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That word triggers me. If you’re using that word you don’t deserve to be within 50 feet of a woman, naked or otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:11 PM
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I salivate over them too. No woman would ever go through pregnancy again. Hopefully some of those MGTOWs are making it happen. They can birth and raise their own offspring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:17 PM
6

Ime odor can sometimes be worse without hair due to sweat. But I don’t really get into sweaty situations often enough for this to factor into the equation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:09 PM
52

Yeah I’ve noticed this for ages. Every normal sound is a source of annoyance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:25 PM
43

Does anyone know if HBC can positively affect mood? I used to really have crazy mood swings BEFORE I went on it. Lately I’ve noticed my mood seems low for no reason and I’m not sure whether to go off or stay on. My periods were really irregular, painful, and unmanageable before I went on. I’m worried about going off. Also I do NOT want kids so I’m not sure which type to switch to instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:24 PM
26

Yep yep yep. This whole thread is taking me straight back to Lundy Bancroft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:45 PM
14

“Masculine” is a meaningless word invented to allow weak male people to pat themselves on the back for nothing even more than they already do. No man can ever define it in a way that makes sense to any rational human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:27 AM
19

God and I felt guilty about my bachelorette pad not being clean enough...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:21 AM
20

Yeah I thought of this. I let my brother know but haven’t heard back from him. Hopefully he’ll tell his friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:22 AM
30

This is a good plan. I remember a LV ex having a real issue with his female teachers. It was weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:44 PM
7

My ex did this in the death knells of our situationship. Tbh if he would have respected me I would have taken it as a sign that I was a bad person. He only respected vile people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:49 PM
84

This is interesting, but I think it adds a new layer of work to do for vetting now. A guy who is successful isn’t threatened by you because he knows he’s above you. But he probably would be if he thought you were a threat. I don’t want to be with a guy who’s nice to me because he sees me as so far below him that I’m not a threat. How do we vet for this, ladies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:43 PM
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My abusive ex treated me like a dream girl at the beginning. Then he did devalue and discard. I felt so important and special because of how he prioritized me and flattered me. There is no high on earth as high as that high, but the price I paid wasn’t worth it. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:16 PM
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Out of curiosity, are you only interested in experienced femme lesbians? Would you accept a bi or pan who was “legitimate”? And what would that mean to you? I’m asking because I’m bi and posts like this make me afraid to come out and date women. I think a lot of us are stereotyped as “curious” with no intention to follow through. I would like to avoid sending out that vibe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:11 PM
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This time is fast as fuck imo. Mine would be: don’t have sex until you’re married or at least engaged or have been dating for 2 years if you’re young don’t go over to a man’s place or bring him to yours for at least 6 months unless it’s a group event or you have roommates don’t let him pick you up or drive you anywhere for at least 6 months don’t drink AT ALL around him for a year and keep an eye on non-alcoholic drinks I’m paranoid tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:05 PM
3

Same. I used to love his show but uhhhh nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:02 PM
16

I hear you. I do take precautions. But I'm not living like a second-class citizen because the law refuses to do its damn job and protect the entire population. Men do not own this planet and I am not going to live in fear because of them. That fear and adjusted behavior benefits every single one of them, even the HVM, and personally I'm boycotting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:13 PM
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He'd find another wave to ride. Cultural misogyny will always allow them to dismiss women for external reasons. Gail makes plenty of rock-solid arguments and those are also dismissed. You can't play their game and win. Gail is not trying to convince Jabba the Hutt to change his ways. She's making a mockery of them and tearing their arguments to shreds for the other people who are watching, who will see the absurdity of what they are doing, understand the logical and rational reasons not to do it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:12 PM
47

I’d rather die free than let men walk around as though they own the earth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:43 PM
8

It’s depressing AF. I have to read it a half-chapter at a time and read comedy books in between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:42 PM
8

Normally I’d agree, but the porn industry is so heinous that defending it should be mocked. Those people’s opinions need to be made into a joke. Sometimes mockery is the only thing that can show how ridiculous you’re being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:41 PM
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That last paragraph is spot-on. I feel the same way. If I decided NOT to wear makeup, then that would be because of men. As it stands, 99 times out of 100 when I wear it or when I don’t, it’s independent of men or even other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:00 PM
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I’ve never considered this before, but it makes sense. Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:29 PM
8

