Just Keep Saying the Wrong Thing [AFC]

MoussakaMan · 2011-05-15T12:55:15+00:00

You had gay sex even though you're straight? Yeah, that is bad.

I had the same sucking at conversations problem as you and I still do a little but it's much better now. The cause for me was that I was a shut-in and long time recluse with A LOT of bad programming floating through my head.

The solution is to go out regularly and talk to everyone. You will embarrass yourself and come off a little weird very often and that is all part of the process of becoming socially calibrated. The big danger is caring too much about what other people think. I suggest you read Feeling Good (at least until chapter 3) to help you not sweat the bad experiences. It helped me a lot. Just remember to keep going out often and talk to people.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-05-15T14:17:16+00:00

Um...

heckz · 2011-05-15T16:32:07+00:00

Conversation threading works wonders as do why and how questions.

Delightful_White · 2011-05-15T19:52:14+00:00

Have you considered that you might actually be gay? There's nothing wrong with that. I'm just saying because I don't see how being shy and not being able to talk to people led you to gay sex.

l3fth4nd · 2011-05-15T19:59:34+00:00

Go out, hit on tonnes of women, talk to lots of people. Try not to think when you're talking to people, just say whatever is one your mind without filtering stuff out.

One another note, you might be bi, sexuality isn't black and white, check out the Kinsey Scale.

kyo3 · 2011-05-16T03:27:04+00:00

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TofuTofu · 2011-05-15T16:27:00+00:00

Have you checked the sidebar link on conversation? It's pretty solid.

FucksWithHiveMind · 2011-05-15T14:48:21+00:00

I'm pretty sure willingly having gay sex makes you gay. Maybe you are struggling because you are not actually interested in women?

Title	Just Keep Saying the Wrong Thing [AFC]
Author	kyo3
Upvotes	9
Comments	22
Date	May 15, 2011 12:30 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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