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Well, now that everyone's gone...hello there. I'm a 21 year old female, I am still in higher education and work part time as a bar maid. My hobbies are singing and composing (nothing serious. Just a hobby - My songs are mostly about everyday life. My best ones are: "Where did I leave my keys again?"; "My Vibe, My Hand"; "Groceries (I hate you)" and my favourite "What to do (when tp is gone)") I enjoy long walks late at night under the moonlight. I go the gym regularly (mainly for spinning and pi…
/r/seduction06/10/12 01:40 PM
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Yes yes very much this over and over again and forever. ...Hell, you're not even talking to me and I'm already horny. Wait... well I guess I'm just easy
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:35 PM
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As a girl who's had the honour of having had texts and phone calls exactly like this. I can vouch for the effectiveness of it. More guys should do this.
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:21 PM
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Great. I just reversed that equation. I'm wild, therefore, my mum must have been/ is wild too. Ugh..I knew that lube bottle by her bed wasn't a massage oil and I knew all those butt plug websites in her history weren't there because she thought she was buying a lava lamp.
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:20 PM
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Yeh. Works best on the insecure, shy, naive maybe inexperienced girls... I think.
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:08 AM
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Just to point out: You CAN build attraction through instant messages, facebook and text BUT. It's twice as difficult to follow through and you'll find that you'd be limiting yourself cos that sort of game usually just attracts the younger market. Just my 2p
/r/seduction30/09/12 03:31 AM
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Haha this guy sounds incredibly unsettling but... I can't help but wonder what it'd be like to date him. I'd go meet him as long as I had like hidden cameras and mics fucking everywhere and some swat team parked around the corner. Just cos... where the fuck would he take you. What other bizarre rules would he have.. Also...what dya think his place is like...what would it be like to fuck him? I probably wouldn't want to find out myself ... but I could sure hire someone to go get this information.…
/r/seduction29/09/12 10:33 AM
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Haha
/r/seduction25/09/12 05:51 AM
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Tl;dr: Oh dude, I don't actually know but I can kinda describe how I felt throughout. If you'd like to know...keep reading. On the night that he and I met I was out with friends. It had been quite a while since I had sex but due to my very conservative upbringing I tried my best to hide it and ignore it until I found someone I'd want to be in a relationship with. You know, cos otherwise I'd be a used slut. To put things into perspective I was indeed 20 and I'm still at 21 pretty naive/ New to ev…
/r/seduction25/09/12 05:22 AM
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Just out of curiosity.. How would a less attractive girl have more chances with you? What sort of openers would you be looking for?
/r/seduction24/09/12 01:14 AM
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From facial features alone, I wouldn't find him hot or ugly. He doesn't even have perfect straight teeth. He IS a bit built though and I think THAT is what helps him with his game. Being physically fit not only looks good to most women but it also sends the message that "You're healthy" and "Determined". So double + points. Having a pretty face just says you won the genetic lottery...nothing else.
/r/seduction23/09/12 09:32 PM
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21... And I'll make sure to ask him. I'm just as interested.
/r/seduction23/09/12 06:59 PM
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Oh sure... But I kinda like people that challenge my views :) Thanks though.
/r/seduction22/09/12 07:32 PM
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Define: random. If by that you mean someone I barely know. Well, that's subjective. I spent 10hrs with him talking about a lot of shit and after that I felt like I knew him for a while. So no. Not random. Granted. It was quick. But hey, why beat around the bush? I want sex, He wants sex. We're both consenting adults. So.. what? Once I felt safe around him and felt he understood me I was more than happy to have fun with him. Why the hell not?
/r/seduction22/09/12 07:31 PM
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Lol ..no, I just know I'm not. At least under my definition. So... Out of curiosity, what does the word "slut" mean to you?
/r/seduction22/09/12 07:23 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction22/09/12 06:38 PM
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34... And he was a late bloomer. Only first kissed a girl when he was 21.
/r/seduction22/09/12 04:51 AM
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Surely some of them are muti-lingual? Ugh Don't get literal or otherwise I'll end up thinking you're into fins, scaly skin and... well... fucking fish. Cmon you know what I mean!
/r/seduction20/09/12 10:55 PM
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But, forget about her being a person with a vagina and tits for a minute. What do you think of what she actually has to say? I'm asking your thoughts about her advice not anything else.
/r/seduction20/09/12 10:46 PM
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Can't the fish tell you where they like to go for a swim? Sure... some are just blindly following the leader along and have no idea where they are. But the ones that do look around will be more than glad to tell you... As long as you are catching and releasing and NOT frying them up in your kitchen.
/r/seduction20/09/12 10:43 PM
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No. "Understood" meaning you get that we're NOT "putting out" , that you did NOT do something to "make" us sleep with you but rather if we decided to take it further it was our choice. We weren't tricked. I don't mean "reassure" us or compliment us for making the decision. That'd be incredibly condescending. We know and understand its our decision. What we don't know is if YOU do. If you show me you understand this, you're already making me feel more at ease by making me feel understood. Which c…
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:52 PM
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Yes. Yes yes. And yes, always let your intentions be known but a bit of pushing is not always bad. No, Not rape. Rape is bad. Bad rape. But a nudge and a shake is good.
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:25 AM
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This is why I say trying to understand is crucial. You're failing to see the bigger picture. We don't "sit there and judge whether he's good enough for us" but rather we "sit there and try to figure out if we're going to get hurt" <sup>✞</sup> That means, we gather as much data as possible (until we feel satisfied to get an accurate prediction) in order to assess whether the probability of developing feelings of worthlessness due to possible poor empathy skills on his part is higher than the pro…
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:14 AM
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That's what I thought. I love this sort of challenges anyway so I'm definitely doing this. I got so many lined up, it's almost a hobby.
/r/seduction17/09/12 07:05 PM
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So.. you're saying that you don't bother for days about your appearance and then challenge yourself to go to expensive places to see if you get a good service? Do you sort yourself out before you go test driving your "presence/vibe"? Or do you go unshaven...unwashed etc.
/r/seduction17/09/12 02:28 PM
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I like this. Honest, up-front, straight to the point, seems like you actually enjoyed spending time with the girl and didn't pull her in just for the sex. It seems like she definitely needed and wanted it aswell. I like this a lot. This makes me happy and gives me hope. Thank you. Edit: Questions coming up.
