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Patrice O’Neal Archive. Hundreds of episodes from O&A, but scroll all the way to the bottom and they have episodes of the Black Philip Show. Missing episode 11 but it’s on YouTube
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 08:16 PM
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Patrice was so wise when it came to dealing with women. The Black Philip show taught me so much about how to carry myself with women, especially ones I wasn’t dating. There’s also an archive on Spotify of all the times he was on the Opie & Anthony show way back then and every once in a while he drops some knowledge that would fit perfectly with the theme of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 01:09 AM
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I don’t remember seeing it but I bet I can give you the TLDR: if you’re really that desperate for sex, go to a gay bar and you can feel exactly what a girl feels when she rides the cock carousel in the span of one night
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 05:43 AM
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You should try men. I bet you’ll find success in that market!
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 01:25 AM
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How is this any different from what I said?
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:44 PM
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Now you know that that strategy doesn’t work. Don’t do it again.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:59 AM
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Not gay but men are very forward in my experience. Just go up to a guy you’re attracted to, say hi, have a conversation and let him know you think he’s good looking. That’ll probably get you where you wanna go
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:47 AM
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Ok have fun getting robbed by a “pick up teacher”
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:40 AM
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Ask dad to cover for you and tell your mom you have a friend coming over to finish a project for school
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:14 PM
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I was in your position not too long ago. I know it’s tough, but as long as you set a goal and consistently work towards it you will certainly improve. As for advice, keep hitting the gym. Your confidence will skyrocket once you start seeing results, but don’t let a pump make you think you don’t need to work out anymore. Also keep a clean diet. Feeling good and looking good are a positive feedback loop. Make friends and hang with them regularly. Do fun things, whatever’s fun in your region. Don’t…
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:16 PM
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Those are insults, way too harsh for negs. Also negging so outdated. Women already caught on to that
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:07 PM
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None. The best teacher is experience.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:09 PM
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No maidens?
/r/seduction09/04/22 09:19 PM
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You are retard
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:49 PM
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Where do people in your country go to socialize? What’s an atmosphere that, in your mind, is similar to a bar?
/r/seduction08/04/22 10:07 PM
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I’m going to detail my typical first date that I pretty much used on every girl when I was single. Back then I used to love drinking craft beer, particularly from one brewery which was a 5 min drive from my house. I would always set the date to be there for two reasons: Since I was a regular I got to know the staff, but I also knew the owners who were there pretty often. Because of this, I didn’t mind showing up a little early so I could catch up with the staff, plus it wouldn’t be time wasted i…
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:17 PM
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Incels out in full force this week
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:02 AM
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The incel community’s weak attempt at a comeback, folks
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:20 PM
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Keep going
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:50 PM
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Tell her “I’m going with some friends to such and such event on Saturday at such and such time. You should come, bring some of your friends if you want”. If she comes, then you have a chance to make some moves on her. Eventually escalate and hopefully seal the deal.
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:27 PM
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Be up front about what you want. Tell girls you get involved with early on that you are only looking for something casual. If they’re on board then that’s great! If they’re looking for something different then neither of you waste your time and can keep searching for people who are on the same page.
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:05 PM
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I felt that way, too when I was in a rut. Realize that it’s in your DNA as a man to go out and chase some puss and that you’re capable of learning the ways of attracting women. It’s like a muscle, you just need to train it a little to start seeing results. Use the time you have to yourself to start improving. I know this gets said a lot, but exercise, a clean diet, and one or two healthy and enjoyable hobbies help immensely with depression (note that I didn’t say cure, in the case that you have …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 05:25 PM
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Not with that attitude you don’t. Take your kid to a rock climbing gym or something once a week and meet people there, maybe a girl with a kid of her own. There are plenty of opportunities for free education online if you look and you can do it on your own time. An insane amount of resources online to learn programming for free, for example, that can lead you to a six-figure salary with a decent portfolio. I understand it’s tough to have a positive outlook when you’re down, but even with a kid y…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 05:00 PM
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Probably wanna start by getting friends, education, and some hobbies before 31
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 04:43 PM
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Big emphasis on the leader part
/r/seduction26/02/22 08:44 AM
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She literally told you what she wants. Keep banging her and go talk to other girls
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:54 AM
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Pull up anyway like 15 min early and chat up the first person you see. If she shows up, great! If not, keep chatting people up. Maybe another cute girl walks in, sees you talking to people (social proof), then you can cold approach her. You already have that time reserved for going out so might as well try to make the best of it.
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:53 AM
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Not reading everything either but I kinda skimmed thru it and looked at your pictures. I think you will benefit greatly from therapy, but you should also try hitting the gym and eating healthy to improve your physique. You’re a pretty good looking dude. Don’t focus on women for a few months while you get your mind right. I know it’s easier said than done, but seriously just focus on self improvement for at least six months and you’ll make a complete 180. Good luck mane
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 04:41 AM
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How could you be sure she wants something serious if you didn’t have any conversation regarding what you both were looking for with regards to relationships? Try talking to her.
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:36 PM
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Wrong sub bro wtf
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:29 PM
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Cave comrades
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:19 PM
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Cringe
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:16 PM
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Goodness no. LinkedIn is not for trying to bang milfs. It’s a professional networking site. Don’t be a fool.
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:28 PM
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Bro just reading thru your profile it’s clear that being a kiss less virgin is all you think about. What you need to work on is not letting that determine your self-worth. Shift your focus into being awesome at your job (or studies depending on what stage of life you’re in), having fun hobbies (and actually having fun doing them), and getting in shape by working out and eating healthy. I promise that once you are dedicated to those three things then you’ll feel much more confident to start appro…
/r/seduction21/12/21 04:58 PM
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Also check out some of the subs geared towards male fashion. They have pretty comprehensive guides in the sidebar from the basics to more advanced looks (if you can even call it that). Not autistic but I don’t have a creative bone in my body so I needed a visual guide to start off. After a few years I can look at a piece of clothing and think about how it’ll match with other things in my closet.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/21 11:50 AM
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Well-fitting clothing trumps “good” clothing (i.e. designer wear, trendy clothes). Even something as basic as a plain colored t-shirt, chino shorts with a short inseam, and white shoes could look many times better than the most expensive clothes from designer outlets if it just fits right on your body.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/21 02:59 PM
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This is it
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:35 PM
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Why do you keep making everything about your or somebody’s career? What people do for work doesn’t define who they are. Maybe that’s something you need to get over
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:23 AM
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Well you said “what could you really talk about when someone is a fuckin hair dresser” and I’m here telling you I was able to talk about a lot with a dresser. So much so that I ended up dating her. So it seems pretty relevant. You just sound butthurt and you should put all the energy you’re wasting complaining about a girl into talking to more girls.
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:42 PM
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My gf is a hair dresser so maybe your social skills suck
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:39 PM
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Lol angry virgin incel baby wah wah wah
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:24 PM
