just playing about the devil's threesome. i needed an attention grabbing title. to be honest though, you could call this situation the devil's threesome of the seddit world.

background

i've been working on everything about my game and i've been making decent process. when i feel confident everything seems to flow and i'm able to # and k close. however, in my circle of friend's there's a regular fucking Casanova that has the potential to get any girl. i was never concerned about him when i was building and practicing my game because we usually go for different girls but last week i brought a girl over to his place. i had just met her through a mutual friend and hadn't had enough time to establish good kino. we had a good connection for the first hour or so we met. i was supposed to take her home for labor day but we decided stay the night.

long story short, they got along pretty well that night and now i think that they're moving closer (texting mainly) while i'm relapsing and fading away.

so my question for you all is: how often do you guys compete with other experienced pua's? and what do you do?

here's the kicker; i've known this guy way longer than the girl. we usually shoot the shit about the girls we're with but now that we're both after the same one it's been awkward as fuck. i'm leaning towards bros before hos and letting the better man get it for now. and by better man i mean: Mr. Moneybags owns a high rise condo, has more experience than me w/ the game, and has a lot more free time than me (student vs. 40 hr work week). i'm in a good place in life right now and i don't really need this specific girl but it just sucks that when i think i have a chance to spread my wings i get clipped by someone else.

tl;dr what do you do when another guy with more experience goes after the same girl as you? does this happen a lot or is SOP to escalate hard so that the girl doesn't even consider anyone else?