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Best advice here
/r/seduction25/02/26 11:43 AM
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Hey, here's my $02. Sounds like you have learned a lesson from this. I'm not even going to PRETEND to understand why you did this. Everyone has their own reasons. To guess would be insulting to you. But... I would recommend doing some self-reflection / shadow work / emotional work on this. Figure out why you did this. In general, I love women. I love sex. I love sex with women. I think it is possible to do this seduction thing without having to hurt people. I have some core rules: Don't lie just…
/r/seduction23/02/26 07:16 PM
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Patiently listening to bullshit is still listening to bullshit The idea that you will "get in trouble" or "it's dangerous to approach" is so absolutely fucking stupid that people should be ridiculed who say it Hopefully, wee can shame it out of men.... ...Because it is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard and a simple Google search will yield the truth ... that this has never happened If someone is too damn lazy to do a Google search to see if the thing they are lazily parroting is true o…
/r/seduction14/02/26 11:32 PM
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It's getting tough to understand all of this because your messages are kind of confusing. Bottom line... if you've escalated and she's rejected you then that's that. You can try again. This past spring there's a girl that I had sex with and I really liked her. She was VERY well known in my social circle and a lot of guys were in her DMs. Next time we hung out, I escalated and she shut me down. Next time we hung out she was weird and shut me down. I confronted it and she said she was confused and…
/r/seduction25/12/25 11:47 PM
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Yes, but my only point is that she knows him REALLY well and if she gets ANY sense that he's "performing"... she's going to see right through it which could ACTUALLY be a major negative in her eyes.
/r/seduction25/12/25 11:42 PM
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See - NO. It is not fun to snuggle with a super hot chick. It's fun to FUCK a super hot chick. Why in the hell would you give yourself a "consolation" prize? Why would you disrespect yourself like that? I escalate and if a girl gets weird on me or tries to use me for attention... fuck her. I'm out. HARD AND FAST RULE. Way too many women on the planet to be stuck on one girl for 5 years.
/r/seduction25/12/25 11:06 PM
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I mean - it's been 5 years. You have been thoroughly friend zoned. If I were in your position, I would not give off ANY interest energy towards her. In fact, be a little cold, dismissive, aloof. The problem is that you are contributing all the energy. You have to leave room for her to chase you. And truth is.... she might just like the attention and not have any interest in sex. Not all girls are gold diggers... but they're ALL time diggers.
/r/seduction25/12/25 11:00 PM
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Do not talk about some other girl you're into. That is lame and you've been crushing on her for 5 years. She's going to see right through that shit.
/r/seduction25/12/25 10:48 PM
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It sounds like you’re thinking a kiss is something for the end of the date For girls that I end up taking back to my place on first date, I’m usually kissing them much earlier in the date If the chemistry is ACTUALLY there - it’s going to be so obvious that she’s open to it and you need to go for it There have even been times I wasn’t even sure she liked me and I went for it - and she reciprocated - and escalation continued after that
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:28 AM
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What part of this is toxic masculinity? I didn't lie to anyone. I only hooked up with girls that were looking for hookups. What's wrong with some of this advice? Good photos, sub 14% body fat? I'm marketing something... but it wouldn't work if there weren't "buyers" out there. And - my friend - there are a lot of buyers out there.
/r/seduction15/12/25 07:47 PM
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OK, that's helpful. My recommendation? Just keep it chill and hit her up when you actually want to see her again, no need for some post-game ritual. She already showed she’s into you, so shoot your shot when you feel like it and let it flow. If she wants to turn it into something more - let her push that.
/r/seduction14/12/25 11:04 PM
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Question: What do you want? You wanting a relationship? FWB? Open to either?
/r/seduction14/12/25 06:24 PM
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Any sentence that pairs the word "woman" with the verb "leads" is terrible advice when it comes to hooking up, seduction, or relationship advice in general. This is a sure way to get him into the friend zone or for her to get the "ick."
/r/seduction14/12/25 06:23 PM
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Most of my hookups have come off of apps. The rules: Really really good photos / no boyfriend energy in your text prompts Sub 14% body fat / lean and toned is the winning combination Have really really good text game (masculine texting style) Do not overtext I have screenshots of the text exchanges from this year from about a dozen different hookups For instance, set my location to a city that I was going to be visiting (about 3 days before). Started swiping like crazy in the short-term fun cate…
/r/seduction14/12/25 04:30 AM
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Yeah, I'm with you man. I want to believe that people have good intentions / a good heart. But, learning these skills have exposed me to a certain type of person (both male and female)... I feel myself becoming more cynical over time. I don't like that.
/r/seduction13/12/25 11:24 AM
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LOL - were you told to edit your response? I saw the original message in my notifications
/r/seduction30/11/25 06:49 PM
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He didn’t pull He paid a sex worker (no judgment) That isn’t seduction (again, no judgment)
/r/seduction30/11/25 06:47 PM
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This right here. When they have desire, it moves pretty fast. Just don’t fumble the ball.
