Can anyone recommend some good videos about getting pumped or "in state"?

Mouthpiece · 2014-03-24T19:06:51+00:00

RSD Tyler has done a couple videos about "social momentum" and how that can affect your state positively or negatively. I find this works very well in field. The specific technique, is to just simply start talking to people with no outcome expectation, in rapid sequence. These small interactions build up, and then you find yourself with momentum going into the next interaction.

Dave Wygant also talks about this. He recommends getting the habit of talking to everyone, even men and women you're not interested in taking home as bedmates. Maybe you've heard of his "mayor of the elevator" advice. Most people when they get into an elevator avoid contact of all kinds. No I contact, no socialization, no proximity if they can help it. Dave, however, recommends immediately making some kind of conversational opener. Often, you can comment about the awkwardness itself, in a joking way. "Shhhh! No one talk. We're in the elevator!"

The idea of the "mayor of the elevator" is that no matter what context are in, you should in tracked with as many people around you can, almost as if you were the mayor of that particular place. Kiss babies, shake hands, and generally bring a smile to everyone's face if you can.

Here's the thing: you probably will leave the elevator, and most of those people you'll never see again. But what you take out of it is a small but successful social interaction, that feeds back into you being a self amused, self entertaining, self valued person who brings value to people around you. And once you build momentum in that direction, the ladies in the bar won't stand a chance.

BlueIsStylinOnYou · 2014-03-24T15:56:14+00:00

Different people have different triggers. Some people like listening to motivational songs. Others like watching PUA videos. Others meditate. I personally do a lot of meditation. Relaxes my mind and keeps me sharp.

LukeMooney · 2014-03-24T16:35:44+00:00

go to the RSD site, there are loads, of varying length from different speakers. Tyler is one of the best, but they're all good in their own unique ways. Been enjoying Todds more lately.

xAFC · 2014-03-24T21:09:12+00:00

Anything by CT Fletcher gets me going! He takes "cowboy the fuck up" and amplifies it to hardcore. Mostly in a bodybuilding context but it's easily transferable

lord_of_vader · 2014-03-25T12:38:59+00:00

Mind set should be: "I'm going to have fun with my friends." Gaming is not gaming. Does that make sense?

A huge part of your momentum comes from how you're feeling that day, so in essence being "pumped up" or "in state" starts when you wake up. I always go to the gym first thing in the morning and listen to some gnarly tunes to get me jacked, followed by a cup of coffee and some chit-chat at the coffee shop right away. But this is all redundant.

The best way to get pumped up before you go out (assuming you're with your friends) is probably with some sort of augmentation. Coffee, Red Bull, Adderall, 5 Hour Energy, whatever. I wouldn't recommend this, but if you're going from 0-10 in less than an hour, you'll need some help.

Otherwise, you'll have to start engineering your mental state so you wake up excited about life every single day.

Title	Can anyone recommend some good videos about getting pumped or "in state"?
Author	Tomahawksc
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Date	March 24, 2014 3:24 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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