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fourthepeople/r/seduction15/04/14 12:50 AM
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Jesus why am I subbed here?
/r/seduction29/12/16 05:23 PM
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Yeah you're introverted. So am I so don't let the lack of energy or feeling that you need the occasional break get to you. Totally normal. Introverted doesn't mean antisocial. It's like if you don't put the energy into it to consciously "perform", you'll end up sitting there all night just listening or caught up in your own head. I'm perfectly content a lot of times just being in the background and doing that, but you won't make connections with others unfortunately. I'm not sure what really cha…
/r/seduction17/09/16 02:29 AM
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You sound anxious in general but I'm assuming especially socially? Is there an underlying cause for this? Might be worth looking into or talking to someone about it if you consider it a problem. Subtle cues are hard to pick up for most guys, but especially if you don't have a lot of experience. And of course there are psychological issues that can affect this ability as well. But I feel like you'd already be aware of that if it was the issue. Read up on flirting. Within a culture, the way you do…
/r/seduction16/09/16 05:05 AM
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I'm not entirely sure what you're trying to get across other than the fact that you have difficulties meeting girls in one specific type of place... Have you tried class? Clubs? Whole Foods? If loud environments aren't your thing, then go elsewhere. Some say women can be spotted anywhere...
/r/seduction15/09/16 08:48 PM
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Or you know, you could just talk and flirt with her to gauge her interest... Is the effort that much? Where's the fun in someone coming up and being so explicit about it? Flirting should be about having fun, not solely focused on the end result.
/r/seduction15/09/16 02:15 PM
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For me it's like the idea that the girl punching you in grade school is the one who likes you. Things just become a bit more sophisticated and overt as adults. Teasing but playfully. Touching but comfortably. Making it known you're into them but not by saying so. Having fun and doing all of this confidently.
/r/seduction05/05/14 03:08 AM
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Tough to get off without killing the mood somewhat. Also if you guys start rubbing on each other a bit, you can't feel shit. Limited flexibility as well.
/r/seduction27/04/14 11:47 PM
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If things are going well, she seems comfortable with me being close, I like to do this while we're on the date: during a lull in the conversation, just look at her. She will likely look up at you and hopefully you'll lock eyes for a moment. Don't say anything, just smile a little. She will probably ask "what?" or something along those lines, but she knows what's going on. Instead of answering, just go in for the kiss. A few things... make it in a relatively private area. Not the middle of the re…
/r/seduction27/04/14 10:04 PM
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I would stop communicating with them. I would only ask for a number if I have a reason to (I've asked them out). Ideally best to do this in person but can also work this way.
/r/seduction27/04/14 09:53 PM
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No. Don't do this. I get the feeling you just didn't escalate things. You're coming across as too timid, and saying this would sound needy. You kissed on the date before but not the next?! You guys should have been all over each other, especially if she was showing she was interested. Find a way to see her in person but don't ask her to go out. Tell her. Make it something fun and leave the evening open. After you guys have flirted, touched, hopefully kissed again, tell her she should come over a…
/r/seduction27/04/14 09:45 PM
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I like to go in for a kiss and then stop, just out of reach. It's great teasing it like that. Anything that will build more tension. Seconding pushing them up against the wall or grabbing the person's sides and pulling close. Also hand behind her head, fingers in her hair. Do what feels right or what she seems to respond well to (She'll up the intensity herself if she likes something).
/r/seduction27/04/14 09:33 PM
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Good god yes, don't wear jeans.
/r/seduction27/04/14 09:27 PM
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Yeah the dating a girl bit works. But now we're not together, and I no longer have any recent photos.
/r/seduction22/04/14 08:37 AM
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That's why you talk to women (and people) and learn how to be more interesting/how to move a conversation when approaching women.
/r/seduction17/04/14 03:40 AM
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The best way to move things along is to invite them out. Just texting isn't going to keep enough interest most of the time. As for rules just don't seem needy. Asking them why they don't text you back fast enough, shit like that. And I think the waiting before responding thing is thinking about it too much. If you're busy you're busy. If not, text them back. Most of your game should be in person. But texting is a fun extra you shouldn't stress over too much.
/r/seduction17/04/14 03:33 AM
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Yeah just got out of a relationship partially because I wanted to date around. I've got a bad habit of really getting into someone and then two years later... I've just gotta stop going for the easy ones and find a way to meet other girls. Just seems difficult in my present situation.
/r/seduction15/04/14 03:23 AM
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You've gone back home with three of them and nothing more than making out happened? If they were sending out the signs for more or you didn't try to take it further yourself, they may have just decided to move on. You make it sound like you've texted/communicated with these girls fairly regularly leading up to your dates. If so, I think you may have come across as too available if it was too often. But I can't really say what the appropriate amount is as it's something I'm trying to figure out r…
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:52 AM
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Not sure what happened to the first girl. Maybe she was drunk when she invited you out? Whatever the case, you didn't invest anything into it except maybe a few fries. Sounds like you avoided a flake. The second girl things seemed okay, but then you said "she didn't say anything about the lunch...". Right there I think was the problem. You shouldn't have waited for her to mention it and asked her out yourself. Actually you can still ask her out and might have a decent shot if it hasn't been too …
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:39 AM
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It wouldn't be "too strong" as in clingy or anything, but it would probably make them a little uneasy if you don't know each other really well. What is there at your place that you can't just as easily do outside? With the exception of maybe TV or video games, which IMO you shouldn't be doing on a first meetup anyway. The point here should be talking and getting to know the person. There has to be something you enjoy doing outside or somewhere you like to go. You just have to be creative. And I …
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:28 AM
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I can't say that I'm particularly funny, but I do know how to bust balls and throw out a good one liner every once in a while, and I think that's fairly easy to learn. But I really think being able to tease and flirt with the girls and introduce humor that way would be more beneficial when hanging out with these guys. Sure they may be funny, but that's not going to get them the girl every time, especially if you know how to flirt and draw some attention away from them. Being confident is also a …
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:23 AM
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His "I don't think we're there yet..." response was perfect.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:07 AM
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Yep. I noticed quite a few of these the other day, but it wasn't awkward at all. We were outside, beautiful day, the wind was blowing, I just said "this is nice" and we enjoyed it.Then a few seconds later we started back up again. Just be confident in the situation, and it can actually be a pleasant moment just as natural as the conversation.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:02 AM
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I think people invest a little too much into the pupil thing. How can you be concentrating on someone's pupils when you should be thinking about the conversation you're having? The words he or she is saying are likely a much better indication of interest. There are likely too many causes of pupil dilation that I wouldn't rely on it as evidence someone is into you.
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:56 AM
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Usually gives me the impression they aren't interested in me or the conversation. She could be easily distracted. Your story could be too long. She could be shy and insecure making eye contact. She should be looking when you're speaking as a general social courtesy. I'd watch if she looks at other people when in conversations or does the same.
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:48 AM
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