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Kissing girls is beta, bro. Save the kissing for your homies.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:55 PM
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Engineering, medicine, law
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:42 PM
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Cringe
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:47 PM
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Props to you for trying that out. I’ve done shit like that, too, but not that specifically. It’s a fun experiment just to see what you can get away with.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:42 AM
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There’s a lot of people here who claim to be “red-pilled”. I’ve learned not to just trust anybody who posts here unless they’re an endorsed contributor. I acknowledge that nobody here is perfect, especially myself. I take most opinions here with a grain of salt until I evaluate their character. Unfortunately since this is an anonymous forum the only thing I have to go off of is a person’s post history. Call it feminine if you want, but I’m just doing what I think is right. I’m a scientist and I …
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:14 AM
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Ok I don’t know where you got the impression that a “red-pilled” person isn’t around their family all the time. First off, you don’t know OP’s life. Like you said, he could be living with his parents. He might just be super tight with his family and goes over for dinner every day. Doesn’t matter. There’s nothing wrong with being that tight with your family. I would argue that being close to your family is actually a good thing and a sign of a healthy individual. Second, people’s priorities are d…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:47 AM
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I don’t understand how this is a problem. Can you elaborate please?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:20 AM
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You should take an English class
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:37 AM
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Still, man. I’m a firm believer in tough love, especially here when someone’s clearly on some beta shit with severe oneitis and whatnot. But when we’re trying to have a genuine discussion about theory let’s be civil. Our community is seen in such a negative light already. Let’s not make it worse by pushing people away, people who are here seeking help.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 03:31 PM
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Last sentence answers my question. Thanks. That’s not what the fundamentals of the sidebar teaches so maybe it should be updated. Also this sub is called asktrp for a reason. It’s for people to ask questions, not to get constantly shit on for trying to make sense of the all this information which is pretty groundbreaking to a lot of people coming here FWIW.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:21 AM
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What’s the best way to answer that question then? I don’t like to lie. I straight up just say I don’t like texting and that’s it. The rest of what I said in my post is not what I tell girls but what I wanted to add to the post so that you all know it comes from a genuine place and not just because TRP told me so
/r/askTRP20/03/21 11:24 PM
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Honestly you should forgive yourself. She was probably as insecure about the whole situation as you. I feel like that’s just typical young people shit. At that age we’re still pretty new to sex and figuring it all out. But you should definitely apply some of the stuff you read about here now because you’ll be better prepared for the real world. If you said some shit like that with a hot af 20-something you met at a bar that night she might change her mind last minute. Doesn’t mean you can’t stil…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:42 PM
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Yes but don’t ask her to join you, just tell her. “I’m making this really good pasta recipe, let’s make it together.”
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:18 PM
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I get dates but the connection tends to fizzle out after 3 or 4
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:49 PM
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Did you read the post? I addressed that. She asked why I don’t text much and I told her because I don’t like it. I’m not going to do something I don’t like just because she wants it. That would be falling into her frame
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:21 PM
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Used to have a terrible problem with DEERing. My go to now is “I just hate texting”
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:30 PM
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Indeed. Thanks again for the input.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:22 PM
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I like your thought process behind it. My philosophy isn’t so different. I’m a straight shooter. I just say “see ya soon” and if I’m picking her up I’ll tell her to send me her address. I feel like asking if we’re still on makes me seem desperate and unsure of myself, where as saying what I say has the essence of prize mentality
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:20 PM
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Ngl it doesn’t sound congruent with my personality but the fact that that worked for you is awesome haha
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:10 PM
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Thanks for the detailed answer. I’ll be applying this immediately. Got a date with a new girl tonight
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:02 PM
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Last time we hung out she came over to my house, we hung out and fucked a bunch. She keeps leaving stuff at my house almost like it’s on purpose. It’s even an inside joke we have at this point. But the light switch effect is real. Wouldn’t doubt it if she just lost interest a few days later. That was probably 6 days ago at this point
/r/askTRP15/03/21 07:04 PM
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I’m the same way. I don’t really like texting. Face to face interactions are far more enjoyable, plus it’s easier to build sexual tension when you’re in person. Being able to look at and touch her makes the interaction more interesting for both of us. But you’re right, I shouldn’t be pandering to her just because it’s what she expects.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 06:28 PM
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You make good points. Thanks for that. I want to clarify that I don’t tell them I don’t like texting for those reasons, I was just providing that info for the people here. I actually say I don’t like texting because I prefer talking in person. Also you’re right, deep down I am a needy guy but I’ve been working on that by trying to keep multiple girls around and being more aware of my thoughts and actions when it comes to girls.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:56 PM
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I’ve been on the other end where I text too much and it makes her like me less. Definitely don’t wanna repeat that. I suppose I’m in a sort of calibration phase right now where I’m trying to find the sweet spot for the right amount of texting. Someone suggested in another comment to introduce some occasional playful banter between meet ups but to avoid gay shit like “hey beautiful good morning I hope you have the best day ever [insert 3000 emojis]”. What’s your opinion on that?
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:36 PM
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Online dating
/r/askTRP23/02/21 09:36 PM
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As long as they’re not fat you’re good. Just do it in the dark if that helps
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:38 PM
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I’m okay with initiating. I’m more worried about going ghost and the plate breaking since I’ll basically be off the radar for a week while working night shifts.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:38 AM
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Not necessarily because as the guy you have to be the one in control. But over time the girl will usually take some initiative
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:32 AM
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LMAO I feel like this might actually be a good idea. I used to do this with gfs, but idk how well it would translate to a marriage
/r/askTRP30/01/21 10:56 PM
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It’s refreshing to see someone that doesn’t insist on going for sex on the first date like most people on this sub. Too many crazies out there to just be sticking your dick in every girl you meet. I’ve had some bad experiences with crazies, though in retrospect they were probably mostly my fault for not seeing the red flags. We talk a lot about “don’t stick your dick in crazy” here, but it’s a hard lesson to learn until you’ve actually been through it yourself. I just recently went on a date wit…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 06:10 AM
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Just curious as to why you believe homes aren’t good investment vehicles
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:21 PM
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Move on
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:19 AM
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I’m definitely trying to get into her glorybox if you know what I mean, but I’m not trying to rush anything either. I think if I continue playing it cool I potentially still have a chance, but I’m not counting on it
/r/askTRP16/01/21 04:41 PM
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I barely talked to the girl. I ended up finding her number in my phone one day, texted her to see if she was working that day, and never saw her text me back that she was. Me being aloof, I ended up taking a different girl to that bar that same night and she came up and said hi. Idk if that’s a good thing or a bad thing but I haven’t seen her since. It’s been like two weeks since that happened.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:12 PM
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This girl who worked at a bar gave me her number right before I left and I didn’t remember at all the next day. Next time I went she came over and started flirting with me but I had taken a bunch of mushrooms that night and was not in the right mindset to be talking to anyone. A couple days later I found her on Instagram and discovered she was an amateur swimsuit model and was much MUCH hotter than I thought she was, considering I’d only seen her in work clothes and a mask.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:44 PM
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The bigger the hoops the bigger the ho
/r/askTRP09/01/21 07:46 PM
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Yeah dude, focus on yourself and strengthening your relationships with friends and family, it the gym, get your diet in check, develop your hobbies or find new ones, etc. It’ll be back before you know it, but if you’re constantly thinking about it you’re gonna stress yourself out about it. If it helps at all, I literally couldn’t get a boner for a solid 6-8 months after I found out my ex was cheating on me in the beginning of 2019. Not even by myself. I felt pretty ashamed about it. I started se…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:10 AM
