And that spam filter is a bastard | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 06:31 AM |
| 22 | Seddit, what is your fastest pickup story?I was at a bar alone. I went to see my friends band play. It just so happened a college students bday party was there. The place was packed. I went to the dance floor and danced by myself for 5 minutes. Out of nowhere, a cute college girl comes up to me and starts grinding with me. She takes me off the dancefloor, makes out with me, and drags me out of the bar. I ask her "Where are you taking me?".... she says "my apartment". We hopped in a cab and went to her place and fucked. Total time with h… | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 06:18 AM |
| 2 | [FR - Day Game, sort of] And a special bonus: My grand introduction to Seddit.Welcome to Seddit. Great job man. Definitely should have number closed her. She was giving you some sure signs of interest. You could have even gone on another instant-date and venue changed with her to a coffee shop or something. "Snow always makes me want to drink hot cocoa. Lets go." and just lead her there. The more venues you go to in a given day/night, the longer it feels like she's known you and becomes comfortable with you. By the way, I think your FR got caught in the spam filter. Messa… | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 03:25 AM |
| 1 | confusing female psychologyI'm sorry to hear that, man. But that's what was going to happen eventually, just longer and more drawn out. If she likes some other dude and your the 2nd place prize, that's not any situation you want to be in. Well, as they say, "Go fuck 10 other women". But on some real talk, you did good by not putting up with her shit and not being the 2nd place trophy. It's fine if you didn't want an LTR with her and just wanted to bang her. But according to you, you really liked this girl so I'd say it wa… | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 03:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Most fun game of Red Light-Green Light ever!I agree with you that he was over thinking it. However, this does sound like a preemptive LMR destoryer. He could be on to something here. | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 12:36 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Most fun game of Red Light-Green Light ever!Don't worry about writing long FR's. Just write as much as you can remember. Field Reports should be more for you to analyze what you did, and then to have others comment/critique it. My reports can get long at times, but I try to keep them entertaining as well. I think you did a good job of that too. Good work, btw. I'd love to hear more. | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 12:33 AM |
| 6 | How to handle girls leaving abruptly."Hey, before you go put your number in my phone" Also sounds like you have some cockblock issues. You need to game the friends as well as the target. Her friends need to like you, or else they'll pull the friend away when they want to leave, no questions asked. | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with rejectionI'm kinda bummed. It happens. Don't dwell on it. Go out and practice some more. That will make you forget about her real quick. | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 12:15 AM |
| 3 | [FR #3] First sarging, solo. Wow, it's hard.Keep up the good work dude. Don't give up. I go out solo pretty often. Most of my friends have girlfriends, so I don't have a choice. It's hard sometimes to get in state, but I end up gaming a lot better on my own. A few tips: When you come into the bar/club/whatever, immediately open somebody. Anybody. Be it a group of girls, a group of guys, the bouncers, the bartenders, etc. Just get in a convo ASAP. If you stand around too much without opening, you're going to feel more and more awkward. Jus… | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 12:04 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Opening and Closing the Same Girl Twice by Accident! (Whoops)Hey man, don't worry about the haters. My field reports end up turning into The Player Haters Ball as well. I love your FR's. With all that crazy gaming in the states, I bet you'll clean up in Japan. Have you been reading the Lay Reports? Another good one is The Adventures of Brad P. He's the best. | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 11:54 PM |
| 3 | I need some pro-tipsnow you're thinkin'! | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 07:13 AM |
| 2 | I witnessed pickup gold in processjust skip comfort all together. It's not always necessary. | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 04:12 AM |
| 8 | "Rejection is good". Explain how this maxim has worked for youIt builds scar tissue. I'm almost immune to blow outs at this point. I'm a follower of the "Blow me or blow me out" philosophy. Seems to work well for me. | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 03:26 AM |
| 3 | confusing female psychologyShe wants the other guy because he doesn't want her. And here you are, being a supplicating chump who is always there to catch her when she falls. You need to go direct with this girl and lay down the law. If you REALLY like this girl and want an LTR, tell her straight up "I'm not going to be your fail-safe anymore. If you really want this guy, then go be with him, and that will be it. I don't have time for games." If she cries and makes up some lame shit, leave the room. You only comfort crying… | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Napalmx uses humor, its super effective! (#-Close)This was a good read. Well done, and good work. Keep on keepin' on. | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 11:49 PM |
| 2 | F-close then radio silencehttp://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/Before_PU/basic/280.html | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 11:14 PM |
| 1 | so i fucked up and need help, ideas?wow. You sound like a punk bitch. Getting blackout drunk and crying over a girl? She should be crying over you instead. Read the sidebar and move on | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 11:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party GirlsFirst of all, thanks for being a supportive female contributor. We need more of you guys. I think you're right about the "friends" issue being weird, although I have friends who have had experiences with two women at the same time, and those women were indeed friends. really I was seeing how far I could take it just for fun. I knew a threesome would be near impossible. and I usually bring girls to my place anyway, but these 2 particular situations didn't have that option it seems. thanks for the… | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 07:54 PM |
| 7 | Alright I need some help, or an explaination at the very least...lost attraction over the break. Could have been from talking non-stop. You need to give girls a chance to miss you. or maybe she met some other dude. either way, NEXT! | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 05:44 PM |
| 2 | anyone know neil strauss (style) was in beck's 1999 music video for 'sexx laws'?upvote because Beck is awesome | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 07:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party GirlsOn the other hand, it almost seems to miss the point of it all. Maybe it's because I have in my head what seduction should be, and maybe that's my own demons i need to deal with. I used to be the biggest chump. I've been studying this stuff for years, and only recently became pretty successful. I still have a lot to learn, but I'm passed the part of improving my inner game, confidence, self image, blah blah blah. I'm at the point where I can have fun with it, try new things, and be able to blow … | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 07:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party GirlsWait up homie... My Facebook Guide. I don't discount facebook, it's gotten me laid a few times. I use it for mostly expanding my social cirlce and banging girls who are friends with my friends, who I meet in real life first. I don't know anything about google voice to be honest. Seems like a lot of work when all I have to do is walk outside and find another girl. And facebook closing is just a weak close to me. If I can't get at least the number it's almost not worth it to me. To each his own th… | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 07:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party GirlsNot taking any of her info made you look like an uber douche in her eyes most likely. I took her number. It's international though, so I'm not going to call or text. It's like $1.50 per text. fuck that. As far as facebook goes, I hate getting girls facebook as a close. I won't accept it. It's almost worthless. I usually only FB girls that I meet within my social circle (people who are friends with my friends). Did you maintain kino & attraction with the girls right after getting denied the kiss?… | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 06:38 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party GirlsDo you think you should have gone for more comfort? I have no idea, really. It was hard gaming 2 girls at once. I was basically doing what I normally do to one girl, but splitting it up between the two of them. Maybe not enough comfort. I was definitely pumping up the attraction as far as possible. I figured that was the best way to go. Maybe not. | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 06:34 AM |
| 6 | F-close then radio silenceyup. no comfort. attraction -> seduction = one night stand | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 06:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party Girlsin his defense, he finds out about the boyfriends after. There's a couple of FR's where this is the case. I've been in similar situations before where I've slept with girls and then they tell me they say "oh I should probably tell you I have a boyfriend". I would never do that if I had known. I wouldn't do well in a street fight. | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 08:58 PM |
| 5 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party GirlsMight as well, right? Worst case: You get blown out. Best Case: You get blown by 2 chicks. I knew my chances of success were .0001%, but I went for it. Fuck it. If i pulled that off I could die now and die happy. | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 05:03 AM |
| 5 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party GirlsPerhaps I did get greedy. But I'm looking for a bit more excitement in my game anyway. Pulling a threesome on cold approach is probably very close to impossible, but it was fun trying. Twice. Turns out, the Brazilian set was doomed to begin with. They were staying in a hostel with like 10 people, so even if I were to go after one or the other, logistics fuck me in the end. They're tourists, so it would have been a tough pull to get one of them to my house while leaving the other behind. I probab… | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 04:50 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party GirlsDamn. Didn't even think of that at that moment. I don't think it would have worked anyway, but I would have definitely tried if I remembered. There's always next time (I hope!) | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 01:45 AM |
| 9 | [FR] 2 Brazilian Hotties/2 Hot Party GirlsAt this point I have no idea what neighborhood I'm in or where I am exactly. I'm outside the Hostel smoking a cigarette trying to figure out my next move when I spy two party girls walking down the street laughing. Must have just gotten back from a party or a bar. They walk by and I ask them "Do you guys know where I can find cotton candy at this hour?". They look at me weird, start laughing, and start a conversation. They're walking away, and I stay planted like a tree, not moving my body. As t… | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 01:14 AM |
| 2 | [FR] So close, yet so far: Failing to close and random subway girl LMROn the way, I grabbed her hand and led her around a bit. Nice. Nice work. Many people forget power of taking their hand and leading. Girls will instinctively follow your lead, unless you're a creep. Do this more. I've eventually gotten to the point where I can grab a girls hand and lead her to my place and into my bed. | /r/seduction | 16/01/11 05:15 PM |
| 7 | been flaked 3 times in 2 weeks by same girl yet she still shows many IOI'sThis girl is playing games with you, and not in the good way. She's leading you on. And then she has her friend call to bail on you? Sounds like she's not very invested and you should next this girl. If she was really invested in you, she'd get your number from "B" and call you herself. If not, she's being childish. I know you guys are young, but don't put up with that shit. She's playing you. You shouldn't even respond to that shit. I find that disrespectful. How pissed would she be if you had … | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 11:49 PM |
| 4 | This comment made me wonder if Seddit is familiar with this technique.The Kockblock Kids | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How should I have closed? (nightclub and a newbie)exactly what aquestion111 said. It's all about logistics. If you're going for a one night stand or a same night lay, you need to play the logistics. Is this girl attracted enough to go home with me? Are her friends cockblocks? Can we go to her place? My place? My car? The bathroom? You need to take in all these factors. That's why if your looking to get laid that night, it's important to open up as many girls you can and figure out which ones you can sleep with, and which ones you probably cant.… | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 06:40 PM |
| 4 | How should I have closed? (nightclub and a newbie)Dive in to make out? yes Pull her to somewhere quieter? yes Could there have been an F-close with these type of women? yes | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 03:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] More sweet than sexy, but shows PUA isn't all about getting laid.saw a guy she knew there, and he proceeded to buy us drinks I chuckled. I don't see why you should keep playing the friend game. She's obviously into you and wants you to escalate. behaviour are you british? Now i have to read your FR's with an accent... | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Though I feel I did everything right technically, I still think I got the short end of the stick3Me: I clearly said tonight That's good. But you came off as desperate when you asked her another 2 or 3 times to come over. Trying to convince girls to come over or back to your place is the wrong way to go. Then to top it off, you invited a bunch of other girls after her. I don't know how big your highschool is, but keeping a strong social circle and a good reputation about yourself is good game. When she said "tomorrow?" for the 2nd time, I would have simply said "I have plans. Some other tim… | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 07:13 AM |
| 5 | How a tall, good-looking, professional athlete blows a date by being too niceNot at getting pussy. | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 07:02 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A lesson in boldness and text game.I find most girls won't go sexual first. Although, there are girls who are very forward. Without some sort of push from you, a lot of them just won't go sexual. Not that they dont want to or anything, but you're the man and you need to lead. That's why perv bait works great. See my other reply on that. | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 06:45 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A lesson in boldness and text game.Text game is tricky man. I'll be very forward sexually, but only in person. But over text you need slowly make your way in there. I like to throw out some perv bait. Drop an innuendo (NO SMILEYS!!) in one of your texts, or playfully misinterpret something she said as sexual. If she runs with it, push further. It's a lot harder to do via text than in real life. At least, that's what I do, with some great success. My phone is loaded with pics that girls send me. | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 06:35 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A lesson in boldness and text game.I like this text FR. It's well written well and makes a good point. Only if we head back to your place afterwards, I want to make you come again ;-) This came off as creepy as fuck to me. I'm not a girl, but when I read that I cringed a bit. Not only does that not sound sexy, but you added a winking smiley at the end which killed it for me. I don't think she was going to text back. Here's what I love: Hours went by and you did nothing. You said nothing. I'm a huge fan of saying nothing. Then you… | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 06:24 AM |
| 6 | Describe your biggest blowout yet!A friend of mine was hitting on a girl, she was pretty receptive to him. However, her friend (ugly), was left out of the conversation. Being a good wing, I sit down next to the friend (the ugly one), and chat her up a bit. At one point, conversation starts to get dull. I see my friend take his girl to the bathroom, obviously for a quick fuck. In order for the ugly one to not see my friend and his girl go into the bathroom, I distract her and say "I'm being a good wingman." Confused, she asks "Wh… | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 06:06 PM |