This. This is the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:27 PM
9

Imo confidence is hot. It’s not a specific look. Someone who likes a lot of makeup and wears it is hot. Someone who likes her hair short and wears it short is hot. Someone who hates makeup and never wears it is hot. Someone who loves vintage potato sacks and wears those is hot. A woman who is clearly performing a trend for men isn’t hot. That’s what I think. And that’s how I live my life and present myself (except when I need to advance my career and a man or potential pickme is calling the shot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:09 PM
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He can’t read her mind. How is he supposed to know she doesn’t like being called horrific misogynistic slurs and physically abused during an activity that has her in her most vulnerable state and that’s supposed to be about intimacy and bonding as a couple?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:00 PM
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The less body hair, the better. Takes care of his skin, dresses a little preppy, and smells amazing. I don’t really care about things you can’t control like height and baldness and dick size, and I hate exercise so I wouldn’t want a guy who was too into it, but it doesn’t take that long to apply a bit of toner and put some product in your hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:59 PM
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My boyfriend does this a lot. He’s always relieving my pain. He offers to sit with me when I’m puking, rubs my back when it’s aching, goes to the store and buys me crackers when I’m nauseous...he’s so great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:55 PM
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Personally I’m into this, but not if he rolls over afterward. I mean it should be less time on him and more on me anyway, right? Shortcut plus it is flattering. If he lasts too long it’s probably due to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:45 PM
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I’m about 6 months in so it gives me hope that I might only be this royally pissed for another 6 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:41 PM
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I think anyone who has experience with this and the stomach to write about it should make a master post. I genuinely have no idea how to vet for pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:59 PM
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I agree with this. Not shaming anyone, but I can’t imagine getting naked with a guy I’ve only been romantic with for 3 months. That’s practically a stranger. Even if we were friends for years before, it’s a new context. That takes years to develop. If he isn’t into waiting he can move on. It doesn’t matter to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:56 PM
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3 months is like a minute in my mind. My personal rule is wait for marriage, but if I changed my mind on that it would still be years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:52 PM
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It’s worse because they’re objectifying the affair partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:02 PM
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I think it’s just annoying to still see guys pretending to be choosers online. I could be 300 lbs, cat fishing as mila kunis, and wearing a barrel like I’m in a 50’s cartoon with literal raccoons in my hair and men would line up for me. Men are not choosers and this whole dance where they perform this for each other is tiresome, because we all know the minute tHe BoYz are gone they go desperately sniffing after any crumb of pussy or companionship they can possibly find. edit: also I don’t care m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:34 PM
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My ex always whined that I had so many expectations...like wanting him to show up on time, take me to the prom, etc...poor guy. ): I was so hard on him. His expectations that I give him porn-level blowjobs despite clearly outlining on day 1 of dating that I would never do any such thing were reasonable though, obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:31 PM
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They want a woman who loves them for who they are and not their money, so she has to prove it by offering to pay. But they also want leverage to strong arm her into sex later, because that’s all they are there for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:30 PM
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Leave them alone. LARPing online is the only time they get to feel like choosers. Everyone has coping mechanisms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:27 PM
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This. This right here is the comment. Sounds like you were lecturing. I get the temptation, but as someone who remembers what it was like to be 13, it’s not going to work and will make him worse. He said you were nice even though you’re pretty and he opened up to you. Continue to be what is, in his mind, “the exception to the rule.” I thought of Daryl Davis right away. He is a black man who sets up face-to-face meetings with KKK members. Most KKK members have never met a black person in real lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:17 PM
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I know you mean “flaired,” but that autocorrect is so much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:13 PM
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The draft also exists because violent men start wars with each other. War would not exist if men weren’t allowed to hold positions of power. Even wars that are started by human rights violation wouldn’t happen because women don’t violate human rights enough to start a war (although women are sickeningly heavily involved in human trafficking, but that’s a problem caused by men as well and their depraved demand for rape so the problem solves itself).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:27 AM
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Great insight! Also, we stan a queen who wants to return to the gold standard. 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:24 AM
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You let him do all those horrible things to you?? Then you have to let me do them to you plus worse, or else you don’t love me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:20 AM
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This is why they sound so ridiculous when they complain that no-fault divorce is ruining western civilization because women aren't loyal and initiate the majority of divorces. Of course they do. A lot of men just see what they can get away with and how long a woman will tolerate it. You either have to take action and speak up, or suffer until one of you dies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:13 PM
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There are a lot of men who genuinely believe if they have muscles, panties will drop. They don't understand basic attraction or aesthetics. These men probably have told each other that now they have muscles, they can be the choosers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:47 PM
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People are like this in general, I think. A lot of young women have a phase of this and many don't grow out of it. Conquest and chase is not just fun, it activates the gambling part of our brains. It's why abusive relationships work. Even if treating men this way yields better results for you, I wouldn't recommend it. This is literally how abuse works and I don't think just because a lot of men are okay with behaving this way that we should sink to their level. Sounds like dropping your crown im…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:37 PM
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OLD and pickmeism has made this a reality and now we see their true colors. Most of them are not romantic and most of them appear incapable of any kind of genuine love, genuine affection even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:34 PM
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On what planet? These are the same guys that complain about chick flicks being "too unrealistic" and create "expectations that are too high." Men are not romantic for the most part, and most of them are proud of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:33 PM
7

I think he has already brought this up as a suggestion for next year's turkey, if you can believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:09 PM
8