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There’s no set amount of time but as long as you’re healthy and have no underlying issues it will come back. I was in your position not too long ago and I’m finally feeling more like myself again and getting insane desires to fuck lol
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:53 PM
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You don’t cuz it’s pointless
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:02 PM
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Well if you want to know, I ended up getting into her Facebook and seeing chat logs from the previous several months with all the details. I mean everything, including nudes that she had sent both to me and the guy. I was working night shifts in a nearby city, so I drove to her house after work and confronted her. It was not graceful by any means. I yelled and cried a lot and destroyed a birthday gift she had given me in front of her face (this was two days after my 24th birthday). I called her …
/r/askTRP18/12/20 07:44 PM
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It was a bit harsh and I appreciate your apology and the time you took to really think about this. I think you hit the nail on the head when it comes to the “meaning” of the dreams. The dreams always end in me feeling helpless, like I’ve been the victim of some heinous act meant to hurt me and there’s nothing I can do about it. You’re also right about why I don’t like to mention it. The details of the actual infidelity are fucked, but I didn’t handle it as gracefully as I should have and I’m ash…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:36 PM
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I’m not wallowing in self-pity. I was just concerned with the fact that I still have very vivid nightmares about it almost two years after the fact. I’ve been very successful in my life since it all happened despite the frequent nightmares. I wanted some reassurance that I wasn’t the only one who experiences this from a community of men who have likely been thru a similar situation.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:51 PM
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An honorable man. Thanks for your input
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:48 PM
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I really like your answer. It reminds me of something I told my best pal the other day. He’s currently going thru a break up and I told him he needs to find his mission and break it down into smaller stepping stones because it’s much more rewarding to achieve a handful of smaller goals than one large goal. I have a tendency to not take my own advice lol
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:47 PM
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I think it’s unhealthy to want to play bitches for the rest of your life, and it may be a sign that you haven’t made much progress in moving past it. Therapy really helped me move forward, I highly recommend you try it out. To each their own though
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:45 PM
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It was definitely a huge hit to my ego. I think it’s made me a much better person though. I was a lil bitch back then, and nowadays I’m a much better man. I’m not perfect and not even close to it but I’m certainly becoming the man I strive to be
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:43 PM
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The day I found out and broke up with her I blocked her and her entire family on everything. Don’t think she’s heard anything about me since then. Took some time to get out of the depression hole, now I’m dedicated to my mission. I took some time to think about why I might still be having issues with it, and I’m thinking it’s because I haven’t been able to work out these past few months since I had surgery due to an injury. I’m itching to get back as I think it’ll help me keep my mind off it. Th…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:42 PM
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This shit triggered me cuz it sounds exactly like my ex including the timeframe. Don’t LTR bro, it’s not worth it. My ex was literally maintaining a LDR with the guy and he even flew to the US a couple times.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:54 AM
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Some are open at full capacity, some have table seating and limited capacity. Depends where you are in Florida, too. I think Ft. Myers is completely open with no restrictions, while Miami has some restrictions. Also, masks most definitely not required lol
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 01:03 PM
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I’ve been to clubs three different times in Florida in the last six weeks
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 05:51 AM
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The one that you’re passionate about, will get you a job making decent money, and won’t make you hate going to work every day. It’s up to you to use that money and your free time wisely.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:24 PM
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If you’ve escalated and she doesn’t put out stop wasting your time. She wants you to be her orbiter. You should spend your time trying to get with other girls.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:04 AM
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Thank goodness my buddies aren’t pussy ass white knights. They let me know what was up when it was happening.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:41 PM
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Not a huge fan of drama. Thanks brother, won’t make that mistake again.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:40 PM
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Word, I appreciate your insight. It got me thinking, what if a girl invites you to hang with her friends then. Same principle applies?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:09 PM
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Is the idea of them having to earn being introduced to your friends something found in the sidebar? I don’t think I’ve ever read that before on here or the main sub
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:44 AM
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I’ve forgiven myself for it. I thankfully have another girl that I started seeing not too long ago and have actually fucked her, and I’m meeting a new girl from Tinder on Friday. I’m pretty new to dating around since I’ve was a serial monogamist since I was 15, so I’m learning the ropes. It’s been a fun experience for sure and I’m learning a lot.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:58 AM
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That’s fair when it’s a plate. I couldn’t even consider this girl a plate cuz I never got to fuck her. I fucked up by not implementing the 3-date rule, but I think I fucked up even more by bringing her around my friends after more than a few dates without having fucked her. Lesson learned
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:13 AM
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Trust me, that’s how it starts. Had a girl similar to this and it turns out she was stalking me, even threatened to show up to my house once when I wasn’t answering her.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:55 AM
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She sounds crazy dude. Tread lightly
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:39 AM
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Is this a shit test bro?
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:28 AM
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And there’s a university there
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:34 AM
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Bro if she’s dodging you just drop her. If she really wants you she’ll hit you up and you can make her come to you. If she don’t, you have two other dates. Tragic. Lol
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:32 AM
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3 dates dude. I know it sounds like a dick move but it will prevent you from wasting your time. Trust me, I just went through a similar situation. I had read it here so many times and thought that it was a bit harsh but it in your best interest. I guarantee you 100% there are girls out there who WILL put out within three dates.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:06 AM
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To answer your last question: so you don’t get MeToo’d. It’d be weird to record the girl saying she had a good time as you’re leaving. It’s much more inconspicuous if you do it over text later on or the next day and you still have concrete evidence of a consensual interaction.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:53 PM
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Not close enough dude lol lesson learned. I had a strong feeling I was wasting my time. Shoulda listened to it.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:33 PM
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I’m pretty new to this myself. Been aware for about 1.5 years but didn’t really start putting myself out there until recently. I’ve had more success with girls in the past few months post-quarantine than I’ve ever had in my life. I’m prepared to make more mistakes and learn from experience rather than reading theory.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 08:06 PM
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I appreciate you. I was a little bummed before reading this, now I’m feeling good about how I handled it. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:55 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I think I get it now. It’s not necessarily a sin to try to get with a girl who’s fresh out of a break up, but if she’s not displaying genuine attraction towards me then it’s not even worth pursuing. She was probably trying to make me her orbiter and got mad when I didn’t give in to it.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:34 PM
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You’re right, thanks for laying it out for me like that.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:29 PM
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How should I have handled that shit test? My reaction was to withdraw attention but that didn’t work as well as people here say it would. I’m not too concerned with why she put me in the friend zone, I care more about why I catch feelings for girls who are emotionally unavailable/don’t chase me. This isn’t the first time it’s happened in my life but it’s the first time I’ve realized it and I’m hoping maybe TRP has an answer to avoiding this besides “fuck 10 more girls”.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:00 PM
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Literally just experienced this. Generally speaking if I see a girl more than two times it’s implied that I like her as more than friends, but I like to say it anyway just to make my intentions clear so that if she doesn’t feel the same way I can end it and move on. In a more specific case, a girl I was seeing said she was unsure of what she wanted but that she liked me enough to want to hang out with me and see where things went, which I later found out was her basically friend zoning me. I had…
/r/seduction28/11/20 05:03 PM
1