| 2 | So hey, does humor work with girls or not?Seriously? Humor is attractive to females. If it wasn't for humor I'd have almost nothing to work with here, and that doesn't say much either. Just don't be the class clown. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 02:18 AM |
| 27 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?Because I am terrible at jokes, I can't even make a girl laugh. I know tons of unfunny people with girlfriends. You don't have to make anybody laugh unless you're a comedian. No woman has any reason to be interested in me, because there is nothing impressive or attractive about me Not gonna get laid with that attitude. "Fake it till you make it" I'm boring and I'm not funny and I have no cool life experiences to share. So get off your ass and go get some experiences dude. accomplished nothing Go… | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 12:36 AM |
| 1 | A very good guide to follow"We are now known as Mr. and Mrs. Lisa Smith". Well played, troll... Well played... | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 12:24 AM |
| 2 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?It really is that easy. Get some fun hobbies or go do some fun things with friends/coworkers. Hasn't anything the least bit exciting happened to you at all in 2011? Or 2010? | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, how do you wear you facial hair?I'm 26 and can barely grow a dirt-stache. So, at least you have genetic excuse. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 12:08 AM |
| 2 | I'd like to thank this communityword | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 12:06 AM |
| 3 | I'm an idiot. Possible to fix?touche | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 08:38 PM |
| 2 | How the hell do you smile?like this Also, I hear good things about thinking of girls masturbating to the thought of you. | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Moment of realisation while chatting to an afc.Awesome | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 07:15 AM |
| 1 | I'm an idiot. Possible to fix?also, I really hope you read this post | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 07:10 AM |
| 2 | I'm an idiot. Possible to fix?For me to even be interested in sleeping with someone, I feel the need to connect with them on some sort of emotional level (beta, I know) There's nothing wrong with that. There's also nothing wrong with having sex with somebody because you're both horny and it's fun. Many relationships start out as "just sex" first. Your problem is that you're thinking too far ahead. Your putting yourself in a relationship mindset with this girl before you even have a solid foundation for a relationship with he… | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 06:40 AM |
| 7 | I'm an idiot. Possible to fix?the topic of random hookups came up and she said that she didn't really do them Probably a lie... No, definitely a lie. She wanted to see what you were going to say I mentioned how I've had opportunities to do so, and I don't really do them either Protip: Don't say anything. Or drop hints, and let her assume. Never directly state that shit like you just did. I'd rather have her wondering, or assuming I hook up, but not really sure. how the hell do I stop displaying these stupid beta traits Stop … | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Applying PUA techniques outside of pickup: selling stuffI used to do sales a couple years ago. You're absolutely right about people being comfortable buying from you. I had clients across state lines who would do business with me (we were a local company) because they enjoyed doing business with me. Not because we gave them any good deals or anything, even though we did give them deals for being repeat customers. I even had a few international clients who would do repeat business with me because they liked me. Also, it's good to be outcome independen… | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How can I have sex with my girlfriend1st of all. Troll. 2nd: You're pressuring your girlfriend to have sex with you. That's the express train to Blue Ballsville. Stop pressuring your girlfriend to fuck you because it's not working, so why keep doing it? Only reason why I'm not directing to immediately to the sidebar is because I feel bad for your girlfriend. 3rd: I'm not going to give you advice on how to de-flower your precious angel, that's not my area. Finally, read the fucking sidebar dude. This isn't relationship advice. | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 07:19 AM |
| 3 | College sedditors, what do you think about hitting on girls in the same class as you?Fuck it, Dude. Let's go bowling. | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Looking for some advice about a relationship with a workmateFrom experience, meeting a girl at work and dating/fucking her while you both work there is fucked. Fucked! Don't do it man. Personal problems drag into work and work problems drag into personal life. Don't leave your job for her either. | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 01:42 AM |
| 4 | College sedditors, what do you think about hitting on girls in the same class as you?dude. You're in college. You should be sleeping with every girl you can. Get them in while you can. Man, if I was still in college... stares off into the distance | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 12:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Agehait's weird, living in NYC I feel like it's the easiest place to pick up girls, even high quality women. They're everywhere. But I've read field reports by mPUA's that say NYC is the hardest. whenever I leave NYC, my game doesn't work as well as it does here. I have to totally recalibrate and I suck. It's the polar opposite for me. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 10:56 PM |
| 2 | [US FR #11] Miami Day One - Being out of state suuuuuuuuucksProtip: There's a BradP field report about sarging in south beach that you may find helpful. He claims new york is the hardest city to game in (I disagree, if you can't get laid here there is something wrong with you). So he had lots of trouble calibrating his game for florida girls. Edit: check p.23 | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Hey there Seddit.Just from the title of your post, I was going to downvote you and tell you to read the sidebar. But I like what you posted, and it was very Alpha to introduce yourself to the group. Good luck, sir. Stick around for a while. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 03:25 AM |
| 1 | A question of morality (and a bit of a FR).this. I want a wing woman | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 02:56 AM |
| 1 | What does seddit think of this opener I thought of?Not sure if this is any good nope. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 01:04 AM |
| 4 | I read 85 pages of magic bullets..I don't feel like my skills have improved at all.Anyway, I don't feel like I have improved skills with women, though granted, I didn't try approaching many... | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 12:55 AM |
| 0 | How to make women buy drinks for you?I think you may be thinking a little too deep into it. I mean, you're just buying him a drink. Though, you have the female perspective (i think) which should be taken lightly, but you make a point. I think it's how he accepts it that makes or breaks him. As you said it, "too eager" Even further, I bet if you offered to buy him a drink and he said "no" and talked to your cute friend instead you'd probably be a little attracted by that. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 12:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)It's something that I've only started doing somewhat recently, and it's only been a positive experience. People are actually really accepting to it. I find throwing in "...and hang out for a bit" as a time constraint probably helps, as people won't think you're going to hang out forever and bother them. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 11:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)why does everybody ask me that? | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 11:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)it seems as if there was no seduction involved for your f-close. Agreed, it may seem that way. It could definitely be a case of "hang around long enough to find a drunk girl to take home with you". I was definitely drunk at this point and honestly don't remember much of the interaction, she didn't seem like a sloppy drunk mess to me, but then again my perception was slightly off. I wish I could remember all the details of that one. That being said, she definitely saw me dancing with at least 3 o… | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 11:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)I don't have anything prepared for when sets don't hook. And it's not the material, because I don't use any. Usually I'll approach direct and introduce myself or just go with something situational. If it doesn't hook, it's never a huge blowout where the chicks are throwing drinks on me and calling me a pervert. People are always expecting the worst possible outcome, but 99.99% of the time it's just a conversation that goes nowhere. So I say "nice meeting you" and bail with a smile. No big deal. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 09:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)he's the boss FTFY | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 08:59 PM |
| 2 | "It’s not that he seduces women. He seduces everyone." (How to get this famous guy's famous charisma.)I've always wanted to stick a cigar in a vagina and smoke it. Some guys get all the luck... | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Hey Seddit: who's the most realistic fictional character on TV/film with the most game?ThrowawayPUA is going to come in here and flip a shit. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Had a great date with HB8.5, but couldn't K-closeThis. Going in for kiss number 2 isn't recommended, unless she's giving you some serious interest. She could be toying with you and making you work for it, and I've had this happen to me before. You need to calibrate your game to know when she's toying with you and not seriously disinterested. From the sounds of it, she wasn't toying with you, but that doesn't mean she's not interested. Also, asking why will never get you the real answer. The real answer usually is "I'm not that attracted to you… | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 07:38 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)Yeah, I'm sure alcohol played a part it in. She didn't seem too drunk, but I definitely was. I don't remember much of that interaction unfortunately, but I couldn't have been with her for more than an hour. It was getting late and I just took her home. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 07:14 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)i think you were the perfect amount of drunk. I think so. I don't really remember too much of it to be honest. But to my knowledge, that's how it went down. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 07:13 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)"it just happened" I don't know actually. We were just dancing and I got a little too close to her. I was kind of drunk. We made out a little bit, but thank god I snapped back into reality. This FR could have ended way different. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 07:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Mission 20: A Cough of CuppeeGood call on keeping the sexual frame. You're at disadvantage when she's behind the bar, which sucks. You can't touch her or get close. I know it's been covered here, but it couldn't hurt being repeated. Watch out for that friendzone, bro. It's a doozy. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 06:55 AM |
| 1 | A Lesson in Body Language: A 5'3" one-eyed, black, jew with the swagger of a much bigger man.Yo holmes, to Bel Air! | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 06:51 AM |
| 8 | How do I go about asking a one night stand to hook up again?"We're hanging out tonight. [place] at [time]" | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 05:49 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)Yeah, I've used HB only because its relevant to this subreddit, but I actually cringe when I type it. I'm going to try and use it less. It's kind of lame and not really relevant unless the girl is a model, a total 10, because you obviously game them a bit different. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 02:39 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)Yeah, sorry for having fun with my friends and singing a funny song. I'll try to tone down the fun next time I'm out. Also, I try to use a thing called humor in my reports so they aren't so boring to read. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 02:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)Haters gonna hate? | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 02:25 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)One of my friends actually said he saw that for the first time that same day. We talked about it and we were singing it all night. Hence, the boss meme. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 02:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)Ha! No, I'm still waiting for my moment to shine. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 01:40 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)Thanks. You know, I was never into dancing until fairly recently. I love it now and have a lot of fun doing it. I'd describe my dancing style as "white guy dancing", but I have so much fun while I'm out there I think it's contagious. I think if I saw video of me dancing I'd be totally embarrassed. But nobody is judging your dancing skills on the dance floor. This isn't You Got Served, and nobody is going to "serve" you and make you a fool for not being as good as them. Just have fun like everybo… | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 01:30 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)Sure thing, boss. You can really tell by my field report that I'm a huge fucking loser. Thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Help, Seddit? Can't even get a # close. (xpost from Relationship_Advice)So if you don't post an FR, how are we supposed to know what you're doing wrong/right? | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Help, Seddit? Can't even get a # close. (xpost from Relationship_Advice)Exactly. This is Seddit. Not Relationship Advice. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 12:56 AM |
| 20 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)What about the asian girl? That was ok? Or hot blonde? Or cute brunette? do those need mentioning either? no, but I did anyway. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 12:42 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Solo in NYC, getting into state, and becoming the life of the partyGood FR dude. Good for you. Getting free drinks is fucking awesome, I love it. It's even better when you can get girls to buy them for you. It usually takes a bit to get warmed up and in state, but you seemed to do well. You should have closed the HB8.5, or at least got shot down. I'd take "I have a boyfriend" over not asking at all, anytime. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Help, Seddit? Can't even get a # close. (xpost from Relationship_Advice)You're AFC, bro. Quit whining. Read the sidebar. Read this post. Go out and game girls. Post a field report. Then you'll get help. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Be Bill Murray on the last day of 'Groundhog Day'Love that movie. So true. | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 11:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Blond Lawyer 7.5 PullSounds like you got some good game, brother. Keep it up and keep posting those FRs! | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 11:15 PM |
| 36 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)I leave the bar and see Gary and Dan across the street on line at the dance club. They’re the next ones in line, so I jump in there like a boss and cut everybody else. Turns out Dan got a ticket for drinking beer on the street, so we didn’t have to bail him out of jail. We get in the club and head to the bar. I immediately open a hot blonde with one of my carelessly delivered situation openers. “You know, the bouncer was saying they’re at capacity, but I’ve definitely seen this place a lot crazi… | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 11:14 PM |
| 8 | All right: for all of you who want to know what I have to say.Cool story, bro! | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 09:11 PM |
| 5 | [FR#2] Holy baby stepsTonight I said "Who am I? Who am I? Who the fuck are you?" With a huge smile on my face. She laughed and said "Kara" and I replied, "Hi Kara, I'm too old for you" I LOVE THIS. | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 09:07 AM |