This is the only reason for 99% of them. They do not care about the rape or the cultural disrespect that it engenders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:00 PM
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Yeah, you have to find a balance. You don't want to enable, but you also don't want to sink to their level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:51 PM
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Call me selfish, but I will let my family fall apart before I do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:50 PM
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Because her friends are women, and men do not respect women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:46 PM
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I nearly downvoted this comment because it made me so angry lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:45 PM
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I knew my boyfriend was a freaking K E E P E R (or at least so far he is) when he cooked the Thanksgiving turkey, unprompted. Like he was excited about it. Yessss, king! Cook that turkey! It was absolutely delicious and I didn't lift a finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:44 PM
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I agree, but this is my defense when men start blaming women for the porn industry, citing OnlyFans. Those women are just making the best of a situation they see as inescapable. The consumers are ALWAYS 100% to blame. If you don't want porn, don't use it. It really is that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:32 PM
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Men love calling beautiful women ugly. It's them LARPing as choosers. It's so amusing to watch. If you're ever bored, ask a group of dudes to rate attractive celebrities and watch these unwashed bridge trolls rate Taylor Swift a 3. You can almost hear the "reee" in their heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:24 PM
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Also, men's clothing is so much more tailored than women's. Their shirts and pants are literally made by detailed measurements. They can find a shirt with the correct arm length, waist length, and neck hole size if they just spend 5 minutes on it. They can't even do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:19 PM
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That would take effort. What are you, some kind of sImP?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:18 PM
14

