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5

MC that was one of the most mature and profound posts I've seen. Good luck my man.
/r/seduction05/03/11 07:36 AM
1

Stick to the inner-game of PU for him (you'll need to start there anyway). Your girl should be delighted you've reached out to her brother.
/r/seduction04/03/11 05:07 PM
2

See that you are bringing value to the conversation (as opposed to "gaming" the conversation). I had (and sometimes still do) need to recalibrate often not to be a douche. Changing my mind-set from tactical (negs, kino, etc.) to strategic (bring value) often helps.
/r/seduction04/03/11 05:04 PM
1

It's good to get out there and practice, but work on your inner-game and self-esteem constantly. Without solid arithmetic, there is no point in trying to do calculus.
/r/seduction04/03/11 05:00 PM
3

Everyone watch Spread with Ashton Kutcher.
/r/seduction02/03/11 12:54 AM
1

True, though I think he played it correctly. Besides building a little more comfort (and not immediately ejecting), I don't see much he could have done differently.
/r/seduction25/02/11 04:54 PM
1

It also sounds like she was really into you and you didn't make your romantic intentions known. She might have gotten impatient with waiting. Talking is great, but making moves is better.
/r/seduction25/02/11 04:42 PM
3

I got a lot of good advice on LMR in my last Field Report. Generally sounds like you were in a good state and had excellent frame. Way to go.
/r/seduction25/02/11 12:17 AM
35

Someone needs to post something along these lines weekly. Helps everyone stay in state and gets the new guys started. Good work.
/r/seduction24/02/11 04:38 PM
11

I think the aggressive response is fine as long as it is congruent with her impression of you.
/r/seduction24/02/11 04:30 PM
1

Got some hand action going on. The resistance was mostly physical, I was able to disarm the 'you're bad' comment pretty well and it never came up again. The funny thing was, that when I escalated verbally she was in agreement - basically saying yes/she wanted what I was laying down. But when the rubber met the road...well, it was a different story. Good tips tho man, thanks.
/r/seduction24/02/11 07:27 AM
6

I tried that. Ground Control said that's a no go.
/r/seduction23/02/11 07:23 PM
5

Honestly, it sounds like she just wants to hang out with you. Decide what you'd like to do (any of the options above) most and do it. If it's not fun for you...well don't. Good luck, FR back.
/r/seduction23/02/11 07:17 PM
1

It sounds to me like his intentions are either not clearly known or that she is pushing him into the friendzone. Either way, I think he needs to stop talking to her like they are besties and escalate to a 1v1 date. If she's not feeling it, next her.
/r/seduction23/02/11 07:12 PM
2

Why do you feel the need to compliment her? Something like 'Aww that is cute' might be more your speed. Then set-up a time to hang-out and kiss her! She is obviously thinking about kissing you.
/r/seduction23/02/11 07:05 PM
20

If you’re being really competitive, you look like a huge tool. This is great advice. I've seen way too many guys (including myself) blow it with an interested girl because of how competitive we get.
/r/seduction23/02/11 06:59 PM
1

Perfect practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction17/02/11 04:59 PM
6

"magic word" ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction17/02/11 01:53 AM
2

There's also environmental conditions to consider. BF? Married? In a bad place? Not everything is about your looks or in your control even. That's why we play the numbers.
/r/seduction17/02/11 01:52 AM
1

I feel ya. Sometimes that happens to me and my remedy is to try to bring more energy to the set. Sarcasm is not always appreciated, I guess. Also, remember to smile.
/r/seduction15/02/11 11:22 PM
1

Ditto. The ones with a little fire are the interesting ones.
/r/seduction11/02/11 06:49 PM
1

Great job. Maybe more detail on some dialog you thought was important would be helpful. Otherwise, it's a solid FR. keep up the good work.
/r/seduction11/02/11 06:46 PM
2