| 0 | [FR#2] Holy baby stepsDon't struggle to DHV. It should be subtle and you shouldn't really flaunt yourself, or you look tryhard. Your higher values should come out as a byproduct of your conversation, not as a central topic. This. Babysitter? You're a single dad? Think about how you're going to handle logistics if you manage to get a girl back to your place and you have to deal with the babysitter or children. This? | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Gaming people you don't want to sleep with: what's your story?When have you applied your skills outside of the realm of HBs? All the time. I get free food from the pizza dude around the corner from my building. Free drinks at bars. It's great for getting a job. It's even good to use in the office, as long as you tone down the sexuality. I've met some really cool random people and had a whole lot of fun/strange/amazing/terrible experiences. It's fucking great. Great social skills anywhere and everywhere is invaluable. | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 08:30 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Actress #-Closes Me, I Blow It... Did I fail a shit test?Good FR. Your game at the airport seems pretty good to me here, and I think you focus too much on whether or not you're saying or doing the "right" things. I don't know if you do this while you're in set, but try not to over analyze things too much in set because it'll knock you out of frame. Also, always kino. I think the shopping text was OK, but maybe kind of weird that you saw what she was doing on her computer. Instead, I see an opportunity to throw in something funny and a bit sexual to se… | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 08:00 AM |
| 1 | target asked "Would you bang me?" what would seddit say?"Will you make me a ham sandwich after?" | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 07:06 AM |
| 2 | What does a 19 year old do who doesn't have many close female friends and lives in a very boring town?travel | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 01:54 AM |
| 9 | target asked "Would you bang me?" what would seddit say?Oh, I already upvoted the top comment. It's great. Quick story: I was at a party once talking with a girl (a friend) and another friend of hers who I didn't know. They were talking about a guy she liked who didn't want to bang her. It was one one of those "caught in the middle of a conversation I don't really want to be a part of" situations. She said something like "I mean, come on, wouldn't you bang me?". Granted she was hot, I did want to bang her, and I did in fact bang her that night. But t… | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 01:35 AM |
| 3 | target asked "Would you bang me?" what would seddit say?depends on how hot she is hot: "thats gross", "dont make me vomit" or "probably, but I'd never call you again". Something along those lines, but make it funny. Like you're doing her a favor by banging her everybody else: probably something funny like 1throwaway says. That's hilarious | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 11:06 PM |
| 1 | FR: He thought I was cute!Congrats on the number close. Now here's where I'm going to verbally berate you. No, I wont do that. But your FR kind of sucks, in terms of content. Tell us how you went in there and owned the bar like a boss. Or tell us how you just sat there looking all hot and all these AFC's kept creeping up on you and WHY you weren't attracted to them, or why you were. How did the bouncer approach you, what did he say, what did you say? These are all important in Field Reports, it's going to help you as wel… | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Ok Seddit, how do you personally think race factors in to pickup?I'm as white as they make 'em. I've been with latin girls, black girls, white girls, jewish girls, and an australian. I don't know if you'd consider all these actual races, but I have noticed a difference in gaming only black girls and jewish girls. black girls I find are more responsive to a more direct game, and once you have them hooked, they get very open sexually. You have to keep up or they'll leave you in the dust. latin girls are fun, but can go from cool chick mode to angry bitch mode i… | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Fall Classicthat picture gets me every time | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 07:22 AM |
| 3 | [US FR #10] Day-2 f-close with Korean Girl. Text game.Actually, I've been doing some thinking, and MM M3 model seems very linear and definite it is, and it's supposed to be, at least when you first start out. fun -> to serious -> then closing. Sort of like that. I try to always stay in fun mode. But you need to learn to calibrate when to be really really fun, and just normal fun to be around and can have a cool convo with a chick. Do you use this method verbatim No. While I like it because it's simple and it works, I've learned to calibrate myself.… | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Recently Divorced? Recovery and a Plug for HonestyEvery time they see the book / read it they think of you and are reminded how damn impressive you are. That's actually a good point. While I feel buying girls gifts prematurely, like cheddar and the rest of seddit says, is probably only going to hurt your short term game, the lingering book and the idea of you has helped your long term game. Being totally honest with a girl (about emotions, lack of LTR interest, even sexual desires) CAN be really solid with the right girl... This is true, but I … | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 04:10 AM |
| 6 | [US FR #10] Day-2 f-close with Korean Girl. Text game.Google the Mystery Method M3 Model. It will probably tell you a bit more. But the long and short of it is this: Attraction: This is where you're funny, teasing, charismatic, kino-ing, and getting her to qualify herself to YOU. This is where she is to become attracted to you. Comfort: This is to take place AFTER she has qualified herself to you and now you may begin to let her win YOUR affections. Honest (and few) compliments can be thrown in here to let her know you like her more than just a mea… | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 03:16 AM |
| 1 | seddit 14kWhile your Glen Beck-like conspiracy theory is plausible, I think we actually ARE the advice on threads like AskReddit and RA. Just an easy answer: "try r/seduction". That's probably more the case. I'd hate to see the ship go down, but I'm the kind of guy that goes down with his ship. That's just me. I've been bitching quite a bit lately, but I'm going to have to say the best bet is to just downvote and (especially) ignore any stupid posts and bad advice. But we need to get everybody else to do … | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 02:54 AM |
| 2 | [US FR #10] Day-2 f-close with Korean Girl. Text game.also, check your PMs. I came across some great reading material you'd probably like | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 12:46 AM |
| 6 | [US FR #10] Day-2 f-close with Korean Girl. Text game.ah yes, the Ol' 'snake out of the hole' move. Gets 'em every time. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 12:44 AM |
| 6 | [US FR #10] Day-2 f-close with Korean Girl. Text game.don't worry about your clothes dude. Just focus on getting hers off. Once she's naked, it's awkward for you to have your clothes on. So take them off and get more comfortable. Ya dig? | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Krauser PUA instadates a cute 17 year old bisexual Croatian minxpedophile logic. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 12:26 AM |
| 2 | seddit 14kI really like it here too, but this subreddit has become "Ask Seddit" rather than a positive atmosphere to share ideas, experiences, and wisdom like it should/used to be. I've been lurking for a while (and created my only reddit account because of this subreddit) and only have been subcribing for a few months, but a lot has changed in that short time. I think when I first came here there were only a couple thousand subscribers, now we have 14k and it's Ask Seddit. | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 07:03 PM |
| 2 | PUA resistent womencan't win 'em all. | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 03:52 PM |
| 1 | That Attractive Bitchcool story bro | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Fall ClassicOh look, it's this thread again. Again. | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 03:45 PM |
| 2 | No text game, I've got it, and I'm trying but they won't leave me alone.Quick answer: You're overthinking everything. | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 07:06 AM |
| 4 | No text game, I've got it, and I'm trying but they won't leave me alone.Oh look, it's this thread again... | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Ask Seedit: [Choice] Text message her....?This got downvoted? this is what I'm talking about... Upvote for you again | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 06:07 AM |
| 10 | First [FR] Failed #-close, advice?Me: Can I get your number? wrong. Should have went like this. You: I need to get going but it was nice talking with you. Give me your number, we should hang out sometime. give her your phone and have her put her number in Her: Ok here puts number in I don't really have a phone number... Really? That's a bullshit excuse. Don't sweat it though. You did the right thing by bailing and not trying to convince her. You are pretty much dead in the water now. I wouldn't suggest not going to that store an… | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Surviving being single while everyone one else is hooking up.I understand you completely. I'm in that situation now, with friends having girlfriends and nobody wants to come out and game with you.. I've only been in LTRs from ages 19-24. In fact, from age 25 to 26 (my age now) has been my most successful year of my life, i've been getting laid like crazy. Don't let age be a factor to you. But I understand your situation. You need to overcome that but just putting yourself out there and meeting new people. This may have come easier for me because I moved o… | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 04:45 AM |
| 1 | 14kEDIT: If you downvote for me, thats fine. Don't downvote for Lesbian PUA. Sorry LesbianPUA. I'm not trying to put you on the spot, and we were both semi-joking. But I agree with you. | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Ask: Is it OK to turn up at the doorstep?I just noticed that as of right now we're only 4 subscribers away from 14k. I can count the number of sedditors who give useful advice on my hands, maybe even a few toes. That's a bad ratio. | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Ask: Is it OK to turn up at the doorstep?Um, this. Why is everybody asking for any sort of specific detail?? Are we being trolled by all of Seddit? | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Kino Makes You Feel Good and HealthyCircle jerks in the locker room, FTW!! On a serious note though, that's actually pretty interesting and I'll totally buy that. They probably have a better bond and a better "team mentality". Hivemind, if you will. | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 03:27 AM |
| 4 | Kino Makes You Feel Good and HealthyHandshakes are fine. Give a girl you find attractive an extra "half second" longer handshake than everybody else. Hugging as an intro is bold, but could be awkward at first, unless you own the room already like a boss. However, once in conversation, don't be afraid to play around and get close and give a friendly/playful hug for any reason. I've also gotten into the habit of hugging girls after meeting them and I'm leaving. I say "bye it was nice meeting you" and pretend to go for the handshake.… | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 03:22 AM |
| 7 | [US FR #9] TofuTofu F-closes HB9.9 in DC"Knock 'em dead, bro." haha that's awesome. I remember once I hooked up with this chick at a club, and then her friend and some random dude came up to us and suggested we all go to their place. The dude looks at me, never saw him in my life, and goes "Let's do work!". One of the funniest things ever said to me by a stranger. | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 10:39 PM |
| 2 | [US FR #9] TofuTofu F-closes HB9.9 in DCthat's some good reporting. Congrats on the 9.9. I love reading your FR's because you have a similar style of pickup that I do as well. I'm all about ME having fun, and if you're not being sucked into my black hole of awesomeness I just feel bad for you. Obviously, you have taken this to a higher level. Dude, come back to NYC soon. I think me and you could do some serious damage here. | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What to do when the question "So how many partners have you been with?" comes up.Why aren't you posting any field reports? Dude, we'd all love to hear these man. These lays could be because you're a really good looking guy, and that helps obviously, but I think you could have some awesome field reports and good tips if you sit and think about what you do when you're out in the field. | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Ask Seddit: Need to learn PUA in a matter of hours. Any last minute tips?You should post some field reports of this theory. I'd like to hear in detail how you've accomplished this. I'm not doubting this is how your run game and have had success with it. I just really want to read the field reports of this! | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 08:30 AM |
| 2 | [FR] - First attempt after reading this subreddit for the past few (8) hoursNothing wrong with opening guys. In fact, you should open guys anyway when they're with girls you're looking to talk to. Once the guys think you're cool the girls should follow suit, and the guys will be less likely to cockblock you. Yes. this works. | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Pick your targets wisely, and learn from my mistake. [Lesson/NYE FR f-close]"Today we have learned in the agony of war that great power involves great responsibility." - Franklin Roosevelt You definitely possess the power, but you are using it irresponsibly. Your "experiment" with your friend was merely an experiment, that had undesired effects. Normally, I would say "too bad for her", but you deliberately used your power to attract her and then leave her hanging. Which would be fine if she wasn't already your friend, and you crushed her feelings. I'm not judging you, b… | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 05:20 AM |
| 1 | New here...need help...I believe in you seddit.No problem, brother. In the next week I strongly suggest... no, I DEMAND, that you read the FAQ and New To Seddit I know that you said that you "do pretty well for yourself", but just by judging from this post I can tell you are completely lost when it comes to this sort of stuff. Which is OK, I'm not knocking you down. But you should really take the next week off of texting this girl and sit and read these posts as much as possible. You're going to realize you are doing a lot of stuff incorrect… | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Its not WHAT you say, but HOW you say it. But how can you help it if you sound like Ned Flanders?It has nothing to do with the timbre of your voice. Rather, it's all your pace, tonality, inflection, and conviction. Slow your speech, speak with a downward inflection when you make statements (shows confidence, and you believe in what you say), speak with conviction, and don't be afraid to TALK LOUD. Don't yell, but TALK LOUD. Alpha males talk loud and get the attention they deserve. | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 04:54 AM |
| 2 | New here...need help...I believe in you seddit.Anything I could do in the meantime to A) ensure I get her out again. and B) Don't fuck it up even more. Yes, there is. Stop texting her until you see her for the dinner she owes you. If you haven't solidified an actual date/time, then do it sometime next week. For now, sit back, relax, and don't text her. She might even text you. If she does text you this week, ignore it, or give short answers and tell her you're busy and need to go. Text her next week. "Hey you owe me dinner! Take me somewhere… | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 04:33 AM |
| 5 | [FR] - First attempt after reading this subreddit for the past few (8) hoursI think my fail was asking for her number before I left, after just 10 minutes of talking to her. Yes, but only because you ASKED. the time frame has very little to do with whether or not you get the girls number. After I announced that I was leaving, I asked for her number, to which she replied 'I don't give that out', but I'll take yours, maybe' She pulled out a piece of paper and wrote it down No. What you should have done was pulled out your phone mid conversation and hand it to her. Say "I … | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 04:25 AM |
| 17 | What to do when the question "So how many partners have you been with?" comes up.I get this one a lot. I say "I'm a virgin" and it always makes them laugh. They'll know you're lying and they'll keep pressuring you but just keep saying "im saving myself for marriage". Never give your number. Ever. EDIT: for extra points, throw in "and I don't want to know your number" | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 04:06 AM |
