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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Have you noticed LVM yawning when intimidated by a conversation?Mine looked at his watch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 04:43 AM |
| 13 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseBecause she was attractive and wanted to go somewhere nice he thought she was an escort 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 04:34 AM |
| 9 | Opinion on my first dateNo | /r/askFDS | 29/03/22 12:55 PM |
| 4 | for the love of god stop explaining yourselfI agree with everything you've said. I was thinking about the clapbacks on the FDS podcast. Could someone explain why we do that then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 12:07 PM |
| 24 | Protect your wombPosting pre-preg pictures was negging | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:47 AM |
| 32 | I'm sick of media romanticizing male infidelity, this needs to stop NOWPhilis is not a HVW. She is very pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:41 AM |
| 43 | The honest definition of *If he wanted to, he would of*This is adorable ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 10:47 AM |
| 7 | Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him.You shouldn't have sent him the letter. Next time don't explain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 12:13 PM |
| 32 | What strategies should I implement for this guy that’s traveling to me?Just read the "we talked all night" part. Don't do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 12:12 PM |
| 47 | Man Wonders If Leaving His Urgently Ill Girlfriend At The ER Was, Like, Rude Or Whatever.He lost me at "she's pretty insensitive" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:58 AM |
| 11 | Tips on how to educate the younger generation of womenI recently made a new friends who is a lot younger that me. She's in her mid teens. I've started introducing topics like- Confidence Posture and assertiveness Speaking your mind Noticing socializing differences in girls and boys Establishing boundaries Social skills She's taken this topics very well. I'd say first always focus on self. Self must be the foundation. If you don't teach a young girl self esteem, giving her dating advice won't be the most effective next step. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:55 AM |
| 17 | Are there men who never want sex?If a man loves you and cares about you, he will respect your boundaries and wishes. So, yes! | /r/askFDS | 01/03/22 12:00 PM |
| 3 | HVM and HVW in pop culture?I'm super new to Marvel but I think spider man is HV. I know his character is a kid but he has a great moral compass and treats MJ respectfully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | A reminder that being a high value woman will be uncomfortableYou were seeing him for 3 weeks and he was driving you everywhere? Including your place? That's not safe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:33 PM |
| 10 | In Australia one step back. This timeline is need fudged…Love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 07:34 AM |
| 71 | I love herHe was playing on his phone. Playing games on your phone with animations lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:20 AM |
| 8 | Man puts in no effort, even suggesting a "walk date". Possible FDS lurker? and a queen regardless shuts down this low-effort loser. We love to see it!Sounds like too many words for a loser. Why explain what you deserve? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 05:51 PM |
| 280 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?If you have decided to wait until marriage please don't change that if so called "HVM" aren't okay with that. I'm sure there are men who find value in waiting until marriage. A HVM will respect your boundaries and choices that are important to you if he loves you. If doesn't, he doesn't love you enough, and that's a bullet dogged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:17 PM |
| 64 | Typical emotional abuse- bodyshaming tactics & using feigned ignorance regarding his fiancée's health needsCan you please send her a link to our sub? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 08:55 AM |
| 15 | How can I meet men who meet my preferences?Honestly you can't really meet HVM in a particular place. There will always be LVM in HV places. You just have vet everytime you see a man you like. | /r/askFDS | 31/12/21 01:26 PM |
| 101 | How do you find out a guy’s dick size without sleeping with them?Take him swimming on the first date😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Was your dad an HVM?I wish there was an inbetween hvm and lvm lol. Only for dad's, not other men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 06:50 AM |
| 42 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileExactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:03 PM |
| 15 | Precisely all the red flags we talk about 😂He likes and dislikes everything Lmao!!!! It's like he wants to try to catch as many women as he can 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 08:20 AM |
| 45 | Friend completely ignored me at her wedding. Should I block her?I think you should reach out one more time. It was her wedding day, she must have been really preoccupied. Try contacting her once more and then you can cut her out if u want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Stop referring violent men to marriage counselling, GPs toldCan someone who has read why does he do that explain why Lundy is against therapy for abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:14 PM |
| 61 | Any advice for my first date in 2 weeks?Say less, listen more. Ask good questions, let him tell on himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:26 PM |
| 657 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Brb, going to throw up🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:01 AM |
| 6 | Vetting during OLD/date suggestionsWhen should you unmatch? Now! Read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 07:59 AM |
| 7 | The result of narcissism, stupidity, money, and pickme enabling. Though I wouldn't let a man who looks like a scrotum near my 😽 with a 50 ft pole.But he'll eat anything and everything else🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 06:37 PM |
| 40 | At this point women should just complain about going 50/50 for the sheer hilarity that'd ensueI doubt he's even 5'8. Sounds like he's 5'3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 10:11 AM |
| 6 | Men do really think like thisI'm surprised he didn't start with "aKtUALly"🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 10:18 AM |
| 10 | Chris Pratt is at it again.Ewwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:00 PM |
| 25 | Just landed a 6-figure job with a new company. 💅🏼Congratulations OP❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 15 | Needing supportI'd recommend not dating until your mental health is A1 | /r/askFDS | 01/11/21 08:39 AM |
| 211 | Do not take me to a horror movie as a date 🚩Fun fact! Red pillers actually recommend men to take dates on scary movies cause there's a whole lot of adrenaline and it creates fake intimacy like "we're in this together". They also recommend taking girls on adventure sports for the same reason cause you fake bond. Let's not forget they can get touchy to make you feel "safe" in case you get scared during the scary movie🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:07 PM |
| 29 | I need advice on how to handle creepy maintenance manTrust your gut! Read the gift of fear by Gavin de Becker it talks about trusting your intuition | /r/askFDS | 27/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 25 | I’ve been celibate 4 yearsBeen celibate for 3 years. It's been nothing but amazing ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 02:18 PM |
| 114 | Are these red flags, or am I reading too much into things?Confusion is a symptom of future abuse. | /r/askFDS | 19/10/21 04:37 AM |
