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No worries. I'll help out.
/r/seduction12/04/11 03:12 AM
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Hey you beat me to the punch. I'm moving to Seattle in a month from the Bay Area. I actually started the Bay Area lair that you see in the side bar. It'll be a new city for me, so will need to make all new friends. The BAS folks have become some really great friends in short period of time. Planning to do the same here.
/r/seduction11/04/11 05:33 AM
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I know what I need to do next week when we go out. I'm going to challenge you to approach and keep challenging you until you do.
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:52 AM
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Definitely, I've learned quite a bit from reading your posts around seduction. The 'you look like you're having fun' is my go to opener. I've also tried the horse girl, but not quite as an opener. Interesting, I'll try the yes-ladder with a #-close next time. I still feel horrible uncalibrated. I was looking for certain IOIs that never happened like reciprocated kino but missing others like her re-initiating convo after silences. But it was really her eagerness to give her number at the end that…
/r/seduction14/03/11 02:42 AM
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Yes-ladder is the theory that by getting people to comply with you (saying yes) to a number of small things, you can get them to say yes to bigger things. For example the spin. If I had just stood up and said "Hey stand up and spin for me." I probably would have gotten a no or really strong resistance, overall breaking the mood of the interaction. Instead, I did the same thing in a number of smaller steps. "Hey let me see your hand. Hey stand up. Not bad, hey now do a turn for me" Give it shot! …
/r/seduction13/03/11 11:41 PM
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By all means go for it brother. To each their own. Just don't lose yourself. :-)
/r/seduction12/03/11 05:58 AM
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While I do agree with RobotGymnast. I do want to put out a word of warning. The fact a girl 'chooses' to go from one guy to another, is an indicator of her quality of person. Sure you can say you're a special case, but really? Really? You may be the first incident for her, or you may be the fifth time for her to do something like that. Just be warned, if you do get into a relationship, expect a lot of insecurity and distrust from her end that ultimately stems from her lack of loyalty and trustwo…
/r/seduction12/03/11 05:10 AM
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Pulls backs honestly are just another form of disqualification aka negging.
/r/seduction12/03/11 05:01 AM
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Teasing isn't the same as putting her down. It's a way to show your wit and to stand out in her mind. Giving someone a hard time is necessarily a bad experience. done correctly it's a fun game. Think about hanging out with your friends, you give each other shit in almost the same way you would tease her. It stands out in her mind for a few reasons. She sees your humor side. She has a positive experience. You demonstrate that you aren't the typical supplicating beta that runs into 90% of the time…
/r/seduction09/03/11 03:56 AM
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Ah, that makes a lot of sense. I'll keep it in mind.
/r/seduction07/03/11 01:13 AM
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Nope. Just happy to see other lairs getting started. I recently got the Bay Area one going.
/r/seduction07/03/11 01:13 AM
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Woot woot, go go east coast lairs!
/r/seduction06/03/11 12:23 PM
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Interesting perspective. Would you be able to elaborate more on the 'playtime is over' deal? What do you mean by it exactly and why should it be avoided?
/r/seduction06/03/11 12:19 PM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction03/03/11 05:50 AM
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Now guys, if you have that one-itis, go shut down that one-itis by exhuasting every possibility. Cheers. Freaking cheers man. I was in the same boat as you. Put myself out on a line. Got the soft rejection of her life being too busy. Started a lair, and met a ton of awesome guys to wing with in my area. Keep going man, you're on a roll.
/r/seduction01/03/11 07:06 AM
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Always enjoy your posts. This sums it up pretty clearly in delicious bite size pieces.
/r/seduction01/03/11 07:02 AM
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Sing the lording the club song. "Ohhhhhhhhhhh we're lording the club, we're lording the club" repeat 8x
/r/seduction01/03/11 06:38 AM
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WOOOOOO!!!!
/r/seduction01/03/11 05:08 AM
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TIL that I've been an extrovert all along...
/r/seduction28/02/11 02:58 AM
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Diff between introverts and extroverts is based off of where state is generated. Internally (introverts) vs. the environment (extroverts).
/r/seduction28/02/11 02:57 AM
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Always appreciate the encouragement Tofu!
/r/seduction27/02/11 11:38 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement. Conquering day game AA is going to take some more work. Hopefully it clicks soon.
/r/seduction27/02/11 11:37 PM
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Tall HB Super tall HB on the dancefloor. She' was a good 4-5 inches taller than me. I'm 5'11", she was probably 6'4" easily, no heels on. Same 'fun' type opener and I immediately start grind dancing with her. But she's facing another guy, which they seemed like they were together, but I never really found it. Got kind of weird/nervous here. Danced a bit more, tons of kino, but ejected. Later on after place closed down and every is walking out. Me: Hey! It's you, I had fun dancing with you. HB: H…
/r/seduction27/02/11 06:28 PM
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That sucks man, definitely missed you out there. But no worries, plenty of more opportunities. Talk with un1verse about sarging in the city, but keep checking the /r/bayareaseddit for more outtings.
/r/seduction27/02/11 05:24 PM
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Shamless plug /r/bayareaseddit Had a great first meet up just last night. All great guys, super supportive and fun. Check back often as more meet ups will be added every week.