/r/seduction17/09/12 10:21 AM
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Yeah but then you get the people that think (sometimes quite rightly) that girls have it easy and all they have to do is approach and they'll most probably get it. So we'll still learn nothing. Off topic: What do you think is easier? Searching or filtering? I'd say is pretty much the same amount of hard work.
/r/seduction17/09/12 03:18 AM
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No, haha of course not but I still can't help but wonder. Don't you?
/r/seduction17/09/12 02:59 AM
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nono Women are usually disgusted by men who put too much effort into getting tha sex and into all the pink bits. Men that actively try to understand and find a way around all our walls by using the door we usually find pretty awesome. That's what I mean when I say it's a delicate, fine, almost invisible line. I mean, I'm a woman ffs, I can't be that different from all the rest. I mean, has it ever occurred to anyone that maybe the reason we're so fucking difficult to understand is cos you guys m…
/r/seduction17/09/12 02:05 AM
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What vilification? What? No that's not what I meant. To quote myself in a comment below: the fact that the sentence "let your intentions be known" has to be printed in bold letters in the welcome package of any PUA book/handbook/website whatever, kinda makes me think "hmm hold on..so the general population (women incl.) Doesn't do this"..... But why?.. So...Obviously there's definitely some conservative subconscious filter in THE GENERAL population's minds. It's like we're moving forward but we'…
/r/seduction17/09/12 01:34 AM
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Swag. Haha sorry I couldn't resist...having younger sisters and brothers, all around 18-16, I know this demographic particularly well. Just be cool dude. Be as smooth as a fucking kite and as trendy as Justin Bieber. Seriously it's not that hard with younger girls. They're still quite naive so as long as you're cool you can get away with a lot more fuck ups. For normal traditional girls (sadly a minority where I'm from) go slow. It might take forever. For cool/outgoing/im-beautiful-and-I-totally…
/r/seduction17/09/12 12:22 AM
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Its always ok. In fact more than ok. It's a fucking privilege for them that you (regardless of gender) approach and have the balls to ask first. A Successful exchange depends on what type of guys you want to approach. Just know that guys aren't usually that used to it and the ones that are probably have high standards. So maybe keep that in mind. You should also bare in mind that it's more than probable that the guys you're aiming for are really the far opposite from pua's. You might come off as…
/r/seduction16/09/12 11:47 PM
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Im always the fucking exception. Always and everywhere. My smile makes random strangers smile. I was brought up trilingual. I'm exceptionally good at maths and languages and their analysis... Analysiss? ... Analysis's? ... Analysises? ... Analysis. Which leads me to my next awesome-ness: I can laugh and learn from my mistakes simultaneously. I might not be a perfect 10 physically but my mind sure makes up for it. I moved around a lot as a kid. Internationally, intercontinentally...? I'm also a b…
/r/seduction16/09/12 10:17 PM
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Lie to yourself? Just fake feeling not creepy. And I mean really fake it. Fake being hot and smooth as fuck until you actually believe it and comes naturally. Sometimes with people that aren't naturally charismatic/too sociable/outgoing/outspoken it usually feels like even if you are it's just ...weird. Cos you're not used to it. So you have to MAKE yourself get used to it. You also have to accept being a bit awkward from time to time. Accept that sometimes you'll be off your game. But always re…
/r/seduction16/09/12 09:42 PM
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I agree completely with everything you say above. I have no problem with guys, or girls for that matter, just looking for sex. Not everyone is looking for a ltr. Definitely. But... Then... Why is it still so hard for women to open up? Or if a man openly and very verbally wants to express that he is in fact looking for sex, why is it so hard? Why do people still need a plausible* deniability tactic when inviting/going to someone's place? I know most of seddit probably doesn't have much of a probl…
/r/seduction16/09/12 04:14 PM
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Ok. I'm a proud owner of what anatomically would be described as a vulva/vagina and what I'm about to say is my subjective opinion only, but it wouldn't surprise me if.other girls thought the same: I.actually LOVE knowing you guys put so much thought into it. Bare in mind that when I say "it" I don't mean just sex and my pink bits. It's a very delicate almost invisible line. I mean when guys offer a helping hand so that us women can open up and get what we actually want that's actually awesome. …
/r/seduction16/09/12 11:46 AM
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Lol I wish more people here were this welcoming... although I can totally understand why they wouldn't be. Being a woman I can't really contribute much to the "solutions" but rather watch/read and if I do share ideas or explanations I feel like I have to point out a million times that its my subjective opinion. I really can't complain much tho. Its just simply morbid curiousity. I find it incredibly interesting psychologically/sociologically
/r/seduction16/09/12 01:26 AM
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Yeah last sentence is what I've been realizing since my late teens. The worst thing is girls don't only learn from their own experiences. I personally have never dated someone I'd consider a player/asshole really, but my friends have and my mums friends too. And THEIR stories/experiences/"warnings" is not something that is easy to escape from. It's fucking everywhere. Growing up, especially during my teens, when both myself and guys my age were filled with hormones and impulses, I was bombarded …
/r/seduction16/09/12 01:15 AM
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Exactly why I was confused towards the end of that and why it sounded so ridiculous. Blame society....and my religious catholic mother grr I am constantly trying to get rid of that programming :/
/r/seduction15/09/12 09:46 PM
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Oh.. I thought that's what I meant. I thought shit test are there to make sure guys aren't bullshitting us either verbally or with their body language. To make sure we don't end up getting used. Should we take everything guys say to us as true we'd be dumb and gullible as well as wide open to get used and hurt. Right? I mean its scary. Ugh I dunno.... society. Grr Now I confused myself cos it just sounds ridiculous written down. Username relevant.
/r/seduction15/09/12 09:23 PM
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Yes, thank you. These kind of men is exactly what makes us put up all those walls and shit tests. The fear of being used, seen as a disposable wet dick pumping device is what turns us off the most. So these guys are kinda ruining it for the rest of men...and they're too stupid to notice it. Cos they just don't care for much more other than getting inside that pussy. I'm glad you posted this here cos it's a significant chunk of (usually new, young, immature) members of this community. So thanks. …
/r/seduction15/09/12 07:57 PM
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You'll find you're most successful with girls that have severe daddy issues. ...Hi :)
/r/seduction15/09/12 07:30 PM
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I totally agree with this. As an introvert girl myself I usually have to get in a positive mindset before going on a date. It's like... I know what I think how I feel and my opinions but I hold them back until I see/hear a green light from your side. Something that tells me: "ok it's safe now, he knows you're not a weirdo, he knows you're actually a nice person. Go on, make all those racist/dirty/dark jokes you like so much". Which kinda proves what dat-ish said. To add to that, OP met this girl…
/r/seduction15/09/12 07:23 PM