/r/seduction30/11/25 06:25 PM
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At the beginning of the relationship, I keep it more logistical. (First few hookups) After sex, I would initiate conversation and slowly reveal more about myself. Some of the FWBs were really into that - to the point that they started inviting me to stuff or we would go out for drinks - which was fine. Got free tickets to stuff. Etc. Girls that I get along with on a personality level are more enjoyable. The sex is better. After all - there’s still a male / female dynamic going on here. Final tho…
/r/seduction30/11/25 06:21 PM
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Why is this in seduction subreddit?
/r/seduction30/11/25 06:11 PM
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I would just say gently that sometimes the story we tell ourselves about an event can put meaning on a neutral event. You experienced desire and you acted on those desires. Now you experience "regret" or "feeling foolish". But - I would say that this is only the case because of the story you are telling yourself. You have the ability to tell yourself any story you want about what it means or the events themselves. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction16/10/25 07:40 PM
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Terrible advice. Do not announce your sexual intentions to women. This will give them the “ick.” Women have agency. They can do what they want with their bodies. Women also like “plausible deniability.” They like things to “just happen.” The seduction process works because it’s happening beneath the surface. As soon as you start talking about it… you bring it into the cold light of day and it loses its charm and mystery. It’s like the sex scene in MacGruber (worth looking up on YouTube lol).
/r/seduction16/10/25 09:02 AM
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You had me until phone date. I’ve had a lot of same day hookups or direct to house dates. Never once was the phone involved in that. However, this pattern is correct overall. An “exciting profile” is 90% about your pictures. I had zero success and then I paid for professional photos. Overnight difference for me.
/r/seduction16/10/25 08:56 AM
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“Build something real slowly over time” This is a bad mindset to have. I’ve had sex with at least a dozen women this year that I met the same day. You are setting yourself up for failure by assuming that it takes time.
/r/seduction16/10/25 08:44 AM
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You need to recalibrate, because it’s that lack of interest that attracts them. Women are not like men. They choose. And, the more attractive they are – the more likely it is that they have a ton of man wanting to date them. I dated a pretty girl earlier this year and she was constantly getting DM’s from guys. She would get approached multiple times every time she went to the grocery store. Her whole life was just turning down men. If you want someone who is just going to make it super easy for …
/r/seduction16/10/25 08:40 AM
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The last sentence confuses me. What does that have to do with the rest of the post? Are you saying that you caught feelings for someone you hooked up with? If so… Did you know them before? We need more information.
/r/seduction16/10/25 08:36 AM
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Does it matter how you found them?
/r/seduction16/10/25 08:32 AM
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So many in this thread are saying "talk more", do "choreplay", work on her feelings, nurture her, build a sense of connection... Did you have to do any of that during high school when you were having sex every day? No - of course you didn't. If it didn't work then... it's not going to work now. The counter-intuitive advice here is that YOU can do NOTHING to change her. All you can do is "do you." In other words, what would you do if she was already gone? Do that. Stop trying to fix her. Also - I…
/r/seduction28/12/24 11:21 PM
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We hugged and then i just took her hand and led her into the restaurant and to the bar
/r/seduction26/12/24 04:02 PM
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Went on a date on Monday night with a girl that I met on the Latin dance scene. This was our first date. I was very conscious of the physical connection: Hugged her when we met Took her hand and led her to the bar at the taco place Touched her throughout the meal, including resting my hand on her leg while talking Offered my arm, she took it, and we walked arm in arm from taco place to my car to get my bag Held her hand when I went from my car to Latin club While we sat on the couches, I put my …
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:02 PM
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Sorry, no sale. Been married 13.5 years, I work from home, and we bang every day. Some days she has to pull me away from my computer. We lift weights together, still date each other. She's an anti-feminist, libertarian, practically an anarchist. And - yes - she is emotional. I have to get on her case about things. But, isn't that the point? Isn't the entire point of this entire subreddit to point out that women need men to lead them? And - if you can find a woman with traditional values - that's…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/20 11:16 PM
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And you are the one turning your personal experience into a universal truth. Between the two of us, you are the one who is hallucinating what all of reality is like. The Cuban poet Anais Nin could speak to this situation: "We don't see the world as it is... we see it as WE are."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/20 08:00 PM
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A woman who was that devoted to her husband is never going to get over him. Shes moral and not a THOT, but shes not gonna fuck her next husband like that due to feeling guilty like shes cheating on her dead ex. You have absolutely no proof that this is true. You're literally inventing this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/20 11:57 AM
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Except, if a man wants children, he's going to want and need a stable, committed woman in the home environment. I won't except a load of BS that men don't need children. My son is the greatest gift I've received in this life. Every man should father children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/20 06:50 PM
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