This is literally so hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:08 PM
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even southern Baptist women in the US Beth Moore comes to mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:59 PM
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The only correct response for a man to finding out a woman he’s involved with is bisexual is to be very intimidated. Smart men with good values know that competing with women will be VERY tough for them. But if they are that caliber, they’ll probably make the cut. Edit to add: most men should be competing first and foremost with your singleness and should be intimidated by that. If you’re bi then women should be their next “concern,” not because you’ll leave them for a woman but because your sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:44 PM
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I explain it to them like this: “Would YOU want to be involved with a penis? Or any part of a man sexually?” They have no ability to understand that they aren’t special for being attracted to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:41 PM
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I completely respect your boundary and see where you’re coming from. Personally this is not a boundary I have because many little boys stumble upon this at a young age. The average age I believe is 11. I myself got into it around that age. Kids don’t have fully developed brains, so they get hooked without understanding what is being really done to the victims and what it’s doing to their own empathy. I think if a guy reforms genuinely, educates himself, and quits for good then that’s fine with m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:39 PM
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Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:52 AM
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There are HVM who will treat you like a Queen. I don’t even feel particularly high value myself. I have a lot to work on. Even I landed one. It’s been 4 years of consistent awesome so I think I can say that now (but I’m always careful not to get carried away). NO ONE has to settle for this BS. NO. ONE. It is a LIE that you have to. Men will tell you this. All they mean is: “I need you to believe this so you will sleep with me on demand however I want you to.” This sub is growing like crazy. Even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:51 PM
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That sounds like an amazing planet they’re on. How does one get there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:15 PM
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Your first sentence is the reason “dread” is such a ludicrous concept
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:13 PM
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This is unrelated but I saw the first 5 minutes of a documentary on YouTube about “crazy cat ladies” and it made me sick. Like yes, sometimes women choose cats instead of domestic slavery. Why are we framing this like there’s something wrong with THEM? They seem smarter than the rest of us tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:13 PM
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Even tho in his case it’s probably a 50 lb pit Bull that bites children and pees on the couch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:10 PM
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Maybe I’m just a bitter old hag but “tits” is a red flag for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:09 PM
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Brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:54 PM
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YES YES YES just put all the manosphere stuff there if you must
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:54 PM
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Maybe we should have another sub to vent about LVM excessively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:49 PM
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THANK YOU! I have been on a tireless campaign for months to restrict the obsessive discussion of manosphere content on this sub. It’s completely illogical. We at least need a way to filter it out. The manosphere is not relevant to anyone here. Slap a brief rundown in the handbook if you must for the VERY young newbies and then let’s just all move on with our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:49 PM
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I always think of David Wallace shooting hoops with Jim Halpert with the “sleeping your way to the top” one. Wallace would never shoot hoops with Karen or Phyllis, and even if there was a woman who enjoyed basketball, I doubt he’d extend an invitation to her. This is how men bond and give promotions to each other. Women don’t have that option when men are in charge, which so far they mostly still are. So it’s sleep with them or remain stagnant in some cases. I know someone who works in a male-do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:46 PM
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She’s still beautiful. Her dark circles are just taking over her entire face. If she lost the dead weight she’d look 15 years younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:10 PM
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My ex did this to me. I felt ashamed how long it took me to get over such a brief relationship because he never raped or hit me. I thought I was hung up on him or something, but had no desire to get back with him. Now I understand the psychology behind it all and have been a lot kinder with myself, and knowing all that I know has allowed me to leave it in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:41 PM
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Yeah he seriously looks at least double her age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:39 PM
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It was and SHE ACCEPTED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:26 PM
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Uh whoever caused the need to get plan b should be the one going in and paying for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:25 PM
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He also jokes about how disgusting and hideous he is physically while his wife is gorgeous, which is always a red flag to me. He also is constantly depressed and erratic with his work. I get mental health struggles, but when women are depressed no one lets us just disappear and neglect our responsibilities. We have to actually put on the work. Not to mention he proposed to Hila while he was pooping because he thought it would be funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:22 PM
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I see you’ve met my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:34 PM
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We do NOT need this content here. (A) it’s stuff most guys already do. Basic social manipulation and abuse. Guys who need a class for it or a subreddit for it are idiots. Men are socialized to be this way from birth. They’re just so dumb they have to spell it out for each other. (B) Following the handbook even a little bit weeds these guys out. They will never get near anyone who has made it to this subreddit. All of their “tricks” manifest as obvious red flags, and they manifest fast. (C) talki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:33 PM
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Because he has no solidarity with her. He’s reaping the benefits of being male while she can’t, enjoying the better gym because he doesn’t have to worry about getting leered at. It’s like men who enjoy coffee, alcohol, and sushi while their wives carry their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:25 PM
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It’s because they think they don’t have to wipe after they pee because it “takes care of itself” and then since you didn’t touch your pee (even though of course you did) you don’t need to wash your hands. I’m shocked the number is as low as it is, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:50 PM
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Your life sounds AMAZING. Introvert doesn’t mean you don’t like going out. It’s constantly dealing with people that’s tiresome for us. I do all kinds of fun stuff on my own and it recharges me as long as I don’t have to do it with someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:49 PM
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I believe it is enforced for both genders but I need to find out more details
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:36 PM
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Currently this is my plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:35 PM
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I’m sure he’s just very concerned about the ethics of the diamond industry 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:34 PM
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Yeah this is a classic move as old as time. My mom had it pulled on her and I’ve had it pulled on me and no matter how hard I try to prevent it, if I have a daughter she will probably have it pulled on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:31 PM
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“His needs” top kek sex is NOT A NEED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:31 PM
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How do you deal with the fact that your boyfriend still goes to the other gym? That would drive me crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:08 PM
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My brother was low key rejoicing about this rule 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:51 PM
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I think in religious TX most girls are pickmes. I was a major one not even in TX but very religious and it’s a survival mechanism. It is the only way until you get out from under your parents’ thumbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:48 PM
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Yeah but let’s just say my brother isn’t really the type to think things through, nor are literally any other teenage boys at that school in all likelihood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:43 PM
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What is making you think I’m sexist? Are you new here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:42 PM
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Yes. She was really nervous presumably because it’s a Christian school in Texas. I’m not going to get into it any more than that, but I’m concerned about my brother’s value system and the way it’s headed. Then again, at his age I was the exact same way, so I really am in no place to judge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:41 PM
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I’m not surprised by that at an anime convention, either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:39 PM
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I imagine in theory it goes both ways. In practice I suspect it does not, because it’s a traditional Christian school in TX and girls wouldn’t be asking boys anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:38 PM
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Do you happen to know the name of that case?? I had no idea this was potentially a legal issue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:36 PM
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I think a lot of people are missing the point of the quote that was posted. I’m not going into detail, but they are saying that someone here described some type of person as an incel with a fetish. Not that FDSers ourselves are this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:53 PM
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See it isn’t technically sex-based discrimination. They will say that in theory a girl can ask a boy and the rules will apply to him. In practice, girls won’t ask boys due to “tradition.” I found out about this because my brother was asking for advice about a girl he wanted to ask. It seems as though she’s playing some very weird games that remind me of my pre-FDS and boundaries days because she wants him to ask her in spite of the fact she turned him down 6 months ago. So gender roles are very …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:38 PM
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No it IS that and I am not that surprised as a result
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:55 PM
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Now you’re thinking the way these kinds of people think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:53 PM
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I imagine it is very loose and probably not enforced in practice, but to be honest I don’t know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:51 PM
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Thanks for the info. I’m really not into doing all this but it seems important. I’m going to try to casually get this rule confirmed and get more info from the school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:51 PM
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I’m curious about that. That’s part of why I wanted to call the school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:50 PM
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Yeah my brother has a tendency to be confused or only know half the story, so I’d definitely want to confirm with the school before going to the news. I’m really against cancelling institutions, especially small private schools that might be struggling already. But if that is true, it’s sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:50 PM
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Yeah but women should be able to post whatever they want. Sexualized comments should be auto banned and IP banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:46 PM
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This is a nice idea but don’t you think it would get flooded with scrotes trying to break in? I mean a hotel full of women who feel safe sounds like a scrote buffet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:43 PM
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Men reoffend at much higher rates than women. They should be punished more harshly. IMO men should get 0 tolerance policies. 1 violent crime and you never see the light of day again. They do not change. Women do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:42 PM
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I think some of these suggestions are well-intentioned but very unrealistic. Even if I lived near enough to help, which I literally don’t, this suggestion would not work. Do you remember being in high school as a girl? Particularly in an environment where you are consistently devalued and taught to have no boundaries? These girls want to go to the real event and they want to have fun with their friends. They would not be interested in a substitute event with like 3 people at someone’s house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:38 PM
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I know right?? Or I was thinking if the guys had even a hint of a moral compass none of them would ask girls. But they’re guys so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:26 PM
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I’m assuming it “goes both ways” but again there are certain social pressures that ensure things are done a certain way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:24 PM
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I mean “person” is generous. These types don’t register as the same species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:54 PM
7

Are there relationships that aren’t like this to some degree?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:53 PM
15

Oh man they really think we owe them something, don’t they? “Got off lucky?” BLOCKED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:48 PM
198