| 31 | Your intuition as a woman is more powerful than you realiseRead the gift of fear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 17 | After hearing about savanna talking about long ass paragraph copy paste messages on the podcastFor the love of God, why did he think this was a good idea..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:40 AM |
| 46 | Do not date recovering porn addicts, this post is another example of the misery and pain dealing with a pornsick man. So many scrotes defending him in the comments🤢He's literally guaranteed to cum with a woman too lol😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:31 AM |
| 20 | Really worried about the Gabby Petito situation… ladies, please be careful out there.Brian lauderi looks like chris watts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 03:56 PM |
| 4 | How to Deal With LVM Brothers?I just stopped engaging and do grey rock. | /r/askFDS | 16/09/21 02:57 PM |
| 20 | Tell me all of your favourite ways to treat yourself to a date!I love having picnics by myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Feeling stressed, depressed, and unfocused due to a LVM. Having a very sad day. Help! How do I snap out of it?Work out! 100% mood booster | /r/askFDS | 14/09/21 07:59 AM |
| 17 | Did me (25F) asking about marriage timelines pressure him (24M) too much, leading to downfall of the relationship?Gurl you did good. This dude doesn't take you seriously. In 6 months you'll have enough clarity to understand what we're saying. | /r/askFDS | 14/09/21 07:58 AM |
| 22 | LVM continues to insert himself in my life although he claims he doesn’t want to pursue a relationshipBe firm, be direct and say no once clearly and sternly. After that DON'T ENGAGE WITH HIM ONE BIT!!! They crave any attention and giving him any attention is going to be bad. No matter what he says, don't talk to him or even smile. Read "gift of fear" by Gavin de Becker | /r/askFDS | 13/09/21 04:56 AM |
| 33 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?LMAO 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:01 AM |
| 35 | Misogynist slob (with maybe wife & daughter in tow) harasses young women for wearing --get this-- bathing suits at the beach.LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:09 AM |
| 133 | The amount of hypocrisy I've seen from men is just staggering.I also keep thinking about how men keep saying that they just can't help themselves when it comes to women and how women tempt them and that makes rape "okay" Bruh women have more reasons to be "rapists" than men We can have multiple orgasms We have more body parts that can give us different kinds of orgasms Female orgasms are a lot more intense Like biologically, we are made to experience a whole different level of pleasure. Why aren't we going around raping people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 08:12 AM |
| 27 | Is it normal to feel severely depressed after casual sex? How do I stop feeling shameful and worthless?I will bet my retirement savings too that he will hit u up first. Ignore and block | /r/askFDS | 02/09/21 12:01 PM |
| 25 | Help having discussions around money / career with current partnerMods, OP has been posting about the same person again and again. OP hasn't read the handbook. OP hasn't taken any initiative to listen to the advice given here. Multiple people have tried to help OP but she keeps posting again and and again and wasting our time. We've been wayyy too kind to her and this needs to stop. Is there any way we can limit OP on these subs? | /r/askFDS | 31/08/21 03:24 PM |
| 10 | I hate the fact that people here think marital rape laws will devalue the institution of marriage. Makes me not want to ever get married. Women are never protected!Fun fact- if he gets into trouble it's not because he raped her, it's because he inserted a radish inside her and that's "unnatural sex". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 14 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....I don't even find any of this incel bs offensive it's soo funny. Before I pressed played I was like😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 76 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?In my country, men are more likely to rape kids below 6 than women above 60 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 17 | What’s your best FDS quote?👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:17 AM |
| 20 | Is this a manipulation tactic?Read "The Gift Of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. What he is doing to you is called "Type casting" | /r/askFDS | 18/08/21 07:36 AM |
| 6 | Confused and at loss for wordsIt's best to leave. You'll always feel anxious and overthink about them. Move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:23 AM |
| 96 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outOmggg grandiose delusion 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:04 AM |
| 9 | Can anyone tell me if this interaction was inappropriate?Creepy. Drop him | /r/askFDS | 16/08/21 06:23 AM |
| 9 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!I hope he isn't your friend anymore.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:47 PM |
| 67 | When men talk about "the wall", they are inadvertently admitting that women are oppressed.Men are jealous of how easy it is for us to get laid because they ways cum when they get laid. They think that we always cum when we get laid and hence to them More sex = more orgasms for women🤡 LOL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 08:10 AM |
| 16 | How do I know if this is good for me?Exactly, OP if you're not gonna read the handbook and follow what FDS says, why post? People here are taking out time to help you and you keep posting and asking about the same loser again and again. Do better! | /r/askFDS | 12/08/21 04:41 AM |
| 22 | Desi women need to stop marrying FOB men who treat them terribly and are LVMsWhat's fob? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:00 PM |
| 19 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.Omggg when the guy tried to kiss the girl I kept moving my head to avoid him😂🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:46 PM |
| 8 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!Yes, thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:57 AM |
| 22 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!Can you please tell me some more details about the podcast. I'd like to hear it. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:20 AM |
| 7 | Am I the only woman tired of men acting like the entire world around them is a 24/7 offline dating service?To add to hit imagine flipping your hair forward like a horror movie and blowing it....damnnnn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:38 PM |
| 3 | It’s amazing when they out themselves, men really are self-aware wolvesThis is toooo funny 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 11:53 AM |
| 8 | What are our thoughts on dating depressed/anxious men?No | /r/askFDS | 26/07/21 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Update. Water is wet, and my psycho ex is still a psycho.100% RECOMMEND GIFT OF FEAR!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Know your worth and don't accept less, this engagement ring and an engagement announcement popped up on my newsfeedWtf is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | When a man catcalls you and if you feel safe to do so, take a picture of him. Most end up looking embarrassed because they know what they did was wrongThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 09:28 AM |
| 10 | When a man catcalls you and if you feel safe to do so, take a picture of him. Most end up looking embarrassed because they know what they did was wrongCan you pls tell me what they're doing in the video. It's not opening. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 05:48 PM |
