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3

It's more about developing yourself so that the alpha qualities are present and natural while the beta qualities are removed. It's not that you read about the red pill and then you will always be THE alpha in any situation you're in. That's not real life.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:39 PM
1

Sure the Greek dynamic makes sorority girls hook up with frat guys because it's kind of how the whole system is set up. It's not like sorority girls are the only girls on a campus though, unless you're at some weird small school that is like 80% Greek.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:57 PM
10

True, but don't blame being at college. Blame being 18-21 with no game and not understanding women.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 10:35 PM
3

Sure there are better looking women in Europe than some big college campus, but do you honestly think that if you're a guy who can get a bunch of hot girls from Barcelona that you wouldn't be able to sleep with college girls?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 10:27 PM
3

That's a good thought.
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:25 PM
1

Good job on having the courage to approach. That being said, if you don't actually want the girl or think it's going to be successful there's really no point.
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:24 PM
1

You need to really get it into your head that a girl will respect you way more for trying to escalate and getting shot down, than not ever trying. Getting denied is WAY worse than not even going for it. Success > Denial > Too Afraid to Try
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:21 PM
78

Should have told them to stop victim blaming and that you were triggered by his lack of respect for your personal space, bro.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 12:00 AM
15

I hate to turn this into a race thing, but are you black or white? I feel like sjw girls will never criticize black guys for using slurs. I could be wrong.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 11:57 PM
1

I second your careful on the booze suggestion, and also add ease up on the weed smoking.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 11:53 PM
1

I have to say the biggest challenge is resisting the social pressures to conform to what others are doing. It's easy to say "I'm going to go my own way and live life on my terms when you're young", but then you see close friends get married and have kids and switch into dad mode. All of a sudden you're with them at an NBA game and this guy who used to be the biggest poon hound is talking about how the cheerleaders shouldn't have on such skimpy clothes now that he has a daughter.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 11:51 PM
1

I'm in my late thirties and still have sex with very good looking girls in their late teens-early twenties. It's definitely doable, but it's not really as exciting as it is when you're younger. The feeling of banging a hot girl when you're older is still nice, but way way way way more fleeting. It's like the less you want it the easier it becomes. (deep, I know)
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 11:46 PM
0

It's not so much the telling of the bad news as showing that your affected by it, or that you need comfort. Maybe these go hand-in-hand at times, but there is a distinction.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 12:59 AM
1

Dude you sound like you need to get to the gym and hit the weights. Stop worrying about this shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 11:53 PM
1

Yeah, there is way too much left out of this story to say whether or not she was raped.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 07:57 PM
1

Jesus Christ is this the longest post in the history of Reddit?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 11:59 PM
1

Pretty funny. He really fucked up. How embarrassing.
/r/MGTOW10/07/15 06:26 PM
2

Not a big deal. A man getting groped by a woman shouldn't have to turn to the law for justice. I hope you don't think men and women should be treated the same in all circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 09:59 PM
1

Yeah, it really is a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:24 PM
12

Sounds like someone needs to hit the weights.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:00 AM
2

Tell him he needs to join a gym.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 12:08 AM
1

I think you meant to reply to a different comment.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 07:22 PM
1

Are you saying you wouldn't talk to a girl you're attracted to because she's talking to your friend at a party?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:07 PM
1

No offense, but I don't see how lesbian relationships have anything to do with being red pill.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:13 PM
2

I think we're just thinking about attraction differently. I'm looking at it from the perspective of sex and not raising a family.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:53 PM
1

Did you mean to reply to my comment or someone else?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 01:00 AM
3

Agreed. There's no way things are going to magically get better once she has a baby. If anything she's going to double in size.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 12:16 AM
-3

Is that really true? I'm not trying to be the "I need peer reviewed research with footnotes" internet guy in order to believe any claims, but I feel like it's the opposite and even more so when you talk about nature and evolution over millions of years. I've always felt men are attracted to promiscuous women and it's part of female mating strategy to shame these women by getting blue pill types to buy into their shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 12:08 AM
3

