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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 28 | I have received many angry dms from men because of this sub in the last 24 hrs wtf? Anyone have privacy tips, this is getting grossI’ve been REPORTED to be suicidal and have had RedditCareResources offer me some mental health tips due to something I’d posted or commented on? Proceeded to receive a lot of dms from scrotes saying how delusional I was?? Would also like to know some tips and tricks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 03:45 AM |
| 257 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Reading this made me immediately think of that Twitter thread that went viral. It consisted of numerous tweets from different men (and possibly women about their exes?) indicating that they settled after letting the one get away. Being caught in that moment of nostalgia and feeling of “what if”. THIS is why for the love of god, don’t go for the guy who hasn’t healed from a previous relationship or have broken up with their partner so close to meeting or dating you. You don’t want to end up being… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 33 | My 23 year old sister now has Cervical Cancer due to an untreated STD from her boyfriend.Oh my goodness. I am so so sorry from the bottom of my heart. That is awful. I hope your baby sister is in the clear, it’s not serious and it’s treatable. 23 is too young. What in the hell is a 28 year old man doing with a girl that young. Ugh this man is a piece of absolute shit and my heart breaks for you OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:42 PM |
| 124 | Just another year end reminder to NEVER EVER build a man. Focus on yourself and only yourself.Agreed, she calculated everything incredibly well. From getting everything prepared in advance to getting shit done during his flight. I was so worried she’d get caught or something. Also good point, he didn’t sound that well put together to have any claim over those items… and it also sounds like everything was bought out of her pocket, not his (that’s my opinion though) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 06:16 PM |
| 46 | Just another year end reminder to NEVER EVER build a man. Focus on yourself and only yourself.Honestly, the 7th slide onwards is worth the read! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 06:13 PM |
| 11 | Just another year end reminder to NEVER EVER build a man. Focus on yourself and only yourself.I’ll PM you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 323 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.I stopped at her and her son having an amazing time cleaning up though. Sis what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 11:53 AM |
| 90 | Just because a man looks good on paper doesn't mean he is HVI second this. Oh my goodness. I personally find these type of men the absolute worst because it takes some time until you start to piece things together and what they offer at surface level tends to fall apart. This was predominantly one of the reasons why I fell for my LVM ex. He was SO great on paper, check marked everything I supposedly wanted in a man at the time: had a good degree, worked at a reputable organization, made a great income, incredibly financial aware, had a good group of frie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 11:25 AM |
| 156 | Omg lol. Scrote husband spends 4 hours a day several days a week doing online therapy. More like porn/cam girls, video games, or both. The audacity. I just can’t 😂😂Lol. There’s no freaking way this scrote is doing therapy. Thank the lord so many people on this post stated this. I don’t know anyone who has therapy sessions that many times a day and for that many hours. (As someone who’s also in therapy myself). My shady man senses are tingling and this man is 100% doing something he’s not supposed to be doing. This woman needs to L E A V E. There’s no way in hell I would ever let my husband get away with anything like this. God knows what he’s been doing in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 04:05 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, let's stop texting guys paragraphs when we're upset/angry with themI did this so many times in my previous relationships. I made a vow to myself that I wouldn’t do this anymore moving forward. It was so much energy not only working through x problem, finding solutions, but also arguing about my feelings being validated or why I felt the way I felt. It was so frustrating and when I looked back on those messages post-breakup, it was so cringe. I remember thinking back then that doing it via text was somehow better? I hated confrontation and I thought that in doin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 149 | Ummm. What?Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:23 PM |
| 44 | The breakup level up cliche is totally true!We love a good ✨karma story ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 03:36 AM |
| 275 | Your intuition as a woman is more powerful than you realiseThis is insanely true. Our intuition and gut is everything. As a woman, you just know. I’ve seen so many posts on Reddit from women who’ve said “I should’ve listened to my gut”. We always know deep down, whether it comes to just about anything. I’ve done such a disservice to my intuition by not listening to it at times 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:12 AM |
| 6 | Block and deleteThe recognition is much appreciated! Thank you very much 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:34 AM |
| 99 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.Thank you OP! It’s just this is such a harsh reality. Here and everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 681 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.This scares me. Especially with the high percentage of women getting killed at the moment here in the UK. This isn’t even over a racial matter… because scaring and chasing her make things any better? This is disgusting. This makes me sick to my stomach. This makes me upset. Why can’t women just live and walk in peace. Just leave us alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:17 PM |
| 93 | Block and deleteThe power of block and delete is so real lol. After my breakup with my dud of an ex, had it not been for FDS (and my girlfriends) I wouldn’t stand by this today. Back then I thought that blocking and deleting meant me being vulnerable, me losing the breakup, me showing how butt hurt and bothered I was that he broke up with me. However, this could be further from the truth. After not following this the first time, me opening the gates of hell to speak with him led to another heartache. The second… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:46 PM |
| 173 | Trust your intuitionDuring the first stage of dating a guy I journal like crazyyyyy. That way I have a detailed image of what we spoke about, how this person made me feel, what did we do - when I look back on it, I have it laid out there in front of me, clear as day that what I was shown was what I got. As much as manipulators and narcissists try to be sneaky, make you second guess yourself and gaslight you, they almost always show you exactly who they are at first glance (or at least that’s been my experience). Wr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:55 AM |