| 16 | Once a liar always a liar?I'm sorry but your husband is dangerous. You really really need to consider leaving him. You already know that the way he thinks is very misogynist and evil. Please continue to read this sub, in some time you'll understand why we're saying you should leave. All of the women here have been through what you're going through. They know what will happen next and it's not good.... For the sake of your kids, and your safety, plan your exit. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:02 PM |
| 20 | Now that FDS is a way of life, how do you live your life not in constant disappointment of society?I was literally thinking about this yesterday. I'm so angry, so so angry. I can't even imagine the women who have to life in a society where they are raped, murder, abused, disrespected and ridiculed everyday. I am furious. Literally furious. How I handle this disappointment? I always help women. Even pickmes. For example, some family members of mine are real big pickmes, they are stah mom's. I always go out of my way to help them get work done because their partners and sons don't help them. Th… | /r/askFDS | 22/07/21 05:37 AM |
| 4 | When your ex texts you happy birthday...Still, it's best to block. It's freeing. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:38 AM |
| 2 | I don't plan to kiss my new partner until at least 3 months of dating. Is this okay?That's totally fine! Do what your comfortable with☺️ | /r/askFDS | 21/07/21 09:38 AM |
| 2 | When your ex texts you happy birthday...Why haven't you blocked him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 09:14 AM |
| 29 | How Media Grooms Women Into Hookup CultureOmfffgggg😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 08:58 AM |
| 15 | “Well, she was just seventeen, You know what I mean”I was literally thinking about this the other day😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 10:40 AM |
| 9 | How Do You Handle This Comment/ Argument Tactic by MenIf it happens in front of a group of people, I suggest speaking to the person firmly one on one. And then reach out to HR later. "I don't like the way you spoke to me. Don't speak to me like that again" Good posture is a must. Take up space. If your company's culture is like this and leaving is not an option great rock is the best thing you can do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:29 PM |
| 28 | How Do You Handle This Comment/ Argument Tactic by MenNo comeback. No arguments. Grey rock them. They feed off your energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Mastering the Ice Queen stare to keep loser pests awayThis is great advice. Do you have a link to someone doing this face🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 07:16 PM |
| 56 | "If England gets beaten, so will she" when england loses a football match, the figure for domestic violence surges by 38%. Even if they win, it goes up by 26%.Hey men, sorry I mean little boys! If you've ever pushed, shoved, choked, intimated, yelled, slapped or did any of the other shit you've always done in all of your relationships, YOU ARE THE BIGGEST LOSER, NOT EVEN FIT TO BE CALLED A MAN🤡😂👎 These little boys will NEVER show anger or intimidation to men who are stronger than them. That's because they never want to pick on their own size. They're such BIG COWARDS😂👏 Lmao do better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:55 AM |
| 20 | Proof FDS works... I just discovered you can access blocked numbers! Look at the coffee dates. Swipe for the guy that asked me out to mcdonalds and what he messaged after being blockedPathetic losers😂😂😂😂😂😂🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 12:03 PM |
| 34 | Proof FDS works... I just discovered you can access blocked numbers! Look at the coffee dates. Swipe for the guy that asked me out to mcdonalds and what he messaged after being blockedThis is hilarious 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 11:53 AM |
| 157 | SexIntheCity: Ultimate Pick Me show!!That show is great practice for red flags. Every episode you see red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 44 | Why do (straight) men try so hard to appeal to the male gaze on dating apps?Men don't care about the background. When they look at a woman, they only lust over her body. Since they think that way, they think we think like them too. Thank God we don't 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Need adviceRead "why does he do that" https://ia800108.us.archive.org › ...PDF Web results Why Does He Do That? - Search the history of over 585 billion web pages ... | /r/askFDS | 02/07/21 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Help with a weird coworker situationDoesn't matter. You know better | /r/askFDS | 29/06/21 06:08 PM |
| 14 | I know we don't do drinks; how deal with this scenario:Stick with dinner. Don't do drink dates. | /r/askFDS | 29/06/21 12:08 PM |
| 4 | What age gap is appropriate?My opinion- If below 21- Max 2 years Below 30- Max 6 Above 30- Max 8 (you'll be able to spot manipulation) | /r/askFDS | 29/06/21 11:55 AM |
| 30 | Help with a weird coworker situationAvoid this guy. Good Christian men don't get drunk and call women at 2am especially when they have a gf🤢🤢🤢 | /r/askFDS | 29/06/21 11:04 AM |
| 136 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢Wanna bet that his wife wasn't even 18 when they met? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:41 AM |
| 6 | Stay or leave my current BFLeave! I'm sure there are red flags that you may have made excuses for. Think about times where you've been talking to friends and family about him and think about whether you made excuses or hid details about him to make him seem like a good person. | /r/askFDS | 28/06/21 04:59 AM |
| 8 | I did it.YESSSSS! You did it OP!!!! We are so proud of you👏👏👏 I'm not sure what you can do about your ex. I hope the others can give you some resources on DV and hiding from abusive exs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 10:41 AM |
| 13 | Friend says I’m being a ‘psycho’ but I don’t agree. This is a huge red flag right?R U N 🏃♀️ | /r/askFDS | 24/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 12 | Why men and women cannot be "just friends"I completely agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 01:11 PM |
| 2 | How to stick to practicing celibacy❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 11:10 AM |
| 31 | How to stick to practicing celibacyI've been practicing celibacy since 2018. It's 100% worth it! Self pleasure always helps Intimacy doesn't have to be sexual Hugging family members, close friends Dance class Playing with pets Playing with babies Having pillows and weighted blankets Massages Etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 05:13 PM |
| 59 | How do you make it clear from the start that you only want friendship?Looks like I need to post this comment I made every other week..... Here you go- Comment I made on another post- DO YOU REALLY HAVE MALE FRIENDS*? Which one applies to you? He wants to fuck you✔️ He wants to fuck your friends✔️ He uses you as his FREE therapist✔️ Please note: This can be a combination of all 3 as well😉🤗 *Friends: A guy you talk to often. He shares things, you share things. Communication is as frequent as 2+ times a month. | /r/askFDS | 22/06/21 04:32 PM |
| 6 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesHehehhe yess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 16 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesNo no, it was a typo 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 02:41 PM |
| 9 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesNo worries❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 02:39 PM |
| 9 | Can I get any reccomendations for films about being single & dating in your 30s that are actually good?The love witch. It's satire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:01 PM |
| 12 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesIt was a typo. He should apologize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:23 AM |