What really irks me is that I'm sure this same professor would warn her daughter if there was a rapist out on the prowl. Of course, that conversation wouldn't be about victim blaming, it would be about how awful men are.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 11:47 PM
1

Go to the gym and quit writing book reports, bro.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 12:37 AM
2

Not worth it and not needed for creating value. Girls are sensitive enough to your smv already. If you have enough time in your day to think about the manipulation of betas, you're doing something wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 11:22 PM
6

Not worth it. Seriously, what could he possibly have him do?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 09:32 PM
2

I'm in my 30's and will call younger girls after I get their number knowing they won't pick up just because is makes them a little uncomfortable and apologetic.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:43 PM
5

"but I might still be open to being friends" = I would never admit it, maybe even to myself, but we can be FWB.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:33 PM
1

That's right. you gotta lift.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 11:10 PM
2

That seems like an overreaction in this situation. The last thing you want to do is lose your cool in front of everyone. It comes off as immature.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 12:28 AM
1

If you feel the need to do anything in front of others, just call him out and let him know he's acting like a child. But really, it sounds like he's doing a good job of making himself look like an ass on his own.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 12:26 AM
4

Be more alpha, fuck more sluts. Why shame them? Just don't get caught up in their silly games.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 12:02 AM
1

I hope this is tongue-in-cheek. I haven't read anything else you've written so I can't tell. If so, it's funny. Otherwise you really shouldn't be spending this much time just to get a response out of others.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:54 PM
5

Good points, but keep the repetitive low-level head trauma to a minimum.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 10:51 PM
1

Good point, but I still don't think that's a reason to not speak honestly about the problem. Also, it's not a zero sum situation. Telling women they should be careful doesn't take any guilt away from the rapists.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:06 PM
9

"This is the only crime where people blame the victim,” said Annie E. Clark, co-founder of End Rape on Campus What?!? That statement is so incredibly false I don't even know if she can believe it herself.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:52 PM
1

I get that this is practice, so maybe it helps with confidence in some people, but.. Walking directly at someone on a busy downtown street when you would never do it to the same person in a dark alley makes you a little bitch.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 10:22 PM
1

The only way this doesn't sound like a waste of time is if you and your gf are going there to pick up girls. Aside from that, why go to a club?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 09:13 PM
1

Well, basically girls become more interested in you the less interested it is you are in them. It doesn't sound like you two are dating if she's not talking to you at school. Also, yes, two girls at once.
/r/seduction05/06/14 10:10 PM
1

Are you serious? You baked her brownies? Don't do stuff like that for girls ever. If you want her to like you don't ask her out anymore, treat her like you would one of your friends when you see her at school, and go out on a date with somebody else.
/r/seduction05/06/14 08:37 PM
13

I can't believe women say "no" to a man who's mother lives with him because she can't take care of herself. Are these girls 12?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:58 PM
5

Do not tell the guy. That is the last thing I would do.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:53 PM
1

If you're away on business or out of town I don't think its that big of a deal. Doing it where you live or having an affair I do not approve of.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:48 PM
0

It's hard to blame the girl. It sounds like her husband has no game. Think of all the male traits TRP defines as attractive to women. This guy doesn't sound like he has them.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 08:56 PM
2

I'm shocked by the vast majority of replies to this post. Did this sub just get invaded by Jezebel posters? Who gives a shit about this double standard? If you're a full grown alpha male the thought of a woman sexually assaulting you is about as threatening as being growled at by a puppy. Edit: I see it's referring to HS boys. I stand by what I said as it concerns adults.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 10:06 PM
2

Follow through with this. School is for learning. It's not fucking daycare for teenagers. The students who really want to become educated deserve better than having students like this suck up all the resources.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 07:06 PM
3

I don't know, girls with daddy issues are kind of hot.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:03 PM
1

This equation is way more complicated than you're making it out to be.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:48 PM
2

What are you looking for from this girl, a LTR or a FWB? If you want an LTR then context is very important for how long you will wait. If you just want sex, do not wait at all. Even waiting for a second date is kind of pushing it in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 12:30 AM
2

I don't get what you're trying to say by posting this. Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 09:00 PM
0