| 188 | Pickme story timeGod, I remember when this happened to my friend… she was in a long distance relationship with a dud who lived in NY. Whenever he went on vacation with his friends, shady shit would go down!! This scroat went to Florida and slept with this girl who obviously didn’t know he had a girlfriend…. After some creeping, she messaged my friend to let her know what happened and who did my friend believe? This scroat obviously. I remember my friend being like “obviously that girl just wanted him”……… sis wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:20 PM |
| 184 | Andddd it’s confirmed. 🙄 my heart goes out to Anna💞This is so disgusting. His poor poor wife. I can’t even imagine the level of heartbreak and feeling of brokenness she’s experiencing atm. What’s even worse about celebrity culture is they won’t be held accountable for actions like this. Everyone forgets eventually, but Anna will live with this pain forever, he broke her in her attempts to constantly build him up and help him. He cheated. Period. I understand the controversy surrounding cancel culture but I need him and her to be cancelled immedi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 10:57 AM |
| 106 | The Joy Luck Club and "splitting expenses down the middle"I’m realizing that even as a young girl I followed FDS 😂 I read the book and watched the film and I remember feeling SO irritated and rubbed the wrong way watching their relationship play out. I remember these scenes until this day in my relationships!!! Always vetting for guys who do this….. and as we’ve seen on this sub there are unfortunately many. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 192 | I just read a post where a woman was shamed for wanting to be walked to her car post date🤦🏼♀️. The bar is in Hades.I absolutely cannot. Every date I ever had either dropped me off at my subway stop, came with me on the subway to drop me off at home, walked me to my car, waited for my Uber to arrive before leaving me, etc. Of course the ONE LVM ex I had, I will NEVER forget… he basically left me hanging late at night on our first date but I remember liking him so much (former pickme days), that it was like a “little flag” at the time? Low and behold, he ended up doing that our entire relationship; wouldn’t wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:38 AM |
| 34 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayI’ve read this like 5 times already since it was posted and omg we love this queen!! The ending is my favorite part 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 18 | Dated an awful NVM, now a billionaire.. You can level up from your pickme days!Agreed!!! Her bf is a sex addict. He has talked about it in interviews. I feel like she’s too good for him and it looks like they’re both taking this relationship seriously. I’m hoping she dumps him, it looks like it’s going to end badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:06 PM |
| 77 | Always Google Your DatesI always always always google each and every one of my dates, potential boyfriends - you name it. My friends call me crazy, but I call it careful. Everyone’s on the internet, you can pretty much find almost anything about anyone. It boggles my mind when people don’t do this, especially if you’re on a dating app. Situations like these are real and incredibly scary. Please vet online too queens!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 10 | How to detach from men you have crushes onMy god if I’d read this sooner in relation to my childhood crushes it would’ve saved me from a lot of heartache. I ended up dating a few of them (they happened to appear to be HVMs) in adulthood when we dated for real and low and behold they were complete LVMs. But I’d projected images of who they were based on paper items (ie. job, financial status, looks, some mannerisms) that it was almost too late and it led me to absolute disappointment, a waste of time and unnecessary headaches from crying… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 01:50 PM |
| 222 | My goal for this year is to have boundaries and establish them like men do. They only do what they want, when they want it, with whomever they decide. There is no forcing them, they never give in, especially if they're not benefiting. I aspire to be like this.The prayer I’ve been preaching the minute I discovered FDS!! This doesn’t just apply to romantic relationships, but also friendships and family relations. I’ve been practicing what I’ve been preaching and I can confirm I feel 10x stronger, powerful and indestructible lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:24 AM |
| 26 | “Your life is not perfect until you have a boyfriend,”I hate this. This has been the constant narrative ever since I was in my teens. I wish more people normalized finding your happiness, establishing your own sense of independence, building yourself up, learning to establish healthy relationships with yourself and those around you. I literally don’t understand why our whole life should be seemingly dedicated to finding a man and making him our whole life. My life is perfect boyfriend or no boyfriend!! All of these horror stories I’ve seen make me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:38 PM |
| 21 | Although OLD is a dumpster fire, let me highlight the new way scrotes can cheat!Are you fuuuucking kidding me? Seriously? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 91 | Girl..LmfaoWowww, thank you for showing a pic of me and my old pick me ways!!! RIP that girl! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:10 PM |
| 23 | You ever feel disgusted at the absolute scum you allowed to touch your body?All in all, I’m disgusted that I mistook a physical connection as an intimate one. “Best sex of my life” duh, ugh cringing at my past pickme self | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:14 PM |
| 144 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Hahahahahah I laughed so hard at this. Why? Because it’s so fucking true!!!!!!!!!!!! 😂 I’m so done trying to be the ideal girl, I’m being the girl I want me to be. Don’t like it? Block and delete. Trying to take advantage of it? Block and delete. Took me for granted? BLOCK AND DELETE. Thank you so much FDS, I’ve fallen in love with each and every one of you, the power of this sub makes me feel alive in a way I’ve never even felt before. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:36 PM |
| 127 | Cuddle dates 🤢🤢🤢low value dates from a low value male, I said what I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:46 AM |
| 54 | Couldn’t Have Said It Better Myself!Completely lost myself, painted all the red flags green, had to gain back my self confidence, worth and learn how to value myself. Yet, I’m still stuck with the pain of doing this to myself knowing deep down in my gut that something was wrong. This led me to being haunted and a useless POS living rent-free in my head. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 01:50 AM |
| 19 | Jasper Bloom was the ultimate NVMI hate that guy!!!! Uggggghhhhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:48 AM |
| 50 | Men suck sometimes lolSeriously!! When. Did. This. Become. A. Thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Every time I read a post about some LVM behaviorOh my god... I cried of laughter at that comment because I very much did the same 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:49 AM |
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