| 44 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesHi, sorry that was a typo :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:22 AM |
| 68 | How to Navigate Friendship with a Man?Comment I made on another post- DO YOU REALLY HAVE MALE FRIENDS*? Which one applies to you? He wants to fuck you✔️ He wants to fuck your friends✔️ He uses you as his FREE therapist✔️ Please note: This can be a combination of all 3 as well😉🤗 *Friends: A guy you talk to often. He shares things, you share things. Communication is as frequent as 2+ times a month. | /r/askFDS | 16/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 25 | A HVM won’t be in contact with his exI agree. HVM will not be in contact with their exs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 104 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:55 PM |
| 18 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.If you're dating a Christian man and he does any of the following, dump him. As if he was really Christian he wouldn't be doing any of this. These are basic things that Christian men HAVE TO do! Random hookups Having premarital sex Asking you to have sex Watching porn Follows instagram models Calling women sluts, whores etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 10:27 AM |
| 13 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Thank you!! We'll miss you❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 11 | Cant communicate with boyfriendHi, Please believe that you are worthy of better things. You deserve the best. There's so much to unpack from your post, and I think it will be impossible for me to cover everything. But there's one thing you should remember. Nobody gets to disrespect you. And, you need to see value in yourself. I think you shouldn't date this guy or any guy anymore, until you're older. Please listen to all of us. Our years of experience put together will be more than a century. We all know what's going to happe… | /r/askFDS | 09/06/21 04:52 PM |
| 15 | Can men ever truly be friends with you?DO YOU REALLY HAVE MALE FRIENDS*? Which one applies to you? He wants to fuck you✔️ He wants to fuck your friends✔️ He uses you as his FREE therapist✔️ Please note: This can be a combination of all 3 as well😉🤗 *Friends: A guy you talk to often. He shares things, you share things. Communication is as frequent as 2+ times a month. | /r/askFDS | 08/06/21 09:25 AM |
| 20 | My ex from 2 years ago requested to follow me on Instagram out of the blue. Do I accept and embarrass him if he reaches out or just not do anything?Block him. Listen to everyone else here. No need to poke fun at him or anything. That's spending time on him and it will make him feel good (and boost his ego) | /r/askFDS | 08/06/21 08:54 AM |
| 26 | Men are more responsive to women's facial expressions than our actual words."iT's BeCAuse mEn aRE vIsUAL" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:19 AM |
| 49 | Another day of misogyny. Please your opinions ladies.To be honest, I have a lot of Indian friends. Almost all the time, their families are filled, and I mean filled with scrotes and pickmes. South Asian culture is extremely misogynistic. My advice to you is to not fight back. They don't take you seriously. Ignore them. Don't explain anything. Have strong boundaries. Work on yourself, keep your standards high and stay well informed on women's issues, so that you don't get gaslighted by them. Unfortunately, a majority of men are this way. They think… | /r/askFDS | 06/06/21 09:41 AM |
| 20 | Was it ...?Pretty sure you weren't being toxic at all. He was just gaslighting you😔 | /r/askFDS | 05/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 6 | Mario Di Vaio - hot Italian D&G model🤪Oh my. Oh my. Oh my. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:53 PM |
| 11 | The random man I locked eyes with the other week shopping for cool ranch doritos and mountain dew 🥰🥰OMFG😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:10 PM |
| 13 | I liked a mini celebrity, he is now hitting on me and it's actually uncomfortable (not sure why)OP he sounds like trash! Believe yourself. Sounds like love bombing | /r/askFDS | 04/06/21 05:21 AM |
| 14 | Leaving the narcissistHi OP, https://www.boredpanda.com/leaving-abusive-partner-relationship-advice/?media_id=leaving-abusive-partner-relationship-advice-2-5cc83c34cf724__700 Here is a source I found on this sub. It's a step by step guide for leaving a DV situation. | /r/askFDS | 04/06/21 05:17 AM |
| 13 | Guy (41m) keeps suggesting cheap first dates. Does this matter?Absolutely! This seems sketchy OP | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 06:53 PM |
| 94 | A scrote larping as a woman recorded me via Skype and threatened with revenge pornDon't let him know you're scared, if you're not scared, then he has nothing to get off to. | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 08:37 AM |
| 1 | ONE YEAR WITHOUT SEX!!!!! Here's what I've learned!!!!Well done❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 07:44 PM |
| 15 | Profiles on 4 or more dating sitesTrust yourself. Never ignore your intuition | /r/askFDS | 31/05/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Ex texted me? Why do they always comeback?To see if you're still into garbage. Block and delete | /r/askFDS | 30/05/21 05:21 AM |
| 12 | Anyone else find certain shows/movies infuriating now that you've found FDS?I don't consider Aiden HV especially since he cheated on his wife with carrie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 26 | What are some ways LVM will try to manipulate you into having sex with them? How do I combat these advances, especially when I receive pushback?Using alcohol or any type of drugs Men get women to do high adrenaline activities with them to "fake bond". That's why men like going to horror movies with women so that they can excuse their touchy behavior. If you're really serious and vetting, I'd advise NEVER being alone in private places or place that can be private. Movie theaters are a big no, cars are also risky, secluded parks etc. Don't ever go to their house for at least a couple of months. | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Men were not socialized the same way you were. Keep that in mind when you listen to them talk about women.Well put 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:41 PM |
| 4 | THE LOWEST VALUE MEN ON TELEVISIONHonestly, by far Smith's the closest to HV and not Aidan. Aidan cheated on his wife with carrie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | FDS & British Royal Mantra: 👑 Don’t Complain and Don’t Explain 👑Language is imperfect to describe what we go through and it’s further filtered through the listeners perceptions and biases and own experiences. Even if you could communicate what you went through perfectly, they would always get something different from what you said because they’re putting their own filter on it. Well said OP👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:10 PM |
| 16 | Should I call him?No! Calling him won't make anything change. There's nothing to say. He had his chance. Did he care about you when y'all were together? No Why would he care about you now? Don't call him! | /r/askFDS | 24/05/21 05:38 AM |
| 17 | My country is breeding ground for LVMI like how everyone here thinks it's their own country 👏👏👏👏 Men are trash globally! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 08:07 AM |
| 36 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A ScroteOmgggg this is freakishly accurate except that the bottom is cursive. Ted Bundy's Hand-writing: https://images.app.goo.gl/UujD5tv4M2LMktCW9 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:25 AM |
| 5 | DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional".👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:01 AM |
