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Done all that before minus the weird mention of an orbiter mid sex, lol.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:21 PM
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I wish. It's not easy being this good.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:19 PM
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What boundary is crossed? Shes not my GF, just curious. Shes never hinted at actually doing anything with this dude. She could have if she wanted. Just mentions that he looks over her shoulder at her phone.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:03 PM
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I kinda guessed that. I just soft next anyway. Cant go wrong with a soft next. I guess it blows up her ego knowing she is essentially waving our sex in his face - whilst trying to intimidate me with the fact he knows lol
/r/askTRP25/09/19 04:57 PM
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If I dont flinch is that holding frame? Maybe shell do a literal shit test on me.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:27 PM
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I get that impression too. Why is she always telling me? Is it like, "flabbyfuck, look at how i can humiliate this guy! My smv is high isnt it?"
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:24 PM
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What's wrong with you brah? What's the problem if I let a chick use me for a while then bang her like a caveman after like I always do? Same thing all the time gets boring.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:17 PM
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I know the deal with orbiters but why mention hes seeing her private sex shit?
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:15 PM
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There's gotta be a way to win. Of course I can always do whatever I want behind her back - I'd like to be as upfront as possible though (for several reasons I am likely to get caught which will more likely lose me the sex). I did say "at the moment" at the time - could play it off that.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:19 PM
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Nah it's the 1 woman. Not a repeat thing for me, man.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:41 AM
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I soft next all the time, she initiates again until I engage. I don't reward anything that annoys me; still seems that shit happens all the time
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:37 AM
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What would your corrective action be in that case? Probably some element of truth in your statements, though without going too much into it, there are other things at play.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:33 AM
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Makes the dynamic a lot harder than it needs to be when she's playing games
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:31 AM
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Her playing same kind of dread and ghost games as me. Which she clearly learnt off me
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:19 PM
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We were texting as much before Fwb so cant do much. She isnt nexting. Its complicated
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:14 PM
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I soft next all the time. She thinks I'm ignoring her etc. but always comes back. What is FTOW?
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:03 PM
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Lol working on it. Few dates lined up etc.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 08:57 AM
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I soft next all the time. She comes back within a day every time but then pulls stunts like this. Hence my fatigue of the situation.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:25 PM
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I've no issue not reacting. Though we haven't been using condoms by virtue of her not sleeping with anyone else. For this reason I would like to know if she did have unprotected sex so I can wrap it up next time. I think it's unlikely, knowing her, but of course its possible and shes within her rights to do whatever she wants. How would you approach the condom issue? I don't want to seem like a pussy and asked if she banged someone else. Lol.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:24 PM
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Yep. Or might revert to friends just but no doubt that's ruined by this point lol.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:19 PM
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Can do nothing at the moment. Oh well. Would rather have plain sailing in a fwb situation than constant bullshit. Considering hard next.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:16 PM
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That's the plan my man. Though I can't be bothered with this kind of shitty drama, worth calling it out to avoid in future? Nothing butthurt just a pointer to her. Not going to lie, this one did annoy me. Normally idgaf.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 09:33 PM
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Cant argue with you man. Few things though to raise - I wasnt her orbiter ever. I was getting with her friends and shit, part of a friend group and I had no feelings genuinely - even offered relationship advice with her ex. I wasnt trying to smash. I entered the fuckzone because I'm not some speckled virgin with 0 game. The opposite. It's the repeat encounters I struggle with emotionally. I think I have childhood issues. I dont want to cut ties. I know I am actually in a good position many men d…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:01 AM
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Just to get a rod of steel tbh
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:21 PM
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Mid 20s. I want a rod of steel though.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 09:46 PM
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Mid 20s.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:30 PM
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How do you withdraw attention if they keep texting or calling? I'm assuming they know when you're ignoring them
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:16 PM
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I know I must have but I dont know where which is what is concerning me. Yeah the sex is still there but if the behaviour gets worse I'm out.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:02 PM
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It's like she suddenly realised she is attractive. And likes to try and remind me now. Wasnt like this before. New to me this shit.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:59 PM
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I did. Lazily, lol.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:53 PM
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It's starting to really irritate me now. I've tried to soft next a few times and she comes back but same old shit.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:53 PM
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The viagra is just for the added kick as I'm only getting used to sober sex. That's the plan. Any advice on her attitude change? Just act normal and bang is my plan
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:39 PM
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Yeah I know but I'm trying to get off the booze for this shit. For logistical and health reasons. I'm trying to figure that out myself. At the time I was overly concerned with her enjoyment and somehow slightly self conscious about myself. Probably from being used to dgaf from alcohol
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:01 PM
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I understand that it I just didnt seem to be able to do it. Well, not as well as I would have liked. Next time will be different.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:50 PM
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I have been banging other women