| 1 | RE: A lesson on fucking up attraction via text. (this is how it's done)the ping is bullshit. No inside joke. Just making dinner and felt like texting her. I never drink white wine anyway, I always drink red. But the point of the ping was to just illicit a response out of her because I hadn't talked to in weeks. She didn't know I was home making dinner alone. For all she knew I was at a fancy upscale restaurant. the 9:30 to 6:30 thing... Well yeah, it's upbrupt. I wanted to head home after work and shower and get ready. I live in nyc and take the subway so it takes … | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 07:18 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Mission 19 - Sick as a Dogchumpta is right. You gotta ditch the skank. I mean, I'm all for banging a skank when it's either that or nothing. But she's got a mystery STD down there and that's something I couldn't deal with, even if it's something like gonorrhea where you pop a pill and it's gone in a few days. Who knows what else she has? I know you're an older dude and it's tough for you out there, but there's plenty of other skanks out there if you want the quick and easy lay | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 07:01 PM |
| 4 | 2010 Seddit best of awardsBitches love egg sandwiches | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 05:45 AM |
| 12 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouYeah but you never do anything here except post a link to your website trying to get people to buy your shit. Or you post an article where they mention you specifically. Yet, you contribute nothing to any other posts besides your own self promoting shit and therefore you are completely useless in this subreddit. Please consider leaving Seddit forever and peddle your shit elsewhere. If you promise to not link your shit and actually become a contributing member of this subreddit, then by all means… | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 05:37 AM |
| 1 | RE: A lesson on fucking up attraction via text. (this is how it's done)haha whats funny is that if i text a penis, my phone takes the penis head and makes it a smiley face instead because of the "=D" | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 04:43 AM |
| 2 | 2010 Seddit best of awardsIDontGetSeduction | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 04:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] LTR ending, game is rusty... Think I met 'the one' don't know what to do from here.I posted this facebook post a while back. If you skip towards the end of the post I explain how I go from FB post to phone number close. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 04:30 AM |
| 2 | [FR] LTR ending, game is rusty... Think I met 'the one' don't know what to do from here.Everything here is good except for the "What does your week look like?" in your FB message. You shouldn't be asking for her schedule. Why do you care what her week looks like? You should scratch that last sentence and go for the number. "Give me your number and we'll [inside joke or whatever you want to do] soon." I argue against going for a date via FB. However, I'm all about getting the number via FB, and then setting up the date via phone/text. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 03:39 AM |
| 5 | 2010 Seddit best of awardsIDontGetSeduction needs to get some kind of award. I mean, the username, the comments, the successful trolls he's done to unsuspecting noob sedditors... The guy is hilarious. He needs some kind of award | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 03:23 AM |
| 0 | 2010 Seddit best of awardsthis is the comment of the year | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 03:04 AM |
| 5 | A lesson on fucking up attraction via text.I'll just leave this here | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 02:58 AM |
| 1 | 2010 Seddit best of awardsThis is a good one | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Hey seddit - a quick moment of sanityplenty of n00bs and bad advice occasionally gets upvoted I've seen tons of shitty advice get upvoted. Noobs shouldn't be allowed to touch the voting arrows until they've practiced, posted good FR's, and has had their own advice upvoted. Also, what the fuck is with really good FR's that I've been reading getting downvoted to oblivion and hardly upvoted. And then shit like the Asian playboy has 127 upvotes in 5 hours. Granted, he's downvoted by regular sedditors but still, what the fuck? One of th… | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Female: How do I talk to the hot guy sitting beside me?upvoted for your username. for real though. You're a chick. Just say Hi to him. Guys love when girls approach them. You got nothing to worry about. Trust me | /r/seduction | 03/01/11 07:30 PM |
| 3 | As a female I have no idea where to start on learning to seduce...Try here. This is the frequently asked questions page. They cover your exact same question in there ("I'm a straight woman, can learning about seduction help me attract men?") with some helpful links to previous posts where this is covered extensively. We're a pretty positive community so if you have any questions, read that link first and feel free to ask us if you want to ask something that's not covered. | /r/seduction | 03/01/11 08:23 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Lord of the Dance (f-close and other interesting bits)93.5, eh? Don't die on us Throwaway. Seddit needs you. Get well soon. | /r/seduction | 03/01/11 07:23 AM |
| 15 | FR: Crushed an AMOGWhy does this have 7 downvotes? You destroyed that AMOG like a fucking boss. You had him whimpering like a little bitch and running to the bathroom like a pussy. That was awesome dude. Well done. | /r/seduction | 03/01/11 07:20 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Lord of the Dance (f-close and other interesting bits)Oh man I just got over a 4 or 5 day flu. Haven't been that sick in years. I was sitting home high on sudafed with a 102 fever for 5 days. Feel like a million bucks now though. Hang in there. I'm not posting these to make you upset buddy. It helps me remember good parts of my game and hopefully gives people some tips that seem to work for me. Now go get well and post some FR's! | /r/seduction | 03/01/11 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Cute Girl At Mallyou're putting the pussy up on a pedestal | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 11:13 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Strange NYE party. F-closecockswitcheroo I'm forcing this into my everyday vocabulary. It's public domain now. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Getting Back on the horse [first]This is sound advice | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 08:27 PM |
| 1 | "This is so random" [FR] (and advice please?)27" iMac and ask if she wants to see it Should have whipped out your dick there. Would have made an excellent field report. But seriously though, she knew what she was coming there to do in the first place. Girls never just come over to my house to "watch a movie". Unless you've LJBF'd this girl, which it doesn't sound like, she was coming there with sexual intention. Or even just for the excitement of POSSIBLE sexual intention. That's my opinion on that. Sounds like she was nervous about it. It… | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 08:09 PM |
| 2 | If another guy at a bar approaches me and asks me BS like "what are your hobbies" I am going to throw my drink on him.Sounds like somebody didn't get laid on new years... ;) | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 07:46 PM |
| 3 | [US FR #8] Glorious success on New Years Day. Bathroom blowjob, black girl orgy, all without even taking a shower!Larry I love this. This had me laughing on the train today (after dropping off hb8 f-close - FR to come!) I love giving girls stupid names, but a GUYS name I never thought of for some reason! It's so simple. It's genius. And then she blew you in the bathroom. Glorious! Love your FRs dude. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 07:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Strange NYE party. F-closeI was at the party for only a couple hours. I spent time with everybody really, not just my target. The key to good game is being willing to walk away and say "Fuck it. I dont care". If I go downstairs to smoke up with some friends, and target doesn't come, too fucking bad for her. Edit: aslo, speaking of logistics (which NEVER work for me) did work this time, indeed. I remember reading a FR here where some dude just walked into the girls bedroom like a boss while she was sleeping. He woke her u… | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 07:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Strange NYE party. F-closeYeah she is. Upvoted. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 07:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Strange NYE party. F-closeYeah shutting her down wasn't working. I like the compliance test idea. I'll have to try that next time 2 girls are fighting for my attention (god willing). | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 07:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Strange NYE party. F-closeSo you came to here to complain about a hot girl wanting to have sex with you? Haha. I guess so... Not really complaining though. I've never had such an aggressive girl try to cockblock me like that before and I wasn't sure if I could have handled it better. And trust me. Ol' Delightful_White has his share of problems, too. Not all my nights are filled with booze sex and drugs.... most of them, but not all. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Don't you think you're all over complicating everything?I was over complicating things before I started practicing pickup. Now it's all pretty simple. That's just me. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 02:17 AM |
| 3 | [FR] 2011's Off to a Good StartNot bad for a scrawny, pale 19-year-old! Sounds like me when I was your age. Actually, that still is me at 26 | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 01:32 AM |
| 3 | NYE party when parents are out of townjust play music that girls can dance to. You'll thank yourself for it later | /r/seduction | 31/12/10 08:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Disaster in paradiseI accidentally played therapist instead of boyfriend You shouldn't be playing either one. You should be playing the guy who is trying to have a good time and you're not going to let Debbie Downer ruin your day. If a girl ever tries to unload her depressive shit on you, no matter how well you know her or not, don't be afraid to cut off her rain of depression and say "you're depressing me. let's talk about something good." and change topic. Or if you're not up for being so blunt, just change topic… | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 10:20 PM |
| 10 | My first [FR]Shes lucky these tacos are awesome Haha. Solid frame. H: Did you need a girl to order the tacos for you? M: I went behind the counter and made that shit myself, like a boss Holy shit I laughed so hard. I think that is probably the best response that could have been conceived by man! That was awesomely hilarious. well done. I enjoyed this FR. Well done. I'd like to read some FR's of you sarging in bar/club settings too. I'm sure they'd be even more entertaining. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 08:29 PM |
| 1 | [US FR #5] One Night Stand in NYC - LONGI actually have Nine Ball but never read it. Definitely going to give it a good read soon. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 08:15 PM |
| 3 | [US FR #5] One Night Stand in NYC - LONGI read old FRs from guys like Maniac who evolved over the years to the point where all they did was go out and screen for girls to have threesomes with I had to google it. I found this FR that was most entertaining. Do you have any other guys you recommend? Edit: I just realized that's somebody who goes by "jlaix" but either way its entertaining as fuck. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Seriously though: don't overtextStill annoying when I'm trying to work. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 06:06 PM |
| 8 | [US FR #5] One Night Stand in NYC - LONGThis FR is hilarious. I approach the three and say "DURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR" extremely loud. I laughed out loud. I want to try this. I picture you poking your head into a group of girls and making a retard face and just screaming "DURRRRR!". I can't picture another way of doing this. Sounds hilarious. opens them by grabbing the beer they had JUST ordered and taking a sip from it. Bold as hell! I once opened a girl by walking up to her and taking her cigarette from her mouth and smoking it. Sh… | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Seriously though: don't overtextno not really jealous. My ex girlfriend used to text me constantly at work and it would drive me nuts. I'm trying to work, and she's sending me dumb texts all day. Thats not why we broke up obviously, but the texts at work were annoying. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 05:27 PM |
| 7 | What's the point?I just hope people that read this subreddit don't forget that in the end it's not about grabbing some pussy but improving who you are. Pretty much everybody here is here to improve themselves, or have improved and are helping others do so as well. Really. But why not grab some pussy while your at it? | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Girl problemI think it was probama or philosoraptor EDIT: it was HipsterCassanova Must give credit where it's due. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Girl problemBitches love egg sandwiches | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 03:47 AM |
| 11 | Jezebel discovers Roosh...oh my god, this is going to be good :D"Girls, get this... There are guys out there who have decided to change their lives, stay in shape, dress nicer, and be more confident in themselves. They will approach you and make you laugh, then tell you interesting stories about their lives. They will touch you innocently and then build a real connection between you both. It will be then be hard to say "no" to him, and before you know it you'll be enjoying each other in bed.... DISGUSTING!" | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Videos of Mystery In-FieldBesides his DHV story being a little overdrawn and sort of lame and boring, everything he did was pretty much textbook. Girl approached him, he isolated, DQ'd himself, DHV'd while disarming the obstacles, made friends with her friends, etc. Then at the end of the 2nd video, look at the guy who tried to AMOG his set before is now sitting there like a douche with nothing to say. Looks like a good set to me. Overall a lot of people think Mystery is kind of douchey, and I can agree to an extent. But… | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Girl problemI love that egg sandwiches is the new seddit meme. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Seriously though: don't overtextI'm not arguing with the idea that 10 is too much. I agree totally. I work with a guy who texts his girlfriend ALL FUCKING DAY. I hear his text alert go off constantly. He must text her 50 times in one day. Then he even calls her and puts on his "boyfriend voice". THAT'S outlandish. Then again, they've been dating for about 8 years, living together, and practically married. But if you ask me, that's more reason to text and call less... But guys like us, we know better... 10 is too much for a gir… | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Seriously though: don't overtextsent her multiple unreplied text messages I think we are all friends with "that guy". It's hard to convince your friends that what you're telling them is right, because it sounds wrong. It's counter intuitive. That, and we would never let them know we're practicing pickup... (and it works) It's funny though, I've been seeing this girl who has been obviously catching feelings for me. She's been texting me A LOT and it's really an attraction killer. She's hot, I'd say an HB8 in my books, but the a… | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 12:31 AM |
| 4 | This conversation just happened. critique, please?I wanted to post a response but Cheddar and intjpua already beat me to it. But, in case you need any further confirmation: ME: ha ha I don't have plans yet. Just looking for something to do. Terrible. Boring. Needy. Friendless. Although you may be NONE of those things, which i'm sure you aren't, you came across that way. ME: you're not wearing pants? damn. I would have ignored that as she was probably trying to get a rise from you. And you failed. big time. I may have even re-framed it by saying… | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Seriously though: don't overtextAny suggestions for re-gaining attraction after overtexting? stop texting. seriously. If you can hold out I wouldn't be surprised if she sends you a "are you alive?" text or something like that, just to re-initiate contact with you | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Girl problemAnd it's not socially acceptable for a guy to walk up to a girl on the street and ask her out just out of nowhere, so help me out here? Are you kidding me? You need to lurk around here more. You'll find a bunch of reports of people cold approaching women on the street/coffee shop/mall and getting their number and going on a date. Lurk around seddit more, read the basics. Read the posts here and practice in real life. With proper theory and practice, in a couple months you will be doing exactly t… | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Seriously though: don't overtextWhats funny is 10 times in two days doesn't even really sound like that much. But just being so available over those 2 days destroyed any attraction that was there. | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 11:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Airport approach conversation (detailed)Nice job. A few criticisms though: I roughly counted about 12 questions you asked her in that interaction. That is A LOT of questions to ask somebody you just met. It just seems like you're trying to buy time with her because you have nothing good to say about yourself. In your defense, however, you did some nice DHV in there as well, but you should try building more rapport with her instead of question/answer type conversations. Should have at least tried for the number. Just whip it out (your … | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Can seddit help me create a list of good date questions?Yes, if she earned it. I'm not going to compliment a girl for no reason. That makes it insincere. For example, I like girls who can make me laugh. So if one happens to really make me laugh, I'll compliment her on her sense of humor. I'm not going to shove a bunch of meaningless compliments up a girls ass because I think she'll get a kick out of it. Ruh-roh what? | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 08:06 PM |
