I have always found that if you stick around waiting for them after they go to the toilet, you look like you are desperately waiting for them to come back which is obviously bad and they usualy bail if you do. However if you are knowere to be seen when they get back, they start feeling down and will often quickly try to find another bloke to fill that emotional hole that just appeared. So what would you guys do? I am thinking of trying to get involved with something nearby (another group preferably) so they will see me when they come back, but it doesnt look like I am waiting for them.