Yeah, this guy made some big mistakes. Its hard to even blame her. You almost have to expect something like this would happen.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 08:39 PM
2

I'd be willing to bet the author of the Jezebel article didn't read the book. That site is pure clickbait and not worth reading. Don't waste your time. Pure garbage.
/r/seduction31/01/14 11:44 PM
1

Can't you smoke a cigar and fuck a girl in the same night?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 10:42 PM
1

Haha, so true. I thought it was pretty weak how the CL poster says he likes women for the size of their hands and the way their hair falls. Sure, but doesn't mention tits, ass, or pussy.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 12:16 AM
5

It sucks that she took his money, but other than that he's probably better off.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 12:26 AM
8

I experienced a similar thing too. I was 34 at the time though and depressed. I obviously cant speak to your situations, but looking back part of my depression was from me sacrificing so much of who I was in order to please her. Now that I can be myself I feel a million times better, even though it sucked at first.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 12:26 AM
1

I get what you're saying, but why are you even trying to rationalize with this woman?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 11:50 PM
4

The whole idea of that people think male sexual entitlement is a real problem blows my mind. Do they even know the definition of the word entitlement?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 04:50 PM
2

I can understand the anger directed at this woman, but isn't it pretty widely accepted that women want to marry rich men and the main thing they have to trade for it is their looks? At least she's starting to be honest about it. He just needs to make more money.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 10:44 PM
1

There is some truth to this when you apply it to how some posters here look at their own behavior. So frequently I hear posters blaming popular american culture for their blue pill behavior. They are just picking the parts of the culture that reinforce their existing attitudes and ignoring the parts that tell them to be more aggressive.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 05:02 PM
2

It's OK that it bothers you, but it really depends on to what degree. As long as you're still getting what you want out of it, then I don't see the problem.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 04:46 PM
2

You're favorite pickup should be someone picking up a girls who's actually hot. Lying to a girl just to get a number is pretty weak. "I'm a law student".
/r/seduction09/05/13 12:17 AM
1

I said nothing about having anything related to an epiphany from visiting TRP. If you had one, that's great and I hope it help with your life.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 06:42 PM
3

Are you joking? Don't ever do this. Women know when kino is happening. Touching a girls tits requires her being really comfortable with you and by that point there are a dozen other better options.
/r/seduction01/05/13 07:45 PM
2

Based on some of the replies in this thread I had to check to make sure I was in the right sub. If you want to seduce her, you need to be aggressive and firm. This starts way before you're laying in bed with your hands in each others pants. Anyway. How is she saying, "i'm going to make you earn it"? Is it in a fun and teasing tone? If so, she's disappointed that you're backing off. If she sounds serious, then I guess you need to reevaluate what you want out of a relationship.
/r/seduction01/05/13 07:38 PM
2

Maybe girls don't get dressed up the same as they do in one of the worlds wealthiest and largest cities, but there are tons of hot girls in the US that could walk down a street in Tokyo and turn heads. That being said, this post makes me want to visit Japan. On a side note, do you think the women in Japan are prettier than Spanish girls? If so, we may just have differing tastes.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 06:43 PM
1

Changing your view on how you "should" behave in a relationship doesn't have to be taken to the level of "coming to Jesus".
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 05:43 PM
0

So what are you saying this girl should do, just stay in the relationship because he's nice to her? Sometimes people learn about themselves and what they want (this sub) and decide they've made mistakes and it's time to go for what you want.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 11:22 PM
1

It's not great. It's only a small step up from going to a movie. Go somewhere you can talk. Bar is better imo.
/r/seduction25/04/13 10:17 PM
1

More than anything, Keith just comes off as thin-skinned and childish.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 09:30 PM
2

Or Mulholland Drive.
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:21 AM
37

I prefer the no-hand technique. "Take off your bra."
/r/seduction22/04/13 10:15 PM
0

This is what I was thinking, especially with night classes.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 12:02 AM
1