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If I see potential in you and you're not an arrogant asshole I wouldn't really waste my time doing all that. Im not a complete idiot. The times I've done it in the past I was still with my ex and recently it was barely for amusement. Right now I'm not looking for a bf so I really couldnt give less fucks about what sort of signals I'm giving to what sort of guys. I'll still only proceed to "get to know you better" when I want to. To me youre all just another number too. For my entertainment. Mayb…
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:44 AM
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I have started/aborted my next submission multiple times this week simply because my latest experiment seemed a bit stupid. And im still not sure whether it proved how its easier for us girls to get laid or if men are just desperate. :/ it deals with unpleasant conversation topics and unsexy behaviour as a challenge to attract guys.. and it worked. My next challenge would be the opposite. Super sensual + a lot of iois but include physical/aesthetic challenges. Like a lisp or a limp as I mentione…
/r/seduction15/09/12 02:16 AM
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I'm guilty of doing the manly spastic spin, the panting and after a guy said "Your hair smells nice" I answered if he wanted to smell the rest pointing at my crotch/armpit. I always do these with a rather "Are you fucking kidding me" face and the acting is usually really over the top so as to emphasize I can see right through their shit i.e "you see this? this is how ridiculous this seems to me". Also, I love a good "wtf" reaction and it helps me get rid of the guys with no sense of humour/too s…
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:23 AM
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Does the manner in which a girl fulfills these matter? E.g.: If you ask her to spin around and she does so but in a manly, spastic fashion. or if she responds to the "have a seat" lap pat action with a few dog panting noises and barks. or if she buys you a drink but it turns out to be super girly or just disgusting or just water or if when you ask to smell her hair she points to her crotch or armpit.. would you still take them as a IOIs? How would you judge these? I'm personally guilty of 3 out …
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:56 PM
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I think that's more common in girls with little to no confidence or low self esteem. I had that happen to me when I was younger but as I grew up and grew more confident I got rid of my bf of 5 years and felt free. Being able to be independent helps too.
/r/seduction09/09/12 10:32 AM
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I hate the word beta hence the quotation marks. I thought maybe youd understand that way. The only people shaming themselves is you men going on about beta and alpha. I never heard a girl using those terms ever so stop looking for excuses. You're an idiot if you think we take no chances. I (hope i get to) thank natural selection for you being a "bachelor for life" and i wish you lots of bitches to fill your life with happiness and warmth. (yes, ok, you may moan about shaming now). Sincerely.
/r/seduction08/09/12 11:23 PM
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What? I don't think you saw my edit. I don't think you understand how ...ugh "beta" you're coming across right now. I don't think you understand that every time we decide to sleep with a guy we're taking a chance. Has my womanhood ever been questioned? I guess I can translate that to have I ever been accused of not being lady-like enough which I'd answer with a loud YES. I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. I didn't mean to. And I'm sorry I'll hurt them again in a second: grow up and get rid of al…
/r/seduction08/09/12 11:08 PM
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Im not saying devote yourself to every woman you try to bang. If you're not looking for anything serious. Sure, go ahead and play the field. What I have problems with is the "don't let yourself be a kept man" bit. It sounds like he means that even if you decide to go steady, you should have a back up plan. That's just sad. Men (and women) that are too afraid to take a risk never end up being too happy. Edit: Right, I guess ltr is not what he meant. Sorry. My username suddenly becomes relevant.
/r/seduction08/09/12 10:37 PM
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saying stuff like "hey gorgeous" etc. is actually very generic. From a female point of view, I see it as some standard thing a guy uses to greet a woman. Any woman. Especially if it's just saying "hi". Suddenly the word "gorgeous" has no meaning, making any future compliments regarding appearance rather empty i.e. why is it special if you throw it around like that. I'd say don't compliment her right away. Make her work for it, and say it only when you actually mean it and it genuinely deserves t…
/r/seduction08/09/12 09:52 PM
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wow lol The titles of each and every commandment of those are very misleading. Just reading the titles made me angry and then I read what they actually meant...and It looks at conquering women actually kind of romantically. That's beautiful. I agree with pretty much ALL of it, except 7 and 10. They just scream "I'm a scared little boy and I don't want to be hurt" Man up and take a chance. Guys that keep another woman at arms length are weak. Guys that can't tell a woman is beautiful usually have…
/r/seduction08/09/12 09:31 PM
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Can't you tell her? And allow her to do the same? I used to beg my ex to let me watch him pull other girls... or at least let me in on it and share experiences. Just cos... I dunno, I guess I like knowing that he still got it and the fact that he had all those options but still decided to stay with me would have kinda turned me on. But he never went with it. I dunno why. So, my advice would be to tell her? Maybe don't make it a regular thing? Just like twice a month? Every fortnight? Of course, …
/r/seduction08/09/12 08:59 PM
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Ha I could review it, but I'm guessing it's probably more male oriented i.e. I wouldn't be able to test anything out. I'll only read it to see if I can find answers regarding the whole apparent lack of interest. It amazes me. And also to see how they try to game german women and what kind of different approach they recommend. But I dunno if reviewing it will help you guys at all. I'll sure give it a try though :)
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:59 PM
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do you find the few guys who do approach you to have a higher likelihood of sleeping with you Looking back at that question. It;s a bit stupid cos guys that don't approach me have 0% chance really. Haha Unless I go approach them.
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:47 PM
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Maybe I can answer your question. I've lived in germany and have many german female friends. The mentality towards sex fed to women in germany is usually very different to that of any english speaking country any other country. First of all the general population in germany is fuck loads more mature about EVERYTHING including sex, so they usually take absolutely no bullshit from anyone. Girls are usually very confident, strong and incredibly astute. So, already, it's a challenge. Also, german gu…
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:42 PM
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Disclaimer: The following doesn't really count as being from the perspective of a german woman since I'm half german and half latina, brought up a bit in south america. Still, these were my observations and... maybe you can bare them in mind when abroad? I lived my life between england and germany alternating almost every year or two. And I realized that the mentality towards sex is incredibly different. It's like germans really aren't that bothered and are quite "no nonsense" about it whilst br…
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:17 PM
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Well, like I said. It's all very subjective. I've been told I'm pretty and I've been told stuff like. "ill never ever ever find you attractive. I like blondes" so.. that's why I think average does it. Having grown up in south America for a good chunk of my childhood/puberty you might be right about my skewed perception of beauty tho.
