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[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 4 points5 points6 points 15 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You're using a variant of an exact phone game tip I heard. Set a specific time to phone her at an odd minute like 8:05 instead of 8PM. Call her exactly at 8:05. She will remember it. Keep doing that. Then about the third or fourth time, call her like 5 minutes late. She'll be bursting with anticipation for 5 whole minutes before that call.
[–]frogma 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Did this on Saturday. Works like a charm.
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Glad to hear your report. This is what seddit needs more of, tips and then reports of how it worked. I appreciate your taking the time to report, and I'm sure other sedditors do too.
[–]frogma 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man. I wish I had discovered the community earlier. I could have a million reports that will actually help people because I've tried absolutely everything, but my memory's terrible. I wish I could see more tips like yours though, we've all seen the basic stuff and nobody's really mastered "the game" or anything, but little things like your post are sometimes much better motivators than someone saying "grow some balls" or "use this line," it's just funny because I'm now remembering all the times I told a girl we couldn't meet at 7pm but we had to meet at 7:03 because I said so. It's good stuff though.
[–]MrRisky 2 points3 points4 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're doing good, amigo! For the most part, very tight.
Here are the sustains:
Your text as soon as she went inside. You managed to put it in a sexual frame without getting creepy or desparate sounding.
When she said "reschedual", you told her when and what, as opposed to asking what works for her. Good leading.
Stealing her bike - good, alpha, even though it's a joke, it works.
IMPROVES:
I'm busy tomorrow during the day. I'll be done and hungry by 7pm. We'll get some food and a quick drink. Maybe save some animals from a fire if we have time
Too long, try "I can do food and a drink at 7"
I think the burning building meme has run its course, the last one sounded a bit forced, but you know her personality so maybe not.
You keep initiating the texts. After the date, don't contact her the next day. Wait for her to contact you. Unless she spends the night, in which case wake her for some AM.
[–]Delightful_White 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the tips. Truth be told, this girl is pretty cute, but I'm not even that into her. I was really going for the f-close. But I figured since I need to work on my phone game, I'll practice a bit. I dont even really want to go to dinner with this chick, but I probably will for some 1 on 1 date practice (practice makes perfect!), you can never have enough practice! Plus, if I flake its not going to be good because we frequent the same bar. Unless I have a REALLY good excuse.
[–]cheddarchexmix 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love the "are you even old enough to vote"!
This all seems pretty solid to me. The only text that really stands out is your longest text, but it still kinda worked for me. When I get the old "reschedule" I never do it for the next day, I always skip a day, mostly so I don't need to explain that I'm busy the next day, it's just implied. I also never involve food on a first date. But that's just a personal preference.
[–]UmeaHC 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good job, but I agree, too much initiating of convo on your side. Let her be the one that contacts you next. Make her chase, and you will get your f-close.
[–]frogma 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is glorious. She's a cool girl for playing along with everything. Overall great job though.
Sorry, completely missed the fact that you were looking for tips. I don't think I can give you much because you handled it about as well as you could. You've definitely got more texting skills than most guys I know. The 8:05 thing was great, and you totally boxed her into your frame. A girl who's generally like that might be pretty flaky though, so just watch out for that.
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