Good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 10:49 PM
0

I have had a fair amount of success with younger girls. -Age? You know what you like and it's your life, so go for what you want. -Where? I meet them almost always on online dating sites. Maybe that's because I'm way past the point of finding clubs interesting/fun. -Game is super easy because they are the kind of girls who fantasize about older men. Just be that. If they're not that type of girl then you have no chance, so don't sweat it. Nothing you can do.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 10:47 PM
1

I'm 36 and am seeing a handful of college girls. I'm not saying it's overrated, but the novelty dies off pretty quickly. I'd definitely have to be interested in the course to do this. Speaking of which, I have been thinking of taking a painting course. Thanks, OP!
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 10:33 PM
8

I'm in worse shape, because spend my evenings sleeping with my girlfriends instead of going to the gym :/
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 09:36 PM
1

I regularly hook up with women who would openly identify themselves as feminists and are hot as hell. They talk to me about how they know they're time is limited being as attractive as they are and want to make the most of it.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 08:54 PM
0

That's a pretty small subset.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 12:13 AM
2

His premise is just flat out wrong. Feminist women still know that a lot of their value is tied to their beauty and that people get ahead through hard work. Maybe there are some really dumb feminists who he's describing, but the article is a little over the top. It's almost like he wrote Reefer Madness in a previous life.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 08:17 PM
0

You're on the right track when you say "women care not how polite i may try to be or that I want to discuss something". They absolutely 100% do not care about any of this. Don't forget that.
/r/seduction15/04/13 11:23 PM
0

Sex God Method I'm not sure that it fits in with TRP thinking, but it will really help you understand women.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 10:21 PM
0

How do you expect to keep women in your life if you don't enjoy sex? Sex is the main reason women chose a man. They get turned on by wealth and power so it plays into their sexual desire for you, but it's not enough if you don't take an interest in it. They will find another man or be miserable and make you unhappy.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 10:11 PM
1

I agree with your statement about too much bitterness. Too much of the sentiment on here tends to take a turn from improving yourself and other guys towards finger pointing at women for being women. I don't really see what is negative about women's behavior on the whole. Just accept it and work on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 09:28 PM
0

This is not a problem, man. Good on you that you're getting so turned on by the girls you go out with. Just try to adjust so its not super obvious. If you're up against her where she can feel it there's a pretty good chance she's wet too so why would she care?
/r/seduction05/04/13 08:13 PM
2

At some point it's OK to stop acting and just enjoy yourself. You don't need to act disinterested on a date. Girls like guys who are fun.
/r/seduction05/04/13 08:10 PM
-1

Right, because the only option is leave like OP did or fuck all 3 silly. Why should he withhold sex from them? Not like he couldn't have just slept with one of them that night?
/r/seduction05/04/13 07:35 PM
2

I don't know. I do a lot of online dating and am extremely critical of girls looks.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 11:53 PM
1

Good work. If the girls were intrigued and turned on why didn't you continue with the date? Were they just not really your type?
/r/seduction04/04/13 09:22 PM
0

A lot of the people causing problems in the ghetto are not confident and self-assured. They're scared kids trying to act tough and prove themselves.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 08:08 PM
1

I don't think lying to anyone is a very good practice. If you have to lie to women, you're doing something else wrong and should work on it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/13 10:30 PM
3

I wouldn't confuse being a nerd with being smart. There are plenty of not-so-bright nerds just like there are smart kids who do well with girls by being savvy enough to hide their, um, nerdish leanings.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/13 07:55 PM
1

Erectus.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/13 10:39 PM
0

It's sounds like she really wanted to get physical right away and you weren't picking up on it or were not willing to go there at the bar and the other guy was. That's my guess.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/13 11:20 PM
2

How is this good advice? If I had a son I would tell him there's no way he should get roped into a marriage with a girl he's dating in his late teens/early 20's.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/13 11:11 PM
1

It's so true. I'm 36. Most 20 year olds are probably not interested in me because they like guys their own age. However young girls who are into older guys are REALLY into older guys. It's like you're not even who you are. You're a fantasy that they have playing in their head and its pretty easy to just play along with it.
/r/seduction01/04/13 07:07 PM
0