/r/seduction05/09/12 04:58 AM
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Thats exactly it. You can't (at least I can't) have meaningless sex with someone else. I need to trust them and have some sort "bond" with them and usually meet up more than once. I don't ever have one night stands. Some girls might be tough as nails and wouldn't care about getting hurt but I do. So I want to make sure I don't. It has nothing to do with what you guys say is that anti slut thing. We only care about if YOU think of us as sluts cos that leaves us open for attack. Some guys can't wr…
/r/seduction05/09/12 04:07 AM
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Err... I dont want to be wifed yet. Read below/above. Or my comment history. I'm on the rebound and am actively looking for safe casual sex :D But thanks for caring.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:14 PM
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Another thing that works for me is spreading their ass cheeks when they are on top or if they are on bottom, reaching underneath them and spreading them. Upvoted, un-upvoted then re-upvoted 100 times to emphasize how much I like this.
/r/seduction04/09/12 09:14 PM
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Oh no. I don't see it that way. I mean, us girls we do the same. If Chris Evans (the actor ffs) and some average looking guy were at the same bar, we'd probably go with average since it's less risky and we'd be too nervous to talk to a perfect 10 so I dunno. I'm trying my best to stop seeing guys as rivals anyway. We both want the same thing, we just go different ways about it. And in the end it doesn't really matter why a guy approaches you but rather how you choose for him to remember you. Don…
/r/seduction04/09/12 06:54 PM
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I like to think of myself as average cos my type of beauty is kind of "ethnic" and its not your mainstream kind of pretty. Some guys don't like it some guys love it. I think the fact that I look a bit different especially cos I live in UK makes it a bit difficult for guys to approach me. At least that's the way I prefer to see it haha for my own good. And Yeh, I don't sweat it but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't curious about what makes guys want to go ahead and approach me. It's the bad kind of…
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:07 PM
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You should have done. Even I was tempted to troll me.
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:41 PM
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Huh cool. Thanks ill try to figure out if the way I do it is excessive and ill tone it down a bit if necessary. I'm by no means looking for reassurance btw. In fact if I pull one of those jokes and you don't laugh with me you'd ruin it and make me think "why are you reassuring me? You think I'm serious? You think I'm fishing for compliments? I'm offended" lol but I guess that's just my own crazy. :)
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:28 PM
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Most girls I talk to about this stuff want to be able to have casual sex. The ones that truly pull it off are those who are fearless and aren't scared to get what the rest would consider "hurt" once in a while I.e bad mouthed, bad judge of character with some guys, treated as an object. But that's just seldom... I hope. I know a few girls like this and I dunno if it has anything to do with it but most are not happy. The rest of us just sit and watch the reality of just casual sex. The only way i…
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:22 PM
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Ha! Well, I'm not gonna lie... I'm kinda relieved.
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:39 PM
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What if she's absolutely and incredibly confident about not being all that? I use a lot of self deprecating humor and usually find comfort in knowing that, although I work out and am healthy, my body is what it is cos.. it is, so I don't even think about it. This means sometimes after sex ill proudly parade around naked smacking my own bum while I tell you to "not stare directly at the ripples cos they have hypnotic effects"
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:35 PM
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Ugh I hate to admit it but (and this applies to me and my average-ness only) ...Yes. Most of my hot friends get approached with me right there and they all seem to handle guys bullshit a lot better. On the other hand they do go overboard and just dismiss those who (to me) seem to be good candidates on more stupid stuff. I also find I have quite a high tolerance for a few fuck-ups like bad jokes and awkward boobage stares (in fact I like these sometimes but don't make it obvious) compared to my h…
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:28 PM
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Hi. I'm Latina, figuring out what I want to do in life, unemployed, recently dated a 27 year old. Thank you for reminding me to scrub the shit out of my pussy with alcohol followed by a few squirts of lemon juice and fabreeze :/ Out of curiosity, You're not by any chance anywhere near Europe right?
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:18 PM
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Lifestyle is different than mistakes. Changing Tiny errors here and there is easy. Changing Your whole way of living is not.
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:04 PM
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Yup. You hit that, Sister. hi'five
/r/seduction04/09/12 02:37 PM
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It does require more determination the older you get. The more youre used to a routine/a lifestyle the harder it is to change it. Absolutely.
/r/seduction04/09/12 02:33 PM
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I've met guys who I'd later text only to forget how they look like or how they talk. So I imagine they talk like Vin Diesel and are as cool as James Dean only to get disappointed when I actually meet up/go out with them. 3 times this happened to me. I hate texting. Age:21
/r/seduction04/09/12 02:10 PM
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As an average looking girl who rarely gets hit on... I hate not being able to un-read this. I'll forever wonder whether the few guys that approach me do in fact find me attractive or think I'm ugly enough to make conversation easier. Fuckity. Edit: I mean, why? Most girls think that if they get approached the guy must be attracted to them because it takes balls and they wouldnt be wasting their time with girls they didn't find attractive. This.... This changes EVERYTHING.
/r/seduction04/09/12 01:52 PM
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After a certain age being a virgin as a male becomes an obstacle. Do you know the amount of determination this guy must have had to make his life take a drastic U turn? I think if anything these are the sort of people you should be learning from. It shows that learning and evolving is possible. Guys that have always had game probably do it as 2nd nature and don't know much about why stuff works for them. :) you should have read the first sentence of OP and taken his advice to press the back butt…
/r/seduction04/09/12 01:48 PM
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Yeh, some people won't let it go tho. If I send something like this and then you keep insisting, I will ignore you.
/r/seduction02/09/12 12:49 AM
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As a mathematics and linguistics student who is very much interested in psychology and sociology this post made me grab my "dis gon be good" emergency popcorn supply. It'd be even better if you could somehow sort your test subject population into 2 or 3 main subtypes to somehow relate the level of hotness or personality traits to the RTT. It'd probably deliver more accurate results ...but only for your use (and in your area) of course. That's if your arsed at all btw. And if it is just for your …
/r/seduction01/09/12 04:19 PM
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Dude, based on the title I thought you were going to tell a story to promote the use of viagra. Then I awww'ed while reading this and felt sadly better.
/r/seduction31/08/12 02:39 AM
1