We were in a group - I definitely could have done more to isolate. Good suggestion. I don't know why everyone is focusing so much on the single mention of alcohol today. I was talking to people all day, and although not sober I was not pissed. There's a reason why it is called social drinking.
/r/seduction08/02/11 11:10 PM
1

Probably a better fit for r/mansformation.
/r/seduction08/02/11 09:33 PM
19

Bring the boys. DHV - make sure to get on her friends' good side. Nothing is more sexy than a guy who their friends want to bang too.
/r/seduction07/02/11 11:56 PM
2

Actually, I do find tl;dr to be helpful in FRs. They often helps me decide whether I should invest time to read the long posts.
/r/seduction07/02/11 05:43 PM
10

How do I reproduce TofuTofu? I believe that's the best way to get me in state.
/r/seduction05/02/11 08:10 AM
1

Wow thanks for this, I appreciate the time it took to be this thorough. Helpful.
/r/seduction05/02/11 12:08 AM
2

Genius. This should be seddit standardized.
/r/seduction04/02/11 07:39 PM
1

Yes, that could be the case. Most likely because I've been studying body language and I've become hyper-sensitive to it right now. I was hoping this post would help me recalibrate, and I think it did. Thanks for your thoughts.
/r/seduction04/02/11 07:09 PM
9

When you go for drinks, bring a wing-man. Have him jump on the grenade.
/r/seduction04/02/11 06:18 PM
1

Yup, if she can grab drinks, you're good to go. Meet up and sarge like a boss, then FR into seddit.
/r/seduction04/02/11 06:14 PM
32

"Excuse me, I think you're really cute. Want to go out sometime?" Maybe more than a little. Good job working on the AA tho.
/r/seduction04/02/11 06:11 PM
1

And I'd still definitely avoid that in this case.
/r/seduction04/02/11 06:32 AM
1

Nice. Keep working your international angle. Girls lap that shit up. Also, muai tai is bad ass. Keep it up buddy.
/r/seduction04/02/11 06:30 AM
1

Thanks man, that was a helpful and came with an IRL example. Exactly what I was looking for.
/r/seduction04/02/11 05:34 AM
1

ಠ_ಠ There are no templates. Apply your own wit and humor to the situation. r/seduction will not serve as a replacement for your personality.
/r/seduction02/02/11 11:55 PM
2

Yes.
/r/seduction02/02/11 11:48 PM
14

Escalate
/r/seduction02/02/11 10:59 PM
2

Haha, I'm guessing picturing her naked didn't make the AA go down, eh?
/r/seduction02/02/11 10:21 PM
2

Okay so I can see your logic, and it makes sense. What I'm trying to say is that be able to attract the girl you want, you're going to need to know how to attract girls in general. If you never try your hand, how do you know what you're doing when the right one comes along? It's like a basketball player only shooting 3-pointers...when he's open. You need to work on your shooting form first and in various situations. It's not about getting laid or picking up girls etc., it's about being able to n…
/r/seduction02/02/11 10:20 PM
1

See sidebar.
/r/seduction02/02/11 10:14 PM
2

What is this chick's obsession with coining everything as a date? Jeez. "Um, you're a nice guy (FML) but I don't really date much." -Neither do I, you're lucky you ride my bus. -shit eating grin- You didn't do anything wrong and you didn't bore her. If the date was boring it was because she's not that interesting herself. Remember, you're an interesting and awesome person. It's not your job to keep her entertained; you're not some monkey in a suit. Moving forward, you can call her in a few days …
/r/seduction02/02/11 10:12 PM
7

You're the fucking man. There's a high probability of you being the most interesting person in the club, and it is definite that you will be the one having the most fun. Whatever you do, you're going to be doing it like a boss. Or like a ninja. And no matter what happens, you are going to own it. Everyone and everything is there for your entertainment. Have fun sarging.
/r/seduction02/02/11 09:59 PM
3

You're over-thinking it. Start working on the sidebar to improve your inner-game and self-confidence. It's all over there -----> You also have a recurring one-itis. Work on a mentality of abundance by going after chicks you're not all one-itis about. Do this for a while and report back with FRs. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/02/11 09:53 PM
7

