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Good stuff. You played good game. You hate long term game because you're inexperienced at it. Here's your chance to learn. The quality women usually need to be played long term in my experience.
/r/seduction16/10/12 04:11 AM
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I don't remember specifically but I tend to only open in four ways: Hi with a smile Grab their hand and spin them High five Use something situational The one set of girls I opened by just joining their dance circle
/r/seduction28/05/11 02:44 AM
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hahaha
/r/seduction26/05/11 04:48 PM
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Nah, he was being playful. She played right into his hands! Remember, what was funny in elementary school is funny all over again. Check out the "Whatever Song" that Brad P uses. It's fucking outrageous and completely brilliant.
/r/seduction25/05/11 01:58 AM
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Yes of course. I have my image and my body language tuned up though, so it helps a lot. If you use the right body language and vocal tonality and present yourself well, you can create a lot of attraction with a confident lack of an opener. Once I was out at a club and I delivered my "Hi" with a big smile and great body language to a smokin hot blonde chick, and some douchebag saw me (might have been her friend, tall, token hot guy) and said hi just like I did. I'll never forget what happened nex…
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:47 AM
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Also depends on context. I've never had a girl actually tell me I was an asshole. You're probably being an asshole!
/r/seduction24/05/11 08:09 PM
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First priority advice for the club: Dress to show confidence: Bold colours, accessories, and styled hair.
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:55 PM
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About two seconds. My opener is "Hi :)"
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:48 PM
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No need to make it such a big deal. There are idiots getting laid all the time! If he can do it, so can you. Go talk to women.
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:17 PM
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Are you kidding me? It was flawless.
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:10 PM
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Keep doing what you're doing. You clearly don't need any pickup advice, so here's some life advice: Get your mind away from the women. Focus on your other passions. You say you've achieved moderate success in business; maybe you should use the amazing dedication you've managed to put into your seduction life and transfer that to your business. Or maybe that isn't that important to you and you have other passions such as art or sports. Pursue what you love; women are the beautiful wildlife and la…
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:00 PM
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Wow. How do articulate this.... Do not do it for women. Do it for yourself. I started doing it for the approval of women, and it worked well enough in the beginning. I think you need some sort of short term positive reinforcement every time you are trying to learn something. It may be at the beginning, but for me, in the end, it's not about "getting the girls," it's about learning to respect yourself as a man and knowing who you belong with and who you don't, and putting yourself in the presence…
/r/seduction24/05/11 06:51 PM
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Go have sex with other women please. This is terrible, you deserve much better.
/r/seduction24/05/11 06:37 PM
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You sound like you have little experience with women, so here's my best advice: Keep it simple, stupid! When you feel like kissing her, kiss her. I'm saying just interrupt whatever's going on and just move your face up to hers (I know, it's the hardest part) and kiss her. Done. There is no question that she's into you.
/r/seduction24/05/11 06:36 PM
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It's only a game until it becomes part of your identity. Then you are just being yourself, and it is real. You've only had sex twice in two years? Get out there man. You have work to do.
/r/seduction24/05/11 06:30 PM
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This is actually a really important thread in my opinion. We in the pickup community are very focused on getting the girl and don't really know how to keep a girl. I've done a shit ton of field testing on this and I've boiled it down to one simple rule so far: Girls are constantly shit testing you to see if you are still the man she was attracted to in the beginning. Keep passing the tests, and you'll keep being a man in her eyes.
/r/seduction24/05/11 06:26 PM
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I'll keep it simple: You should do whatever scares you most.
/r/seduction19/05/11 06:52 AM
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Brilliant.
/r/seduction18/05/11 04:28 AM
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Here's my short advice for now: Your first step is to realize that girls won't bite your head off if you talk to them. Practice saying "hi" to girls, and don't say anything further. Just a "hi" and then continue on your day. Start off with ugly/fat girls if it makes it easier for you. Start realizing that people are usually very friendly when you say hi with a smile and eye contact. After this the next step would be to try asking them a question such as "Do you know the time?" or "Any idea where…
/r/seduction18/05/11 04:20 AM
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Beautiful.
/r/seduction18/05/11 04:17 AM
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This is normal, and it's anti-slut defense. Sometimes you have to try a few times before they'll go along with it. That way, in their mind it's "I made him work for it a little." You can also think of it as a shit test if you want: "Let's see if he's really the man I think he is. Will he try again after I shut him down?" Even things like "We shouldn't..." are just a test. I usually respond with "You're so right, we totally shouldn't be..." and then continue as I was :) Remember, when a girl says…
/r/seduction18/05/11 04:15 AM
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Absolutely true. That's what I'm saying. Invest, but don't invest more than you would in yourself.