| 107 | Boyfriend trying to be ‘alpha’Ew. This guy is trash! Read the handbook | /r/askFDS | 21/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Neighborliness & BoundariesYou need to read that book | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on intuition from an FDS NewbieBook suggestion- Gift of Fear. You'll love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Most accurate representation of single men - courtesy of Man Seeking WomanAll the scrotes in the comments are like "ThIS iS mE" "i aM jOsH" "THis iS a PSa fOR ME" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 5 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021I actually bought the book a few years ago. I stopped reading it cause well.....it got boring. Some his advice is good but the other stuff is very banal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:45 AM |
| 17 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021Names and birthdays? I know someone who knows where porn stars have each tattoo 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:33 AM |
| 23 | A lot to unpack here....why on earth do some women deal with this absolute bullshit??Wanna bet he said that just so she wouldn't feel attractive and not make the onlyfans account? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 4 | If men really wanted to be good boyfriends/husbands, there would be more communities on it. But instead, we get communities where men share advice on how to use women for sex and other benefits. The internet is a reflection of men's true priorities. They can't lie to us anymore.That sub is just for complaining | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 07:38 AM |
| 12 | What to do about a relentless exOP this guy is dangerous. I'd suggest reading "Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. Whatever you do DON'T REPLY TO THIS GUY EVER!!!!! | /r/askFDS | 17/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 42 | A forced “Yes” is not consentI feel like "consent" is just thrown around. I prefer the words "enthusiastic consent". This shows both parties explicitly want to move forward. Enthusiastic consent is more than just the "yes"; it's a YESSSSS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?I'm sorry you've had to go through this. I have also been sexually harrassed often and I am also curvy. I used to wear baggy clothes to seem invisible. Unfortunately, my low self esteem and bad dressing lead to more sexual harrasment, as men thought my demeanor and style meant that I wasn't assertive. I used to slouch as I had very low self confidence. Basically, not being assertive= not saying anything when I was abused by them. I do not mean to victim blame anyone or shame any one for what the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 7 | Y'all men are tired 🤣🤣🤣For someone who claims to be full of reasoning and logic, he sounds so emotional 😂🤡😂🤡😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Y'all men are tired 🤣🤣🤣Is this satire? Please tell me it is satire. I COULDN'T STOP LAUGHING 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Tom Hardy. 🔥 Bonus points for the doggos 🐶🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:09 AM |
| 8 | My boyfriend is mad that I didn’t text him back last night. He says he wants to be done now.Sis, this guy is trash! | /r/askFDS | 14/05/21 09:20 AM |
| 105 | No sex until exclusivityDO NOT GO TO HIS PLACE! If he's looking for a relationship, why didn't he ask you to be his girlfriend? Even if he asked you to be his gf, FDS belives that one must wait at least 3 months (minimum) to have sex so that you can vet him. OP I don't think this guy's intentions are good. You're just 18 with no experience. He jumped sexually way to fast on just your 3rd date. He is trying to hook you by saying he wants a relationship. Don't fall for it. You're new to dating so it will be tough for you… | /r/askFDS | 13/05/21 08:15 AM |
| 7 | Should you ever date a guy w female friends?We got your back:) Any time you feel a little tingling tell you something is wrong, listen to it. | /r/askFDS | 13/05/21 02:05 AM |
| 17 | Should you ever date a guy w female friends?I think men most often post pictures with attractive women for an ego boost from the bros🤡 Also if you don't like it, that's fine. Keep your standards as they are. | /r/askFDS | 13/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 54 | Women thrive without men, men perish without women, not the other way aroundIkr😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Ain't nothing without a woman though, woman to woman, I just wanna see you GLOW! ✨What a lovely song! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:49 PM |
| 9 | Stop letting your boyfriends prevent you from finding your husband!Can someone explain what's happening? The link isn't opening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:36 PM |
| 32 | Am I letting go of a high value man here? Not sure what to do...Read the handbook. Dump him | /r/askFDS | 10/05/21 08:29 PM |
| 262 | mEn ArE mOmS tOo...I saw this today and it made me so angry. Men are always making everything about themselves 🤮🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:05 PM |
| 8 | Please tell me what I can do differentlyRead the handbook it answers a lot of your doubts. | /r/askFDS | 07/05/21 05:06 PM |
| 19 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEI'm not even joking. I knew what he was going to say. They all say the same thing🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 10:52 AM |
| 53 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.Omg ewww! For some reason after watching Gone Girl I just never liked Ben anymore. After watching this video I finally realised why I don't like him. He's so sexual. it'S mE👄👅💦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:05 AM |
| 29 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay.👏👏👏👏👏👏👏LOVED THIS👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 05:28 AM |
| 23 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateOP, I hope you see this. Something told me to tell you to make sure this guy didn't install any cameras while he was at your place. He sounds like an asshole. I know this sounds strange but I think for safety just look around your apartment and the shower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 8 | How to stand up to men?I think it's good if they don't respond, as long as they retreat, it's good. The point of making a scene is to make sure other people know. But in this case, a man came into a private place where the people would be few, so when you're alone in such cases, the best thing to do is increase the space between you and the person. When you're alone like this and no one's around, the safest thing to do is leave. This doesn't mean you shouldn't be affirmative. Be affirmative and leave then call a secur… | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 05:10 PM |
| 50 | How to stand up to men?I'm sorry you're going through this. My best advice is to maintain assertiveness. Make sure your posture is excellent. Don't be afraid to take up space. I used to be so conscious of men starring, then one day a woman told me to straight up look directly at them. Intimidate them. Look with disgust. Most often this will make them stop. Next thing to do is make a scene. "Excuse me sir, why are you starring at me?" You can also say "Stop starring at me!" Loud and firm. Make notes if the same guy doe… | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 9 | I keep seeing a guy that looks like my ex around town and it's kinda freaking me out...🚨Can anyone with more experience or knowledge help give OP advice about leaving her abusive marriage safely as she has kids. OP, I don't really know how one must leave an abusive marriage but I think you have to do it slowly, without the guy knowing. | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How far would your ex have gotten with you if you'd been following FDS principles then?3 months🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 40 | "Kill all the girls.""I want my ideal prostitute not to behave like one" Says scrote.......but also "I want my ideal wife to behave like a prostitute" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:15 PM |