Good FR. Nice writing style, clear and concise. I like how you break up the night into distinct parts. A+++. Would back up in a knife fight.
/r/seduction02/02/11 09:47 PM
1

IMO its a fallacy that anyone can "act like someone else." Perhaps you're not an extrovert ALL the time. Who is? It is more important to me to be comfortable with who I am, no matter my state. I don't think of breaking my inner AFC as an "act", but as pushing myself to become a better person.
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:52 PM
5

Escalate. Insta-date after class or #-close. If you #-close, do not over text. Tell her to meet you at [insert bar here] at [time here]. When you're 1 v 1 it will be much easier to show her how awesome you are.
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:44 PM
5

and with a wing who knows what he is doing. like whoa.
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:05 AM
3

It seems like you acknowledge a serious problem with alcohol. Please seek help from a counselor (most likely available through your school). I've had plenty of friends travel down this path, please take care of yourself mentally and physically first.
/r/seduction01/02/11 11:32 PM
2

Strip clubs always result in poor decisions and a lot less money in the bank account the next morning for me. I'll pass on this - but if you have more control than I do I can see how it works. FR?
/r/seduction01/02/11 09:25 PM
2

Yeah, my bad. Next.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:44 PM
24

we feel less attractive than other guys Please don't make generalizations which only apply to yourself. Stop perpetuating a stereotype of Asian = AFC, this stereotype was made up by the Asian AFC community anyway. Otherwise, good first steps. You definitely could've powered through the LMR. Remember that all because she's a different race doesn't make her special.
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:59 PM
4

Improve your odds by sarging IRL too.
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:43 PM
1

Step 1 - take a deep breath. Step 2 - have her come over and close the door to your room. Step 3 - make moves. There's not much back ground for us to work with here, so I'm just assuming you're ready to f-close. Keep it simple and don't worry about living at home - that doesn't make you unfunny or not interesting. Good luck, own it. FR tomorrow.
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:42 PM
1

Chumpta: making a point, contradicting himself, and still making sense.
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:31 PM
25

Hell yeah. r/seduction wins again.
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:28 PM
1

What I am saying is that its not mutually exclusive. You can be on seddit and be normal too. If you'd like to join the community, participate and learn (which I believe you are doing), welcome. If you want to call everyone "desperate" creepers, well...the door is that way ---------->
/r/seduction01/02/11 04:19 PM
2

If you notice that they are PUAs...well then they're not very good at what they do. Please excuse the n00bs, they have to start somewhere. I've seen the same thing and, you're right, it is incongruent and super-creepy. One day they'll lvl up tho. Experienced PUAs, well you said it...they are able to maneuver in any social situation and get laid on the reg.
/r/seduction01/02/11 03:29 PM
1

If u weren't attracted to her then push her off. If u were, escalate. Easy. Also, how do you know other sedditors are "desperate"? Let's give our community the benefit of the doubt.
/r/seduction01/02/11 03:12 PM
1

Everything about this post is awesome.
/r/seduction01/02/11 02:56 PM
4

Dude, I've got similar problems. Close rate is going to be higher with 6-7s because you are both more confident and can get away with a higher margin of error. Also, there are a lot more 6-7s out there, so the probability of hooking with them is relatively higher. I don't see much wrong with your game HB8-9 game. You did lose your frame when she told you "I'm not that kind of girl" - and you let it end on a sour note. Walking her home and changing the subject would have been a good move. You can…
/r/seduction01/02/11 02:42 PM
3

I really don't think it's trolls either, to be honest. This is a waste of a thread. Next.
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:13 AM
1

Besides the spelling in this post, I like it a lot. I'm struggling with the same questions, OP.
/r/seduction01/02/11 12:34 AM
0

Just escalate like mad next time you guys are out. Remember to continue the racy text messaging even when you are right there with her. Good txt game so far tho, I like.
/r/seduction31/01/11 11:23 PM
2