| 6 | [FR] A few detailed #-closesSolid closes all around. Well done. Don’t worry, you’re giving me your number too. Money. who was that cute guy you were talking to? He’s way out of your league. I use this one every now and then. It works every time and always gets a positive reaction. Also money. Speaking of that, another thing that I’ve noticed myself doing when I’m solidly in state is doing things slower. Talking slower, moving slower. I invited Girl C and her friends out for a smoke, but had to go get a pack. It was freezin… | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 07:41 PM |
| -1 | Can seddit help me create a list of good date questions?List of date questions? Are you going on a date or giving this girl a job interview? I'm not trying to be a dick here, but instead of asking her questions you should be trying to enjoy yourselves and each other. A date shouldn't be a job interview where you ask her questions, then she answers, and you nod and smile and say "oh really? Interesting. Tell me more." There's nothing wrong with asking your date some questions about herself, but you shouldn't focus on it. Also, on the 5 compliments. If… | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 07:15 PM |
| 12 | Can seddit help me create a list of good date questions?Extra Credit: Did you just friend-zone me? How do I get out? | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Frequently Asked QuestionsGreat job with these. And thanks for adding some of my posts. I'm glad people find my posts useful and I'm happy to contribute. | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 03:39 PM |
| 18 | [FR] First kiss ever (27yo)I was amazed at how naturally it all happened, I never had to make a conscious effort I hope all AFC's who I read about who wait to "make their move" read this. congrats on the first kiss. Next step, touching boobies! They're awesome, trust me. Good luck to you brother. | /r/seduction | 28/12/10 11:29 PM |
| 2 | FR (small) now have an issue that i don't know how to respondyeah I didn't even think about the 'they' word that he threw in there. Not a good move. If you can't think of anything good to say, then don't say anything. | /r/seduction | 28/12/10 04:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.there are more uses for seddit than hitting someone up after a game of quarters. I agree. We could do without the negativity though | /r/seduction | 27/12/10 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Question about a douche.sounds like a douche to me | /r/seduction | 27/12/10 12:55 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.Cool comment history brah! Judging by the amount of time you spend on your computer, and you're love for Stargate I can only safely assume you're swimming in pussy! Keep up the good work buddy. | /r/seduction | 27/12/10 12:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.It is like a drive by. Good analogy. It gives people a chance to game you. Although I wouldn't recommend opening all your sets this way, obviously. Now all I want to do is try and open with "Wait, did you just say you like Justin Bieber?" I'll race you. First one to post a FR using this line wins the internet. | /r/seduction | 27/12/10 12:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.You bring up a good point. Mystery is kind of douchey. But you can't discredit him because his method is pretty solid, and a lot of new "PUA" stuff is regurgitated Mystery Method. I don't go around wearing goggles and furry hats, do magic tricks, or make up stories. I'm more of a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy who enjoys stimulating conversation with women. The acronyms are a language used her pretty often. I didn't make them up. I'm just trying to explain whats going on in a language that people… | /r/seduction | 27/12/10 12:35 AM |
| 1 | [US FR #4] Airport lounge game. Parents as obstacles.Good advice. Thanks man | /r/seduction | 27/12/10 12:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.Thanks. I tried to not make it TL;DR, but I remembered it pretty well and I think overall it was a solid night so I had to post it with a lot of detail. I think a lot of FR's are lacking in detail (conversations, body language, etc). It's hard to remember most of the time, so I don't blame people for lacking detail in their FR's, but it helps. Then again, it's a recipe for TL;DR | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 11:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.It's a great way for the bar to make money, for sure. I'm not much of a beer pong player. I kind of grew out of it after highschool/college, but it's a great way to meet people at a bar and it gives you something to do/watch if you're out sarging alone. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 11:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.I do that all the time. It's annoying. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 11:22 PM |
| 1 | [US FR #4] Airport lounge game. Parents as obstacles.I have a similar problem. I have a pretty awesome job/job title but whenever I talk about it, they always need explaining of what I do. It always sounds like I'm bragging, but I'm really not. How do you overcome that? I usually try to avoid talking about it, but sometimes people want to know. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 09:43 PM |
| 1 | [US FR #4] Airport lounge game. Parents as obstacles.ha. The laptop # close is badass | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Trying to rope a new girl. Just got out of a 6 year relationship..sounds like a pretty solid plan to me. Do it. | /r/seduction | 25/12/10 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Trying to rope a new girl. Just got out of a 6 year relationship..Sounds like you're too late. You may be in LJBF land. The only way to be sure is to try to kiss her again, but put a bit more dominance into it. Lift her chin and kiss her. If she turns for the cheek, you've been LJBF'd. if that happens, don't sweat it. Go game 10 girls, hit the gym, lawer up, and do all those other seddit memes we use to get over girls. edit: I strongly oppose telling her how you feel, if you really do like her. If you do, there's a 99.9% chance the friendship gets ruined | /r/seduction | 25/12/10 06:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.thanks. My friends are either afc's or naturals. None of them practice pickup, so my wingmen either kill sets for me or blow me out of the water. It's tough. | /r/seduction | 25/12/10 05:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.I'm not really sure. I didn't see her at all until that point, so I'm not sure if she saw me. Either way, social proof and preselection is always a good thing | /r/seduction | 25/12/10 05:39 AM |
| 8 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.Thanks man. I'm only slightly jealous of your hot porn star stripper close haha. I'm going to a burlesque show in about an hour. If anything good happens I'll keep seddit updated. congrats on the mod award, btw. | /r/seduction | 24/12/10 02:18 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.Nothing really too exciting or note-worthy. Mostly just talking and touching. Eventually we made out for the rest of the way. The only break was for her to call me out on my "10 minute cab ride" shit. I told her she's too impatient and continued to make out the whole time. | /r/seduction | 24/12/10 12:32 AM |
| 1 | I have some advice. Feel free to take it or notHaha, I'm friends with a lesbian who took me and her girlfriend out to a gay/lesbian club once. I know how girls feel now being constantly hit on. There are also a surprising number of straight women there. | /r/seduction | 24/12/10 12:16 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMOJMth4gKY Watch the first set that he opens. He does this a little more dramatically than me, with more body rocking and aloofness. But this a good visual explanation. | /r/seduction | 24/12/10 12:08 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.Also, about the MM thing about speaking loudly to the group instead of one person....I have a few friends that have done that but with the attitude that they know that no one is listening and they're looking for pity attention, so I might tend to avoid that because its harder for me to picture someone doing it correctly. Tips for that? I had rapport with the 2 guys playing pong, and my target saw that. So if it flopped (which is does sometimes), I can make it seem like it was directed towards th… | /r/seduction | 24/12/10 12:05 AM |
| 23 | [FR] Going solo. Rough night turns into 1-hour F-close.Now 2 hot Australian girls, both pushing HB9 status, are playing. These girls were hot. One of them is hanging all over some douche. The other HB9 takes a break and stands directly in front of me with her back to me, blocking my view of the game. So I grab both her shoulders and carefully shift her to one side, un-blocking my view. She turns around and smiles. I shrug my shoulders. Me: “Eh, you were in my way…” HB9: laughs “I’m always in the way!” I picked up on her accent and I gave her my best… | /r/seduction | 23/12/10 11:38 PM |
| 5 | Victoria's Secret Model: Ordinary Guys Don't Have a Chance to Get a Date With Us. (Haha. This could be the ultimate shit test)to be honest after seeing her picture I probably wouldn't give her that much of a second look. Her body is insane. And I like the fact that she keeps her mouth closed in 80% of her pictures. I'm scared of those teeth, and so is my dick. | /r/seduction | 21/12/10 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Victoria's Secret Model: Ordinary Guys Don't Have a Chance to Get a Date With Us. (Haha. This could be the ultimate shit test)Of course I wouldn't turn down a one night stand with her. It would be Beta behavior to accept her arrogant bitch frame. | /r/seduction | 21/12/10 04:31 AM |
| 8 | Victoria's Secret Model: Ordinary Guys Don't Have a Chance to Get a Date With Us. (Haha. This could be the ultimate shit test)I don't think anybody here is really butt hurt over this... Personally, I'm just perplexed by the arrogance of somebody saying "don't approach me or other hot women ever" and "Don't approach us, we'll come to you". Everybody here knows that's bullshit and it would be pretty Beta to accept HER frame. This has nothing to do with rage, or our frame, or hate for women. I simply posted this because this goes against everything that's taught here. Indeed there have been some butt hurt replies, but we … | /r/seduction | 21/12/10 04:25 AM |
| 57 | Victoria's Secret Model: Ordinary Guys Don't Have a Chance to Get a Date With Us. (Haha. This could be the ultimate shit test)Her: Hi! I'm Jess Hart, the victoria secret model. I saw you from across the bar and I just wanted to tell you I think you're cute. Me: I have a girlfriend... continue conversation with my friends | /r/seduction | 21/12/10 12:57 AM |
| 19 | Victoria's Secret Model: Ordinary Guys Don't Have a Chance to Get a Date With Us. (Haha. This could be the ultimate shit test)That quote made me rage so hard. That's total bullshit | /r/seduction | 21/12/10 12:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Good F-close this weekend and some random thoughts.soon. Very soon. I've been so busy with work and other holiday madness I haven't even had time to go out. After new years I'll have more time to go out and crush vaginas with you | /r/seduction | 17/12/10 09:55 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Good F-close this weekend and some random thoughts.Awesome FR. I love the cab move. I usually get them to agree to come home with me before we even hit the cab, but this move is great and I will have to try it. | /r/seduction | 16/12/10 09:15 PM |
| 1 | She plans to get rid of her bf. What would you do?This is a job for IDontGetSeduction | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 07:52 AM |
| 3 | She plans to get rid of her bf. What would you do?No problem. Just a warning: Don't get caught in the friendzone. If you keep up the flirty stuff and never make a move you're going to end up in the friend-zone. Just keep escalating until you're in her pants, or she's in yours. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 07:48 AM |
| 3 | She plans to get rid of her bf. What would you do?I posted my reply to OP before reading this. This is put so much more eloquently. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 05:20 AM |
| 18 | She plans to get rid of her bf. What would you do?How do I tell her she should dump that guy for me? Don't. She's doing the work for you. Just keep doing what you're doing, and she's going to keep seeing how much she likes you more and more. She may be trying to rationalize her feelings, like trying to see if she has just a fun time flirting with you, or if she sees you as something more. Let her figure it out in her head, you just keep on doing what you're doing. I wouldn't even mention her boyfriend. In fact, I'd pretend like she didn't even … | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 05:17 AM |
| 6 | Share some of the openers you used under the 3 second rule.Done this before. You'd be surprised how many girls actually let you drink it | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 07:51 AM |
| 2 | two quick questions, one inspired by my odd side-effects of learning seduction.repeating their names helps. shake their hands when you meet them and while looking at them in the eyes say "hi (her name) I'm (your name) nice to meet you." they will remember your name that way too. | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I'm going on a no masturbation crusade.Godspeed, Young Blood. | /r/seduction | 10/12/10 06:12 AM |
| 2 | I'm going on a no masturbation crusade.I've done this before. It's a pretty good motivator to just get you out there talking to women. Not much else. Only problem is that when you do finally get laid, it's hard last for a while if you know what i mean. | /r/seduction | 10/12/10 05:38 AM |
| 0 | So you're shy, or an introvert, or you have AA. Stories and lessons from one of your own.This post is fantastic. I see much pussy in your future (or a really good one that's just right for you). You're doing great. Congrats and good luck to you, brother. | /r/seduction | 10/12/10 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Failure right before finding Seddit. Noob needs advice.Start here | /r/seduction | 09/12/10 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Someone asked me an odd question, want your help with a responsePretend you were a virgin and she took your virginity. I use this when girls ask me "how many girls have you slept with?" and they usually laugh, call me a liar, punch me in the arm, and then change the subject. | /r/seduction | 09/12/10 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Did I make a mistake by going for the first-date kiss? [FR]So, we continued to study for another 20 minutes or so, and I'll admit that I dropped my game down a notch after being rejected in this way. Oh shit my bad, totally read that wrong. In that case, good job not going in for #2. Either way, you should see if you can get any info on that 2 steps forward 1 step back technique. I use it frequently. And also, going in for the kiss on the first date is fine | /r/seduction | 09/12/10 02:51 AM |
| 0 | Did I make a mistake by going for the first-date kiss? [FR]Without much more detail, I'd say you may have ramped things up too fast. Seems like she was OK with the fact that you kissed her, but she may have put her guard up. Perhaps she just felt like it was moving a little fast. When she said that you should stop and get back to studying, you did the right thing by backing off and going back to studying. But then 20 minutes later you kissed her again. Now you're displaying too much interest and she knows your agenda behind this whole "study session". N… | /r/seduction | 09/12/10 02:31 AM |