| 33 | Long term bf broke up with me 5 mins after couples therapyHey OP, Right now it might seem like your world is falling apart, but give yourself time. Believe me, in a few months, you're going to see how you were mistreated. Your ex didn't want to be with you. He was just stringing you along. I know it's harsh, but it's the truth. Block him everywhere, read the handbook, cry, work out and level up. In no time you will be so happy that he broke your heart. You will grow and you'll learn to love yourself like never before. Sending you virtual hugs❤️ | /r/askFDS | 02/05/21 04:39 PM |
| 46 | My best trick for EARLY DETECTION of misogyny: pay attention to his interpretation of TV & movie charactersAny guy who thinks Skylar is a bitch is no good. buT sHE cHEaTEd..... Ya and her husband is a murdering psycho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:53 PM |
| 27 | Oh YeAh tOtS rElAtEAlso, have you ever seen a guy lose while playing a video game? Totally not dramatic🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:40 PM |
| 496 | Women aren't funnyOmg literally! Can you believe they would rather have someone laugh at their jokes than have someone make them laugh😂😂😂😂😂😂 See now that's funny😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 12:31 PM |
| 57 | my stepdad my a sexual innuendo to me while me and my mom were talking on the phone and my mom doesn't see an issue... help?OP I don't know what you should do but your step dad is definitely NV. He is gaslighting you and will also groom your little sister. He is a creep and a pervert. Believe what you are seeing! | /r/askFDS | 30/04/21 08:59 AM |
| 3 | Is my friend a LVM or am I just too harsh on my friend?Exactly! He's LV, a man who can't keep his word is no man at all. | /r/askFDS | 29/04/21 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Is my friend a LVM or am I just too harsh on my friend?They'd been together for 4 years and he'd said he'd be ready to start dating in 4 months to "grieve every year with one month." I thought that was way quick, but male logic. Wanna bet he's gonna start hitting on you before 4 months? He's LV. | /r/askFDS | 29/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 4 | I (23 F) broke up with my boyfriend (28 M) for certain reasons. I am new to dating. Did I make the right call? Some people are saying my standards are too high or "sexist."U did the right thing | /r/askFDS | 28/04/21 08:16 AM |
| 30 | Men are out of their minds desperate for any attentionMen do this as a dominating game. They want you to move to take up space and score scrote points in their head to boost their ego🤮 It's best to be safe and avoid them completely while walking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 8 | For my own peace of mind: He just has to be lying about this situation not being personal, right?He he's not lying and he actually needs time to heal, it doesn't mean you should wait for him OP. I'd say don't talk to him at all, you'll be just be strung along. | /r/askFDS | 27/04/21 05:56 AM |
| 8 | How to stop being so torn up about a man ghosting me?-This guy didn't treat you well -He is rude and arrogant -He used you for free therapy -He doesn't treat service workers with respect -He doesn't know how to spend his money wisely (according to you) -He is possible addicted to alcohol and drugs -He is not a gentleman and doesn't treat you with respect -He used you for sex and never got back to you OP! This guy doesn't care about you. I know it's hard but you need to understand that you were too invested in a jerk. Block and delete him everywher… | /r/askFDS | 26/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 38 | Is my fiances (25M) repeated anger justified?You're in an abusive relationship. Please leave him | /r/askFDS | 26/04/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Scrote hasn't washed his penis in years, has still slept with unwitting women. Disgusting.Ewwwww I wanna throw up🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 24 | guy(24m) I(20f) recently started talking to giving me mixed feelings, am I going to get played by him?It's just been a month since you broke up? I think you should focus on yourself and heal. Take some time to be by yourself. You like this guy way too much. You don't know anything about him. It definitely looks like he's love bombing you and the phrases you mentioned sound like some pick up artists ones. I really think you should tread carefully with this guy. If you want to protect yourself, DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM! Pull back and see what he's like. | /r/askFDS | 25/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Health benefits of leaving a LVM and NVMTHIS IS TRUE! All my physical, emotional, psychology and spiritual issues just vanished after I broke up. It's amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Am I being too sensitive?I'd recommend not dating anyone until your self-esteem issues are 100% fixed. If you don't see yourself as valuable, you'll accept any kind of treatment as you don't think you deserve anything good. You are worthy of respect and you deserve the best that life can offer you. Delete all your Old and work on yourself. Get back to therapy. | /r/askFDS | 24/04/21 08:59 AM |
| 7 | How to stop missing a LVMYou're still coming down from the highs of a bad relationship. You have to give it time. Block him EVERYWHERE! If you meet him or engage with him, you're putting yourself back longer. Once you get rid of him, you can heal faster. We've been there. Please listen to us. We have got your best interest in mind. Take care. | /r/askFDS | 24/04/21 08:51 AM |
| 19 | He's 48, she's 19. They met when he was her tennis coach at 13 YEARS OLD. I'm disgusted and outraged for her and at him."I think I have always kind of had an attraction to older men. I am super mature for my age so I can't really connect with guys my age" Oh no...oh no...oh no no no no no🤦♀️ Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9452815/Student-19-met-tennis-coach-boyfriend-48-team-daughter.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Should I use sex as a vetting strategy?You don't need to have sex at all if you don't want to. Never feel pressured to sleep with a guy. But definitely wait at least 3 months. | /r/askFDS | 22/04/21 07:52 PM |
| 6 | How do you learn how to control/manage your emotions?Often when I'm overwhelmed, I feel something but I'm unable to understand why I think something is right or wrong. I think all of us have experienced something like this. Whether it's in an argument or we hear something and we immediately know it's wrong but can't figure out why. I've realised thay writing down my thoughts works 100%. I highly recommend you do it. You'll be amazed with how well this works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 17 | He likes me but doesn't want anything serious???He wants to use you. Listen to us and DUMP Him! | /r/askFDS | 22/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 16 | Can't tell if the man I'm dating is HVM or LVMAll the HV traits you listed aren't HV at all; it's the bare minimum. He's supposed to be treating you like that because you're a human being. Sorry OP, but he's 100% a LVM. It might take you time to understand and there's no better way to say this but he just doesn't care about you enough. You can do better. | /r/askFDS | 21/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 111 | As it should be.Grown men run countries but can't figure out how to fit a pie dish in a half full fridge? What happened to men are good at spacial reasoning? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:34 AM |
| 9 | Toxic to healthy relationship adviceI agree with the other comment here. It seems like this guy isn't making you feel loved. Also, I think it's a good idea to take a break from dating for longer. And by that I mean no men at all. No casual, no serious. Nothing. It's okay to take time off. OP we've all been there. Listen to your gut. You know you need to take a break from this guy. It seems like you've gotten attached too quickly and he knows he has the upper hand over you. If this guy isn't a good guy (it seems like it) he will us… | /r/askFDS | 21/04/21 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Any online self defense resources you can recommend?This was so good. Thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:09 PM |