Men are also weirdly obsessed with taking credit for things in a way that women are not. I think as long as they are like this, we need to adapt and be more insistent at taking credit—not because we need it like little toddlers, but because the next generation of young girls needs to see that woman can and have accomplished a lot of important and valuable things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:44 PM
13

Yes. That’s the thing MGTOWs can’t admit. They never go their own way. They are totally dependent on women for sex. Even if they just rape women, they’re still dependent. Beer doesn’t consent to being drunk, but alcoholics still depend on it and are slaves to it. Most men can’t even conceptualize going their own way. “Sex-free” is something they can’t even wrap their minds around. This is why WGTOW is inactive—what is there to talk about? Those ladies are busy living life. MGTOW is full of guys …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:36 PM
15

But it is VERY rare that a man is ugly because of genetics. I mean men who are ugly due to genetics are probably more rare than HVM. How you look is very much up to you for the most part. These men put 0 effort into styling, hygiene, or skin care and wonder why no one is attracted to them. Women are so forgiving of physical defects. Women will date fat hairy short balding men. They do it every day. If you can’t get a woman it’s either not because of your looks, OR it is because you have put in s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:31 PM
7

Women are choosers. I don’t like using “feminine” as an insult to anyone because “feminine” attributes are things men should be aspiring to. But yeah they aren’t choosers and they never will be, not even HV ones, so it’s just funny to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:20 PM
21

I know you meant “harem” but “haram” is so much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:04 PM
19

Everyone knows porn is rape. Everyone knows. How do they even get hard to it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:00 PM
17

Yes!! Exactly. Women aren’t shallow like men. Them thinking we’d reject them for unchangeable attributes of their physical bodies is pure projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:02 PM
43

Incel is a mindset, not a situation. A man may not have a partner, but he could just be leveling up or enjoying the single life without obsessing over sex and relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:01 PM
73

It’s so cute when guys LARP as choosers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:58 PM
13

If you feel so entitled for and desperate for a woman that you commit suicide when you can’t convince/coerce one to settle for you, that’s pretty pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:57 PM
1488

This cannot be real. It’s almost more funny than anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:56 PM
6

I was on ovarit for awhile but I got the feeling you have to be a certain level of radfem on there. I felt guilty for being in a relationship with a man after a few days on that site. It wasn’t for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:55 PM
11

I’m not a teacher but I’ve always noticed this. It’s just an institution of taking advantage of women and then crapping all over them for it. And then complaining that male students aren’t being served well because recess doesn’t last all day and sometimes they have to sit still and learn. I’m glad you’re getting out and I hope you can find a much better career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:01 AM
25

Yeah, same. And unless I'm missing something, the website seems pretty barren at the moment. Not a lot of activity there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:42 AM
10

I tried to make a new account and just get told I am waiting on approval. This is my third attempt with a fresh email and I have never gotten an approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:28 AM
24

stop 👏🏻posting👏🏻 manosphere 👏🏻subs 👏🏻on 👏🏻FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:24 AM
23

As someone who was home schooled and knew a few of the remote farm types as acquaintances, places like that are breeding grounds for sex offenders. Just look at the Duggars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:23 AM
44

A lot of them just don’t have theory of mind. They think they’d enjoy being “harassed” (by an attractive woman smaller and physically weaker) so they think we’re just playing victim for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:20 AM
44

A man harassed me aggressively once and told me it was because he likes strong women and seeing how strong they can be. I just assumed he was a lying scrote. Seemed there was some truth to it after all. These guys need therapy but they’ll never go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:18 AM
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You’re more optimistic than I am. I’m thinking basically all men will do whatever they can get away with. The more money and power they have, the more they think they can get away with, so the more they do. In many cases they face no consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:21 AM
6

How could it ever be about love? You’re starting a family knowing you won’t be around. Of course it isn’t love. No one in active duty should have a family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:15 AM
6

Oh that's straight from Lundy Bancroft. Didn't make the connection at all. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:54 PM
9

Do you guys think that the next generation might be better since little boys will have grown up with working, slightly more liberated mothers and have a bit less of that entitlement? That’s what I’m hoping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:53 PM
41

men see no value in human life WOW this is so well-put. I have always been confused at how little men seem to value their own lives. This clicked for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:48 PM
19

No one will do anything with this info because it does not benefit men in any way and actually takes away their power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:46 PM
35

They like to pretend they don’t know what they’re doing. Usually even dumb dumb dumb guys are a little better at this. Walking right up to the line but not far enough you can call them out. He called himself out and wrapped it all up in a little bow for HR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:44 PM
21

I don’t think they are taking new members at the website which is really frustrating because clearly reddit needs to go the way of the dinosaurs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:55 PM
0

I expect my boyfriend to judge me because it’s such a trope and I have a bad habit of “joking” about that (I know I know). My boyfriend constantly tells me he thinks I am very good with money and that he never questions my spending at all. He’s more HV than I am sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:51 PM
23

My ex did it all the time. They literally don’t care about us unless we’re actively in the process of serving them sexually. We need to let that breed die out. Don’t sleep with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:43 PM
21