Girl a sounds like a better bet to me. She’ll probably value you a lot more after the trip than girl b would. Girl b also sounds like a giant red flag and not worth spending a dime on
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:41 PM
5

Just to piggyback on this question: do you think the pictures these Instagram “models” post all day have a similar effect? I’m talking about the girls who post pics scantily clothed showing off their tits, ass and cameltoes, but technically aren’t naked.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:34 PM
1

Nah I think you did fine. What I would do differently is ask her what her schedule is like and then see if your free days match up. I did exactly that with another girl for that same night because I knew the Hinge girl wouldn’t show up. I feel that most girls you try to get out from dating apps are gonna be hesitant to meet a random guy in public anyway unless you’re a demigod looking dude.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:10 AM
3

This literally happened to me last week. She never showed up. I definitely wouldn’t assume she was coming unless she responded.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:52 AM
1

My friend and I are buying a house together to move out of our parents place and also as our entry into real estate investing. We live in an expensive market so it was the easiest way to get into it. I hope that’s as good as having my own place. Worst case scenario I’m building equity which I can use later to buy my own place.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 07:48 AM
1

You’re right, I just hate that I’m basically vegetating at home for 7 whole days. All my friends have jobs so can’t even hang on the weekdays. What’s the trick to the slow game? I don’t think there’s any sidebar material on that
/r/askTRP07/11/20 10:40 PM
1

Eventually I’ll be able to develop new plates, I just don’t know when that’ll be. I start physical therapy next week so I’m hoping that means I’ll actually be able to use my arm again. Not getting anything else. Both times we got to dry humping and when I started trying to peel off clothes is when she stopped me and said she’s not ready cuz she’s fresh out of a bad relationship blah blah blah. I guess it’s a bad idea trying to get with a girl who’s in that situation.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:59 PM
2