Pretty much. When standing, legs a little wider than should width. Take up space when sitting. Keep your chin up when walking a.k.a. don't look down (a drama teacher once told me to look left or right to fix your head posture - that will keep your head level). Strong eye contact, but not creepy. Square your shoulders to those you are speaking. Use arm gestures when talking/story telling. There are probably a ton more, if anyone wants to pen them down.
/r/seduction31/01/11 07:50 PM
1

That's a pretty succinct and accurate post. Also, try r/malefashionadvice for pro tips on how to dress. I'm working on it as well, but remember to be an alpha - stand tall, shoulders back, feet slightly wider than shoulder width. (Although try to avoid looking like you're posing as Superman). Good posture and taking up lots of space will help you assert yourself as an alpha - and that shit is attractive.
/r/seduction31/01/11 06:00 PM
2

You ran 20K and did not talk about how people compared you to usain bolt? That's a huge story/DHV right there buddy. You already do cool things, you just have to frame them in a positive light. Other than that, good job dealing with the AA and grinding your way through the conversation. All I can say is that some days are bad days for the girls too. And some girls are just boring. Thanks for the follow-up, keep up the good work.
/r/seduction31/01/11 05:54 PM
2

I'm going to have to run counter to popular OPinion here and agree with herp. I'm on fb chat all the time and so are my friends - I don't think less of them because they are on it. fb is a way of life and everyone is on it all the time - you're not fooling anyone by not logging onto chat (just don't go around IMing everyone all the time). The rest of the advice seems pretty solid tho.
/r/seduction31/01/11 05:44 PM
2

What's with all the sedditors being in Tokyo? Good FR. Would read again. A+++
/r/seduction31/01/11 05:31 PM
2

You could be right, pibb probably looks like brad pitt in vitro with sean connery. I had a couple girls approach me the other day at the gym tho...and another hit on me at my apartment complex. I've been working on alpha posture and gaze - I think those have helped make the girls more open to approaching. I don't expect girls to open on the reg, but it sure does seem to be happening more often these days (and I am definitely not a lebron/clooney hybrid).
/r/seduction31/01/11 05:24 PM
1

It seems like your height is not a factor (especially where you are now) and I can guarantee you that it will not make a difference in the US. In regards to dudes, it's not going to be a problem for you.
/r/seduction31/01/11 05:16 PM
5

I don't think pibb has to look super-extra-hot or had lightening come down on him from zeus' nipples. He's new and felt comfortable enough to sit down and eat by himself - like a boss. I think we should give him credit where it is due. That may have been enough to get him going, and if the girls do rule the roost like he says, then they won't feel shy introducing themselves. Girls are people too.
/r/seduction31/01/11 09:10 AM
1

Something like "Wow, I guess it's make-out central around here." I didn't want her to get uncomfortable, so further isolation (outside of the bar) felt like a good idea. Also, I don't like making out in front of a lot of strangers.
/r/seduction30/01/11 06:07 PM
3

Yeah that was my first reaction too. I'd say HB7 needs to work on her closing game :P
/r/seduction30/01/11 04:40 AM
1

U right.
/r/seduction30/01/11 04:35 AM
1

I am asian (and on the shorter side) as well. Its not a bad gig. Read any of my FR for examples of what I do - I hope they help.
/r/seduction30/01/11 04:28 AM
1

I like that a lot. I think the moral of the story here is to always have your phone on you.
/r/seduction30/01/11 02:11 AM
1

Any feedback on what else I could have done would be appreciated.
/r/seduction30/01/11 02:05 AM
2

Thanks bud - definitely still learning.
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:54 PM
1

Sweet. Good job man, keep up the energy.
/r/seduction29/01/11 06:37 PM
2

Brandy: Call me So I call her, and she tells me all this past drama shit that has happened between these girls .. just dirt on each other. And really i don't know why she is telling me this. She wants you to acknowledge how much better she is than the other girl. She did this several times before, i.e. B: Lol. Ok. I don't think she is the right 'type' for u. Just saying..as ur friend. And you did a good job not taking the bait...at first. She wants to feel superior to girl B because you chose gi…
/r/seduction28/01/11 11:23 PM
2