Some people don't think a person can change and whenever they spot a difference in a person they see it as "fake" and can't stand it. You'd have to really bring it in slowly for these kinds of people to not notice... If you really give a fuck. I move cities/countries every year and change my persona just cos I can and keep an aspect I like from it to form my own self (I'm still young, I'm not gonna pretend like im a full grown well rounded adult). I know it might sound ridiculous but it's a lot …
/r/seduction31/08/12 02:33 AM
1

"bapeedibupy? beepidibapidibupidi." "Tu sei un pazzo! Va via da qui." "Budibapa boopoobeepeeboopoobahpah" "Sono stanco di te! Ti do un pugno nella testa! Ti uccido con questa carne!"
/r/seduction29/08/12 06:49 PM
4

Spanish German fluently then Italian and currently learning Russian...
/r/seduction28/08/12 07:35 AM
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Yes, this. Please. I wish I could use my multilingualism for more productive things other than just evesdropping while out and about.
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:26 AM
1

Well..I don't mean you have to be a show off boasting your knowledge at any given opportunity. But I dunno, maybe you're right. Maybe it's just me that finds mathematicians and physicist fucking hot. Maybe it's that these people are usually very passionate ... I don't know. I just know that I like brains. Like (I don't usually admit it and I feel like a dick for it but) it really turns me off when a guy doesn't know when to use the plural for "woman" in a sentence when he's texting me. Or that I…
/r/seduction27/08/12 03:40 AM
1

I don't mean women. I mean everyone. No one is attracted to a dumb fuck... Unless the other person can't tell cos they're one too... And btw intellegence is not a synonym for scholar, there are many types of smart so ...whatever rocks your boat.
/r/seduction27/08/12 02:54 AM
1

Yeh.. that's a good point. I could never see myself in that sort of scene.
/r/seduction26/08/12 09:26 PM
1

You just made my day. :D I really hope it is.
/r/seduction26/08/12 07:50 PM
2

This one? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU ?? I've never felt so embarrassed for other girls ... Left me with a horrible feeling after watching it. I dunno why. But I can feel my blood boiling up... Impressive though. I don't like it.
/r/seduction26/08/12 07:40 PM
1

Body, face, personality and intelligence are the main 4 factors that attract a man a person .. It's just that everyone has different priority levels, especially depending on what we're looking to get out of a date. And what does it matter anyway? Change only if you want to change. Fuck cares?
/r/seduction26/08/12 06:49 PM
1

Nope I stayed at his until 6am the next morning. I had to do uni stuff and he had to go to work. He texted me the whole day tho and I'm meeting with him again next week. :/
/r/seduction25/08/12 05:35 PM
3

mehhh...it's beginner level anyway.
/r/seduction25/08/12 07:45 AM
3

Yeah. I dunno. I've thought about this myself a lot and decided you need to watch and study dumb people to find out the answer. And I just can't without shooting either them or myself in the process.
/r/seduction25/08/12 07:10 AM
1

Lol nope, you're not the only one. Even I think that's about right. Haha
/r/seduction25/08/12 06:49 AM
2

I upvoted, un-upvoted and re-upvoted this 100 times just so that I could release the massive "YES. THIS!" build up in my finger. You know what I hate the most about 50 shades tho? The fact that I didn't come up with the idea of writing a shit erotic fanfic with an inaccurate tinge of BDSM to appeal to the dumb horny girl market myself. In a day. I could have written it in a day. FUUUCK! "NEVER underestimate the power of A LOT of dumb people with a few dollars to spare" THAT is all you can really…
/r/seduction25/08/12 06:39 AM
2

Only of course!
/r/seduction25/08/12 06:29 AM
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Yeah, 50 shades is almost a blessing for you guys. I've been saying this since I noticed it becoming popular. Also, It has served me as guideline to get rid of friends and acquaintances I do not wish to associate with: Chavs, curious inexperienced naive girls and dumb predicatable gullible women. All gone, All yours.
/r/seduction25/08/12 06:26 AM
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100% agree with all that but this: The power balance in the relationship is written beautifully. Nothing is written beautifully in 50 shades. Nothing. "It offers you an almost perfect insight on the ideal power balance in a relationship that your average woman wants" would have been a better sentence.
/r/seduction25/08/12 06:18 AM
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I'm a girl and I completely agree. I wouldn't even know where to start giving advice. Clueless as to what and why stuff works on me.
/r/seduction25/08/12 06:00 AM
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Aw man Thank you for all this. It's extremely helpful and incredibly nice of you to put yourself in my shoes and to try and understand what goes on in my head. It was spot on. :D Yeah, I'm sure he already knew I was closeable. I didn't stand a chance. Our conversations included a lot of sexual connotations. I kept tugging on my skirt, my legs were tightly shut and then he called me on it. That's when he asked if I needed fresh air. I don't think it had anything to do with higher status...At leas…
/r/seduction25/08/12 05:33 AM
0

not for u, no haha
/r/seduction24/08/12 09:26 PM
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Lol yeh that's why I dropped Linguistics. It was all too pedantic for me. I'm more interesting in what people are trying to say than how they they try to say it. So I agree. And, yeh eye contact is pretty fucking powerful. If you do it right it makes me wet in seconds. Err..Im starting to think that way too many things make me horny. haha
/r/seduction24/08/12 09:05 PM
1

Hahaha... and that's why I'm glad to be half german. Wait. Shit.
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:28 PM
0

what if I am? Besides I don't think it's about me getting laid but rather how he got me to get laid.
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:25 PM
1

http://i.imgur.com/vhsKI.jpg
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:07 PM
2

Haha man you're gonna need so many screen shots.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:51 PM
0

Hm Interesting. I will.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:42 PM
2

Hey I like you. Wanna hang?
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:42 PM
1

Haha She's kinda coocoo so sure. She's all yours.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:39 PM
1

Wow look at you. You almost make me want to be a slut. haha
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:36 PM
1

I dunno.. I'd be totally awkward afterwards if we kissed and we're not proper dating and we're still out and about. I wouldn't understand what was going on. I need to be comfortable to kiss, not kiss to be comfortable. But maybe It's just me. I'm not completely sane.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:28 PM
1

OH no yeah. If I'm dating someone yeah, of course I kiss em. And yes I've had bad kissers. lol Just not in that situation.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:23 PM
1

Right??? That sounds awesome btw. If a guy said that to me from the very beginning I'd lower my guard cos he'd be being so honest. Shit. It works anyway. Bahaha.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:19 PM
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Hahahaha. Damn it. You got me. I'd never say it out loud but i can't guarantee I won't think it. Insight is exactly why I'm interested in this subreddit. EDit: Wait! wouldn't it be kinda cool if you got feedback like that everytime at the end of a date. or a 2-3 day game?
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:04 PM
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Nope.. I said I'm sorry. I know some guys won't like it. But it turns ME on. Like I have still a bit of power left. Once I give in, it's kinda gone. I'd love to just put myself out there and give it all I've got, making a guy feel wanted and so on. But yes, I admit I'm scared of getting hurt. Especially because I'm not looking for a relationship. If I make you fight for it It makes me feel like you care about me enough to humour me. (At the same time as getting you all worked up still) Having sa…
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:57 PM
1