| 1 | How can I get this girl?lurk more | /r/seduction | 09/12/10 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Is there anyone else out there who refuses to ever turn to online dating, no matter how bad things might get?Online dating just always seemed weird to me. I'm extroverted, so going out and meeting people is my thing. I'm not opposed to those who do it, it's just not my style. I'm sure everybody has their reasons for doing it. Maybe you're being a bit judgmental. I don't think I could date someone knowing that I met them online. Yeah I don't know if I would like to tell the whole "so how did you guys meet" story. | /r/seduction | 09/12/10 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Follow-up to situation with flaky girlshe seems into you. You have her right where you want her. She just DLV'd herself big time by saying she was a bitch and she thinks you're awesome. You have the higher value in this situation. Also, never be reactive to any of her flakes or shit tests. Don't let any of her shit affect you. if you don't hear from her when you are back in hometown, shoot her a quick text "hey. Drinks tonight at 8 at X bar". Should be good to go. | /r/seduction | 08/12/10 08:30 PM |
| 1 | To take her virginity?Second this. | /r/seduction | 08/12/10 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Can we do away with the lame novelty accounts, memes, etc on this subreddit?I'm with you on this one. I literally laughed out loud on the train today reading this one. He points out the flaws in a lot of the AFC posts in a funny way. And it should be obvious to everybody that you're supposed to do the opposite of what he says. I don't really see any harm in it. | /r/seduction | 08/12/10 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Seddit: Possibly sleeping with my boss...what to do?acquire currency. Disregard females. | /r/seduction | 06/12/10 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Too much focus on openers.I understand your view. But, hear me out for a second. I feel that people are missing the point of openers. They're trying to figure out a secret code of jumbled words that could attract any woman. There is no code. It's all about your body language. "Hey, can I get your opinion on something? My friend's girlfriend found a shoe box of stuff that he kept from college like pics of his ex girlfriend. Should she be mad?" (or whatever that one is) - This opener is shit if its not delivered confidentl… | /r/seduction | 06/12/10 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Too much focus on openers.That wasn't meant to be taken so literally. Of course people have memories. That's a funny opener. It's no surprise she remembered it. My point is, it's not so much the line that works, it's the delivery and everything else after that. If you had said "Does this shirt make me look gay?" like a nervous little girl, you might not have had the same good response. The line could have easily been "Nice weather we're having" and would have opened as long as you did it confidently and friendly. | /r/seduction | 06/12/10 03:39 AM |
| 1 | FR and advice on textingNow, I approach first and evaluate later. This is great. It's always a good move to just approach as soon as possible. The more you get worked up in your own head about approaching a set, the more you're likely to bomb. We got chatting for about fifteen minutes, mostly about our shared passion for travelling. At this point I was beginning to worry about over-staying my welcome and exited with the excuse of going to find my friends. Without more detail, to me it sounds like you were in dude. You … | /r/seduction | 03/12/10 07:14 AM |
| 2 | I've been trying to get interested in seddit-like material but...It's not anything like a walkthrough for a video game. It's more like learning an instrument. Like guitar. You learn basic principles and theory behind music. You can learn on your own by practicing all the time, or get help from other guitar players, but you're always getting better and learning some kind of new theory or technique to improve your skills to the point where you have your own style of playing. Don't look at it like a robot. Take the advice here and apply it to your own personalit… | /r/seduction | 03/12/10 06:00 AM |
| 4 | [Seddit University] Assignment 1. Theory: What is Pickup and Seduction?I had to borrow a #2 pencil from the guy next to me, but here it goes. This could be fun actually. 1) Pickup and Seduction, to me, is about improving yourself to be a more desirable person to the opposite sex, as well as improving your social intuition in general, which will have positive effects on your life, career, friends, family, etc. 2) I personally like the Mystery Method (now Love Systems) and the M3 Model. I also read all kinds of psychology articles and other articles about sociology a… | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 06:17 AM |
| 3 | rescheduling a date"what day works best for you?" Not recommended. Be decisive. You pick the time and place. ("Hey! Drinks tomorrow at X Bar at 8pm. Don't miss out."). Don't clear your schedule for her. Instead, she'll be setting aside some time for you. I personally don't like to make a date more than 1 or 2 days in advance. The longer she's waiting for the date, the more time she has to plan something else "better". Thats my two cents. Other than that, follow Thaeds instructions. Solid advice right there. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 06:05 AM |
| 2 | [FR] a few interesting thingsYou only get one first impression. And you nailed it. Good job. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 05:50 AM |
| 3 | How do I get out of the success/fail mindset?The only time I don't fail is when I don't try. Strongly disagree on this one. Not trying is the surest way to failure. It's pretty much accepting failure before you even allow yourself a fighting chance. Don't do that. That's beta behavior. And it's only hurting your game. I remember going to bars and seeing so many amazing looking women, and not talking to any of them, and then going home that night feeling like the biggest failure. I felt like a loser, a nobody, a "fag". It totally gets you i… | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Baby-batter on the brain fucks up my judgment.Oh I see. Sometimes, the best thing to say is NOTHING. I had a situation like this last weekend. An old acquaintance of mine from back home (I was back at my hometown for thanksgiving) ended up getting hot and heavy at a friends house. She dragged me into a bedroom and started saying really really dirty things. I didn't know what to say, so I just said NOTHING. She kept repeating herself, and I still said NOTHING. She kept tearing my clothes off and began to blow me, asking me if I wanted to fuc… | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Baby-batter on the brain fucks up my judgment.Are you talking about erectile dysfunction? | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Baby-batter on the brain fucks up my judgment.Mr. TrollyMcTrollFag, I believe I have no idea what the fuck you're talking about. Your post confuses me. Sincerely, Delightful White | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Trying to get with a 9, but she is hesitant to meet because she knowsIi slept with her two roommates.I like this line, and I'll be using it too. That is, on a girl who's smart enough to actually get the reference. | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Trying to get with a 9, but she is hesitant to meet because she knowsIi slept with her two roommates.but I'm not a fan of the email. From that email it's very unlikely she'll take the bait. He needs a stronger plan but I'm out of ideas at the moment. Haha I'm not a big fan of it either. Thats why I was hesitant to write anything in the first place. I was trying to think of an example off the top of my head. Asking her out for drinks after such a quick exchange is just falling into the "I wanna bang you" role. Very true. He should probably break down her protection sheilds a bit mor e before ask… | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 05:34 AM |
| 6 | Trying to get with a 9, but she is hesitant to meet because she knowsIi slept with her two roommates.Here's the deal. I don't want to be throwing out what I think you should say. I don't know the context this whole situation, how well you know this girl and your relationship with the others. I could tell you whatever and this girl may or may not blow you off. Either way, you need to disqualify yourself more with her. I'm sorry I was not able to meet up with you. I am afraid that girls will not like it, and they do not even know that I have been corresponding with you She's obviously SOMEWHAT in… | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 04:49 AM |
| 7 | Trying to get with a 9, but she is hesitant to meet because she knowsIi slept with her two roommates.This chick knows whats up. She knows what your deal is. You need to calibrate your game a little differently for this one. I think you should run standard game but maybe you should be disqualifying yourself a bit more to this girl. You need show her that you know that "its never going to work out" between you two. You need to set the frame that both of you know that there is not going to be any sex going on just because you two meet up for drinks. EDIT: Of course, when you go out for drinks run … | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 03:38 AM |
| 5 | I think I did well. [FR and a question]Everything Tofusensei says is spot on. If your only chance to get the number is in front of her co-workers, then take it. Listen to all his info. Also, here are some of my pointers: I asked her if she could help me get connected, and she helped me get started. As she was walking away, I asked her if she wanted to have a dance battle (one of the features of this game). She obliged and we had a dance off. I lost, but I teased her saying that if it were real dancing, that I would probably win. This… | /r/seduction | 24/11/10 06:55 AM |
| 1 | While she's workingAgreed. Depending on how you ask, a lot of girls would say "I would but I'm on the clock, I can get in trouble" if they're semi-interested in you. BUT, With enough attraction, and implying that you understand that she can get in trouble for this, boldly (and inconspicuously) telling her to write her number on a receipt can and will get you her number. | /r/seduction | 24/11/10 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Setting up the first date: text vs. phone vs. hybridI think this is a great post. I live in a VERY large and VERY busy city and I tend to date girls in their early to mid 20's. So they are either college students or young working professionals. Everybody in my city is so busy all the time, including me, that texts just seem to work better. You don't have to drop everything you're doing to return a quick text, and you can send and return texts at your own leisure. I see more people walking down the street texting rather than talking on their phone… | /r/seduction | 24/11/10 12:13 AM |
| 8 | [FR] kind of, 'thanks' mostly."How about some Mario Kart 64 at your house?" "Hell yea!" This brought a genuine smile to my face. Good for you, dude. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Delightful_White's Guide To Facebook GameSo, do you ever friend people? How do people (outside of college/work) end up becoming friends on facebook? It depends. If I meet people (guys and girls) through my own social circle of friends (friends of my friends) IN REAL LIFE, and I actually get along with one of them really well and had a connection of some sort, I would have no problem requesting them on facebook. I wouldn't go out of my way by searching facebook all over for them, or even searching by name. If i see them commenting on my… | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 03:44 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The facebook game thread specifically is simply about maximizing your chances to get a girl's number. Once you have it, you move forward normally from there. Thank you for clearing that up for him. Appreciated and upvoted. And there is no substitute for Real Life game. Its way more fun in real life anyway. | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Delightful_White's Guide To Facebook Gameyes. This. | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Delightful_White's Guide To Facebook GamePersonally, I hate getting texts like that from girls. me too, and it usually gets a response from me for some reason. | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 06:41 PM |
| 8 | Delightful_White's Guide To Facebook Gamegood point. If you can communicate with somebody, they can be attracted and seduced. That said, it's always better and way more effective in person and much harder to do online or via text/phone, IMO. However, I use text flirting as a way to build attraction and buying temperature with girls who I've number closed. It's harder, and the girl must be open to it. please elaborate on how you accomplish this over facebook. I think we'd all like to hear some tips. | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Delightful_White's Guide To Facebook Gamethat may work for some people. Especially in the highschool/college community where social status is EVERYTHING. I'm 26, out of college, and working full time. I don't even think I know 1200 people. It's merely personal preference, and my preference is to keep my friends list short. That way my newsfeed isn't filled with posts from people who I barely know. It also shows that I don't add just anybody. If your on my friends list, we actually have a connection of some sort (or I want to have sex w… | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Delightful_White's Guide To Facebook Gamethe point is to only get her number and schedule a date over the phone. If nobody is drinking on friday night, then plan one with friends and/or coworkers. If not, you still have her number, and that's the gateway to a date. Even a 1 on 1. I think the key is to keep it casual on the phone, then run strong game on her during the meet up. | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 05:57 PM |
| 38 | Delightful_White's Guide To Facebook GameSo, this can also be done on Facebook. One ping I’ve used which ended in number close and eventually sex is "Hey [HB], Long time no see." That’s it. It's a low investment wall post, she doesn't have to respond so you lose no value. You’re just stating a fact, you haven’t seen each other in a long time. If you haven't seen this girl in a while, she WILL respond to that ping. "Yeah it's been a while, what have you been up to?". That’s where you reply with something interesting and funny like “Stea… | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 04:51 AM |
| 43 | The right way to get a bartender's attention?I've used situations like that to actually open girls at bars/clubs. If it's packed and I'm at the bar trying to get a drink and can't get the bartenders attention, I'll say to a girl next to me "I'll give you a dollar if you can get me a drink before I can". This does 3 things in one shot: It opens the girl/set, she's jumping through one of your hoops (compliance test), and it creates a fun game for you guys to play. I've done this a couple times and it usually ends up with me and the girl figh… | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 01:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] STRANGE date from okcupid, need advice!I'm currently sleeping with a girl like this. She's an "artist", so already you know she's nuts. She doesn't like to kiss before or during sex. She likes being grabbed, ripped out of her clothes, and fucked hard. I didn't get this at first, and I am not really into dominating women. I would wonder why she wasn't coming on to me at all, but yet she was giving me the "fuck me" eyes and the lower lip bite. So eventually I put 2 and 2 together, dominated that shit, and had the best sex of my life wi… | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 12:06 AM |
| 0 | [FR] STRANGE date from okcupid, need advice!Okay so I started talking to this girl from OkCupid Found your problem in the first sentence. | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 12:01 AM |
| 3 | I get rewarding for good behaviour with a spike of some sort, and that is working fine. But is there a text game or IM game equivalent for punishing for bad behaviour (i.e. the one of the moment is replying "I hate youtube videos" to a link I sent).Nobody hates youtube videos. Without much more info: She's either being a bitch because she doesn't want to be bothered with you. OR, she's giving you a shit test to see how you'll respond to the famous "i hate [something you like]" texts. it really depends on her investment level with you. If low investment, she's being a bitch the answer is go silent and stop texting her, she's a bitch... If some investment, it's a shit test, try "You're more of a YouPorn fan, eh? That's cool, I don't judge" | /r/seduction | 19/11/10 04:22 AM |
| 7 | Approach gone totally wrong, how can I fix it?She left earlier than me, but on the way out, I glanced at her and she looked back at me and gave me a "WTF?" look She was wondering why you never approached her, so you ended up looking "creepy" to her because at that point you were just staring at her and showing her the same juice box. The juice box thing was far from great, but it got her smiling at least. A smile is an open invitation to approach IMO. Just say "hi" next time. Who knows man, that chick could have been naked in your bed tonig… | /r/seduction | 19/11/10 04:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Part 2, going after long-time 'just friends' girlI think you should start by reading up on basic pickup. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/ We're all pulling for you, honestly. So keep us updated on what happens next. From a guy who has been there before (and as many others here on seddit have been there too), we are all expecting you to fail and hopefully learning a valuable lesson. | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 10:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Part 2, going after long-time 'just friends' girlI reply with: "No it's not a date Excellent! You're doing gr.... When you call me back next week to go out again, that would be a date. And I can't promise this won't be awkward, and we might not be friends after it.". facepalm | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 08:20 PM |