Typically I would follow the three strike rule, but I guess I’m being a little more forgiving with this one because she has some pretty good qualities and probably also because of the minor disability too lol she was the only person who came to visit me at home while I was recovering and even brought me a small gift which was pretty cool. Do you think it’s better to not have any girls than just one who may not be putting out as quickly at others?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:26 PM
3

Yeah that’s another thing I like about the shakes, you can adjust it to your goals. Trying to gain more weight? Add shit to it. At one point I was adding a couple tablespoons of olive oil just to meet my fats and calories. Trying to cut? Use low fat yogurt, water, take out the peanut butter, add an extra scoop of protein, avoid oats. Pretty versatile way to get your calories and hit your macros and it’s still technically healthy for you
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:55 PM
42

Damn this is brutal but true
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:26 PM
3

I was gaining a lot of weight with my own homemade mass gainer shake. 1 cup of whole fat Greek yogurt, 1 cup of a liquid of choice (whole milk for maximum gains), 1 tablespoon of peanut butter, 1 banana, 1-2 scoops of protein powder, and 1/2 cup of oats (optional, but definitely helps with gaining weight). I prefer this to typical mass gainer powders because it’s mostly whole food and much better for you. I’ve read those mass gainers they sell have a lot of shit in them. Also this one has 3-4 go…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:08 AM
3

“You’re missing out on all the fun down here, man” or some other amused mastery comment
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:05 PM
1

You don’t have to switch it up at all. Most of the time girls who give it up that quick probably aren’t very high value anyway. If you’re looking for hook ups, they’re the perfect candidate. If you’re an LTR kind of guy, however, they’re not necessarily the best candidate.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 06:58 PM
2

She’s so crazy he might catch her BPD by continuing to her, jfc
/r/askTRP24/09/20 05:26 PM
5

Some things just aren’t worth posting, man. I realize your situation is somewhat unique, but in the grand scheme it would be the same if you were making 60k a year instead. However, I was in your position a few years ago, albeit making significantly less money, and I was feeling extremely lost. It’s good that you’re out here seeking help. Maybe you’re like me and your parents were shit with money so you have no idea what to do. I empathize with that. Either way, I think I laid out a solid founda…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 03:49 PM
8

First build an emergency fund that can cover between 3-6 months of expenses in the even that you lose your job or can’t work for some reason. Then create a diverse investment portfolio to get your money working for you. For example, retirement accounts, stocks, ETFs, real estate, etc. The key here is the diversity as you don’t want all your eggs in one basket when a pandemic causes a stock market crash. Besides that, live well beneath your means. It’s going to be tempting to rent a badass apartm…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:18 PM
106

They’re trying to determine whether they should make an OnlyFans or not. If they get more than 100 likes on a pic, even if 5 dudes subscribe to her OnlyFans at $15 a month that’s $75 a month they didn’t have before
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:12 AM
2

I would add something to set up a date for the weekend
/r/askTRP11/09/20 06:15 AM
1

To me personality has a slight effect on my perception. Like she could look like a 10 but if she’s retarded I’m not gonna see perceive her as a 10. A girl who looks like a 10 and has a solid career, is super wifey, etc. is a pure 10 for me.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:12 PM
2

Kinda depends man. I agree with your definition but sometimes a skinny girl can be a 10 to me. This might sound gay but a girl’s personality can make her more attractive. Like I’d rather fuck an 8 who is cool and fun to be around than a “10” who’s super bitchy and air headed. Not to say I wouldn’t fuck the 10, but it’d feel like a chore more than something I genuinely wanna do.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:16 PM
1

Went a few times with my ex before I found out she was cheating on me. I suggested it and was the first to take my clothes off. Honestly it’s pretty fire and it builds up sexual tension to the point that she’ll probably fuck you in the car before you head back home or give you some road head or some shit. Definitely something I plan on doing with other girls in the future.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:13 PM
8

Probably means he reached out to her essentially asking for her hand. Picture “The Creation of Adam”
/r/askTRP04/08/20 09:12 PM
4

He said he didn’t drink, though
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:24 AM
1

I know exactly what you mean. I think it’s called a “flow state”. LSD apparently helps achieve it; I’ve experienced it personally. I wouldn’t recommend taking it for that purpose specifically and definitely don’t take it regularly. I’m sure there are things you can do to get into a flow state naturally without LSD.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 11:06 PM
2

I totally forgot what that was called. Thank you for reminding me. That shit blew my fucking mind. While reading it I thought of all the people I knew who fit each part of the pyramid. It’s scarily accurate.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:28 AM
1

I’m a huge fan of stand-up comedy. I really like Bill Burr. Some of the stuff he talks about is very red pilled. Joey Diaz is another one who can be red pilled at times, though I wouldn’t necessarily call him a good role model. That being said, if you have Spotify he has some albums on there and I really liked Testicle Testaments 3. He talks about the male role model he had in his life and the story is pretty crazy and has a nice happy ending.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 10:30 AM
2

She knew of a vulnerability in my house. The window to my room didn’t close correctly and could be opened from the outside. And yes, my mom knew she had cheated on me. I felt so betrayed, but at the same time I think about the legal mess that could have ensued. As much as I wanted revenge, I knew that route wasn’t worth it. The best route is to improve myself and pay her no mind anymore.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:54 PM
3

Not to hijack this post but my mom found my ex asleep in my bed one morning while I was away from home for work a few days after I dumped her for cheating on me and my mom did nothing about it. Why is it that women have each other’s backs like this, even when it’s a detriment to their own son?
/r/askTRP06/07/20 07:27 PM
1