What happens when someone likes being called a slut? But doesn't want to be seen as one? Hm.
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:29 PM
1

I didn't even know that the errand thing was a thing.
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:23 PM
1

If i said I wanted to bang him and then shit tested him like 5 times. I probably wasnt all that sure yet. If we are sure, we'll find a way to let you. It's funny though, when my friends and I go buy stuff we kinda do that. "Mmm I'm hungry. Oh look. Sandwiches. They look good, how long do you think they've been sitting there? They smell good. what's it got in it? Hey, Do we have time to have a sandwich?" Haha You know... you can't just act based on desire. You may want something but that doesn't …
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:20 PM
1

I disagree but good! haha I spoke in my previous post about how I don't want a relationship yet. And I don't think me and this guy would ever work anyway.
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:45 PM
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I edited it in in the post.
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:45 PM
1

Oh .. :) I hope so.
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:31 PM
10

ooo Challenge Accepted.
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:26 PM
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Why do people keep thinking this?? is it cos I wrote it nicely?? I'm sorry for trying to make it fun and not a chore to read. It's in my best interest to make it appealing so that I can get more feedback, you know? I can assure you that all these events did happen and all the characters involved are VERY real. Wanna know something I left out? While we were at the coffee place I had to go to the bathroom to let out a big fart. I almost twisted my ankle a couple of times while walking and the guy …
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:25 PM
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Yeah.. I think about this a lot. I dunno why but I have to be really into the guy to let him kiss me. Maybe it's cos as a teenager I never really had that "make out with everyone" phase that most girls do so I'm still really nervous and sensitive when it comes to kissing. So, yeah even though resisting makes me really horny I can't help but wonder whether it's got to do with anxiety in a more subconscious level. Btw there's a MASSIVE disadvantage to what I do...like... What if he's a bad kisser?…
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:05 PM
1

Well... If you walk out it makes it seem like you can't stand that I'm wasting your time...Like if all you wanted was to get your cock wet and not actually enjoy spending time with me...All I want is a bit of patience, how is that too much to ask?
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:49 PM
1

Build up.
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:46 PM
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meh..doesn't hurt anyone.
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:45 PM
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Well...first of all I have a submissive streak to me, so don't take what I like as the norm. Some girls hate being ordered around. He made me stand in front of him. Just looked at me for a few seconds without saying a word. He put his hands on my hips and asked "Does this feel uncomfortable?" I said "Not more than what I like it to". He then pulled my hips towards him and made me straddle him. He whispered "Good." In my ear and proceeded to grab my ass and stuff... ahh was it good. I'm gettin wo…
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:43 PM
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It's a follow up from my previous post.
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:35 PM
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I am latina.... And..if you walked out, you'd be doing me a favour. If you're so impatient and selfish before having sex I don't want to know how you'll be during it.
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:32 PM
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Ugh tell me about it. My mum studied psychology and anthropology... and she's a therapist now. I never had a choice. Haha But I love it too.
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:31 PM
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I honestly ...the whole "shit test" thing.... I just can't really understand it. Your whole interaction with a girl is a shit test. It's like you guys don't want me to find out what I want to know to see if I want to fuck you or not. I don't get it. How does that help you? Why can't I test you? I WISH I could just write an exam paper to hand out in order to get rid of the people that'd be wasting my time or not treat me right. The only thing I can think of is that it'd add some pressure on you. …
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:21 PM
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I know! I guess I didn't really write that much about my body language on this post. But yeh they have to read it. I make it VERY easy. Silencing her "u-so-slutty" inner voice gets really hard when you make her say stuff out loud making what she wants blatantly obvious.
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:58 PM
0

Yeah. He knows I want it. I moan, never say "stop", I let him grope me. I make it very obvious I'm just playing.
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:55 PM
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Hahahaha Well, bitch has to let him know! I just answered to asleeplessmalice about this. Ass grabing and any kind of groping is green lit with me. Every time. I just deny the kissing.
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:52 PM
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I couldn't say..."You think you're goin to fuck me?". It'd come right round and bite me cos it'd let him know my mind is already in the gutter. And I'd never say "I'm not that sort of girl..." I feel like when a girl says that it sounds like... you are. I'm confident that I show him in other ways that I'm not a slut. I don't have to say it. Hence the "I'll pretend to be stupid for a bit" I thought that'd let him know that I think I know what he wants and don't mind to find out..... I hope that's…
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:43 PM
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Body language is key. Read it. I usually make it soooo easy for you to know anyway. It helps if before the actual sex, you TALK about sex. I use that sort of conversation to let you know how I want it.
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:36 PM
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You know. I don't think he is. He's really good looking and I think always been, so he probably got a lot of girl's attention all his life. Some guys just learn how to do these things subconsciously. I think...as a girl, once I learned about all this stuff it's hard not to see it being applied everywhere. : / Edit: It's not fictional. That fucking gift wrap could not be made up.
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:30 PM
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Uh... Not really. That's just how my thoughts work. I think it's got to do with the fact that English is not my first language and I studied a bit of linguistics at uni.
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:26 PM
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I know! I don't know why I do that. I think most girls do this without realizing. It's just what we get taught. "Don't be fooled, Guys just want one thing." sort of mentality. It's really hard to get rid of it.
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:22 PM
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I must admit this is "kiss and tell" at its lowest. Sorry.
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:18 PM
3

Cold? nawww I just like savouring the moment...I don't want to just get it over and done with. Those few minutes before sex are awesome and I do it all in a rather playful way. But I get how some guys don't like it.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:28 AM
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Yuh-huh, that guy. Teasing = getting lips as close as possible, grinding my hips on to you, letting you pull me closer for a kiss But then I avoid = just ...kinda shifting(?)/turning my face away to avoid you actually kissing me. Resistance. After a while guys know what I'm doing and get incredibly frustrated and get more aggressive. E.g. if I pull away, they then grab me by the neck and stare at me with a look that can only mean "I'm really trying to behave but you're making it really hard righ…
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:23 AM
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Oh? I thought the guy she was trying to lecture was straight? I'm confused. Oh wait. I guess I didn't really read the first line. Yeah. You're right. That's nasty. I'd still like to think her comment had nothing to do with homosexuality. Like she was more focused in proving her point about unwanted advances. End result is shit anyways.
/r/seduction23/08/12 08:29 AM
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heh Yeh I thought it was a failed attempt at offering some insight from the female perspective too. Maybe to put them off from coming on too strong and to tone it down next time, be aware of surroundings etc.
/r/seduction23/08/12 08:08 AM
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I dunno. They might have given me their numbers but how do I know they weren't just polite to the mental case that had no clue about social ettiquete lost in the middle of manc city. Haha
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:21 AM
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Every girl is different with smells tho. One cologne can get a girl hot and turn another one off at the same time. Sometimes if I'm out and notice a really good cologne linguering in the air, i'll go around the area trying to find the guy wearing it. It's always good fun. On the other hand, I noticed I sometimes liked the smell of some men's skin best. My ex being one of them. I used to ask him to never wear anything, I'd kiss him all over. Esp temple area and neck behind the ear. I don't think …
/r/seduction23/08/12 01:02 AM
2