| 27 | A little tip for the winter.clever post. I used to date a girl who always smelled great. I remember I would often give her my coat when it got cold. The next day on the way to work I would smell her perfume/lotion/whatever on it and it smelled sooooo good. I would think about her that entire day. I'm sure it works for guys too. | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 05:31 PM |
| 15 | Serious question, why don't white girls like my online profile?put a shirt on | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 06:32 AM |
| 7 | Need Your Help Seddit With This Particular WomanYeah or maybe you could get just together and eat a bunch of caramels. When you think about it, it's as arbitrary as drinking coffee | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 06:16 AM |
| 5 | Need Your Help Seddit With This Particular WomanAfter school/class/whatever: "I need a drink. Let's go to ["x" bar/"x" coffee house/7-11] | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Question on an early complimentTouche | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Question on an early complimentGo for attraction first. Compliment her after she has "earned" your affections, when you move on to the comfort phase. It will make your compliments come off as more genuine to her, so they will have more effect. Don't shower her with compliments all night. Don't forget to push/pull. | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 04:07 AM |
| 5 | I cant wipe the feeling that when i use an opener am not fooling anyoneYou're not supposed to be "fooling" anybody. You're supposed to be a high value guy engaging others in stimulating conversation. | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Splitting the billIf a girl you just met says "shots?" she is usually trying to get you to buy. A good response to this would be "you're buying me a shot? (feign blushing/shock) alright I'll have a [blah]!" This basically always works unless the girl is a drink scammer, in which case you don't want to hang out with her anyway. This. So much. This. Don't be afraid to joke around with a girl and have her put you on her tab. 75% of the time, if you do it right, girls will buy you drinks. Just act as if they've alrea… | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How much is negging important? Can I get around without using it?I'm not disagreeing with you at all. Negging is in fact an IOD, and that's the idea behind negging. But the point behind that particular IOD is to make her feel like she is losing value in your eyes (after all, she is a 10 and she automatically believes that she has more value than you), and now you are the one who has the most value because she isn't getting the validation she is used to getting ("you're so beautiful", "you're boyfriend is so lucky", insert your own AFC line and so on...). And … | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 02:54 AM |
| 1 | So I'm tagged as the "funny (in kind of a nerdy way)" guy in the group. I don't like it.In my experience that is not true at all. Being funny is probably one of my best qualities. One thing that I'm good at is making people laugh, and I have to say it's one of the things that gets women attracted to me. They always tell me "oh my god you're too funny!" and I've been pretty successful with it. My sense of humor is probably one of my best qualities and without it I would likely not be as successful. | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 02:28 AM |
| 1 | So I'm tagged as the "funny (in kind of a nerdy way)" guy in the group. I don't like it.Don't sweat being the funny guy. If it wasn't for being the funny guy, I'd never get laid. It's pretty much my best quality and without it I probably wouldn't have as much success with women. | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 02:24 AM |
| 3 | How much is negging important? Can I get around without using it?I agree. Many people get confused with teasing and negging. Negging is meant to get the girl to feel that she has lost value in your eyes, and now you are the one who has more value. Teasing is just fun teasing. Who doesn't like that? | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 02:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I've reached a new levelGood lines except for the opener on the HB7s Wasn't really trying to pull an opener. I was actually just curious and was asking, because it was a huge party. That's the thing though, I wasn't hitting on them or trying to gain anything from them, and they were very open to me. I eventually began flirting with both of them and they bought me drinks. The power of disinterest is AMAZING. but solid game Thank you, sir. Definitely stealing your text line =P Go for it, that's why it's posted. It works … | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 01:55 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I've reached a new level1) I've been realizing just how much social proof really helps. It will increase your chances of meeting women by A LOT! Sets are much more likely to open when you have ANY girls with you, even not such good looking ones. Social proof is THE SHIT! Doors literally fly open for you if you have some girls with you. Obviously, we want to strive for hot girls rather than ugly ones, but if ugly is all you got you should probably take them out one night and see what happens. 2)Also, since I showed up w… | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 01:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I've reached a new levelBy all means, steal it. That's why I posted it. It actually works pretty well, they almost always play along and it immediately gets them into the role play with you. You're the prize, and she's hitting on you. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 01:40 AM |
| 2 | How much is negging important? Can I get around without using it?The key to a good neg is to not seek a reaction from her. If she sees it as just a way for you to get a reaction out of her she's gonna smell your bullshit from a mile away. Reaction-seeking is not attractive. It comes off as try-hard. you probably shouldn't smile too much, if at all, when negging. A smile comes off as reaction seeking. A neg is supposed to be a comment that you "werent even aware that you may be offending her". I put it in quotes because we really are doing it consciously. We'r… | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 01:21 AM |
| 3 | [FR] from a (former?) AFC - Wait, this actually works?Nice report, and congrats. Doesn't it just feel great when you're in the zone and you see things progressing naturally and you can tell she keeps getting more and more turned on?? It's a drug, my friend. And you always want more and more. Enjoy your success, and for the love of god that woman's pussy is probably throbbing right now. Go give her a good stabbing. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Can a guy who is a 4 pull a girl who is 8 or 9?Haha, if I divulge that information there will be no girls left for me and all of you sedditors will AMOG me out sets =). Honestly though, there is no one bar to go pick up girls. Its NYC dude. The girls are everywhere. Although I do have a few tips for you. Weird observation first: I am 26 years old and generally have more one night stands and f-closes on tuesday and thursday nights. So go out on those nights, even if you have work in the morning. Those seem to be the nights when most locals an… | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Can a guy who is a 4 pull a girl who is 8 or 9?I remember the post. And that is actually a good observation and a really good point. But I'm only 5'11. I'm not extremely tall. Maybe I seem taller because I'm scrawny. (I mean dude, I'm thin as spaghetti. And i look like I have AIDS because I'm so pale too. I even have a little stutter when I talk. But this never stopped me). I am far from the general "tall and good looking" guy. So, I'm going to disagree with you on this one. The truth is I approached her at a party, she didn't approach me. G… | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Can a guy who is a 4 pull a girl who is 8 or 9?Last year, I dated a girl for about 6 months. Everybody including my brother, friends, and my parents even, said she was way out of my league. Made me feel good actually when they said it. I mean, I'm a decent looking guy, but tall, scrawny, pale faced, and I drink and smoke excessively. This girl was a total 9, super hot, awesome body. Every single time when we went out, without fail, she would get hit on my numerous guys. She was mine though, so I was never jealous, never got upset, and even "… | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 04:29 PM |
| 2 | How to be more witty in general conversation?A good way to get better at "witty banter" is to practice it during text and phone game. While you're texting, you have more time to think of a witty or funny response, than you would have in person. Eventually, you'll notice yourself coming up with witty and funny responses without even thinking it. You can eventually move this to into your everyday situations with friends, co-workers, etc. Then, its only a matter of time before you have girls laughing and grabbing you, tell you how funny you a… | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 03:33 PM |
| 7 | I just deleted 200GB of pornOne of my friends watches porn before he goes out sarging, but does NOT beat off. He says it gets him amped up to go get laid, and apparently it works. I've never been able to get passed 2 minutes. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 03:20 PM |
| 2 | How to open a random HB walking purposefully down the street?I have the same situation. It's hard to get them out of their apartments nowadays | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 12:14 AM |
| 2 | How to open a random HB walking purposefully down the street?also NYC, here. | /r/seduction | 12/11/10 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Back in the dating game after 2 years. Need help!terrible advice | /r/seduction | 11/11/10 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Suggestions on how to respond to "wow, you're really tall""you're just really small" | /r/seduction | 10/11/10 04:07 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Kino + Kissing at a meat market on 3rd encounter, met with massive ASD when trying to relocate.Whenever I get ASD or LMR from a girl, I simply say "I understand" or "I'm cool with that" and smile. Take 2 steps back (not literally, 2 kino steps back i.e. go from kissing to just touching hands), and slowly progress again. Keep doing this and it should break her ASD. ALL SHE WANTS IS REASSURANCE THAT SHE IS NOT A SLUT EDIT: This works for me with a high success rate | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 04:59 AM |
| 5 | how to get to day2 in college?Sounds like you've hit a brick wall, my friend. Sorry dude, but it seems like she's just not that attracted to you. You're probably also telegraphing a little too much interest in her. Without much more info, I'm assuming you're texting her the usual "Hey, whats up?" and then "what are you doing friday?" and then "Lets go get some coffee/pizza/drinks/something arbitrary" and then she says she's busy. You're boring. Its ok though, I was the same. Lucky for you, somebody posted this link today tha… | /r/seduction | 04/11/10 12:59 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Last minute resistance, Virgin.My brain hurts from reading this | /r/seduction | 04/11/10 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Got her number, texted her, did not work out quite as planned. Advice?I think you did fine. I personally try to keep the text conversations short and use them as a segway to a meet-up, but she seems to enjoy talking to you. I wouldn't sweat it. | /r/seduction | 03/11/10 05:09 AM |
| 1 | An inspirational little story.All Europeans are sluts though. Men and women. Pretty sure its common there. | /r/seduction | 03/11/10 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Bitches love smiley faces? ;)I hate "lol". Even typing it right there made me cringe a little. I'll go with a "haha" if she really makes me smile or laugh. I also hate when people censor their curses when type. ;) | /r/seduction | 03/11/10 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Need help coming up with a responseI have a friend who uses the line "Oh that's great, him and my girlfriend should meet". Seems to usually get a positive response and a good laugh. In the least you'll come off as unaffected by it. | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Determining self valueIf you don't think you have any value, than she will think the same thing. The key is to talk about what you do with enthusiasm. Speak slowly.. with pauses.. when you talk about how.. PASSIONATE.. you are for art.. she will be hanging on your words. If you speak with passion and enthusiasm (and slowly, with pauses to emphasize certain words), no matter what your talking about she will find it interesting. Because YOU find it interesting, and you're talking about it like its the most interesting … | /r/seduction | 27/10/10 09:09 PM |
| 19 | Can you describe what makes a man attractive without using the word "confidence"?Usually females give terrible advice in these threads. We appreciate all feedback from females, good or bad. But this is actually GOOD ADVICE. The TL;DR of her post is: Being "confident" is about being happy with who you are and not seeking approval from others. | /r/seduction | 27/10/10 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Making up for a failure stated in a previous post. I got her number and drinks are planned this Friday.That was me who posted the "I don't need friends that bad" post. Use that line all you want bro, that why I posted it. You got some field tested (and proven) shit right there. I get that friends line a lot, I use my line frequently. Just make sure you're teasing her, and she knows it. Smile when you say it. It's a great way to make her laugh and that always makes it easier to start conversations and start gaming. As far as the bar date goes, do what INTJPUA is telling you to do. He's got some go… | /r/seduction | 27/10/10 05:48 AM |
| 1 | FR - Is it treason to disclose pick up techniques to HBs I just did and it seems to have workedThis is ballsy and awesome. I want to to do this so bad but I don't think I can pull it off without smiling too much or laughing. You need to pull this off in just the right way. I love it though, I have to try it. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 06:22 AM |
| 1 | FR - Oktoberfest fun, where to go from here?Check out The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game It's actually really good and has helped me as well as others here. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 05:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] slightly stronger ASD from mildly religious college girlsYou definitely should have isolated her. In my opinion, you needed to build more comfort with her and then push her compliance threshold a bit. Keep pushing with kino, if you feel even slight resistance take a step back, wait, and slowly escalate again. Sounds like you had a pretty good night though. Keep up the good work and lets get some more FR's | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Men Are Better Than Women Dick MastersonThis guy seems like a real slimeball. And he wears child molester sunglasses with matching mustache. I would never give this asshole any money, no matter how funny I found that video. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How to Handle Moments of SilenceIf the girl I'm talking to has been investing in the conversation and giving me IOI's, I usually say "I'm curious about you.... [instert random question about her]". It shows your interested in her and basically gives you a reason why your asking. Its OK to show a little interest in a woman you've been talking to, flirting with, touching, making her laugh etc. Just make sure she is showing you interest first. Reward her every now and then by saying things "I'm curious about you... [random questi… | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 04:22 AM |
| 12 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]I take it that this post was an IOD? | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 10:27 PM |
| 1 | General/David Wygant's seminar questionsI read that like you're a virgin who wants a relationship but can only get one night stands, which would make you not a virgin. I get what your saying now. You're best bet is to practice on girls you find attractive, but don't want a relationship with. That way when you meet the relationship girl, you'll have the confidence, knowledge, and know how to give her a good fucking. I suggest checking out the Mystery Method. Dont worry about all his canned routines and openers, although those will help… | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 08:53 PM |