Probably too late now, but blow. Girls love it.
/r/seduction01/04/13 07:02 PM
0

You should ask them out as soon as you find yourself attracted to them and have built the smallest bit or rapport. Waiting too long makes things awkward and strange as I'm sure you realize.
/r/seduction01/04/13 07:01 PM
0

I rarely add girls on Facebook, even if we're sleeping together. The exception being if I met someone, there was attraction, and for some reason couldn't get their number.
/r/seduction01/04/13 06:59 PM
0

Don't you think you should become friends with a person because you like them and are not using them as a means to an end? That's what the scenario you described sounded like to me. If your goal is to meet girls you want to hook up with you should try to meet the girls you want to hook up with. Social proof is helpful, but its not all there is. Trying to befriend someone so you can then meet girls at a later date sounds like procrastination.
/r/seduction01/04/13 06:53 PM
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A lot of them also feel that they are not good enough and the guy is not interested, because he's not making a move. Basically, I don't really ever see this orbiting scenario. That's why i was asking about the age. I mean, I have girls I do things with our of our shared interested (climbing, going to concerts) that I'm not really interested in sexually, but I guess that's different than that full on orbiting scenario.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/13 06:45 PM
0

It's not a shit test, but maybe she is worried and genuinely just wants to be walked home for her own safety. Maybe she wants sex. You should be able to tell that from how the interaction is going already. Either way, walking her home is fine. What's really not alpha is worrying about whether or not your actions are alpha. I wouldn't say "Well, only if you make my time worth it". Generally it's better to just go for it and kiss her or whatever instead of trying to get some verbal OK beforehand, …
/r/seduction01/04/13 06:37 PM
0

Keep losing weight, but in the meantime you really need to focus on grooming/cleanliness/dress.
/r/seduction01/04/13 06:22 PM
0

Try the push her up against the wall game.
/r/seduction29/03/13 11:07 PM
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Upvoted for triangular gazing.
/r/seduction29/03/13 11:06 PM
0

Are you planning on befriending girls you don't already know? If so, this is not a good use of your time. Also, it's really manipulative to want to become friends with someone just for the social proof. I don't see this ending well. Sorry, but I'm just trying to give you solid advice.
/r/seduction29/03/13 11:03 PM
0

show him this post.
/r/seduction29/03/13 10:53 PM
1

Go back up to one of the girls a little while later and grab her by the arm to pull her over to someplace to talk.
/r/seduction29/03/13 10:51 PM
0

I think you handled the statement about being a player well. Just brushing it off is good or even flat out lying can be good. When girls say this to me I just tell them "no, it's not like that at all" or something and then escalate the kino to a higher level at that moment. They know you're a player, you know you're a player and they know you're lying, but they like it.
/r/seduction29/03/13 10:46 PM
-1

You almost did it right: A little too over the top.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 08:41 PM
1

Agreed. Most women will give you emotional support in return, but how can you expect to get this support if you can't be honest about how you feel about them?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 08:24 PM
-3

Don't assume women know that nice-guy orbiters are interested in them sexually. They usually don't. Also, how old of "women" are you talking about? I don't see grown up women really having straight guys around they're not sleeping with.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 08:14 PM
5

So I should value other men in interpersonal relationships because some of us have made things? No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 05:54 PM
20

How are men more valuable?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 09:31 PM
1

I just came across it today and my first reaction is that a lot of the posters come from a place insecurity and overcompensation. Maybe that's just part of the "process". Pretty interesting nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 08:20 PM
1

Yeah, kissing in public doesn't really bring you any closer to getting laid the same night. If a girl is going to make out at a bar and then go home with you for sex you should be able to get her back to your place anyway. Also, it does put their defenses up.
/r/seduction26/03/13 10:20 PM
0

How old are you and are you trying to build a relationship or just have sex? If you just want sex, just go to your place.
/r/seduction26/03/13 10:01 PM
1

Picturing someone doing this makes me laugh, but if it works for you then go for it.
/r/seduction26/03/13 09:45 PM
0

From my experience with gay men it's very straight and to the point. We're guys. We all know exactly what the other one is thinking about sex.
/r/seduction08/03/13 10:22 PM
2