| 23 | I literally cannot remember the last time a woman approached me in public for anything.Next time NEVER explain anything to a man who does this. Don't justify yourself or explain yourself. Who cares about a strange man's opinion anyway! They want you to respond, it strokes their ego. Just ignore. If you're not sure, IGNORE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:51 PM |
| 24 | But if we say these porn-fried brained, repellent scrotes have absolutely lost it, we are wrong? (TW: necrophilia, rape)I was just thinking about this today. When I die, I don't want some man to be abusing my body. I feel like it happens a lot. Some sick dude getting off to dead women🤮. Men don't like consent, what better way than someone who can't give consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:38 PM |
| 43 | I listened to my gut.You did the right thing. LADIES, ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 172 | Say this louder!Isn't it funny that being a "hoe" doesn't actually make you a bad person (unless if there's no consent) But being a rapist, bellend, misogynist, perpetrator etc, mean that you're a horrible person and actually hurting people. The worse thing men seem to come up with against women is hardly anything as compared to what they actually are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:13 AM |
| 2 | He wanted to be exclusive but without a relationship. Make it make sense.Yes please do. All the best. Take care❤️ | /r/askFDS | 14/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 27 | He wanted to be exclusive but without a relationship. Make it make sense.You did the right thing. He was just going to use and dump you. I bet he isn't over his ex yet. Also, is it possible for you to work with someone else? This guy is still going to try for you. This doesn't mean that he cares for you. He just wants to get the benefits that women offer. I'd just finding someone else or creating extremely firm boundaries like- No talking about anything other than work. No going out alone whether it's for work or not for work. Don't be alone with him. Don't ask him a… | /r/askFDS | 14/04/21 11:21 AM |
| 24 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sex😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:17 PM |
| 13 | From Instagram. Speaks for itself - so much garbage behaviour gets dismissed by men and pickmes as "shyness".Almost every man who has killed his wife for his mistress has told the mistress that "they're on the verge of a divorce". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Patron Saint of the Pickmeishashttps://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9419993/Chris-Watts-touch-mistress-killed-family-with.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 05:28 PM |
| 3 | 🎶If he touches me (without consent) then I will taze his ass⚡Omgggg this was hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 42 | Gross! 🤮Maybe he wanted the extra stitch because his pp shrunk from watching too much porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:18 AM |
| 3 | He E-Mailed me via school account, legit had a panic attack but what I'm scared of the most is my friends buying it (asking for advise)This guy sounds obsessive. Please be careful. And DON'T REPLY! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | My heart is getting really heavy as I'm preparing to leave my boyfriend. Any support appreciated.Hey, you will get through this, we all have. I'd suggest writing a letter to your future self about how you're feeling today, in a year, you'll see how far you've come. Sending you love OP❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 01:14 PM |
| 17 | Would probably sprain my thumb from the force of that block and deleteBecause that's what porn tells them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 6 | This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status.HAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAAHHAHAH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 10:15 AM |
| 2 | What is your all-time favorite FDS post?I took it all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:58 AM |
| 44 | "Men are nice when they pursue, and women are nice when they reject"- Gift of fear by Gavin de BeckerWe must not exist🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:30 PM |
| 43 | You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here.This is so powerful💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:38 AM |
| 12 | The Truth About Women in the BibleJust to add some points- Also, after God made each thing in the Bible, He said it was good. After making man, God was like it's not good for man to be alone. Basically as much as they hate it, they need us. We don't need them. Christian husbands are supposed to die for their wives. Not the other way around. I think the fact that the Bible says if you look at a woman with lust, you've committed adultery. No excuses can be made for men thirsting over women who are not their wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 9 | Pickmeisha (probably a scrote🤡) shames women‘s day and calls women insecure hypocrites who „criticize“ menThis sounds like a dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:13 PM |
| 7 | This is why we don't marry men that don't respect and value us. Men should add to our lives. He knows what he's doing. She needs to leave.I hope someone sends her a link to our sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮If he thinks he smells bad, imagine how bad he actually smells since most men think they smell good when they stink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:07 PM |
| 9 | Got a text from an unsaved number just to realize it was a guy I met once on a dating app but I ghosted him bc I knew he just wanted sex. He messaged me today and I’m just proud of my growth and not tolerating bs anymore ! I finally blocked his ass today ☺️SO ARE YOU SAYING IT'S MY FAULT? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 6 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactDoes A stand for asshole? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:06 PM |
| 2 | "A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex"All I heard was "muh penis" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 31 | I’m tired of guys who say they just want to be friends, yet end up trying to pursue me intimately/(romantically?)Also men will want to be your friend just to get with your female friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inDON'T GO OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:36 AM |
| 5 | Vet ALL the men in your life. Even the ones you won't consider dating.OP please be safe. You're working with some dangerous men. Hope all goes well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:35 PM |
| 6 | Found this little pic that my daughter drew a several years ago. Note the floating head that is her father. This speaks volumes about the amount of time and energy he put into our family. Don’t think that kids don’t notice. We’ve been divorced for 6 years now and she is so much better adjusted!He only has a head because he has no spine. Good for you OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Almost half a million likes - this ain’t cute 🤢That's a pretty hard push considering that's a small tiny baby. Look at his face, he looks so disgusted at the kid. What kind of dad does that. His partner is gorgeous. She can do better by herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:48 AM |
| 88 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.Men will often call sweet, respectful or gentle men gay. This is a red flag. Men think the worst insult is being called gay. So they pull down men who are probably HV because they don't like women being with men who treat them well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:06 PM |