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:43 AM
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She made contact and was very affectionate and worried I had given up on her completely. Almost apologetic though didnt say it. So yeah she came around. No real hassle to me but I dont want to set a precedent of being a walk over.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:10 PM
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I mean yeah, contact is back and she seems really affectionate now. So clearly I did something right. I just think she was trying to get me to act a pussy and back track on what I said
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:01 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't initiate that. We are pretty much dating now anyway but I dont see her bringing up that talk due to the fact shes quite shy and looks to me as the "leader" in our thing
/r/askTRP16/07/19 03:25 PM
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Usual stuff like do you still want me etc. Arranged to meet again from her bringing it up too so all seems to be good. I'm starting to get the impression she has caught feelings, kind of want to see if she wants to "date" as we have good times but not sure if she will respond well to that
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:36 PM
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She has seen stuff like that before popping up on my phone etc. I never would be precise about anything I'm up to. Anyway, I'm now being met by a shit load of comfort tests it seems like.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:27 PM
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Sometimes I get some feels. Potentially. I've known her a long time but only recently seen this more intimate and womanly side to her.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:52 PM
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I have had several ONS just. Which is how I normally play it anyway. I dont do the whole repeat encounter thing normally
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:51 PM
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I'm in above my depth this time. I can keep acting the way I am but thatll end up blowing up and ruining the friendship aspect. I made the mistake of having a fwb with someone I actually care about lol
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:33 PM
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I'm not even sleeping with them, I could if I wanted to though. I didnt even talk about other women, just the fact that I do have some options. I dont mention other sexual contact I've had at all.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:24 PM
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What is causing the levels of drama if the girl has been avoiding commitment herself? She always says she isnt ready for a relationship and doesnt care if I am seeing other people.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:16 PM
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I think just a standard shit test. I just guessed the shits tests stop after a while. The other dude is nowhere near my level and he knows it lol
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:03 PM
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I'm legit not jealous, just curious as to the mechanics of this kind of stuff. I dont need help on it really, I've been doing well and I'm in a good place anyway. I'll admit I'm mostly curious because I never see the same woman more than once so this is new to me. Good times
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:54 PM
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Makes sense. Why do women do these kind of jealousy tests if they only serve to reduce their chances of commitment? They must realise that the guy sees it as disrespectful.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:29 PM
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What happens if you take the bait? She jumps on someone else?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:01 PM
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I was thinking that it's just going to start a dread war - which is the opposite of my goal here. Also I've never felt comfortable bringing up other women. I never fall for it. How do I make it stop though? Or can I even? Lol
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:57 PM
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She knows of 1 orbiter I have (they used to be friends). But most of my encounters are ONS. I am talking to a few women atm though - what's a good way to mention my options?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:51 PM
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Cant worry about it man. I'm still rock solid
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:54 AM
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Watch what they do not what they say? But whatever. I wouldn't be surprised lol. I'm in a good position currently regardless.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:22 AM
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What makes you say not LTR quality? I do rather well with strange women and hookups, this is my first real repeat encounter in about 5 years. Curious on your opinion.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 09:38 PM
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Sneaky as fuck, lol. "If you want to see others I don't care" sounds counterintuitive for an LTR. That, to me, says she doesn't care what I do. Didn't bait me at all. What should someone look for when a fwb is trying to get upgraded to LTR? I suspect she is attempting such but I am as yet unsure if I am game. I usually don't see women more than once, lol. Thanks for your answers man.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 08:45 PM
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Sorry, by good behaviour you mean saying she won't seek other dick, but I am free to? So she's expecting a response such as "I don't want anyone else", "don't find anyone else please" etc? Interesting. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 08:22 PM
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Cool. I had a suspect feeling it was something like that, lol. I don't think I slipped up at all. I pretty much remained chill and aloof through all of the rantings. Thanks for your response.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 08:16 PM
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I wouldn't go for a direct branch swing either. It probably depends just. Everyone average or above, at any given time, has some form of romantic prospects. Therein, everyone is always branch swinging to some level. I'm only coming back to the dating game myself after about 2 years off. Just focused on work and one night encounters during that time. Had a good time, but decided I want to try and find a casual dating thing now. More reliable. My game is very good, but I'm probably rusty at dating…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 11:09 PM
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I've seen branch swinging before. Even had a few try to swing over to me. Didn't fancy being the next link in the chain, so to speak. That is up to your individual morals I guess. Generally, I wouldn't bother myself as I can't be bothered with the drama.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:56 PM
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Some story dude. Goes to show some of the mentality of some people out there. I hate the lack of logic that comes with emotion. Fortunately these days it's easy to tell if people are single. Interesting thing I found about my date was that she had been telling her friends and co-workers about going out with me. You wouldn't think she would if there was an ulterior motive. I realize I'm coming across as pretty insecure right now with this thread, but fuck me I'm just so curious, lol.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:48 PM
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Lol nah, I lift etc. Just a banging username. Oh I know what they can be like, it's just usually it's more obvious to me. It's got me stumped. Not worried at all. Though part of me is also (probably foolishly) wondering if I'm just assuming she ditched. We were together a few hours.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:40 PM
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