Post sex regret

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-10-16T08:36:32+00:00

Hook ups aren't for everyone. I had similar reflections after doing them from around ages 18-21. It was just what I called itchy balls syndrome. Casual/randoms were overall pretty meaningless and just not that memorable since it lacked emotional investment. I rarely even think back to hook-ups and instead reflect more on how I could have changed certain aspects of relationships and mistakes made.

Try to focus on connecting with women on multiple levels. Find several things you like about her beyond her appearance and sexuality. If you keep each other happy, the sex should be good for many years. It's usually when you lose respect or feel resentment, then the sex may suffer as you may emotionally check out and suffer physically as well from the stress.

originalgainster · 2025-10-16T12:23:53+00:00

It’s called the post nut clarity

Aftercot · 2025-10-16T07:44:48+00:00

Simple. No be hoe.

dismalprognosis · 2025-10-16T10:00:03+00:00

As long as she's not giving you an STD and you're not getting her pregnant, there's no logical reason to worry after a hookup. That said, if you feel like you're leading these girls on and feel bad about it, then maybe that's something to address

forextrader82 · 2025-10-16T08:36:43+00:00

The last sentence confuses me.

What does that have to do with the rest of the post?

Are you saying that you caught feelings for someone you hooked up with?

If so… Did you know them before?

We need more information.

HelloooMorning · 2025-10-17T06:51:50+00:00

I mean connecting with someone through mentally and psychology begins a relationship.

I’ve known some people who started relationships after physical intimacy, and after one or two years, their relationships became terrible because there was no real chemistry or psychological connection in the first place. Some people think that a one-night stand means there’s chemistry—especially those who don’t have much experience in that area.

So, my only suggestion is to try building a relationship through mental and emotional connection after getting to know the person a little, rather than through intimacy. Intimacy can come later, once you truly understand and connect with that person.

Go where you are valued, not just where you are needed.

Various_Friend_7230 · 2025-10-17T10:29:58+00:00

I saw your post, and your other post in Arabic, and I have a point of view that might not appeal to most Egyptian audience. But I don't think it's "el fetra" that's causing this feeling of regret, and it's not the lack or Love in the sexual relationship either. I believe it's the lack of "connection"... When sex is over, immediately, your conscious mind kicks in to check where am I, what I'm doing, and who is this person that I'm so close to.. so if you don't feel a "connection".. u feel immediately out of place.. and connection here isn't necessarily love. You need to find people you can connect to, to be your sexual partners.

Electrical_Trip_1516 · 2025-10-16T10:25:54+00:00

Ops if you're a f then your accountbilty remains intact as women fuck who they want and men fuks who they can

topher_atx · 2025-10-16T22:54:11+00:00

Only pursue women who you think could plausibly be your girlfriend.

Arch176 · 2025-10-16T13:23:47+00:00

Regret only ?! U r lucky dude. I had tried to kms alot after sex ..

spicyman696 · 2025-10-16T08:32:09+00:00

بصي انتي لازم تهدي وتقنعي نفسك ان دي فطرة انسانية مهما كان وخلي البارتنر يطمنك على قد مايقدر وقت العلاقة ولو شكيتي في الحب ابعدي بالتدريج عشان تحافظي على نفسيتك

Title	Post sex regret
Author	Anxious_Prize3633
Upvotes	35
Comments	19
Date	October 16, 2025 7:35 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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