This. Also, you kind of have to maintain distance. You can't really do relationship type things, like see each other more than once or maybe twice a week, and expect them not to see it as a relationship, even if you say you don't want one.
/r/seduction08/03/13 10:16 PM
1

Don't ask her to go to a party unless you want to go to a party. Just take her back to your place.
/r/seduction08/03/13 10:11 PM
2

Good work, mate! Also, keep in mind that you need to strike while the iron's hot. Sounds like she might have gone home with you last night.
/r/seduction08/03/13 10:05 PM
1

Try to ignore him as much as possible. I'm sure others notice his douche bag behavior, especially the girls he's failing miserably with. If you do feel the need to address him, I like how you handled it non-verbally. If you're going to say something just be direct, honest, and don't lose your cool. Girls will respect that, but it's still best not to do it in front of them. Pull him aside and let him know that you're not that close that he can go around putting his hand on you. Also, he may have …
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:25 PM
2

I agree with not seeing him as a threat if you're alpha, but I don't recommend taking this approach. Asking if he has anger issues, needs attention, wants a shoulder to cry on, etc are only going to piss him off, creating conflict. You presumably do not care if he needs attention so there is no reason to ask such a question. It's a little passive aggressive and will only lower your value in the eyes of others.
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:19 PM
1

Never with a friend's girlfriend and I'm not going to pursue a girl who's in a relationship because it's messy and can have bad consequences. However, I don't have a problem with a one night stand with a girl dating some guy I don't know.
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:39 PM
1

Furious masturbation.
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:36 PM
3

Before you have sex you should get it out there that you don't want anything serious. You still might not be able to avoid it because girls can be pretty single minded if they want a relationship, but it helps lay the groundwork for you being honest about what you want. You might get laid a little less, but you will be less stressed. At least that's how I feel in situations like this.
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:21 PM
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Only go after girls you REALLY want. Don't waste your time hitting on girls who are a step below what you want. (maybe doesn't apply to beginners so much where it's important to get your feet wet and learn)
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:06 PM
4

That's fine, but no need to overthink openers too much. Confidence and body language is way more important when first talking to a girl than coming up with something clever.
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:02 PM
2

Probably not the best thing to say, but telling a girl she owes you a compliment is OK if your body language and delivery is solid. You can pretty much say anything. The people saying it makes them cringe don't get it. Good job keeping your composure after she shoots you down. Very important skill.
/r/seduction14/02/13 08:23 PM
5

Never ever ask to kiss a girl. When you try to kiss her, you ARE asking her.
/r/seduction06/02/13 12:38 AM
1

Don't try to get her to go. A show with loud music with a girl who's not really in the mood to be there does not sound like a good time. Don't push it. I'd just say "no problem" and leave at that. Maybe get in touch some other time if you don't hear from her.
/r/seduction06/02/13 12:28 AM
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There's no reason to do this. Please don't do this. Getting a girls number should be an afterthought if you've had a good interaction with her for a few minutes. Just take out your phone and ask for it. She's waiting for you to ask her and will be sad when you don't.
/r/seduction31/01/13 08:25 PM
1

Please don't dye your hair! Having a few grey hairs is perfect for getting younger girls. I'm 35. When I date girls who are in their early 20's they all love that I have grey hair. Maybe their dad's had grey hair when they were young or something, but who cares.
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:49 PM
2

All the replies so far are saying to answer this question honestly? I would just say, "No, I never do this", and carry on with whatever I'm talking about. She'll probably know you're lying, but will not care if things are already going well. On a side note, I would stay away from sarcastic responses or sarcasm in general early on in interactions. It's not the worst thing in the world, but it shows weakness.
/r/seduction29/01/13 11:13 PM
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I disagree with sex not being a huge deal. It's an enormous factor in keeping a girl and in getting new ones. When you're really confident in your sexual abilities, it comes across in the level of confidence you show when talking to a new girl. If you want to have a bullpen of girls for booty calls, sex is a huge deal. If a girl is home alone and horny she's not going to text the guy who is average in bed if there's someone else who blows her mind sexually. On the flip side, if you come through …
/r/seduction24/01/13 10:34 PM
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