| 6 | What do I need YOU for?This is GOLD! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 9 | DM from a friend of a friend set alarm bells ringing... A lot to unpack here."Go for a walk oR sOMEtHinG" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:59 PM |
| 14 | Ever since I was a little girl, it was drilled into my brain that the Male Gaze is dangerous. Now that I'm an adult woman, I'm supposed to just "get over it"?Wanted to add that your intuition probably knew that the guy was looking at you and the reaction you had was what your intuition thought was best to protect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:56 PM |
| 9 | Ever since I was a little girl, it was drilled into my brain that the Male Gaze is dangerous. Now that I'm an adult woman, I'm supposed to just "get over it"?Girlllll! This is literally what I thought of today. I went on a run today. I was wearing a tank top. I could literally feel the stares. I honestly thought of asking fds how to deal with stares. I just wanna workout and not have men stare at me and smirk😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:47 PM |
| 10 | Conservative women call submission to men a sign of strength & character, Liberal women call submission to men liberation and empowerment. Conservative men will abuse their wives and call it their right as a husband, Liberal men will abuse their wives and call it a kink.They also need to die for their wives according to the Bible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:36 PM |
| 17 | Just saw the guy I was "exclusive" with on a date with another woman.Great advice here, just wanted to add that if you follow what fds says for this situation (blocking, deleting etc) this guy will be back, I'm sure. So be ready to fling him out and ignore him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:57 PM |
| 75 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight.If you struggle with negative self image then I recommend not dating at all until you go to therapy, read, heal, improve your mental health, and truly internalize the fact that you have worth. When you are in an emotionally vulnerable place, that is the worst time to date. When you're feeling bad about yourself is when you are most likely to be taken advantage of by opportunistic manipulators. Don't give them the opportunity. This is sooo important. It reminds me of what poor Shannan Watts said … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 9 | A HVM is gentle towards women. Not just someone who “can be” gentle every now and then, but someone who is gentle towards you and all women ALL THE TIME.💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:42 PM |
| 35 | He wanted her to stay fat so that she wouldn’t leave him 🤢🤢🤢Had an ex who kept making fun of my "flat" butt. I started lifting and he threw a tantrum saying he liked my body the way it was before. After an argument, he accidentally blurted out that he actually didn't want me to workout because I would get even more attention from men than I already did before I got a butt🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:41 PM |
| 36 | Absolutely heartbreaking. This needs to stop.I've always hated yelling. This made me really think because I never thought about it this way. Thank you, this helped! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:14 PM |
| 13 | Sigh... he’s short and maybe 6 out of 10, luckily only 2 dates in for the truth to come out. I’m a size 8 and too fat apparently...Hahahahaha the manipulation is hidden in the "respect your body" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:08 PM |
| 10 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Honestly, you should never reply to messages like these. They're always condescending. Someone trying to act all concerned. Never tell anyone about your trauma especially a man who is not extremely close to you (family) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:55 PM |
| 3 | There’s one particular LVM I can’t get out of my head, no matter how hard I try.Blocking him is going to make the biggest difference, believe us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 10 | Say it louder for the people in the backI love how this video plays back and still makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 5 | What advice have *men* given you that aligns with FDS?All men are pigs-My dad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 19 | Ab so lu te ly worthless. I felt like a generous goddess today so I told him off instead of just blocking him outright as is tradition. You can't polish a turd to make a sparkly diamond, unfortunately.It's best to not engage or even spell out stuff for LV people. Just block and delete, it's a lot better that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:10 PM |
| 1 | What do I make boundaries for myself and how do I know what my boundaries are? Should I have boundaries for different people?Yes I'd love that! Please do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:54 PM |
| 7 | Having strong boundaries ≠ being a bitchHahahaha I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:20 AM |
| 32 | BLACK PILL PPD TRUTH SERUM TIDBITS ON HOW MEN DISTINGUISH BETWEEN GF/WIFE & FWB MATERIAL...EYE ROLL. NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING A SO-CALLED "NICE /GOOD /LOYAL WOMAN"So it’s more than looks, when it comes to a girlfriend/ex. it’s connection, history, guilt, future outlook, what they consider good wife-material, etc You forgot an important point. It also comes down to how much bullshit their ex gf was willing to tolerate or accept from them and will probably continue to do so once they go back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:39 AM |
| 5 | If you can’t tell people what he didWow this is super accurate lol. I never said anything about me being treated like shit because I didn't want my friends and family to think he was a bad person. Spoiler alert, he was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:13 AM |
| 4 | For whoever needs itThis is 100% true. When LVM suck the life out of you, you tell yourself you'll never do better and probably won't be happy again. But my life has never been better. I'm glad I went through all that I did, I would never know my value otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Just thought we all deserved a good chuckle this July 4th. Woke up this morning to this from a 7 year abusive ex.I JUst hAD tO eXprEsS mY fEelInGs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?I've also started working on myself. I really enjoy working out and eating healthy. I quit drinking and it honestly made me feel great. As I've learned to love myself, I've learn how to take care of myself better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | How do you walk away strong?The first few months will be bad. You're going to grieve for a while even though you know you were treated badly by your abusive ex. This is what helped me Remove/block him This includes from all social media, delete his number, unfollow or mute mutual friends. I put this first because even though you might still not be over him not having constant reminders helps a lot. Fix up a routine. Make sure you wake up on time, eat well, sleep and try to get your body moving. Write the bad stuff in the r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:52 PM |
| 14 | Hmm.. what should she do??...He obviously does not respect the relationship and his girlfriend since he's hitting up other girls. He sounds like he's trying to manipulate himself out of this situation. This just happened 2 months ago lol? Pretty sure this has been going on through out the relationship behind his girlfriend's back. She deserves better, not some lying cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:18 AM |
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