Why did you tell her you like her? Don't get one-itis with this girl. She shit-test you and you failed. Next time she comes around just tell her you don't like to talk about other people behind their back. She will respect that. She knows of your other relationship, and now wants your attention. Don't give it to her until she earns it.
/r/seduction28/01/11 10:54 PM
3

She is definitely disrespecting your relationship, which is not cool. Tell her that since she feels comfortable dating other guys, you feel justified in ending your exclusive relationship (i.e. dating other girls). Then start sarging like a boss.
/r/seduction28/01/11 09:35 PM
1

Good story. Do what cheddar says. Just don't blow it like I did by getting distracted.
/r/seduction28/01/11 09:27 PM
2

It's not theory. It's not drama. It's definitely not magic. It's just people trying to bone.
/r/seduction28/01/11 05:06 PM
1

You can change the tone and emphasize "deep" to convey sarcasm and playfulness. She will then be baited to respond with either a playful apology or, (if she is cool) something ironically insightful.
/r/seduction28/01/11 04:52 PM
2

Get on top of her or get over her. Either way, do it soon.
/r/seduction28/01/11 07:44 AM
2

You did exactly the right thing - and exactly what your training was meant to do. As I was taught, the martial arts are for self-defense. Mission accomplished. Don't pay heed to that douchebag, you're way better than him. You did the honorable thing while standing up for yourself. You can be proud of that.
/r/seduction28/01/11 07:39 AM
6

So I come over and sit down like a boss. Only Tofu can make sitting down boss-like. Thanks for the FR man.
/r/seduction28/01/11 07:25 AM
9

What "great things" specifically? Although great for its cinematography, all I got was that the dude bases his self-worth on Summer's opinion of him. If anything, she did a great job in setting the frame and playing the field - eventually nabbing herself a solid-looking rock. He just got crushed like a chump.
/r/seduction28/01/11 01:41 AM
2

Better than opinions, these are good specific tips that anyone can use. Good work.
/r/seduction28/01/11 01:37 AM
1

Dude, I totally understand you. I am "picky" too, but that doesn't stop me from collecting a shitstorm of numbers or talking to a lot of HBs - even if I end up deleting them from my phone/life. Knowing you can be selective is different than simply being "picky". Stop being outcome dependent. You will feel much better. And when she comes back, you will be able to make the right moves. In the mean time, forget about it and go meet some more people.
/r/seduction28/01/11 01:33 AM
7

Sounds like 2 is no fun. Ditch 2, acquire 3 and 4. Return to 1.
/r/seduction28/01/11 01:18 AM
2

Get coffee. Suggest change of venues. Begin kino on walk to second venue.
/r/seduction28/01/11 01:15 AM
1

You have a case of one-itis. People come to seddit so that this doesn't happen to them - they have an abundance mentality (or even an abundance reality). They are ready to DHV and have the confidence to pursue the women that are really attractive to them while not being outcome dependent. I'm no expert, so if you want help, I suggest you start reading from the sidebar.
/r/seduction28/01/11 01:12 AM
3

I agree. Great job and thanks for the follow-up. I'm glad it worked out well for you.
/r/seduction28/01/11 01:04 AM
2

She's interested enough to talk to you, and that's all you really need.
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:46 PM
1

Which resources in particular about body language were helpful to you?
/r/seduction27/01/11 04:38 PM
3

If you are in the US, then Western norms apply. I'd go forth and sarge as usual. It will probably be outside her comfort zone, so be cognizant to always maintain a strong frame. She will probably comply to you far easier than you think. Haven't gone international is some years, so good luck. Remember to FR how it goes. Edit: It might be outside her comfort zone because the Chinese exchange students I have met did not have much experience dating/socializing - but they were probably younger than y…
/r/seduction27/01/11 12:22 AM
3

