Hey guys. I'm hoping to post some FRs soon, but I've been real busy with school. Here are two major flaws I think Seddit has, and some suggestions as to what we can do to remedy them:

1) Trolls. I keep seeing lots posts that contribute nothing (if not hurt) to the Seddit community. They usually go something like this: "I am desperately in love with this girl in my class. What can I do to make her love me so we can get married and have babies?" OR "I'm fucking this HB10 every wednesday and she wants to switch to friday but I fuck an HB12 on fridays. What should I do?" PLEASE DON'T FEED THESE TROLLS. For the sake of the community, just downvote and ignore them.

2) "Witty comments" game. This usually comes in the form of comments with people suggesting how to reply to a girl. For example, "She asked if I do this all the time." and someone will write "You can't be the first, but you can be the next" Implying that the OP should reply with some snarky remark to that effect. 99% of guys on Seddit should NOT use this sort of rubbish. It looks extremely try hard coming from someone who is not totally congruent with that "player" persona. Women are more attracted to simple, masculine intent than the snarky player-wannabe. Texts should be "Yes." "No." "Let's ..." not [snarky remark that shows I fuck girls]. As a community, let's emphasize core masculine confidence and value projection. The specifics of what to write in a text are not constructive to AFCs trying to transform as individuals.

In general, Seddit should not be as technical and "gamy". Instead, it should be more FR and mindset focused. For example, we should emphasize abundance as a virtue instead of text messages that convey abundance. Get off Seddit and start hitting the club or bar four times a week. Reading Seddit is like reading a book about how to play baseball. Professional baseball players don't read books about how to play baseball, they played the game for many years and became great. Thanks.

TLDR:

Criticism #1 refers to questions and content totally irrelevant to Seddit (i.e. one-itis)

Criticism #2 refers to highly specific and technical advice that fails to convey the underlying belief-system.

Ultimately, I argue the community would be better served by emphasizing concepts and belief-systems rather than technique. Think of it like learning to play chess: "Control the center and protect your king." is more valuable than "1. e4 2. e5 .... what's my next move?"