Dread what? These guys are so dumb. Oh man I really dread not being stuck with a scrote like you! The creepy sex-obsessed pedos weed themselves out as you get older. It’s the BEST time to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:38 PM
14

Jokes on them if they think a friend asking to meet up after sex AND HIM SAYING YES is any more acceptable. Goodbye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:21 PM
17

Gross. Why can’t men just enjoy a hobby instead of making it a pissing contest? I’m into stationary and I use fountain pens frequently and the misogyny there is BLEGH. Went to my regular pen store to get one and the guy just assumed I had never used one before even though I came in and directly asked for something very specific. I can’t prove it but I know he wouldn’t have treated a male customer that way. Also male fountain pen users are so pretentious and exhausting; some of them even leave ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:04 PM
13

Yeah, it’s a snarky response to us calling each other Queens. It comes from resentment against women rather than genuine solidarity like Queen does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:02 PM
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once in a while This is SO true. I’m not into cooking or baking AT ALL but even I’ve gotten this one. It’s so insidious. My boyfriend is a better cook than I am and that’s something I like about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:01 PM
8

I’m very into makeup and journaling, which are female-dominated hobbies. I think on some level that’s why I am drawn to them, which could be a whole post in and of itself. These attitudes are also prevalent there, ESPECIALLY in the makeup community. I’ve managed to just ignore it so far, but eventually you have to leave the group. I think houseplants are awesome and I’d like to get into that, as well. Good luck with everything, and don’t let pickmes ruin your fun. Your man sounds like a wonderfu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:59 PM
7

Myself and some other women are really trying to raise awareness about the toxic unbiblical BS the evangelical church has been using to suppress and control women. We have to root it out. We also have to realize that most people aren’t raised evangelical so addressing sexism at large is top priority, in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:05 PM
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Thank you for saying this. None of this is a zero-sum game. We can address racism and we must. And we must acknowledge that race probably played a part in this, especially given the unique fetishization of Asian women that occurs in Internet porn. But this was first and foremost a misogynistic hate crime in my opinion and no one wants to talk about it. It honestly scares me a lot that everyone is almost desperate to make it a race issue exclusively. Why are people so afraid of calling out sexism…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:03 PM
25

Wtf? I don’t like this at all. All of these comments are advocating for sexual assault. I hope this gets taken down quickly. This is something I’d expect from the manosphere. NOT from people here. Disgusting double standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:25 PM
10

Adam Sandler??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:34 PM
7

background radiation level This is SO well-put. I feel like I have mental cancer from this and I look around and see literal little girls and teenage girls dealing with it and I want to just start rescuing people. Like I wish I could physically carry other women, particularly young and vulnerable ones, away from this toxic environment. But everyone is just used to it!! And apparently I’m nuts despite the fact this is so common because “people will always disappoint you” and “nobody’s perfect” an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:43 PM
75

He’s just trying to maximize the number of dates for the week to improve his chances of getting laid. It’s a numbers game. He has no interest in you as a person at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:06 PM
41

I mean if women were in charge there wouldn’t have been a war in the first place because Hitler wouldn’t have risen to power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:00 PM
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Yeah this is exactly how Elliot Rodger started. Men do this because they feel entitled to you and get angry you aren’t serving yourself up on a silver platter to their disgusting unwashed genitals. It will escalate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:56 PM
23

B-b-but Martin Scorcese is the greatest director in human history! 🙄 If your brain is the size of a chickpea, yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:02 AM
7

My favorite part of this masterpiece is the total recontextualization of “macaroni in a pot.” Bravo!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:00 AM
14

I had to leave a lot of Christian meme groups for the exact same reasons. I’m glad you’re finding ways to balance your religion and self-worth. I’m trying to find that, as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:56 AM
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Men really can’t deal with the fact that they are not entitled to sex. A man can go his whole life without sex and it’s fine. If he hasn’t done anything to earn it and isn’t good at it, he shouldn’t have it. Sex is not a human right. We should be having sex with VERY few men. The rest could either get up to par or not pass their genetic material along. It does not matter to us either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:05 AM
39

That sounds identical to evangelical Christianity ):
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:58 AM
5

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:53 AM
5

Exactly. We ARE equal. We are ENTITLED to be treated as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:10 PM
25

It’s both. Asian women get the worst of fetishization and pornsick scrotes targeting them. There is a reason he targeted people who were both Asian AND female. He didn’t target Asian males and he didn’t target white women. He knew exactly who he wanted to go after. Also, hate crimes against women exist. Hate crimes don’t have to be racial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:18 PM
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YES YES YES. I don’t support WAP and I think Cardi B is hurting women with her antics, particularly black women who are already overly objectified, sexualized, and disrespected. But none of these conservative dudes ever mention any of that. They’re just mad a woman is talking about objectifying a man as well. Dead silence when all the other rappers NOT ONLY discussed graphic sex acts but also violence and objectification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:13 PM
3

This was my first thought and I was scrolling to find this comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:10 PM
39

Fun = sex, ALWAYS. If a man uses the word “fun” like that we’re done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:17 PM
7

YES 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:12 PM
75

I nearly did this the other day and stopped to delete my comment. As annoying as it is when they do it, I am NOT going to sink to their level. We women have to remember we are above that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:05 PM
26