Just to clarify, are you in China?
/r/seduction27/01/11 12:12 AM
1

I was going to ftfy, but it's futile.
/r/seduction27/01/11 12:10 AM
1

Do not see her. Seriously.
/r/seduction26/01/11 11:40 PM
1

Maybe you miss the way you felt when you guys were together. That was my main problem. I think that was spot on, but I don't think he's putting her up on a pedestal. Most of his comments seem to be based firmly in reality. Maybe it is a chemical thing.
/r/seduction26/01/11 11:27 PM
1

You feel cake?
/r/seduction26/01/11 11:21 PM
1

It is what it is. I wasn't able to find any answer better than that, but if you do, let me know!
/r/seduction26/01/11 10:57 PM
1

Remember the emoticon if you go with something like this.
/r/seduction26/01/11 10:46 PM
1

Cheddar, do you use exclamation points a lot? How does that work in the balance of conveying your own attraction to her v. neediness?
/r/seduction26/01/11 10:43 PM
2

Yeah, I know the story. Just be glad the feeling doesn't come by frequently and that you cared about someone that deeply. That's what I do. Hey, even Superman has Kryptonite.
/r/seduction26/01/11 10:40 PM
2

Also, rescheduling is not flaking. You're way too paranoid. Popular girls are busy. Deal with it. They are still flaking on set plans, no matter how popular they are. Like any action to be disapproved of, it seems to me that negative reinforcement is the way to go here.
/r/seduction26/01/11 03:45 PM
2

Have an upvote for name relevancy.
/r/seduction26/01/11 12:46 AM
4

Start here. Work your way down the thread.
/r/seduction26/01/11 12:00 AM
1

Way to go buddy. Keep sarging like a boss.
/r/seduction25/01/11 11:56 PM
1

I've been making the transition to asshole lately myself - but instead of being an asshole I see that I am just doing and getting what I want - something that I should not feel guilty about. I deserve the best - and that is what I will have. As long as you're treating others with respect, why would you consider yourself an asshole?
/r/seduction25/01/11 11:53 PM
1

To be honest, I didn't completely remove him. He had his go, and I just stood secure in my awesomeness. I passed the time and didn't lose value by engaging in conversation with a guy friend of HB7 and HB8 I met earlier. At the first break I saw in AMOG's conversation I stepped in between HB7 - leaning close - as if to tell her a secret. Not sure what I said. AMOG was persistent and re-opened to ask for her number, which it looked like she gave. Once that was done I grabbed her two hands - isolat…
/r/seduction25/01/11 06:25 PM
1

She had on a name tag and wrote something other than her name. I used that to start the conversation since it piqued my interest. Openers only sound corny if you don't mean it. Find something interesting, on her or in the environment, and express that to her. Edit: I realized that was still vague. It went something like "Wow" elite looks puzzled "how'd you get that name!?"
/r/seduction25/01/11 06:18 PM
1

I made an observation about something she had on - it was a themed party.
/r/seduction25/01/11 05:24 PM
2

In this case, no. I knew I had her early on when she was sucking my finger. If I didn't feel that secure, I'd start small and pull away slightly to get her to come to me.
/r/seduction25/01/11 03:47 AM
1

Distractions...le sigh. Sometimes I feel like new is better than old though, just for the challenge of it. I also rationalized to myself that hey, HB7 was only marginally less attractive.
/r/seduction24/01/11 10:52 PM
1

Check out TofuTofu's PPP for a pretty advanced technique. If you're new to the community, you might want to start your game off the dance floor - at the bar for instance - then move onto the dance floor in escalation or isolation.
/r/seduction24/01/11 10:45 PM
1

Sometime when I was re-opening HB8 I lost track of HB7 and I didn't see her again for the rest of the night. My conversation with HB8 was basically The Interview. My personal opinion is that I think she saw me hooking up with her friend, which blew me out - even when I tried to be more playful she wasn't having any of it. She ended up leaving the bar earlier than all of her other friends. I txted to get her back, but had already lost frame and tempo here.
/r/seduction24/01/11 10:16 PM
1

