So i(female) began to have a conversation at a drinking party with a friend of mine(male) where he's getting really touchy feely ( I assumed he was just a bit tipsy). He confesses that he just wants to get laid, and feels bad because he knows that's a douchebag thing to say and do. To comfort him, I practically confess that I understand the feeling and I would totally be up for it, but I don't think we should.

Once he realized that I wanted him too...@-@ we did not do the deed that night, but he was very aggressive.

Was that an okay thing to say? How would you react? Was that too much of a lead on, even though i meant it?

Guys, would you want a girl to say she wants you but she'll never do it cause she's christian/virgin/not ready or would you rather not have that assurance that you aren't the only sexually frustrated individual?