Free sex and house work. Also a major boost in social standing with other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:32 PM
13

Yeah he was investing in himself instead of in his family. Classic scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:32 PM
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How can I help? I don’t want to target a legitimate business just because they have a lot of Asian women working there. But there is a “massage parlor” on every corner where I live and I want to help get rid of them and help those women into safety. Does anyone have resources on this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:43 PM
126

And honestly men of color supported trump in weirdly high record numbers. Says something about the most powerful force in modern conservatism—misogyny, first and foremost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:40 PM
43

YES. A lot of “female white supremacists” are clearly either trying to protect themselves or think they can gain respect by spreading these vile ideas. It does NOT make what they are doing okay. They’re horrible disgusting people. But they are NOT the same as the males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:40 PM
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I’m not a fan of any guy carrying a gun. Black men commit a lot of violence against black women. The only person I’m excited to see with a gun is a woman of any color. Except maybe Kaitlin Bennett but even then...better her than some scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:39 PM
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I’m so glad someone shared this. The news article are almost DESPERATE to make this about race. Saying “assumed to be Asian” about the victims (they don’t even know) and then clarifying that only 3 of the 8 were even assumed to be Asian. Why are they so desperate to cover up the fact that it was WOMEN? Now this guy does seem racist against Asians based on his social media history, but anti-Asian racism pairs REALLY WELL with general misogyny. Just look at the disgusting culture around anime, hen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:37 PM
10

Yeah I want my men hairless. Body hair is not suddenly attractive because you have a Y chromosome and a penis. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:19 PM
7

I hate the way cosmetics and hygiene equipment is marketed in a sexist way. That said, I really disagree with the idea that we should sink the men’s level. I personally like hairless, sweet-smelling, well-groomed, well-dressed people. I do that for myself because I enjoy it, and I expect the men in my life to be held to the same standard. Very few men pass this test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:18 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean. We are equal to them in terms of what we deserve. They, as a group, are not equal to us in terms of morality, behavioral, mental ability, and empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:16 PM
25

Unfortunately the Rowling type stuff could get them in trouble with Apple. Big companies like Apple and Amazon have decided where they stand on women’s issues, and it’s not with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:14 PM
25

Any hatred of Cardi B is an instant red flag for me. No one has shit to say about male rappers that literally glorify horrific violence against women and CONSTANT objectification of them, but Cardi B wants a man to consider her sexual desires for under 4 minutes? DISGRACEFUL. What a clown show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:10 PM
31

Yeah I remember seeing some anti-feminist guy laughing at an article by a woman about how her boyfriend sleeps so soundly and she can’t sleep and how she’s envious of his stress-free life. What an idiot. This has to be EVERY woman’s experience. Men are just in another world. They do not have the stresses and worries that we do and it shows in how relaxed they are, how easily and quickly they fall asleep, and then eventually they think we’re crazy because we all have anxiety and THEY ARE THE ONES…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:08 PM
15

I’m dealing with this rn but I love my things!! Struggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:07 PM
12

Yeah I don’t trust gay guys much more than straight one. Men lie. Also hot take but gay culture is horrifically misogynistic and don’t even get me started on drag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:01 PM
4

I nearly thought this was some man who slipped through the mods and reported this comment lmao it’s soooo accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:16 AM
34

Oh HELL to the yes. And your voices sound EXACTLY how I imagined them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:26 PM
28

I hate women! Here’s how you, a woman, can be happy: take my advice. Lol. I think this is either a satire account or a man who takes his pornsick fetish way too far. I mean, Smug? A little on the nose there, buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:22 PM
19

We need a social media site run by FDS followers where you can rate and review men you’ve dated—from a single date to LTRs. It needs to be somewhat exclusive like the FDS website so men cannot access it and so that it will not be shut down by guilty crybabies. If anyone is interested I am willing to help develop this, but I don’t feel confident doing it alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:49 PM
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any input from a male’s perspective This has got to stop. Manosphere dudes tell each other not to ask women for dating advice because it will be bad. This is, of course, absurd. Women are compassionate, well-intentioned people who genuinely try to help men be better people and get dates. Meanwhile, men will share awful, manipulative advice that only benefits other men at the detriment of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:01 PM
36

Okay this comment may not be appropriate but he is rather cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:58 PM
28

Cats absolutely know. There’s a reason men are creeped out by/don’t like cats. Cats take no bullshit and tell men where to stuff it. My cat always gives men the benefit of the doubt but the second one starts in with some bullshit she puts them in their place. It’s crazy to see how worked up the guys get, too. I had some teenager come as part of a team to remove an old couch. My friendly cat was all PET ME and he did, but of course all wrong (a lot of men have no clue how to interact with cats) a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:10 PM
24

Yeah, this movie might have resonated with women but I really regretted watching it with my boyfriend. It sends men the message that they can always win in the end because they’re bigger and stronger. The very end part where she “won” was super unrealistic and not something most men will learn from. They should have given her weapons and had her do a lot more damage. In real life, women absolutely do prevail and kill vile men when they want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:06 PM
35