I like this. Edit: I like this a lot. It even turned me on a bit.
/r/seduction23/08/12 12:20 AM
1

Ooo yyyeeah. I never really given it that much thought till today. But yes. Definitely this. Exactly.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:53 PM
1

I want to hi5 you. I feel like we have the same mindset and I don't feel so alone. Get in here. Haha
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:48 PM
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I really like this comment. You make me think of everything in a more natural way.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:45 PM
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Hm :) +1 for "tops" and "bottoms"
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:40 PM
0

Yeah I came to the conclusion that I really like guys that can turn the tables and steal my game. Makes me feel like they're really strong.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:38 PM
2

I don't want to f-close.
/r/seduction22/08/12 02:56 PM
1

If you look at the dialog you'll see that he's the one doing the shit tests. But... Shit tests aside. If I approached you like this, how would you react? Theorise
/r/seduction22/08/12 02:53 PM
2

totally
/r/seduction22/08/12 07:17 AM
2

a lot of things can be attractive. I'd like to think that me approaching him bumped me a few numbers up his scale... mwhahhaha
/r/seduction22/08/12 07:08 AM
1

I'm average. He's model like n confident.
/r/seduction22/08/12 06:49 AM
1

I meant I was young when I started dating him. Edit: Of course I'm going to be super attached to him. Now. Shh Let me rebound.
/r/seduction22/08/12 06:06 AM
3

ANY british accent works like a charm abroad. Unbelievable.
/r/seduction22/08/12 05:10 AM
1

But I don't want those guys.
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:52 AM
0

:) I beat ya
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:51 AM
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All the while I was reading this. I was goin "yes, yes, Yes!, Exactly!!" Thank you for that. Support...it makes me feel good. hahah
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:50 AM
3

Oh really? hm... http://i.imgur.com/S0zLq.jpg
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:44 AM
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I know! My mind still hurts when I have to think about societies view on women. My mum was brought up by her grandmother. So, I can't even begin to explain the sort of shit I was taught growing up. It's just so buried in my subconcious I can't escape it. :/
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:31 AM
2

I like your writing style. Concise, straight to the point. Informative. Thanks.
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:26 AM
2

Nonono. I still can't believe SOME can get so mad about girls trying to get numbers. I learned a few things off of this thing but I'm scared if I voice my findings here I'd get stoned to death by a rather specific group of the community... You bet your ass I'm goin to keep posting tho and so should you! :D
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:22 AM
2

what are you talking about?
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:10 AM
1

Yeah! That's what I thought! I thought it'd be seen as masculine to be that assertive. Tbh I was expecting to be given weird "you crazy" looks. I must mention I dress up very feminine and I carry myself that way too so... maybe that balances it out? I wasn't like fist bumping the guys. Anyhow, It's very interesting to see all the perspectives on this. Some hate it, some dont mind it, some love it. I'll try a different method when going with an indirect aproach in a few weeks.
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:03 AM
2

Bahaha I thought about this long and hard and wanted to say something but then I thought I'd just incite him...
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:55 AM
1

That generalisation at the end wasn't meant for the whole community. Just a portion of it that was giving me shit. Could have never imagined so many people could get pissed off at girls asking for guys numbers without wanting to F-close. But, anyhow, I like it here exactly because I KNOW not everyone is a dick. :)
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:52 AM
2

I honestly havn't even started. That was me being bored testing how I'm like aproaching guys, testing my anxiety levels, etc. I couldn't find much for girls online at all, just the generalised "Look pretty, smile, make eye contact and wai or go talk to him about anything" - sad.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:50 AM
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:) good.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:46 AM
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I was following my "swim against the tide" metaphor.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:26 AM
3

Right. When I say "someone is out of my league" that means that they're too good for me right? I've been speaking english for the past 18 years but I could still be making some mistakes. Who says I don't want to go further? Every guy I give the time of day now I have to fuck? ...what? I just want to get to know them better? Im so confused.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:21 AM
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I've only had 1 serious LTR before. And since then, my whole mind has changed, I seriously have NO CLUE what I want or need in a man. I'm still confused why I find some people attractive so all I'm trying to do for now is just learn this stuff about myself. I like alpha guys I guess, but I like them better if they can call on my bullshit, or at least understand it. What I found so far is that I like being in control and then have the tables turn on me. It shows me they're smart I think. The whol…
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:17 AM
2

Yeah I know I know. TIL no one is out of your league. My bad.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:05 AM
0

Aw man. You had to go and remind me huh? Let me enjoy my new found freedom. And Stockholm is a harsh word. I was young..-er. I was much younger.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:00 AM
0

Ugh I know. It's already happening. Sad.
/r/seduction22/08/12 01:59 AM
2

Oh yeh. That excerpt was really like 15 seconds in real life. Haha Then we moved on.
/r/seduction22/08/12 12:08 AM
2

Thank you and sorry if it all sounds like a brag. I just wanted to share my first time aproaching ever. Being in a relationship since I was a teenager I never thought I'd actually get a chance to. haha
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:53 PM
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All that excitement is probably a masking for their anxiety and they're probably praying you won't blow them off inside. Anxiety and excitement are very difficult to tell apart. That's why I'd never approach at clubs. I feel like it'd make them think I'd want a one nighter. Daytime is different cos it doesn't make me look like I'm "hunting".
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:46 PM
1

oh
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:37 PM
2

where?
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:28 PM
3

But I don't want guys that just want me because of my looks or because I'm a convenient easy fuck. I don't want an F-close yet. FUUCKKK.
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:28 PM
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Who's talking about LTR? I just got out of one. I don't want anything to do with it.
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:24 PM
3

ooo I dunno. It's more like a force I don't really know where is coming from. Like I'm "losing" if I give in. It's very strange and I don't like it. Though, I must admit that resistance before sex always makes me hornier.
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:23 PM
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I dunno, I find direct approach a lot easier. That's why I went for it as my first try at this. It's so unexpected that it's almost hilarious so already the pressure is off a bit. I have the element of surprise backing me up.
/r/seduction21/08/12 10:46 PM
1

