http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gqlrw/a_bit_of_a_situation/ So the pot luck went great, K and I learned a lot about ourselves. She also opted to host it, and said we could all visit whenever. I'm not sure if this was an open invitation to me as well. The brunch was even better, after chatting it up for an hour at the place we went and hung at the park and walked around and got coffee.

K isn't looking for anything serious, and said as much at the pot luck, that's good by me. Also, she has gone a loooong while without sex. The thing is, no kino, no kiss no nothing. It was a date, sure, that was the way I set it up. She said she's tried the one night stand thing and it didn't "work out", so I'm thinking she's looking for a friend whom she can sleep with, me too!

What I'm thinking now is what should my next move be? Should I ask her over for a movie and alcohol? Should I ask her out for drinks? Or wait for another "group hang out" type setting, my issue with these is it may be a while until that is, considering we're in finals week for college. We're both early 20s for what it's worth and finishing up college. She's also staying in town over the summer.

I would like to say this isn't one-itis, I'm just trying to get this one girl and get a regular thing going. But if things progress I wouldn't complain, she's an 8-9, carries herself quite well.

And I'd like to say thanks to the gents who gave me advice last time.