/r/seduction27/02/11 03:57 AM
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Ground Control is an asshole.
/r/seduction24/02/11 04:38 AM
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Send me a message with your email if you want to get in on the contact list. Else you can check back here for updates.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:13 AM
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Send me a message with your email if you want to get in on the contact list. Else you can check back here for updates.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:13 AM
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Send me a message with your email and location if you want to get in on the contact list.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:12 AM
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Send me a message with your email and location if you want to get in on the contact list.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:12 AM
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I'll be setting up the meet up spots within the next day. Looks like we'll have at least 3 groups going out. SF, South Bay, and an under 21 group. Would do it tonight but something came up, will have a FR to post hopefully.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:12 AM
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it's not abundance directly with women, it's abundance in the fact that you have trust in your skillset to get another girl if it doesn't work out with the one in front of you. A thousand times this. I've been trying to live by three simple rules for my everyday frame. I am the prize Attitude of Abundance Be Non-Reactive I've always had trouble with the abundance idea, but that line makes it so much clearer to me now. Btw, these series definitely should go into the sidebar. Really appreciate all…
/r/seduction22/02/11 09:19 AM
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Yes my thoughts exactly. I forget which comedian did a piece about big groups of guys going out to pick up women, but he had a point to it. Too big of a group becomes unwieldy. Divide and conquer seems more effective. More FRs, and groups can change/rotate meaning we'll get acquainted with each other as well.
/r/seduction22/02/11 08:33 AM
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Flawless Natural talks about this perfectly.
/r/seduction21/02/11 07:53 PM
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Thank you! 'Buyer's Remorse' hadn't crossed my mind. You definitely struck a chord with expect she'll put out just because you made out I'll back off and treat things as business as usual and maybe read the signals later to decide.
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:42 AM
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Appreciate the feedback. I did try to take it further a few times with stops in between. But each time she stopped me as I tried to go further. It really just came down to it being super late. We were both extremely tired and drunk, so at that point I decided to stop. My real question is what do I do now? She rejecting my invites to go out. But maybe there's a better way for me to approach it? Or maybe I should just move on?
/r/seduction20/02/11 01:52 PM
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Hit character limit. My plan for now: * Tomorrow(Sunday) weather permitting, I will text and tell her I'm going hiking and invite her along. * If no response or no, I'll follow up with a text a few hours later. A teasing one, something like: I miss (insert nickname i have for her fun side) Let's hang out tonight. Pick you up at 8 If there's no good response out of that. I'm just going to call it an move on.
/r/seduction19/02/11 10:02 PM
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A lot of people here have already recommended the same, just shave it. Bald is a choice, balding isn't. - The Game
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:35 PM
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I might have a tougher time demonstrating high value, but I think I can do it. FTFY. Have fun, you seem to be doing well.
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:43 AM
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So you already offered to cover her ticket and then asked seddit? Just a little confused. If it's already been done then backing out now would make you look bad. I think ideally in the future I wouldn't offer to do so. You want her to be 'invested' in going out with you. It kind of indicates a lower value if you offer to buy the ticket for a first outing. Always exceptions to the rule of course.
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:47 AM
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I kind of make it a point to disregard or even avoid her. But it's kind of hard when she also likes being at the center of attention in the group. I don't think confronting her like that will work either, I feel like it'll just get shrugged off as just joking around. Thanks for the advice, I'll keep it in mind if the annoyance does escalate.
/r/seduction28/01/11 05:54 AM
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Thank you, I've been trying to think of how to turn it around without just standing there and grinning. You're right about the working together problem; I can't be overly confrontational. I'll give it a shot sometime, but even if I don't, no worries, I will stand my ground. I just wanted to see if there were better ways to deal with this. Sometimes it does catch me off guard and does fuck with my frame.
/r/seduction28/01/11 05:52 AM
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I was thinking the same. Guess I'll stay the course. She's definitely a bit immature, but you know, the type everyone loves because of that.
/r/seduction28/01/11 05:46 AM
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Seddit, it's a psychological fact that telling other people about your goals makes the achievement of those goals harder, as you tell your self conscious that the hard part is over before any work is actually done. I forget which book, but I think it was Robert Cialdini's Influence that offered the counter to the more recent study that came out. It could be one of those nuanced things. But the idea is, once you've made your goal clear to others, you become accountable for achieving it. You put m…
/r/seduction25/01/11 04:10 PM
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Keyboard jockey here (meaning to change that, but you know how that goes) It boils down to three points that everyone should internalize to be successful, and it seems like you've already mentioned two of them. 1.You are the prize. 2. Attitude of abundance. 3. Be non-reactive. Practice is key. But a few things I think is helpful to attain the three points above: 1.Take some time and write down what you have going for yourself. These become your high value things; don't forget them. 2. Realize th…
/r/seduction25/01/11 05:31 AM
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Negs were originally meant to equalize or tip the scale in perceived value in your favor when used with HB8+. Shit tests are a test of your value. When one fails a shit test, it's implied that you see your value as lower than theirs or at the very least, it's a test of the value you perceive of yourself. It boils down to value.
/r/seduction18/12/10 06:12 AM
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