Was asked if I had other options by a fwb and truthfully answered yes. Also said that I often choose to spend time with her the most.

This was met by absolutely nuclear levels of shit, including being told I'm acting like a dick, and that she doesnt want to feel used or slutty etc etc. I kept my cool, said I enjoy spending time with her the most but didnt buy into the bait to get upset or emotional.

Cue countless shit tests.

She always maintains she doesnt care what I do with other women, just not to tell her. When she asked I was honest. I'm now often being accused of acting like a dick, dont really see why.

Currently soft nexting.

How do I avoid these levels of drama? I dont see what I did to make this blow up so badly lmao.