A Grain of Salt: Make sure you're having fun regardless. Making out with a random HB might not be optimal for f-close if she is conservative, but if you are both having fun I don't view it as a problem.
/r/seduction24/01/11 07:55 PM
2

Make eye contact, approach from the front. Create comfort by using space. Grab her hands - push her away to spin. Don't be afraid to move around, this will build comfort to demonstrate you are just there to have a good time. Once you have been dancing for a few seconds, very quickly escalate by grabbing her and moving her toward you. Now feel free to escalate as fast as possible.
/r/seduction24/01/11 06:59 PM
3

Seriously, always a good move. The trick (for me) is to be sober enough to remember to do so. Using inside jokes also helps to set you up for some call-back humor for later.
/r/seduction24/01/11 05:47 PM
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Hugging girls hello and goodbye was standard for me growing up on the West Coast. On the East Coast it seems to be received a little differently, as the other guys (at least at my recent college) never felt comfortable with kino. Their loss.
/r/seduction07/01/11 12:18 AM
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Although its not as sexy I'd love to see more posts like this. Learning from your own mistakes is good, but learning from the mistakes of other can be equally as edifying.
/r/seduction06/01/11 11:48 PM
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A sub for FRs is a great idea.
/r/seduction06/01/11 11:43 PM
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Wow, the amount of social proof necessary seems quite substantial. Wasn't expecting that, but it makes sense. Great FR, thanks for answering the question from a few weeks back.
/r/seduction06/01/11 11:36 PM
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You have missed the point. ftfy
/r/seduction30/12/10 05:27 PM
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Nice. Looks like you DHV well - especially with knowledge travelling and sharp conversation. Social proof via friends in high places was a nice touch. Slight negs with the "What about SF" and eye rolling kept your value high. I would have negged harder considering her seemingly curt responses at the beginning. An ending to this story would be nice.
/r/seduction29/12/10 11:12 PM
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This will also help you build social proof along the way. Its a virtuous cycle once you get the ball rolling.
/r/seduction29/12/10 09:58 PM
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Seddit is the wrong place for this. Check and post to r/relationships.
/r/seduction29/12/10 09:54 PM
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well you could have gone further, but they say seduction is like an old school arcade game. you need to get so good at level 1 that you almost never die, then move to level 2 and do the same thing. you'll die a shit ton of times but you will play levels 1-2, 1-3, 1-4, 1-5 each time, so that your level 1 skills never get rusty. so you aced level 1 and fell down a nasty pit in level 2. so what, infinite lives. i'm not sure what you want to do about the amog. looks like you ignored him and got a gi…
/r/seduction29/12/10 07:23 PM
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Yeah let's hear this gym game.
/r/seduction29/12/10 06:32 PM
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Great start - keep it up.
/r/seduction29/12/10 12:10 AM
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PUA materials provides a frame for men to become self-confident and to understand social context in order to successfully manage relationships (not just with the opposite sex). Girls in relationships are not worth my time. Cheaters would cheat on me. PUA lingo serves only to help facilitate the discussion. We could change the name of FR, SARGE, NEG, or ASD to any acronym, but it would have the same meaning. Rating systems are a good indicator of the environment, frame, and strategy to be used. I…
/r/seduction29/12/10 12:04 AM
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This is great advice. Similar experience happened to me last night after work. I came into my apartment complex looking for a package in the leasing office. HB6 knows me (signed the lease with her), helps me locate my package. She mentions she is moving to another office location - she's trying to create a false time constraint. I ignore and continue small talk about holidays etc. In the midst of conversation she leaves several hints to contact her further including "well, you know my e-mail if …
/r/seduction28/12/10 11:37 PM
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Good points. To be honest, my main goal was to spend time with the guys as I rarely get to see them - isolation wasn't on my mind. I like your style with the spontaneousness though.
/r/seduction28/12/10 12:50 AM
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