Quite a few months ago a HB8 contacted me online for some advice. Unfortunately, we lived in separate parts of the country so a meet-up was impossible. In actuality I tried to set her up with another guy I knew, which apparently didn’t work out. Anyway, we chatted a few times and eventually exchanged phone numbers. From then on I made sure to keep in contact with a short, humorous exchange every 2-3 weeks.

Recently, I had been travelling and was in her part of the country. I texted her when I would be available and suggested to meet for drinks. However, she had work early in the morning and so I suggested meeting in front of her apartment the next day instead.

Based on her reaching out to me, her reaction to my texts (lots of smiles and punctuation), the tempo of my texts, and the ability to sexualize them, I felt very confident coming in to the meet-up. Upon seeing her (for the first time ever!), I gave her a big hug and did not let go. I figured that I wanted to push this as quickly as possible. Almost immediately, I go in for the kiss and then suggest we go up to her place. Success!

When we get up, I cave man…and clothes go flying off. Basically everything is off except for the under pants…and then…LMR. I think to myself that this is a great time for a freeze out, so I start to check my e-mail on my phone. I get her to verbally tell me she wants it…then escalate again. But…LMR when it comes to the underpants! Noooo. Now imagine this cycles 2-3 more times in different variations. Sort of frustrating, but given the situation…I’m not going to complain.

The next day we meet up again, this time for a brief lunch-date and again back up to her place. Same LMR story, different day. I leave her apartment on good terms, if not a bit frustrated.

I think overall it was a pretty successful meet-up, but if you guys have any more creative/better ways to deal with LMR, I’d appreciate it! Thanks Seddit.

Tl;dr HB8 messages me online and a few months later K-close plus more the first time we meet, but lots of LMR.