I have the same problem at 25. I’ve followed every piece of advice suggested in the comments and it’s barely gotten better. I had sex a few weeks ago with like a 60% boner and it wasn’t very enjoyable. I got blood work done about a year ago and was told everything was normal, including my T. It was a bit on the lower end of normal but not too far from average. I’m considering doing blood work again just to check. One question: do you suffer from anxiety or depression at all? I have anxiety and I…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:41 PM
2

Tbh, the digital marketing industry never really interested me but I’m starting to see the value and potential in it. I don’t have any experience with coding; I’m actually a scientist. I chose this field because I had very little desire to sit in front of a computer at a desk all day, and now that’s like 50% of my job. I guess that’s made me more open minded about pursuing work in the digital realm. I definitely can see myself being a consultant sometime in the next few years so that’s what keep…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:05 PM
3

I really like your plan. I’m only five years ahead of you. I have my STEM degree but it’s my only source of income. I just recently started investing in the stock market, but it’s hard to pay attention to it throughout the day when you have a full time gig. I started with individual stocks, but I’m thinking of investing more into ETFs. As for a side gig, I haven’t been able to come up with a good enough idea to make money off of. What inspired you to start the business you’re running?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:20 PM
8

Save at least 10% of whatever income you have and take care of all your priorities first and foremost. Whatever is left you may use for whatever you want. I personally use that remainder to have fun, invest, and save even more.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:11 AM
4

I ended up fucking the girl in my situation, and it was some pretty bad sex. She still hits me up and overtly says she wants to fuck and give me head but I’m hesitant. Unfortunately I don’t have any other girls, especially with coronavirus going around.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:56 PM
4

Did you ever end up fucking the girl in the first story? If so, how did that turn out? The reason I ask is because I’m in that situation right now.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:08 PM
4

Same problem at 25. Regular exercise helps a bit. Like others said, lower body exercises for some reason help a lot. But I have anxiety issues that I feel outweigh the positive benefits of exercise. I’ve read high-fat diets help with this, as well as supplementing with zinc. Hope this helps
/r/askTRP13/05/20 08:40 PM
1

Hmm, well maybe you should tell them that in the least autistic way possible. They may not like to hear it, but at least you’re not lying to them. You run the risk of breaking those plates when you do this, but you have abundance mentality so that doesn’t matter to you. If there’s anything I’ve learned from all this, though, it’s that women love that shit. You might not hear from them for a few days or weeks, but 9 times out of 10 they’ll probably STILL come back around for some more.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:14 PM
1

It’s a shit test, bro. The resources are here to pass them. Also sometimes you gotta give them some comfort if you want to keep them around. If you don’t actually enjoy having the girl around then why fuck them?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:26 AM
15

Sounds like you fell into her frame, especially when you said “I’m normally not a texter...”. You basically just told her “I’ll do whatever makes you happy, even if it means that I cross my own boundaries”.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:48 AM
35

Once everyone is back to their normal way of living, most people will fall back into their habits and their lives won’t be any different than before the pandemic. In a few months people will barely remember that this ever happened, only being reminded of it every year when the anniversary of it comes around.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:46 AM
2

For real. Idk where all these autistic motherfuckers came from telling this dude to cuck his own friend. Sounds like these people care so much about pussy that they’ll just take whatever is thrown at them. OP, if this guy is your friend, just tell him what you saw or wait until it happens again to tell him. I don’t doubt that she was definitely flirting with you in front of him, but I agree with another commenter that maybe she was shit testing him to a nuclear degree. Therefore, the best option…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:19 PM
1

It’s generally a bad idea to shit where you eat. However, if it’s a risk you’re willing to take, I would start by not going out to dinner with the girl. Meet her up for coffee or an activity like rock climbing or kayaking. Dinner is too “date-y” for a first time going out with a girl who 1. has a boyfriend yet is still willing to go out with another guy, and 2. hasn’t even shown her value to you besides looking cute at work.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:00 PM
5

It does work but I don’t think there’s a formula for it. I think it’s simply if you’re attractive enough/have enough pictures that make you look attractive, or if you seem interesting based on your profile, you have a better chance at it being successful. It’s worked for me once out of maybe 10 attempts.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:53 PM
3

I had briefly mentioned it after seeing my therapist for the first time in three months or so. My anxiety and panic had improved a lot over that time, and I credited it to TRP. I had mentioned discovering the forum and he said it wasn’t the first time he had heard it and was curious about it. I saw him write it down on a separate notepad, so I wonder if he ever checked it out. That was also the last time I had met with him.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:46 PM
1

There’s always gonna be people in the world who don’t like what you do. Just know that we here have your back. Fuck the haters, they’re brainwashed anyway
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:41 PM
3

When you ask for the check, usually they ask if it’ll be together or separate. Of course at that moment you make sure to say it’ll be separate. If the waiter doesn’t ask just make sure you specify that you want it to be separate checks. I know at first you’re gonna feel like a dick doing it, but I’ve personally never dealt with a girl who had a problem paying her share of anything. That feeling will go away eventually, but don’t pussy out when the time comes. I believe she can sense your hesitat…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:22 PM
14

I see it as a balance. Sometimes I’ll pay, sometimes I make them pay for themselves, sometimes they buy me drinks. It just shows that you’re not a penny pinching broke boy. If I ever pay it’s never the first date. Another reason I might buy a girl a drink is if she has weed/cigarettes and she’s sharing. I do this with everyone btw, not just girls I’m seeing.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:08 PM
2

I had this happen the other day. She even got mad and said she was tired of talking by messenger pigeon and that if I wanted to talk to her I could call her. My response was “thank goodness, my pigeons needed a break. Also I’m not always on my phone like you seem to be”. Needless to say I still communicate by messenger pigeon.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:28 PM
2

From what you know, are making eye contact with you multiple times and checking you out considered IOIs?
/r/seduction13/12/19 06:12 PM
2