Zero Suit Samus is a huge disappointment. I was so pissed about her inclusion in smash. My 17-year-old brother has a Zero Suit Samus figurine. What could have been a good example for pornsick, videogame obsessed LVM had to be sexualized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:03 PM
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Honestly I don’t care for this. Men having broken dicks and becoming recluses who beat off in their basements for hours is a BENEFIT of porn. It keeps them away from us and makes them less interested in sex with women, which is always a win in my book. I think it would be great if most men became obsessed with porn and withdrew from society because then we women could actually have the space and safety to fix the mess they’ve made of the world. The reason you should quit porn is because it direc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:01 PM
6

Countries with laws like this DO NOT CARE ABOUT WOMEN. Full stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:46 PM
12

I’m crying because this is so funny. Yeah women are so loved when they gain weight, give birth, get gray hair, or are diagnosed with terminal illnesses. Why are men so desperate to be victims? They really show their asses with statements like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:45 PM
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if you’ve ever seen a really hot guy with a plain ass girl I’ve literally never seen this in my life. I’m not even sure it occurs in nature. I don’t think there is a woman alive that is less attractive than even the most attractive man. I think we’ve been brainwashed to perceive men as MUCH more attractive than they actually are because their hygiene, grooming, cosmetics, and “fashion” are so disgusting that the bar is in hell. “Looksmatched” couples are usually a guy with a girl about an order …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:33 PM
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Yes and this has actually been proven by behavioral studies. It’s not even just dating. Women are controlling most things in the relationship while the men think it’s all their idea. We’ve been in charge for centuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:30 PM
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There is not a red pill tactic that could possibly be dreamed up that would be relevant to us. FDS totally prevents quick and attachment-free sex. The entire goal of the red pill is that. Sometimes the goal is a domestic bangmaid but FDS also totally prevents that. The only strategy they could come up with that would work would be “Treat her with respect and kindness and invest a lot in the relationship and don’t expect much back” but then that’s just what we want anyway so they would never. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:27 PM
2

This is a really interesting theory. I’ve never heard this about Japanese men though. Why do you think they are right-wing? Is there something I can Google to learn more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:32 PM
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This is why I keep begging the mods to limit manosphere posts. Us reading them and getting foamed up is exactly what those guys want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:55 PM
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Legally it is important that people are innocent until proven guilty (although in some cases the US legal system at least protects violent criminals more than innocent victims). In my mind and when it comes to how I treat men, they are guilty until proven innocent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:21 PM
71

This post is beast by the way. Just wanted to add that. I’m glad you put those abusive assholes in their place. The world needs more women like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:15 PM
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NEVER EVER EVER EVER tell a man about past relationships. Some are cool if they’re high value, but I had an ex that listened to me say how horrible certain acts made me feel and he bullied me into doing it with him because apparently he’s entitled to it?? I know better now but I did not when I was in high school. Abusers start young. Ladies please learn from our mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:14 PM
2

I’ve never muted anything so fast in my life. Can we have a separate sub for men showing their asses? This sub is overrun with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:00 PM
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I think LVM associate dogs with power and control. It’s why they like dogs and hate cats. They’re getting a power high from doing this. I’d recommend getting nasty with them and asserting your dominance. It will hurt their ego and make them less likely to do it in the future. Only do this in public with others around, though. Safety first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:49 PM
7

Not cool. No alcohol, sushi, or caffeine. If I can’t have it, he can’t. I’m doing him the favor of carrying his child. He should OBVIOUSLY be abstaining from these things and going out of his way every single day to make me more comfortable and make my life easier. Full stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:46 PM
42

This might be a bold statement but I don’t think there’s a man alive, with perhaps the exception of severely disabled or disfigured men, that is less privileged than any woman. I am really horrified by the way that some people have used racial equality messages to silence women and defend the actions of violent and abusive misogynistic men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:12 AM
20

Valentine's Day is the male equivalent of Valentine's Day. My boyfriend and I are in an LTR and alternate Valentine's Days to "prepare" for the other. So far he has done a very good job on his years. This idea that "Valentine's Day is for women" suggests that celebrating a relationship and being romantic is something that men aren't interested in. HVM are interested in those things, so when a man tells you this he is letting you know his value. At no point do we need a "man's Valentine's Day"; t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:12 PM
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They literally give up nothing. 0.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:57 PM
18

Okay dude. Then we’ll stop taking birth control and stop having sex with men. Can you IMAGINE the outrage? I heard a faint REEE in the distance as I typed this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:54 PM
2

The fact that the last one even needs to be said 🤮 sometimes I swear men are another species
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:53 PM
8

Yes. As someone who has spent time in right-wing circles, men of all races find their way there. They are attracted first and foremost by the misogyny. It lures them like moths to a light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:13 AM
1

Helpmeet? Evangelical are you? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:11 AM
3

As someone who sometimes hangs in right-wing circles where unfortunately the alt-right feels welcome, this is absolutely true and they said it out loud very directly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:10 AM
10

Can you imagine a world where THIS is the norm for men?? What an amazing plave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:37 PM
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They are suing for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:35 PM
2

This is clearly a manosphere post. OF COURSE professors are predatory. This shouldn’t surprise anyone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:20 AM
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