/r/seduction17/05/11 11:17 PM
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she was talking to the other chick dude
/r/seduction17/05/11 11:11 PM
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Bullshit. Girls with boyfriends only don't go dancing when they are in that greasy ball of neediness that most of society calls an 'ideal romantic bond' as you put it. Girls in a trusting, adult relationship do go dancing with other guys because they and their boyfriend both know the true intentions. ...Unless this "dancing" is actually "grinding". Then its sexual kino and all you gotta do is not fuck up and the robbery is yours.
/r/seduction17/05/11 11:09 PM
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Yes. Knowing a fuckload about pickup simply means that the guy doesn't have the balls to just go out and be rejected, so he stays in front of his computer (his comfort zone) and pretends to be addressing the problem instead of actually addressing it.
/r/seduction17/05/11 10:57 PM
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Read "How to Meet and Connect with Women" by Wayne Elise (Juggler). It has helped me a million fold. Daytime conversation is all about authenticity. Somebody who is authentically curious about another person isn't thinking "What should I say?", they are thinking "I want to know what this person does for a living" or "I want to know what this person's hobbies are" and simply asks them. Another note: Remember that a mediocre interaction does not equal a bad interaction. In fact, a string of medioc…
/r/seduction17/05/11 10:51 PM
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I agree, but phrasing it this way is a cause for disaster. You shouldn't be less invested than her, you should be more invested in yourself than you are in her. I think that the large focus on being overly nonchalant and constantly disqualifying yourself is a huge mistake in the seduction community. Again, I'm not saying you're wrong, because you aren't, but I just want to make sure that no newbies read this and get carried away with the wrong idea.
/r/seduction17/05/11 10:46 PM
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You're right, she didn't seem very interested. But, now you know. I always follow through with my interactions with women that I'm unsure of, just so I know for next time what I've gotten myself into. A lot of times things end up working out. I think I learn a lot more from the weird interactions than the textbook ones. Texting her a neg is a terrible idea. If you have her number, you don't need to be disqualifying yourself. She already likes you! I would never use a neg in any circumstance anyw…
/r/seduction27/02/11 12:30 AM
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I approach clubs in a completely different manner than bars. It's the hardest place to get a girl, but is also the most target rich, and the best place to practice. Plus, there's nothing like bringing a girl home from the club and peeling one of those tiny little clubbing dresses off her! Here are some club rules that I've developed over my journey, in order of importance: Look good. Since clubs are basically a battle of social status, you must present yourself as such. Get cool clothes and be w…
/r/seduction27/02/11 12:18 AM
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Buying breakfast after sex is a horrible idea. It implies that sex is something that a girl does for a man and not something that two people share. A really destructive mindset to have.
/r/seduction26/02/11 11:50 PM
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Check out this detailed guide to attraction. Girls just want to have fun. If you give them fun, you've got value. My two attraction workhorses are teasing and DHV storytelling: "You're adorable, you're like my new little sister" "Oh my god, you're such a bar star" Take ANYTHING at all, and use it to talk about something attractive about you. "I'm from [small town]. Do you know where that is? (she replies.) I didn't think so. You know what's crazy? I teach a group of seniors how to use computers,…
/r/seduction26/02/11 11:47 PM
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You are going to cause a lot of pain in your friend for nothing. Go talk to other women and stop putting this pussy on a pedestal.
/r/seduction26/02/11 11:08 PM
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There are too many awesome women in the world for you to ruin the friendship with your "good friend" over one in particular. Go talk to other girls. Once you realize how not difficult it is to meet girls you'll feel great about the choice you made to not go for your friend's ex.
/r/seduction24/02/11 05:03 AM
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This is an awesome resource on the basics.
/r/seduction23/02/11 09:53 PM
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It's less sexy that way anyway.
/r/seduction23/02/11 09:51 PM
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LMR is just a lack of comfort/qualification. I'm surprised you expected sex with such little interaction.
/r/seduction23/02/11 09:50 PM
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Making dinner together is easily one of the best scenarios in which to hang out with a girl. Have you even tried it before? I doubt it. You know how we roll: If you aren't sure, field test it. I've field tested this one a million times and it's gold. It does sound like she likes you a lot though, which might not be what you're looking for right now.
/r/seduction23/02/11 09:44 PM
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You have some good stuff here: "You're drinking [liquor] in [bar known exclusively for good beer]?!" Write that one down for later. I like how you fluff talked with the three set at the beginning even though you weren't feeling social. You should take this idea further, have more sets per night. I usually go for at least 10 per, but you have to be in a target rich environment (dance club). I like that you texted yourself with her phone to get her number. Criticism: You failed all the shit tests.…
/r/seduction23/02/11 09:14 PM
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I'm curious about this. I've been working on this aspect of my life for over a year now and have had some good success. I have found my confidence to be unshakable at times, but found it has completely waned lately. I've had the nights where I felt like I could say whatever the hell I wanted to any woman because I was the prize, but lately have found myself struggling with lame limiting beliefs such as women being taller than me. I'm wondering if you can talk a little bit about the process you w…
/r/seduction20/02/11 07:49 PM
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