| 1 | General/David Wygant's seminar questionsI have no experience with women (19, virgin) trying to get into a relationship (I've never had one) rather than one night stands what??? | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 08:38 PM |
| 17 | Married woman telling me and her friend that she needed a good fuck... What should have I done?Don't fuck married women. | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 08:34 PM |
| 0 | How to be more expressive?Pick up a book on body language | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Where did I go wrong? [FR]Sounds like you did OK up until the apartment. A few pointers here: I asked for a kiss and she said/acted like it was too soon/we didn't know each other enough You made it awkward. This makes you lose value, like she has the kiss that YOU want. You should have just went in for the kiss, you would probably have a less chance of getting rejected. Getting rejected by leaning in and trying to kiss her I feel is way better than asking and her saying no. I then said "at least can I get your number?" N… | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Seduction Hotline?Step 1: Get good at the art of pickup. Step 2: Get hotline Step 3: ???? Step 4: Profit | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 12:13 AM |
| 11 | Why are Pittsburgh Steelers bad at picking up women?I laughed... and then hated myself for laughing. I'm leaving Seddit forever now. | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Watch and learnDon't take advice from this. The best thing he did in that scene was walk away EDIT. without shaking her hand | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 11:37 PM |
| 5 | Possible ways of getting girls from my busy workplace?I work at a large restaurant waiting tables Dont worry about the girls you work with. You wait tables at a restaurant you probably come into contact with hot groups of girls constantly! Just lurk around Seddit for a while and get some tips. Practice it on girls you wait at your restaurant! You could be showering in phone numbers, my brother. | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 11:26 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to girls who suggest 'group' activities?all i can do is give advice on how i would want a guy to react Again, with all due respect, this is why we do not take advice from women. There is a HUGE difference between what women say they WANT, and what women are actually ATTRACTED to. And I know you agree with us on this fact. | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 11:17 PM |
| 8 | AFC going on a first date.stop apologizing for yourself. We know its a joke. This is your first step to moving out of your AFC phase. When somebody comments on something you said, stick to it and dont back down. Don't explain yourself. I'm serious. Chicks find that a turnoff, its very un-confident. | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 09:48 AM |
| 6 | FR - Live music killed the internet star"Not my scene tonight, lets go to the dive bar around the corner" which is the least I should have done? should have done this. take action. girls want guys who take action. If the bar was too loud and you couldn't talk, you think she wanted to stay there too? Think about it.... This is why we're here though. To learn and share. | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 09:42 AM |
| 2 | I'm in love with an escort, how do I make her time with me more enjoyable?Haha! Upvote! | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 03:23 AM |
| 10 | Going sarging for the first time tonightWhen I first started practicing game, I actually felt more confident when I was shut down. I know it seems weird, but getting rejected made me feel like I was actually getting somewhere with pickup. Most new PUA's dont even get rejected because they dont even try (that was me, not even trying). Don't get me wrong, I still get blown out sometimes, and now its not even a big deal. I shrug my shoulders and move onto the next set. I've had girls that shut me out approach me later, after seening me h… | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Phone game. amidoinitrite?Thanks for the tips. Truth be told, this girl is pretty cute, but I'm not even that into her. I was really going for the f-close. But I figured since I need to work on my phone game, I'll practice a bit. I dont even really want to go to dinner with this chick, but I probably will for some 1 on 1 date practice (practice makes perfect!), you can never have enough practice! Plus, if I flake its not going to be good because we frequent the same bar. Unless I have a REALLY good excuse. | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 12:56 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Bitches love he following: Vodka (Svedka gets the job done), Bacardi (the flavored kinds, it really doesn't matter. The brighter the label color, the better), wine, and mixers. BE CAREFUL THOUGH. You dont want them to get too drunk and then you're babysitting them in your bathroom. Been there buddy. Been there... SMH | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 12:14 AM |
| 1 | What sort of music or films would a seducer play for the ladies?Pick up the album "Re-Whipped". Its a remix album of a classic Herb Alpert album. Its actually really good, it has a good vibe, and chicks dig it and probably never heard it before. I've fucked many a woman to that album. check it out here | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Might Try Sarging Solo for the First Time Tomorrow. Tips?Noted. Regardless, having people bail on you makes you look like a douche. lie or not. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Might Try Sarging Solo for the First Time Tomorrow. Tips?agree with this. I personally have thought about it, but never used the "my friends bailed on me" because now you seem like you're a loser and your friends dont give a shit about you. The girls might even say something like "oh thats so sad" and give you even lower value than you already came off as having. Then they leave and you're just a sorry loser at the bar by himself. Go with the lies. I know not everybody likes lying, but sometimes you need to go with what works. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Might Try Sarging Solo for the First Time Tomorrow. Tips?I go out alone a lot actually. Most of my friends have girlfriends, I enjoy the thrill of the game, so they don't always come out to game girls. I tend to go by myself often. Although they are guys and they have fun too, so they do wing me often as well. I use the following: (Clearly by yourself) "Long day at work. Had to stop in to grab a quick drink before I go home" (at busy club) "My friends are around here somewhere...." while pointing around the busy club. and then just shake it off and st… | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Might Try Sarging Solo for the First Time Tomorrow. Tips?Tip #1: Have fun. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 04:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Told her "I don't need friends that bad". She was all over me.Thank you sir | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Cute coffee shop girl, blah blah... (throwaway)It was getting late and she tells me she's been sleeping in her car lately. You want to date a chick who sleeps in her car? Granted it was a hint she wanted to sleep over, but still dude. Is she homeless? | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 02:01 AM |
| 1 | What are your best tips for getting HER to pick you up?Not sure if you're serious. But I laughed when I read this. That shit is funny. where I'd make her show off her tits to other people, thus earning me more high fives from people and generate the legend some more. Then eventually, due to sheer status, she'd sleep with me. Well done, fine sir. Upvote coming your way. | /r/seduction | 21/10/10 08:20 PM |
| 2 | What are your best tips for getting HER to pick you up?I don't get how women can have sex with each other. Unless they just... like... [locks fingers together] scissor... or something. | /r/seduction | 21/10/10 08:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Told her "I don't need friends that bad". She was all over me.Good thinking. I recently befriended a bartender at a college hangout bar. Really cool place, great music, great food, great girls, etc. He gives me free drinks all the time, and he introduces me to girls a lot. He'll call me aside, say "lets do a shot" and then we'll do a shot with some girls at the bar. He always says great things about me to them, even if they aren't even close to true. But it works. | /r/seduction | 21/10/10 07:22 PM |
| 1 | To all guys who complain about shallowness of women...If not a troll: Dude, at least bang a fat or ugly chick. | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 08:54 PM |
| 1 | So I've never been to a real club/bar and it definitely intimidates me. How do I pull off a confident look when I am definitely not?while you're 2 stepping your way into some fine girly's heart. or her vagina | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 08:47 PM |
| 1 | So I've never been to a real club/bar and it definitely intimidates me. How do I pull off a confident look when I am definitely not?You probably still haven't even gone out yet. Go out tonight. Do it. Just fucking go. Go to the club, walk in, grab a drink, take a lap and then GTFO. At least you'll have been there once. next time you go you know what the place looks like, where things are, and you'll be more comfortable because you'll KNOW what its like there, even if you didn't talk to anybody. Seriously. GO TONIGHT. Dont even read this post, just say fuck it and go. Just DO IT. | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 08:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Told her "I don't need friends that bad". She was all over me.Fantastic advice. Thanks dude! I'd like to check out that cellphone book if you have time to upload it. We're all here to improve, right? Also, with the cigarettes, try some other fun routines as well. If they walk up to you and ask you for a cig while you're smoking, put the cig in your lips and muffle out the words "I dont smoke" with a smirk. That usually gets a laugh which at that point you can say (in a dead serious face and tone) "I'm serious. Smoking is bad for your health and its addicti… | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 08:32 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Told her "I don't need friends that bad". She was all over me.exactly what bryan05 said. I give them my credit card and ID. If you dont close it, you dont get your ID and card back until the next day. Some places add 20-25% gratuity onto the tab if you leave it overnight. And thats not the first time. i once had a girl get into a cab with me, head to my place, and then when I go to pay i realize i forgot to close my tab (damn alcohol!!). Had to cab it all the way back to the bar, close it, and head all the way back home. Double the fare, double the embarra… | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Looking for tricks and suggestionsYou seem pretty new to this, I'd say begin with reading articles online with basic pickup. You probably need to work on your inner game first. Besides that, your first and best bet is to stop being so friendly. When you first meet a girl at a party you should act disinterested. Be cocky and funny. Tease her about something she's wearing (don't be a dick, but like if your friend was wearing something weird you'd point it out and bust his balls for it) and don't be afraid to touch her arm or shoul… | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 04:09 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Told her "I don't need friends that bad". She was all over me.Yeah, I left out some parts so the post wasn't tl;dr. I told her to wait while I close my tab but she said her and her friend (and i guess roommate) had to head home. So I just grabbed the number instead of leaving with nothing, at least for the ego boost. | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 02:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Told her "I don't need friends that bad". She was all over me.Great idea. I feel like where I succeed in approach and attract, I lack in phone game. Thanks for the advice | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 02:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Amazing WeekendNice work. More details of the social dynamics of the situation would have been great though. I've always wanted to have a 3some. Its probably my #1 goal in life. Any tips on to go about this? | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Didn't number close, but had her emailI wouldn't email her from study group email. Seems weird. Unless it was going to be about some arbitrary thing in class like notes or homework or a test. Just use that as your in to converse in email a bit more, but sparingly. Tell her that you dont use email too often and tell her (TELL HER) to exchange numbers with you. Leave yours in the email. never email again. That is... if you ARE going to email her and NOT talk to her in class. | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 07:13 AM |
| 2 | How often do your targets call you out on scripted material?I don't mind canned material. But doing the cube and the best friends test is lame, unless you come off as some fancy monocle wearing hipster psychology major. There's nothing wrong with breaking out material that you've used before, but make it your own. I use canned topics if conversation starts to dry. Its more like a fun topic that I like to bring up that girls enjoy talking about. If conversation starts to get slow, I'll ask about her job (boring topic) and then ask her if thats what she's … | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 06:56 AM |
| 1 | (Return of) Seddit Weekly Challenge #3: this one's heady.Details? | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 04:45 AM |
| 2 | My story of breaking out of my anti-social way, for the first time in years.I'm a hell of a lot better than I was a year ago too. In fact, I get better every time I go out and practice my game (at least once a week). Just keep going out and practicing. Practice getting rejected if you have to. It builds character. Keep it up, bro. Get out as much as possible and don't worry about the outcome of anything. You'll get there. | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 04:37 AM |
| 1 | So I've never been to a real club/bar and it definitely intimidates me. How do I pull off a confident look when I am definitely not?Most guys look like morons while dancing. Including me. Until recently, I never danced. I just stopped giving a fuck and I've been dancing with girls a lot more recently. They all respond positively! Seriously though. Look around the club next time you're there. Look at all the guys dancing. 99% of them look retarded, but they're having a GREAT TIME, and the girls are HAVING A GREAT TIME WITH THEM! Its the fun attitude that the girls like. Don't worry about what you look like while dancing, you … | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 02:25 AM |
| 2 | My story of breaking out of my anti-social way, for the first time in years.I used to make excuses for myself all the time, the same ones. Dude, I have a stutter, I'm scrawny, pale faced, and pretty awkward at times. I still go out and get laid. The difference is, I'm comfortable with who I am. I dont need to go improving things step by step. I'm happy with who I am and if people dont like me, fuck them, because everybody else seems to think I'm pretty fucking awesome. Be happy with who you are. Thats all. Thats the real secret to seduction. | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 01:21 AM |
| 3 | How to be more than friends?talking about it makes things awkward. one of the worst things you can do is make things seem like a big deal. Even talking about it with her, in her eyes, its going to come off like its a big deal to you. Best thing to do is keep doing what your doing. Keep up the kino. Push her kino limits slowly. Its what you want. When your cuddling slowly move your hands to more intimate areas and then pull back a bit. If she seems weirded out just roll off and slowly escalate again. When you pull off it ma… | /r/seduction | 19/10/10 07:20 AM |
| 1 | How to be more than friends?she just wants to get drunk and make out with random guys. thats pretty blunt. girls dont normally say that. Most of them do want to do that in college, but most wont admit it. she is. If you want to be a random guy, do it. Dont except a girlfriend out of it. | /r/seduction | 19/10/10 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Asking a girl out for drinks.This is good. What I do is as we are about to sit in the seats at the bar or at the table (that I choose and lead her to) I sit down and clap my hands and playfully rub them together like we're about to get into some crazy partying and say "so whose got the first round?". They almost always giggle and say "I don't have any cash on me." (shit test?). So I'll smile and say "oh my god, are you homeless? I had no idea. Now I feel bad and maybe I should get the first round. Homeless people love booze… | /r/seduction | 19/10/10 06:17 AM |
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