Tips and tricks for making out?

bmw_love · 2014-04-27T20:33:48+00:00

go from slow intimate to crazy and then back to slow
pull away slowly and then go right back at her like you don't want to stop.
smile when kissing.
ears, don't forget them
grab some ass, smack it playfully
grab her clothes, pull her closer
wisper something seductive in her ear ( "ur a good kisser haha " should work)
Don't be nervous, they can tell from ur lips shaking
put arm around her lower back and pull closer
Tease her
lean her against a wall
make intimate contact at points
Start talking during ur makeout session and don't finish the sentence and kiss her again.
don't wear jeans ;)

Make sure you know when each of these things is appropriate ,

ex. don't grab her ass in front of everyone at a house party, that's just disrespectful to her and she doesn't want to look back in front of her friends.

EliahtheMessiah · 2014-04-28T08:45:33+00:00

If you really want to kill it here's what you do:

Take a big chunck of her hear at the back of her head and hold it firmly with your right hand. Then you start to pull your head away while kissing her. She'll reach for your lips, but get nowhere because you hold her back, then you just play with the tip of your tounge on her toung/lips and slowly let her get close to you again - repeat, but always end it with not letting her kiss you. If you want her obsessing about you that is.

This is the single most powerful move I know.

fourthepeople · 2014-04-27T21:33:42+00:00

I like to go in for a kiss and then stop, just out of reach. It's great teasing it like that. Anything that will build more tension.

Seconding pushing them up against the wall or grabbing the person's sides and pulling close. Also hand behind her head, fingers in her hair.

Do what feels right or what she seems to respond well to (She'll up the intensity herself if she likes something).

readonlyuser · 2014-04-28T16:15:15+00:00

Slam her against a slightly open door while holding her. This makes a noise and looks dramatic, but isn't actually painful (the door absorbs most of the impact). Field tested.
I like licking a girl's ear. I find most girls either enjoy it or find it ticklish. Kind of weird, but sometimes weird is good.
Pick her up, move her around. Much easier if you're taller than her.
Elaborating on the previous point: Pick her up in an over-the shoulder carry, or a ?newlywed's carry?, and literally throw her on the bed. IMPORTANT NOTE: Do not miss, and make sure she doesn't bounce into a head/footboard. This kills the sex drive.
Spin dance move (hold her hand in the air and spin her around) into a makeout
DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
Forehead to forehead while embracing leads to tension (also very intimate)
Use triangular gaze (switch up looking at left eye, right eye, lips in any order) for maximum tension
Before having your first makeout, give her a brief snippet of makeout, pull back and say, "That's all for now..." or "Stop it, we're in public!" (looking fake shocked or appalled). A takeaway makes her want it, and guys pretty much never do a takeaway when they feel like they're in the home stretch.

Also, seconding what /u/EliahtheMessiah said: Grab by the hair behind head/neck and firmly pull her head back without yanking. Extreme dominance/primal.

EDIT: OMG, so many ideas coming to me here lol.

Spank her. First gently test the waters to she if she responds, then go much harder and see if she responds to that. Some girls like an unexpectedly SOLID spank.
Keep talking in between bouts to keep it light and fun. Make jokes, make her 'hit herself', 'she's taking advantage of you' frame, etc.
Firm grip. You want to have 'strong hands', meaning you are almost manhandling her body. Depending on the mood, you may want to either forcefully or gently caress her (I prefer forceful, it's more fun). It needs to be clear that you're in control, and you both know and like what you're doing.
Switch up the moods, intensity, location, etc. Just make a smooth transition so she doesn't get jolted out of having fun and getting logical, etc.

Apologies for no actual advice about what to do with your tongue, what if you fart, etc.

2014-04-27T23:19:26+00:00

when you and the girl have made out for a while [more than 1 session] kiss her on the back of her neck, like one or 2 times. do it before the intense make out session

Mr_Zarika · 2014-04-28T03:11:37+00:00

WTF. Is this highschool?!

LOL SEDDIT HOW DO I KISS GIRLS

Title	Tips and tricks for making out?
Author	Tomahawksc
Upvotes	12
Comments	21
Date	April 27, 2014 7:04 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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