Yeh I explained in another comment in another post about how I compare the PUA society as some sort of world of wizardry and harry potter. I dunno why. I don't even like harry potter.
/r/seduction21/08/12 10:42 PM
5

Oh man, I really like you.
/r/seduction21/08/12 09:32 PM
3

I'm actually from UK. Haha
/r/seduction21/08/12 09:03 PM
6

went there but it said to post here to get male feedback...and for you to get an inside look. I thought there'd be more girls here tbh.
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:56 PM
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for the "This is clearly Bullshit. All she has to do is open her legs and she'll get it" thinking crowd: These are the kind I'd want to avoid. Guys that have misogynistic views and objectify women. They use PUA skills to "dip and ditch" any woman and have absolutely no empathy towards their emotional state at anytime during their process. Usually want to target hot girls with low self esteem so they can neg the shit out of them into their beds. But that's just the guys that use their PUA skills …
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:50 PM
10

OH yeh of course I'd let them know. Leading guys on doesn't help me or them at all. It's useless and physically draining...err... so I've heard.
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:36 PM
50

Thank you. God I really wish I could upvote the shit out of this.
/r/seduction21/08/12 07:22 PM
15

Yeah.. but ...that's the point. It's boring. And I'm not being fake. I'm just trying to incorporate tactics normally reserved for men to use on women to see how they come across to the opposite sex. I think that's the much more interesting experiment. Also... everyone keeps thinking that girls have it easy. That they just have to flip their hair, bat their eyelashes and that they'll have 100s of men trying to get with her. Balls! you all have your types and specific rating scales You assess ever…
/r/seduction21/08/12 07:19 PM
4

Like I said. My goal isn't really an F-close. I mean if I ever feel like it I'm sure I'll do it. But that's not why I approach them. I don't even throw myself at them. I compliment, ask for number, ask out on date. How is that a synonym for slut? I understand how PUA is used to attain sex, but... sex for a girl is, like you say, almost a given. So that's not the challenge I'm looking for. As I just got out of a relationship I'm not really lookign for anything serious. I'm really just trying to l…
/r/seduction21/08/12 06:59 PM
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(1) Yeah, I think If a girl hits on you you have to step up the game like..10x. If I go over to you, I already know that I like your appearance, vibe, whatever...I'm just double checking the rest to see if the initial impression I got from you follows through. (2) I think that's why I like approaching. It alredy gives me an edge by just going over. It's my intention to lower your standards. Bahaha. (3) I'm not a model. I'm curvy, 5'4 and am half latin. Already my target market is limited to thos…
/r/seduction21/08/12 06:04 PM
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Yeah. Typing that out I realise I was lucky to go out of that coffee shop without being reported to the police as a potential serial killer. haha Carpe Diem mother fuckaa. Besides, I think they were all pretty much in shock. I got asked multiple times if it was a bet and then 6/10 said I looked too "cute" to be stopping strange men on the street. Next time I'll dress like a hobo or something. Is it wrong I like playing with these sweet guys? I feel like they left really confused. Haha ...I like …
/r/seduction21/08/12 05:40 PM
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Oh it's happening today.
/r/seduction21/08/12 05:06 AM
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Stephen?
/r/seduction20/08/12 09:57 PM
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I think it's because people that bother to learn about the laws and rules of attraction and perception, in regards to dating/hook ups, have a lot of power. And the rest of the people, especially women, are scared that this power could be used for evil. Cos once you have these abilities you can pretty much do what you want with them. And yes, I suddenly do feel like I'm talking about a world of wizardry and harry potter.
/r/seduction20/08/12 06:15 PM
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Yeh, the guy that used that move on me made me feel like it was all my idea. I thought up until this day that I was in total control and that I had convinced HIM into having sex with me. That guy increased my confidence x10. Beautifully executed.
/r/seduction20/08/12 06:03 PM
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Its funny you should mention that. I mean, I must admit I find the "When a girl says no it turns me off." statement very...intriguing. I'd be so confused by it...I am still confused by it and I wasn't even there. Then I thought it must be crucial to asses the atmosphere. I want to call it borderline emotional blackmail but then again it definitely ISN'T. You can't call him out on it. What has he done wrong? Respect your opinion? Making sure the girl she's with is 100% certain? I think it comes d…
/r/seduction20/08/12 05:31 PM
1

oh god... just like war.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:25 PM
1

You're right about women finding it hard to admit lust. But your intentions are shallow. It sounds like you couldn't care less about emotional connection and are just looking for a bag of trophies/challenges to unlock. That mindset will not get you very far. But on the other hand, you make a good point when you admit you're not looking for honest girls. You basically just want to bang and get the highscores. I may be wrong...but I'm pretty sure that mentality will hinder you at some point and ye…
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:34 PM
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I thought there might be some tips for girls here. But nah. The only thing I can extrapolate from this sub is confidence. Oh well. Reading about these is much more fun. And I also like knowing how some people take their time to study and try understanding women. I like that approach better than the "bag of tricks" mentality I used to have.
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:08 PM
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Increased confidence. Always works. Fun fact: I once stopped having sex with a guy cos I didn't like his smell. I don't mean down there, or that he smelled bad. He was too clean. I couldn't smell his skin and it drove me mad.
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:02 PM
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I once didn't realise I was on a date until 2 weeks after. Not all of us pick up on that stuff.
/r/seduction20/08/12 01:54 PM
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Oh boy. Good luck to you. That last bit.... Dude... I give you 5 years before you even start to realise what you're doing wrong.
/r/seduction20/08/12 01:48 PM
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I didn't like reading that at all. That's mysogonistic behaviour at its finest. If it'd been written more objectively I wouldn't have felt offended but ... The whole... "every woman that doesn't want to sleep with you is a bitch" is just sad. In fact he describes 99% of women as bitches. What? Can you at least not use derogatory words? It didn't even explain anything New. Two ladders? Well, of course we don't want to fuck all of you. The friendzone is well known fact. Also... Stop and think abou…
/r/seduction20/08/12 01:34 PM
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Cos. It's excellent. We are still deliberating whether we want it or not. We are unsure where these feelings are coming from. If the guy stops its upto us to move in and make it clear to ourselves that its our choice. We want this. I'm in control. I'm good to go. Genius.
/r/seduction20/08/12 05:24 AM
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