Definitely a no
/r/seduction13/12/19 05:41 PM
1

I would’ve pressure flipped it and said “is sex all you think about? Geez...” or something like that. The fact that she even thought about sex when you suggested activities at your place is a good thing. I think you there will be just enough plausible deniability after the pressure flip.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:35 PM
1

Big emphasis on getting a friend to get your stuff. If you see her, she’s gonna wanna talk and you might give in and hear her out. Or, if she’s anything like my cheating ex-LTR, she’ll break into your house when you’re not there and leave it for you and “accidentally” fall asleep there for you to find her later.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:33 AM
1

First things first, take care of yourself. Remember you’re a human first and a student second. Get healthy sleep, eat right, exercise, take care of your hygiene, etc. Next, prioritize your studies. Go to class, do your homework, go to your professors office hours if you need help with understanding the material, etc. Finally, get your social life in order. This will come with everything else actually. You’ll meet people at the gym that you can befriend. In class you’ll create study groups to tac…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 05:58 PM
1

PMed you
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:46 PM
1

Hey, I’m also 24 and about to quit my job to do some traveling. Everyone I’ve talked to who has done the same thing says it’s an experience you’ll never regret. If you haven’t done much traveling, even better. That said, make sure you have a good amount of money to maintain yourself. Don’t go bankrupt just to enjoy life. Budget yourself and figure out how much money you need to make it back home and not be starving until you find your next job.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:02 PM
1

It went well and I got what I needed!
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:10 AM
2

I’ll take your word for it. I’ll take a look at that one
/r/askTRP13/08/19 01:25 PM
2

There’s an updated version that was made after the digital revolution. I haven’t had a chance to read it but if any others that have would like to chime in and give your take on it that’d be greatly appreciated
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:09 AM
1

Thanks for your advice. My doctor’s schedule is usually pretty full but I’ll find out tomorrow if I can come in some time this week. If not I’m going to find another doctor in the area that will see me this week.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 06:11 AM
1

I’m gonna try to get an appointment this week while I’m home. My doctor is a woman, do you think I should get a male doctor instead?
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:16 AM
1

Have you tried it yourself? I read that online as well as some other things but I never see reviews from real people.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 07:41 PM
1

I didn’t get to review it myself but my testosterone levels were 525 ng, right around average. I really think working out is making it increase because lately my body hair has been growing more. Like I’ve never had chest hair until a couple months ago. Granted it’s only a few hairs lol but I’ve gone from zero to a few in a few months. My arm hair has gotten a tiny bit thicker and I’m growing facial hair where I wasn’t before. Judging by all the comments I might have to get some viagra. Happens t…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 07:40 PM
1

I’ve done kegels before and got those muscles pretty strong but I’m gonna get back to doing them if you think it’ll help. Yeah it might be all in my head. I get morning wood sometimes and it can be pretty solid. I also don’t doubt that my anxiety is contributing to this now that I think about it. Maybe in the moment my body will react correctly. I’ll trust that it’ll work.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 07:36 PM
1

Not that much. I work a 7 on 7 off rotation and don’t drink at all when I’m on. When I’m off I drink maybe 3 out of 7 days. Usually 3-4 beers or a couple cocktails each time
/r/askTRP11/08/19 07:33 PM
1

I’ll start today. I get pretty good sleep generally speaking. Some weeks when I work night shifts it can be kinda iffy but I usually wake up before my alarm. Sleeping during the day is a challenge sometimes
/r/askTRP11/08/19 07:31 PM
2

I started meditating daily this week. I’ve also been wanting to read Meditations by Aurelius but I haven’t gotten around to it because I’m listening to two audiobooks at the moment. I might just buy the physical book to have around. I definitely don’t want to become dependent on it. I’m highly against taking medications, but in this case I’m willing to break that rule.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:26 AM
1

I don’t track my calories that closely but I estimate I’m getting slightly more than my TDEE since I don’t gain or lose weight. I’m not doing any heavy lifting right now due to a shoulder and groin injury but I’m hitting the gym minimum three times a week. Just starting some rehab exercises on those. Before though I was going four times a week. My work schedule complicates my workout routine because I go to a very rural area for a week at a time, but I still get to exercise in the really crappy …
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:23 AM
2

If you want to fight your social anxiety you gotta just go out and talk to people any chance you get. That could mean in the line at the grocery store or at a bar. You’re in Germany and I’m under the impression that people really like to drink beer there. Go to a bar, grab a beer (even if it’s only just one) and just go around and talk to people who look friendly. The best part about talking to strangers is that there’s a pretty good chance you’ll never see them again. Eventually you’ll get good…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 07:19 PM
7

I’m perfectly happy being quarantined from people who have no direction in life, who are perfectly content with rotting away in their living rooms playing video games, eating Doritos and drinking Mountain Dew for every meal, complaining about girls not liking them without self-reflecting and wondering why girls don’t like them. I don’t want that shit to rub off on me :)
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 03:43 PM
7

Dance, socialize, crack jokes, tell stories, talk about shit you like or don’t like, have a civilized discussion about something that isn’t politics or religion, drink a little bit or smoke a bit of weed to loosen up, the list goes on, man.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:58 PM
3

A lot of the time they’re all talk. Even if he came down he probably was just gonna talk all sorts of shit to your face but not lay a finger on you. It wouldn’t be in his best interest either considering it was 5v1. I wouldn’t have even responded to him in that situation, but that’s just me.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 01:39 PM
2

Your childhood trauma may have something to do with this. Terribly sorry you had to go through that. How long ago did you discover TRP? I try to remind myself every day how uncomfortable this process is supposed to be. My best friend, the guy who unplugged me, always refers to a scene in The Matrix that is a perfect analogy for this process. Neo: Why do my eyes hurt? Morpheus: You’ve never used them before. We’re currently being brought out of the matrix. Our minds must be so uncomfortable becau…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:39 PM
1

