How not to get a second date.

petriomelony · 2011-12-07T04:20:07+00:00

In all fairness, she was playing with her hair when they went on the date. How could she lead him on like that?!?!?

AveofSpades · 2011-12-07T05:38:35+00:00

This is an edit of something I've seen floating around on the net for 3 years.

The_Fart_Of_God · 2011-12-07T09:55:57+00:00

oneitis, needy, creepy, try hard : this guy is a pro.

testmypatience · 2011-12-07T02:51:41+00:00

I don't think he had a chance anyhow and this was his hail marry. It did say he had called and texted her.

Honestly in this day and age I think email is the only fool proof method of communication.

I have never recieved calls that were made to me as well as texts that were sent to me by people that told me they called and texted numerous times. Sometimes shit fucks up.

An email though... that is pretty fool proof. In the old days I imagine you would just fucking go to their home and knock on their door or something.

I actually used to be this guy. When you have no idea how shit works you are happy if you could recieve some sort of helpful feedback.

Some people learn slower than others. Good analogy. - I suck ass at ping pong while others that have played just as much as me are really really good at it.

Some people can naturally pick up certain things. Social cues are not logical on the surface and are very confusing. It's a good thing for seddit or many men would be very very lonely.

But yea... that is an excellent way to look creepy as fuck. I think it is because of

try hard behaviour

lingual_panda · 2011-12-07T03:25:04+00:00

She's just not that into you if she's not calling you.

Delightful_White · 2011-12-07T08:36:15+00:00

Painful to read. Reminds me of this guy

puaCurveBall · 2011-12-07T16:05:45+00:00

Honestly, I've never considered writing a letter after a good date that ends up with her blowing you off, but this guy has made me reconsider.

Obviously I'd apply my knowledge of seduction and own writing style to fix a lot of his mistakes, but I could honestly see this being better than nothing.

Title	How not to get a second date.
Author	heckz
Upvotes	19
Comments	9
Date	December 7, 2011 12:45 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/n38a7/how_not_to_get_a_second_date/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-not-to-get-a-second-date.1307523 https://theredarchive.com/post/1307523

Comments