I’m exactly the same. I still smoke but I’ve actually gotten to use it more recreationally (i.e. not smoking when I feel anxious/depressed). I also work away from home every other week and I leave my stash at home and my anxiety, depression, paranoia etc. are through the roof those weeks. I would love to figure out what’s wrong with us. Do you see a psychologist? Is there anything that’s on your mind that you feel like you can’t tell anyone?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 08:00 PM
13

I would be very, very careful of it still. My ex would spend a whole week with me in another city where I’m working right now and she was still cheating on me horribly. We would fuck like rabbits and she would genuinely make me feel loved, all the while she was fucking some guy from Europe and talking about marriage with him and shit.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 04:55 AM
1

Massive respect brother. That was really cool of you.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:58 AM
2

I believe in you man! The journey is long and arduous but the destination is worth it
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:59 AM
2

It’s been about a week since I last smoked but I’ve significantly cut down on my use over the past three months. I used to smoke a quarter oz every two weeks. I’ve been on the same batch for over a month now and I’m not even close to finishing it. I’m not going cold turkey because for me it was pretty difficult. Maybe that’s what you need but YMMV. I’m only 24 now. I’ve tried quitting many times, usually cold turkey. I personally don’t think weed is bad at all. Just like anything it’s fine in mo…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:32 AM
2

Hey, I’m currently doing the same thing. While I probably never smoked nearly as much as you I can say that I definitely feel the same way. You’re literally going through withdrawals. Marijuana is definitely addictive, just not in the way that hard drugs like cocaine or heroin are. You gotta keep yourself busy to distract yourself from any urges to smoke. I know you say you won’t relapse, but trust me you WILL get the urge to smoke soon. When it comes to sleep, maybe try taking melatonin an hour…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 07:26 AM
10

Dude it’s 2019. You can get anything you want on the Internet
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:06 AM
1

I was the same way man. Growing up I didn’t have much so I was like you and spent my money on stupid shit and was also really generous with my friends. It was fun at the time and I don’t regret it entirely, but I’d probably way more well off now had I been saving. Now I’m 24 and saving close to 50% of my income so in the end it worked out, but my situation may be different from yours.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 11:21 PM
1

You definitely aren’t expected to have it all figured out at 17. But since high school is coming to an end you should start thinking about whether you want to go to college or trade school or maybe take a gap year and do some traveling or volunteering. If I could go back to being 17 I’d be reading up on personal finance, though that’s only because my parents gave me shitty financial advice. Your situation may vary. Most importantly, enjoy your life man. You’re still very young and when you becom…
/r/askTRP16/06/19 04:30 AM
2

Man I’m in the same boat as you and let me tell you that if you don’t just make a move and get on with your life your parents are gonna treat you like this forever. I’m starting to feel like my own mother birthed me for the sole purpose of being her financial safety net. For a long time I fell for the guilt trip of her raising me by herself and letting me live at home all this time after turning 18. But recently I decided I’m tired of being her perfect little beta and of course I’m met with vitr…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:52 AM
1

Find somewhere close to go camping where it won’t rain
/r/askTRP05/06/19 08:58 PM
1

This is such a great answer, man. I was having a discussion with a friend of mine who discovered TRP on his own and this is exactly what I told him.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 06:26 PM
2

Sidebar re green flags and red flags
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:49 PM
2

I’m by no means an expert, but from everything I’ve read about getting fit the first step always involves two simple things: eat healthy and do literally any sort of exercise. Your diet is the most important thing when trying to be healthier. Eat real food, no processed garbage. Rice, veggies and chicken breast is my go-to meal. Stay away from things with added sugars. When it comes to exercise, just start somewhere. Go for a 15 minute walk every day, or if you want to get into the habit of goin…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:48 AM
2

I didn’t know I agreed with you until I read this. You just opened my eyes. My mother has always said things that imply that she expects my siblings and I to take care of her later on in life. Don’t get me wrong, I love my mother to death and I would do anything for her. However, the fact that she sees it not just as an expectation but an almost implicit obligation to take care of her in her old age makes me not want to do it. Kind of like when you were thinking about getting something done and …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 08:55 AM
1

Thanks for sharing the link. I haven’t been able to sub there since it’s quarantined and it gives me problems on mobile.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:02 AM
1

Yeah that’s partially true. I’m in a rural area right now and tbh there is a scarcity around here. I swear she’s the most attractive girl around here and it’s really not saying a lot. Every other chick I’ve seen out here is obese or crackhead skinny with fucked up teeth. I wish I was making that up.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 08:08 PM
1

I wouldn’t say we know each other very well. Conversations are usually kept short since she’s always working. I know her name and that’s about it
/r/askTRP07/05/19 08:05 PM
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I suppose you’re right. It’s been long enough, not gonna hurt to ask again. I know more now so I think I can navigate the conversation better than I did before
/r/askTRP07/05/19 12:13 PM
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I don’t want this to be misunderstood. I don’t go to the store seeking her out. I actually go there to buy stuff and sometimes she’s working and other times she’s not. Most times when she is there I simply get what I need and go. Other times we’ll chat a little about nothing important, usually with her initiating conversation. The thing about girls at work is it’s hard to tell if they’re making conversation because it’s part of customer service or if she genuinely wants to talk. And for the reco…
/r/askTRP07/05/19 07:02 AM
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A bit late for that unfortunately. This was six months ago that she mentioned the boyfriend. Six months is a long time so maybe they aren’t together anymore but it almost seems like I won’t know unless I ask, either directly or indirectly
/r/askTRP07/05/19 05:20 AM
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Yeah I mean it’s been about six months since she mentioned it. Six months is a long time. I might ask her next time I run into her and if she says no I’m inviting her to a pool day.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 05:19 AM
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I’ll keep that in mind. Your response had me reflecting on when I went in there earlier and she was being real talkative. Next time I’ll avoid entertaining her conversation.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:05 AM
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